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10 Awesome Hacks To
Optimize Your Life
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Acknowledgement
My parents, Eric Tan and Li Li, both have been there for me and giving me the
tools that I need in life and their unconditional love no matter how hard life can
be
My partner, Natalie for always being there to support me through and being there
to share my tears of joy and bitterness in life. Yes, in case if you are wondering, I
am from the LGBT community but hey Freedom of Love!!Hoora!!
My friend and mentor Shun Jian for giving me the motivation i need in
publishing this eBook. I wouldn‘t be able to complete this eBook without your
guidance and support.
Special thanks to Loki, you come forward to help me done some revision on my
eBook, especially the technical stuffs, and words can't describe how grateful I am!
YOU. Yes! YOU have downloaded 10 Awesome Hacks To Optimize Your Life
because you are committed to your own success. I'm ready to add massive value
to your success as long as you promise to take action after reading my book.
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Table Of Contents
Introduction
Life Hack #1:
Do this by understanding the Law of Attraction – What It Really Is and
What It Is Not
Life Hack # 2:
Do this by understanding the Secret to Knowing yourself
Life Hack # 3:
Managing your Mindset will be crucial in optimizing your life
Life Hack # 4:
Revolve Your Thought Process to anchor on the Reality
Life Hack # 5:
Optimizing the perception of Money
Life Hack # 6:
Wealth Manifestation through the Law of Attraction
Life Hack # 7:
The Secret to optimizing Your Health in life
Life Hack # 8:
Balancing the Inner Self and the Outer Self
Life Hack # 9:
Improving Your Future
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Introduction
SIMPLE..
Before you are able to achieve success, you need your health and wealth to
improves by a proper blend of spiritual and material principles. What are these
principles? In this eBook, we try to understand these mysterious principles of life.
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Life Hack # 1:
Do this by understanding the Law of Attraction – What It Really Is and What
It Is Not
Summary
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The Law of Attraction – What It Really Is and What It Is Not
It is rather amazing to see how much talk there is about the Law of Attraction
and how few people actually know about what it is. The Law of Attraction is not a
spell that you use and things begin happening that way. It is not that you chant
‗like begets like‘ a thousand times a day and see things happening the way you
want. For example, I always wanted to be as wealthy as Donald Trump or a
famous movie star like Angelina Jolie doesn‘t mean that I am going to be like him
or her. If the Law of Attraction were so simple, we would have already witnessed
the world as a much better place by now.
People explain the Law of Attraction in various ways. The commonest definition
you will find will be something like this:-
“If you strongly believe that something should happen, it will certainly happen.”
A sentence couldn‘t be any simpler, but you will immediately realize that this
raises more questions than it answers. The question of desires is the most
important. Is it only what you desire and think about strongly that will happen?
Or will things that you don‘t desire also happen if you somehow think strongly
about them? Then there is also the question of internal conflict of thoughts. At
times, there could be situations where you think equally in both ways. For
example, you may think that a job could be yours or not. So how do you apply the
Law of Attraction in such a case? Or what do you do when you are thinking
strongly about something and someone else is thinking strongly about the exact
opposite thing? What will happen in that case?
In order to be able to reply all these questions, it is important for you to first
understand what the Law of Attraction really says.
Despite the various ways in which the Law of Attraction has been defined, I can
break things down in the following four elements:-
You must know exactly what we want.
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You must begin a thought process for it, and begin vociferously asking the
universe to make it happen.
You must then visualize a situation wherein you already have what you are
hankering for, and you must live in that reality.
At the same time, you must not attach ourselves to what might happen.
You must only think about having it. There is no room for hesitation.
My story begins here, I came from a fortunate background family and I am the
eldest daughter in the family with a younger brother. We live in the city of
Malaysia which is Kuala Lumpur. My mum back then when I was little, she was
working as a supervisor and my dad was a freelance Accountant. They were
earning quite well at that point of time. My family was able to go travel in other
countries and I am able to get things that I want back then. In school though, I
was more of the tom boyish kid in school. I love sports and outdoor activities. I
wasn‘t the brightest child nor do I excel in any of my syllabus. Here we have
classes that represent our grades and I‘m usually in the first class when you count
from behind. My grades tend to drop every occasion of the semester. I wasn‘t
paying much attention on studies when I was a kid. All I can think about is what I
am going to do after school and if there is a homework needed to be done, I will
just copy the person work next to me. Well basically, I was just slack kid in
school. I did not think of the consequences of what might happen if I didn‘t study
well or even graduate. I did not know how important it is to be focusing on
something important and to be able to fulfill it through the end. I‘m always a
person that take things for granted and if there is a shortcut, ill surely take it.
Eventually I manage to graduate high school and went to college for a Diploma,
which is a norm practice for nowadays kids. My parents fully supported the
college funds and I do not have to worried about fees and the living cost.
Everything was well taken care off and again stress free. I also selected a college
that is away from the city, as I tend to explore something different in my life and
if I want to party, I do not have my parents nagging me all the time. Yes I am a
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spoiled ungrateful brat still at that point of time. So the question is why am I
sharing you all this? Yes the next part is when how my life changed but you be the
judge if it‘s for the better or worst. At the age of 17 is when things started to
change in my life. My dad who was a freelancer and business was declining due to
increasing competition that has qualifications and my dad was more to old
school. My mum was carrying the burden of supporting the family and time to
time my dad evens borrows money from her. I saw the stress in everyone eyes
and I feel the tension as well. I wanted to even take out a part time job to support
some of my living cost but despite these difficult times my parents refuse for me
to work as they fear it might jeopardize my studies. I am very afraid of what
might happen now. Are we going to be alright? What if I fail this Diploma like
how I fail in high school? What if I disappoint my parents again after encouraging
me to just focus on studies even though we are having cash flow issues? Yes my
parents seem like they have nothing to be worried about but deep down I
somehow know they are just trying not to burden me with any stress of money.
―It gives me strength to have somebody to fight for; I can never fight for myself,
but, for others, I can kill.‖
~Emilie Autumn
At the age of 17, I implemented the law of attraction. I know exactly what I want
and there is no room for hesitation. All that runs in my mind is to graduate and
get the Diploma. I started to tell myself that, I need to do this right, I need to
graduate and not disappoint my family. There is no room for ―if‖ in my mind. I
started to set my Vision Board, I visualize on my board that on my last day of
college, I will be holding the certificate with my family feeling proud of me. I have
the determination needed to do this and I just need to take action. I made a
mission bigger than my fears. I started to step out from my comfort zone and I
am doing it. Alright, I do have to admit that I have been failing all this while so
how do I get back up. This is when I met Natalie, she was one of my course mates
and housemate as we live in the school accommodation. I was always attracted to
her when I first met her. She was the kindest person around me and I told her
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that I needed help in my studies and that how important it is for me to graduate.
She never hesitated to lend me a hand. Aside from being attracted to her, I saw
hope in me. I am working myself towards my goals. Every day, after class, I would
do revisions and homework with her. Natalie has been giving me the support I
need unconditional. My grades began to excel and for the first time I am not
failing in any of my subjects. Although this is not a romance story book but yes,
one thing led to the other and both of us are together. However, we need to keep
low profile as there is a huge different in Asian cultures as we are quite reserve in
this. I am sharing with you this is because in life everyone doesn‘t go through
obstacles and triumph alone. There will always be at least one person in life that
has helped you or lead you to who you are now.
―A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out.‖
~Walter Winchell
In this eBook, Iam going to expose various aspects of the Law of Attraction and
see how you can apply it in one of the most important areas of your lives –
attracting money. Can one really become rich by just thinking intensely about it?
You need to understand the law better and learn how to implement it in order to
get these answers.
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Life Hack # 2:
Do this by understanding the Secret to Knowing yourself
Summary
You must have heard about the bestseller The Secret by Rhonda Byrne.
Here’s a deeper look at it and how it can be used to improve your lives.
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Understanding The Secret
Once you master the Secret you will never make the mistake of feeling that way
again.
Your thoughts have been creating the life you‘ve had so far. And thoughts can be
changed.
This is called The Law of Attraction. The Secret is nothing less than the science of
how thought interacts with quantum physics to create your experiences. You
don‘t even have to understand it. You just have to do it.
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Try it out today. Start small. Start with something that you won‘t talk yourself out
of. Do you want a great relationship with your boss? Sit down. Picture what that
looks like. Picture it in every intimate detail. What does it feel like? Feel those
feelings. Be thankful today that you have such a great relationship with your boss.
Then claim it. Begin acting as a great relationship with your boss is how it is,
always has been, and always will be. Pretend if you have to. Smile. Speak with the
confidence someone with a great relationship with his boss has.
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Life Hack #3:
Managing your Mindset will be crucial in optimizing your life
Summary
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Mindset and Management
Are you feeling overwhelmed? For instance you are starting up an internet
business. Are you staring at a long list of tasks and new terminology, from SEO to
social bookmarking? Is some nagging voice in the back of your head trying to tell
you, as you stare at the world wide web, that this is not your Grandfather‘s way of
making money, so how true could it be?
Well, you‘re right about part of it, this isn‘t your Grandfather‘s way. This is your
way, and it‘s going to be fantastic!
Every journey, it is said, begins at the first step. Your first step is to work on you.
Before you buy hosting, before you load up your web page, before you build your
list, you have to know how to get your head in the game and how to keep it there.
You‘re taking a leap of faith into a vast, wild territory that changes every single
day. You‘re one drop in a shifting sea. In order to stand out, you need
confidence. You need personal development.
The Secret is just this: everything begins with a thought. Thoughts lead to
actions, which leads to the results of those actions made manifest in your life.
Back to my story, so the next thing that happened to me was that, I needed to go
for internship in a 5 star hotel. The internship for this company is really different
from others as there is no wages during the internship with them as they have the
perception that they are giving you the knowledge that you need and I should
consider privilege to be among the trainees. That was my initial thought as well.
Knowledge is more important than money. In reality, when I started the
internship, there wasn‘t much guidance and that I just needed to do the basic
duties. The basic duties are for instance cleaning tables, serving the guest,
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cleaning the rooms and more towards a common staff. I weren‘t allowed or
taught to use their system or given the proper knowledge on how to handle
complains or difficulties but just 6 months of cheap labor. In the end I just keep
taking leave as all of this is not worth it. That was my mindset at that time. By the
way, Natalie and I went to the same place for internship. I told her how frustrated
I am that I was treated like a labor every day without getting proper guidance or
appreciation. She told me that if you want to improve your future, you have to
start now. You need the appraisal from the supervisors in order for you to
graduate. That is what matters. It click me again that yes, I need this more than
anything. I turn my mindset towards my goals and I remind myself the target that
I have set for myself. I choose to feel positive about the situation as I know the
negativity thought in me will just eat me up alive. My attitude began to change
and basically I put in efforts during the internship. Finally I gotten the appraisal
from them and I had to say, not bad at all. After the internship, I realize that in
order to achieve your goals, it is all about the mentality. The right set of mind and
anchoring it in my thought really does work for me.
―Work hard for what you want because it won't come to you without a fight. You
have to be strong and courageous and know that you can do anything you put
your mind to. If somebody puts you down or criticizes you, just keep on believing
in yourself and turn it into something positive‖. ~Leah LaBelle
Negative Mindset: Thoughts like, ―I can‘t do this,‖ ―this won‘t work,‖ ―well, I‘ll
give it a shot, but if it doesn‘t work out I guess I‘ve got my day job to fall back on,‖
lead only to two kinds of actions. Inaction or inefficient action.
Result:Either you talk yourself out of starting, or you spin your wheels reading
email after email and surfing website after website without ever really getting
your feet wet. As a result, your life fails to manifest a working internet business
that gives you the freedom you really want.
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Positive Mindset:Compare this to positive, super charged thoughts like:
―Nothing‘s going to stop me. I have every tool I need. Other people have done
this and so can I. I‘m totally committed. I won‘t hold back. I‘ve got a plan.‖
Result: Thoughts like this lead to you taking appropriate action. You create that
product. You build that list. You stop fretting over the technicalities and the
―can‘t do‖ and get creative about the ―can do.‖ You start outsourcing anything
you can‘t deal with on your own. You keep learning. You polish up your
management skills and you keep your mind in the right place—and little by little,
your small efforts turn into something much bigger: the manifestation of a new
life.
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Life Hack # 4:
Revolve Your Thought Process to anchor on the Reality
Summary
So how do you go about developing this kind of thought process, where you
think you are the center of the universe and everything just exists in your
frame of reference?
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Pivoting Your Thought Process
In order to create the subjective thought process that the Law of Attraction
demands of you, it is very important that you create the right frame of reference.
You have to be like the person seeing everything in a dream. Your perceived
reality is actually the things that are happening in your frame of reference, which
is just another name for your consciousness. But, you need to put a finger on this
consciousness. You need to anchor it. This aspect – anchoring your conscious
mind – is known as pivoting your thought process.
When you begin pivoting your thought process, the primary requirement is to
have a fixed point from where you can begin. Usually, this fixed point is your
resolve, your intention, your motive, your purpose. For example, if you really
need to start a business, your resolution to do that is your pivot. The stronger you
resolve to achieve that, the more profound your pivot will be. That is why people
who have stronger resolutions are able to achieve better things than people who
don‘t have a very strong mindset to achieve something.
If you consider your desire as your pivot and see everything from that
perspective, everything begins falling into place. You feel as though everything
that‘s happening is happening as a means of bringing you closer to your desire. In
the above instance, if your desire to start a business is your pivot, then you feel as
though everything happening in your life is taking you one step closer toward
realizing your dreams. This includes the positives as well as negatives. If you
suddenly meet someone, you feel that somehow that will be connected with your
new business, which isn‘t yet started but you have no apprehensions in your mind
about it. You also feel that your getting fired from your desk job was something
that will take you closer to having your own business.
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People who believe in the Law of Attraction staunchly build such pivots in their
minds. Then on, their entire life is focused on this pivot. This is what drives them
and motivates them into coming closer to their goals.
Let me continue my chapter. The big day came when I finally graduate and for
the first time, I know how it felt like, my first success. My parents was really
proud of me as I can feel it from them when they expressed their joy to me. I
brought hope to them. Well one thing lead to another and my parents wanted me
to pursue for Degree as they know how important qualification is as the new
generation tends to be more and more competitive. My mum told me that she
already has that saving funds for my studies but not sure if I would be able to
make it as I was flunking through high school, but she explain that she now has
the confident in me that I am able to get it done. I accepted my parents offer and
decided to go to the UK for my Degree. Well as always me and Natalie was
inseparable, so we submitted the application together for the UK Visa. After some
hiccups we manage to get it all done. However few weeks before my flight, I
received a call from my family that my grandmother is suffering from allergic on
a newly prescribed medication. She was admitted to the hospital and even in and
out from the ICU as the side effect was burning her from inside out. My grandma
was 70 years old at that time was one of the most down to earth people that I
know and she loves me unconditionally. Words weren‘t even able to explain how I
felt at that time. My thoughts were all over the place and that I have the fear of
not seeing her again when I go to the UK for 2 years just broke my heart. I wanted
to stay and just give up on the course but my parents persuaded me to go as there
will be someone taking care of my grandma 24/7. I agreed to go ahead after all.
Every day before my flight I went to visit my grandma in the hospital without fail
and that deep down in me, I know that I do not have another chance to see her
anymore. Yes my thoughts are really negative at this point as I am not able to
motivate myself back up when my closest family is near life and death combat.
On the last remaining days before my flight, with a heavy heart I bid farewell to
everyone especially my grandma.
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This is my first time going off to a foreign country after 10 years, let alone to
another side of the world. My mind was still playing negative flashes but Natalie
was there to comfort me all the way. Finally after agenizing 8 hours of flight I
finally reached United Kingdom. It was December and wow the weather was so
cold that I thought I nearly got hypertension just by stepping out of the building.
Just so you know, in Malaysia we only have sunny days and rainy days in 365
days. Well less fast forward to the relevance part of my story. I settled down in
my university accommodation and met some friends in the building. We shared
cultures and knowledge with each other‘s. I was enjoying my days with the locals
here. I wasn‘t thinking much about my fears and sorrows. 2 weeks before the final
exams, I received an urgent call from my parents. Yes you might have guess it, my
grandma has passed away. I was totally devastated and torn down by the news. I
do not know what to think or how to act. I can‘t fly 8 hours back to Malaysia to
pay my last respect and I don‘t even have the money to buy the tickets. I grieved
night and day. Natalie was there every minute and she said something that made
me realized and changed. She asked me, what would my grandma want you to do
in order for her to be at peace? I told her the answer, is for me to be successful. I
grieved and sob but then in order to pay my last respect, I will complete this final
exam. I set my mind greater than myself, I will do it for my love ones. I believe in
the Law of Attractionthat has faithfully built such spindles in my mind and let it
run again and again my focus. Finally I manage to graduate and that I was able to
be proud of myself for honoring my love ones and making it happen. Yes another
success in life.
―Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on
the present moment.‖ ~Buddha
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Life Hack # 5:
Optimizing the perception of Money
Summary
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The Secret and Your Money
The Secret can bring you money, but it is not about money. It is certainly not
about empty, proud, cold, wealth that stems out of the greed mindset. This is
about fulfilling your purpose, which is expressed in your deepest, most treasured
dreams.
The dream of your heart is your purpose on earth.
Our society tends to make us jump right to careers when we hear that, but it
might not be a career at all. Your passion may be to parent your child. Your
passion may be to be the best friend you can possibly be. Your passion may be to
be a giverto the world that currently has none.
Money starts companies. Money builds bridges and roads. Money brings the
security and freedom a parent needs to focus on parenting. Money brings the
resources for humanity.
―If you fall into the trap of believing that money is evil, then only evil people will
have money‖
Do we really want our beliefs to ensure that only pimps, drug dealers, war
mongers, and cheats enjoy abundance while the good people of the world
struggle? Of course not! That would be silly.
Yet if money is all that you focus on, money will always elude you. For one thing,
we tend to store a lot of mental garbage when it comes to money. We tend to
have a lot of fears about money. Fear is always counterproductive.
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Bypass money entirely. It‘s not important here. It‘s necessary, but it‘s not all that
important to you.
Have you heard of a saying: That love of money is ―a root of all kinds of evil.‖ In
other words, people do all sorts of evil deeds because of a controlling desire for
money. This would imply that greed is ultimately responsible for all evil done on
the earth.
Joseph Campbell said, ―If you follow your bliss, the money will follow.‖ Get
settled with the idea that you need money to achieve your dreams and that there‘s
nothing wrong with that. Then ignore it. Turn your attention to your bliss. That
is where the Secret will begin to work for you. That is where your emotions will
supercharge your thoughts into the change you need.
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Life Hack # 6:
Wealth Manifestation through the Law of Attraction
Summary
The five steps you need in order to manifest wealth applying the Law.
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Wealth Manifestation through the Law of Attraction
Here are the five things you need to do in order to manifest the wealth that you
are expecting through the Law of Attraction.
Believe
The first step is to ingrain the thought of wealth in your subconscious. You have
to think staunchly that you will be able to attain the large amount of wealth that
you are hoping for.
Visualize
It is very important to actually visualize the wealth. You have to think that the
wealth is already in your bank account and now what you will do with it. Begin
thinking as if you are planning what to do with the money. You don‘t have it
already, but that‘s not the point. The Law of Attraction tells that you have to be
strong in your belief, and visualization is the best way to do that.
Be Grateful
Taking your belief one step forward, you must actually start thanking the
universe for granting the wealth to you. Well, it has not already granted you the
wealth, but you have no aspersions at all about that happening. You are darned
sure that you will get the wealth and so being grateful is the next logical thing.
Your heart will tell you a lot of things at this point. It will tell you to do particular
things. Do not stifle any of these ―voices‖. Listen to them intently. Act upon them.
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You have to make sure that you listen to every voice because any of them could be
the one voice that opens the doors of opportunity to you.
My story continues here. After graduation, me and Natalie was given the chance
to work in the UK for 2 years using the work visa. We decided to stay and get
some experience and earnings along the way. So yes, I was given the chance to
start my first career in the UK. How cool is that. However the thought of it was
exciting but in reality finding a job weren‘t that easy. I ended up doing some part
time event work while searching for a full time. I did not ask for any additional
allowance from my parents as I do not want to burden them any further. The
currency exchange is really high for Ringgit Malaysia to Pounds. I started to feel
stress again as my savings from my studies time was running low. Me and Natalie
started going around 1 by 1 walk in for interview but not much luck. Finally we
ended up being hired as Housekeepers. We are going through desperate times for
money so we just grab whatever the choice we have. I did not know that finding a
job can be this difficult as my thought was just simple. How hard can a Degree
graduate find a job? I ended cleaning rooms and washing the toilets as my duties
and get paid by the number of rooms I clean.
We accepted the job and started for a week. That time our supervisor found out
that me and Natalie wasn‘t registered for the taxes so we need to get it done
before we can continue to work. We were force to stop. I continued to look for
better jobs as I know I can‘t just give up on finding a better one. I need to take
bigger and wider action. Utilizing all options, on one evening I have gotten a call
from Ibis Birmingham City Center that I was given an interview. Me and Natalie
jumped in Joy and filled with Hope as even though it‘s just an interview there is a
chance for us to be better. I went for the interview and showed my determination
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with action. I was given a trial for a day and I prove myself that I am able to adapt
and work in the environment no matter how difficult it is. I show the supervisors
that I am able to handle this job and I need this job. There is no stopping now. No
weaknesses. No giving up as the stakes is too high to bear the consequences.
Hack I don‘t even have any money to buy my tickets home to Malaysia. After that
day, I gotten a call again and I was given the happiest news. I got the job. Wohoo..
I did not give up and I got myself moving forward. Every step and move you take
will make a difference in your life. If you believe you can do it, implement it and
put it into action one step at a time coz there is no magic pill just effort, desire
and determination.
―Never give up. Today is hard, tomorrow will be worse, but the day after
tomorrow will be sunshine‖ ~Jack Ma
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Life Hack # 7:
The Secret to optimizing Your Health in life
Summary
We now speak about a very practical aspect of human life – how The Secret
helps us to enjoy good health and, thus, a long life.
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The Secret and Your Health
If your body is raging in pain right now, it may be harder, initially, for you to try
to figure out how to apply the Secret to your own Healing. Even committing it to
prayer, instead of visualization and mental exercises, might seem impossible. But
do not fear. You will have success here too.
Write it down. Know it for fact. Remember what you were like before your
health declined and fixate on it.
Sometimes, Yes, we have ill health because we believe we should. We‘ve hit a
certain age, and our parents developed a health issue at that age, so we develop a
health issue at that age.
Sometimes, Yes, we have ill health because we‘ve been taking actions which treat
ourselves badly. Whether you are conscious of it or not, but I was. Remember I
have all the symptoms of ill health when I was unhappy. I was treating myself
badly and abusing myself. Yes it affects everything of you.
Sometimes, Yes, we have ill health because there is some unacknowledged anger,
resentment, grief, or thought in our mind which we won‘t let out any other way.
It is time to let it all go. Time to release it. Use the Secret to make anaffirmation
of freedom from these issues today.
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Let go of the issues inside of you which are expressing themselves as aches
and pains. They do not have any power over you anymore.
You have discovered the Secret, and you have a new and better way. Take a deep
breath and tell God, tell the Universe, and tell your heart:
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Life Hack # 8:
Balancing the Inner Self and the Outer Self
Summary
If you really follow the Law of Attraction, you have to work at striking the
right balance between your inner and outer selves.
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Balancing the Inner Self and the Outer Self
Your inner self is your consciousness. It is the way we think and behave. This is
where the Law of Attraction begins to take effect. The Law of Attraction starts
manifesting itself when you think and that begins in your inner self.
Your outer self is characterized by our action. The way you act and implement our
thought processes is how our outer self functions.
If you have to make the best utilization of the Law of Attraction into your life,
then it is essential that you learn how to create the balance between your inner
and outer selves. It is vital that you put into action what you think. What begins
as a thought manifestation must get converted into action.
If you were to just think and sit about getting a new house, it isn‘t going to
happen.
Yes, if your thoughts are strong, if your belief is strong, the universe will begin
aligning itself toward making things happen. But now, it is you who has to act. If
you don‘t even lift a finger things aren‘t going to happen.
Now, you have to put your outer self into action. This is when the positive
energies that have been created start taking shape and things begin happening.
I manage to set my inner selves to Success in my work and I tell myself every day.
This start to take place as my outer selves reacts with what I‘m thinking, Putting
it into action. You will see the different when you feel the different than others
will feel your difference and that‘s when my boss, my family and my friends sees
my changes.
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The problem with most of us is that we use our inner self to think and believe. We
say so often that we want to do a particular thing but only a few of us actually put
our outer selves into action mode.
The Law of Attraction will make things happen. But it will restrict itself to
aligning things in a particular way. The rest is your call. It will make you
confident about doing certain things, and that is what will influence the people
around you and things will happen positively for you, but the main thing for that
to happen is that you have to take the initiative and act.
My story continues here. After 2 years and our visa is near to expired. We have
decided to travel to Singapore in hope of searching for our new career. Well I
finally ended with one after 2 months of search. I accepted a job as a junior
recruiter working in a Recruitment Agency. But there was a catch, in order for me
to work with the company, I need to pay for the course and the exam as it is one
of the requirement by law. So I paid around $700 dollars extra on top of my
rental and expenses. It might not seem a lot but it is for a fresh grad without the
monetary support from my family after graduation. I feel like I can‘t let my family
know that their girl is struggling out there. I was already stressing out. But my
partner was always there for me, she has already found a job and was helping me
with the rental. I then settled through the course and exam and landed on my
first day of work. When I first started I was so excited that this is my new
adventure, my new chapter. However I realized that it is not as simple as it
seems, the industry is very new to me and I have the burden of not hitting my
sales target. If I do not hit my given target, I face the possibility of salary
deduction and possibility of the company asking me to go. I have no market
knowledge, no sales experience, no guidance. My perception of the job scope is
very different compare to before I started work. The culture in Singapore is so
different compare to the UK as Singapore is a very fast pace environment and
well developed country. The expectations are much higher and there are constant
competitions. What if I am not able to cope? ―I want to give up‖ is the first thing
that comes to mind when I wake up every morning. I was so upset with my
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performance that I feel so miserable every day and finally affected my health
condition. This is what I felt, the tense on my shoulder, stomach bloating, no
appetite, constant migraines, lack of sleep or constant nightmares and no more
smiles and I need to admit, I am a bubbly person in nature. I realized that I have
unacknowledged anger.
One day I look at myself in the mirror, I saw a person that look like she has been
beaten up and hang to dry, I nearly did not recognize myself so, yes, I had to let it
out and I need to acknowledge this feeling, I need to release this tension and
anger and sorrow. I need to channel all this bad feelings to joy, hope and love.
Yes I did sob for a while but I am releasing it out of me. Every one of us has their
own way of releasing.
After calming myself down, I tell myself everything happens for reason and that
this is part of a journey or some say a challenge in life. Well, I have supports from
my love ones and I am proud to have them as they see me without judgment. My
partner than gave me an advice that made me realized, if I don‘t stop running and
face my fears, I will never succeed. She is always there to encourage me and
giving me the support I needed. I chose not to run, I realized that my purpose in
life is not to run from the problems but deal with it. I then went through a course
about ―How to manage your emotion course‖ which was enrolled by my company
for personal development purposes. The lecturer told us that the best way to
handle your emotion is to read yourself a positive quote every day and implement
it in your daily activity. The positive quote will then transform your mindset to
think positive. It is truly working for me. I do have a quote that I find useful.
―Every day we have plenty of opportunities to get angry, stressed or offended. But
what you're doing when you indulge these negative emotions is giving something
outside yourself power over your happiness. You can choose to not let little things
upset you‖. ~Joel Osteen
My life began to change dramatically and my health was back to normal, I was
smiling every day and greeting everyone. I changed because of my desire towards
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the job, desire of getting the sales commission and desire for recognition. My
boss saw the changes in me and he encouraged me more. Within a year I am able
to go from a person giving up to being promoted as an Operation Executive,
supervising and motivating 5 personnel‘s.
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Life Hack # 9:
Improving Your Future
Summary
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Improving Your Future
Imagine a world where every person was using the Secret to follow their bliss – a
world where every person was fulfilling their purpose, reaching out to help
others, and allowing the will of God to flow through them to create miracles.
You must attract the situations that will allow you to profit at everyone‘s benefit.
Does the world have to be a dark place, full of wars, full of abuse, full of pain, full
of madness?
Are you somehow special, just able to ignore your way into good things by
focusing on the positive?
“No”
Until others are ready to move forward it is your responsibility to make your
thoughts create positive change.
It is your responsibility to take the actions and be receptive to the ideas that are
going to make the whole of the world grow.
Bless others! Show gratitude for all of the ways the world has moved forward.
Once people believed slavery was perfectly normal. Now, even though there are
people who practice slavery illicitly, we all generally understand it is wrong. Even
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those who engage in slavery understand it to be wrong. That all began with the
thoughts of those who believed things should be better.
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Life Hack # 10:
Giving Gratitude
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Grateful To All Things In Life
All you need is to be grateful for the smallest things, either from people or
experiences in your life. Make a mindful optimal to turn towards positive
appreciation.
So let start it right away! Think of the things, you‘ve really grateful for it, may be
your family, friends, Car, job, food, water, health you can just name it your way,
may be even for the lovely human being you are. Trust me each one is special in
their own way.
Each day, put up with the habit for thanking for the smallest things in your life. If
possible make up a journal and pen down each day for the things you are
thankful for.
This practice not only helps you to turn away your thought process from negative
to positive but also gets you to an inner realization that there are a lot of things in
each one‘s life to be thankful for. This attitude of gratitude will get you closer to
the universe, because of the feeling attached to it. You will have the best feeling
end of the day.
As my story for this book is near to the end, I am thankful that what I have shared
with you above has happened to me. I am grateful to have Natalie by my side, I
am grateful that all those obstacles that I have faced already made me stronger in
person and in life. I am grateful for the people that have helped me or have given
me hard times as every experience counts. I am grateful to God that along the
way I know He is there to show me the path.
―Let us be grateful to people who make us happy, they are the charming
gardeners who make our souls blossom.‖ ~Marcel Proust
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Conclusion
That‘s right. I have shared with you the
10 Awesome Hacks To Optimize Your Life.
These are the habits that I exemplify and carry out in my life. What was the
MAJOR take away for you? It‘s different for everyone but once you apply even
just one or two of these powerful steps, I‘m extremely sure it will increase the
level of fulfillment in your life. Remember, the word MINDSET. You need to be
constantly setting your mind with positive thoughts and turning it to action,
doing it fully! Try it out today. Start small.
Take the first step even if it is a small step. Just a tip as well, working in
recruitment I see people giving up good opportunities because of fear for the
future. Well, Why don‘t we grab the Now and see where the rabbit hole goes? No
one can determine for sure where you‘re going to be in 5 years time. So Why not
live the life NOW. I learn that all thoughts can be changed and it is my choice to
change it to be better.
So start from small steps and work your way up.
I APPLY what I‘ve learnt on a consistent basis in order to live a life of fulfillment
and accomplishment.
That‘s why the 10 Awesome Hacks To Optimize Your Life is so important for me
THANK YOU for reading 10 Awesome Hacks To Optimize Your Life. If you would
like to read more of my stuff which I update regularly with increasing value every
day, you can check out my website. Connect with me on Facebook, or like my
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―If someone offers you an amazing opportunity and you're not sure you can do it,
say 'YES' then learn how to do it later" ~Richard Branson
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I am ready to start my new chapter of adventure, Are you
ready to take Action, take Risk, Explore the unknown.
Just say ―Yes‖
IF I CAN DO IT, SO CAN YOU
All the best to you!!!
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