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This paper critically reviews research on sexual transgender, queer, asexual, and intersex peo-
and gender minority (SGM) families, including ple, are a key site of scholarship for family
lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, asex- researchers. (See Table 1 for definitions of key
ual, intersex, and other (LGBTQAI+) families, terms.) Interest in SGM families has grown sig-
in the past decade (2010–2020). First, this paper nificantly since the first two Decades in Review
details the three primary subareas that make up on SGM families in 2000 and 2010, wherein
the majority of research on SGM families: (1) scholars focused on the form and functioning
SGM family of origin relationships, (2) SGM of gay and lesbian cohabiting relationships and
intimate relationships, and (3) SGM-parent fam- child outcomes within these families (Biblarz &
ilies. Next, this paper highlights three main gaps Savci, 2010; Patterson, 2000). This two-decade
in this decade’s research: (1) a focus on gay, focus on gay and lesbian intimate relationship
lesbian, and same-sex families (and to a lesser functioning and the effects of these family
extent bisexual and transgender families) and forms on children is not surprising given the
a lack of attention to the diverse family ties of concurrent debates about legalizing marriage
single SGM people as well as intersex, asex- between individuals of the same-sex and the
ual, queer, gender non-binary/non-conforming, potential effects of raising children in gay and
polyamorous, and other SGM families; (2) an lesbian households.
emphasis on white, socioeconomically advan- This 2020 Decade in Review marks a new
taged SGM people and a failure to account for chapter in SGM family life and research. This
the significant racial-ethnic and socioeconomic decade witnessed significant growth and diver-
diversity in the SGM population; and (3) a lack sification in the SGM population, with more
of integration of SGM experiences across the people identifying as gender and sexual minori-
life course, from childhood to old age. Future ties than in previous decades (Bridges & Moore,
research should refine the measurement and 2018; Gates, 2014). Moreover, 2010 to 2020 was
analysis of SGM family ties with novel theory a decade of major historical events such as mar-
and data across the methodological spectrum. riage legalization, increased social acceptance
of sexual minorities, and increased stigmatiza-
Sexual- and gender-minority (SGM) families, tion of gender minorities via “bathroom bills”
including families with lesbian, gay, bisexual, and the transgender military ban. At the same
time, data innovations in high-quality national
data sources have allowed scholars to examine
Department of Sociology, The Ohio State University, 238
SGM families at the population level, and novel
Townshend Hall, 1885 Neil Ave Mall, Columbus, OH qualitative data sources reveal the diversity of
43202 (reczek.2@osu.edu). SGM families (Moore & Stambolis-Ruhstorfer,
Key Words: gender, intergenerational relationships, intimate 2013). With these new robust data sources in
relationships, LGBTQ, sexuality, well-being. hand, scholars have not only refined previous
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decades of research on gay and lesbian romantic health. In the final section, I detail research on
relationships and child well-being but also they SGM parents and parenting and synthesize the
have moved beyond the gay and lesbian couple scientific consensus on child outcomes in SGM
context to explore new lines of inquiry including families.
research on gender-minority families and family The mission of this Decade in Review is
ties in SGM youth and adolescence. to not only review what is known but also to
To detail these significant advances, this compel research progress in the next decade.
review is centered around the following three Therefore, in the final section of the article, I
primary subareas that make up the vast major- highlight the following three main gaps that
ity of research on SGM families today: (a) persist in the existing literature: (a) a primary
SGM family-of-origin relationships, (b) SGM focus on same-sex and gay and lesbian families
intimate relationships, and (c) SGM-parent (and to a lesser extent bisexual and transgender
families. In the first section, I review research families) and a lack of focus on other sexual
on SGM youth and adult family-of-origin and gender minorities, such as intersex, asexual,
relationships and outline the growing body queer, and polyamorous families as well as
of research on the effect of family of origin the families of single SGM people; (b) a focus
on SGM mental and physical well-being. In on White, socioeconomically advantaged SGM
the second section, I update the research on people and a failure to account for the significant
SGM intimate relationships in mid-life, with racial-ethnic and socioeconomic diversity in the
topics ranging from relationship formation to SGM population; and (c) a lack of integration
relationship dissolution to mental and physical of SGM families across the life course, from
302 Journal of Marriage and Family
childhood to old age. Key questions for future satisfaction with parents after coming out,
research are identified in each section. Explic- they are more likely to report coming out an
itly addressing these limitations in the next additional time to reinforce and clarify their
decade will create a more inclusive, robust, and sexual identity (Denes & Afifi, 2014). Notably,
impactful research area. I note that this review parent–child dynamics during coming out may
is not exhaustive but instead attempts to create a differ by the gender of the parent; relationships
coherent account of the research on SGM family between young adult sexual-minority men and
life. As a result, this review primarily focuses their mothers improved after initial disclosure,
on SGM families in the U.S. context. but relationships with fathers did not improve
(Pachankis, Sullivan, & Moore, 2018). Thus,
disclosure of sexual identity to parents may
SGM Family-of-Origin Relationships be a key dimension of family strain for SGM
A robust literature shows that family-of-origin youth. Although the primary focus of research
relationships are important to minor children due on SGM youth family relationships is the
to children’s financial and social dependence. parent–child tie, some research suggests that
Far less is known about SGM family-of-origin siblings and extended family members can be
ties in mid- and later-life. I review research on key sources of support during times of parental
(a) adolescent SGM family-of-origin ties and (b) rejection (Grafsky, Hickey, Nguyen, & Wall,
adult SGM family-of-origin ties, with subsec- 2018; Hilton & Szymanski, 2011; Rothblum,
tions on health and well-being. 2010).
Although the vast majority of research
focuses on the family-of-origin ties of gay,
Adolescent SGM Family-of-Origin Ties lesbian, and bisexual identified adolescents, a
The following two primary questions guide series of small-scale qualitative studies show
research on adolescent SGM family-of-origin that transgender youth are at especially high risk
relationships: What is the nature of SGM of family rejection due to transgender stigma-
adolescent family-of-origin ties? How do tization. For example, McGuire, Kuvalanka,
family-of-origin ties influence adolescent SGM Catalpa, and Toomey (2016) find that half of the
health? transgender youth in their sample report a sig-
nificant physical (e.g., moving out) or emotional
The Nature of adolescent SGM Family-of-Origin break with family after disclosing their trans-
Ties. There is consistent evidence that relative gender status, with most youth experiencing fear
to their heterosexual and cisgender peers, of relationship dissolution in the future. This
SGM youth experience less support and more heightened rejection may be because of strong
strain from their families of origin (Needham parental efforts to urge children—especially
& Austin, 2010). Sexual-minority youth are persons assigned male sex at birth—to be
less likely to report closeness, attachment, and gender conforming and heterosexual (Rahilly,
support; are less likely to disclose personal 2015; Solebello & Elliott, 2011). Moreover,
problems; and are more likely to report conflict scholars articulate the “loss” felt when a child
with parents than their cis or heterosexual coun- does not conform to parents’ gendered expec-
terparts (Feinstein et al., 2018; Montano et al., tations, which in turn shapes the treatment of
2018; Montano, McCauley, Miller, Chisolm, the transgender child (McGuire, Catalpa, Lacey,
& Marshal, 2017). Although some SGM youth & Kuvalanka, 2016; Meadow, 2018; Norwood,
may face less sexuality- and gender-related 2013; Rahilly, 2015). These studies represent a
rejection than in previous decades (Russell & new line of research on adolescent–parent ties,
Fish, 2016), some survey research shows that laying the groundwork for further understanding
family support has actually decreased over gender-minority intergenerational ties and their
time (Watson, Rose, Doull, Adjei, & Saewyc, implications for SGM people.
2019). Parent–child conflict appears to be
particularly impactful after a child discloses SGM Adolescent Family-of-Origin Ties
their sexual identity (i.e., “coming out”; Alonzo and Health and Well-Being. A second body
& Buttitta, 2019; Jhang, 2018; Scherrer, Kazyak, of work moves beyond the nature of SGM
& Schmitz, 2015). For example, when lesbian, adolescent family-of-origin ties to explore the
gay, bisexual, and queer people report low implications of these ties on well-being. Despite
Sexual- and Gender-Minority Families 303
increased social acceptance, SGM youth still life situation assessment. The effect of family
experience significant health disparities relative members on health may be strongest during or
to their cisgender heterosexual peers (Russell & directly after the disclosure process (D’Amico,
Fish, 2019), and numerous studies demonstrate Julien, Tremblay, & Chartrand, 2015); a survey
that families are key in explaining SGM ado- of 461 lesbian, gay, and bisexual (LGB) adoles-
lescents’ worse health. High levels of parental cents show family acceptance after disclosure is
strain and low levels of parental support are related to better well-being and a reduction in
linked to a range of negative health outcomes mental distress (Shilo & Savaya, 2011), whereas
for SGM youth (Bouris et al., 2010; D’Amico & adolescent SGM who report family rejection
Julien, 2012; Fredriksen-Goldsen, Shiu, Bryan, during the disclosure process are 8.4 times more
Goldsen, & Kim, 2016; McConnell, Birkett, & likely to attempt suicide (Ryan, Huebner, Diaz,
Mustanski, 2016; Russell & Fish, 2016; Ryan, & Sanchez, 2009). Similarly, Padilla, Crisp,
Russell, Huebner, Diaz, & Sanchez, 2010; Wat- and Rew (2010) find that mothers’ acceptance
son, Grossman, & Russell, 2019). For example, after disclosure is associated with less substance
in a large study using three waves of Add Health, use.
Needham and Austin (2010) show that lesbian Gender-minority youth may be among the
and bisexual young cisgender women report most at risk for the deleterious health effects
lower levels of parental support and higher of low-quality family-of-origin relationships
odds of suicidal ideation and drug use relative (Klein & Golub, 2016), and these youth in turn
to heterosexual women; bisexual women also may experience clear health benefits from sup-
report higher odds of depressive symptoms portive family ties (Kuvalanka, Weiner, Munroe,
and heavy drinking than heterosexual women. Goldberg, & Gardner, 2017). Family support
In turn, gay, young, adult men report lower has positive impacts on transgender youth
levels of parental support relative to bisexual mental health outcomes and risk-taking behav-
and heterosexual men, and gay men experi- iors, such as decreased suicidality or substance
ence higher suicidal ideation than heterosexual use (Grossman, D’Augelli, & Frank, 2011;
men. Parental support either fully or partially Olson, Durwood, DeMeules, & McLaugh-
mediated these health disadvantages. Pearson lin, 2016; Simons, Schrager, Clark, Belzer, &
and Wilkinson (2013) use Add Health data Olson, 2013). In two studies of parental support
to show that lower levels of parental involve- of transgender youth, Budge, Adelson, and
ment, closeness, and support among same-sex Howard (2013) report that parental support
attracted youth was associated with higher and acceptance is associated with lower levels
levels of depression, substance use, and running of anxiety and depressive symptoms, whereas
away from home. Ueno (2010) finds that young Catalpa and McGuire (2018) show transgen-
adults who have same-sex sexual contact report der youth who experience family boundary
higher levels of depressive symptoms and that ambiguity—a lack of clarity regarding whether
this elevated depression is explained by sex- trans youth remained in the family—causes
ual minorities’ lower levels of family support. significant psychological and financial distress.
In one of the few studies looking at bisexual This body of work requires additional empirical
health, a survey of 383 cisgender bisexual youth evidence at the population level, alongside
reveal parental support buffers the association in-depth qualitative studies, to fully determine
between stress during disclosure and depressive the relationship among gender-minority youth
symptoms for bisexual male youth (Pollitt, experiences, family, and health.
Muraco, Grossman, & Russell, 2017), and a
study of 461 sexual-minority youth in Israel
Adult SGM Family-of-Origin Ties
shows the negative effects of bisexuality are
reduced when family members provide social The following two questions guide research on
support and acceptance (Shilo & Savaya, 2012). adult SGM family-of-origin relationships: What
In a study focused on youth of color, Snapp, is the nature of SGM adult family-of-origin ties?
Watson, Russell, Diaz, and Ryan (2015) report How do family-of-origin ties influence adult
that among 245 Latino and non-Latino lesbian, SGM health?
gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) youth,
family support is a strong predictor of positive The Nature of Adult SGM Family-of-Origin
well-being outcomes, including self-esteem and Relationships. Relatively few studies explore
304 Journal of Marriage and Family
stigmatization from family, friends, and insti- reported a decline in sexual activity and desire
tutions. For example, in two studies prior to over time, but lesbian women uniquely sug-
federal marriage equality in the United States, gested weight gain, caregiving for a parent, and
van Eeden-Moorefield and Benson (2014) used menopause as reasons for this decline. Lesbian
internet-based data with 176 partnered gay women in this study also reported more work
men to show that internalized homophobia in promoting their sex lives than heterosexual
plays a role in relationship stability, whereas women. In a study of 161 gay male couples
a qualitative study of 32 legally married (at (N = 322), Parsons, Starks, Gamarel, and Grov
the state level, not the federal level) White gay (2012) compared monogamous, monogamish,
men in Iowa demonstrated how many LGB open, and discrepant sexual statuses and found
adults experience increases in family strain due no differences in sexual satisfaction, communi-
to increases in LGB visibility postmarriage cation, or frequency; monogamous men reported
(Ocobock, 2013). Moreover, disapproval from more sexual jealousy. In a study comparing the
parents increases romantic relationship strain, sex frequency of gay, lesbian, and heterosexual
but can also promote relationship resilience adoptive parents and relationship quality, Farr,
(Frost, 2011; Graham & Barnow, 2013; Maca- Forsell, and Patterson (2010) found differences
pagal, Greene, Rivera, & Mustanski, 2015; in sex frequency by sexual orientation with gay
Reczek, 2016a). Taken together, this body men having the most sex and lesbian women the
of work suggests that couple functioning is least, but they find no differences in sexual rela-
strongly influenced by external factors, most tionship satisfaction. These studies suggest that
notably homophobia and stigma. sexual intimacy is an important aspect of rela-
Several studies examined relationship quality tionship quality, and future research should con-
among SGM racial-ethnic minorities. A qualita- tinue to examine intimacy as a central aspect of
tive study on gay and lesbian interracial couples SGM relationship dynamics.
demonstrated the unique challenges of both Beyond the sexual-minority context, a grow-
hypervisibility (i.e., partners experience both ing but small area of research shows that intimate
homophobia and racism due to their doubly relationship quality is a key source of identity
marginalized statuses) and hyperinvisibility affirmation for transgender people and their
(i.e., partners are not recognized as a couple partners (Pfeffer, 2016), with quality intimate
due to both racist and homophobic assump- relationships being a primary goal of transgen-
tions; Steinbugler, 2012). In addition, a study der individuals (Sanger, 2010). Research shows
of 480 respondents in same-sex and interracial couples with a transpartner experience unique
relationships showed that both racist and homo- stressors that influence relationship quality.
phobic relationship stigma from friends (e.g., For example, Garmarel, Reisner, Laurenceau,
friends make comments about your partner that Nemoto, and Operario (2014) analyzed data
offend you) was associated with lower levels of from 191 couples of transwomen and their
relationship commitment (Rosenthal & Starks, cisgender male partners and find that partners
2015). In a qualitative study with 22 Black financial strain and trans-related discrimination
lesbians, Glass and Few-Demo (2013) showed were linked to increased depression for both
that partners in Black lesbian couples received partners. For transwomen, their own—as well
family support individually, but not together as a as their partner’s—higher levels of relationship
couple, negating the existence of lesbian sexual stigma scores (e.g., how comfortable do you
identity. Few studies examine how supportive feel holding hands with your partner in public;
relationships with family bolster marital quality, how comfortable do you feel going out with
although Reczek (2016a) showed that rejection your partner in public; introducing your partner
from parents can bring couples closer together to friends; hiding your relationship from others)
against unsupportive parents. are related to lower levels of relationship quality;
Although recent family scholarship points for cismen partners, only the transwomen’s rela-
to the importance of sex and sexual intimacy tionship stigma scores are associated with lower
as a dimension of intimate relationship qual- levels of relationship quality. Moreover, gender
ity, few studies examine sexual quality in SGM transitioning within a relationship places sig-
couples. Paine, Umberson, and Reczek (2019) nificant stress on relationship quality and both
used in-depth interview data with lesbian and partners’ well-being (DeFilippis, Yarbrough, &
heterosexual women and showed that women Jones, 2018). For example, Pfeffer (2016) used
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in-depth interviews with ciswomen partners of of Black biological mothers and stepmothers
transmen to show the emotional work cispartners in same-gender relationships, Moore (2011)
do to support their transpartners pretransition, found that it was the biological relationship to
during transition, and posttransition, whereas a child that shapes household work, wherein
Platt and Bolland (2017) showed the negotia- biological mothers are more likely than step-
tions 21 cisgender partners made in response to mothers to assert dominance over child care
their transpartners identity, including changes and household tasks to enact power in lieu of
in their own sexual orientation labels, concerns financial equity. Similarly, among cisgender
with safety and marginalization, and devel- gay fathers, biological fathers who have a child
opment of a new understanding of the gender from a previous heterosexual relationship are
spectrum. Taken together, this body of work more likely to specialize in child care than their
suggested key predictors of relationship quality partners (Tornello et al., 2015). This body of
for gender-minority adults and their partners research suggests that relationship dynamics
that should be further explored in future work. unique to SGM populations may shape the
division of labor in ways that have not been
fully articulated in past research.
Division of Household Labor A few studies examine the division of labor in
The division of household labor among cis- transgender families, providing potential clues
gender heterosexual couples has been a major to the negotiation of power around housework.
area of scholarly work for decades. Research on Pfeffer (2010) and Ward (2010) used qualita-
SGM couples, most notably same-sex couples, tive data to show that ciswomen partnered to
calls to question theory on heterosexual couples’ transmen do more housework than their trans-
division of labor that rely on gendered assump- gender partners to assert gender order and affirm
tions of men and women as opposites (Doan their partners’ masculine identities, and Kelly
& Quadlin, 2019; Geist & Ruppanner, 2018). and Hauck (2015) interviewed 30 gender and
Overall, research confirms that sexual-minority sexual minorities and showed that personal pref-
couples—especially and perhaps exclusively erence and labor force participation, not neces-
White gay and lesbian couples—are more likely sarily gender, shaped the division of labor. Taken
to have an egalitarian household division of together, these findings suggest that the relation-
labor than heterosexual couples; this is true ship between gender and the division of labor in
when comparing groups with and without SGM relationship is more complex than the pre-
children (for a review, see Goldberg, 2013; dominant “egalitarian” framework would sug-
Goldberg, Smith, & Perry-Jenkins, 2012; Gotta gest, and future work should continue to theorize
et al., 2011; Tornello, Sonnenberg, & Patterson, the unique division of labor dynamics among
2015). Gendered housework theory suggests gender and sexual minorities.
that partners in sexual-minority couples are less
reliant on traditional gendered norms, are more
Health and Well-Being
likely to have similar housework preferences,
and are more likely to be dually employed How marriage shapes health among cisgender
outside the home (Doan & Quadlin, 2019). heterosexual populations has been a major area
Yet there are unique predictors of the divi- of study during the past half century. Due to
sion of labor within sexual-minority couples, the legalization of same-sex marriage during the
including work hours outside the home, time past decade, scholars can now ask the following:
availability, and income inequality (Tornello Is marriage protective for individuals in SGM
et al., 2015; Widiss, 2016). It may be that individuals in ways similar to cisgender het-
even in sexual-minority couples, child care erosexual couples? The answer to this question
and feminine-typed tasks such as laundry are appears to be a resounding yes: Union status is
clustered together unequally (Goldberg, 2013; associated with health among sexual minorities
Goldberg et al., 2012). For example, in a study to a similar degree as found among cisgender
of 116 women and 128 men in sexual-minority heterosexual populations. Notably, this finding
relationships, Civettini (2015) showed that the is based on data using national household ros-
division of labor is not shaped by gender per ters comparing same-sex and different-sex cou-
se, but by levels of traditionally feminine and ples, and therefore sexual and gender identity is
masculine traits. In turn, in a qualitative study often unknown; this limits the ability to directly
308 Journal of Marriage and Family
compare SGM across union status as well as pro- (Carpenter, Eppink, Gonzales, & McKay, 2018).
hibits comparison of marital status groups to sin- These findings bolster the overall finding that
gle SGM populations. a marital advantage is found among same-sex
Prior to marriage legalization at the state and couples.
federal levels, several nationally representative Beyond these population trends, a novel
studies demonstrated that the health of individu- component of research on relationships and
als in same-sex cohabitation look similar to those health is an attempt to explain these health
in different-sex cohabitation—with both groups trends and differences, typically with qualitative
being worse off than those in different-sex data. For example, qualitative and daily diary
marriage (Denney, Gorman, & Barrera, 2013; research suggests that gay and lesbian couples
Gonzales & Henning-Smith, 2015; Liu, Reczek, appear to be more concordant in health behav-
& Brown, 2013; Reczek, Liu, & Spiker, 2017). ior (Holway, Umberson, & Donnelly, 2018;
For example, Denney et al. (2013) and Liu Reczek, 2012; Reczek & Umberson, 2012), are
et al. (2013) used the National Health Interview more likely to care for each other when sick
Survey to show that same-sex and different-sex (Thomeer, Reczek, & Umberson, 2015; Umber-
cohabitors report similar self-rated health to son, Thomeer, Reczek, & Donnelly, 2016), and
one another and worse self-rated health relative are differentially impacted by marital strain
to the different-sex married. Riggle, Rostosky, (Garcia & Umberson, 2019) than heterosexual
and Horne (2010) use an online sample of couples. Moreover, it appears that gay and les-
2,677 LGB-identified individuals and found bian couples face higher levels of discrimination
that those in a committed relationship reported and stress than heterosexual couples (Cao et al.,
less psychological distress and better overall 2017; Frost et al., 2017), and marriage bans are
well-being than those LGB-identified individ- shown to worsen health among SGM people
uals not in committed relationships; those in (Hatzenbuehler et al., 2012, 2014; Kail, Acosta,
legal relationships, relative to those in nonlegal & Wright, 2015). Gay and lesbian older adults
committed cohabiting or dating relationships, who are legally married report better quality of
experienced less internalized homophobia and life and more social and economic resources
less depressive symptoms. Similarly, Baumle than those who are partnered but not married
(2014) found that elders in same-sex cohabiting (Goldsen et al., 2017). Moreover, as is the case
partnerships, especially women, were disadvan- in heterosexual couples, relationship quality
taged relative to those in different-sex married may influence mental and physical health in
and cohabiting unions, yet in a study of adults significant ways in sexual-minority couples,
aged older than 50, having a same-sex partner, with a study of 571 sexual minorities finding
regardless of marital status, was associated with a negative association between relationship
better self-report health and fewer depressive quality and depression (Whitton & Kuryluk,
symptoms relative to single LGB older adults 2014). Future work should continue to explore
(Williams & Fredriksen-Golsen, 2014). the basic patterns of health across couple types
The legalization of marriage between indi- among gender and sexual minorities as well
viduals of the same-sex meant nationally as the underlying mechanisms that may shape
representative household rosters could be used these trends.
to examine the health associations of marriage Although most research focuses on same-sex
for the SGM population. This body of research couples, research has begun to examine health
shows that the same-sex married have simi- in gender-minority intimate relationships. Liu
lar self-rated health relative to the different-sex and Wilkinson (2017) used the National Trans
married and have better self-rated health than the Discrimination Survey and found that married
different-sex or same-sex cohabiting (Reczek transgender respondents tended to report lower
et al., 2014). Marriage, relative to being in a levels of perceived discrimination than their
domestic partnership, is associated with lower cohabiting and previously married transcounter-
levels of psychological distress and better men- parts. In addition, an international study of trans-
tal health for individuals in both same-sex and men showed that partnered transmen reported
different-sex relationships (LeBlanc, Frost, & fewer depressive symptoms than their single
Bowen, 2018; Wight, LeBlanc, & Badgett, 2013) counterparts (Meier, Sharp, Michonski, Bab-
and that access to marriage increased healthcare cock, & Fitzgerald, 2013). This suggests that the
access and care among sexual-minority men long-standing institutional benefits of marriage
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may extend to all those who are legally able equality on dissolution rates. Overall, this body
to participate; however, more research needs of work demonstrates that marriage is impor-
to be conducted to fully understand the scope tant to same-sex couple stability; the ability
of this potential marital advantage. In particu- to legally marry, coupled with general social
lar, greater complexity needs to be taken into tolerance toward marriage, is associated with
account when examining the impact of marriage a higher desire for long-term relationships
on health among SGM populations, with future and stronger monogamy beliefs among SGM
research moving away from simple comparisons populations (Potârcă et al., 2015). Manning
of same-sex couples versus different-sex couples et al. (2016) showed that living in a state with
to include other individuals and SGM groups. a same-sex marriage ban reduced relation-
ship stability in both same-sex cohabiting and
different-sex cohabiting couples, whereas Dil-
Dissolution lender (2014) and Trandafir (2015) showed
As research in the past decade expands our that the legalization of marriage between
understanding of the formation and conse- individuals of the same-sex did not reduce
quences of SGM intimate relationships, the the rate of different-sex marriage in United
corollary field of relationship dissolution and States. Notably, gender-minority relationship
instability has also grown. The primary research dissolution has not been systematically exam-
questions in this area are the following: Do ined empirically; one exception is a study by
SGM adults have higher rates of dissolution Meier et al. (2013), who reported that among
than their heterosexual cisgender counterparts? transmen who were partnered prior to transi-
How do these rates differ by gender? The results tion, half of the relationships were dissolved
have been inconsistent in part due to vary- during or after transition. Additional longi-
ing comparison groups. In studies done prior tudinal, population-level data are needed to
to federal U.S. marriage equality, Rosenfeld fully parse both the rates and predictors of
(2014) showed that same-sex and different-sex SGM couples’—especially gender-minority
couples had similar rates of breaking up once couples’—relationship dissolution.
marital status is accounted for, whereas Man-
ning, Brown, and Stykes (2016) suggested that
Sexual- and Gender-Minority
same-sex cohabitors experienced similar levels
Parenthood
of stability relative to different-sex cohabitors;
both couple types experienced more instability According to 2010 U.S. census data and the
than different-sex marrieds. A study of two 2013 American Community Survey (Payne
British cohorts showed that same-sex cohabitors & Manning, 2015), about 225,000 same-sex
had higher rates of dissolution than people in households have children aged younger than
different-sex cohabiting and different-sex mar- 18; notably, this number only includes minor
ried unions and that male couples had a slightly children in same-sex households and does not
higher rate of dissolution than the female cou- include children raised by SGM parents who do
ples (Lau, 2012). A Norwegian study found that not currently reside in a same-sex household,
same-sex couples who formed unions between SGM single parents, or SGM nonresidential
1993 and 2010 had a higher risk of divorce when partner households (Gates, 2014). Other data
compared with different-sex couples, but female sources estimate 2 million to 3.7 million children
couples were more prone to divorce than male are being raised by SGM adults (Gates, 2015;
couples (Aarskaug Wiik, Seierstad, & Noack, Gates & Newport, 2015). Same-sex parents are
2014). Joyner, Manning, and Bogle (2017) used more likely to be racial-ethnic minorities than
Add Health data to show that male same-sex same-sex couple households without children;
couples had higher dissolution rates than female nearly 40% of same-sex couples who have
same-sex couples and different-sex couples, yet children aged younger than 18 in the home con-
in a study of 190 gay, lesbian, and heterosexual sist of at least one racial-ethnic minority adult.
couples who were adoptive parents, Goldberg Black individuals in same-sex couples are 2.4
and Garcia (2015) found that there were no dif- times more likely than White individuals to be
ferences in dissolution odds across couple types. raising children (40% vs. 16%), whereas 28% of
Research has begun to test the effects of Latino individuals in same-sex couples are rais-
marriage laws both before and after marriage ing children—1.7 times more likely than Whites
310 Journal of Marriage and Family
(Gates, 2015). Two primary subareas represent including adoption, reproductive technology,
SGM parenting research during the past decade: and surrogacy.
(a) parenthood contexts and experiences and (b) Adoption is a second key parenthood pathway
SGM-parent family effects on children. for SGM adults (Baumle & Compton, 2015),
with an estimated one in five same-sex couples
raising adopted children, relative to about 3% of
Parenthood Contexts and Experiences
different-sex couples raising adopted children;
Two subthemes dominate the theme of parent- 3% of same-sex couples have foster children,
hood contexts and experiences: (a) pathways to relative to 0.4% of heterosexual parents (Gold-
parenthood and (b) parenting dynamics. berg & Conron, 2018). However, research
suggests some religiously affiliated adoption
Pathways to Parenthood. There is immense agencies restrict the availability of adoption due
diversity in the pathways to SGM parenthood to the stigmatization of SGM as unfit parents
(Kazyak, Park, McQuillan, & Greil, 2016) (Farr, Ravvina, & Grotevant, 2018).
in part due to differing levels of social stigma, As a third pathway, SGM adults choose
access to adoption, the cost of reproductive tech- parenthood via reproductive technology, which
nologies, cultural norms in SGM communities, includes a wide range of technologies with
and legal constraints across the SGM population vastly different costs including egg harvesting,
(Baumle & Compton, 2015). In research using insemination in home and hospital settings,
the National Survey of Family Growth, Riskind and in vitro fertilization. Those reproductive
and Patterson (2010) showed that although gay, acts that take place in the medical domain are
lesbian, and heterosexual individuals aged 15 rarely covered under insurance for SGM cou-
to 44 years value parenthood equally, gay men ples because infertility cannot be proven as it
and lesbian women are less likely to want to supposedly can be with heterosexual couples,
have children than heterosexuals; gay men who thus this pathway is often highly cost prohibitive
want to have children are less likely than het- (Mamo & Alston-Stepnitz, 2015).
erosexual men to believe they will fulfill those Surrogacy is a fourth pathway to parenthood
desires. In contrast, bisexual parenting desires used primarily among gay fathers (Pachankis
and intentions are consistent with heterosex- et al., 2018), but this option is again highly costly
ual populations and are higher than their gay and thus utilized primarily by higher socioe-
and lesbian peers (Riskind & Patterson, 2010; conomic status (SES) people (Carroll, 2018).
Riskind & Tornello, 2017). Because these latter pathways to parenthood are
Sexual-minority individuals pursue a vari- highly stratified by class status, not all SGM
ety of planned pathways for family formation adults have equal access to parenthood. More-
including children from a previous heterosexual over, the pathways for parents to become legal
relationship, adoption, the use of reproductive guardians when using reproductive technologies
technologies, surrogacy, and other inten- and surrogacy vary widely by state and country,
tional family-formation strategies (Goldberg & which may be restrictive for parents in those con-
Gartrell, 2014; Moore & Stambolis-Ruhstorfer, texts that are not institutionally supportive.
2013). First, the majority of SGM adults today
become parents in the context of a heterosex- What Are the Dynamics of SGM Parenting?.
ual relationship (Goldberg, Gartrell, & Gates, Questions regarding the parenting dynam-
2014). Parenthood via a previous heterosexual ics of SGM adults have become a key site
relationship may be an especially prominent of inquiry in the past decade, with research
pathway for older cohorts who faced higher comparing same-sex to different-sex couples
levels of social stigma and were more likely to (or gay vs. lesbian vs. heterosexual-identified
be closeted during childbearing years, although couples) on a variety of parenting factors. For
SGM adults today may have children through a example, Augustine, Aveldanes, and Pfeffer
different-sex relationship due to the fluidity of (2017) find that gay fathers spend less time in
sexual identity and behavior. With earlier ages self-care activities than heterosexual fathers,
of self-acceptance and disclosure and relatively whereas lesbian mothers spend more time in
less social stigma and discrimination in the past self-care activities than heterosexual mothers.
decade, there have been substantial increases in Perhaps most notably, research in the past
what are called “planned” SGM childrearing, decade highlights the unique role of social
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stigma and social support in SGM parenting normalize their own sexual-minority status was
dynamics. Supportive social and legal com- found in a study of eight lesbian and bisexual
munities significantly improve experiences of mothers with transkids between 6 and 11 years
social stigma, depression, and anxiety (Bos, old. In this study, Kuvalanka et al. (2017)
Knox, van Rijn-van Gelderen, & Gartrell, 2016; showed that sexual-minority mothers were
Goldberg & Smith, 2011; Oswald, Routon, often blamed for their child’s transgender status
McGuire, & Holman, 2018). Although one and as a result sometimes attempted to curb
study of 92 adoptive families reports that par- gender-nonconforming behavior. Still, very few
ents in same-sex and different-sex couples have studies directly examine transgender parenting
similar amounts of social support from network dynamics. One study showed that transgender
members (Sumontha, Farr, & Patterson, 2016), parents work to renegotiate their relationships
most other research shows that sexual-minority with their own children, and former spouses
parents experience high social stigma and less play an important role in this negotiation; former
social support than their heterosexual counter- spouses may restrict access to transgender par-
parts. For example, Black lesbian mothers face ents or may facilitate the transparent and child
significant stigma, which contributes to renego- in adjusting to gender transition (Pyne, Bauer,
tiating notions of Black respectability as sexual & Bradley, 2015). In addition, using interviews
minorities in their community (Moore, 2011). A with 13 kids and 15 parents (eight cisgender
qualitative study of 41 mostly White gay fathers parents and seven transgender parents) from
in Texas and California showed that gay fathers nine families, Dierckx, Mortelmans, Motmans,
experienced significant discrimination within and T’Sjoen (2017) found that there were clear
both their heterosexual and gay communities adaptive approaches to a parent transitioning,
(Carroll, 2018); in turn, these gay fathers resisted including family continuity, communication,
and reframed their fatherhood experiences as and acceptance. Although these studies demon-
positive. Similarly, Vinjamuri (2015) inter- strated the complexity of gender-minority
viewed 20 gay-father families and showed that parent families, they were limited in their abil-
public parenting was consistently scrutinized in ity to fully explore the multifaceted nature of
ways that created stress and feelings of stigma- gender-minority parenthood. Future research is
tization, whereas Tornello, Farr, and Patterson needed to provide a more holistic account of the
(2011) examined 230 gay adoptive fathers with pathways to and processes of gender-minority
an internet survey and found that fathers with parenthood.
less social support, older children, and children
who were adopted at older ages reported more
parenting stress. In a 12-year longitudinal study SGM-Parent Family Effects on Children
of gays and lesbians and their heterosexual
siblings on the long-term effects of stigma and Child well-being in SGM-parent families cap-
stress, Richards, Rothblum, Beauchaine, and tured the attention of the scholarly, legal, and
Balsam (2017) showed that children of LGB policy communities during the past decade,
parents reported less frequent contact with their with research attempting to find consensus
adult children than heterosexual parents. Taken regarding whether children raised in SGM
together, this research suggests that gay and families are “worse off” than those raised in
lesbian (or same-sex) families may be disad- cisgender heterosexual families. Studies using
vantaged relative to social support, increasing new nationally representative population-based
parenting stress. survey data put this question to rest, consistently
Beyond the gay and lesbian context, very showing that children in same-sex households
few studies examine parenting experiences and experience similar health, behavioral, and edu-
dynamics in other gender- and sexual-minority cational outcomes when compared with children
families, such as bisexual or transgender families in different-sex households (Calzo et al., 2019;
(Ross & Dobinson, 2013). In a small qualitative Farr, 2017; Patterson, 2017; Reczek, Spiker, Liu,
study of bisexual mothers, Tasker and Delvoye & Crosnoe, 2016, 2017; for reviews, see adams
(2015) suggested that although identities of & Light, 2015; Manning, Fettro, & Lamidi,
both bisexual and mother are salient, at times 2014). When differences are found across
child well-being is prioritized over bisexual groups they are accounted for by variables other
identity markers. Similar efforts of parents to than sexual-minority status, including lower
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SES and family transitions (Potter, 2012; Potter social climate data to analyze the psychological
& Potter, 2017). well-being of children raised by same-sex par-
Notably, most studies in this area deploy ents and found better psychological outcomes
household rosters and thus are only able to cap- for children in areas with antidiscrimination
ture children in households with parents of the laws, suggesting it was institutional factors—not
same-sex, not households with a parent who something inherent in the same-sex family—that
identifies as a gender or sexual minority. In would cause any negative child outcomes. In
one of the first large-scale surveys using such addition, in a study of 84 adult children with
data, Rosenfeld (2010) examines U.S. Census gay fathers, Thomeer, Donnelly, Reczek, and
data to show that children of same-sex couples Umberson (2017) found that children feel closer
are as likely to make typical progress through to fathers when their fathers disclosed their gay
school as children of other family structures; identity earlier in the life course; those who
any advantage for heterosexual married cou- report closer relationships with their fathers
ples’ relative to other groups was explained by report greater well-being, suggesting that it
SES. Similarly, Reczek, Spiker et al. (2016, is the context and content of the parent–child
2017) analyzed the National Health Interview tie that shapes child well-being outcomes, not
Survey data to show that children raised in simply being from a gay family. Calzo et al.
same-sex married families had overall similar (2019) further showed that children of bisexual
health and behavioral outcomes relative to chil- parents had higher rates of externalizing behav-
dren in different-sex married families, and chil- iors (e.g., physical aggression) than children of
dren in same-sex cohabiting families had overall heterosexual parents, but that parents’ psycho-
similar outcomes to those in different-sex cohab- logical distress accounted for this difference.
iting families. In a study using the American Moreover, some research suggests benefits to
Community Survey Waves 2008 to 2015, Boer- being in SGM families; Prickett, Martin-Storey,
tien and Benardi (2019) showed that children liv- and Crosnoe (2015) showed that there was an
ing with a same-sex couple were likely to exhibit increase in parenting attention for children in
worse achievement outcomes relative to their gay and lesbian families, which may benefit later
peers in different-sex households in the past, but life outcomes such as educational attainment
that this gap disappeared during the study period. and employment.
A study of psychological adjustment after adop- Although the vast majority of research
tion found no differences in outcomes across focuses on children in same-sex households, a
children in gay, lesbian, and heterosexual fam- small number of studies, primarily qualitative,
ilies (Goldberg, 2013). In contrast, Regnerus examine child well-being in gender-minority
(2012) showed that children who were older than parent families (for a review, see Stotzer,
18 years who reported a parent had a same-sex Herman, & Hasenbush, 2014). For example,
relationship at some point during their child- Pyne et al. (2015) showed that when a parent
hood reported worse well-being outcomes than with minor children transitions, the child’s
children raised in long-term heterosexual mar- well-being was strongly shaped by whether the
ried households. However, Cheng and Powell cisgender parent was transphobic and rejecting
(2015) reanalyzed Regnerus’s data to reveal that or accepting of the transgender parent. Tabor
these negative effects were the result of inappro- (2018) used 30 in-depth interviews with adult
priate comparison groups (e.g., comparing mar- children of transgender parents to document the
ried to divorced families). Moreover, although unique negotiation of role ambiguity children
not viewed as a negative outcome for children, experience when a parent transitions. Signifi-
Goldberg and Garcia (2016) reported that chil- cantly more research is needed on children in
dren in lesbian families had less gender-typical families other than same-sex, gay, or lesbian
behavior than children in heterosexual and gay family structures.
families.
Several recent studies attempt to move
beyond comparing children in same- and Critiques and Future Research
different-sex households and articulate the Research on SGM family-of-origin relation-
unique contextual experiences of being a ships, intimate relationships, and parenthood
child in a SGM family. Lick, Tornello, Riskind, have proliferated in the past decade. Yet impor-
Schmidt, and Patterson (2012) used county-level tant limitations in research on SGM families
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persist. Next I provide an account of the follow- show that more than 50% of SGM people are
ing three overarching limitations in SGM family single (Jones, 2017), yet virtually no research
research: (a) a lack of focus on the diversity of explicitly engages the family lives of SGM
SGM family types such as bisexual, transgender, single people.
asexual, and polyamorous families as well as The lack of inclusion of diverse SGM pop-
single SGM people; (b) a lack of racial-ethnic ulations is in part due to data limitations given
and socioeconomic diversity; and (c) a failure the relatively small number of individuals in
to account for the life course of family ties. I these groups, although this is not the case for
outline how future research on SGM families bisexual people, who are among the fastest
should address these three deficits. I also discuss growing sexual-minority group today (Bridges
data and practical constraints that contribute to & Moore, 2018). These data limitations are
these limitations. especially prevalent in demographic and survey
research but also in qualitative research. The
majority of population-based research is reliant
SGM Diversity on a few national surveys of same-sex household
Research in the past decade focuses primarily on rosters that do not ask sexual or gender identity
cisgender gay and lesbian identified people and (e.g., U.S. Census) or rely on questions on sexual
individuals who live in same-sex households. A or gender identity that are limited (e.g., identi-
smaller but important body of research exam- fying oneself as gay, lesbian, straight, bisexual,
ines bisexual and transgender partnered families, or “other”; e.g., National Health Interview Sur-
although research has not kept up with the rapid vey). We need better data—especially nationally
growth of both of these family forms during representative survey-based data—that account
the past decade. Comparing cisgender gay for the range of identities, behaviors, and attrac-
and lesbian families to cisgender heterosexual tions in the SGM community. Although recent
families was an important first intervention to surveys have added sexual identity questions or
a historically cisgender heterosexual-dominant questions on sex at birth and transgender status,
field. Yet there has been very little empirical reliable and valid survey questions that account
research on the families of other SGM popula- for all SGM populations are relatively rare in
tions, including intersex—people born with a datasets that also include comprehensive mea-
range of intersex traits normatively presumed sures of family relationships. Moreover, because
to be exclusively male or female (e.g., physical some SGM groups are small proportions of the
genitalia or gonads incongruent with sex chro- population, analyzed data can be untrustworthy.
mosomes; Davis, 2015); pansexual—someone Future data collection efforts should oversample
attracted to all genders; asexual—someone smaller SGM groups to allow for greater analyt-
who does not experience sexual attraction or ical power.
sexual interest to people of any gender (Carroll, Qualitative research has been more effective
2019); bisexual—someone who is attracted to at providing high-quality, in-depth data on SGM
more than one sex; or polyamorous—someone families today and will be an important aspect
who rejects the monogamous imperative and of SGM family research in the next decade. Yet
is romantically involved with more than one qualitative studies, too, should be stretched to
person at once. These gaps neglect the full range include more marginalized and less-studied pop-
of SGM minority families, especially those ulations within the SGM group to develop new
who may be the most stigmatized as well as theoretical approaches to understanding family
those who offer the most robust challenges to life (Compton, Meadow, & Schilt, 2018). Quali-
paradigms of monogamy, the gender binary, and tative approaches are especially primed to fill the
heteronormativity. Consequently, family forms dearth in research on relatively small subpopula-
outside of the limited cisgender, gay, lesbian, tions (such as intersex, pansexual, polyamorous,
and same-sex scope are marginalized—this and asexual individuals). Future research on
exclusion has important implications for our these populations will lead to new theoretical
ability to fully understand SGM family life. advances that will influence the broader field of
Importantly, research on family life has almost family studies. Moreover, qualitative studies are
exclusively focused on partnered SGM people imperative in articulating the meaning of sexu-
and has failed to articulate the family dynamics ality and gender identities as they change across
of single SGM people. Demographic profiles the next decade.
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In the context of family-of-origin ties, bet- SGM groups of young adults today retreat from
ter data with more comprehensive questions on marriage due to queer or feminist principles,
gender identity and sexuality and the oversam- or seek marriage to access the legal and social
pling of SGM subpopulations would allow us to protections afforded to cisgender heterosexual
examine the nature of family-of-origin ties and individuals? How does relationship quality and
the effects of those family ties on well-being predictors of divorce vary across the SGM spec-
for all SGM youth and adults. This is espe- trum? How do more marginalized SGM family
cially important as more youth are identifying in configurations challenge and redefine how we
non-cis, non-hetero categories than ever before, measure the division of labor? In addition, do
and a continued exclusive focus on gay, les- all SGM groups experience health benefits with
bian, and bisexual identities will prevent us from marriage, or is this benefit found only for those
understanding the full range of sexual and gen- that are in monogamous same-sex long-term
der diversity in the next generation of SGM relationships? How do dissolution processes dif-
families. Questions could include the following: fer across the SGM spectrum and what can we
How do SGM youth and adults experience and learn about this dissolution? How do single SGM
reframe family violence, rejection and disown- people conceive of the prospect of intimate rela-
ment, ambivalence, and support? What are the tionships, and do friends become more important
processes through which people with different as sources social support when not in an intimate
SGM identities cope and thrive in less support- relationship? Finally, studies of parenthood must
ive environments? How do parents perceive and definitively move away from proving children
negotiate ties with their SGM children across the in same-sex couples are equally well-off to their
diversity of SGM statuses? How are intergenera- heterosexual counterparts to thinking more cre-
tional ties renegotiated as SGM statuses change? atively about how SGM parents across the spec-
How do single SGM people conceive of their trum are negotiating their parental roles in ways
intergenerational relationships, and how does dependent on socio-institutional and political
being single shape disclosure, identity mainte- contexts. How do single SGM parents negotiate
nance, and family relationships? These are just their SGM identity and find social support and
some of the questions that might emerge when cope with strain in both SGM and cisgender
we broaden the range of SGM diversity within heterosexual communities? These are just a few
the realm of family of origin. of the ways in which the next decade of research
In the context of intimate ties and parenthood, can further advance science on diverse SGM
scholars continue to reify cisgender different-sex family life.
or heterosexual couples as the gold-standard
reference category from which to compare
dynamics and outcomes of cisgender same-sex Integration of Racial-Ethnic
or gay or lesbian couples. To move beyond a and Socioeconomic Diversity
focus on this comparison, future research must There are intersecting aspects of inequality
explore the marital and parental decisions of that shape SGM people’s lives, including gen-
partners across sexual (e.g., polyamorous, asex- der, race-ethnicity, and SES. Yet attention to
ual) and gender (e.g., transgender, genderqueer) multiple, intersecting forms of inequality has
categories and include multipartner and single not been systematically integrated into SGM
families across the SGM spectrum. In doing family research (Acosta, 2018). Racial-ethnic
so, new questions and insights will arise, such minorities make up a larger percent of the SGM
as the following: How do people of differ- population than the general population (Gates,
ent SGM identities understand intimate and 2014), yet research on SGM families lacks racial
parenthood relationships and make decisions diversity as well as thoughtful racial analyses
about entering into these relationships? For with consistent and robust considerations of how
example, polyamorous relationship formation family processes are always already racialized
is notably absent from current research (Ship- regardless of sample racial-ethnic composition
pers, 2016). Bisexual people are more likely (Acosta, 2018). Furthermore, there is a lack of
to be in different-sex marriages than same-sex focus on cross-cultural comparisons as well as
marriages, yet we do not know how bisexu- non-U.S. or non-Western contexts, limiting our
als understand their identity as a SGM within ability to understand the global landscape of
different-sex relationships. Moreover, do various SGM families.
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Moreover, this body of work pays inadequate and SES? How do negotiations of rejection or
attention to socioeconomic diversity within the ambivalence depend on racialized and classed
SGM population. Despite assumptions of gay experiences? How are our conceptualizations
affluence, recent research that suggests SGM of what family of origin is or should be depen-
people are socioeconomically disadvantaged dent on White, middle-class SGM notions of
relative to their cisgender heterosexual counter- family? How do sibling and extended fam-
parts (Gates, 2014). Given the racial-ethnic and ily relationships differ across racial-ethnic and
socioeconomic diversity of the SGM population socioeconomic groups, and how does this matter
and the clear importance of race-ethnicity and for health outcomes? What are unique adaptive
SES in every facet of family life, our conclu- pathways taken when SGM of color across
sions thus far provide limited, primarily White SES are faced with family-of-origin rejection
and socioeconomically advantaged views of or strain? Overall, greater theorizing of the
SGM family life. Data limitations prohibit our racial-ethnic and socioeconomic experiences
ability to study SES and race-ethnicity by SGM of the family of origin must be addressed to
status; most national data sources have vari- fully understand the nature of family-of-origin
ables for race and SES but the sample sizes of relationships.
racial-ethnic minority and SES sexual-minority Research consistently shows that intimate
groups are small. Future data collection efforts relationship dynamics are also racialized and
should oversample SGM racial-ethnic groups vary by SES. As such, race-ethnicity and SES
to allow scholars to examine racial-ethnic and are likely central to family relationships among
socioeconomic variation. Notably, even qual- SGM populations. For example, research sug-
itative and smaller-scale research in this area gests that SGM people are more likely to
fails to adequately account for racial-ethnic and date and marry individuals of a different race
socioeconomic diversity; future studies of all than themselves relative to heterosexual and
kinds need to collect a great deal of data from cisgender people. Due to the lower levels of
non-White, non-middle-class populations to marriage and higher rates of parenthood among
drive research forward. racial-ethnic and socioeconomically disad-
A small body of research on family-of-origin vantaged people in the United States today,
relationships reveals the importance of exam- racial-ethnic minority and working-class SGM
ining race-ethnicity variation. In a qualitative individuals may experience a lower likelihood
study with 90 parents and 90 LGB children (ages of marriage and a higher likelihood of parent-
15–24), with 59% of the sample an ethnic minor- hood, yet previous research has not explored
ity, Black, Hispanic, and Latino parents report this possibility nor its implications. Once in
more parental rejection of their children and an intimate relationship, research suggests that
more homonegativity than White parents, with relationship quality, division of labor, and dis-
children corroborating these results (Richter, solution may operate differently by race and
Lindahl, & Malik, 2017). In an ethnographic class (Moore, 2011), and thus work is needed
and in-depth interview study with 40 lesbian, to address how relationship patterns—and the
gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer youth, predictors of these patterns—differ across race
Robinson (2018) showed how families who and class across SGM groups.
were already economically disadvantaged expe- With regard to SGM parenthood, although
rienced additional instability when a child was the past decade confirmed that children with
gender nonconforming, leading to increases in same-sex parents fair equally well as children
adolescent and young adult poverty and home- in different-sex families, the next decade should
lessness. Considerably more research needs turn to how interlocking systems of oppression
to address what might be unique stressors—or including homophobia, racism, and classism
sources of resilience—for SGM youth and adults at the individual and institutional levels mat-
of color and across the socioeconomic spectrum ter for children’s well-being across the SGM
within their family-of-origin relationships. spectrum. Scholars should also examine the
Questions stemming from an intersectional resilient characteristics of children who expe-
approach may include the following: How do rience these multiple vectors of inequality. For
the interpretations, experiences, and conse- example, an intersectional approach should be
quences of family-of-origin support, strain, used to examine how racial-ethnic minority
and ambivalence vary across race-ethnicity parent families experience increased stress and
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resiliency as both SGM and racial-ethnic stigma adulthood shape educational outcomes, poverty,
as well as the specific ways in which SGM par- and occupational status later in life? Moreover,
ents who have fewer socioeconomic resources virtually no research examines intergenera-
negotiate parenting intentions and parenting tional ties in later life, yet this is an especially
dynamics. important life course moment given increased
longevity, increased stigma in old age for SGM
people, the rising of “gray divorce,” and poten-
Integrating a Life Course Approach tial loneliness of SGM adults. In later in life, we
Scholars have long articulated the accumulating may ask the following: Do elderly SGM adults
effects family ties play across the life course. in need of care have family-of-origin members
Yet to date research has narrowed in on specific to support their health needs? How is the pro-
family ties within certain life course moments, vision of care for SGM older adults shaped by
most notably family of origin during youth and earlier life experiences with family of origin?
adolescence and romantic ties and parenthood Do siblings and other family members step in to
during mid-life. Yet what is missing is an under- care for aging SGM adults, or do chosen family
standing of how family relationships unfold and members play this important role?
accumulate across the life course as well as In the context of intimate relationships, a life
how cohorts and historical periods shape the course approach suggests that understanding
life experiences of SGM families. A holistic intimate relationships in midlife is dependent
approach to SGM families requires longitudi- on one’s relationship biography in adolescence
nal studies of SGM people from childhood to and young adulthood. For example, the tim-
later life, with attention to cohort and histor- ing and dynamics of a first sexual-minority or
ical period. To answer questions that explore heterosexual relationship will likely have an
life course processes, we need more qualitative impact on subsequent relationship timings and
and quantitative longitudinal datasets that trend dynamics. Thus, we need the full relationship
across time, with attention to how age, period, history—including a full history of sexual
and cohort effects may have significant conse- identities, behaviors, and attractions—to gauge
quences for SGM individuals’ understanding of the meaning and consequences of intimate ties
their own family lives. Even if data cannot be across the life course. Moreover, a life course
prospective over decades, scholars should work approach requires better understanding of his-
to account for these important contextual pro- torical (i.e., period) context and cohort effects,
cesses retrospectively. Data should also capture which means taking into account the recent
the period and cohort effects and the histori- legal, social, and political changes including
cal events that shape the lives of SGM people, marriage legalization and high-profile court
including marriage equality, SGM-related laws cases on discrimination (Baumle & Compton,
and policies, and political change such as new 2015). For example, due to changes in marital
presidential administrations that likely influence law, today’s SGM adolescents have grown up in
SGM family life. A nuanced account of these an environment where marriage between indi-
historical events will be key in understanding viduals of the same sex or gender is possible;
changes in family patterns as we continue into a unique position relative to other generations.
the next decade. Yet we know very little about how different gen-
In terms of family-of-origin ties, significant erations negotiate questions of legality in their
gaps remain in understanding how early life intimate ties based on these different cohorts
experiences with parents translate into mid- and periods. In addition, because relationship
and later life relationships. Future scholars may quality changes over time, the next step of
ask the following: How do family-of-origin research is the use of longitudinal data—both
ties change during the transition to adulthood, qualitative and quantitative—to examine how
and do they become more or less salient for relationship biographies (e.g., moving in and
health and well-being? How do family-of-origin out of relationships) and relationship quality
ties continue to matter for the everyday lives changes across the life course. Longitudinal
of SGM long after adolescence and into old type of data would allow for the identification
age? Do adaptive strategies used to cope with of predictors of SGM divorce and dissolution,
family conflict change over time? Does strain articulating, for example, whether being in a het-
in adolescence, emerging adulthood, and young erosexual relationship earlier in the life course
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shape the risk of sexual-minority relationship becoming a parent shift SGM relationships with
dissolution? their own aging parents and family of origin?
Similarly, the majority of research on the divi- Does becoming parents at different life course
sion of labor is in midlife, but we know very stages influence the parent–child relationship
little about the nature of household labor prac- later in the life course, including caregiving pro-
tices both in adolescence or in later life. Because cesses? How would cohort and period changes
the division of labor appears to be related to in parenting intentions and approaches alter
cohort, it may be that younger cohorts have the nature of SGM parenting today? Attention
very different labor negotiations than older SGM to unfolding individual and collective history
cohorts, perhaps due to period changes. For will provide new insights into being a SGM
example, Giddings, Nunley, Schneebaum, and parent today.
Zietz (2014) compared the division of labor of
couples with and without children across genera-
tions including the baby boomers, Generation X, Conclusion
and Generation Y and found that same-sex cou- The number of families with a gender or
ples were less likely than different-sex couples sexual-minority member is on the rise, increas-
to exhibit specialization overall. However, this ing the importance of SGM families in the
gap narrows across cohorts, wherein the division broader field of family studies (Allen & Mendez,
of labor appears more egalitarian for heterosexu- 2018; Powell, Bolzendahl, Geist, & Steelman,
als in later cohorts and potentially less so among 2010). In looking back at the past three decades
same-sex couples. Future research should facil- of research in this area, it is hard not to admire
itate a greater understanding of how and why where we have come from and be humbled by
such changes have shifted over time. Finally, the work that is to be done. As family research
health in later life is of key importance to the continues to include SGM populations, the field
aging SGM population, and intimate ties may will be pushed to reconceptualize the dominant
serve as one protective factor for early mortality heterosexual cisgender paradigm, allowing us
and morbidity. Yet very little research examines to not only better understand family-of-origin,
how SGM intimate relationships protect—or intimate relationship, and parenthood ties but
undermine—health during times of illness and also facilitating a view of more “queer” fam-
injury in later life (see Fredriksen-Goldsen et al., ily relationships of families of choice. This
2016). This research could include a study of decade in review calls on future scholars to fill
caregiving processes when a spouse is sick as research gaps on the broader range of more
well as how relationship conflicts shape health marginalized SGM family ties, include more
over time. Thomeer et al. (2017) showed that gay vigorous examinations of race-ethnicity and
and lesbian couples were much more likely to SES, and develop more robust accounts of fam-
plan for their end of life (e.g., wills, family plan- ily across the life course—inroads buttressed by
ning) than were heterosexual couples. Yet we better data sources across the methodological
know virtually nothing about end-of-life expe- spectrum. These advances will continue to
riences among SGM families (see Marsack & foster not only better empirical work but also
Stephenson, 2018). expand the current limitations of our theoretical
In relation to parenthood, a life course understandings of family life far beyond SGM
approach suggests that the processes of becom- families.
ing and being a parent may differ across the life
course, by age, cohort, and period (i.e., historical
context), yet few studies consider these events Note
in research on SGM parenting. For example, The author thanks Clayton Howard and Mieke Beth
parenthood pathways constraints mean that Thomeer for their feedback on an earlier version of this
article. The author acknowledges financial support from The
some SGM adults become parents later in life Office of the Director, National Institutes of Health and the
than their cisgender heterosexual counterparts, Eunice Kennedy Shriver National Institute of Child Health
but what is unknown is how this shapes parent- and Human Development (R03HD078754); The Ohio State
ing practices and subsequent parent well-being? University Institute for Population Research through a grant
from the Eunice Kennedy Shriver National Institute for
Who becomes parents at any given point in Child Health and Human Development of the National
the life course, and who wants to parent but Institutes of Health (P2CHD058484); and The Ohio State
is unable earlier in the life course? How does University Department of Sociology.
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