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Val Ed 2 Midterms

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Intrapersonal and Interpersonal Communication

 Direct Interpersonal Communication

 Direct interpersonal communication involves a direct face-to-face relationship


between the sender and receiver of a message, who are in an interdependent
relationship. Because of interpersonal communication’s immediacy (it is taking
place now) and primacy (it is taking place here), it is characterized by a strong
feedback component.

 Communication is enhanced when the relationship exists over a long period


of time. Interpersonal communication involves not only the words used but also the
various elements of nonverbal communication. The purposes of interpersonal
communication are to influence, help and discover, as well as to share and play
together.

 Interpersonal communication can be categorized by the number of


participants:

 Dyadic communication involves two people.


Example: Two friends talking.

 Group communication involves three or more persons, though communication


scholars are inconsistent as to the top end of the number scale. The smaller the
number in the group, the more closely this mode resembles interpersonal
communication. Often group communication is done for the purpose of problem
solving or decision making.

Example: University study group.

 Public communication involves a large group with a primarily one-way


monologue style generating only minimal feedback. Information sharing,
entertainment and persuasion are common purposes of public communication.
Example: Lecture in university class.

 Another way of categorizing interpersonal communication is on the


function or setting of the communication.

 Organizational communication deals with communication within large


organizations such as businesses. This is sometimes considered part of group
communication, but communication scholars have built up a body of knowledge
focused primarily on organizations.

Example: Work focused discussion between employer and employee.

 Family communication focuses on communication patterns within nuclear,


extended and blended families. Like organizational communication, this too is
sometimes seen as part of the general category of group communication, but much
research has been focused specifically on communication within a family
relationship.
 Family communication can be enhanced by the long-standing and close
relationships among participants as well as the likelihood that families have
shared heritage, similar values, and social rituals. Patterns differ in
communication between spouses, between parent and child, among siblings,
and within the wider family context.

Example: Conversation during a holiday meal.

Additionally, some scholars identify a category of impersonal communication.

This is a distinction between impersonal and interpersonal communication on the basis


of the quality of the interaction.

 Impersonal communication is that which involves functional short-term


exchanges such as might occur between a shopper and a salesman; the label of
interpersonal is reserved for communication that functions in deeper and more
meaningful relationships.

 The process of interpersonal communication includes several stages over an


extended life cycle.

 Communication scholar Mark Knapp has outlined one useful framework for
understanding the coming-together process. Note that these stages can be applied to
personal friendships, romantic relationships, business encounters, and many other
types of interaction.

 The initial encounter offers a first impression that can be full of communication
data.

 Likes or dislikes can be instantaneous, though many people have learned that
first impressions may be misleading.

 Experimenting is the second step in interpersonal communication. In this step,


information is exchanged on a variety of topics – general and “safe” at first,
gradually becoming more personal and more self-revealing.

 Intensifying follows when the experimentation leads to positive mutual


conclusions that the relationship is worth pursuing.

 The fourth step in interpersonal communication is integration, in which mutual


decisions are made that the relationship is fulfilling. This is the stage of intense
friendships, close business partnerships, romantic commitments, and so on.

 Bonding is the final stage, in which the relationship is sealed (often formally with
contracts or written agreements) and generally is publicized (such as through
announcements).
 Knapp also outlined a similar reverse pattern for the unraveling of
interpersonal relationships:

 Differentiating mirrors the initiating phase but focuses instead on the differences
that people notice about each other.

 Communication likewise plays a central role in the circumscribing stage, during


which time participants in the relationship begin to minimize their communication
and confine it to mainly functional topics.

 Stagnating is the next stage, in which the relationship becomes flat and personally
unfulfilling and is continued mainly for reasons beyond the relationship, such as
religious or family obligation, contractual obligation, or social expectation.

 Overt unpleasantness is evident in the avoidance stage, in which the participants


in interpersonal communication both avoid each other and express mutual
annoyance when they encounter each other.

 Termination if the final stage of breakdown, at which time legal, religious or other
formal contracts are abrogated and the demise of the relationship is announced to
others.

 “RELATIONSHIP OF SELF WITH OTHER PROCESSES”

 A moment’s reflection will make it clear that self is involved in almost all kinds of
psychological processes. Our learning, perception, motivation, memory, all are
shaped by the nature and state of self. One must recognize the fact that these and
other psychological processes are not mechanical. They are activities or functions of
self. For instance, when some one finds self at stake, he or she may put in maximum
efforts. Similarly, we attend and perceive objects and people in a manner which is
compatible with one’s self.

 In recent years researchers have become interested in relating self construal or


one’s idea about self with various psychological processes. In this connection
attention has been paid to the cultural differences in self construal and its
implications for various processes. In an earlier section it was pointed out that these
are two main types of self construal i.e., independent and interdependent. Let us
examine how these two types of construal are related to cognition, motivation and
emotion.
 “Self and Cognition”
 The effects of self construal on cognition are found in a variety of ways. It has been
found that people with independent self construal emphasize on their internal
attributes as important features. In contrast, the people with interdependent self
think more about relationships and contexts. Similarly while explaining behaviours
of other persons, people with interdependent self recognize the significance of
situational factors. Research has shown that situational and context dependent
explanations are used more frequently by the Indian people as compared with
Americans.
 “Self and Emotion”
 Some emotions emphasize inner attributes. For example, pride or feelings of
superiority are often found when some one has accomplished something. Similarly
frustration occurs when the personal goals or desires (internal attributes) are
blocked. In these situations the emotional experience tends to separate or disengage
the self from one’s social relationships. On the other hand, there are certain positive
emotions like friendly feelings or feelings of gratitude and respect. Such emotions
occur when one is in close or congenial relationship with others. Experiencing such
emotions promotes an interpersonal bond. The same is true in case of negative
emotions such as feelings of indebtedness or guilt. They occur because of failure in
maintaining relationship with others. This set of emotions reflects socially engaged
emotions. It has been found that persons with interdependent self construal with
tend to experience socially engaged emotions more frequently than the people
with independent self.

 “Self and Motivation”


 It has generally been thought that the issue of motivation deals with internal
processes pertaining to a person. The ideas of needs and motives deal with these
processes. This view is very close to the independent self construal. All of them refer
to the motivation related to the person or “me”. In case of interdependent self, it is
noted that behaviours are directed or guided by the expectations of significant
others (e.g., parents, teachers, other family members), obligations and duties toward
others.

 Achievement motivation deals with the “desire to excel”. This desire is present in
all cultures. However, it is conceptualized in different ways in different cultures. In
cultures where independent self is predominant this need is personally based while
in the cultures emphasizing interdependent self, this need is interpersonally and
socially structured. In the Indian context where collectivism and interdependent self
dominate social concern emerges to be an important aspect of thinking about
achievement.

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