Val Ed 2 Midterms
Val Ed 2 Midterms
Val Ed 2 Midterms
Communication scholar Mark Knapp has outlined one useful framework for
understanding the coming-together process. Note that these stages can be applied to
personal friendships, romantic relationships, business encounters, and many other
types of interaction.
The initial encounter offers a first impression that can be full of communication
data.
Likes or dislikes can be instantaneous, though many people have learned that
first impressions may be misleading.
Bonding is the final stage, in which the relationship is sealed (often formally with
contracts or written agreements) and generally is publicized (such as through
announcements).
Knapp also outlined a similar reverse pattern for the unraveling of
interpersonal relationships:
Differentiating mirrors the initiating phase but focuses instead on the differences
that people notice about each other.
Stagnating is the next stage, in which the relationship becomes flat and personally
unfulfilling and is continued mainly for reasons beyond the relationship, such as
religious or family obligation, contractual obligation, or social expectation.
Termination if the final stage of breakdown, at which time legal, religious or other
formal contracts are abrogated and the demise of the relationship is announced to
others.
A moment’s reflection will make it clear that self is involved in almost all kinds of
psychological processes. Our learning, perception, motivation, memory, all are
shaped by the nature and state of self. One must recognize the fact that these and
other psychological processes are not mechanical. They are activities or functions of
self. For instance, when some one finds self at stake, he or she may put in maximum
efforts. Similarly, we attend and perceive objects and people in a manner which is
compatible with one’s self.
Achievement motivation deals with the “desire to excel”. This desire is present in
all cultures. However, it is conceptualized in different ways in different cultures. In
cultures where independent self is predominant this need is personally based while
in the cultures emphasizing interdependent self, this need is interpersonally and
socially structured. In the Indian context where collectivism and interdependent self
dominate social concern emerges to be an important aspect of thinking about
achievement.