Module 5-8
Module 5-8
Different cultures and varying environment tend to create different perceptions of the
self and one of the most common distinctions between cultures and people in the Eastern-
vs-Western dichotomy wherein Eastern represents Asia and Western represents Europe
and Northern America.
LESSON PROPER
There are many sources in which you can analyze the perspective of each culture and
country about the concept of “self.” In this lesson, we will look at religious beliefs and
political philosophies that greatly influenced the mindset of each nation or culture.
First is Confucianism. It can be seen as a code of ethical conduct, of how one should
properly act according to their relationship with other people; thus it is also focused on
having a harmonious social life. Thus, identity and self-concept of the individual are
interwoven with the identity and status of his/her community or culture, sharing its pride as
well as its failures.
Eastern Self
Second philosophy is Taoism. Taoism was founded by Lao Tzu. Taoism is living
to the way of the Tao (Universe). However, they reject the hierarchy and strictness of
Confucianism. Taoism prefers to live a simple life. Self is not an extension of family or
community. Self is part of the universe, one of the forms and manifestations of the Tao.
The ideal self is selflessness but this is not forgetting about the self, it is living a
balanced-about prejudices and egocentric ideas and thinking about equality as well as
complementarily among humans as well as other beings.
The 3rd is Buddhism. The self is seen as an illusion, born out of ignorance, of
trying to hold and control things, or human centered needs; thus, the self is also the
source of all these suffering. Life is full of suffering and it is made up of a cycle of birth,
decay, illness, death. It is therefore our quest to forget about the self, forget the craving
of the self, break the attachments you have with the world, and to renounce the self w/c
is the cause of suffering and in doing so, attain the state of nirvana. Nirvana (liberation)-
blowing out the flames of desire.
Western Self
By focusing on the self, they may seem to have loose associations or even
loyalty to their groups. Competition is the name of the game and they are more likely
straightforward and forceful in their communication as well as decision making. They
value equality even if they see that individual can rise above everything else. They also
promote ideals that create 'fair' competition and protect the individual.
Eastern roots are from Asia. They believe that natural world does not follow laws,
it simply 'is'. It is collectivist in culture. It is all about 'We'. Drawn on people's actions and
thought as one. Trying to get rid of the false 'me' concept and find meaning in
discovering the true 'me'. Life is all about unity. The inner self must be freed.
Similarities: Both approach share a concept that a deeper understanding of reality is possible. Influenced
by the notion that there is a supreme being who guides the mankind and provides for all he created.
Believes in the concept of "god as the king of universe"
Beginning of life
Life begins at fertilization. It refers to the meeting of the female sex cell and the
male sex cell. These sex cells are developed in the reproductive organs called
GONADS. The male sex cell called spermatozoa [sing. –zoon] are produced in the
male gonads called testes. On the other hand, the female sex cells called ova are
produced in the female gonads known ovaries. The fertilized egg cell known as zygote
contains all the hereditary potentials from the parents. This zygote goes to the uterus
and continues to grow during the gestation period of about 280 days or 36 weeks or 9
calendar months.
Human Development
At the age of 13, male puberty is characterized by the increase in the size of the
reproductive organs followed by the appearance of hair in the pubic area, axillary, and
face. The reproductive organs continue to grow for two years until sexual maturation
marked by the presence of mature semen in the testes.
For the female, the budding of their breasts usually occurring at the age of 11 as
a sign of their puberty stage. Menarche is the first menstrual period of females which
happens two years after the start of puberty. Hormones play an important role in the
regulation of ovulation and fertility of females.
Factors in development of the physical self
Vaginal infections are more common in young and elderly women and those
whose resistance to diseases is low, like, Escherichia coli which spread through the
digestive tract, the sexually transmitted microorganisms such as syphilis, gonorrhea,
and herpes virus and yeast fungus.
Pelvic inflammatory disease and sterility are also the effect of vaginal infections.
For males, the most common inflammatory conditions are prostatitis, urethritis, and
epididymitis, STD, Orchiditis.
Major treat to reproductive organs are Neoplasms, tumor of the breast and cervix
cancers in adult females and prostates cancer in adult males.
Most women hit the highest point of their reproductive abilities in their late 20’s,
i.e. irregular ovulation and shorter menstrual periods – menopausal period.
The production of estrogen may continue after menopause but the ovaries finally
stop functioning as endocrine organs. The reproductive organ and breast begin to
atrophy or shrink if estrogen is no longer released from the body. With this case, the
vaginal becomes dry that causes intercourse to become painful if frequent and the
vaginal infections become increasingly common.
Note: there is no counterpart for menopause in males. Although aging men show
a steady decline in testosterone section, their reproductive capability seems unending.
Healthy men are still able to father offspring well into their 80’ and beyond.
Erogenous zones
It refers to part of the body that are primarily receptive and increase sexual
arousal when touched in a sexual manner. Examples: mouth, breast, genitals, anus.
However, erogenous zones may vary from one person to another. Some people may
desire and enjoy being touched in certain area more than the other area, like, neck,
thighs, abdomen, and feet.
Solitary behavior
This is common for males but becomes less frequent or is abandoned when
socio-sexual activity is available.
Nowadays, human are frequently being exposed to sexual stimuli esp. from
advertising and social media. Some adolescents become so much aggressive when
they respond to such stimuli.
Socio-sexual behavior
It is the greatest amount of socio-sexual behavior that occurs b/w only one male
and one female. This usually begins in childhood and may be motivated by curiosity,
such as showing or examining genitalia.
Physical contact involving necking and petting is considered as an ingredient of
the learning process and eventually of courtship and selection of a marriage partner.
Petting differs from hugging, kissing, and generalized caresses of the clothed
body to produce stimulation of the genitals. This is done due to affection as source of
pleasure, preliminary to coitus [this is an insertion of male reproductive organ into
female organ]. This is regarded as an important aspect in selecting partner but also a
way of learning how to interact with another person sexually.
3. Sexual climax = a feeling of abrupt, intense pleasure, and rapid increase in pulse rate
and blood pressure, and spasms of the pelvic muscles causing contractions of the
female reproductive organ and ejaculation by the male that last only for few seconds
normally not over ten.
The nervous system plays a significant role during sexual response. The
autonomic system is involved in controlling the involuntary responses.
The efferent cerebrospinal nerves transmit the sensory messages to the brain to
create stimulus and later initiating a sexual response. The brain will interpret the
sensory message and dictate what will be the immediate and appropriate response of
the body. The muscles contract in response to the signal coming from the motor nerve
fibers while glad secretes their respective product. So, sexual response is dependent
the activity of the nervous System.
Hypothalamus and limbic system are part of the brain believed to be responsible
for regulating the sexual response, but there is no specialized “sex center” that has
been located in the human brain.
Apart from brain-controlled sexual responses is the reflex. This reflex is mediated
by the lower spinal cord that leads to erection and ejaculation for male, vaginal
discharges and lubricant for female when the genital areas are stimulated. But still, the
brain can overrule and suppress such reflex activity, when sexual response is socially
inappropriate.
Sexual problems
1. Chlamydia
2. Gonorrhea
3. Syphilis
4. Chancroid
5. Human Papillomavirus
7. Trichomonas vaginalis
1. Abstinence
2. Calendar method
5. Symptothermal method
6. Ovulation detection
7. Coitus interruptus
1. Oral contraceptive
2. Transdermal patch
3. Vaginal ring
4. Subdermal implants
5. Hormonal injections
6. Intrauterine device
7. Chemical barriers
8. Diaphragm
9. Cervical cap
We are living in a world of sale and shopping spree. We are given a wide array of
products to purchase from a simple set of spoon and fork to owning a restaurant.
Almost everywhere, including the digital space, we can find promotions of product
purchase. Product advertisements are suggestive of making us feel better or look
good. Part of us wants to have that product. What makes us want to have those
products are connected with who we are. What we have and already possess is
related to our self.
Belk stated that “we regard our possessions as part of our selves. What we have
and what we possess.” There is a direct link b/w self-identity with what we have and
possess.
LESSON PROPER
Material self
A Harvard psychology in the late nineteenth century, William James, wrote in the
book, the principles of psychology in 1890 that understanding the self can be examined
through its different components namely: 1] its constituents; 2] the feelings and
emotions they aroused self-feelings; 3] the actions for which they prompt the seeking
and self-preservation. The constituents of self are composed of material self, the social
self, the spiritual self, and the pure ego.
The material self, according to William James primarily is about: our bodies;
clothes; immediate family; home.
HOME
Immediate Family
Clothes
Body
MATERIAL SELF:
1. Body is the innermost part of material self. You are directly attached to this
commodity that you cannot live without. You strive hard to make sure that this body
functions well and good. Example is Mariah Carey, she was reported to have placed a
huge amount for the insurance of his vocal cords and legs.
2. Clothes is next to the body that was being influenced by the “the philosophy of
dress” by Herman Lotze. William James believed that an essential part of the material
self is clothing. Lotze stipulated in his book that any time you bring an abject into the
surface of your body, you invest that object into any consciousness of your personal
existence taking in its contours to be your own, and making it part of the self.
3. Immediate Family is the third in the hierarchy. Your parents and siblings hold
another great important part of yourself. What they do or became affects you. When an
immediate family member dies, part of you dies, too. When their lives are in success,
you feel their victories as if you are the one holding the bacon. In their failures, you are
put to chance or guilt. When they are disadvantage situation, there is an urgent urge to
help like a voluntary instinct of saving one’s self from danger.
4. Home is the fourth component of material self. Home is where your heart is. It
is the earliest nest of your selfhood. Your experience inside the home were recorded
and marked on particular parts and things in your home. There was an old cliché about
rooms: “if only walls can speak”. The home thus is an extension of self, because in it,
you can directly connect yourself.
We are what we have
Russel Belk (1988) posits that “… we regard our possessions as part of our
selves. We are what we have and what we possess.” The identification of the self to
things stared in our infancy stage when we make a distinction among self and
environment and others who may desire our possessions.
The possessions that we dearly have tell something about who we are, our self-
concept, our past, and even our future.
Spiritual self is one of the four (4) constituents of the “self” according to William
James in his book, The Principles of Psychology in 1890. The spiritual self is the most
intimate, inner subjective part of self – the most intimate version of the self because of
the satisfaction experienced when thinking of one’s ability to argue and discriminate, of
one’s moral sensibility and conscience, and our unconquerable will is purer than all
other sentiments of satisfaction.
LESSON PROPER
Religion
Rebecca Stein (Stein 2011) works on the definition of religion "as a set of beliefs
and practices that usually includes some or all of basic characteristics. These
characteristics are:
An individual lives in a society where there are many practices of religion. The
choice of religious belief lies within the spiritual self although the choice may be
influenced by the society and its culture.
Ritual
The self can be described as a ritual being who exhibits a striking parallel between
their ritual and verbal behavior. Just as language is a system of symbols that is based
upon arbitrary rules, ritual may be viewed as a system of symbolic acts that is based
upon arbitrary rules. Participation to rituals is expressions of religious beliefs.
Some World Religious Beliefs and Practices
There are different religious with different beliefs and practices. Some of the
major world religions are Buddhism, Christianity, Hinduism, Islam, and Judaism. Excerpt
of some religious beliefs and practices are found in the University of London's Religion
and Belief Guide 2017.
Core beliefs
Buddhism believes that life is not a bed of roses. Instead, there are suffering,
pain, and frustrations. When people suffer, they want to experience the goodness of life
and avoid disappointments. It becomes a habit known as the reactive cycle of wanting
and hating, like and dislike, band craving and aversion. This reactive cycle can be
broken through the practice of mediation, acquiring more wisdom and deeper
understanding, and acceptance of things as they are.
There are two types of meditation practices: samatha and vipassana. The
Samatha is practiced as mindfulness of breathing and development of loving kindness
(Metta Bhavana). Vipassana practices aim developing insight into reality. Acquiring
wisdom is by studying Buddha's teaching, the Dharma. Through the reflection of
Dharma, Buddhist can achieve a deeper understanding of life. Buddhists believe in non-
violence principle.
Christianity
Core beliefs
Christians believe in Trinitarian God. One God in three personas: God the Father
(Creator), God the Son( Savior),and God the Holy Spirit Sustainer). Eternal after death
will be achieved through faith in Jesus Christ. Jesus Christ is, God the Son, who came
into flesh, to spread the good news of salvation. He died on the cross for the sins of the
humanity but resurrected from the death, so that anyone who believes in him will be
saved in have eternal life. The holy bible is a selection of books, which is divided in to
two, the Old Testament and New Testament.
Hinduism
Core beliefs
Hinduism covers a wide range of traditional beliefs and religious groups; thus,
there is no single founder or leader. Hindus believe that existence is a cycle of birth,
death and rebirth, governed by Karma. Karma is a concept where the reincarnated life
will depend on how the past life was spent. Hindus believe that the soul passes through
a cycle of successive lives and it's next in carnation is always dependent on how the
previous life was lived. Vedas are sacred Scriptures of Hindus. Mahabharata and
Ramayana are two other important texts of the Hindus.
Diwali and Navrati are the most celebrated festivals of the Hindus. Diwali is the
festival of lights while Navrati is the festival of nine nights, which celebrate the triumph
of good over evil. Hindus have set dates to honor particular manifestations of God.
Islam
Core beliefs
Muslims believe in Allah, who is their "One God" They believe in the unity and
universality of God. Muslims also have a strong sense of community or "ummah" and an
awareness of their solidarity with all Muslims worldwide. Islam means "willing
submission to God ".
Muslims believe that Mohammed is the last and final prophet sent by God.
Mohammed was born in Mecca in 570 CE and received revelations from God through
the Angel Gabriel over a period of 23 years. The Holy Bible of Islam is called the Quran,
which was taught to be recited in Arabic because any translation is seen as inadequate.
Muslims believe in the five pillars of Islam, which are the foundation of Muslim
life:
1) Shahadah - statement of faith: "There is no God but the one true God and
Mohammed is his messenger".
2) Salat - the prayer that is practiced five times a day.
3) Zakat - the monetary offering for the benefit of the poor. It comprises the 2.5% of
a Muslim's assets.
4) Haji – the yearly pilgrimage to Mecca. Muslims who can afford are asked to do
the pilgrimage at last once in their lifetime.
5) Sawm – the fasting. Muslims do fasting from food, drink, and sexual act during
the celebration of Ramadan s the ninth month of the Islamic lunar calendar. The
fast is from dawn to sunset.
Two of the major festivals in Islam are Eidul-Fitr and Eidul-Adha. The first one refers
to the celebration at the end of Ramadan, while Eidul-Adha is the celebration within the
completion of the Pilgrimage, the Haji.
Judaism
Core beliefs
The Jews believe in the God of Abraham ,the same God that liberated the
Hebrew slaves from Egypt to Canaan, the promised land through the leadership of
Moses and later, Joshua.
The Jews believe in the coming of Messiah, the Savior. The sacred scripture of
the Jews is called the Torah or the Law. The Torah is the guide of the Jewish living. The
study and interpretation of Torah is part of the Jewish culture.
Customs and Practices: There are five major festivals observed by the Jews:
3. Pesach - Passover
4. Shavuot - Pentecost
5. Sukkot - Tabernacles. The Jewish Sabbath begins on Friday evening at sunset and
is an important time when families gather for the Shabbat meal.
Another extensive study of self can be found in the works of Dr. Viktor E. Frankl.
[The following are the excerpts from the website:
http://www.victorfranklinstitute.org/About_Viktor_Frankl.html
He was born on March 26, 1905 in Vienna, Austria, where famous psychiatrists
Sigmund Freud and Alfred Adler lived. He graduated with medical degree from the
University of Vienna in 1930. He was assigned in Vienna Hospital suicide ward and
headed thee Rothschild Hospital.
1. The human being is an entity consisting of body [soma], mind [psyche], and spirit
[noos]. i.e. according to him, the body and mind are what we have and the spirit is what
we are.
2. Life has meaning under all circumstances, even the most miserable. I.e. it’s hard to
grasp but it is something everyone experiences and it represents an order in a world w/
laws that go beyond human laws.
3. People have a will to meaning. When we see meaning, we are ready for any type
of suffering. This is considered to be different than our will to achieve power and
pleasure.
4. People have freedom under all circumstances to activate the will to find meaning.
This deals with change of attitudes about unavoidable fate.
5. Life has a demand quality to w/c people must respond if decisions are to be
meaningful. The meaning of the moment is more practical in daily living than ultimate
meaning. Unlike ultimate meaning this meaning can be found and fulfilled.
6. The individual is unique. This enhanced by the realization that we are irreplaceable.
In essence, all human are unique w/ an entity of body, mind, and spirit. We all
go through unique situations and are constantly looking to find meaning.