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    Bully-Proof Your Kid Eng

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    This document provides information about anger, aggression, and bullying as well as tips for preventing and addressing bullying. It defines anger, aggression, and bullying. It describes signs that a child may be a victim of bullying and why they may not ask for help. It gives advice on what to do if a child is being bullied, including listening without judgment, empowering the child, teaching assertiveness, role playing difficult situations, finding activities the child excels at, and telling an adult. Overall, the document aims to help parents and teachers recognize and address bullying.

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    Bully-Proof Your Kid Eng

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    This document provides information about anger, aggression, and bullying as well as tips for preventing and addressing bullying. It defines anger, aggression, and bullying. It describes signs that a child may be a victim of bullying and why they may not ask for help. It gives advice on what to do if a child is being bullied, including listening without judgment, empowering the child, teaching assertiveness, role playing difficult situations, finding activities the child excels at, and telling an adult. Overall, the document aims to help parents and teachers recognize and address bullying.

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    This document provides information about anger, aggression, and bullying as well as tips for preventing and addressing bullying. It defines anger, aggression, and bullying. It describes signs that a child may be a victim of bullying and why they may not ask for help. It gives advice on what to do if a child is being bullied, including listening without judgment, empowering the child, teaching assertiveness, role playing difficult situations, finding activities the child excels at, and telling an adult. Overall, the document aims to help parents and teachers recognize and address bullying.

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    Bully-Proof Your Kid Eng

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    JustynaBorowska
    This document provides information about anger, aggression, and bullying as well as tips for preventing and addressing bullying. It defines anger, aggression, and bullying. It describes signs that a child may be a victim of bullying and why they may not ask for help. It gives advice on what to do if a child is being bullied, including listening without judgment, empowering the child, teaching assertiveness, role playing difficult situations, finding activities the child excels at, and telling an adult. Overall, the document aims to help parents and teachers recognize and address bullying.

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    The key takeaways are that bullying involves intentional and repeated aggressive behavior that causes harm or discomfort to another individual. Bullying can be physical, verbal, or more subtle actions like exclusion.

    Some signs that a child may be experiencing bullying include unexplainable injuries, lost or destroyed belongings, changes in eating or sleeping habits, declining grades or loss of interest in school, and feelings of helplessness or low self-esteem.

    A child experiencing bullying may be hesitant to ask for help because they feel helpless or afraid, want to handle it themselves to feel in control, fear revenge or backlash from the bully, or are embarrassed or afraid of being judged.

    BULLY-PROOF YOUR

    KID MGR JUSTYNA BOROWSKA


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    ANGER, AGGRESSION, BULLYING
    Anger is a normal, usually healthy emotion we all experience. It can give you a
    way to express negative feelings, or motivate you to find solutions to problems.

    Aggression refers to behavior that is intended to cause harm or pain.


    Aggression can be either physical or verbal.
    Bullying is a form of aggressive behavior in which someone intentionally and
    repeatedly causes another person injury or discomfort. Bullying can take the form
    of physical contact, words or more subtle actions. The bullied individual typically
    has trouble defending him or herself and does nothing to cause the bullying.
    LETS PRACTICE
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    Ola got 1/10 from spelling test and she throw the paper ball in the
    teachers direction.
    THE VICTIM OF BULLYING
    No single factor puts a child at risk of being bullied.
    The are certain characteristics and unique traits that can increase
    the likelihood of becoming a victim.
    The typical victim has negative attitudes and beliefs about himself
    or herself and others. He or she has trouble with social
    interaction, does not have good social problem-solving skills,
    performs poorly academically and is rejected and isolated by
    peers.
    Sensitivity, timidity, low self-esteem, isolation, difficulties with
    making new friendships/relations.
    The victim of bullying can also be a child that is strong (physically

    or academically).
    TYPES OF BULLY-VICTIM

    the little adult - they are extremely intelligent which makes them
    more emotionally and psychologically mature than their peers and
    they feel uncomfortable associating with children of their ages.
    a bossy child" they cannot work in a team, they want to control
    everything and they are very stubborn.
    grind" - they are taught egoism, they have been told that they are
    the best.
    Feedback:
    How do they see me and why? What do they think about me?

    STEP 1: teachers- teamwork, showing strenghts


    STEP 2: parents- playdate
    SIGNS OF BULLYING
    Unexplainable injuries
    Lost or destroyed clothing, books, electronics
    Frequent headaches or stomach aches, feeling sick
    Changes in eating habits, like suddenly skipping meals (kids may come home from
    school hungry because they did not eat lunch)
    Difficulty sleeping or frequent nightmares
    Declining grades, loss of interest in schoolwork, or not wanting to go to school
    Sudden loss of friends or avoidance of social situations
    Feelings of helplessness or decreased self esteem
    Self-destructive behaviors (harming themselves, or talking about suicide)
    Why dont they ask for help???

    Bullying can make a child feel helpless. Kids may want to handle it on their own
    to feel in control again. They may fear being seen as weak or a tattletale.
    Kids may fear revenge/backlash from the kid who bullied them.
    Bullying can be a humiliating experience. Kids may not want adults to know what
    is being said about them, whether true or false. They may also fear that adults
    will judge them or punish them for being weak.
    Kids who are bullied may already feel socially isolated. They may feel like no one
    cares or could understand.
    Kids may fear being rejected by their peers. Friends can help protect kids from
    bullying, and kids can fear losing this support.
    WHAT TO DO IF YOUR CHILD IS BEING
    BULLIED?
    1. Its just a game- ask others

    2. Listen to what your child has to say. Dont ask too many questions. When
    you react too strongly to what your child is saying, he might stop talking
    because hes afraid hes going to upset you.

    3. Empower your child. Lift your kid up by spending some time with him or her.
    Let them know that they are important to you.

    4. Teach your kid assertiveness. Teach your kid how to say no, how to solve
    problems, how to react, BUT: without threatening them (ex. Be careful)

    5. Coach your child on how to react. Practice with them dealing with diffucult
    situation at home.

    6. Support them (remind them of their strengths and past successes)

    7. Find something your child is really good at doing: Help your child feel
    good about himself by finding something he can do well. Choose some activities
    hes good at and reinforce it
    ADVICES
    Avoid the bully and use the buddy system. Make sure you have someone
    with you so that you're not alone.
    Keep calm and carry on 1) say STOP 2) respond in a jokey sort of way 3) Act
    brave, walk away, and ignore the bully. By ignoring the bully, you're showing
    that you don't care. Eventually, the bully will probably get bored with trying to
    bother you.
    Tell an adult.
    Find something your child is really good at doing.
    Teach mindfulness Peaceful Piggy Meditation
    Be an example. Show kindness.
    THANK YOU!

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