This document describes the process of Filipino counseling or "pagpapatnubay". It involves 6 stages: 1) developing rapport through non-verbal communication and assessment, 2) storytelling to build trust, 3) openly discussing the problem, 4) involving the counselor in problem-solving by viewing it as shared, 5) clarifying possible solutions together, and 6) terminating the relationship once the counselee can address problems independently. The process emphasizes empathy, acceptance and emotional involvement between counselor and counselee to resolve issues.
This document describes the process of Filipino counseling or "pagpapatnubay". It involves 6 stages: 1) developing rapport through non-verbal communication and assessment, 2) storytelling to build trust, 3) openly discussing the problem, 4) involving the counselor in problem-solving by viewing it as shared, 5) clarifying possible solutions together, and 6) terminating the relationship once the counselee can address problems independently. The process emphasizes empathy, acceptance and emotional involvement between counselor and counselee to resolve issues.
This document describes the process of Filipino counseling or "pagpapatnubay". It involves 6 stages: 1) developing rapport through non-verbal communication and assessment, 2) storytelling to build trust, 3) openly discussing the problem, 4) involving the counselor in problem-solving by viewing it as shared, 5) clarifying possible solutions together, and 6) terminating the relationship once the counselee can address problems independently. The process emphasizes empathy, acceptance and emotional involvement between counselor and counselee to resolve issues.
This document describes the process of Filipino counseling or "pagpapatnubay". It involves 6 stages: 1) developing rapport through non-verbal communication and assessment, 2) storytelling to build trust, 3) openly discussing the problem, 4) involving the counselor in problem-solving by viewing it as shared, 5) clarifying possible solutions together, and 6) terminating the relationship once the counselee can address problems independently. The process emphasizes empathy, acceptance and emotional involvement between counselor and counselee to resolve issues.
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PAGPAPATNUBAY
(Filipino Counseling) PAGPAPATNUBAY • Is the term given to Filipino counseling.
• The root word is patnubay ( to guide )
• The other Filipino terms can be used like gabay, payo,
akay or even coined words which will connote “ counsel” but she choose patnubay over the other Filipino words meaning GUIDANCE because patnubay seems to connote something deeper like the expression “ patnubayan ka nawa ng maykapal ….” (meaning to be guided so as to be enlightened). MGA HAKBANGIN • PAKIKIRAMDAM • PAKUWENTO-KUWENTO • PAGLALAHAD NG SULIRANIN • UGNAYAN • PAGLILINAW • PAGWAWAKAS 1. PAKIKIRAMDAM • This is the stage when both counselor and counselee try “ to connect” by means of non verbal communication that is developing rapport through non-verbal.
• The counselee will mentally assess the
counselor. Filipinos by nature are intuitive and this intuitiveness will be used for assessment. Can this counselor be trusted? Pwede ba itong makipalagayang loob? Loob is a Filipino concept and in this context is used to mean ‘innermost.’ • The counselee would like the counselor to be one with him and this, he should feel (maramdaman). Although “dama” suggests feeling, this is to be understood in a more basic sense than that implied in emotionality. It is the underlying structure of emotivity ( pakiramdam ) as stressed by Fr. Miranda in his book LOOB- The Filipino Within. The Counselor behaves in such a way that the counselee feels that ‘ nakikiisa ako sa iyo’ and ‘ hindi ka iba sa akin….Pwede mo akong makapalagayang loob.
With relationship strategies- empathy,
acceptance, listening, trust, rapport established, the counselee feels that ‘sasakay’ ang counselor sa problema o ano man ang bumabagabag sa akin. 2. PAKUWENTO-KUWENTO • This is developing rapport on the verbal level. Sometimes the counselee goes around the bush (paligoy-ligoy). Talagang kuwentuhan muna bago pag-usapan ang problema. ( Talaga yatang ugaling Pinoy yaong magbigay muna ng pasakalye ). Sometimes the counselee will start by saying that it is a problem of his friend or brother/sister/cousin but after ‘pakuwento-kuwento’ will blurt out “ alam ninyo ma’am, ganoon din ang problema ko”.
• The number one response on the question “ pag
nagsasabi ka ng problema, paano mo sisimulan ito?” is ‘ Pakuwento-kuwento’. 3. PAGLALAHAD NG SULIRANIN • At this stage, the counselee is free to discuss his problem with his counselor. Kapalagayang loob na niya ang tagapatnubay (Counselor). Kung minsan ay may mga pinapatnubayan (Counselee) na nahihiyang magsabi ng kanilang mga suliranin lalo na ang mga ito, sa tingin nila ay makabababa ng kanilang pagkatao. Ang ginagawa ng tagapatnubay dito ay inaalalayan ang mga pinapatnubayan (counselees) sa pagsasalaysay ng kanilang problema. Sa ganitong paraan ay maiibsan ng kabigatan ang dinadalang problema at dumarating sa puntos na hindi na ikahihiya ito (problema). 4. UGNAYAN • This stage is Filipinong-filipino. Here the difference between western orientation and the Filipino way becomes distinct. The western counselor thinks along this line “ Your problem”. I am to help, I empathize but I don’t become involved in your problem while the Filipino counselor- problema natin, ating pag-usapan, gagawa tayo ng paraan, ipaplano natin ito. The counselor is involved in the problem, perhaps emotional involvement too. It is touching that someone is sharing the problem. 5. PAGLILINAW • Ang hakbang na ito ang pag-apuhap ng mga solusyon sa problema. Gaya ng ikaapat na hakbang, magkatuwang ang counselor at counselee sa pagmumuni-muni ng mga karampatang solusyon. Magkakaroon ng linaw matapos nilang himayin ang problema at bigyan ng nararapat na solusyon. Kahit sinasabi natin na sila ay magkatuwang, ang pinapatnubayan (Counselee) pa rin ang nagpapasya ng karampatang lunas kaagapay niya ang tagapatnubay (Counselor). 6. PAGWAWAKAS • This last step is the termination of the counseling relationship.
• The counselor will end the relationship if
he/she feels that the counselee has developed a sense of self, pagsasarili, that the counselee has become autonomous capable of generated and self-constructive actions.