The document discusses the science behind falling in love in 3 stages - lust, attraction, and attachment. It explains that in the initial attraction stage, neurotransmitters like adrenaline, dopamine, and serotonin are involved and cause one to constantly think about their new lover. Dopamine triggers intense pleasure and reward feelings. Low serotonin levels in new lovers are similar to those with obsessive-compulsive disorder. The attachment stage involves hormones like oxytocin and vasopressin which help cement the bond between couples and parents/children. A study found people could induce feelings of attraction through a 34 minute experiment focusing on communication styles.
The document discusses the science behind falling in love in 3 stages - lust, attraction, and attachment. It explains that in the initial attraction stage, neurotransmitters like adrenaline, dopamine, and serotonin are involved and cause one to constantly think about their new lover. Dopamine triggers intense pleasure and reward feelings. Low serotonin levels in new lovers are similar to those with obsessive-compulsive disorder. The attachment stage involves hormones like oxytocin and vasopressin which help cement the bond between couples and parents/children. A study found people could induce feelings of attraction through a 34 minute experiment focusing on communication styles.
The document discusses the science behind falling in love in 3 stages - lust, attraction, and attachment. It explains that in the initial attraction stage, neurotransmitters like adrenaline, dopamine, and serotonin are involved and cause one to constantly think about their new lover. Dopamine triggers intense pleasure and reward feelings. Low serotonin levels in new lovers are similar to those with obsessive-compulsive disorder. The attachment stage involves hormones like oxytocin and vasopressin which help cement the bond between couples and parents/children. A study found people could induce feelings of attraction through a 34 minute experiment focusing on communication styles.
The document discusses the science behind falling in love in 3 stages - lust, attraction, and attachment. It explains that in the initial attraction stage, neurotransmitters like adrenaline, dopamine, and serotonin are involved and cause one to constantly think about their new lover. Dopamine triggers intense pleasure and reward feelings. Low serotonin levels in new lovers are similar to those with obsessive-compulsive disorder. The attachment stage involves hormones like oxytocin and vasopressin which help cement the bond between couples and parents/children. A study found people could induce feelings of attraction through a 34 minute experiment focusing on communication styles.
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The Science of Love
Do we fall in love because we fall in love, or we fall in love because we are victims of our own mind? We fall in love with…
• 55% is through body
language • 38% is the tone and speed of their voice • Only 7% is through what they say Lust This is the first stage of love and is driven by the sex hormones testosterone and estrogen – in both men and women. Attraction
This is the amazing time when you are
truly love-struck and can think of little else. Scientists think that three main neurotransmitters are involved in this stage; adrenaline, dopamine and serotonin. Adrenaline
The initial stages of falling for someone
activates your stress response, increasing your blood levels of adrenalin and cortisol. This has the charming effect that when you unexpectedly bump into your new love, you start to sweat, your heart races and your mouth goes dry. Dopamine
• Helen Fisher asked newly ‘love struck’ couples to have their
brains examined and discovered they have high levels of the neurotransmitter dopamine. This chemical stimulates ‘desire and reward’ by triggering an intense rush of pleasure. It has the same effect on the brain as taking cocaine!
• Fisher suggests “couples often show the signs of surging
dopamine: increased energy, less need for sleep or food, focused attention and exquisite delight in smallest details of this novel relationship” . Serotonin
And finally, serotonin. One of love's most
important chemicals that may explain why when you’re falling in love, your new lover keeps popping into your thoughts. Dr Donatella Marazziti, a psychiatrist at the University of Pisa advertised for twenty couples who'd been madly in love for less than six months. She wanted to see if the brain mechanisms that cause you to constantly think about your lover, were related to the brain mechanisms of Obsessive- Compulsive Disorder. By analysing blood samples from the lovers, Dr Marazitti discovered that serotonin levels of new lovers were equivalent to the low serotonin levels of Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder patients. Love needs to be blind Attachment
Attachment is the bond that keeps couples
together long enough for them to have and raise children. Scientists think there might be two major hormones involved in this feeling of attachment; oxytocin and vasopressin. Oxytocin - The cuddle hormone
• Oxytocin is a powerful hormone released by men and women
during orgasm.
• It probably deepens the feelings of attachment and makes
couples feel much closer to one another after they have had sex. The theory goes that the more sex a couple has, the deeper their bond becomes.
• Oxytocin also seems to help cement the strong bond between
mum and baby and is released during childbirth. It is also responsible for a mum’s breast automatically releasing milk at the mere sight or sound of her young baby. Vasopressin
• Vasopressin is another important hormone in
the long-term commitment stage and is released after sex. How to fall in love? New York psychologist, Professor Arthur Arun, has been studying why people fall in love. He asked his subjects to carry out the 3 steps and found that many of his couples felt deeply attracted after the 34 minute experiment. Two of his subjects later got married. Don’t find love, let love find you. That’s why it’s called falling in love, you don’t force it you just fall. “Mahal ka. Hindi man sa paraan na gusto mo, pero sa paraang alam nila.” -Ms. Celine