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3.2 The Science of Love

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The Science of Love

Do we fall in love
because we fall in
love, or we fall in
love because we
are victims of our
own mind?
We fall in love with…

• 55% is through body


language
• 38% is the tone and speed
of their voice
• Only 7% is through what
they say
Lust
This is the first stage of love
and is driven by the sex
hormones testosterone and
estrogen – in both men and
women.
Attraction

This is the amazing time when you are


truly love-struck and can think of little
else. Scientists think that three main
neurotransmitters are involved in this
stage; adrenaline, dopamine and
serotonin.
Adrenaline

The initial stages of falling for someone


activates your stress response, increasing your
blood levels of adrenalin and cortisol. This has
the charming effect that when you
unexpectedly bump into your new love, you
start to sweat, your heart races and your mouth
goes dry.
Dopamine

• Helen Fisher asked newly ‘love struck’ couples to have their


brains examined and discovered they have high levels of the
neurotransmitter dopamine. This chemical stimulates ‘desire
and reward’ by triggering an intense rush of pleasure. It has
the same effect on the brain as taking cocaine!

• Fisher suggests “couples often show the signs of surging


dopamine: increased energy, less need for sleep or food,
focused attention and exquisite delight in smallest details of
this novel relationship” .
Serotonin

And finally, serotonin. One of love's most


important chemicals that may explain why
when you’re falling in love, your new lover
keeps popping into your thoughts.
Dr Donatella Marazziti, a
psychiatrist at the University
of Pisa advertised for twenty
couples who'd been madly in
love for less than six months.
She wanted to see if the brain
mechanisms that cause you to
constantly think about your
lover, were related to the brain
mechanisms of Obsessive-
Compulsive Disorder.
By analysing blood samples from the lovers, Dr
Marazitti discovered that serotonin levels of new
lovers were equivalent to the low serotonin
levels of Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder
patients.
Love needs to be blind
Attachment

Attachment is the bond that keeps couples


together long enough for them to have and
raise children. Scientists think there might be
two major hormones involved in this feeling of
attachment; oxytocin and vasopressin.
Oxytocin - The cuddle hormone

• Oxytocin is a powerful hormone released by men and women


during orgasm.

• It probably deepens the feelings of attachment and makes


couples feel much closer to one another after they have had sex.
The theory goes that the more sex a couple has, the deeper their
bond becomes.

• Oxytocin also seems to help cement the strong bond between


mum and baby and is released during childbirth. It is also
responsible for a mum’s breast automatically releasing milk at
the mere sight or sound of her young baby.
Vasopressin

• Vasopressin is another important hormone in


the long-term commitment stage and is
released after sex.
How to fall
in love?
New York psychologist, Professor Arthur Arun,
has been studying why people fall in love.
He asked his subjects to carry out the 3 steps
and found that many of his couples felt deeply
attracted after the 34 minute experiment. Two
of his subjects later got married.
Don’t find love, let love
find you. That’s why it’s
called falling in love, you
don’t force it you just fall.
“Mahal ka. Hindi man sa paraan
na gusto mo, pero sa paraang
alam nila.”
-Ms. Celine

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