Module IV - Building Positive Attitude
Module IV - Building Positive Attitude
Cognitive
Cognitive
Attitude
Attitude
Affective
Affective
Behavioral
Behavioral
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Components of Attitudes
COGNITIVE (Thought)
beliefs about attitude object (positive & negative)
AFFECTIVE (Emotions)
emotions and feelings the object triggers (positive &
negative)
BEHAVIORAL (Action)
reaction toward the object (positive & negative actions)
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(A-B-C) components
The cognitive component (thought) is made up of the beliefs of an
individual about the object of an attitude, This represents our thoughts,
beliefs and ideas about something. Typically these come to light in
generalities or stereotypes, such as 'all teenagers are lazy.'
Importance of attitude
Influence our thoughts
Influence on behavior
Indicate our adjustment
help to organize and evaluate stimuli (e.g., categorizing stimuli as positive or
negative)
presumably has a strong affect on behavior
help to predict people’s behavior in wide range of contexts (e.g., voting,
interpersonal relations)
How + Attitude Manifests Itself
Positive thinking.
Constructive thinking.
Creative thinking.
Expectation of success.
Optimism.
Motivation to accomplish your goals.
Being inspired.
Positive Attitude = Productivity
People Want to Help
Avoids Wasting Time Complaining
Keeps Your Energy Level High
Builds teamwork
Determines your confidence
Solves problems
Helps make good decisions
How to Develop a + attitude
Choose to be happy.
Look at the bright side of life.
Choose to be and stay optimistic.
Find reasons to smile more often.
Have faith in yourself and in the Power of the
Universe.
Contemplate upon the futility of negative
thinking and worries
Associate yourself with happy people.
Read inspiring stories.
Read inspiring quotes.
Repeat affirmations that inspire and motivate
you.
Visualize only what you want to happen.
Learn to master your thoughts.
Learn concentration and meditation
Negative Attitude
A negative attitude is characterized by a great
disdain for everything. Someone who constantly
points out the negative in everything.
A negative attitude is contagious and therefore
avoiding people with one is the best way of
prevention. Once you have a negative attitude,
you will unlikely be able to recover and self
fulfilling prophecy takes a hold.
+ Person - Person
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Smile easily
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Rarely smiles
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Willing to change ideas and behavior ●
Unwilling to change
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Can see another person’s point of view ●
Can’t see another person’s point of view
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Rarely complains ●
Blames others for own mistakes
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Accepts responsibility for mistakes ●
Very critical of others
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Seldom criticizes others
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Is considerate of others
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Thinks only of self
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Look others people in eyes when talking with them
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Does not look other people in the eyes
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Respects other opinion of others ●
Forces own opinions on others
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Never make excuse ●
Often makes excuses
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Has a variety of interests ●
Has few interests
How to have a + impact on a – person
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BE A POSITIVE EXAMPLE ●
DEPERSONALIZE MISTAKES
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LISTEN BUT SET LIMITS
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HELP THEM BE SUCCESSFUL
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HELP THEM DIAGNOSE IT
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COACH OR MENTOR THEM
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DIRECT TO PROBLEM SOLVING
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FOCUS ON BEHAVIOR ●
USE “I” STATEMENTS
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APPROPRIATE USE OF PRAISE ●
APPEAL TO THEIR PRIDE
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ENCOURAGE THEM ●
GIVE THEM MORE
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HELP THEM SET GOALS RESPONSIBILITY
Thank You!