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Asexuality: An Introduction

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Asexuality


An Introduction
What is Asexuality?

 Asexual: a person who does not experience sexual
attraction.

 Asexuality: a sexual orientation describing people


who do not experience sexual attraction.

 Ace: a nickname for an asexual person.


The Kinsey Scale

Rating Description
0 Exclusively heterosexual
1 Predominantly heterosexual, only incidentally homosexual
2 Predominantly heterosexual, but more than incidentally homosexual
3 Equally heterosexual and homosexual (bisexual)
4 Predominantly homosexual, but more than incidentally heterosexual
5 Predominantly homosexual, only incidentally heterosexual
6 Exclusively homosexual
X Asexual

Alfred Kinsey, 1948


The Storms Model

 Two-dimensional map
of erotic orientation

 Four sexual orientation


categories

 Includes Asexuality

Michael Storms, 1980


Who Are Asexuals?

 1% of the population is estimated to be Asexual

 There is a lot of diversity among Asexuals


 Romantic orientation
 Gender identity
 Attitude towards sex

 Little scientific research has been done about


Asexuality
The Asexual Visibility and Education
Network

 AVEN – The Asexual Visibility and Education Network

 Founded in 2001 by David Jay

 World’s largest Asexual community

 Over 28,000 members


AVEN logo

 Asexuality.org
The AVEN Community

 The demographics of the Asexual Community at AVEN


are based on two internet surveys conducted on AVEN.
Attraction

A mental or emotional force that draws
people together.
Sexual Attraction

 A feeling sexual people get that causes them to desire
sexual contact with a specific other person.

 Often mixed with another form of attraction

 Involves a desire for the sexual act itself

 Not the same thing as a sex drive or libido

 Sex drive (libido): a desire for sexual contact


Romantic Attraction

 A feeling that causes people to desire a romantic
relationship with a specific other person.

 Crush: a romantic attraction to someone

 Squish: an aromantic crush; a desire for a platonic


relationship with someone

 Can occur independently of or alongside other types


of attraction.
Aesthetic Attraction

 An attraction to other people that is not connected to
a desire to do anything with them, either sexually or
romantically.

 As with sexual and romantic attraction, aesthetic


attraction can occur independently or
simultaneously with other types of attraction.
Romantic Orientation

An individual’s pattern of romantic attraction
to men, women, neither gender, either
gender, or another gender.
Romantic Orientation

Romantic Asexuals Aromantic Asexuals
 Experience romantic  Experience little or no
attraction romantic attraction

 Desire to form romantic  Do not desire to form


relationships with romantic relationships
others with others
Romantic Orientation

 Hetero-romantic: romantically attracted to a member
of the opposite sex

 Homo-romantic: romantically attracted to a member


of the same sex
Romantic Orientation

 Bi-romantic: romantically attracted to members of
both sexes

 Pan-romantic: romantically attracted to others but is


not limited by the other’s sex or gender
 Goes beyond the gender binary to include transgender

 Gray-romantic: a person with a romantic orientation


that is somewhere between aromantic and romantic
Relationships

 Romantic Asexuals
 Can form romantic relationships with either other
asexuals or with sexuals

 Aromantic Asexuals
 Generally do not form romantic relationships
 Often form close friendships that function as their
primary relationships
 Do not lack emotional needs; their emotional needs
can be fulfilled in a platonic way
The Gray Area

Gray-A

 Some individuals identify in the gray area between
Asexuality and sexuality
 People who identify as gray-A can include, but are not
limited to, those who:
 do not normally experience sexual attraction, but do
experience it sometimes
 experience sexual attraction, but a low sex drive
 are technically sexual, but feel that it's not an important part
of their lives and don't identify with standard sexual culture
 experience sexual attraction and drive, but not strongly
enough to want to act on them
Gray-A

 Some individuals identify in the gray area between
Asexuality and sexuality
 People who identify as gray-A can include, but are not
limited to, those who:
 are functionally asexual and experience sexual feelings but
do not engage in them
 people who can enjoy and desire sex, but only under very
limited and specific circumstances
 people who experience some parts of sexuality but not
others, according to the Primary vs. Secondary Sexual
Attraction Model
Primary vs. Secondary
Sexual Attraction Model

 In this model, asexuals are people who lack primary
sexual desire.
 Some asexuals therefore experience attraction and/or
secondary sexual desire, while others do not.
 Most sexuals in romantic relationships feel both
primary and secondary sexual desire.
 The term "demisexual" tends to be used by adherents
to this model of sexuality, referring to people who
experience secondary sexual attraction but not
primary sexual attraction.
Primary vs. Secondary
Sexual Attraction Model

 Primary sexual attraction
 an instant attraction to people based on instantly available information such
as their looks or smell which may or may not lead to arousal or sexual desire
 Secondary sexual attraction
 an attraction that develops over time based on a person's relationship and
emotional connection with another person
 Primary sexual desire
 the desire to engage in sexual activity for the purposes of personal pleasure
whether physical, emotional, or both
 Secondary sexual desire
 the desire to engage in sexual activity solely for the sake of the happiness of
the other person involved, or for another ulterior motive such as the
conception of children
Demisexuality

 Demisexual: a person who does not experience
sexual attraction until they form a strong emotional
connection with someone

 Often, but not always, in a romantic relationship

 When this occurs, the demisexual experiences sexual


attraction and desire, but only towards the specific
partner or partners
Challenges and
Misconceptions

Challenges Faced
by Asexuals

 Asexuality is not very well known in our society
 Individuals often must explain Asexuality as part of
the coming out process
 After coming out, asexuals may be told that their
sexual orientation:
 Is not a valid orientation
 Does not truly exist
 Is a sign that there is something wrong with them
Misconceptions
About Asexuality

 Some suggested reasons for Asexuality:
 Fear of intimacy
 Have not met “the right person” yet
 Hormone imbalance or problem
 Secretly gay
 Sexual abuse
 Hypoactive Sexual Desire Disorder
 Considered a sexual dysfunction
 Listed in the DSM-IV (Diagnostic and Statistical Manual
of Mental Disorders – American Psychiatric Association)
Asexual Symbols

The Asexual Flag

The Asexual Flag

Asexuality

Gray-Asexuality
& Demisexuality

Sexuality

Community
Other Symbols

AVEN Triangle Black Ring

Ace of Hearts

Ace of Spades

Cake
Credits

The Asexual Visibility and Education Network
Asexuality.org
Q&A

What questions do you have
about Asexuality?

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