American Customs
American Customs
American Customs
of
American
s
American way of life
What is Custom?
A custom is an activity, a way of
behaving, or an event which is usual or
traditional in a particular society or in
particular circumstances.
Social Courtesies
• A handshake is exchanged when meeting • You can smile at strangers; it is considered polite
someone formally for the first time • Use words like ‘sorry,’ ‘excuse me,’ ‘thank you,’
• Hugs are exchanged between relatives and whenever needed
friends when meeting • Make eye contact when someone is speaking to
• Some people may also choose to kiss (on you
the cheeks) hello or goodbye
• Maintain physical distance and respect the personal space of the person you are in
conversation with
• Always ask the person if they are comfortable with being hugged or kissed by you before you
decide to do so
Eating Culture and Etiquette
• In general, Americans eat quietly with their mouths • Generally, Americans have a more casual
closed. form of hospitality.
• Burping is seen as rude, not as a compliment to the • Burgers, sandwiches, and pizza are eaten
cook.
with hands, instead of utensils.
• Americans like sweets!
Etiquette When
Visiting a Home or at
a Party
• Generally, Americans don’t take off their shoes when
entering a home.
• It is appropriate and kind to bring a small gift to the
hostess of the home you’re visiting.
• Americans expect guests to come punctually at the
agreed time.
• In homes, food is usually passed around the table and
each person serves themselves.
Classroom
Etiquette
• Class discussion and participation are HIGHLY encouraged and may
contribute to the overall grade.
• Students remain seated when the professor arrives or when the
student’s name is called.
• Attendance is expected and critical.
• Understanding, not just memorizing class material is important.
• Some professors allow eating and chewing gum in class.
Time
Management
• Time is an American value. There is an expression that says,
“Time is money”
• The work/class week in America runs Monday-Friday. Saturdays
and Sundays are both set apart as the "weekend".
• It is important to show up to class, meetings, and social
gatherings on time.
Dressing &
Modesty
• Wear clean and neat clothes
• Dress in casual clothes during school
• Follow your educational institute’s dress code to
avoid getting called out
• Casual wear is acceptable in most places
• Respect the dressing choices others make
• Do not ridicule or make advances toward
someone whose dressing sense you do not
understand
Alcohol/Smoking/Drugs
• Drinking under the age of 21 is illegal.
• It is a crime to serve alcohol to someone under age 21.
• Smoking isn’t allowed in most public places. There are
typically designated “smoking areas”.
• Buying and selling illicit drugs is illegal in the U.S. If you
are found with these drugs, you may be arrested.
Animals/
Pets
• Americans tend to love their pets and see them as
“part of the family”.
• For the better or for the worse, Americans will
spend a lot of their time and money on pets.
• There are animal protection laws to prevent animal
cruelty.
• The most popular pets in the U.S. are dogs, cats,
hamsters, and fish.
Driving Laws and Etiquette
• Always wear your seat belt when driving and require your passengers to wear
seatbelts, too.
• Honking your horn means a lot in America and can make drivers angry if it
seems unnecessary. Limit how often you honk your horn.
• Texting while driving is illegal.
• It is important to have cash with you when driving to pay for tolls that are
required. Credit cards are not acceptable.
• In the States, you must STOP at least 10 feet away from a school bus when you
see it stopped with its lights on or its sign extended. You must stay at a stop
until the lights are off, the sign is retracted, and the bus begins to move.
Restaurant Etiquette
• Tipping your server 15%-20% is required.
• No tips are needed at fast food restaurants or
for “carry out”.