Lesson 2 - Perdev
Lesson 2 - Perdev
Lesson 2 - Perdev
Developing the
whole person
ADOLESCENCE
Adolescence is considered as a transition from
childhood to adulthood, a passage from one stage to
another (Hurlock, 1982). Puberty which is part of
adolescence has its onset at ages 10-11 for girls and
11-12-for boys.
PHYSICAL CHANGES AND THEIR
IMPLICATION
There are several changes happened and
experienced when you were around 13 years
old, which is the onset of adolescence for
most children. Girls start their growth burst
earlier than boys, but boys eventually grow
taller than girls. In terms of body size, your
height and weight has rapidly increased, their
muscles grow larger than boys, so boys are
usually stronger than girls. When you get
older, your thin and long trunk has broadened
at the hips and shoulders, and you may notice
a pronounced waistline. Your arms and legs
to be seemly in the right proportion to your
hands and feet when you reach puberty
Spermarche is the production and release of
sperm. The boys know this when they
experience nocturnal emission.
Develop a close relationship with your child, and encourage open and honest
communication. Children who have good relationships with their parents are
more likely to seek a parent's advice about decisions or problems.
Help your child understand what peer pressure is. The child will be better able
to resist negative influences if he or she understands what's happening and why.
Reinforce the values that are important to you and your family.
Nurture your teen's own abilities and self-esteem so that he or
she is not as susceptible to the influences of others.
Teachyour child how to be assertive, and praise assertive
behavior.
Give your teen breathing room. Don't expect him or her to do
exactly as you say all of the time.
Try to avoid telling your child what to do; instead, listen
closely and you may discover more about the issues
influencing your child's behavior.
School
For most adolescents, school is a prominent part of their life. It is
here that they relate to and develop relationships with their peers and
where they have the opportunity to develop key cognitive skills. For
some youth, it is also a source of safety and stability. Some of the same
qualities that characterize families of adolescents who do well—a
strong sense of attachment, bonding, and belonging, and a feeling of
being cared about—also characterize adolescents’ positive
relationships with their teachers and their schools. One additional
factor, adolescent perception of teacher fairness, has also been found to
be associated with positive adolescent development.
Family
During adolescence, parent–adolescent conflict tends to increase,
particularly between adolescent girls and their mothers. This conflict
appears to be a necessary part of gaining independence from parents
while learning new ways of staying connected to them (Steinberg,
2001). Daughters, in particular, appear to strive for new ways of relating
to their mothers (Debold, Weseen, & Brookins, 1999). In their search for
new ways of relating, daughters may be awkward and seem rejecting.
Understandably, mothers may withdraw, and a cycle of mutual
distancing can begin that is sometimes difficult to disrupt. If parents can
be reassured that the awkwardness their teen is displaying is not
rejection and can be encouraged to stay involved, a new way of relating
may eventually evolve that is satisfying for all.
Community
The characteristics of the community in which an adolescent lives
can have a profound impact on the adolescent’s development.
Community includes such factors as the socioeconomic
characteristics of one’s neighborhood, the types of resources
available, the service systems within the community (including
schools), religious organizations, the media, and the people who
live in the community. Some communities are rich in resources that
provide support and opportunity for adolescents. Unfortunately,
many communities, particularly in inner cities or poor rural areas,
do not.
Moral/Spiritual Changes and Their Implications
Morality refers to the way people choose to live their lives according to a set of
guidelines or principles that govern their decisions about right versus wrong, and
good versus evil.