MFR Report First Topic For Final
MFR Report First Topic For Final
MFR Report First Topic For Final
GENDER ROLES
- are expectations about peoples attitudes, and behaviors in
life based on whether they are female or male.
LABELLING
-occurs at birth and the first step in
the process of developing gender
identity sense of being male or
female and what the means in one
society.
MASCULINITY
Aggressiveness
Independence
Dominance
Competence
Femininity
Passivity
Dependency
Sensitivity
Emotionally
Language
Is one of the most powerful tools used both
deliberately and inadvertently to
established and maintain rigid gender roles.
The subtle ways we talk about people of
the other sex reinforce stereotyped nag
segregates people by sex.
GENDER BIASED LANGUAGE
reinforces the misguided notion that
men are more competent and
rational than women.
Terms used for a men are often
more positive and affirming whereas
equivalent terms for women more
negative and degrading.
Gender Norms and Family Life
FATHER MOTHER
Typically spend time reading, talking More likely to do the routine care that
and participating in leisure activities. needs to be done on a regular basis
and is typically more constraining
Father often work along side mothers rather than than the time spent by fathers.
doing these tasks alone. Craig (2015) indicates
that the more education parents have the more
time is spent with children.
● It needs to be noted that parents with less education may not be spending as
much time with children because of other responsibilities necessary to meet the
basic needs of the family.
● There may be more time available for children when parents have more
education and are less likely to work multiple jobs.
● Putman (2015) indicates that both education and income affect the time parents
spend with children, with low income parents putting energy into making a living
with little time for intensive parenting.
Benefits of spending time together
● it refers to behaviors that affect how women and men collaborate in the work of
the family. This is defined by Allen and Hawkins (1999) and has continued to be
addressed in literature (Schoppe-Sullivan, 2010).
● As Schoppe-Sullivan (2010) reviews the recent literature, she talks about
maternal gatekeeping. This is when mothers may be ambivalent about giving up
their role as the parent with most knowledge about child care.
Maternal Gatekeeping
She concludes that when both parents are invested in providing child care, the
child benefits. Equality in child care can happen when:
• Fathers take the initiative some of the time, and do not wait to be invited to
provide care
•Fathers do not give up, even if there are signs of disapproval.
•Mothers think before action is taken or response is given.
•Mothers give compliments.
TRADITIONAL VERSUS
CONTEMPORARY VIEW
OF GENDER ROLES
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• A male – oriented culture
• According to Parson’s, in
this modern family,
society required that
men be instrumental and
women can be
expressive.
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—Bertrand Russell
●The words family and power are inextricably linked.
●Power, control, and authority are continuously exercised in
families, and struggles for personal power in families are
exceedingly common.
● Tradition has dictated that considerable power goes to the males
in the family, but women often have more power than they or
anyone else admit.
Power
Family Power
●Power also changes over time, particularly when the family is under
stress. Power has both perceptual and behavioral aspects: The same
power issue may be perceived differently by each family member.
Power in Couple
Relationships
●Although there may be a goal of being equal in power when it comes to
couple relation ships, according to Carmen Knudson-Martin (2012) that is
typically not the case.
●Knudson Martin (2012), a therapist, begins this discussion by stating
that most couples operate under the assumption of invisible male
power, indicating that women listen to and accommodate their partners
more than men.
●There are multiple reason for this, most of which are societal
stereotypes and patriarchy. Historical gender norms are alive and well in
that women take care of relationships and are supposed to be available
to care for others. Men, on the other hand, are supposed to have
answers and are not supposed to be vulnerable..
●In addition. according to Knudson-Martin, men's needs and desires are
often not questioned. These inequities are so common in society, they
are not questioned by couples. Women are more likely than men to have
college degrees. However, those degrees have not translated into equal
pay for women.
According to Knudson-Martin (2012)
• Many of the conflicts that cause relationship stress are struggles over
the power process ( the way decisions are made) rather than
disagreements about a specific issue.