Increasing numbers of American parents identify as lesbian,
gay, bisexual, or transgender (LGBT).... more Increasing numbers of American parents identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, or transgender (LGBT). Shifting social movements are beginning to achieve greater recognition for LGBT parents and more rights for their families; however, LGBT parents still experience stigma and judgment in a variety of social contexts. We interviewed 28 LGBT parents to investigate how they navigate their online environments in light of these societal shifts. We find that 1) LGBT parents use social media sites to detect disapproval and identify allies within their social networks; 2) LGBT parents become what we call incidental advocates, when everyday social media posts are perceived as advocacy work even when not intended as such; and 3) for LGBT parents, privacy is a complex and collective responsibility, shared with children, partners, and families. We consider the complexities of LGBT parents’ online disclosures in the context of shifting social movements and discuss the importance of supporting individual and collective privacy boundaries in these contexts.
Extensive scholarship has investigated technology use among families. Existing work has focused p... more Extensive scholarship has investigated technology use among families. Existing work has focused primarily on parents’ reactions to and restrictions of their children’s technology use; here, we explore the underlying tensions surrounding technology use in the home. We draw on historical perspectives of adolescence and family life to better understand technology’s impact on present-day parents and teens. Through an interview study with 18 parent-child pairs (19 parents; 23 children, ages 10-17), we find a number of technology tensions, including 1) parents’ underestimation of children’s technology use; 2) children’s perception that parents only tell them which behaviors to avoid; 3) both parents’ and children’s poor adherence to household technology rules; and 4) parents’ and children’s desire for mutual attention. We argue that the use of personal devices introduces distinctive challenges into modern family life, due to the limited visibility (or practical obscurity) of personal device use, expectations of constant connectivity, and overly-romanticized notions of family time. We consider the historical evolution of both teenage and family life, and conclude that consistent and realistic expectations around work, attention, and adolescence may help families better manage household technology use.
Parents, educators, and policymakers have expressed concern about the future implications of youn... more Parents, educators, and policymakers have expressed concern about the future implications of young people’s sharing practices on social media sites. However, little is known about how young people themselves feel about their online behaviors being preserved and resurfaced later in adulthood. We conducted semi-structured interviews with 28 college-going, primarily female, young adults about their use of social media and their transition from adolescence into young adulthood. We find that participants recognize archival value in their own Facebook histories, despite sometimes perceiving these histories to be embarrassing. They experience tensions between meeting their current self-presentational goals and maintaining the authenticity of historical content. To reconcile these tensions, they engage in retrospective impression management practices, such as curating past content. They also engage in “backstalking” behaviors, in which they view and engage with other users’ Facebook histories—openly with close ties and discreetly with weak ties. We consider this ludic engagement through the lens of emerging adulthood and discuss the theoretical implications of our findings, especially in light of emerging applications which intentionally resurface digital traces.
The number of stay-at-home dads (SAHDs) in the U.S. has risen dramatically over the past 30 years... more The number of stay-at-home dads (SAHDs) in the U.S. has risen dramatically over the past 30 years. Despite gaining social acceptability, SAHDs still experience isolation and judgment in their offline environments. This research explores how SAHDs use the Internet and social media related to their roles as fathers. We conducted interviews with 18 SAHDs about their families, their identities, and their social experiences. We find that they turn to social media to gain social support and overcome isolation they experience offline. However, they engage in strategic self-disclosure on particular platforms to avoid judgment related to being SAHDs. They rely on online platforms to give off both traditionally feminine and masculine impressions—as loving caregivers of their children while simultaneously as do-it-yourself men who make things around the house. Through creating Facebook groups and using anonymous social media sites, SAHDs create multidimensional social networks that allow them to cope better with the role change. We reflect on the evolving roles of SAHDs in society, and put forth an argument for greater support for diverse kinds of parenting online.
Increasing numbers of American parents identify as lesbian,
gay, bisexual, or transgender (LGBT).... more Increasing numbers of American parents identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, or transgender (LGBT). Shifting social movements are beginning to achieve greater recognition for LGBT parents and more rights for their families; however, LGBT parents still experience stigma and judgment in a variety of social contexts. We interviewed 28 LGBT parents to investigate how they navigate their online environments in light of these societal shifts. We find that 1) LGBT parents use social media sites to detect disapproval and identify allies within their social networks; 2) LGBT parents become what we call incidental advocates, when everyday social media posts are perceived as advocacy work even when not intended as such; and 3) for LGBT parents, privacy is a complex and collective responsibility, shared with children, partners, and families. We consider the complexities of LGBT parents’ online disclosures in the context of shifting social movements and discuss the importance of supporting individual and collective privacy boundaries in these contexts.
Extensive scholarship has investigated technology use among families. Existing work has focused p... more Extensive scholarship has investigated technology use among families. Existing work has focused primarily on parents’ reactions to and restrictions of their children’s technology use; here, we explore the underlying tensions surrounding technology use in the home. We draw on historical perspectives of adolescence and family life to better understand technology’s impact on present-day parents and teens. Through an interview study with 18 parent-child pairs (19 parents; 23 children, ages 10-17), we find a number of technology tensions, including 1) parents’ underestimation of children’s technology use; 2) children’s perception that parents only tell them which behaviors to avoid; 3) both parents’ and children’s poor adherence to household technology rules; and 4) parents’ and children’s desire for mutual attention. We argue that the use of personal devices introduces distinctive challenges into modern family life, due to the limited visibility (or practical obscurity) of personal device use, expectations of constant connectivity, and overly-romanticized notions of family time. We consider the historical evolution of both teenage and family life, and conclude that consistent and realistic expectations around work, attention, and adolescence may help families better manage household technology use.
Parents, educators, and policymakers have expressed concern about the future implications of youn... more Parents, educators, and policymakers have expressed concern about the future implications of young people’s sharing practices on social media sites. However, little is known about how young people themselves feel about their online behaviors being preserved and resurfaced later in adulthood. We conducted semi-structured interviews with 28 college-going, primarily female, young adults about their use of social media and their transition from adolescence into young adulthood. We find that participants recognize archival value in their own Facebook histories, despite sometimes perceiving these histories to be embarrassing. They experience tensions between meeting their current self-presentational goals and maintaining the authenticity of historical content. To reconcile these tensions, they engage in retrospective impression management practices, such as curating past content. They also engage in “backstalking” behaviors, in which they view and engage with other users’ Facebook histories—openly with close ties and discreetly with weak ties. We consider this ludic engagement through the lens of emerging adulthood and discuss the theoretical implications of our findings, especially in light of emerging applications which intentionally resurface digital traces.
The number of stay-at-home dads (SAHDs) in the U.S. has risen dramatically over the past 30 years... more The number of stay-at-home dads (SAHDs) in the U.S. has risen dramatically over the past 30 years. Despite gaining social acceptability, SAHDs still experience isolation and judgment in their offline environments. This research explores how SAHDs use the Internet and social media related to their roles as fathers. We conducted interviews with 18 SAHDs about their families, their identities, and their social experiences. We find that they turn to social media to gain social support and overcome isolation they experience offline. However, they engage in strategic self-disclosure on particular platforms to avoid judgment related to being SAHDs. They rely on online platforms to give off both traditionally feminine and masculine impressions—as loving caregivers of their children while simultaneously as do-it-yourself men who make things around the house. Through creating Facebook groups and using anonymous social media sites, SAHDs create multidimensional social networks that allow them to cope better with the role change. We reflect on the evolving roles of SAHDs in society, and put forth an argument for greater support for diverse kinds of parenting online.
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gay, bisexual, or transgender (LGBT). Shifting social
movements are beginning to achieve greater recognition for
LGBT parents and more rights for their families; however,
LGBT parents still experience stigma and judgment in a
variety of social contexts. We interviewed 28 LGBT
parents to investigate how they navigate their online
environments in light of these societal shifts. We find that
1) LGBT parents use social media sites to detect
disapproval and identify allies within their social networks;
2) LGBT parents become what we call incidental
advocates, when everyday social media posts are perceived
as advocacy work even when not intended as such; and 3)
for LGBT parents, privacy is a complex and collective
responsibility, shared with children, partners, and families.
We consider the complexities of LGBT parents’ online
disclosures in the context of shifting social movements and
discuss the importance of supporting individual and
collective privacy boundaries in these contexts.
gay, bisexual, or transgender (LGBT). Shifting social
movements are beginning to achieve greater recognition for
LGBT parents and more rights for their families; however,
LGBT parents still experience stigma and judgment in a
variety of social contexts. We interviewed 28 LGBT
parents to investigate how they navigate their online
environments in light of these societal shifts. We find that
1) LGBT parents use social media sites to detect
disapproval and identify allies within their social networks;
2) LGBT parents become what we call incidental
advocates, when everyday social media posts are perceived
as advocacy work even when not intended as such; and 3)
for LGBT parents, privacy is a complex and collective
responsibility, shared with children, partners, and families.
We consider the complexities of LGBT parents’ online
disclosures in the context of shifting social movements and
discuss the importance of supporting individual and
collective privacy boundaries in these contexts.