Introduction
Ghassan Hage
(Introduction to Hage (ed), Waiting, MUP, 2009)
Waiting is such a pervasive phenomenon in social life that it can be seen, and indeed
has been seen, as almost synonymous to social being. Pascal sees the very small
moments in which we are waiting ‘for this or that’ as an indication that our life is worth
living.1 Waiting indicates that we are engaged in, and have expectations from, life; that
we are on the lookout for what life is going to throw our way. Consequently, waiting
pervades social life. And because of this, its analytical value does not lie in discovering
that it is part of one social process or another. For example, to examine gift exchange
and note that waiting is an inherent part of the phenomenon would not be much of a
revelation. This is not because of something obvious about the relation between gift
exchange and waiting, but because such a statement can be made about any
phenomenon in social life from sexual relations to garbage collection.
However, there is a set of questions around waiting that can yield fresh, interesting and
enriching analytical material. It comes from asking: what kind of waiting is exhibited in
the phenomenon that one is examining? As John Rundell puts it towards the end of his
essay: ‘We all wait for futures – yet not for the same ones, nor in the same way, nor at the
same tempo. Modernity, because of its multiple worlds and their temporal horizons, entails
that waiting for the future has multiple, clashing and even overlapping effects, affects and
modalities.’ But the differences in waiting are not just differences in individual forms of
waiting, they are also differences in the way waiting is present systemically in society.
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Waiting, for instance, emphasises a dimension of life where the problematic of our
agency is foregrounded. Is waiting an exercise of agency or a lack of it? At the most
immediate and superficial level one can rush too quickly to say that waiting is a passive
modality of being where people lack agency. Waiting at the airport to board a late plane,
waiting for an appointment with a medical specialist or waiting on the highway for a
mechanic to come and fix our car, all involve a large degree of passivity: things are
beyond our control, out of our hands, and we can ‘only wait’ for what we wish to
happen, as opposed to actively doing something or another to make it happen. Yet, as
the many essays of this book amply show, there are many cases where agency oozes out
of waiting. It is not surprising therefore that the question of agency in relation to waiting
is a hotbed of ambivalence. Crapanzano nicely calls waiting a ‘passive activity’2
emphasising that it is something we do, though we can also easily see it as ‘active
passivity’ for a slightly different but meaningful take on what is the same mode of being
in the world.
The multiple and ambivalent forms in which agency takes shape in relation to waiting
renders it as a particularly unique object of politics. There is a politics around who is to
wait. There is a politics around what waiting entails. And, there is a politics around how
to wait and how to organise waiting into a social system. Waiting can, for example,
define class and status relations in the very obvious sense of ‘who waits for whom’
which also means: who has the power to make their time appear more valuable than
somebody else’s time. This relation between waiting and class has been well analysed
by Bourdieu in the context of Kabyle society.3
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Clearly, people’s modes of waiting are learnt socially and culturally. Queuing in
Amsterdam is not the same as queuing in Caracas, and I won’t mention places like
Beirut where often the very notion of queuing does not exist. Here we can note that
there is a sense where knowing how to wait in a queue means knowing how to suspend
competition with one’s fellow human beings. Not all people are capable of this
suspension and a degree of generalised economic well-being, and a minimisation of a
Hobbesian, wolf against wolf, reality, is often a great help in fostering such
dispositions: it is hard to make people queue before a truck with food supplies in the
middle of a famine-struck region. This brings us to the fact that waiting is also
intimately linked to economic factors: there is a political economy of waiting not least
because ‘time is money’ and waiting can be a waste of time.
Furthermore, waiting is not only shaped by the person waiting, it is also shaped by those
who are providing whatever one is waiting for. There is a supply side to waiting linked
to the scarcity of resources and the capacity to offer certain services. Waiting time is
often seen as a key measurement of the lack of efficiency of certain institutions such as
public hospitals, airports, and other government bureaucracies. Sometimes it is a
measurement of the scarcity of certain professionals, such as specialised medical staff
whose efficiency is not being questioned. But too long a waiting time can also be seen
as proof of a dysfunctional hospital, while too short a waiting time is perceived
suspiciously, at least by some, in other cases: such as the time taken for a council to
approve development.
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Finally, it should be mentioned that socio-economically and culturally defined modes of
waiting are not just a question of the disposition of those waiting or the scarcity of what
one is waiting for but a function of the technology that a society can deploy to regulate
waiting. Such technologies involve the compartmentalisation of space and the provision
of a space dedicated to waiting (waiting rooms, airport lounges, etc...). It also involves
‘waiting technologies’ such as call centers organising telephone communications, or the
number dispensing machines that allow people to avoid physically queuing, and with
the help of beepers and screens work to make the process of waiting impersonal and
independent of any human factors such as liking or disliking someone, and favouring or
disfavouring them.
The above should be enough for an appreciation of the rich plurality of the social forms
that waiting takes in social life and the social and political relations that shape and flow
from it. While not claiming to be exhaustive, the essays in this volume, taken together
and on their own, offer the reader serious access to the complexity of waiting, its
differential intensities and the plurality of forms it takes in social life.
But there is another way of looking at waiting which raises a different set of analytical
questions. These emerge when waiting is considered, not so much as a phenomenon in
its own right, but, as a perspective on a particular socio-cultural practice or process.
While, as I have pointed out above, noting that waiting is part of gift exchange does not
add much to what we know about it, examining gift exchange from the perspective of
waiting allows the analysts to start seeing dimensions of the exchange that had
previously escaped them. The analytical power of waiting here derives from its
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capacity to highlight certain features of a social process that might have hitherto been
foreshadowed by others or entirely hidden. Again, the essays in this book offer a wealth
of evidence in this regard. The social phenomena examined throughout are not
particularly unusual or neglected by social analysts: pregnancy, the immigrant’s desire
to return home, the European Community’s struggle for legitimation, Serb nationalism,
social disintegration in Pakistan, the immigrants’ experience of assimilation in
Australia, the expectations around marriage in Macedonian culture, Victorian farmers’
experience of the drought, the politics of climate change, the mobility of Tibetan
nomads and the lives of Californian prisoners on death row. All are topics that have
been examined by many writers. Yet seen from the perspective of waiting, they yield
new interesting perspectives on the phenomenon that help us further understand it.
The essays have been organised into three parts on the basis of the general problematic
that they share and the modalities of waiting that they highlight. As always with such a
clustering, it is partly arbitrary and is only one of many ways of offering some
semblance of coherence to the flow. This is done only to help the reader in negotiating
essays that are, despite their unity around the theme of waiting, very diverse in content,
degree of abstraction and style.
Our waiting is big and small, grand and trivial. We wait for an ice cream and for the
final judgment. The essays in, Part I: between social and existential waiting, aim to
deal with this wide plurality in the modality of waiting, what Peter Dwyer in the
opening essay terms ‘existential’ and ‘situational’ waiting. One is an attitude, a
disposition with no necessary object. The other is social, relational and engaged. It is
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captured wonderfully by Dwyer’s inspired choice of the photography of a mountain
climber, hanging out there, relationally attached to other climbers and intently waiting
to know what to do next. It can be said that this differentiation between existential and
situational waiting marks all of the essays in the volume. During our workshops, the
question of what it means to call a form of waiting ‘existential’ was often raised. Like
everything existential it is hard to determine with precision, but we might want to
convey the fact that for us humans, the very moment of becoming conscious of our
existence comes with a question mark: ‘And?’ This is in the sense of ‘So here we are.
And now what’? ‘What’s next’? This sends us on an endless search for the meaning of
life but it also makes us wait for the moment where waiting ends. Many religions
embody an imaginary moment or space where the waiting ends, whether in the form of
a coming Messiah, Armageddon or heaven and hell. The extent to which social waiting
is simply a socialisation of this more fundamental waiting remains to be seen. An
inkling of this problematic comes in Beckett’s ever so relevant play: ‘Waiting for
Godot’ and the compelling reading that John Cash presents us with in the second essay.
Here waiting is a constant articulation of the existential and the social in the form of an
endless waiting for sociality and communality set in the midst of a geography of
meaninglessness and purposelessness. But if this ‘mess’ is endless, so is the occasional
glimpse of the possibility of meaningfulness and sociality which both highlights the
mess while maintaining human optimism in the possibility of overcoming it. In a sense,
Godot in Cash’s reading of it is a vision in which the social is always marked by a
universal human quest and as such there is something about the social itself which is
universal. Rundell’s essay, on the other hand, tempers the universality that is present in
both Dwyer and Cash’s pieces by historicising the very nature of existential waiting
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itself. For him, there is an important shift in the way we relate to the future, and hence,
the way we wait, in the move from the cyclical, and in this sense relatively predictable,
temporality that marks the religious view of the world and the open ended sense of
contingency that comes with modernity.
The above problematic of the articulation of the historical, with the social and the
existential is nicely exemplified in Nadeem Malik’s piece on the rising reference to the
Imam Al Mahdi in Pakistan. Interestingly for us, often referred to as The Lord of Time
and the Awaited Imam, Al Mahdi is the twelfth and the last of the Shi’a’s founding
Imams. He disappeared at the age of five in the north of Baghdad in the year 868 never
to be seen again, though the Shi’a widely believe that he will return on the day of
judgement. Waiting for Al Mahdi, is thus a centerpiece of Shi’a religious belief. But the
strength of Malik’s essay is the way he shows how the waiting for Mahdi which is
existential in the first instance, gets historically articulated, first, to the more secular but
endless waiting for economic development, and, more recently, to the equally secular
but even more intense waiting for the end to social chaos and a return of law and order.
Interestingly, the waiting for an end to social chaos is described by Malik as punctuated
by moments of normality such as the pleasure of the family gathering that greeted him
on the day of his arrival back home from Australia. This is highly resonant with Cash’s
interpretation of Godot as an endless waiting for a respite from ‘the mess’ punctuated
by a fleeting sense of the possibility of this respite. By emphasising the articulation of
economic, social and existential waiting Malik also raises the issue that has already
emerged in the essays by Dwyer and Rundell concerning the different temporalities of
waiting. This differential temporality is particularly developed in the essays by Gillian
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Tan and Rosemary Robins. But both essays further complicate the picture by showing
that social temporality is also articulated to the temporality of nature.
Tan’s essay is a compelling exemplification of how the waiting of Tibetan nomads is a
fusion of the existential, the social and the natural experience of time. It incorporates the
form of nomadic movement to add further complexity to a waiting that is now perceived
as a mode of relating to both time and space. Robins emphasises the different
temporality that shapes the Victorian farmers’ waiting for rain as they face prolonged
periods of drought that alter their sense of nature and the natural cycle. There is a
remaining belief in a cyclical time where rain is periodical even if irregular, and where a
relatively secure knowledge of what to expect allows a secure form of waiting reinforced by the deployment of farming technologies that create a sense of control over
time and space. This is contrasted with another form of waiting that accompanies
climate change, and that Robins calls ‘biding time’, in which cyclic expectations are
replaced by anxieties in the face of a changing and unpredictable nature. Both Tan and
Robins highlight an inherent tension in all forms of waiting whether existential or
social, and that is present in most essays. On one hand, waiting happens in time, in the
sense that time and time-frames pre-exist the subjects that are waiting within them. On
the other hand, waiting creates time. That is, various modalities of waiting produce their
own temporality that may or may not be in tune with other social and natural
temporalities.
The papers in Part I highlight, very explicitly in the case of some, the relation between
waiting and agency. Consequently what distinguishes the essays clustered together in
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Part II: Waiting, Agency, Politics is not that they deal more than others with questions
of agency. Rather it is because in those papers the question of agency is articulated,
more so than others, to an implicit or an explicit politics and/or a mode of organisation
of waiting. In Monica Minnegal’s far reaching paper, structured around her ethnography
with the Kubo people of Papua New Guinea, the agents of waiting are seen as always
linked to others in relations of ‘attention’. They relationally wait for each other and in
so doing wait on each other. Minnegal shows waiting to be a mode of being attuned to
the others we are related to. This attunement is what allows for a fusion of ‘waiting for’
and ‘waiting on’. Minnegal shows that the different modalities of waiting structured
around the opposition ‘waiting for’ and ‘waiting on’ are themselves the product of
social organisation linked to the division of labour. Making an innovative move
reminiscent of Henri Lefebvre’s Rhythmanalysis4, Minnegal shows that the temporality
and relationality that are behind this mode of being attentive to the other have macro
social outcomes not only in shaping the reciprocal structures of society but in shaping
its temporal structure, that is, its rhythm.
In my own paper, I am interested in the waiting associated with a state of ‘stuckedness’,
a sense that one is moving in life. I also examine the ambiguous agency associated with
an increasing celebration of ‘stuckedness’ as a form of heroism. Starting with the
analysis of queues as modes of social organisation structured around the distribution of
waiting time, I argue that the heroism of the stuck heralds a celebration and organisation
of waiting in times of crisis. It signals a conservative governmentality that aims at delegitimising impatience and the desire to disrupt ‘the queue’ even in the face of disaster.
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Vicky Schubert’s engaging ethnographic essay deals with the social disruptions created
by those who fail to marry ‘on time’ in a Macedonian village. The essay is also
interested in the relation between waiting and social control. Here the ‘waiters’ and
agents of social control are the mothers who see the failure of their sons to marry on
time as a breakdown of the fusion between biological and social trajectories instituted
by society. The waiting mothers appear here as part of the governmental apparatus
aimed at re-producing this fusion. In waiting for their sons to marry they are waiting to
regain their own reputation dented by the failure of their sons to follow the accepted
socio-biological path which translates as a national failure waiting to be transformed
into a success.
The three remaining essays in this part examine further modes of articulation of waiting
politics. Salim Lakha in his analysis of the immigrants yearning for ‘back home’ offers
us a case where ‘waiting’ is a form of resistance. For Lakha, the desire and the waiting
to return home is never simply a passive yearning despite the changing configuration of
the meaning of homeliness in a globalising world. It is an active mode of resisting the
various assimilationist social processes to which the immigrant is subjected in the
country of immigration and a mode of valorising one’s own culture in the face of the
host culture.
Hans Baer examines the relation between waiting and politics in the movements
generated by climate change. Baer shows that political attitudes to climate change can
be seen as an articulation of several modes of waiting: waiting for ecological disaster,
waiting for governments to acknowledge climate change and act to counter it and finally
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waiting for a more popular awakening to the imminent dangers constituted by climate
change. At the same time Baer shows that there are differences between the various
actors not just in what kind of waiting they engage in but also in the intensity with
which they do their waiting. This waiting intensity, he argues, can be correlated with the
degree of power that each group has within the social and political structure.
Finally in Part II, Andy Dawson provides an interesting case study of the way the myth
of resurrection is experienced within Serbian Nationalism. I have noted how the papers
in Part I emphasise how waiting is an articulation of the existential and the social.
Nonetheless, by moving into the domain of politics we have found ourselves drifting
towards and highlighting the importance of social waiting. Dawson’s paper reminds us
that this is not necessarily the case. That politics can be just as much a channeling of
existential anxieties. This is particularly true of nationalism and particularly visible in
the case of Serbian nationalism, as Dawson presents it.
Dawson shows the way Serbian nationalism is structured around the myth of a heavenly
Serbia. On one hand, heavenly Serbia is what every Serbian is waiting for. On the other,
heavenly Serbia represents the end of waiting. In the end one asserts the existence of a
heavenly Serbia in the very process of waiting for it. This is the politicisation of a
‘classical’ existential structure. Pascal also argues that we derive more satisfaction from
waiting for things to happen than we do from the things we are waiting for actually
happening. The moment of expectation is more important than the moment of
fulfillment. This is very similar to the theme later developed by Heidegger around the
opposition between building and dwelling,5 whereby, according to a well-known
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formulation, we do not build in order to dwell, we dwell in the very process of building.
Likewise in Dawson’s Serbia, heavenly Serbia ‘is’ in the very process of seeking and
waiting for it.
Moving away from the political, but only just, the final part, Part III: Waiting Affects,
assembles essays that deal with the affective and ethical dimensions of waiting, subjects
we have not touched upon so far, despite their importance and despite the fact that, once
again, they are already present in most of the essays. That waiting is an affective mode
of being hardly needs proving. It can easily be observed in intense modes of waiting. In
fact, in psychoanalytic theories of the development of the personality, waiting has
always been seen as foundational in the formation of the affective self, particularly at
the moment of separation from the mother or the breast. It is not far from the truth to
say that in psychoanalytic theory the self takes shape the very moment it starts waiting.
This is so in Freud’s famous fort da game6 where the child aims to master the
unbearable emotion of waiting for his mother. Faced with a situation where he is
subjected to a process that is beyond his capacity to change, namely the disappearance
of a desired object, his mother, he initiates a game which aims at a symbolic reversal of
the situation. The process of appearance and disappearance of an object is made to be
the subject of his will. Subjectivity and creativity are here seen as emerging through the
process of waiting for the mother.
Another important psycho-analytic domain for us is Melanie Klein’s observations of the
difference between the babies whose attitude in the face of the absence of the breast is
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in the form of an un-bearable waiting: ‘shock horror the breast is not here. The world is
going to collapse’ and the babies who are willing to wait without an undue sense of
anxiety: ‘the breast is not here but I am sure it is coming’.7 In both Freud and Klein’s
works referred to here, and although they are each referring to a different stage in the
development of the person, the person takes shape through the experience of a desire for
an object that disappears. Consequently, all of these processes are one and the same, or
at least part of the same, process: formation of the self, formation of the other, waiting,
wanting and desiring. Already at this stage we can see how the relation between waiting
and desiring, and the relation between waiting and the other, that is, the affects of
waiting and the ethics of waiting, both take shape at the same time. This is certainly
how the relation between love, patience and waiting on the other emerges in the first
essay of this part by Chris Cordner. Cordner depicts an ethical disposition toward the
other where there is a fusion of both a waiting for and waiting on the other. This is a
kind of radical ‘waiting on’ marked by a form of love seen by Cordner as a fusion of a
capacity for patience, a capacity to both be engaged in the world while knowing how to
‘let go’, and a capacity to meet the other as the other presents itself to us rather than as
we want it to be. Love is also a core ‘waiting affect’ for Senka Bozic-Vrbancic in her
essay on the European people’s waiting for a ‘loveable’ European Community. In a way
similar to Dawson’s depiction of heavenly Serbia above, but with an emphasis on
affective politics, Bozic-Vrbancic, shows how a waiting for a fulfilling Europe as both a
loved and loving object fluctuate between the possible and the impossible. This waiting
for love is also a waiting that aims at weaving the yet-to-be-loved object into a time in
which past, present and future are themselves stitched together to create a loveable
Europe.
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From the relation between waiting and love, Maree Pardy takes us to the relation
between waiting and shame, the immigrant’s shame of non-belonging to an ever
promising multicultural Australia. This in a sense presents itself as the shame of an
endless unfulfilled and unfulfilling promise of love. As Pardy nicely puts it: ‘the
thwarted promise of multiculturalismto belong in and through, not in spite of
differencetransforms anticipatory, hopeful waiting to tedium.’ While for some
immigrants the endless waiting to assimilate leads to a withdrawal from the game of
assimilation and a refusal to play the waiting game, in the case of Bich, the Vietnamese
woman carefully examined by Pardy, the endless waiting to belong, produces shame,
which in facts ends up creating a further investment in waiting. As Pardy shows, this
‘shameful waiting’ ends up being itself internalised and transformed into a disposition
that is constitutive of the multicultural subject.
The last two essays extend the relation between waiting and affect into an examination
of its relation to creativity. In Emma Kowal’s auto-ethnographic essay of the experience
of pregnancy, affect emerges in the struggle of the mother to maintain her subjectivity
as it is increasingly waiting for an-other being to come out of her own body, a being that
is increasingly given a concrete content with the help of technologies such as ultrasound. The essay begins as an analysis of the way the pregnant woman’s waiting body
is positioned between the temporality of the institutions that aim at managing pregnancy
and the temporality of the body. But, rather than perceive these two temporalities as
different but equally linear, the essay moves, with the help of Lacan, to become a study
of the processes of retroaction and anticipation through which the subjects actively
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introduce the past and the future into their present. But in a very creative move, Kowal
uses Lacan’s mirror stage to show how the waiting for giving birth induces a reverse of
the Lacanian conception of the subject as moving in time from disintegration to
imagined totality. At the moment of birth, the woman’s body is experienced as
fragmenting as various ‘bits’ come out of it. It regains itself as waiting ends and the
imperative of ‘keeping up’ with one’s child becomes a new mode of re-centering the
self.
In the final essay of the book, Tammy Kohn gives us an engaging look at the creativity
of two men as they were waiting on death row in a Californian jail. In a way that speaks
to Cordner’s notion of patience above but in an entirely different context, Kohn
manages to give us an excellent empirical sense of what it means to ‘live one’s waiting’.
This, in a sense, is the opposite of the religious attitude mentioned above which has us
always positing a moment where waiting ends and which consequently makes us live
our lives continuously waiting for waiting to end. To live one’s waiting, is to simply
embrace it rather than wait for it to end. The power of Kohn’s piece is that it shows us
that it is precisely in this capacity to assume one’s waiting that creativity takes place.
The prisoners on death row become exemplary of the articulation of waiting as both an
affect and an ethic.
We hope that the essays below, on their own and in their totality, will give the reader a
sense of the ethnographic, philosophical and sociological richness that can be generated
from the analysis of various forms of waiting whether the latter is seen as an act, an
attitude or a social process. Needless to say, the essays, despite their variety, vibrancy,
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depth and strength, only scratch the surface of the phenomenon. They should
nonetheless demonstrate that, as anthropologists would say, waiting is good to think
with.
Notes
1
Pascal, B., Pensees, Editions Gallimard, Paris, 1936.
2
Crapanzano, V., Waiting: the Whites of South Africa, Random House, New York,
1985.
3
Bourdieu, P., Outline of a Theory of Practice, Cambridge University Press,
Cambridge, 1977.
4
Lefebvre, H., Rhythmanalysis: Space, Time and Everyday Life, Continuum, London,
2004.
5
Heidegger, M., ‘Building, dwelling, thinking [bauen, wohen, denken]’ in D. F. Krell
(ed.), Martin Heidegger: basic writings from Being and Time (1927) to The Task of
Thinking (1964), Routledge, London, 1993 [1951], pp 347-63.
6
Freud, S., Beyond the Pleasure Principle and Other Writings, Penguin Modern
Classics, New York, 2004, pp 52-4.
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7
Klein, M., Love, Guilt and Reparation and other works, 1921-1945, Vintage, London,
1998, pp 290-305.
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