Mediated Discourse Analysis in Language and Sexuality Research
Rodney H. Jones
University of Reading
To appear in Hall, K. and Barrett, R. (Ed.) (forthcoming) Oxford Handbook of Language and
Sexuality. Oxford University Press.
What does a ‘dick-pic’ do?
In April of 2015, on the eve of the reauthorization of the US Patriot Act, a law which makes
possible a wide range of surveillance activities by the US government against private
citizens, the television comedian John Oliver interviewed the famous whistleblower Edward
Snowden, whose release of thousands of NSA documents brought to the world’s attention the
extent of the government’s domestic espionage operations. Lamenting that the American
public did not seem sufficiently engaged in the admittedly complex issue of government
surveillance. Oliver attempted to get Snowdon to talk about the problem in terms that the
‘average American’ could understand by asking the question:
‘Can they see my dick?’
The point Oliver is making was that if Americans (American men, to be specific) thought that
the NSA was keeping a dossier of their dick pics, they would be much more concerned about
the issue of government surveillance. ‘Everything you did only matters if we have this
conversation properly,’ Oliver tells Snowden, and, in his view, it is the object of the ‘dick
pic’ (and the social practice of which it is a part) that can make talking about surveillance in a
way people can understand possible.
This example illustrates a number of important issues related to the study of language and
sexuality. The first is the fact that language about sex and sexuality can pop up in all sorts of
different contexts and be used for all sorts of different purposes. In this case, for example,
a clearly sexual social practice, the exchange of erotic photographs, is recruited into a
decidedly non-erotic context – a conversation about the complexities of government
surveillance. In fact, it is the very sexual nature of this practice and the kinds of texts it
results in that, in Oliver’s view, makes possible a productive conversation about the nonsexual topic. In a sense, the subject of government surveillance is ‘queered’ though it’s
association with the production and distribution of dick pics. At the same time, the practice of
sharing of dick pics is also ‘queered’ by being framed not just as a matter of sexuality, but a
matter of national security, and even patriotism. After enumerating the different ways the US
government might gain access to its citizen’s dick pics, Oliver asks Snowdon if, in light of
this, it might not be a good idea for people to just stop taking pictures of their dicks,
prompting the following exchange:
Snowden: … you shouldn’t change your behavior because a government agency
somewhere is doing the wrong thing. If we sacrifice our values because we’re afraid,
we don’t care about those values very much.
Oliver: That is a pretty inspiring answer to the question: Hey, why did you just send
me a picture of your dick? Because I love America, that’s why!
In other words, what this example reminds us is that sometimes what is most important about
discourse about sex and sexuality – whether it comes in the form of spoken words, written
texts, or images of things such as dicks – is not what these utterances, texts and images
‘mean’, but what people do with them, and the ways, through these social actions, certain
kinds of social identities and social relationships – and certain kinds of ‘conversations’ -- are
made possible.
What Oliver’s appropriation of the dick pic also reminds us is that no cultural tool is
ideologically neutral or free from the relationships of power associated with the social
practices it is used to perform. The main reason his insertion of the dick pic into this
seemingly incongruous context seems reasonable (albeit humorous) is the framework of
masculine hegemony that underlies the practice of producing and distributing dick pics – a
framework in which there is the assumption that it is some kind of ‘constitutional right’ for
men to circulate their dick pics with abandon, free of government scrutiny, a right that it is
difficult to imagine would be so explicitly asserted for women who wish to produce and
distribute pictures of their bodily parts.
Finally, perhaps the most obvious thing this example highlights is how much digital
technologies have affected practices associated with sex and sexuality and how we
communicate in and about those practices. Fifty years ago, the idea that a man would send a
photograph of his penis to another person, or that that photograph might be intercepted by the
government, though possible, would have been considered highly irregular. Today circulating
dick pics is a recognized social practice, part and parcel of the way sexuality (and language
about sexuality) are increasingly mediated through technologies like computers and mobile
phones, and the capacity of the technologies to allow people to entextualize their bodies and
to technologize their sexualities in all sorts of new ways.
The purpose of this chapter is to explore ways in which language and sexuality scholars can
address these issues – the issue of action: how language and other semiotic systems construct
sex and sexuality not just through what they mean but through the concrete social actions
people take with them; the issue of mediation -- the fact that, all actions, including actions
associated with sex and sexuality, are mediated through cultural tools, which include both
language (and other semiotic systems) and physical objects like cell phones, condoms, and
various body parts; the issue of identity – how what we do with our language, our cell
phones, and our body parts helps to determine what kind of person we can be and what kind
of relationships we can have; and the issue of power – the fact that language and other
cultural tools are unequally distributed, and so the kinds of social actions and social identities
that are associated with them are also unequally distributed.
The framework I will introduce to explore these issues is called mediated discourse analysis
Norris and Jones, 2005; Scollon, 2001), an approach that takes as its unit of analysis not
discourse, but the social actions that discourse makes possible. In what follows I will briefly
introduce the theoretical concepts and analytical procedures that make up this framework,
explain their relevance to the study of language and sexuality, and illustrate their application
by reviewing a series of studies involving people sharing pictures of their dicks and other
parts of their bodies over digital networks. The main question I will attempt to answer is,
‘What does a dick pic do? By which I mean: What sorts of social actions, social practices,
social identities and relationships of power does it make possible.
Challenges in Language and Sexuality Research
Research on language and sexuality has traditionally been concerned, as Bucholz and Hall
(2004) put it, with ‘the multiplicity of ways that language constructs sexuality.’ Of course,
the study of how people construct sexuality depends crucially on how the researchers who are
studying them construct it. Many researchers in the field have conceived of ‘sexuality’ as
broadly equivalent to ‘sexual orientation’ or ‘sexual identity’, and therefore, much of the
mainstream work on language and sexuality has been concerned with the role of language in
the construction of different types of ‘homosexualities’ or ‘heterosexualities’, and with the
ways people who assume different sexual identities or are members of different sexual
communities use language to communicate thier identities and their membership in these
communities (see for example Hayes, 1976; Leap ed., 1995).
At the same time, other scholars, have criticized this identity focused approach to sexuality
and the kinds of research it lends itself to -- particularly studies of ‘gay and lesbian
language’-- claiming this this view of sexuality is too essentializing. Among the most vocal
of these critics are Deborah Cameron and Don Kulick (Cameron & Kulick 2003a, 2003b;
Kulick, 2000), who have argued that scholars of language and sexuality should focus less on
identity and group membership, and more on the way language is deployed in the
construction of ‘desire’ and the conduct of sexual interactions.
What is initially attractive about this critique is that it seems to redirect the study of language
and sexuality towards a more situated, ‘action oriented’ approach that examples like the one I
gave above seem to demand. The problem with it is that, with its focus on ‘desire’, it narrows
rather than expands the definition of sexuality – or rather, narrows what sexuality is seen able
to do. Making sexuality merely a matter of desire, for example, makes it difficult to explain
what dick pics are doing in a discussion of government surveillance. At the same time, if we
try to treat this conversation as not about sexuality, that is, if we ‘desexualize’ the dick pic,
we miss the point that Oliver is trying to make.
Most important, where this approach fails is in its proponents’ desire to usher the notion of
identity out of the theoretical theater of language and sexuality studies. In many cases, it is
hard to imagine how desire might operate in the absence of the discursive construction of
identity. A man who sends his dick pic to a particular person in the context of a particular
interaction (as I will discuss below) is not just showing what he wants – he’s showing who he
is, and who he thinks the other person is, and he is (re)creating a certain relationship of power
with the other person. The ability to have conversations about dick pics of the type that
Oliver and Snowden engage in is also inextricably tied to their identities, not just their
identities as a television comedian and a government whistleblower, but their identities as
heterosexual males. In other words, by doing what they’re doing with dick pics, they are also
doing things with identities and with power.
The crux of this debate about desire and identity really revolves not so much around how one
understands the word ‘sexuality’ – whether is refers to ‘who we are’ or ‘what we do’ or ‘how
we feel’ – as it does around broader understandings of the relationship between language,
identity and social action. One attempt to articulate this relationship in a way that makes
room for both identity and desire is ‘queer linguistics’ (Barrett, 1997; Bucholtz and Hall,
2004; Livia & Hall 1997), an approach that brings to bear theoretical insights from feminism,
queer studies, and sociolinguistics to try to understand the role language plays in the
construction and regulation of sex and sexuality. ‘One of the most compelling features of
queer linguistics from a theoretical standpoint,’ write Bucholtz and Hall (2004: 471), ‘is that
it allows us to talk about sexual ideologies, practices, and identities as inter-connected issues
without losing sight of power relations’ (emphasis mine).
Responding to the criticism that studies of language and sexuality that focus on sexual
identity run the risk distracting scholars from issues like desire and from sex itself, Bucholtz
and Hall make an argument about the centrality of social identity to the study of social action
which draws on several key concepts in sociolinguistics. One concept is the concept of
indexicality (Eckert, 2008; Silverstein, 2004), the idea that the relationship between the way
people talk and their social groups is not a simple matter of membership, but a matter of the
situated use of particular variables in ways that both signal certain kinds of identities and
point to larger ideological systems. Another is the concept of performativity (Butler, 1990;
Livia and Hall, 1997), the notion that identities – including sexual and gender identities -- are
not so much possessed as performed, and that language plays a key role in these
performances. Like indexicality, performativity is also a matter of ideology and of power:
statements about gender and sexuality are never just descriptive, they are also prescriptive as
they reproduce past performances that have been sanctioned by the societies in which they
are enacted. Finally, another concept from sociolinguistics queer linguists rely on is the
concept of practice (Eckert and McConnell- Ginet, 1992), the idea that the essence of identity
is to be found in localized practices that people engage in in communities, and that identities
and the ‘scripts’ people use to perform them may mean different things outside of the context
of these practices and these communities.
Based on their understanding of these concepts, Bucholz and Hall (2004:470) define
sexuality as:
the systems of mutually constituted ideologies, practices, and identities that give
sociopolitical meaning to the body as an eroticized and/or reproductive site.
And they define language as:
a primary vehicle by which cultural ideologies circulate … a central site of social
practice, and … a crucial means for producing sociocultural identities. (492).
Mediated discourse analysis shares many of the goals of queer linguistics, especially its
desire to understand the interrelationship between language, identity, and action (though its
engagement with notions like practice and performativity), and its commitment to
understanding the way power works in the reproduction and regulation of sexual practices
and sexual identities. Where mediated discourse analysis differs is its focus. Whereas queer
linguistics begins with language, ideologies, practices and identities and asks how they create
meaning, mediated discourse analysis begins with the concrete social actions that people take
in their lives, like putting on a condom or sharing a dick pic, and asks, first of all, how
language, ideologies, practices, identities, and other cultural tools that people have available
to them make these actions possible, and, second, how through their actions, people
reproduce or ‘technologize’ these languages, ideologies, practices, identities, and other
cultural tools so that they can be taken up and used in future actions.
Another way mediated discourse analysis differs from other approaches to language and
sexuality is that is doesn’t necessarily regard language as the ‘primary vehicle’ through which
people circulate cultural ideologies and produce social identities. The social actions that that
they perform to do these things also depend on other tools (such as condoms, computers,
mobile phones, and dick pics). Rather than automatically privileging the role of language in
every action, mediated discourse analysts are concerned with how language interacts with
other tools, especially material mediational means – objects, physical texts, and the electronic
media which often serve as the carriers of language.
Technologies and technologization
By beginning with action rather than with language (or ‘meaning’), mediated discourse
analysis allows analysts to avoid the assumption that we can ‘read’ meanings from texts by
studying these texts outside of their use in concrete, situated actions (Jones and Norris, 2005:
9). The danger of this assumption became evident in early work using mediated discourse
analysis which attempted to address the sexual spread of HIV among men who have sex with
men (MSM) in China in the 1990s (Jones, 1999, 2002, 2007). At that time, urban
communities of MSM in China were experiencing a dramatic increase in the rate of HIV
transmission relative to other vulnerable communities, despite the fact that many members of
this community believed that they practiced ‘safe sex’. So the question the study began with
was, what where the men in question doing when they were having ‘safe sex’, what sorts of
cultural tools (such as public health slogans sexual scripts, social identities, physical places
and objects) did they have available to them to engage in these actions, and how did these
tools either enable or constrain their ability to avoid HIV transmission.
The most obvious cultural tool these men had available to them to avoid HIV transmission, of
course, was condoms, but after interviewing these men and observing their social interactions
it became clear that for many of them using a condom was seen as constraining their ability
to avoid HIV transmission rather than enabling it, because it was seen as interfering with
their ability to form relationships of trust with their sexual partners and to establish identities
as ‘civilized gay men’. Government warnings advising them: ‘when in doubt, use a condom’,
made matters even worse, since the state of ‘being in doubt’ (and showing it by using a
condom) was regarded as more ‘risky’ than the action of unprotected sex.
The reason for this state of affairs was that the cultural tool of the condom had been
technologized in a particular way within these communities so that its use resulted in
claiming and imputing social identities that members felt put them at risk for HIV
transmission rather than protected them from it. The identities they were able to claim by not
using condoms were seen as more effective tools for the prevention of HIV.
These observations serve to highlight some important characteristics of cultural tools that are
central to mediated discourse analysis and its application to language and sexuality studies.
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All actions are mediated through cultural tools, some of which may be material
(such as condoms), and some of which may be semiotic (such as public health
slogans, sexual scripts, and social identities).
All cultural tools make some actions easier and others more difficult. That is to
say, all tools introduce affordances and constraints (Gibson, 1986) into the social
situations in which they are used.
The affordances and constraints of cultural tools are not just a matter of their
inherent material or semiotic qualities, but are also a function of the kinds of
social practices and social identities that have adhered to these tools over the
course of the multiple social actions they have been appropriated into over time
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and they ways, through their use, they become associated with other tools within
larger ‘toolboxes’ which might be called ‘Discourses’ (Gee, 2011) or ‘ideologies’.
This process by which the affordances and constraints of cultural tools become
refined and fixed over time is called technologization (Jones, 2002, 2016; Scollon,
2001).
The affordance and constraints of any cultural tool are not wholly determinative
of how it can be used; social actors exercise considerable creativity in ‘bending’
and ‘blending’ tools with other tools in order to make them more suitable for
accomplishing particular actions, and these creative adaptations can sometimes
result in tools being technologized in new ways. A key concern of mediated
discourse analysis is the ‘tension between the mediational means as provided in
the sociocultural setting and the unique contextualized use of these means in
carrying out particular concrete actions’ (Wertsch, 1994: 205).
The most important point here -- and the point at which mediated discourse dovetails with the
aspiration of queer linguistics not to ‘lose sight of power relations’-- is the fact that cultural
tools are not ideologically neutral: they are ‘carriers of social, cultural, and historical
formations’ (Norris and Jones, 2005: 49). Every time somebody appropriates a particular
tool, they are invoking the history of its use, situating themselves within a particular
Discourse, and claiming for themselves certain identities associated with that Discourse. In
this way, it is through the gradual technologization of cultural tools – even ‘mundane’ tools
like condoms and telephones – within particular communities and societies that the
ideologies governing these communities and societies are produced and reproduced and the
identities and relationships that constitute these communities and societies are formed. Thus,
the action using a condom or of not using one is a crucial site at which certain ideas about
‘being gay’ (or being ‘Chinese’ or being ‘civilized’) are worked out.
Whereas many other approaches to language and power are interested in how ideologies and
identities operate upon speakers, and how evidence of this operation can be uncovered in
people’s texts and utterances (see for example Fairclough, 1992), mediated discourse analysis
is interested in how people themselves contribute to the production of ideologies and
identities through their everyday actions and the ongoing technologization of cultural tools
that these actions entail. It recognizes that the solution to larger problems of power,
inequality and social vulnerability often lie in our attempts to grapple with more concrete,
situated problems like how to get our sexual partner to use a condom, for it is through these
mundane, situated actions that we build (and transform) our social worlds moment by
moment.
Mediation, Entextualization and Display
It should be clear from the example in the last section, that mediated discourse analysis views
all sexual activity as mediated. Having sex (not to mention, ‘having sexuality) depends upon
people having access to certain cultural tools. Some of these tools are material, like condoms
and hotel rooms and sexy underwear, and some are semiotic, like seductive talk, sexual
scripts, and sexual roles, and these tools may be appropriated into sexual interactions at
strategic moments. A condom, for example, can facilitate a sexual encounter in all sorts of
ways—not just in preventing STDs; It can make someone a more desirable or less desirable
partner, for example, or it can signal in the ongoing course of a sexual interaction that a
certain stage has been reached; it can function as a question, or an invitation, or a warning,
depending on the local situational context and the broader sociocultural environment in
which it is introduced. Furthermore, because all ‘mediational means’ appropriated to ‘do’ sex
embody different affordances and constraints and carry the histories of their past use, sex is
always a site for the technologization of social practices and social identities and for the
production and reproduction of ideologies and Discourses.
Nowadays, advances in information communication technologies have made available a
whole new array of tools through which sex and sexuality can be mediated, and thus have
made possible a whole new array of social actions that count as ‘sex’, including ‘phone sex’
(Stone, 1996), ‘sexting’ (Hasinoff, 2012), and text-based and televideo cybersex (Waskul,
1994). These new tools affect not just the way people conduct digitally mediated sexual
interactions, but also how they conduct sexual interactions offline as well. Race (2015:271)
goes so far as to argue that computers and mobile phones have given rise to ‘a historically
distinctive way of arranging erotic and intimate life,’ a new ‘infrastructure of intimacy’ with
unique ‘erotic, social and communal potentials.’ It goes without saying that understanding
how these new tools affect the kinds of actions people can take around sex and sexuality, the
kinds of identities they can claim, and the kinds of ideologies they can promote is of great
interest to mediated discourse analysts.
One of the most important characteristics of communication technologies (and one that is
especially relevant when it comes to sex) is that they not only serve as mediational means in
their own right, affecting who can communicate with whom, where and when, and using
what semiotic modes (Jones, 2005, 2016), but they also serve as means through which other
cultural tools can be ‘manufactured’ though the process of recoding and preserving people’s
words and actions. Information communication technologies belong to a special class of
technologies that might be called ‘technologies of entextualization’ (among which we can
include pens, paint brushes, printing presses, and cameras, as well as computers and
smartphones) (Jones 2009). The ‘texts’ that are produced as a result of using communication
technologies can come to be used and technologized within the interactions in which they are
created, or they can also be recontextualized into different interactions to take actions that
may be quite foreign to the ways they were used in their original contexts. A somewhat ironic
example of this is pointed out by Hasinoff (2012: 450), who observes that although
consensual sex between two 17-year-olds is legal in most states, by sharing texts and images
in the context of computer mediated sexting, these teenagers are violating the law against
producing and distributing ‘child pornography’. The problem is not the actions they are
engaged in when they are ‘sexting’; it is the entextualization of those actions that come as a
byproduct of using the communication technology to perform them.
One of the main consequences of new communication technologies, then, is that they allow
people to entextualize their bodies and bodily actions in new ways, and then to use these
representations of their bodies to take social actions, one of the most common manifestations
of this affordance being the ‘dick pic’. The production and distribution of dick pics and other
representations of the body is the subject of a number of studies using tools from mediated
discourse analysis. One of these studies explores the exchange of images in the context of
text based communication in a gay chatroom (Jones, 2005), another the regulation of access
to images in the context of gay dating sites like Gaydar (Jones, 2012), and a third the way
gay men who engage in televideo cybersex (or ‘cam sex’) use the affordances of the
technology to regulate the way they reveal and conceal different parts of their bodies in the
course of the interaction (Jones, 2008).
Like the study on the use of condoms by gay men in China described above, these studies
reveal that the way people use cultural tools in the course of sexual interaction can be
complex and sometimes unexpected, and that these uses serve not just to perform social
actions at the local level, but also to link these actions to broader ideologies about sex and
sexuality. Just as a condom is never just a condom, a dick pic is never just at dick pic.
When gay men exchange photos of themselves in text based chatrooms, for example, whether
these be photos of their penises, their torsos, their faces, or any other part of their bodies, they
use these images to accomplish a range of different social actions. One of the most important,
of course, is managing the negotiation of mutual attraction: they want to see what their
partner looks like before meeting up. At the same time, the images they exchange also serve
as a means for them to manage difficult issues of disclosure and anonymity when chatting
with strangers: one reason a man might choose to send a dick pic might be to avoid (or delay)
sending a picture of his face, which, obviously entails much more risk. In this regard, one of
the key affordances of the dick pic in this context is that it allows for an incremental
disclosure of identity: men these contexts often offer their bodies ‘a piece at a time’ as they
gradually negotiate their relationships. Finally, in the course of these negotiations, the
exchange of pictures serves as means of regulating a ‘code of reciprocity’ whereby the offer
of a particular kind of picture opens a slot for the exchange of a similar kind of picture from
the other party, and the kind of picture offered (whether it be a ‘dick pic’ or a ‘face pic’) can
signal the direction in which the relationship is headed. In many of these encounters, then, a
key site for the establishment of mutual trust and the exercise of power is on the micro level
of conversational management as men vie to avoid being the first to offer a picture or work to
ensure that their offer of a picture will be reciprocated.
A similar phenomenon is seen in televideo cybersex, where pointing one’s camera at
different parts of one’s body acts as a way not just to entice and stimulate one’s partner, but
also to manage one’s identity and regulate locally produced power dynamics. Participants in
such encounters, for example, often take pains to make sure that when they offer a display of
a particular body part (their penis or their face) that their interlocutor offers a reciprocal
display (see excerpts 1-3).
Excerpt 1
Excerpt 3
A: show dick?
Wow nice
B: show yours
mmm
A: wanna show face (displaying torso)
B: together (displaying torso)
A: ok
B: ready? (moving camera slowly upwards)
A: (moves camera upward to reveal face)
ok thanks (quickly moves camera downward
to display torso)
B: (moves camera downward to display torso)
ur cute
A: really?
B: yeah
Excerpt 2
A: you hard
down there?
B: LIKE A ROCK
A: lemme c
B: u hard?
From Jones 2008: 465
Looking so closely at the way people negotiate the moment by moment exchange of images
of their penis online may, on one level, seem trivial given the important issues of
maginalization and institutional discrimination that scholars of language and sexuality need
to deal with. It is, however, through these careful negotiations of discourse identities
(Scollon, 1996) that broader social identities and social relationships are constituted. When
and how one displays one’s penis in such interactions serves to construct the owners of those
penises having certain moral characteristics (like trustworthiness), of being qualified to take
on certain techologized sex roles (like ‘top’ or ‘bottom’), and of being the kinds of people
you might imagine having a certain kind of relationship with. As one of the participants in
Jones (2005) put it:
I like to see the person’s face when I chat on cam. If we get along, we might meet up for
real later on. On the other hand, I would never show my face if I am having cybersex.
It’s too embarrassing. And I won’t meet up with someone who is willing to do that kind
of thing on cam. (88)
Often in studies of language and sexuality when we speak of power, we think of it on the
macro level, in terms of things like institutional discrimination or gender based hegemony,
Examining sex and sexuality at the level of the situated social action, on the other hand,
allows us to observe how power manifests in the moment by moment claims and imputations
of identity that people engage in when they appropriate cultural tools. Since these tools (and
the identities claimed through them) always index larger ‘toolkits’ (Discourses), mediated
discourse analysis give us a way of seeing how micro operations of power are always related
to macro (societal, institutional) relations of power.
This relationship between the deployment of digital images and the management of social
identities has also been observed in more recent studies of mobile ‘hookup apps’ like Grindr,
and although these studies do not make explicit use of mediated discourse analysis, many of
them share a similar perspective on the importance of examining how mediational means
make particular kinds of social interactions, social relationships and social identities possible.
Race (2015), for example, focuses on ‘how electronic devices and software …mediate the
sexual encounter in new ways; making certain activities, relations, and practices possible
while obviating others.’ The way people deploy photos using ‘hookup apps’, he observes,
serves not just to attract certain kinds of sexual partners, but also helps to construct the
infrastructure for sexual encounters people have once they meet up in ‘real life’. Similarly,
Blackwell and her colleagues (2014) examine how users of gay hookup apps use photos as
cues to signal particular interactional intentions, and Tazallis (2015) describes how pictures
sometimes operate as conversational moves in ‘gamified’ interactions that facilitate not just
hookups but also a kind of ‘pornified’ identity play in which ‘deeply inscribed (racial, bodily,
gender, class) hierarchies within the gay male community’ are rehearsed and reinscribed
(767).
Nowhere, however, is the power dimension of image sharing more obvious than in studies of
how heterosexual adolescents exchange pictures of themselves while ‘sexting’. The most
important thing these studies reveal is that ‘sexing’ is not just about sex, and that, like the gay
men in the studies described above, teenagers accomplish a range of social actions through
producing and exchanging sexy pictures of themselves. Hasinoff (2012), for example, regards
sexting as a form of ‘media production’ through which adolescent girls manage their social
relationships with peers of both genders and engage in often creative forms of identity play,
which sometimes serve to challenge or critiques media portrayals of women. Examining the
sharing of sexy images on the more micro level, Ringrose and her colleagues (Ringrose,
2011; Ringrose and Harvey, 2015) describe how the management of requests by boys of
images of girls’ breasts involves complex claims and imputations of identity through which
girls need to negotiate the fine line between being seen as desirable and being seen as a ‘slut’,
and how, in such contexts, the identity of ‘slut’ itself can take on a new ‘exchange value’,
signaling sexually confidence, experience and knowingness. So, while girls in these
interactions are, as Ringrose (2011:111), citing Gill (2008), puts it ‘under pressures to
visually display and perform a new “compulsory” “disciplinary technology of sexy” (Gill,
2008), the material technologies of mobile phones seem to give them opportunities to, to
some degree, disrupt this discipline and the relationships of power it entails.
At the same time, in nearly all studies of adolescent sexting there is overwhelming evidence
that the way images of different body parts are regarded reproduces well established gender
based stereotypes and hierarchies. As Salter (2015) observes, images of the exposed female
body almost always expose their producers to ‘pejorative ascriptions of sexual promiscuity’,
regardless of the contexts in which these images are produced and exchanged, while images
of the male body are rarely subject to such ascription; at the same time, males use images of
their bodies (and images of the female bodies they have gained access to) in more aggressive
ways, for example as tools for sexual harassment or as emblems of conquest. Ringrose and
her colleagues (Ringrose et al., 2013), for example, observe how images of girls’ bodies
function in a competitive system of peer ‘ratings’ in which boys could gain value by tagging,
collecting and showing images they claimed were sent to them by the girl.
Rogue Tools, Revenge Porn and Masculinity
What this last point makes clear is that the most dangerous thing about the entextualization of
the body that digital media make possible is that once these images have been produced and
exchanged, producers often lose control over the way the way they are distributed, the
contexts into which they are introduced, and the social actions they are used to take. This is
the point often made by educational materials that warn girls against sexting, lest the images
they produce ‘go viral’ and ruin their reputations (see for example Child Exploitation and
Online Protection Centre, 2011). This is also the point that Oliver makes in his humorous
tirade about the NSA keeping dossiers of citizen’s dick pics (though the social consequences
of this for producers of such images are much less clear).
The most dramatic example of sexy images being used for purposes for which they were not
originally intended is revenge porn, the practice of people distributing – often via websites
dedicated to this purpose -- intimate images and videos of other people, usually former
lovers, without their consent, in order to exact vengeance for perceived wrongs. On such sites
photos and videos are generally posted with the full names of the person pictured along with
a short narrative about why that person has been exposed, accounts which usually attempt to
position the poster as the true victim. Excepts 4 and 5, show two such narratives from the
website Myex.com.
Excerpt 4
I considered her a friend and we hooked up
a few times. Long story
short....whore took a couple hundred from
my wallet and my HSA card. Haven't seen
her since. Everything she told me was a lie.
From Myex.com, quoted in Jones, 2016
Excerpt 5
When she was my girlfriend, I didn't knew
she had 4 other boyfriends. I wish she is
dead. I really, really loved her, like I've
never loved anyone else in this miserable
worl. She obliderated my heart.
In such contexts, the most obvious social action that these images are being used to perform
is what Tannenbaum (2015) calls ‘slut shaming’. This action is made possible, however, not
just through the exposure of intimate photographs, but through the technologization of the
identity of the ‘slut’ using an array of discursive tools, including master narratives of moral
turpitude which stories like those cited above invoke, and a collection of gendered terms of
abuse. For example, in a corpus of 500 revenge porn stories collected about women whose
pictures had been uploaded to Myex.com (Jones, 2016), the most frequent words used to
describe these women were ‘bitch’, ‘slut’, and ‘whore’. At the same time, a similar corpus
from the (much smaller) section of the site where pictures of men were uploaded, contained
few specific terms of abuse. Instead, stories about men focused on what they had done -- like
‘lie’ and ‘cheat’ and ‘fuck’. When they were labeled, it was with more innocuous terms like
‘guy’, ‘cheater’, ‘player’, or, at worst, ‘asshole’. Of course this double standard should not be
surprising, reflecting as it does broader discursive practices of gendered labeling. The
important point here is that these images themselves are not intrinsically ‘shameful’, and
indeed, in contexts in which they were originally produced made very different kinds of
social actions and different kinds of social identities possible both for the people depicted in
them and the people that they shared them with. When they are reappropriated into
Myex.com, therefore, they are not just recontextualied, they are also retechnologized, brought
into a relationship with a new set of cultural tools and becoming part of a different Discourse.
It would be a mistake, however, to think that people who upload pictures of their ex-lovers on
revenge porn sites are just ‘taking revenge’, just as it is a mistake to think that adolescent
sexing is just about sex. Within the context of these sites, these images are used to
accomplish a variety of social actions among the users of the site, including claiming
identities for themselves as both victims and ‘victors’, performing masculinity, competing for
social status, and engaging in homosocial bonding through sexual storytelling and the sharing
of pornography (Flood, 2008).
The range these of activities becomes clear when one examines the comments sections of
Myex.com, where visitors discuss the images that have been uploaded and the stories
attached to them. What is interesting about these discussions is that, while they are replete
with (mostly abusive) assessments of the people depicted in the images, they are also full of
(mostly abusive) assessments of the original posters of these images, assessments regarding
the quality of their images, their choice of sexual partners, and their own role in bringing
about their alleged victimhood. Most of these assessments involve the same degree of name
calling to which the women in the images are subjected, comments such as: ‘op [original
poster] is a fucktard,’ ‘op is an asshole,’ ‘op is a dick sucking homo,’ and ‘op should jump off
the nearest cliff.’
One of the ironies of ‘taking revenge’ though exposing sexy images of a former partner is
that often such images also depict the poster himself, and so by exposing their victims,
posters also end up exposing themselves, and it is these acts of exposure that are among the
most frequent targets of abuse from commenters, abuse which takes the form of remarks like
‘aw you got a baby dick son how do you manage to sleep with anyone with that? and small
pathetic cock?’ and ‘hahahaha first thing I saw was your cock and it’s small.’ And so, even in
the context of shaming their ex-girlfriends and trading porn, these men are also engaged in
the action of exchanging dick pics, and subject to the claims and imputation of social identity,
and to the invocations of broader Discourses of masculinity this entails.
Conclusion: Sexuality and the Technologization of the Body
Sexuality emerges through a process of making our bodies (and parts of our bodies)
meaningful in the ongoing negotiation of social interaction. This process is made possible by
the range of cultural tools that our societies make available to us, which include both semiotic
tools like narratives, forms of address, terms of abuse and conversational gambits, and
material tools like condoms, computers and dick pics. The way we use these tools to take
actions ends up both determining the kinds of identities we can claim for ourselves and
impute on others, identities like ‘gay man’ and ‘slut’, and recreating broader social values
and expectations about what kinds of people ought to be able to take what kinds of actions in
particular social contexts.
In a recent article in First Monday, Nishant Shah (2015) claims that on the internet we are all
sluts, that there is something inherent in the affordances of digital technologies for ‘exposure,
repetition, sharing, replication, and uncontrolled proliferation’ that reconfigures our bodies
and our genders. ‘To be digital’, she says, ‘is to be slutty’. If this is the case, she goes on, the
important question to ask is: ‘Why are only certain kinds of slutty bodies punished?’ What
are the discursive mechanisms though which slutty identities are policed, contained,
challenged and ascribed?
One way to answer this question is to begin with the broader Discourses and ideologies of
gender and sexuality that operate in a particular society and explore how they are reproduced
in people’s language and in their practices. Mediated discourse analysis offers another way of
going about answering this question, by focusing on the ways identities are claimed and
imputed through the moment by moment concrete social actions people take using the range
of cultural tools, both material and semiotic their societies make available to them.
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