Pakistaniaat: A Journal of Pakistan Studies Vol. 6 (2018)
Fall in Love
(Short Story)
By Sonia Irum
We understood each other, and understanding is addictive.
My room is scattered with my half-finished articles. I know I
never read enough to be able to write well. Sometimes I feel all the
important things in life are half finished. I think they are beautiful that
way. They would lose their charm if achieved. Perhaps that is why
you loved me; I was never enough and there was always something to
explore like an addiction.
I get up and start collecting the article papers from the floor
laced with university papers; the messy floor, your voice echoes in
my ears, “I want you here with me. It’s a beautiful feeling to see the
person you love lying beside you, breathing: I want to smell your
skin, touch you and feel you.” I grab a half-written page from under a
book, you echo again, “Distance is awful for me. What is the point in
living away, I don’t believe in love that thrives on distance.” I smiled
and assured you, “I love you.”
Egham Hills hear the giant clock strike eleven in the morning.
Lisa, my housemate has ordered some groceries; no one else is here. I
need to go and collect them. A lot of items. I wonder where she is
going to store all this. The fridge is not big enough but admittedly,
she does have fridge organising skills. How I find my food inside it,
that is my skill. She has forgotten breakfast items. Closing the fridge
door, I recall how I would leave a note on the dressing table mirror, in
your office drawer, sometimes on the fridge door saying “Smile” but
you never noticed because you wanted me there, smiling back at you.
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Remembering this I look at the weather report on my phone.
It’s October, and it’s sunny. I pick up my keys and stroll to the
grocery store to buy milk and yogurt for breakfast. I carefully read the
details on milk bottles. I am new in Surrey; in fact, I am new in
England. I am learning to adjust. I pay the bill and step outside to find
beautiful skylines. This is my favorite weather – cold sunlight.
Perhaps that is what I am composed of – cold and warm elements. My
coldness disturbs you, but you can’t leave me because I carry warmth
too. Coldness lets you let go and warmth lets you go on. I sit at the
bench near the bus stop where sunrays fall perfectly on me. The day
reminds me of the hours spent waiting at Daewoo terminal. It starts
sleeting. Weather is strange here. The ground is becoming wet, and
the distinctive smell of earth takes me three years back and a thousand
miles away to another time in Rawalpindi. I was at the busiest bus
station in one of Pakistan’s largest cities. It had rained the night
before, so the air was fresh. I am not fond of rain, but I like it when
the ground gives off that fresh earthy smell. Remember I told you
how pleasant that day was?
******
That day at Rawalpindi Daewoo Bus terminal the rush was
relatively controlled (perhaps because advanced booking had arranged
the flow of people to travel). As I waited, I observed the people
around me. The hostess of one bus looked tired; she had come from
Abbotabad and would be on her way to Lahore after a stay of 15
minutes or so. She met another hostess, giving her a usual courteous
smile before they entered the office together. There were a lot of
people that morning because of Eid holidays. People came and went;
the way people come and go. “Going is a little harder than coming,”
you had once told me.
A young girl looked apprehensive. Maybe she was travelling
alone for the first time; she clutched her bag tightly and looked
around, fearful that someone might steal her bag or, worse, grab her.
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A young boy with a shopping bag looked restlessly for his bus. He
had bought shoes, from Sage, the bag declared. His worn-out jeans
were ambiguous and didn’t reveal whether this was his youthful style
or whether he couldn’t afford new ones. A woman in uncomfortable
stilettos tried to walk casually, but the agony in her face, contrasted
with the shine of her shoes, told a different story. Her long brittle nails
and cracked heels conjured an image of primitive caveman. It seemed
obvious to an observer, though not to her, that at least half of the pain
in her life right now was due to heels she wore. A middle-aged village
woman in intricately patterned tea-pink print shalwar qameez and
white malmal ka dupatta alighted from a Multan bus. She carried a
small steel bucket of desi ghee or sooji ka halwa, or maybe gur wala
halwa. She looked like a headstrong woman from Punjab; she was
alone and seemed confident to travel, but now she looked anxious as
her eyes roved, waiting for someone, or something. She carried the
small bucket determinedly – her only possession. A chubby guy
hurriedly paid his taxi driver and looked for his bus. Late? I became
anxious, I didn’t want him to miss it. At least he was trying to reach to
honour the waiting.
After checking two, three buses, his movements slowed, a
visible contentment lulled his steps. He had his bus. He felt relieved.
To celebrate this moment, he lit a cigarette and released the pleasure
in puffs. He leaned back on the wall staring at his destination bus.
Another man, old-school with a nice English hair-cut, stood in camelcoloured corduroy pants and gave occasional glances to people sitting
on the bench. He had an 80s-style suitcase. Taking some measured
steps, he moved towards the tuck shop and slowly examined the
displayed items. He eventually settled on a hot coffee, but suddenly
looked disturbed, as though he felt my eyes watching him. He didn’t
like being observed. This memory reminds me how one fine day you
kept looking at me with a curious gaze and complained that I ignored
what you felt though you knew how deep I felt too. I remember how
passionate you would become when I responded to your non-verbal
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communication with words, “Don’t imagine me – it’s an aphrodisiac.
When you wrap me in your thoughts, you become irresistible to me.”
I began looking at the terminal gate again. A family with five
children entered the terminal, each child carrying a pack of crisps.
The mother seemed tired. Perhaps she rose early to prepare for the
journey while her husband and children stole a couple more hours of
sleep. Behind them, another family with two boys. The woman in
abaya seemed furious and admonished her husband, “Aamir! I cannot
sit in such a dirty place,” she said, refusing to sit on the bench. She
continued lambasting the filth of the station (she probably hadn’t seen
the real bus stops and dhaabay there). They seemed to come from
some Arab country. Maybe Dubai. Giving up and seeing she had little
other choice, she sat on the bench. I could smell the strong fragrance
of her perfume as if she had doused herself with the whole bottle. The
man and sons seemed quite peaceful and ignored her concerns. They
were busy watching a young couple arguing with the bus host about
the alleged non-availability of seats. Perhaps they had been issued
with wrong tickets. The host tried to assure them that the company
was doing its upmost to accommodate them. A sweeper came to clean
the floor. Passengers sitting nearby became incensed by the dust his
broom whipped up. He said sorry to all, but what could he do? It’s all
wrappers, juice packs and used tissues, thrown on the ground by
educated people, civilized and cultured enough to travel by expensive
bus service. He was there to clean the mess they had brought with
them. He did it with a smile. As the weather was good, he did not
mind. Most of the passengers preferred to sit outside as it was
enjoyable out there. A newly-wed couple glided towards their bus
with new suit cases. They were happy and so oblivious to the dirt,
dust and rush around them. They looked forward to joyful days
together. Oh, my own, this flashes across my mind: our beautiful
happy days back in Islamabad when we first met. You were amused
to discover that I could observe an abundance of love in the slightest
movement of your eye, in thousandths of a second. I could connect. I
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know why you loved me. You loved me because I observed. I noticed.
I absorbed. I radiated. And because I was never enough.
******
Sitting here in Egham Hills, I get lost in the voices of the
people moving around that are mixed with the smell of flavored
cigarettes, men’s perfume and hamburgers. I close my eyes and
picture the drive back to home from Margalla Hills. We discussed our
busy lives that day. We hated weak and stringy relationships, and
despite our happy lives I felt my life complicating; my schedule was
always filled with work, you and goals. Sometimes I would hold my
tears, trying not to cry when I was squeezed by all three of them. You
knew it, you knew it all. I was all yours, yet not enough for you. We
were silent after an argument and in that space of silence I started
looking outside. I was lost in the past where we met. We met at a
beautiful hill station just a short distance from concrete jungle of the
capital. I was travelling to Islamabad lost in my thoughts. I saw a
hand fading away in a distant view through the window, and with a
jerk I came back to the life around. The bus had stopped. The
passengers filed off the bus in search of a cup of tea at the subterminal in a hilly area with lush natural backdrop. I sat down to
people watch in the garden of the restaurant next to a small cafeteria.
The café speakers played a famous Hindi song in the most celestial
female voice:
Aaj phir jeenay ki tamanna hai, Aaj phir marnay ka iraada hai
(Today I want to live again; Today I again want to die)
I was thinking years back – when I heard this song it did not
inspire any significant thought. But that day it caught my attention as
I recognised the intensified desire hidden in these lines recording a
passion to live out one’s own will and choice, to awaken in one’s self
a ‘vibrational being.’ While I was lost in my thoughts you came and
sat next to me because that was the only chair left. It had been a long
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time since we met each other during the university days. You casually
appreciated the song. I was already preoccupied because of an issue
back home. To relax my mind, I started a journalistic conversation
with you about a girl who wanted to rise. The family wanted her to
read great thoughts but not think, they wanted her to meet people but
not speak, they wanted her to learn but not practice. Such culture
makes you excel in hypocrisy. You were listening to me bemused.
You said, “You don’t talk much, right?” I felt alarmed by your
insight; I had already observed that you could understand and that you
knew I understood too. I was being examined the whole journey. I
want you to do that again.
I didn’t answer, and you continued telling me how that
melodious song made you wonder about your life span on earth.
There was an urge in your eyes, in your speech. You said, “A few
years? And we continue to shrink that short life span through
unnecessary restrictions, sometimes for our own selves and often for
others. People don’t realize how they deny someone their right to live
life to its full. Can they imagine how much their soul is wounded
when they deny them a full life…?” I picked up your thread and
replied, “So, I left the world with restrictions behind…”. You had
already understood my struggle. You smiled and gave me a deep look.
I kept on telling you that there were social things I did differently, I
broke constructed, unnecessary traditions and restrictions to live life
to its full, people stood in the way, threw stones, put hurdles in the
way, but I had to bull my way through it, and once in a life I just
wanted to go my way differently – for it would complete who I was.
You knew it and you loved me for that. You wanted to see me
complete. It was you who taught me that if we want our passions
around us, sometimes we should do it the hard way for our heart goes
with it.
I looked at a boy who sipped his last drop of tea and I thought
one would never want to be dead while still alive, one would never
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choose to put herself in an endless misery which has no
compensation. Once lost you can survive, but what is left behind is so
much less of you. And then you came nearer and offered your heart,
“Come with me!” So, I did not wait passively for something to
happen. I left behind the darkness of false fears and tried to live just
for once, at least with you. I chose you, believing and not knowing
that you had already chosen me. Together we realized “Life is
Beautiful.” The moment was seized, and I thought it would never tick
back.
******
A father in a waistcoat scolded his five-year-old son who
insisted on buying snacks from the high-priced tuck shop, while his
mother was busy scrutinising the dress of another woman who was
busy texting. Announcements at the Daewoo Bus terminal informed
of arrival and departure times, but the old loud speaker failed to make
the message clear due to its gritty sound, so most people were
hovering around their buses, none the wiser. Two young boys greeted
each other warmly and looked surprised to be meeting. They walked
towards the open area talking eagerly. A young mother carried a baby
peacefully sleeping. The infant woke, and the mother put a Milk Pack
in a small feeder and began feeding; the elderly woman with her
seemed suspicious about it. Perhaps she was thinking it’s not good for
a baby to drink such thick and artificial milk, that it might cause
terrible constipation and stomach cramps. But why would a young
mother care? She might hate traditional approaches and remedy.
Dissatisfied, the elderly woman turned her face aside. It’s time to
leave. Everyone with their luggage moved towards the bus. Kids
having eaten their snacks left wrappers on the floor. A girl moving
towards the bus stumbled upon an empty Milk Pack under her feet.
While everyone moved, the sweeper came again to clean the mess the
passengers had left behind. A half-smoked cigarette lay burning on
the floor. I loved that small glow of a burning end as if a sigh was
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being released from deep within the chest. Burning with the range of
bright colours; red, orange, yellow, amber…Colors always fascinated
me.
******
At Egham bus stop my train of thoughts halts as I am distracted
by the crying of a toddler who is unhappy and not willing to wait at
the bus stop with his mother. I look at the woman wearing the red and
black checkered blouse. Right now, I am wearing grey denim
jeggings and a black and white checkered shirt. I resume my thoughts,
“I know you like me this way: stylish, petite, well dressed, always up
to date. You believe it’s a blessing, a soft and warm feeling to know
that your companion is beautiful. Oh, come on, why do I have to dress
to validate your standards? Love me the way I am,” I said while
getting ready for the walk. You just smiled back at me with the most
beautiful smile in the world, for you loved my expressions and
spontaneity. I continued while walking through the woods, “Making
up and grooming to look smart is not bad. I like it, but sometimes I
want to materialize my abstract side, my feelings in some tangible,
touchable form because we are human beings made of flesh. How
long can we survive on soul? We need physical with us. Our body
needs it. Why should I deprive it of what it is created for?” I was
trying to come to the point. You stopped, I stopped. You looked at
me. It was an inquisitive look that carried deep emotions. Before I
could read it, you moved forward to the woods. You were never so
quiet before.
I still remember the patio where I sat, the soft couch specially
bought a day before, maybe you wanted to welcome me warmly,
softly. I sat there in my beautiful skirt trying to cover my legs. Soft
afternoon light touched my face as I looked outside the window
observing the patio. I remember you were amazed to see me. You
grew fonder of me. I smiled. You sat at my feet, and I felt like a deity.
That is how you always made me feel, my true.
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I still think of you sometimes in flesh with your warm body, no,
a lot of times, and I wonder if you still can miss me, feel me. You are
so far from my material world. I wonder if you still feel and miss the
moments that you wanted to preserve; our rhythmic silence, my hair
falling on the naked back. You always thought your chaotic soul was
dangerous for me. You’re no more here in this world but you’re
present. Now you’re trying to remove your presence that wrapped
around me, and so now it is getting easier to sit at the bus stop
observing people and their lives, and to get lost in that. I am trying to
fall in love with life. I know you wanted me to feel alive, but life is no
life without you. I told myself each day that I would never give up on
life if you were there.
I am recalling how I would interrupt your thoughts with my
endless talk while planting a fork in the steak. You would look at me
with a deep smile. I know you loved that interruption in our silences.
You always told me you used to wake up feeling you hadn’t slept,
that when I came into your life I gave you back peaceful sleep like
that of a child. Now it’s I who suffer sleeplessness. I miss you a lot
and now I am tired. I am tired of your permanent silence.
I see wind blowing tired leaves off the Maple tree. I see peak
fall colors through the window. I have enjoyed the changing colors of
leaves before they fall. I want to fall again, deeper. In my room, I sink
into the cushion, and try to feel how your voice grew louder the more
you spoke. You spoke gracefully and wrote beautifully. You loved
gracefully. Who wouldn’t fall in love with you?
Your enduring love has made me wonder if there could be any
other way of living. For me, abstraction was fascinating, while you
found concreteness captivating. And now that you are gone, I try to
feel your absence as presence, but this is abstraction and I no longer
am fascinated by abstractions. I miss you. I am addicted to your being
with me. You understood me, and understanding is addictive. At
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times, I hope that I will walk in through the door and you will turn
with arms outstretched to let the fall begin.