PRIMUS
LIVING
DYING
&
Meanings in Maithili Folklore
Dev Nath Pathak
LIVING & DYING
Living & Dying
MEANINGS IN MAITHILI FOLKLORE
Dev Nath Pathak
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Contents
preface
vii
acknowledgements
xiii
1 Introduction: A Brief Outline of the Context
of Quest
1
2 Living and Dying in the Age of Plural
Cultural Scripts
25
3 Discursive Framework: Probing Folk and Seeking
Lore in the Time of Polyphony
43
4 Methodology of Being: Ruminations on the
Field-Hermeneutics
66
5 Mithila, Maithili and Maithil: Field in
Historical Context
98
6 In Fulhara: Sound and Sight in a World View
(Part I)
131
7 In Fulhara: Sound and Sight in a World View
(Part II)
153
8 Art of Dying in the Maithil Folk Philosophy
194
9 Conclusion: Text, Subtexts, Inter alia!
215
bibliography
229
index
239
Preface
Nachiketa was very unhappy to witness his father’s ethical decline,
as his father King Vajashrava was donating unhealthy cows to
the priests who had offered services in the yajna (sacrifice). The
unhappiness of Nachiketa in the Kathopanishad—one of the ancient
texts of wisdom in India—seems to be a nuanced expression of any
growing child at any juncture in the history of human civilization.
To cut the tall claim to size, Nachiketa’s dissatisfaction on his
father’s cunningness is alike the critical sense of any growing child.
In the story a son questions and resists an allegedly deviant father.
Thus anguished by his son’s unrelenting query, the father uttered
the words which perhaps wrote Nachiketa’s destiny. The child
had to set on a journey to meet the god of death. The travail
eventuated into a meeting with the god, after spending a long
time knocking at the door of the god’s abode. The clever and kind
god allured him with many glittering gifts the mortals cherish.
But Nachiketa only wanted answers to questions that could enable
him to understand the mystery of life and death. The winsome
innocence and disarming curiosity of the learner worked out, and
the god relented.
This famous story from the Kathopanishad, narrated from my
personal memory, was always in the backdrop of the research
behind this book. My retelling of this tale serves me the purpose
of making a statement on the self-reflexive underpinning of this
work. Reflexivity is a radical necessity in Sociology to bring the
self of the researcher on the anvil of interpretative analysis.1 For
me, reflexivity is also an inherently psychoanalytical process in
which the personal and public intersect through discursive acts. In
many ways, a retelling of this story constituted my reconciliation
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with biographical tumult, episodes of my personal tryst with the
event of dying. Not that like Nachiketa I found absolute answers
to questions pertaining to living and dying. I never witnessed
a corporeal entity called the god of death. Instead death to my
‘significant others’, to borrow a phrase from the lexicon of social
psychology, happened with due accompaniment of suffering. But
there was a Nachiketa mode, so to say, at work when I had to make
sense of the death and dying amidst emotional upheavals. Every
time somebody died, I vicariously experienced my own death,
something anthropologists have discussed as couvade syndrome
in a different context. Simply put, it was an empathic experience
of dying with the dying. It all occasioned a rationale for a quest,
technically called research, on which this book thrives.
Dying is an extreme form of separation. The other myriad
versions of separating may be equally potent and pertinent for
the invocation of Nachiketa. I do not claim to be Nachiketa
incarnate, but I believe anybody approaching the issue of suffering,
separation, and ending with simmering conscience is likely to
take a Nachiketa-route, consciously or otherwise. Be it the ethical
decline of a father in a ritual performance of sacrifice or the
father’s willingness to die following the death of his wife, there
occur moments of crises whereby agency shelters in liminality.
The liminality becomes the womb of a research/quest, to know
the unknown, even though the unknown remains as chimerical
as before. Embarking upon such quests is perhaps an essential part
of being even though the pursuit of knowing the unknown is
only partial, and at best delusional.2 Walking down the corridor
of the All India Institute of Medical Sciences (AIIMS) in Delhi on
several occasions built up for me a phase of ‘neither here nor there’
(the betwixt about which anthropologists have deliberated). It was
no less than an emotive drama under the dictate of some divine
conspiracy. The cruelty of the divine conspiracy is inexplicable
and hence not a morsel for simple romantic imagining. Running
around to have my father diagnosed with kidney failure and
deciding on his behalf to put him on a regular dialysis was almost
like nudging myself along with him towards the abode of death.
Asking my father insistently to generate some life-force (the
Freudian notions of Eros, against the death drive, Thanatos) and
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live for me for a few more years, and getting to see in response his
helplessly blank face with moist eyes, happened to be an impetus
for the eternally curious Nachiketa.
Then descended a night with an uncanny dream whereby the
ailing father asked the unrelenting son whether he could take
leave as nothing was holding him back. The son looked at him
with his tearful eyes and said, ‘May I accompany you to wherever
you intend to go?’ The father said, ‘You cannot, for nobody can
really accompany to that abode,’ and he walked off the dimly lit
stage. And the son could see with blurry eyes the merger of his
father into a velvety darkness of the auditorium.
This was the closure in the script for a play titled ‘Melodrama of
Death’ I wrote after experiencing the death of my parents. I must
confess that the hypothetical assumptions that made the theatrical
performance, elucidating the endearing cruelty of the melodrama
of death, were not original. I had committed plagiarism in the sense
that I picked them from myriad songs without acknowledging in
any footnote. I grew up listening to them and they constituted the
sonic background of my consciousness. When everything was rosy
in my surroundings, I did not hear the pangs in those songs—they
were only soothing. They also seemed irritating for my mother
sang them a little too frequently and nobody could stop her.
She was not a cassette player to be unplugged when a listener
was bored. She sang at her own will and created a soundscape
for the household. Even sadness did not hinder her singing. She
sang songs of sadness to match her mood, time, and season. The
repertoire of my mother’s songs, unrecorded and unarchived,
remained in my memory for ready reference. They appeared on
my lips only occasionally so long as I was not curious about their
meanings. In the spring of my upbringing when I was learning
physics and mathematics those songs seemed to be insignificant
renditions of a semi-literate woman. All those songs, however,
magnified in meaning as nostalgia played uncanny tricks. After
my mother’s sudden demise, I did not seem to abort the effortless
occurrence of those songs in my solitary humming. As a student
of social anthropology, rather than of physical sciences, I grew
curious about the songs. I began to ask questions from women of
my mother’s age in the villages, about the meanings of the songs
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and also the stories about my parents’ lives. Perhaps this was my
personal psychic arrangement to revive a sense of the normal
in the face of the militant death and its after effects. Alongside
my quest unfolded myriad stories, punctuated with songs, which
became the skeleton of the research undertaken in this book. This
was my Nachiketa pursuit, if it could be called so, of the meanings
of the songs. Those songs and their varied meanings led me to
comprehend the ideas of living and dying. Needless to say, this
entails due limitations. The latter is aptly encapsulated in a verse
in Isha Upanishad:
Into darkness enter those who worship ignorance,
into as if still greater darkness enter those who delight in
knowledge.3
It is indeed this spirit in which this book joins in various
already existent discursive frames. And hence the claim is not to
lead anybody (from darkness) to the domain of light; instead, it
is more to deal with various layers of darkness. A very thick kind
of darkness perhaps arises from the domain of the ‘known’, and
‘familiar’, and consequently the convenient and comfortable. This
predominant domain too has its failures.
There is something incredible about the failure of scientificobjective thinking. When it fails, it paves the novel ways for
understanding. The failure of scientific-objective thinking,
calculation, and certainty invokes a more sensible social scientist.
When the intended consequences are superseded by unintended
ones, science has to reorient itself. In the face of such situations
my rational thinking faltered at many junctures as though it were
a shock to a struggling doctor whose every bit of medical analysis
is washed away by the tide of time. Somehow it dawned upon me
that one cannot die until one wants to, almost like the Bhishma
(the grandfather of the Kaurawas and the Pandwas) in the epic
Mahabharata. Bhishma stayed on the spiky deathbed (made of
arrows) for almost a fortnight and decided to die only at the
right/auspicious moment. There is a moment somewhere in life
where everybody instantly realizes the visibility of death in the
shadows of life. As soon as it is accepted it becomes possible to die
a happy death. Various Buddhist tales exhibit such an acceptance
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as a key to happiness. Acceptance of sorrow too becomes a reason
for ecstasy, about which a distant observer may only wonder or
turn cynical.
If I have to put the crux of this research, the kernel of this
book, in one line I would say ‘life and death unfold simultaneously
and hence they are imagined in the same breath using the same
set of metaphoric symbols’. The element of sorrow (especially
pertaining to separation), widespread throughout life, is the
best evidence of the interrelatedness. We learn to say ‘yes’ to an
ending. Not that after this there is no continuity in the journey
of Nachiketa, for the god of death was cunning enough to answer
only three questions. And the questions cannot be only three;
indeed questions cannot be limited to countable numbers.
My exposure to the anthropological and sociological literature
on performative art and notions of life and death generated both an
optimism to tell the tale in the language which offers objectivity,
and a pessimism that everything that belongs to felt-knowledge
of the folk cannot be put into the same language. Admittedly this
work is also a compromise on the infinite possibilities as it restricts
the articulation to the domain of the institutionalized. The bid to
make everything fathomable relies on a compromise. But then,
I do not regret this compromise as it is the only way to say the
unsaid. I must not, for I am not a selfish mystic who revels alone
in the trap of sublime psychic energy. Another level at which this
work assumes distinction, to put it immodestly, is to do with a
slightly unconventional interest in the folk imagination. While
most of the a priori analyses have been focused on the ritualistic
dimensions, or the institutional arrangements, or the sociomaterialistic dimensions of ritual performances, in the studies of
the folk literature or oral tradition, they fail to comprehend the
philosophical import and the fluidity of imagination. This work
is also an antithesis to the age-old social scientific prejudice that
poetry is mere fantasy and thus, unreal; or that it is, as Freud felt,
merely a neurotic articulation of the upset libido. If the whole
of life is a work of art, everything people say and do are artistic
expressions. While there may be occasional spectacles to remark
certain ideas, there are more benign and ordinary expressions
in everyday life as well. This work attempts at the totality with
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unflinching interest in the ordinary and lacklustre moments in
the routine set up for human emotion does not conform to the
socio-structural restrictions, and often the former redefines the
latter. It was necessary to investigate the presence of sorrow in
everyday life, and its significance in the occurrences of life and
death. It was all supported by the conviction expressed in myriad
poetic expressions, such as a couplet from the rich anthology of
Mirza Ghalib:
Quaid-e-hayat Band-o-gham Asla mei dono ek hai,
Maut se pehle aadmi gham se nizaat paaye kyu!
Parallel are the two indeed; Prison of life and chain of grief;
Why would, thus, We shall be free, from sorrow before death; and
this is the decree.
Department of Sociology
South Asian University
Dev Nath Pathak
Notes
1. See Gouldner 1970. Suffice to say, many interventions in the discourse
on reflexivity have emerged ever since the discomfort with the
conventional idea of self-free sociology and social anthropology. But,
next to Alwin Gouldner in my scheme of inspiration are Michael
Jackson (2013) and Avijit Pathak (2014, 2015). Both in different
locations, dealing with different issues, perform one characteristic
laying out a distinct pathway that this book treads—juxtaposition of
personal, experiential, and existential with the objects of study.
2. This is an important lesson an anthropologist, interested in the
significance of mystical experience qua dreams, can learn from
Obeyesekere (2012).
3. This is translated and edited by Katz and Egenes (2015: 31).
Acknowledgements
This book has taken so long to come into the public domain that
it needs a word of explanation. After a series of rejections and
phases of silence from publishers of repute, the manuscript finally
found two anonymous reviewers who suggested that with proper
revisions in certain areas, the book could be published. However,
up to the present time, I have not heard from the publishing house
that had commissioned these two reviews. It was at this stage that
my seasoned colleague Sasanka Perera, advised me that it would
be useless to keep waiting for the elusive communication from
the publisher. Aware of the politics of publishing, instead, he said
that I should submit the book proposal with the existing review
reports to Primus. I am thankful to Primus for the keen interest it
has shown in the book from the very outset.
Here I would like to acknowledge those anonymous reviewers
who delivered two wonderfully critical essays on my manuscript.
Their comments have helped me to revise my work in significant
ways, and I am indeed grateful to them. I also received detailed
comments on earlier drafts of this book from N. Jairam and the late
Hetukar Jha. I still read the handwritten comments of Hetukar Jha
with great joy though also with strong disagreements. On a later
occasion, Sadan Jha was generous enough to tender some useful
comments towards tightening the manuscript. Also, I must thank
Avijit Pathak who has been a perpetual source of feedback on my
work in addition to being a storehouse of intellectual provocation.
He persuaded me to believe in the merits of my work, despite my
self-doubts. I can never thank him enough.
I have also received much encouragement to engage with this
work in several fora in India as well as abroad. Some anthropologists
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inclined towards ethnomusicology at Queen’s University, Belfast,
found this work to be a significant departure in the anthropology
of mourning. Scholars at Boston University as well as Brown
University were curious about the philosophically significant roles
played by women in the context of Maithili folklore. I thank them
all, without performing the politics of naming, for inspiring me
with their perceptive comments. However, it is pertinent not to
forget a long-term friend and teacher at MIT, Jyoti Sinha, for
bringing together the South Asian folks in Boston who wanted to
hear about the research as well as hear me sing some of the songs
I had recorded in my manuscript. I remember a similar situation,
a demand to sing similar material, at a conference at School of
Arts and Aesthetics, JNU in Delhi too. I had managed to narrowly
escape such demands even though I was a confident actor with
a theatre background. But I acknowledge those moments of
awkwardness for a researcher of folk songs, which prepared me to
be more sombre while speaking of the songs.
I am immensely grateful to Sasanka Perera for standing by me
at a time when my authorial spirit had become low. He made me
realize the importance of not giving up. We have done much work
in collaboration, and I am deeply influenced by the diehard spirit
and tough workmanship that he upholds. I am also indebted to
his wife Anoli Perera for helping out with the designing of the
jacket. Anoli Perera is a prominent name in the contemporary
visual art scene in Sri Lanka, and her inputs have indeed been
invaluable. Finally, I must thank Jagath Weerasinghe, an eminent
archaeologist, artist, art-historian, and many other things rolled in
one, who lent the image of his art work for this book’s jacket. The
fine blend of morbid and aesthetics, abstraction and emotion that
Jagath chisels out in his craft is very much at the centre of this
book, and pivotal in our friendship. Now I deserve to pester Jagath
with demands to have more discussions over coffee and cigarettes.
In the process of becoming of this book, which spanned almost
a decade, many of the great sources of my strength and weakness,
instigation and inspiration, met with an untimely demise. I am
not naming them since they have gone beyond naming, in the
cosmological sense, but I will always remember the time spent
with them, intellectually and emotionally, in sharing my pursuits.
ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS
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Too many dramatic events of living and dying have fallen under
the pale of this book. I acknowledge them all, humans and events,
with due humility. And I thank all who huddled with me to help
me cope despite our differences: Tuni and Bed, Badki and Chhotki
Didi, Khusbu and Lali, Bhaiji and Ojha, Pankaj and Jhunna, Rikki,
Bundul and Baua (Shlok), Pataniya wali and many others.
I shall duly acknowledge the assistance I received from some
students, young scholars, who tend to look up to somewhat
iconoclastic tendencies in teachers. Divyendu Jha was considerably
helpful in getting copies of the maps done even though they were
in tattered conditions in some of the premier institutions. I also
thank Mithilesh Kumar Jha, a scholar on the Maithili language
movement, for the discussions on the sources, and Vagish Jha for
providing ignitions at the onset of the research. Many scholars
from Mithila University, Darbhanga, were patient interlocutors
during the research. I shall name Ramdev Jha, a living authority
on Maithili literature, for generous conversations even though he
had problems with my intellectual orientation. Towards the end
of the research that led to this book, I presented a paper based on
women’s songs in Mithila in a conference convened by Lata Singh
and late Biswamoy Pati, which translated into a chapter in the
book edited by the conveners. The comments that came through
the editors, Lata di and Bismoy sir (as I fondly call them), was truly
a timely inspiration. I am filled with gratitude.
Finally, I shall be ever thankful to Priya, who grew almost
fanatic about her surname ‘Mirza’ while the final version of
the manuscript of this book was underway. No thanking will
be sufficient for her being the most patient audience of my
swaggy monologues, despite considering me a kaafir. To Chanda
(Prabuddh), who has started asking me questions about death, and
I have already announced: I have a book to answer your questions.
I hope Prabuddh, with little Tara (Nargis), will use this book more
for information on melody and the metaphors of living and dying
rather than as a doorstopper or a paperweight!
Dev Nath Pathak
1
Introduction: A Brief Outline of
the Context of the Quest
One dark night an old woman was searching intently for something
in the street. A passer-by asked her, ‘Have you lost something?’
She answered, ‘Yes I have lost my keys. I have been looking for
them all evening.’
‘Where did you lose them?’
‘I don’t know, may be inside the house.’
‘Then why are you looking for them here?’
‘Because it’s dark in there. I can see much better here under the
street lights.’
—a.k. ramanujan (1991)1
The above Kannada folktale lends an appropriate beginning for
this book. Connecting insight (into) and site of the exploration,
the tale assumes significance by being a constant guide. As with
many folktales, this one too is not free from the possibility of
multiple implications. The latter only adds to the tale’s significance
for the discourse that this book entails.
One of the meanings of the tale, as A.K. Ramanujan suggests,
alludes to the inability of conventional quests of meanings. The
quests carried out in the ‘light’ of the classical texts, much like the
search of the old woman, could not make any inroad in the dark
stores of meanings. This was the quest of the learned, pundits,
and scholars trained in the enquiries into the secrets of living
and dying. They could develop spectacular conceptualizations, a
semblance of the meanings of the mundane. This means that the
analyses informed by the Sanskrit classics could not explore what
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folklore consisted of. Folklore, as it were, consisted of meanings
of the ordinary folk and their negotiations with the events and
emotions of life. Hence, it is a legitimate need to have a folkloristic
enterprise where the classical does not dictate terms and conditions.
There is thus an imperative, which this book is saddled with, to
interpret meanings imbued in folk narratives that are performed
on appropriate occasions. And in doing so, the book straddles
between the particularities from a cultural context named Mithila,
and generalities of questions emanating from the anthropological
and sociological enquiries. The book makes propositions at the
cusp of micro-context and macro-questions, as it were, with the
hope that interpretative comprehension of meanings in Maithili
folklore could evoke an interest in revisiting folklore in other
parts of the region of South Asia on some other occasion.
There is yet another implication of the Kannada folktale. The
search of the lost key under the street light (public), and not in the
darkness of the chamber (personal), is also symbolic of locating
subconscious abstractions at the tangible level of consciousness.
Everything buried in the dark subterrain could not be accessed.
They could be, however, approximately comprehended in the
concrete domain of cognition. The personal (dark chamber of
meanings) makes sense when brought to the public (street lights).
Perhaps our metaphors, idioms, and other linguistic tools, like
liminal and subliminal cues, could reveal some of our concealed
notions. The classical, Sanskrit textual tradition of scholars could
also lead us to cognize some of the meanings replete in folk
traditions. And in the same breath, subjective disposition and
objective manifestations could unfold together in the realm of
meanings. Many more binaries come for a rest, or for a dialogic
negotiation, in the quest for meanings. Personal and public,
subjective and objective, emotional and rational, do not seem to
be irredeemable antinomies. It would, thus, not be an exaggeration
to suggest that meanings in tradition seem to be Janus-faced,
deriving from both textual and folk traditions and inextricably
confusing the two sources. In an ideal sense there need not be an
irredeemable contrast between the classical and the folk, textual
and oral, literary and popular. There is an imperative to be aware of
the sharp divides mostly engendered by the researches on folklore
a brief outline of the context of quest
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from bygone times as one embarks on understanding meanings
in the domain of folklore. It is also a need at this juncture in
intellectual history where recognition of plural cultural scripts of
meanings is a necessary point of commencement for any discourse.
This is the mainstay of the second and third essays in this book.
Meanings in the folk world view indeed solicit an ability to
comprehend, and be intellectually tolerant to a myriad crisscrossing of cultural forms and trafficking of contents. It would
be impertinent to foreclose the possibility of, for instance,
folklore and popular cinematic transactions, mutual influences,
and reformulations of styles and content. This also underlines a
possibly mediated character, rather than the pristine nature, of
folklore. Consequently, this dents the cultural arrogance of folks
from across the regions. This is another reason why the Kannada
tale, borrowed from the compilation of Ramanujan, is pertinently
insightful for the journey this book promises to undertake. The
quest of meanings, or the veritable ‘key’ of meanings as in the
tale, demands shedding the garbs of cultural, qua intellectual,
superiority.
The cultural superiority manifests at various levels—genericnotional, conceptual-philosophical, and regional-geographical. We
are aware of the rise of some of the overlapping trajectories of this
superiority complex. The scientific epistemology, of promisingly
emancipatory rationalist philosophy, is one key domain of
superiority. It provides with methods, techniques, perspectives,
and a value orientation for critical enquiries. Folklore studies too
operated within this and placed the emotional content as being
synonymous with the non-rational. In this light, we are aware of
the politics of knowledge construction about cultural contexts.
Knowledge about cultural phenomenon aids in understanding;
but in historical context it has also played an instrumental role in
the imperialist drive of colonialism. Closer to the various cultural
domains we are aware of the sense of cultural superiority based
on the distinctions of caste, class, and gender. They all shape the
becoming of meanings, to say the least. In this wake, it is curious
to visit a linguistic region, notorious for its own share of cultural
superiority (glaring street light!, despite evident fragments within
the whole). The third, fourth, and fifth essay ensure that we steer
clear of superiority complex.
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Context(s): Particular Location(s) and
General Question(s)
The journey that this book invites the readers to is towards the
northern Indian linguistic zone and its collective memory. This
book seeks to unravel the world view constituted by Maithili
folklore. The latter—the mainstay of this book—is geographically
identified with the linguistic region Mithila, located roughly in
north-east Bihar, abutting Nepal. The ambiguous status of Maithili
language on one hand and the mythical significance of Mithila on
the other renders ‘world view’ into world views. Perhaps there
could not be one world view in Mithila. A pluralism of world
views and of contested meanings, however, does not deter an
engagement with Maithili folklore. Despite heterogeneity, there
are genres performed across social groups with a uniformity of
meanings. This is especially true of the Maithili folk songs of
everyday life in which notions of life and death figure prominently
and are sung across social groups. These songs are replete with folk
ideas, leading to a systematic body of ‘folk philosophy’. It is not
philosophy in the typical academic sense of the term suggestive
of a sophisticated epistemological system of enquiry. However,
it is philosophy in a generic, semantic sense, with reference to
reasoning with cognitive and emotional categories. In the scheme
of folk philosophy ‘reasoning’ and ‘doing’ seem to overlap and
reinforce each other. Hence, ritual performances, singing, and
wailing—synonymously termed mourning and tuneful weeping
in anthropological texts—are significant aspects of folk culture in
Mithila. They occur on diverse occasions of union and separation
including the event of death, in the cycle of life. On all such
occasions of crying, a complexity of meanings, essentials of world
view, and constituents of folk philosophy become intelligible. This
book dwells upon the premium of the philosophical import in
the folk songs, by engaging with the notions of union-separation,
merging-parting, material-spiritual, divine-mundane, and broadly,
life and death. The philosophical temperament of this work
reaffirms the fundamental suggestion of sociology and social
anthropology that human social institutions are also reflective
of deep thoughts. This book ferrets out some of these crucial
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characteristics of folklore through an interpretative engagement
with Maithili folk songs.
This endeavour is premised upon a confluence of many ways of
looking at folklore, emanating from folklore studies/folkloristics,
ethnomusicology, social anthropology, and sociology.The format of
this work is, thus, interdisciplinary. The Maithili folk songs sung in
the rite of the passage and occasions in everyday life were gathered
from the village named Fulhara in the southern part of Mithila
located in Samastipur district. Research was also conducted in other
villages such as Navtol, Beri, and Bhindi (located in the district
of Darbhanga) for more clarity on the functions and renditions of
the songs. Unlike the pre-existing anthropological works which
focus on ritual aspects in the rite of the passage this book dwells
upon songs sung alongside rituals as a more suitable domain of
meanings. The discursive framework of this book departs from the
usual positivistic doubt about the heard—hearing cannot lead to
believing! This is ironical since methodological positivism more
or less amounts to saying ‘seeing is believing’. The supremacy of
seeing over hearing in the hierarchy of the bodily/sense organs
of a researcher ought to be questioned by giving ears their due.
More discussion on it follows in the essay on methodology of
being, where an attempt is made to restore a researcher’s faith
in the act of hearing, the heard, the act of understanding, and
the understood. By disclosing key aspects of the Maithil world
view through the method (or a humane attribute) of hearing
and believing, this book seeks to unearth folk engagement with
the ideas of life and death. How life with its various junctures
marked by the rites of the passage is visualized and how death is
perceived through the prism of life forms the centrality of this
discourse. Death is not a separate phenomenon in the world view
of Mithila as these songs reveal that departure of the soul from
the body is similar to that of a bride from her natal home. The
cognition of living and dying unfolds at the intersection between
religious and social, metaphysical and material, and sacred and
mundane. This complexity consummates the Maithil world view.
The analytical understanding of the songs also establishes a notion
of complementarity that rules the relationship between men
and women in a patriarchal society such as of Mithila. Maithil
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women’s songs, underpinning the social structure, open for a
possible rethinking on the feminist arguments about women’s
position in a patriarchal society. This is however not to suggest an
absence of power-relations within Maithili society. In a kinship
structure and ideology that favours men folk, women are not
merely either a subjugated agency lying as a dormant volcano of
repressed anguish nor an unleashed agency seeking to demolish a
structure. The research underpinning this book takes the onus of
presenting women as a complementary partner, who can protest,
plead, redefine, and reconcile with as well as without the ‘freedom
of agency’ in a structure.2 These issues, among others, dominate
the sixth, seventh, and eighth essays in this book.
The reason why a research of this kind, and its textual
consequence such as this book, assumes significance is mainly
three fold—the singularity of focus on the thoughts of the folk
and how these thoughts as expressed in their songs seem to
regulate everyday lives; the focus here is beyond the spectacle
of rituals, which may be an occasional phenomenon, and is on
the repeated renditions and circulation of motifs; the thoughts
of the folk also influence their practices and social institutions.
Additionally, the relentless suggestion in social anthropology to
draw the totality of the world view with respect to the gendered
roles and performances also flags the significance of this research.
By researching into tradition without dismissing the ambiguous
presence of modernity, this work produces knowledge that is rife
with the possibility of conceptual regeneration. The conceptual
dichotomy between tradition and modernity takes a rest here to
allow their intertwined nature to surface. In a socially globalized
world, allegedly homogenizing as well as hybridizing in effect,
when the intellectual and imaginative realm is restricted to
predominant notions of our time, a study of folk songs, its
meanings and philosophy in association with the folk practice
assumes significance for a researcher of indigenous tradition.
A few questions gaping in the face of this book are worth
recounting. Why to make meanings of living and dying so
prominent? Why Maithili folk songs? And how could they be
relevant in social anthropology? The book tends to deliver an
answer, overtly as well as covertly. It is worth, briefly, reflecting
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upon them in a manner to satiate impulsive curiosity and fulfil
introductory basics.
More than once I was asked this question, a daunting one,
by both friends as well as foes. Why to think of the meaning of
death? It looked like a downright case of necrophilia to many.
The well-wishers, sympathizers, and even academic friends were
not quite sure about the meaning of death. For death was a taboo
stronger than sex in the world of non-academic common sense;
and it was an alleged hobbyhorse of myth-mongering godmen,
as the academic common sense suggests. One could watch
‘pornographic stuff ’ but could not consider contemplating about
death. On a lighter note, it was acceptable to fantasize about
the opposite sex, singing one of the famous Sahir Ludhianvi
lyric Chaudhavin ka chand ho (you are the lunar beauty of the
resplendent waxing moon) (Sadiq 1960). But it was bizarre to use
similar lyrical tenor for death and dying. One of my colleagues
once gave me an unsolicited nugget of wisdom worth unalloyed
mention, ‘make love with as many women as possible and you
would forget about death!’ Barring the bluntness of expression,
making love seemed parallel to the other part of my quest, namely
meaning of life. However, the latter was never divorced from the
tabooed part, meaning of death, in my contemplation. And that
was a serious issue as per the popular observation. To my academic
peers the whole formulation, meaning of life and death, seemed
a little like the title of a godman’s sermon. There are way too
many godmen around and they invariably talk about living and
dying. There is no longer a divide between the East and West as
far as popular appearances of the godmen is concerned. They are
the most circulated commodities, promising packaged spiritual
salvation, from India to the United States of America. Amidst the
bewildering abundance of packaged sermons, one is always wary
of echoing the populist spiritual ideas about the secrets of life and
death. While my academic friends and foes were not sure about
the academic credence of the thematic issue of my interest, some
odd non-academic curious folks deemed me to be a mystique in
the making. They raised intriguing questions about ‘after-death’
and I obviously had no interest in the after-death. The question
about the validity of the research, and by the same breath that of
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this book, is always susceptible to dubious attitudes and questions.
This trope of questions and doubts also opens up a window to the
idea of living and dying. Why do we think in the way we think
about death? Why is it a taboo? If not a categorical taboo, this is
perhaps something about which one cannot speak freely. Why is it
only associated with the notion of after-death? Why is there not
much thinking on the ordinary and aesthetic speculation about
death in relation with life? Curiously enough, this is so despite
the popular cinematic imagination of death and dying that places
death in the realm of ordinary experiences. The dominant popular
cultural trope, heavily determined by the cinematic medium,
presents an abundance of acoustic propositions. A generation
heard it, and sang it for the youngsters, admi musafir hai, aata hai
jaata hai, aate jaate raste me yaade chhod jata hai (humans are merely
travellers, in the flux of arriving and departing, and in this course
of being, they leave behind memories) (Om Prakash 1977).3 Many
among the Hindi cinema viewers grew up singing a popular lyric
among many others, such as Rote huye aate hain sab, hansta hua
jo jayega, wo muqaddar ka sikandar jaaneman kahlayega (all arrived
crying, those who leave with a smile, will be hailed by all, as the
conqueror of destiny) (Mehra 1978).4 If one adds more regional
varieties of cinema, the richness of the popular cultural trope is
further enhanced and the abundance of meanings in the sonic
surrounding becomes evident. Despite the ubiquity of popular
cinematic notions of living and dying, there is a queer attitude
toward death.
The paradoxical significance of death today makes it even more
important a muse in social anthropology. Death, dying, and living
have been some of the key coordinates in the anthropological
understanding of primitive society.There is, however, an interesting
challenge in discussing these coordinates in the context of a
society which is not primitive in a typical anthropological sense.
One such sociocultural context, namely of Maithili folk songs,
occasions a possibility of some debates. There could be many more
similar sociocultural contexts used as an analytical premise. This
book centres the Maithili case for a few curious reasons. One is
that it has been relatively under-researched in India. There are
reams of writings mostly by scholars of Maithili languages and
cultural historians. Some of these writings are in English, while
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a larger proportion of the writings are in Maithili and in Hindi.
With a few exceptions, a common and dominant motif has been a
celebration of the cultural superiority of Mithila.These celebratory
accounts present Maithili culture and practice as superior fossils
of a past in the scheme of cultural glorification. They use history
and mythology to create a heady cocktail of ‘my superior Mithila!’
And indeed everybody seems intolerant to even the slightest of
criticism about the fakeness of such celebratory accounts. I grew
up listening to all versions of the celebratory accounts making
me more sickly curious until they became sources of research
questions for critical enquiry. Moreover, in recent times there has
been narcissistic mobilization on the idea of the state of Mithila.5
It dwells upon a hyper-emphatic invention of Maithili heritage
and development. It seeks to present an overly simplified idea of
Maithili culture that is conducive for the tourism industry and
dominant model of development. Political groups vie with each
other to ‘encourage’ Maithili culture through various funded
mahotsavas (state-sponsored festivals). 6 The postcard image of
Maithili culture may have adverse political implications for the
cultural complexities in the region. Also, it may not convey the
deeper interpretative meanings of the cultural performances in the
wake of the political window-dressing and crescendo of cultural
nationalism. This book seeks to present a discussion on the songs
from Mithila while being conscious of the cultural politics lurking
in the background.
Departures in the Quest of Meanings
The brief outline above hints at the messy realm of meanings which
this book seeks to engage with. In this scheme, it is imperative
to stress on the importance of departing from the clinically clean
domains of enquiries that have occupied social anthropologists
ever since the beginning of classical anthropology. The area of
life wherein emotions confuse formal patterns is what becomes
important in a work which this book aims to present. In this
regard, it seems urgent to recall Veena Das:
Anthropologists have been very successful in studying formal aspects of life
when individuals can be shown to be playing their roles, or when they are
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engaged in formal exchanges or when people are acting out rituals whose
format is collectively agreed upon. But in the entire mushy area of life
when the individual emotion seems to confuse the formal pattern or when
the context is not formally structured as in Levi-Strauss’7 example of two
strangers sharing a restaurant table in Paris, the models of the anthropologist
begin to falter. (Das 1986: 185)
It is the domain where ‘individual emotion seems to confuse
the formal pattern’ that renders this book and the underpinning
research relevant. It makes a conscious effort to look for meanings
beyond the familiar way of fathoming the Hindu world view.
The most familiar way has been allegedly restricted to the
categories arising from the ‘cognitive structure of Hindu society’
(Das 1987). The categories pertaining to the classical texts, e.g.
dharma, karma, moksha, have dominated our understanding of
Hindu belief and practices.8 The bifurcation of the classical Hindu
religion and its counterpart, alternative Hindu dharma, seems to
facilitate a systematic knowledge about a particular version of
Hindu world view. But it also delimits the exploration of the
folk world view and of social philosophy. 9 This was the reason
why the ethno-sociological approach of Mckim Marriott put the
categories from the classical texts as the only set of indigenous
cognitive categories of Hindu society. This facilitated a very
neat conceptualization of Little tradition and Great tradition
on the one hand, and Universalization and Parochialization, the
processes of social change in traditional society, on the other
hand (Marriott 1967; 1990). This discursive trope seldom makes
visible the widespread significance of ‘folklorization’ in the Indian
context. With excessive attention to the ritual performance the
available discursive tropes rarely arrive at the totality of folk world
view, let alone folk-philosophizing that deals with finer nuances
attached to the events of life, including death. The possible
improvization of the classical Hindu categories of dharma, karma
and moksha in folklore, which resists as well as reconciles with
the Brahminic-Sanskritic textual ideas, seldom surface in the
conventional anthropological discussions. They shed little light
on the instrumental role played by the category of emotion in
framing the folk world view and formulating folk philosophy.
Perhaps, this also explains one of the reasons why intolerant
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religious sentiments have emerged in the politics of Hinduism.
This sentiment seeks to put Hindu dharma into pure (classical)
and impure (folk). The public sentiment similar to the academic
bifurcation precludes a possible comprehension of the fluidity of
Hindu belief and practices. This is indeed the need of the time
to reason with Hindu dharma beyond the familiar bifurcation
in academic discourse and emphasize the perpetual negotiations
between the binaries in the realm of folk performances.
Along this line, Wendy Doniger’s proposition is significant.
Showing that ‘Hinduism has porous margins and is polycentric’
(2011: 29), she underlines that:
Hinduism is composed of local as well as pan-Indian traditions, oral as well
as written traditions, vernacular as well as Sanskrit traditions, and nontextual
as well as textual sources. The first (often marginalized) elements of each
of these pairs tend to reinforce one another, as do the second elements, the
dominant elements, but there are important distinctions within each of
the two groups. For these contrasting pairs did not translate into polarized
groups of people; a single person would often have both halves (as well
as non-Hindu traditions) in his or her head; a Brahmin would know the
folk traditions, just as, in the Euro-American world, many people study
paleography and then go to church and read Genesis. (Ibid.: 32–3)
This is the scheme that aids in fathoming the interactive
framework of folk culture in which the ‘written’ and ‘oral’ interact.
Elsewhere, Gananath Obeyesekere dwelt upon a similar interactive
framework to show that ‘little’ (of the unreflective many) and
great (of the reflective few) parts of a tradition does not mean a
disjuncted existence of tradition. Robert Redfield’s binaries for
understanding peasant societies underlined that the two traditions
are interdependent. In the context of Sinhala Buddhism, thus,
there is a perplexing paradox. Obeyesekere suggests that:
the paradox is a result of the synthesis or fusion of pre-existing beliefs or
later diffused beliefs from the great tradition. These beliefs are contradictory
to the great tradition, but from the point of view of the people, they are
resolved and explained in terms of a single tradition. (1963: 150)
This is the reason why the common worshippers, irrespective of
caste groups in the social hierarchy, persist with their belief in the
contradictory aspects which arise from the ceaseless interaction
between the two aspects of a tradition. And in this wake, there is
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seldom a recognition of the divide between the belief and practices
of the literate or illiterate, elite or masses, and scholars or ordinary
folk. This indeed paves the way for envisaging a consolidated body
of thought, corpus of idioms and metaphors, and imagination to
emerge from the expressive domain of folklore.
Another key issue which this book grapples with is the impact
of modernity in conditioning our thinking of life and death. Death
figures as a ‘sequestered reality’ (Clark 1993), with loneliness of
dying in the modern society as an absolute reality apprehended
in the framework of sociology of death (For example, Elias 1985;
Kearl 1989). The polemical understanding of the experiences of
death in the contemporary world enables us to find ways forward.
One of the many such ways forward is the recognition of plural
cultural script of experiencing death and dying.
A validity of pluralism summons a return to the anthropological
accounts of death in various cultural contexts. In the anthropological
literatures, the cultural imagination of dying has been largely
captured through the performed rituals in rites of the passage.10
These works are fair antitheses to the dead-end of individualizedatomized experience of death as ‘sequestered reality’ in the
postmodern condition. The conventional anthropological account,
however, also tends to reduce the phenomenon of death into
performance of mediated rituals. Does death also not constitute
social philosophy? How do folk express their philosophy, or
thoughts, of death? What are those thoughts, the epistemic units of
the folk philosophy of death? To turn to the Indian context, there
are Indological works dealing with thoughts on death. 11 They
derived largely from the classical literature from textual tradition
of India to unearth the cosmological imagination of death and
the phenomenon of after-life. Needless to say, anthropology
and indology in India have shared interest in this regard despite
the difference of truth-claims and veracity of materials.12 But
then, it was also delimiting due to the preoccupation with the
textual tradition. The fluid relation of text and context, in the
folk world view, could not assume centrality in discussions on the
cultural imagination of death and dying in India, barring a few
exceptions.13 It becomes challenging indeed to understand the
traditional social structure by fathoming the acoustic dimension
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vis-à-vis folk songs, and arrive at the folk notions of living and
dying. It is imperative while doing so to not fall prey to the
conceptual divides such as folk and classical, folk and popular,
and in short Little tradition and Great tradition. Instead, one has
to operate by viewing tradition as an integrated whole in which
intermixing brings about paradoxes even as the belief system still
remains intact.
The conventional way of studying tradition has been
prepossessed with the notion of order and disorder. Everything
that belonged to tradition has been looked at with the objective
of discovering the structure of order, and how disorder is avoided
or coped with in a traditional society. Studying death meant
understanding the issue of order and disorder. While it is a valid
concern of a study on traditional society, it somewhere lost the
basic prerequisite to understand the inherently fluid structure of
traditional societies. Let alone the dynamics of day-to-day social
relations and occurrences, the studies on traditional society and
of meanings did not move away from the classical/Sanskritic
texts and the social exotica of rites and rituals. The prepossession
with the issue of order and disorder vis-à-vis the phenomenon
of death and dying in traditional society has reached a stage
whereby sociologists perceive a modern society where death is
a sequestered reality and dying is a lonely act. In this light, it is
significant to notice the recurrence of traditional notions of death
and dying in the folk society in modern times, where doctors are
an important part in the folk society. But the modern-medical
injunctions are almost same as the classical-textual ones, as they
are both subject to folklorization. Folk philosophy works in close
collaboration with other sources of insights and ideas without
compromising on its own accord. Hence, in our times, the study
of tradition demands an orientation towards neither modernity
nor the traditional elements. The study of tradition could, as an
aspired departure in this work, be beyond the binary opposition
of conceptual categories. An event in the life cycle finds cultural
expressions according to the world view of the folk which may be
inclusive of the features of both tradition and modernity or hybrid,
or something that is beyond such categorization. The present
work intends to discuss ‘folk philosophy’ vis-à-vis perceptions/
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beliefs about life and death as found in narratives within folk songs
without simplifying the complex of emotion and participation of
both men and women. Moreover, one must emphasize that this
research evaluates women’s position in the Hindu society on the
basis of the songs they sing. As already stated in the beginning, the
context of the work is Mithila.
Mooting Maithil Contexts
Mithila and Maithili have been awfully intriguing for ethnologists
in colonial India (Burghart 1993). Perhaps the intrigue resonates
in the fact that ‘Mithila’ is more mythical than historical in terms
of territory, for it was never a politically demarcated geographical
territory, an explicit import in the chapter five that places Mithila
in historical framework. It may not go well with the sense of
cultural superiority in the prevalent common sense in Mithila
that views mythical as opposed to real, and Mithila and Maithili
identity as an eternal reality. The claim of eternal reality however
solicits a critical discussion which this book offers. This is not to
deny the reality, so to say. Instead, the attempt is to substantiate it
with the world view of the Maithili speaking people. Perhaps this
was one of the reasons why ‘speech marks’ rather than ‘landmarks’
are more important to understand Mithila. The heterogeneous
composition of the region and its people and language assume
importance in this scheme. This also entails an acknowledgement
of the peculiarity of social stratification along caste lines within
Maithil society. For all ritual purposes, superiority of status lies
with the Brahmins. The powerful position in terms of land and
property ownership is with the ‘forward castes’14 such as Brahmin,
Rajput, Bhumihar, Kayastha, and Bania. The anomalies of caste
structure are manifest in Mithila too. Instances of caste violence,
marginalization of lower caste, and also caste-based votebank politics are regularly reported in newspapers. In the daily
encounters too, I have personally come across various modes of
humiliation along caste lines. I have heard sayings, which target
caste groups, belonging to both forward and backward castes.
A famous saying, which was a colonial construct according to
hearsay, is: kill a Maithil Brahmin first if you spot both at once,
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a Maithil Brahmin and a black cobra! The idea is that all the
Maithil Brahmins could be more venomous and deadlier than a
black cobra. Similarly, there is a saying targeting Kayasthas: Lala ka
bachcha kabhi na sachcha (a Kayastha is too cunning to be trusted,
and if he is trustworthy, it means he is a mixed breed)! This saying
is used, replacing Kayastha with Bhumihar, to target the latter
too. All these caste groups are apparently upper caste in Bihar in
general and in Mithila in particular. 15 There are several such sayings
that target lower caste groups as well. One saying blends casteism
with racism: a black Brahmin and a fair Chamar is suspicious
character! Apart from the deeply entrenched caste hierarchy, the
villages in Mithila also exhibit the secondary status of women.
Patriarchy underpins the social structure of Mithila society. The
line of inheritance and kinship is patrilineal. The notorious line
from Tulsidas’ Ramayana is known and uttered every now and
then: dhol, gamar, shudra, pashu, naari, ye sab hain taran ke haari (a
drum, a rustic, a lower caste man, an animal, and a woman is to
be treated with stringent measures). In this wake, combining caste
and gender discriminations, Mithila too exhibits the regressive
social politics of inclusion and exclusion. In other words, the land
of pride and prejudices pertaining to the Maithil common sense
is not devoid of the peculiarities of social inequality. If one adds
the secondary status of Muslims in contemporary Mithila, the
mirror image of the region will perhaps reflect more of the cracks
than of the proudly proclaimed ‘civilizational harmony’. It hence
becomes quite daunting a task to discuss the folk world view of
a community. The central question of this book, folk world view,
and its philosophical engagement with death and dying, demands
a drift away from the familiar ‘sociological trope of discussion’.
The latter in inverted commas could be significant exploration
on some other occasion. However, a brief awareness of it enables
this book to hint at the totality of the Maithil world view
optimally including caste and gender dimensions. Aware of the
socio-political dynamics of the divides along caste, communities,
and gender, this book unravels Maithili folk world view of the
Hindus. There is, however, a conscious effort to ensure that such
an awareness does not eclipse the central objectives. This is a point
at which this book may disappoint many of us who hold our
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sociological sense of social divide as superior to the notions, ideas,
and thoughts of the folk. This book indeed restraints from feeding
into identity politics, be it of Maithil Brahmins or of the other
politico-ethnic groups. To reiterate, this is not to suggest that these
are less important issues and it ought not to be erased even in this
book.
It is important that the heterogeneous constitution of the
Maithil, Mithila, and Maithili precedes the discussion on Maithili
folk songs in this book. It is in this scheme that the book factors
in the intermingling of a variety of sects, religious influences,
historical encounters, and philosophical transactions in the shaping
of the world view. There is also a conscious effort to engage with
the idea of the exclusive space of women in the song culture of
Mithila. ‘The exclusive privilege of women in rendering these
songs without any formal training, mainly in terms of creation and
recreation of the stories of Sita’s marriage, on several occasions,
like marriage and other rituals, (which) make the Maithil folk
songs distinctive’ (Jha 2002: 14). Such an assertion has to be taken
with a pinch of salt and therefore the book tends to unravel such
claims without undermining the possibility of a space for women.
The framework of discussions on the folk songs is not unaware of
the larger trope of songs in Mithila. The latter encapsulates songs
among the Brahmins, as well as folk songs and ballads among
other caste groups, such as the Salhesa songs of the Dusadhas, the
Deenabhadri of Musahars, the Loric of Yadavas, the Jat-Jatin of
Mallahs, among others. Some of the common found categories of
folklore in Bihar (in Mithila in particular) are cumulative songs,
non-sense rhymes, pastoral songs, and folk plays. Cumulative
songs are various integrated songs, which give an impression of
a rhythmically moving tale. Non-sense rhymes are yet another
element of folklore of Bihar, which are often used to lull the child
in to drowsiness and finally to sleep. Pastoral songs occupy a great
deal of space in the folk life. These songs ‘express the thoughts,
aspirations and sorrow of the villagers’ (Roy Chaudhury 1980: 36).
Folk plays are not plays in a typical sense. These are often aided
by cumulative songs in association with real life performance of
the social actors. The example from Maithili folklore is of ‘ShamaChakwa’ and ‘Bhaiya Duj/Bhardutia (Bhratri Dwitiya)’.
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The deep stratification and complex belief system in Mithila
along with multiple genres of folk songs tempts one to believe in
what many ethnomusicological researches concluded elsewhere:
the genres are allocated in accordance with social structure to
different social categories/groups of the folk (Lomax 1962;
Blacking 1973; Feld 1984). Conversely, Edward O. Henry observes,
‘genres may cross social categories, that is genres may become
dissociated from their categories of origin, and linked with other
categories, a process that can be called genre drift’ (1988: 224).
Hence a possibility to discover a hermeneutic unity amid the
heterogeneity of genres is never ruled out.
At this juncture it is important to mention that all the available
printed literature on Maithili folk songs do not mention any song
for the last rite occasioned by the event of death. 16 The most
commonly found songs are samskar geet, which literally means the
songs of the rites of the passage, though without the songs of the
last rite. The published collections of songs, albeit, mention songs
of everyday life and seasonal songs. Samskar geet is the prerogative
of women folk and they are context specific, associated with the
auspicious occasion of life of the passage such as birth, pregnancy,
tonsorial rite, sacred thread giving ceremony, marriage, etc. The
songs from the category of everyday life such as Parati and seasonal
songs that are sung by both men and women are free from the
spectacular occasions associated with rites of the passage. Unlike
samskar geet, they can be sung by an individual for himself/herself
in solitude without any audience at hand. Interestingly, these
songs present narratives replete with paradoxical tones and tenor.
They speak of devotion, faith in the divine, existential question
of being, the social matrix in which the individual is located,
the pain and pleasure of being social, and an invitation to the
unseen for a final release from the cycle of pain and pleasure. It
is not a reinforcement of the textual-classical categories such as
dharma, karma, and moksha. Instead, it is in an ordinary register
of union and separation coloured by emotions that these songs
tend to present philosophical postulates. The notion of union and
separation that is found in the songs of everyday life is also present
in the songs sung on spectacular occasions observed through rites
of the passage. It is as if the notion of transition from one stage
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to the other in the life cycle of an individual gives an occasion
to the whole community of the folk to narrate for themselves a
tacitly present story of life. The sohar geet, songs on the occasion
of the birth of a baby and during the pregnancy of the motherto-be, vent out the pain of bearing the unseen and the pleasure
of graduating in the life cycle. The marriage songs such as udasi/
bidagiri are mixed with the joy of the successful marriage of the
daughter, her fear of an unknown destination, and dilemmas
between the social and existential. The variety in Maithili folk
songs is that though there are a few exceptional songs under the
title of mrityu geet, the ritual wailing/mourning/tuneful weeping
is indispensable. This applies to other situations of life as well, such
as marriage where tuneful weeping is never to be substituted by
a clearly structured song. Lastly, one must mention the existence
of the social institution of Nepobhatin17 that performed wailing on
the event of death. This institution and their practices are outside
the scope of this discussion for nobody seems to know about it.
Having outlined the genres of folk songs, one could surmise
the broader questions thus: first, what is the significance of
tuneful weeping/ritual wailing/crying/mourning as a folkloric
element in the social structure?; how and why do they become
indispensable markers of folk’s world view?; does weeping
connote an acceptance of fragility of social order or is it only a
sociocultural tool to restore the order? Whether tuneful weeping
on several occasions bears a subversive tone and if so what is
the reaction of society to it is a moot point. Second, what is/are
world view(s) found in the Maithili folk songs of everyday life
and in the samskar geet, and, what is the equation between the
notions of life and death in them? Whether the Maithili world
view perpetuates the binaries of life and death or it encapsulates
a spectrum where every colour is two-dimensional vis-à-vis life
and death is another moot point. Overlapping with these two
broad questions, there are questions of heterogeneity of world
view vis-à-vis social groups (along caste, religion, and gender) and
genres in the same linguistic-folkloric context, and, the dynamic
relation between folklore, classical texts, and popular media. Not
less important are questions pertaining to sociology of religion.
If heterogeneity rules the linguistic and folkloric landscape, what
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are the characteristics of religious structure in Mithila? What is
the nature and scope of interaction between religions and sects
intertwined in the sociocultural context of folklore in Mithila?
On account of world view in folklore, the question would be
with regard to the performance and meaning. How do the folk
make sense of their performance, the context and the text that
they deliver? What are the coordinates in the meaning-making
exercise? What are the avenues of conflict and reconciliation
in the making of meaning within world view(s)? All the above
stated questions point to the neologism I began with, i.e. folk
philosophy. In the context of Maithili folklore, folk philosophy is
a confluence of diverse notional categories. It is the operational
version of world view that brings about a parallel between their
theory and praxis. In other words, what they communicate in
their songs, in their crying, and in their practice, characterizes
the concept of folk philosophy. It entails numerous folk ideas/
unstated postulates/taken-for-granted assumptions on the basis of
which the folk reason with matters of everyday life. It is widely
accepted among the various communities of the followers of
Hinduism that everything is religious and philosophical. Religious
and philosophical aspects of the folk, as articulated in their songs,
offer a vast array of meanings, and it figures in the outcome of
this work. This book, in a nutshell, aims at the folk philosophy of
the Maithili-speaking folk. With these objectives, questions, and
hypothetical assumptions the research underpinning this book not
only deciphers the narratives within each song, instances of crying,
and performances in context, but also seeks for an interpretation
and explanation of the folk in the context.
Scheme of the Book
With this introduction on what this book is about, the following
essays unfold elaborate accounts on the central issues of the book.The
very next essay presents a discursive reflection on the unbecoming
of the idea of death. The alleged ‘death of death’ in contemporary
sociology of death emerged in a specific sociocultural context.
But the recognition of ambivalent modernity, and the possibility
of plural cultural scripts, enables us to further explore the social
imagining of death and dying. One of such cultural scripts is
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folklore in the age of polyphony, discussed in the subsequent essay
laying out the prerequisite discursive framework for the whole
book. The discursive framework underlines the archaeology of
knowledge on folklore, and location of world view, role of folk,
and issue of living and dying in the centrestage of folklore. This
essay is a thick perusal of literatures, with an irreverence to the
notions of pastness and monolith associated with folklore. This
is followed by a discussion in the fourth essay on the way the
research underpinning this book unfolds in the field. However, this
essay defies the conventional ways of discussing methodology by
connecting the processes of learning, unlearning, and relearning in
a relational framework.This is intended to establish the significance
of a dialectic between book view and field view of hermeneutics,
for a more thorough idea on ‘interpretative understanding’. This
entails a synoptic discussion on hermeneutic philosophy to devise
the methodology that could help arrive at the folk world view and
the folk philosophy of living and dying. The dichotomy between
subjectivity and objectivity, the researcher and researched,
which has ruled the roost of methodological reflections in social
science in general and in sociology in particular, is questioned. A
research of this kind warrants this critical orientation, as part of
methodological preparation, so as to render the hidden and the
obvious in juxtaposition to arrive at the meaning. The second,
third, and fourth essays, largely based on the perusal of literature,
underline the schematic predisposition of the book characterized
by swing between micro-context and macro-questions. It begins
to incline more toward the micro-context in the following essay.
The fifth essay questions the three predominant categories of
Mithila, Maithil, and Maithili with critical readings of historical
accounts to elucidate the broad realm of micro. It is in the
background of history with recurrent mythology that the broadness
of the notions become clearer. Dispelling the ethnocentric air,
without indulging in the never-ending glorification of Mithila
or even denigrating the same, this essay discloses the limits of
the glorification. Here we get a glimpse of the formation of
Maithil pride in a historical as well as mythological context. It
also underlines the misplaced Maithili pride, a case of cultural
arrogance in the wake of multiple undercurrents. Various
a brief outline of the context of quest
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religious denominations, nurtured in the historical contexts of
Mithila, also express multiplicity of versions, and thus humility
rather than arrogance. This essay also reveals the polysemy in the
categories of Maithil, the people of the region who belong to
various caste groups rather than only the Shrotriya Brahmin, and
the pluri-vocal character of the language Maithili, which is not
only the chaste (pure Sanskritic) Maithili of the Shrotriya. It is in
this broadened framework that the wide ambit of Maithili folk
songs makes sense. This essay also establishes the significance of
Mithila where the rulers were as much into philosophical, poetic,
and artistic vocation as were the courtiers, patronized, and nonpatronized scholars. Besides, this essay highlights the missing
link in the conventional historiography between the historical
accounts based on the deeds of the mighty and the contributions
of the unsung ordinary people. This is ironical because the region
of Mithila has been described as that of unconventional kingship:
any politically ambitious king met with utter failure. The reason
why an essay of this kind is significant is mainly three fold:
1. It helps in understanding the inner dynamics of the region visà-vis thereof people, socio-religious varieties, stratification,
linguistic complexity, and over all the contributions of history
and mythology together in the evolution of Mithila;
2. It offers a continuum on the timeline to imagine past and
present of the society, thereof people, their religious belief
and practices, thereof language and knowledge; and
3. It lays out the context in which the field work in one of the
villages of this region can be presented for microscopic
analysis. In other words it also bridges the gap between the
historical and the sociological.
The sixth and seventh essays zero in on an even more focussed
part within the micro-context of Mithila, with the two essay
complementing each other in drawing the cultural landscape with
sound and sight, and the renditions of songs in the village of
Fulhara. The two essays are therefore put as two parts with the
same title. They present a descriptive glimpse of the everyday life
in the village, the calendar of festivity, and the events in the rites
of the passage. They chart the demographic composition, spatial
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arrangement, main occupations, agricultural as well as otherwise,
of the people to render the ethnography into a narrative of
pulsating lives. The presentation of songs is peppered with slices
of biographies and everyday living as part of the ethnographic
details along with the spontaneous interpretation offered by the
singers. Through these songs, consisting of innumerable genres,
the seventh essay extends the interpretative analysis by connecting
the loose threads. The interpretative analysis in this essay aims at
drawing the totality of world view. It emerges that the Maithil
world view, elucidated in the songs, projects a particular notion
of dying and death in the folk context. Hence, the eighth essay
specifically discusses this notion, which is conceptualized as art of
dying, returning to the creative swing between micro-context and
macro-questions. The intent here is to elaborate upon the holistic
idea of death, without resorting to the generic binaries often
apparent in the common sense. In association with the events of
life, the imagination of death involves emotional responses of the
people to it. It is not bereft of, what this essay conceptualizes as
emotional truthfulness of the folk.Thus, the ubiquity of metaphors of
death seems to be artistic expressions of the folk connecting living
and dying in the rite of the passage. This is where the interplay of
emotions, classical categories, and a negotiational process becomes
intelligible. In this essay, ‘art of dying’ thus forges a connection
between the special events of life and the ordinary everyday life.
In addition to the songs, everyday life conversations aid to the
folk philosophy.
The conclusion is an attempt to summarize the book with a
proposition that the key thesis of the book emanates with support
from significant peripheral expositions, which ought not to be
put into oblivion. Also, the conclusion is not drawn in theoretical
vacuum. This is evident as the essay tends to place them in the
larger, theoretical discourse to make sense of the sociological
implications of these findings. The conclusions leave room for
further research by stating the futuristic dispositions behind them.
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Notes
1. For another version of this tale in which the elderly lady
is replaced by Mulla Nasrudin, the famous eccentric thinker, see
Doniger 2011: 17. Wendy Doniger’s reading of the search of the lost
key in the street light (outside) whereas the key was lost in the dark
house (inside) questions the divide between insider and outsider. The
contact with outsider (foreigner) may be heuristically useful for the
insider (native) in the quest of the lost key.
2. A preliminary essay on this note is available elsewhere, see Pathak
2013.
3. This was a song in a musical hit.
4. There are many such songs in popular Hindi cinema expressing
engagement with death and dying using melodramatic lyrics.
5. See http://news.webindia123.com/news/articles/India/20130801/
2233768.html, accessed 5 January 2017.
6. See http://zeenews.india.com/news/bihar/nitish-kumar-inauguratesmithila-mahotsav_1562220.html, accessed 5 January 2017.
7. Veena Das, here, refers to the example of strangers in a coffee house
from Lévi-Strauss’s 1969.
8. See for example, Kakar 1978; Madan 1991, 2006; Srinivas and Shah 1968;
Doniger 2011.
9. M.N. Srinivas hints at the potentially distinguishable version of Hinduism,
emerging from the practices of the people rather than the ancient
texts. It, however, fails doubly to note that Hinduism is not either
textual or practical. It may consist of both in perpetual negotiation.
10. The anthropological trope is too thick to be encapsulated, but a few
could be quickly mentioned: Gennep 1960; Turner 1969; Hertz 1960a,
1960b; Parry 1981; Vitebsky 1993; or Myerhoff 1984, among so many
others.
11. To mention a representative few: Schombucher and Zoller 1999;
Filippi 2005; Saraswati 2005, from a fairly huge corpus of published
literatures.
12. See Tambiah (1987) and Dumont (1970) on the confluence between
Indology and Sociology.
13. Blackburn 1988 is one of the exceptions.
14. I am using the term ‘forward caste’ in accordance with the general usage
among the people of the region, rather than meaning any conceptually
clear term, to indicate those caste groups who are socially perceived
to be higher in the caste hierarchy, as opposed to the ‘backward caste’.
Both the groups in question and the perceiving groups share the
perception of location in the social hierarchy.