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  • How to Know a Person

  • The Art of Seeing Others Deeply and Being Deeply Seen
  • De: David Brooks
  • Narrado por: David Brooks
  • Duración: 7 h y 27 m
  • 4.7 out of 5 stars (2,006 calificaciones)

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NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER • A practical, heartfelt guide to the art of truly knowing another person in order to foster deeper connections at home, at work, and throughout our lives—from the author of The Road to Character and The Second Mountain

“More than a guide to better conversations, it’s a blueprint for a more connected and humane way of living. It’s a must-read for anyone looking to deepen their relationships and broaden their perspectives.”—Bill Gates, GatesNotes (Summer Reading Pick)

As David Brooks observes, “There is one skill that lies at the heart of any healthy person, family, school, community organization, or society: the ability to see someone else deeply and make them feel seen—to accurately know another person, to let them feel valued, heard, and understood.”

And yet we humans don’t do this well. All around us are people who feel invisible, unseen, misunderstood. In How to Know a Person, Brooks sets out to help us do better, posing questions that are essential for all of us: If you want to know a person, what kind of attention should you cast on them? What kind of conversations should you have? What parts of a person’s story should you pay attention to?

Driven by his trademark sense of curiosity and his determination to grow as a person, Brooks draws from the fields of psychology and neuroscience and from the worlds of theater, philosophy, history, and education to present a welcoming, hopeful, integrated approach to human connection. How to Know a Person helps readers become more understanding and considerate toward others, and to find the joy that comes from being seen. Along the way it offers a possible remedy for a society that is riven by fragmentation, hostility, and misperception.

The act of seeing another person, Brooks argues, is profoundly creative: How can we look somebody in the eye and see something large in them, and in turn, see something larger in ourselves? How to Know a Person is for anyone searching for connection, and yearning to be understood.

©2023 David Brooks (P)2023 Random House Audio
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A book he was ready to write

Summary: If we want to address the crisis of loneliness and the lack of community in American society, we need to learn how to listen and know others.

Both of David Brooks' last two books I had decided not to read, and then I changed my mind once I read reviews of them. But both of them had significant weaknesses, and Brooks was not yet ready to write either book. He wrote the books because he was an author and because writing and research are part of how he processes his own issues. He published because he was on deadline, not because he was really finished processing them. Because of this history, I again did not intend to pick up How to Know a Person. But again, I was drawn to them because of two podcasts. Curt Thompson interviewed him on Faith Angle. And then, more personally, he was interviewed by his real-life friend Kate Bowler on her podcast Everything Happens. These are very different podcasts. Curt Thompson is a Psychiatrist who has written about spiritual formation, the soul, shame, and neuroscience. That conversation is more about the technical issues of friendship, what relationships do for us, and why we need them. But it is easy to tell that Kate and David are not just acquaintances but actual friends who really do get together regularly. They talked about calling one another and going over to each other's homes to talk when needed. And that very personal conversation showed the aspect of how David has put into practice what he has been writing about for the past decade. That "putting into practice what he has been learning" which made me want to pick up How to Know a Person.

How to Know a Person has a mix of scientific research about how to listen, seek out friends, and why that is important. But the emotional center of the book is the three chapters telling the story of the suicide of David's oldest friend a few years ago. The main chapter is a revision of an essay he wrote not too long after the suicide. He grappled with that suicide and told the story of his friend's depression and how he tried to help. The two additional chapters are about what he learned afterward about depression and suicide and what advice he would have now for those who are either grappling with depression and suicide or those who have loved ones who are. All of these chapters are well-written, careful, and helpful. There is no silver bullet, but some things may be helpful.

Even if suicide or depression are not a concern for you and those around you, this is a helpful book that will have to be put into practice to be helpful. It is not a "three simple steps to be a better person" book. But a framing of how he understands the world to work, along with some advice about how to approach life so that you have a better chance of being a good friend and having good friends.

How to Be a Better Person is not a perfect book, but it feels like a book he was fully ready to write, unlike the previous two. As a spiritual director who spends much time in one-on-one conversations about intense and personal things, I found the advice and approach helpful. It is a book that I would recommend to most people, especially if you spend much time in conversation or would like to spend more time in conversation.

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Note on the narration: I am a big fan of authors reading their own work, especially if they are someone whose voice is well known. This is well narrated and he does a good job of communicating the emotion and earnestness of the book's topic in a helpful way that doesn't become pedantic or cloying. It was very well done.

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A stunning contribution

Brooks has delivered a roadmap for personal growth, deeply enhanced relationships, and a shift away from social division and toward social harmony and care. Deeply researched and beautifully, often poetically, delivered.

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Earth shattering. Be prepared to take lots of notes! .

Deeply insightful and approachable I’ve had 20+ years of analysis and I still learned more insights and tips and techniques on how to know a person and be a better person and friend.

What didn’t I like. Not much, perhaps on audible getting a list of all the books David Brooks refers to.

Thank you David for writing this book .

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A Monumental Book

I have enjoyed many of David Brooks various books over the years. He has a very casual and approachable writing style.

How to Know a Person is my favorite of all his work. In an era defined by loneliness and fragmentation, David provides a clear roadmap on becoming a better listener, a better friend, a better stranger, and a better person. This should be required reading - or in my case, listening. The audiobook version is great.

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David Brooks - a much needed voice in our time

Everyone should read this book. And as David suggests, think deeply about how you can improve yourself and those around you. Bravo, Mr Brooks!

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My favourite author!

I have read all of his books and have been moved and enriched by all of them. In his quest to become a good person, he has made me an infinitely better person than I was before I experienced his books. This book is his best, and I am inspired to become my best with his guidance. Bravo! And thanks for narrating too. It’s the icing on the cake.

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outstanding!

Any one in any profession - including parents - can benefit from listening to this audio book.

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Great book!

Everyone should read this book! The world would be a better place and everyone would feel seen & heard!

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Life Changing!

I am currently applying the principles and concepts learned and am already seeing a change in my life and the new connections that I am making. Many books, like how to win friends and influence people, try to explain how to be better socially, but they just fall short. This book fills in the gaps with excellent research and references. I will be purchasing the hard copy. Very eye opening!

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Inspiring and Sensible

This book was full of examples and tips on how to form richer relationships of every kind. The reader is encouraged to suspend judgement and extend compassion and empathy to everyone. It was a positive and inspirational read.

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