See You on the Way Down: Catch You on the Way Back Up!
Written by Greg Behrendt
Narrated by Greg Behrendt
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In See You on the Way Down… Catch You on the Way Back Up!, comedian and #1 New York Times bestselling author Greg Behrendt opens up about his rise to the top and the high-speed rollercoaster of ups and downs that followed.
You may know him best as the co-author of He’s Just Not That Into You, but sometimes he wishes you didn’t. During a serendipitous opportunity to serve as a consultant on the hugely successful television series Sex and the City (which was brought about by a lack of straight men in the writers’ room), Behrendt passed along what would become pop culture-defining relationship advice to a colleague: “He’s into you, he’s just not that into you.”
What was intended to be a casual conversation soon exploded into a phenomenon for women around the globe and landed Behrendt multiple appearances on The Oprah Winfrey Show, changing the trajectory of his career. Grateful for the success that the book (and later, movie) brought him, Behrendt did not intend — nor expect — to be a relationship expert. The stark adjustment to this new level of fame led to emotional struggles as Behrendt tried to remain true to himself and advance his other career goals. Stand-up shows at famed comedy clubs would be interrupted by fans of HJNTIY, and interview appearances would focus solely on the popular relationship advice rather than his new stand-up specials. Through it all, Behrendt grappled with getting people to focus on the work he loved most — comedy.
As he managed professional hiccups, Behrendt was also battling personal difficulties. In the span of a few years, he would receive not one but two cancer diagnoses and fight to overcome prescription drug addiction, all while grieving the loss of two beloved family members who had struggled with their own addictions. As the stress mounted for himself, so it did for his wife and daughters.
Behrendt is the first to admit that he’s made mistakes and that he will — like all humans — make more in the future. See You on the Way Down may not have all the answers, but it shows how resilience, time, and a sense of self can get someone back up after a hard punch… or a few. Humble and hopeful, Behrendt’s story will show you that while the high moments may not last forever, neither do the low ones. All it takes is the right help.
Editor's Note
Not-so-funny business…
From “He’s Just Not That Into You” to “That Guy From That Thing,” from being Oprah’s relationship guru to rehab and cancer, comedian and author Behrendt has experienced many highs and lows. In this raw memoir, he takes readers behind the scenes of how just one phrase uttered while working on “Sex and the City” altered the course of his entire life — for better, for worse. Even during the darkest times, his humorous, generous spirit shines through.
Greg Behrendt
Comedian Greg Behrendt was a consultant for three consecutive seasons on Sex and the City, where he and Liz Tucillo, a writer on the programme, developed the idea of He's Just Not That Into You. The book became a runaway success in the US. His acclaimed stand-up comedy has been seen on HBO, The Tonight Show, Late Show with David Letterman and Late Night with Conan O'Brien. He lives in Los Angeles with his wife, Amiira Ruotola-Behrendt, and their two children
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- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5A book read by Greg Behrendt’s about his life that delivers deep insights and raw honesty. I found the straight talk refreshing and appreciate his candid approach to life’s challenges. Greg has the amazing ability to articulate complex emotions and challenging experiences with addiction and mental illness in a straightforward manner.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Very interesting I highly recommend it. I love the details of living with Bipolar Ii
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5I really enjoyed this book. Greg is one of my favorite comics. I appreciate his self effacing humor and his honesty.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Wow! This is a great story! Quite amazing and sad and inspiring! Definitely a must read!
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5This is one of the most laid bare, honest telling of misdiagnosed medical & mental illnesses. Godspeed.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Great book! Thanks Greg! B! Keep up the great work and get back out there and make us laugh on stage, you are great at it!
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Very moving tale of a life that miraculously ends up being so forgiving. Give me the strength of Amira!
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5The fact that you hear about a guy who had some great highs and then some hard, hard lows again and again…and survived to tell the tale is amazing! The fact he is alive to talk about all that has happened is truly remarkable. A great listen…and a MUST LISTEN for all Cuddlahs out there.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5I have been a fan of Greg for a long time. I knew he went through some things but never knew the extent. Wow! Thanks for being so raw and so real and congratulations on just doing life! Always a fan…then and now
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5I have always loved Greg and it was sad to hear about the challenges he has faced, but it is hopeful as he has also worked hard to get better and rebuild relationships.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Wow! A truly honest and revealing book! Really admire Amiira! So many challenges, so glad to hear that Greggers is on his way up!!! And so nice to hear Greg himself. Every obstacle thrown at him deeply affected his family. Every success also had its challenges. Totally inspiring, I expected nothing less. Thank you for sharing this.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5A love letter to his family, friends and fan base. I couldn’t turn it off. Compelling. Prepare to listen in one sitting!
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- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5I am deeply moved after reading it. Greg's willingness to share his life with us is...so brave. Listening to him reading his story was incredible. His writing shows his humor, even when describing the tougher aspects of life.
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