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    The Relational Intelligence: The I.Q. of the Inter-Personal Intelligence
    The Relational Intelligence: The I.Q. of the Inter-Personal Intelligence
    The Relational Intelligence: The I.Q. of the Inter-Personal Intelligence
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    The Relational Intelligence: The I.Q. of the Inter-Personal Intelligence

    By Ivan Pitzer de Souza

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    In this book, we find as a focus of the question of the interrelationship as a major duty, found in the meaning of the word reciprocity, which , is presented in a colloquial expression that means helping one another

    Our mission is essential and surmounted in love and compassion within an unrestricted human solidarity. My experience as a psychotherapist has always been very rewarding to support the author of this book, as wife and companion, to share the guidelines of each assessment and training to be given in our care to those who were seeking our help, encouraging the lives of many people who they needed to understand their role within the context of the dynamics of their personalities, within a frame of work of their personal and inter-relationationhips.

    Thus, the author goes beyond the relationship character traits to a close assessment, to evaluate the motivations and frustrations, as dynamic factors , starting from what a person wants to achieve for herself, and what to expect from the other character, who will always be connected to our congenial espheres.

    So as we have learned with our Master, with the utmost maxima of Christianity: "Love thy God above all things, and thy neighbor as yourselves." Although it is a difficult mission, we must learn from Him that our solicitude will be in direct reasonal approach, for a reciprocal kind of love
    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherAuthorHouse
    Release dateApr 9, 2012
    ISBN9781467873048
    The Relational Intelligence: The I.Q. of the Inter-Personal Intelligence
    Author

    Ivan Pitzer de Souza

    What led the author of this book to introduce different aspects of inter personal relationship was the "raison d'etre 'of all inter-personal relationships or intra personal that are connected in the' rationale 'of intelligence, both intellectual and emotional that carries an assumption, that undergo a process of stimulus and response, which leads the subject to relate in a positive or negative way with an understanding of themselves or others, as far as: family relationships, the environment work, whether in the commercial, political, educational, health or religion, within a degree of intelligence, determining a person be successful or unsuccessful.

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      The Relational Intelligence - Ivan Pitzer de Souza

      CONTENTS

      FOREWORD

      PREFACE

      ACKNOWLEDGMENTS

      CHAPTER I

      CHAPTER II

      CHAPTER III

      CHAPTER IV

      CHAPTER V

      CHAPTER VI

      CHAPTER VII

      CONCLUSION

      ABOUT THE AUTHOR

      ABOUT THE BOOK

      REFERENCES

      FOREWORD

      The focus of this book is on the concept of interrelationship as our duty, as suggested by the word reciprocity, defined as helping one another.

      Our mission is essential and founded on love and compassion within unrestricted human solidarity. My experience as a psychotherapist has always been very rewarding, and I have been honored to support the author of this book as wife and work companion, sharing the guidelines of each assessment and training given to those who were seeking our help. We have encouraged many who needed to understand their roles within the dynamics of their personalities and the framework of personal interrelationships.

      The author goes beyond the superficial traits of a relationship to a closer assessment, evaluating motivations and frustrations as dynamic factors that begin with what a person wants to achieve for his—or herself and moves on to what can be expected from others in circles of friendship.

      From our Master, we have learned the most important maxim of Christianity: Love your God above all things, and your neighbor as yourself. Although it is a difficult mission, we must learn from Him that our solicitude will be a direct reasonable approach for a reciprocal kind of love.

      Louraci de Moura Souza

      Postgraduate in Vocational Counseling

      Covington Theological Seminary

      Pensacola, Florida

      PREFACE

      Writing about a complex subject in a way that enables the reader to understand is not easy; it requires wisdom and creativity. Dr. Pitzer De Souza, in his book Relational Intelligence, uses simple language, enhanced with great wisdom, to impart his message and whet the curiosity of the reader to go deeper into the subject.

      The book presents case studies and interviews—conducted by the author in his career as a therapist—to convey the main differences between simple relationships and true interrelationships.

      In this work, he invites the reader to reflect on the difficulties we encounter in our journey of life and offers key strategies for obtaining success in our jobs and families.

      The text is full of dialogues to facilitate the reader’s understanding. It is worth mentioning that society will benefit from the rise of the theory of relational intelligence, because it raises substantial and important questions and encourages a careful look at human holistic relationships.

      I recommend this book for the reader to enjoy. It will certainly inspire reflections and new insights for all who seek personal growth and harmonious relationships.

      Rosane H. de Sousa

      Graduate in Education, Federal University in the State of Bahia (UFEBA)

      MA in Community Education, State University, Rio Grande do Sul

      Academic Director, College of Education, Salvador, Bahia, FACESA

      ACKNOWLEDGMENTS

      I gratefully acknowledge and express deep appreciation to the many wonderful people who have been an inspiration in my life and have made this project possible.

      To my dear parents, Jonas and Anna, for teaching me how to build a relationship with love, respect, mutual trust, and courage—and for establishing faith in the Lord of Eternity, Jesus Christ, God the Father, the Holy Spirit, and the Holy Scriptures as a rule of our confessional practice.

      To my beloved wife, Louraci—who has been a gift and companion in my family, professional, and pastoral relationships—for her unconditional support, understanding, affection, loyalty, and love.

      To my unforgettable children, Ana Christina, Ivan Junior, Debora, Elaine, and Milton—precious jewels who were grown with love and selflessness and now bless others in their vocations, their ministries, and their community service in the Lord’s cause.

      To the beloved congregations of the churches I had the privilege of pastoring for the past fifty years, in times marked by the integrity and fidelity of brotherly love between brothers and sisters in spiritual unity, uniting us with ties of Christian love, fostering close cooperation, and inspiring us to rejoice in the Lord’s work and celebrate the ideal of loving of the Lord and our neighbor as ourselves.

      To my mentors, Jacques Lacan, Carl Rogers, and Francis A. Schaeffer, who instilled in me an understanding of the human being, without preconceptions or discrimination, seeking to help and restore those who needed understanding, and encouraging me through the decades of guesswork.

      To my professors at the Department of Continuing Education, Harvard Medical School, and the Postgraduate Association, whose support allowed me to expand my vision of building relationships in the area of psychotherapy.

      To my faculty members, Rosane, Antonete, Brasilena, Jussara, and Everaldo; administrative staffers Elaine, Mark, Albert; collaborators Heldislene and Jonas; and all the dedicated people who helped with our community projects, enabling our participation in the educational work of our city of Salvador.

      To my dear nieces, Monica and Natalia, for their efforts at translating this work from the original draft in order to create an English-language version.

      To my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ, all honor and glory, who was, and is, and is to come, who lives and reigns, who is the master par excellence of relationships, teaching the way, the truth, and the life.

      Can two walk together,

      except they be agreed?—Amos 3:3

      Chapter I

      Relationships of all sorts involve a process of stimulus and response. People relate to one another in a positive or negative way, developing an understanding between themselves about family relationships, the environment, work, politics, education, health, religion—whatever the topic of conversation and interest. It’s assumed that our degree of intelligence is a determining factor in whether we’re successful or unsuccessful in these interrelationships.

      Yet often, an individual’s IQ does not directly correlate to relationship success. Smart people do dumb things when relating to others, often missing cues, misreading emotions, or being unaware of the way others are doing the same to them. What does it take to be intelligent in a relationship? The answer to that question

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