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    Dailyness − How to Sustain a Meditation Practice
    Dailyness − How to Sustain a Meditation Practice
    Dailyness − How to Sustain a Meditation Practice
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    Dailyness − How to Sustain a Meditation Practice

    By Tommy Angelo

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    To have a meditation practice that never lapses, you need to do sitting meditation every day, you need to do it when you get up, and you have to want to do it. That's the premise. This book is not about why to meditate. It's about how to pull it off.

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    PublisherTommy Angelo
    Release dateFeb 5, 2019
    ISBN9781386701323
    Dailyness − How to Sustain a Meditation Practice
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    Tommy Angelo

    Once, during a poker discussion in Las Vegas, several top strategists were debating how to play pocket kings under the gun. Then Tommy Angelo popped in with “I can tell you the best way to play two kings. Decide in advance that no matter what happens, you won’t go on tilt!” Insights like that are what drove the popularity of Angelo’s first book, Elements of Poker, a tome highly regarded for its fresh and practical perspectives. Since he began offering coaching in 2004, over one hundred students have paid for his candid advice, wanting more of what they found in his 100 articles and 18 videos. In 2017, Angelo completed Painless Poker. “I have no words left,” he wrote to his mailing-list fans. "I put them all in here.” Painless Poker combines sections of Angelo’s own history with a fictional poker-coaching seminar featuring seven suffering poker players, in an innovative combination of memoir, fiction, and poker instruction. When at home in Oakland, California, Angelo writes, cooks, reads, and makes music, as part of what he calls his “urban monastic lifestyle.” He cohabits with two cats, and Kay, his wife. 

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      Dailyness − How to Sustain a Meditation Practice - Tommy Angelo

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      Reproduction of this work without the

      author’s consent is strictly encouraged.

      Connect:

      Email: tommy@tommyangelo.com

      Website: www.TommyAngelo.com

      Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheTommyAngelo

      Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/tommyangelooperations/

      Previous books:

      Elements of Poker

      A Rubber Band Story and Other Poker Tales

      Painless Poker

      Waiting for Straighters

      Copyright © 2018 Tommy Angelo

      Published by Tommy Angelo

      CONTENTS

      Why Meditate?

      The Dailyness Imperative

      Components of a Practice

      Overcoming Obstacles

      Morning Meditations

      Mindfulness Throughout the Day

      You Have to Want It

      Acknowledgments

      Books by Tommy Angelo

      Why Meditate?

      I was 45 years old and ripe for a whole life makeover when I started meditating. One week later, I knew that I wanted and needed to meditate every day of my life. For the first time, I had real hope of getting my act together. If I could stick with it. And that sent me into a panic, because of my history of not sticking with it. So, out of necessity, and to keep the panic down, I strategized from the outset, to protect my practice from whatever might threaten it.

      Meanwhile, over in the revenue world, I played poker for a living for many years, and then I became a poker coach who specialized in helping poker players play their best more often. All of my clients received a crash course from me on meditation, and some of them went on to become dedicated practitioners. My heart soared when they told me about watching themselves break free of harmful patterns that seemed utterly unchangeable just weeks before.

      Along with their success stories, I shared their disappointment, and sometimes despair, when they lapsed. The frustration of having tasted the fruit of meditation, and then going hungry. Sometimes they asked me to help them restart, and we’d talk about what happened that made them stop, so that it might not make them stop next time. I’ve helped some non-poker-players too, with their practice. These experiences taught me that some meditation problems are common to all.

      It’s nearly impossible to start a meditation practice and keep it going. It’s like blasting a satellite into orbit. First you have to win an epic battle against inertia. Then you need to make adjustments until you achieve a stable orbit. But if you can do all that, inertia becomes your friend, and you can coast.

      This book is here to help you achieve orbit and sustain it. The word sustain brings three of its meanings to the context of meditation. It means to keep a process going. It means to supply nourishment. And the third meaning of sustain that applies to meditation is this: to undergo, to withstand. You keep your practice going by feeding it and withstanding it. This book will show you how.

      Why meditate?

      My favorite answer to that question is: to reduce unhappiness.

      Sure, there are plenty of other answers. People meditate to boost productivity and increase focus. Or to improve their disposition − to make themselves more patient, less irritable, more yielding, less selfish. Other reasons to meditate are to attain spiritual enlightenment and to suppress stress. And then there’s plain old curiosity − to see what will happen − because nothing else has worked.

      Why do we desire so many changes in ourselves? It’s because everyone wants less unhappiness in their lives, and each of the changes I just listed reduces unhappiness, for the meditator, and for the meditator’s circle. What drives the changes? It’s the simplest thing. Mindful breathing. Every mindful breath has the desired effect of reducing unhappiness.

      If you think so too, and if you wish you did more mindful breathing, keep reading.

      Here’s a glance at the chapters:

      First I propose that making a life-long commitment to never lapsing even for one day is a splendid idea.

      Then we look at the foundations of a practice: posture, breathing, stillness, mindfulness, stretchy bendy stuff, resources, and community.

      Then comes a whole bunch of strategies for staying on the path when you face obstacles such as lack of time, physical discomfort, interruptions, and traveling.

      Next is the practice itself, in detail. First, how to begin your day. Then, how to use your intelligence, creativity, and zeal to speckle your days with the benefits of mindfulness.

      The book ends with a one-page send-off called: You Have to Want It.

      The Dailyness Imperative

      It’s hard to start a campfire when all you have to work with is matches, moss, and twigs. But once you have a viable flame going, all is well. Just add kindling and logs, and you’ve got yourself a fire.

      After the flames die down, the coal bed stays red-hot for hours. To start a new fire, you need only add kindling and logs to the coals. But if the coals go cold, all the way to gray, then you must start from scratch, huddled over a fragile tepee of twigs.

      If you have ever exercised with regularity and then stopped, and then scolded yourself for months for not being able to reignite your fire, then you know what I’m talking about.

      Dailyness is about momentum. You have to work to build up momentum, and then once you have it, you can maintain momentum without a huge effort. I’m talking about doing sitting meditation every day, no matter what, so that your coals never go cold.

      Not only does dailyness eradicate lapsing, it also clears up any possible confusion. You never have to remember if today is the day you are going to meditate.

      Daily sitting will relieve whatever worries you may have about the quality of your sitting. When you know you’re going to meditate every day for thousands of days in a row, suddenly there’s no pressure. With a lifetime of tomorrows, it doesn’t matter how you perform today. You might be steady one day and fidgety the next, or maybe you feel like a

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