The Tao of Sales: A Conversation About Simple and Fundamental Methods for Success for Sales Managers and Sales People
By John Fabiano
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Sales is not a battle, a war, or an athletic competition. Sales is a simple process with altruistic overtones and shading and needs not be complicated. In The Tao of Sales, author John Fabiano offers a unique and refreshing look at sales methods that are simple as well as elegant, emphasizing considerations and processes meant to strip away clichs and lead to a mutually successful and agreeable process for sales people and buyers.
Different from traditional sales doctrine, Fabiano presents an eclectic conversation about effective methods for success in sales based on simplicity, questioning, ownership, ethics, and working smart. The Tao of Sales gives a plethora of how-to tips regarding a simple, organic sales process that is a collaboration between sales person and prospect rather than a competition.
Fabiano uses his personal experiences to underscore many of the methods, principles, and points. Because sales advice and training takes many forms, shapes, and colors, he encourages practitioners make educated choices and to apply what resonates from within. The Tao of Sales is geared for the novice, the beginner, those needing to make choices or changes, and those looking for a better way.
Praise for The Tao of Sales
As one who has toiled successfully on both sides of the office doorsales consulting and sales managementreading this book felt like a great affirmation of all of the best things Ive learned from my mentors over the decades, minus all the bad stuff.
Patrick Cuccaro, Managing Director, Affairs to Remember Caterers Small Business Advisory Council Alum, Yelp! Past Chairman of the Board, Georgia Restaurant Association Advisory Board, Special Events Magazine
Are good sales people born or are they nurtured and developed from observation, experience, training, curiosity, and imitation?
The question remains unanswered.
The high achievers I met owned every piece of what they were doing to bring in the business. Basics, fundamentals, always won out and it was hard to get away from that. Those who had turned their sales process into a Zen like state were top performers. Those who knew the product and the competition backwards and forwards were top performers. Those who took the time to get to know their prospects inside and out were top performers. These were people who didnt compete with their clothes, grooming, and delivery. These were people who could deliver their presentations with their eyes closed, never having to look directly at the slide and who never read the slide, but talked from it. Simple fundamentals allowed them to be elegant with all they did.
John Fabiano
John Fabiano put himself through college working summers at yacht clubs and marinas in the Hamptons. He graduated college with degrees in the arts and theatre and post graduate degrees in Performing Arts Management and Play Direction and was a Graduate Fellow at Wayne States prestigious Hilberry Repertory Theatre. Prior to entering the corporate world, he developed audiences for several different performing arts venues. He has said that the business of show business is simple as it is an ass in every seat, providing there is a good product on the stage. In his lifetime he has sold radio advertising, vacuums, violets, Volvos, and other various products and services. He owned a billiard parlor-tavern, held credentials as a financial advisor, taught special education in an autistic unit, and delivered seminars on pre-need funeral arrangements. He ascended from the position of a sales engineer directly to increasing levels of sales management, eventually reaching the position of National Sales Manager for a global communications company. During that period he consistently qualified for performance above plan recognitions and bonuses. A former avid sailor and fisherman, John, (who goes by Doc to his friends) has traveled extensively, cruised the Bahamas, fished a couple of oceans and seas, swam with and lassoed sharks in Bora Bora, was awed by the Northern Lights in Anchorage, witnessed the green sunset flash from Moorea, watched Mona Kea erupt from a small plane, and lounged, beer in hand, in a hammock watching a Tahitian dance group rehearse on a black sand beach in Papeete among other eclectic experiences. He got his first writing job at 16, covering the waterfront for his hometown weekly newspaper for the grand sum of $.50 a column inch. Today an artist and writer, John lives in Jacksonville, Florida with his wife, Beth, herself a top performer in her industry. Buy the ticket, take the ride. Hunter S. Thompson
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The Tao of Sales - John Fabiano
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Abbott Press rev. date: 03/03/2017
CONTENTS
Dedications and Acknowledgements
Introduction
Chapter 0 How to use this book…
Chapter 1 The Sales Professional’s Index
Chapter 2 The Seminal Salesperson
Chapter 3 The Right Sales Job
Chapter 4 Step 0
Chapter 5 Rating Sales Calls
Chapter 6 You Gotta Love on Your People
Chapter 7 The Basic Sales Process
Chapter 8 Profitable Prospecting
Chapter 9 Making It Yours
Chapter 10 Presentations
Chapter 11 The Reality Pill
Chapter 12 The Value Proposition
Chapter 13 The Value of Value Add
Chapter 14 Ethics
Chapter 15 Effective Writing
Chapter 16 Polished Communications
Chapter 17 To stay or to go
Chapter 18 The Journal
Chapter 19 The Loyal Opposition
Epilogue
Appendices
About the Author
DEDICATIONS AND ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS
DEDICATION
FOR
PAT COLLINS AND BOB HAWTHORNE
Great friends and great salesmen
AND FOR
Beth, my wife, my best friend, who reminds me daily of the goodness in life with her love, kindness, and empathy towards all.
ACKNOWLEDGEMENT
It has been a long sail from the beginning to reaching a safe harbor, and there have been many who have contributed to the kind of sailor I have become. All have graced me with kindness and the benefit of their experiences and beliefs and I have always been and remain grateful. They applauded my success’s and ignored my shortcomings. I was there to see my friends do wonderful things and remain willing to testify that there are good and righteous people in the world, still. And I have been fortunate to know them.
Thank you all.
1taocharacter.jpgTAO:
A philosophical system advocating a life of complete simplicity and naturalness and of non-interference with the course of natural events, in order to attain a happy and harmonic existence.
INTRODUCTION
THE REALITY:
Sales is not a battle, a war, or an athletic competition, all lay metaphors withstanding. Such assume that the customer is the enemy, the opposition, and is to be defeated implying that the sales person is the winner and the customer is the loser. That doesn’t make sense when the object of the exercise is to provide the best and most reasonable solution to satisfy the customer’s needs. Sales is a simple process with altruistic overtones and shading and needs not be complicated when reasonable and ethical people collaborate to enact responsible and mutually effective business agreements.
CHAPTER 0
How to use this book…
(…or not to)
We learn by questioning. Little kids are great sales people because they are always asking Why?
That is a great start and it is simple. Via the Dali Lama, we learned that Buddhist philosophy teaches to question everything: Siddhartha supposedly told his disciples to question everything, even what he taught them. The Socratic method of learning lies in asking questions. Christ advised his disciples to do the same. Today Pope Francis admonishes the faithful not to fear questioning. Even Albert Einstein spoke of the importance of questioning. Do not take anything at face value.
Here is another premise of this book: Occam’s Razor. Know it? It states that in any given situation it is most likely the simplest solution or explanation is the best. With that consider another construct of the razor: don’t over think the situation; be observant, and remove anything that does not make sense.
When questioning, keep it simple and have no fear or apprehension. The worst that can happen is no
as a response. So what; move on. But never be hesitant about questioning as long as you are polite, direct, and to the point. Emotion has no place here (do not take it personally); however, sales
for the prospect many times is emotional process, but business
is not.
Give yourself credit for having a brain, despite all other influences to the contrary. I accept that you have one; use it. If you don’t, this book won’t work for you.
What you find following is the result of years of experience of not only myself but many others as well as observations of both good and bad across the continent.
What is presented herein works; it worked for me and worked for the people I observed doing it. The question is, will it work for you?
That depends upon you. If you are seeking information to validate your decision to accept sales as a career, you will find straight forward talk
to consider. If it makes sense to you, if it resonates, whether you have yet to start your career or have already started, then work to make it yours.
You can’t do me any more than I can do you. See the chapter on Making it yours
to understand some methods you may employ to take ownership and put your stamp on what you have learned to do.
The internet is crowded with information about selling: how to techniques; psychology of selling; psychology of buyers; how to read body language to your advantage; consultant selling, solution selling, commodity selling, financial selling, prospecting, closing, qualifying, training, consultant services, and on and on and on. Find what you like, see if you can make it yours; if it resonates, and try it.
To imply that the methods herein are the only ones that work would be the height of conceit and erroneously proselytizing. And I hate that.
There may be times when you are told what
to do, rather than how
to do it. Learning how
is a better route than being told what
. If all you are hearing is what
to do, find someone who will show you how
, otherwise, leave.
Look for a mentor
, someone in the organization who is willing to guide and help you through the early days and months of your career. Look for someone who is very good at what they do and has had a lot of time on the job; someone you feel confident can show you, or at least explain, how
.
Make your own decisions. But think first. Do homework, research, due diligence, until you are satisfied that the path you choose is the right one for you.
Don’t fear failure. It is part of learning, an important part. Don’t let failure stop your enthusiasm, your desires. A good leader will understand his failures as well as those of his followers and not begrudge or judge them for it.
Just don’t stew over it or make failure a habit.
Odds are that you will come across many people, both sales people and buyers, who are prone to saying trust me
as a way to acceptance. You may take for granted that many buyers do not trust sales people for any number of reasons, some because of pervious bad experiences, some because they lack confidence, some because they feel no resonance and make a negative decision based on first impressions. But trust is critical to success today, and continued success tomorrow.
Lincoln said that you can fool some of the people all of the time, and all of the people some of the time; Robin Williams said that you can fool some of the people all of the time and abuse
the rest. But you can count on what goes around comes around; it is like a law of physics.
Take what you read within here, make it yours, and use it to your advantage. Or, consider all this and make your own, educated, decisions.
Trust me.
CHAPTER 1
The Sales Professional’s Index
The following is the result of a lot of internet searching and the credit goes to the authors of numerous blogs and sites offering sales help and solutions on many levels. It should be remembered that while the internet is considered to be an ocean of information, parts of it are shoals two inches or less deep.
The point remains, however, that sales today is not perfect, nor are sales professionals, managers, and buyers and a process that is a combination of natural aptitude, science, and art is about as difficult to corral as it would be to herd cats. Sales is neither fish nor fowl but a simple process that is equally valuable to the buyer as it is to the sales person
Use your own best judgement, but keep in mind the lessons that lurk behind the lines. Trust your gut.
12.3% of all jobs are in sales, inside and out
1 Trillion dollars are spent annually on sales forces
55% of sales people should be doing something else other than sales
64% of sales people fail because they are in the wrong sales job
50% of sales managers admit they are too busy to train or develop their sales force
50% of sales people have no planned approach
50% of sales professionals do not have a playbook
The win rate exceeds 50% for 66% of the