Whether it’s news notifications or work emails, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed by the stresses of our time every moment of every day. But what if there was something we could do to rekindle the greatest joys of our pasts? How might that shift how we feel in the present moment? Simply reflecting on happy memories has been shown in a lab to reduce stress, activate the reward center in our brain, and uplift our mood. This week, Palestinian-American poet and author Naomi Shihab Nye reminisces on happy memories from her youth and finds the practice soothes her and sparks joyfulness. We also hear from neuroscientist Mauricio Delgado about how the practice changes the way we think and feel, and which types of happy memories serve us best.
Practice:
For one week or more, spend 5-10 minutes each day writing in response to the following prompt:
Think about good memories you have from your past. Write a few paragraphs describing them and one event that you still remember to this date. Please provide as many details as possible, including who was there, so that another person reading what you wrote could understand how you felt at that time.
Today’s guests:
Naomi Shihab Nye is a Palestinian-American poet and author. Her new book of poetry, Grace Notes, will be available May 7.
Order Grace Notes: https://tinyurl.com/st3w6n8t
Check out Naomi’s children’s book about a child visiting her Palestinian grandmother, Sitti’s Secrets: https://tinyurl.com/5embjxuj
Follow Naomi on Instagram: https://tinyurl.com/5hddcf8k
Mauricio Delgado is a psychology professor at Rutgers University who studies social and cognitive neuroscience.
Learn more about Mauricio’s work: https://tinyurl.com/4tt7bp2d
Follow Mauricio on Twitter: https://tinyurl.com/27kvv6j7
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Related Happiness Breaks:
A Meditation to Connect to Your Roots, With Yuria Celidwen - https://tinyurl.com/3ae3w3z3
Where Did You Come From? Guided Writing, With Lyla June - https://tinyurl.com/ytypxn5t
Tell us about your happiest childhood memories, and what they bring to you now. Email us at happinesspod@berkeley.edu or use the hashtag #happinesspod.
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Released:
Apr 25, 2024
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Learn research-tested strategies for a happier, more meaningful life, drawing on the science of compassion, gratitude, mindfulness, and awe. Hosted by award-winning professor Dacher Keltner. Co-produced by PRX and UC Berkeley's Greater Good Science Center.
