Zey's Reviews > Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl―A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship

Bella Swan should have read this book!

I am not really into self-help books like this because I really don't give a damn about guys. Sure, guys are such fascinating creatures. Sometimes I want them. But most of the times, I just want them to leave me alone. And no, I am definitely NOT a man-hater, I told you, they fascinate me. But I just couldn't make myself give a damn on whether men I know think I'm a doormat or a dream girl. I have much better things to do than that. And if a guy doesn't like me anymore, sure as hell I won't try to woo him. There are a lot of fish in the sea. And we're living in a world with quite a number of oceans.

I enjoyed reading this book, though. I really think this book is a must read for all the girls out there who think that the sun revolves around their boyfriends. My friend who just got dumped by her boyfriend for being "too-clingy" recommended this book to me. She said that if she only had this book earlier in her relationship, her boyfriend might have never dumped her.
I don't know about that, but I think, this book might have helped her. Because this book shows that girls who value themselves, that are independent and have great self-respect and confidence are the ones who are really what you call: HOT.

Being a bitch here is defined not in a negative context. A Bitch is someone who loves herself more than any man, and will never let a man control here life, no matter how much she loves him. She doesn't take shits from men and
definitely doesn't tolerate being looked down upon like a doormat. She's independent, strong, intelligent, and has a life of her own. She doesn't sacrifice her other relationships just to suit the schedule of her boyfriend.
A bitch believes that a relationship needs mutual respect and trust between the partners. She believes that she deserves only the best because she's willing to give her best in return.
And yes, we all need to be a little bitch sometimes.

It is a perfect read for girls who needed a little bit of a boost on their self-confidence and for girls who are in a not-so-healthy and co-dependent relationship. This book has tips on how to keep things interesting and to make guys crazy over you.

I won't recommend it to guys though, because I don't want you to know our tricks. :)