The document discusses how infants develop the ability to self-soothe and self-regulate their emotions between 4-6 months of age. Temperament affects how easily infants can learn to regulate themselves, with more easy-going infants finding it easier. Caregivers can help infants develop these skills through responsive care, face-to-face interactions, allowing infants to explore their environment, and strategies like peek-a-boo which help with object permanence. Self-regulation skills are important for developing empathy later on.
The document discusses how infants develop the ability to self-soothe and self-regulate their emotions between 4-6 months of age. Temperament affects how easily infants can learn to regulate themselves, with more easy-going infants finding it easier. Caregivers can help infants develop these skills through responsive care, face-to-face interactions, allowing infants to explore their environment, and strategies like peek-a-boo which help with object permanence. Self-regulation skills are important for developing empathy later on.
The document discusses how infants develop the ability to self-soothe and self-regulate their emotions between 4-6 months of age. Temperament affects how easily infants can learn to regulate themselves, with more easy-going infants finding it easier. Caregivers can help infants develop these skills through responsive care, face-to-face interactions, allowing infants to explore their environment, and strategies like peek-a-boo which help with object permanence. Self-regulation skills are important for developing empathy later on.
The document discusses how infants develop the ability to self-soothe and self-regulate their emotions between 4-6 months of age. Temperament affects how easily infants can learn to regulate themselves, with more easy-going infants finding it easier. Caregivers can help infants develop these skills through responsive care, face-to-face interactions, allowing infants to explore their environment, and strategies like peek-a-boo which help with object permanence. Self-regulation skills are important for developing empathy later on.
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L
ets face it weve all been
there The baby screaming in the car seat in the back just out of your reach and nothing you can do about it. Youve tried a pacifier, playing the radio, singing to your baby, rolling down the windows, nothing seems to help. Youre left feeling helpless to your babys need. After a few months the car rides get easier. Your baby is able to soothe themselves by grasping toys, looking out the window, or just listening to your voice. The days of screaming all the way to the grocery store are over. What was it that changed? Was there something that you found that worked? Or did something change in your baby? According to Berk (2013) it is around four to six months of age that infants begin to self-soothe by shifting their attention. Temperament effects a childs ability to self-regulate. Infants born with an easy going temperament will have an easier time learning to regulate their emotions. However, children born with difficult or slow-to warm temperaments will need more time and patience from caregivers. Empathy begins in infancy with babies connecting with their caregivers through face to face interactions. Often an infant will begin to cry when
hearing the cry of another baby but,
true empathy requires children to understand that the self is distinct from other people (p. 417). There are numerous strategies and ways to help children develop self-regulation skills.
Tips for Parents
Remember that, this too shall
pass. It is hard to listen to your infant in distress. Especially when they are very young. It is important for caregivers to keep themselves calm, cool, and collected in order to respond appropriately to their child. As the infant ages it is important to engage them in face to face play as well as playing with objects. This allows them to develop an understanding of the world around them. It also gives them a chance to figure out how to turn away from overwhelming stimuli. As infants are able to move their ability to self-regulate emotions increases. Infants are increasingly more aware of the choice to, [approach] or [retreat] from various situations (p. 410). This realization gives the infant more control over themselves. Lastly, it is very important that infants in distress are responded to promptly, with sympathy and the understanding that their cry is their way of communicating that they need something. The infant may need a diaper change, to be fed, talked to,
picked up, or just to see a
familiar face.
Behavioral Strategies for Infants
Struggling with Self-Regulation
For young infants a good way to
prepare for self-regulation is through trial and error. Exposing the infant to different stimuli allows both infant and caregiver to develop a sense of what the infant responds to in a positive and negative manner. Older infants, experience other types of stressors than stimuli. As the infant begins to understand the workings of their environment they experience new stresses. Separation anxiety is a common stress that occurs. A strategy for aiding an infant in regulating their emotions is to play peek-a-boo. Peek-a-boo helps develops the infants concept of object permanence, or that something continues to exist despite not being able to see it.
A good start to self-regulation is
important for the future development
of empathy and prosocial behavior. As
children grow and begin to interact with others they need to have a solid foundation of experiences from which to base their self-regulation skills. Understanding that others have feelings and that their feelings matter is important for anyone. Empathy requires one to, detect different emotions, to take anothers emotional perspective, and to feel with that person, or respond emotionally in a similar way (Berk, 2013 p. 417). Infants do not possess the cognitive processing skills necessary to display true empathy but with time and positive modeling from their caregivers children will develop a strong sense for others feelings.
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