How To Cope With Hearing Voices 2013

How to
cope with
hearing voices
how to
cope with
hearing voices
How to cope with hearing voices

Hearing voices is a more common experience
than many people realise, and is not necessarily
a sign of mental ill-health. This booklet is for
anyone who hears voices and wants to understand
why, and what things might help if their voices
are a problem.
Contents
What are voices and who hears them?
Why do people hear voices?
How can hearing voices affect me?
My voices are a problem: what can I do?
What support is available?
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Will I ever get rid of my voices?
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How can friends and family help?
15
Useful contacts
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What are voices and who hears them?

Hearing voices is often thought of as a symptom of a serious mental
illness. But research on the experiences of the general population shows
that lots of people hear voices, and the majority of them are not mentally
unwell. It is a common human experience.
Hearing a voice when no-one is present with you, or which other people
with you cannot hear, is considered to be a hallucination. This does not
make it abnormal its just a word for a perception you may have that is
not shared by those around you. You may also see things that others
cant see. You may experience touch, smell or taste sensations which you
cannot account for in usual everyday ways. Some people may not realise
that many other people do not have such experiences.
People have many different experiences of hearing voices. Here are
some examples:
I ts quite common to hear your name called when there is no-one
with you. You may look round to see where the voice came from,
and wonder why you heard it, but if nothing else happens you will
probably just shrug it off as just one of those things.
You may hear or see things as you are falling asleep.
You may experience the voices as being in your head, or you may
feel that they are coming from outside and heard through your ears
like other sounds.
You may believe that you are hearing other peoples thoughts.
The voices may be louder or more frequent if you are feeling stressed.
You may experience unkind and threatening voices that tell you to do
dangerous or unacceptable things or try to control you.
You may hear a kind supportive voice.
Sometimes there may be more than one voice and they may talk
or argue with each other.

It is still very common for people to assume that if you hear voices, you
must have schizophrenia. And, if you hear unpleasant and disturbing
voices and see a doctor about them, you are quite likely to be given a
diagnosis of psychosis. Sometimes these are the reasons, but there are
many other explanations for voices too.
V
oices as you fall asleep or wake up these are called hypnogogic
and hypnopompic hallucinations, and are to do with your brain being
partly in a dreaming state. The voice is likely to call your name, or
say something very brief, or you may hear other brief sounds such as
a telephone ringing. You may also see strange things, or misinterpret
things you can see, such as seeing a coat on a hook as a person
standing in the doorway. These experiences usually stop as soon
as you are fully awake.
Lack of sleep
Hunger you may hear voices if you are very hungry, or if you
have anorexia nervosa and are starving yourself.
Physical illness if you have a high temperature, and have become
delirious, you may hear voices, and see or say strange things.
Drugs you may hear or see things as a result of taking certain street
drugs, or as a side effect of some prescribed drugs. You may also have
these experiences when you are coming off drugs.
Bereavement if you have recently lost someone very close, you may
hear them talking to you. You may also feel that they are with you,
even though you cannot see them. This experience is very common,
and can be comforting, especially in the early days of bereavement.
Abuse or bullying if you have experienced abuse, you may hear the
voice of the person who abused you, undermining you and ordering
you to harm yourself or to do things you know to be wrong. This is
especially so if you experienced the abuse in childhood, at an age
when you had not learned the coping skills you needed to protect
yourself, or you were never given any chance to learn such skills.
Other traumatic experiences you may hear voices as a result

of other traumas, such as accidents or major natural disasters.
You may be diagnosed with post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD).
Hearing several different voices may be associated with traumatic
experiences, and may also be associated with a dissociative disorder:
it may be a way of coping with trauma by separating yourself from it.
(See Minds booklets Understanding post-traumatic stress disorder
and Understanding dissociative disorders.)
Spiritual experiences some people experience a voice as part of
a spiritual experience. You may experience your voice as that of an
angel, a mystic or sage. This may be a very special experience for
you, and you may feel that it helps you to make sense of your life.
Or you may feel that you are possessed by an evil spirit and that is
the voice you can hear.
Mental health problems you may hear voices if you have a
diagnosis of psychosis, schizophrenia or bipolar disorder, or if you
are severely depressed. (See Minds booklets Understanding psychotic
experiences, Understanding schizophrenia, Understanding bipolar
disorder, and Understanding depression.)
How can hearing voices affect me?

You may hear voices and be quite used to them they may not trouble
you at all.
If you hear friendly and supportive voices, you may welcome them and
would miss them if they stopped. They may make you feel better and
encourage you.
If you hear voices which are unkind, tell you to do things that are wrong,
or criticise and undermine you, you are likely to be very upset by them.
You may feel very threatened by the voices and feel forced to do as they
say. You may feel they are controlling you, and stopping you from doing
things that you would really like to do. They probably interrupt your
thoughts, make it very difficult to concentrate or hold a conversation,
and may become very difficult to tolerate, generally dominating your life.
If you have been hearing unpleasant and critical voices for a long time,
and felt dominated and controlled by them, you will probably have very
low feelings of self-worth. You may feel that you cant even think your
own thoughts and you deserve to be shouted at and its impossible for
you to stand up to anyone, never mind your voices.
Your psychiatrist may see voices as the result of an illness, and not
as a result of difficult experiences which have made you feel powerless.
If you are told that you have a medical condition, and given a diagnosis
and a medical treatment that treats the voices or ignores them, this may
reinforce your feelings of powerlessness. Being told that you have a
serious mental illness which may affect you for the rest of your life may
make you feel that you can never recover.
You may also be very reluctant to talk about your voices, even to your
friends and family, because you are worried that you will be seen as
seriously ill.
Voices become a problem not so much because you hear them, but
because of your relationship with them.

Get support
If you are finding hearing voices a problem, then learning to understand
your voices can help. But it is much better to do this with support than
to try and do it on your own.
The first thing to do is to find someone who also accepts that your voices
are real, and is able to support you. This may be a hearing voices group,
another person who hears voices, or it may be a mental health worker,

counsellor, psychologist or psychiatrist. It doesnt matter who they are,
as long as they accept your voices and understand what you are doing.
To help you think about who you might want to support you, see What
support is available? on p.11.
Accept what is happening

The main organisation helping people who hear voices is the
Hearing Voices Network. (see Useful contacts on p.16). They suggest:

y ou need to accept your voices they are real

your voices come from you and belong to you
your voices are related to your life history
accept yourself as who you are, with your voices.
Understand your voices

When you have found a safe supported way of working, you can start
asking yourself questions, such as:

hat was happening when I first heard voices?

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Where was I?
How was I feeling at the time?
What did the voice(s) say?
What did they sound like? Aggressive or threatening, or pleasant?
What age were they? A young child, a teenager, an older person?
Who do the voices represent?
What problems do the voices represent?
Answering some of these questions may help you to gain an

understanding of the voices.
Some people find it helpful to keep a diary of their voices what they
say, tone of voice and so on, and this helps to accept and identify them.
You may be able to identify them as individuals from your past, or as

representing yourself at different ages, but they may also be related more
indirectly to a traumatic event. You may find, for instance, that what your
voices do is stop you from thinking too closely about unhappy or traumatic
memories keeping certain events at a distance.
As you gain more insight into where your voices are coming from in
relation to your own history, you should feel more in control of them,
and better able to stand up to them. You may even be able to tell them
that you dont need them any more and they can go and find that they
do. You may simply develop a better relationship with them so that they
no longer interfere with the way you live your life or prevent you from
making your own choices.
Take control of your voices

There are other ways that you may be able to get more control of your
voices, without necessarily exploring the story behind them in depth.
Y
ou may try and ignore the voices, or block them out or distract
yourself, by listening to music on headphones, for example.
You may agree to have a dialogue with them, or tell them you would
like to wait before doing what they say.
If you have more than one voice and some are helpful and others not,
you can ignore the nasty ones and focus on the nice ones.
You may control them by giving them times when you will listen
to them, and times when you will not.
You may stand up to them telling them that they have no power
over you and ignoring their commands and threats
If you find yourself losing touch with reality when your voices just
won't go away, you can try and ground yourself by taking in your
immediate surroundings, or doing a simple task like watering
a plant, or washing up. This reminds you to stay with what is really
happening and not get taken up with what is going on in your head
(see Mindfulness-based cognitive therapy on p.13).
Through various therapies and my own knowledge of my

voices, I understand I dont have to give in to their demands.
I can negotiate and wait before acting on instructions [and] try
grounding techniques to distract myself.
Try out the Recovery approach
The recovery concept in mental health has a different meaning from
the normal use of the word recovery. It has developed from the work
of the Hearing Voices Network, and means:
living the very best life you can, with the life experiences you have
had, and the consequences of them, even if these are long-term or
recurrent mental health problems
building your resilience and wellbeing, and focusing on the things
you can do, rather than those you may no longer be able to do
making our own choices, and being your own person
very importantly, maintaining hope.
Recovery is also regarded as a journey rather than a destination, and
includes accepting that you may have set-backs. This does not mean you
have failed you are learning more about yourself and what you need to
do differently.
Self-esteem is an important element of recovery, and the recovery
approach helps you to aim for what is important for you.
In terms of hearing voices, it includes the things mentioned on pp.8-9
about accepting your voices as yours and learning more about them,
and changing the power structure between you and your voices. It also
means recognising and accepting your own emotions, which may have
been hidden in the voices you hear.
You can read more about this on the 'Recovery' pages of the Rethink
Mental Illness website (see 'Useful contacts' on p.16).
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Look after yourself

You may find it helpful to take exercise, especially outside in the fresh
air, e.g. walking or running in the park or the countryside. Some physical
activities, such as gardening, may be part of a recovery programme, and
you may enjoy doing them with others.
Sleep is important, and voices may sometimes make it difficult for you
to get to sleep. It may be helpful to learn relaxation techniques, or
meditation, to help calm your thoughts, or you may find massage or
aromatherapy helpful. (See Minds booklets How to cope with sleep
problems and How to manage stress.)
It is also important to pay attention to your diet. Try to eat regularly,
to keep your blood sugar as stable as possible this can make a lot of
difference to your mood and energy levels. It may be helpful to keep a
food diary to see if there are any foods which you are sensitive to.
(Also see the Mind Food and mood poster.)

Support groups
Its very helpful for your recovery if you have people who take an interest
in you as a person, and value your abilities and friendship.
A group can:
give you a safe space to talk with others who have similar
experiences, and the words you need to talk about them
encourage people to help each other discover their feelings and abilities
help you gain insight into your own story others may see things
you may have not seen yourself, and help you to come to terms with it
allow you to help others gain insight into their experiences
help you feel accepted and listened to
be great for your self-esteem, as you become a valuable
and valued member of the group
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encourage you to make your own choices and decisions about how
you want to live, and get the most out of life. The choices you make
may be very basic to begin with for example, deciding to stay alive.
But they may have important implications for what you do next you
may set yourself new goals and develop new relationships.
There are Hearing Voices Network groups, and some voices groups run by
local Minds in various parts of England and Wales (see Useful contacts on
p.16). There may also be Recovery and Wellbeing services run by your
local mental health team in some areas, and your doctor can put you in
touch with these.
Talking treatments
Talking (psychological) treatments may be available through your GP. They
should be able to refer you for psychotherapy, counselling or cognitive
behaviour therapy, as well as to a psychiatrist or mental health team.
You may also want to look for therapy or counselling yourself. This may be
available through a local group such as a local Mind, or a private therapist.
This can be expensive, though some have a scale of charges according to
your income. (See BACP and BABCP in Useful contacts for lists of
practitioners, or contact Mind Infoline to find support in your area. Also
see Mind's booklet Making sense of talking treatments.)
Psychotherapy
If you think that your voices are related to traumatic experiences when
you were a child or a teenager, or they have started after a more recent
traumatic event, you may want to explore this with a psychotherapist
or counsellor. They may be able to help you:
identify why the voices say what they say
what the triggers are for hearing them
find better ways of coping with them
learn to control them rather than feeling that they are controlling you.
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Some therapists may use puppets or other representations to help you to

understand where your voices are coming from and develop your ability to
stand up to them and get them under your control. In some cases they
may go completely.
Cognitive behaviour therapy (CBT)
CBT may help you to deal with the everyday problems of the voices
and how they make you feel and think about yourself, without necessarily
going into the underlying reasons why you hear them. The aim of this
is to:
reduce your anxiety about them
increase your ability to stand up to them
gain control over them.
(See Making sense of cognitive behaviour therapy for more information.)
Mindfulness-based cognitive therapy
This is an approach to wellbeing that involves paying attention to the
present moment. It includes taking time to see what is happening around
you in a non-judgmental way, and can help you to focus on what is really
happening when your voices are distracting you. Mindfulness-based
cognitive therapy is usually done in groups.
Medication
If your voices are very troubling and you have been referred to a
psychiatrist, you are very likely to be prescribed an antipsychotic drug,
such as olanzapine or quetiapine.
These types of drugs may either:
stop the voices or make them less frightening for you
make you feel indifferent to the voices, so that you are no longer
so disturbed by them, even though you can still hear them
make the voices quieter and less intrusive, making you feel calmer
and less upset by them.
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Medication may be something you need only in the short term, allowing
you to learn other ways of coping with the voices so that you then no
longer need drugs.
Antipsychotics may cause significant unpleasant side effects, which you
should discuss with your doctor before taking any. For more information,
see Minds booklet Making sense of antipsychotics.
Spiritual help or guidance

If you feel your voices are coming from an external being or another
world, you may want to talk to a priest, imam or other spiritual guide.
Some psychiatrists will occasionally work with religious or spiritual guides
to provide help with your spiritual experiences on an individual basis.
Will I ever get rid of my voices?

Some people do get rid of their voices completely. But like many people
working with their voices, you may find that they never go completely.
However, finding out which treatment approach works best for you can
help you to develop a better relationship with your voices, so that you
are no longer dominated by them; you hear voices, its part of who you
are, and its ok.
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This section is for friends and family who want to support someone
they know who hears voices.
It can be very upsetting if someone you are close to is hearing voices
and is very distressed by them. You can help a lot by:
accepting that the voices are real
r eassuring them that they are not alone a lot of people hear
voices and it doesnt necessarily mean they are ill
encouraging them to get help, either through their doctor or
a local self-help group
helping them to find out what support is available
being ready to go with them to activities or events if they are
anxious about starting something new on their own
encouraging them to talk about their feelings with someone they
feel safe to do this with which may not be you
supporting them to make their own choices even if you would
choose something different.
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Useful contacts
Mind
Mind Infoline: 0300 123 3393
(Monday to Friday 9am to 6pm)
email: info@mind.org.uk
web: mind.org.uk
Details of local Minds and other
local services, and Minds Legal
Advice Line. Language Line is
available for talking in a language
other than English.
Bipolar UK
tel: 020 7931 6480
web: bipolaruk.org.uk
Support for people with bipolar
disorder and their families
and friends.
British Association for Behavioural
and Cognitive Psychotherapies
(BABCP)
tel: 0161 705 4304
web: babcp.com
For details of accredited therapists.
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British Association for Counselling

and Psychotherapy (BACP)
tel: 01455 883 300
web: itsgoodtotalk.org.uk
For details of local practitioners.
Hearing Voices Network
tel: 0114 271 8210
web: hearing-voices.org
Information and support for people
who hear voices or have other
unusual perceptions.
Intervoice
web: intervoiceonline.org
International community for people
who hear voices.
Mental Health Foundation
tel: 020 7803 1100
web: mentalhealth.org.uk
Research and information for people
with mental health problems.
Useful contacts
Rethink Mental Illness

tel: 0300 5000 927
web: rethink.org
Information, advice and support for
people with mental health problems.
Royal College of Psychiatrists
tel: 020 7235 2351
web: rcpsych.ac.uk
Mental health information, including
a booklet on spirituality.
Samaritans
Freepost RSRB-KKBY-CYJK,
Chris, PO Box 90 90
Stirling, FK8 2SA
24-hour helpline: 08457 90 90 90
email: jo@samaritans.org
web: samaritans.org
Emotional support for anyone
in distress.
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