Compassionate Imagery Paper
Compassionate Imagery Paper
Compassionate Imagery Paper
Correspondence should be sent to Professor Paul Gilbert FBPsS, Mental Health Research Unit, Kingsway Hospital, Derby DE22
3LZ, UK. Email p.gilbert@derby.ac.uk
We would like to acknowledge the enormous help of the Derby Depression Alliance Self-Help Group for their advice and
participation in this study. We would also like to thank Rakhee Bhundia for her help with collating and analysing the diaries. This
project was supported by NHS Executive funding.
DOI:10.1080/09658210444000115
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METHOD
Participants
A self-help depression group, with whom the
authors have worked closely over a number of
years, was advised of our study at one of their
larger meetings. Those who regarded themselves
as self-critical were invited to take part in this
study exploring self-criticism and the use of compassionate imagery to help reduce it. Of the 18
people at that meeting, most expressed interest
but 9 (2 men and 7 women) were able to take part
and attend four 112 hour evening meetings. However, our data are based on eight participants due
to incomplete data from one person.
All nine participants verbally reported that
they had had at least one diagnosed depressive
episode (diagnosed by a psychiatrist). All were
currently on anti-depressants. All participants
completed the Hospital Anxiety and Depression
Scale (HADS; Zigmond & Snaith, 1983). The
group mean for the depression subscale was 9.00
(SD = 5.1) and for the anxiety subscale was 11.83
(SD = 3.6). For the depression subscale, scores of
< 8 indicate ``non-cases'', 811 doubtful/possible
cases, and scores of 11 or above definite cases.
One person scored 10, and four people scored 11
or greater.
All participants reported that they had had
problems for longer than 10 years or ``most of
their lives''. A number of participants had comorbid difficulties such as social anxiety, agoraphobia, and obsessive-compulsive disorder. Our
group was not pre-selected, other than that they
attended a depression self-help group, they saw
themselves as self-critical, and agreed to participate. Our focus was on self-criticism and imagery
development rather than a specific disorder.
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Procedure
We arranged to meet with the participants for four
evening sessions. During the first session, we
outlined our interest in exploring with them the
day-to-day nature of self-criticism, and how
learning to be compassionate with the self, and
focusing on compassionate imagery, might help to
counteract self-criticism. The focus was to engage
them as joint partners in this project. All participants agreed to the requirements in the spirit of a
collaborative exercise, and signed consent forms
that they were happy to take part. We agreed to
have three consecutive weekly meetings, with a
follow-up 4 weeks later. All participants were free
to contact us if they had any distress associated
with the procedure. None did, and in ongoing
group discussion thought the process was useful.
Session 1: At our first meeting we discussed the
nature of self-criticism. In open discussion, many
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The group then discussed the nature of compassion, the value of compassion for the self, and
key elements of compassion such as empathy,
sympathy, warmth, and self-acceptance. The
group had a discussion about whether developing
these qualities for the self would be helpful, and
the importance of training/practice in trying to
generate these aspects for the self.
Following this, we engaged in imagery work.
First, the group was taken through a short (34
minutes) relaxation process that focused on
breathing and tension release. We then asked
participants to imagine an inner place of safeness,
which would allow them to do this work. They
were then invited to ``focus on an image of compassion that contains the attributes we discussed'';
to ``allow images to come to your mind that capture these qualities''. Following this exercise,
which lasted for about 10 minutes, the researchers
asked each participant to share and discuss their
images with the group. Participants were encouraged to practise their compassionate imagery as
often as possible, and in particular to try to elicit it
when they had self-critical thoughts. At the end of
the session, participants were each given another
diary to record their critical thoughts in the
coming week.
Session 3: Participants handed in their diaries,
and took possession of diaries that could be
RESULTS
Triggers and forms of self-critical
thoughts
Table 1 provides exploratory qualitative data
based on the first three diary questions from Week
1 recordings. Two questions focused on types of
thoughts and a third focused on what people felt
as a result of what they thought.
Self-criticism was linked to a multiple array of
activities and social interactions. In particular,
many of the situations that activated critical
thoughts were to do with relationships (including
partner, family member, friends, and colleagues)
and negative comparisons with others. Many selfcritical thoughts were triggered by day-to-day
occurrences, such as ``housework'', ``visiting a
friend'', ``given a gift from a client'', ``at the gym'',
``being awake at 3 am'', and ``having a headache''.
Also of interest is the wide range of critical
thoughts and feelings reported about the self,
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TABLE 1
Self-critical themes
Question 1:
What situations/events brought
them about?
Question 2:
What sort of things did you
think/feel about yourself?
Question 3:
How did your thoughts about
yourself make you feel?
Family
Visiting/socialising with friend
Given a gift
Waking at 3am
Having headache
Relationships
Work
Housework
Gym/body image
Inadequate
Incompetent
Angry
Frustrated
Negative body images
Unattractive
Lack of control
Irritated
Lack of organisation
Examples of self-critical themes elicited from diaries over week 1 (pre compassionate mind training) ``Looking back over today,
please could you carefully think about any critical thoughts you may have had''.
Qualities of self-criticism
Alongside the qualitative diary information, we
also asked participants to give quantitative ratings
of their self-criticism (e.g., its power, intrusiveness, and hostility) and their ability and ease of
self-soothing. Table 2 gives each participant's
scores for baseline depression, self-criticism and
self-soothing, and post compassionate mind
training scores (after 1 week of practice) for selfcriticism and self-soothing. We had hoped to
obtain diary data from the fourth session to see
how compassionate mind training had progressed
Self-soothing
In regard to self-soothing/compassion, there was a
significant increase in the ease of generating these
images and soothing oneself in a self-critical
TABLE 2
Participant HADS depressions scores pre-training, and mean criticism and compassion scores pre and post compassionate mind
(CM) training
Participant
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
HADS depression
subscale score
Criticism
pre CM training
Criticism
post CM training
Compassion
pre CM training
Compassion
post CM training
5
0
16
13
11
10
12
7
46.57
38.18
56.50
64.50
44.86
22.43
34.88
30.91
22.85
39.53
58.25
46.77
39.50
28.73
32.68
31.40
19.25
24.33
5.00
7.00
12.71
29.14
20.00
7.17
30.87
32.50
12.25
20.32
18.84
29.00
20.00
6.40
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DISCUSSION
This pilot study explored the use of a diary to
monitor typical elicitors of self-criticism and their
qualities, such as their felt power, intrusiveness,
and distressfulness, and builds on earlier work
(Gilbert et al., 2001). Participants felt their selfcriticisms were automatic, powerful, intrusive,
distressing, and difficult to distract from (Table 1).
Participants felt able to keep the diaries, and
found them revealing of just how much they did
self-criticise. They suggested that diaries like this
could be useful in helping people monitor their
self-critical thoughts, although participants may
not have been able to discriminate the various
qualities of self-soothing and this requires further
study.
A second key question concerned how easy or
difficult it is for people to learn to generate and
use compassionate feelings and images for the self.
One participant found that her compassionate
image changed into something unpleasant and she
could not hold a ``nice'' image in mind. Another
felt that images were difficult to generate or
engage with. However, the other six participants
felt they had benefited from their efforts, and two
participants felt it had been a ``great'' help,
although all thought they needed more help and
support to practice, and more work as a group.
We found that there was a significant
improvement in the reported ability to self-sooth.
One cannot attribute this necessarily to the compassionate mind imagery work because participants also felt that working as a group and sharing
their self-critical thoughts and efforts to be kinder
to themselves had been helpful. Imagery work
might be helpful in that it enables people to ``carry
their images'' with them and use them outside a
group setting. We would also suggest that therapists need to explore the functions of self-criticism
and fear of giving up self-criticism (Gilbert &
Irons, in press).
In Buddhist meditation, developing compassion for the self involves giving people specific
images to focus on (Dagsay Tulku Rinpoche,
2002; Ringu Tulku & Mullen, in press). However,
this pilot study was based on guided discovery and
we were interested in how people generate their
own images and work with them. Table 3 offers
insights into the kinds of images created and how
they were used. In discussion, some participants
felt it might have been easier if they had been
given specific images to focus on, while others
thought they would prefer to work on their own
images. For example, one person started with a
religious image of a Buddha giving her compassion but could not make this ``work'' for her. She
then generated her own image of a bush in bloom
and found this very helpful. More research is
needed in this area. We have no data on whether
TABLE 3
Full reported experiences of using compassionate imagery from the six participants at follow-up
Question 2:
How did the image
appear to you?
Question 3:
What was the most
difficult aspect?
Question 4:
How much time were
you able to practise?
Question 5:
How helpful was it
using the image?
Participant
Number
Question 1:
What was the image
that you used over
the research period?
Visual
Feelings
Sound
Conjuring up image
when needed
When needed
Visual
Sense of warmth
Concentration
Stopping whirling
thoughts
Rainbow
Candles underneath
instead of dark sky
Visual
Nice feelings
Spiritual/Jesus
Love/caring/ support
In the air
Sunset/stars/flowers/
mountains
All senses
Visual
Beauty of
flowers, sky, sunsets
waterfalls
The love of friends
Peace
Would find
imagination
impossible because
it is unreality
I would be living in
an unreal world,
unreal ideals
Lying to myself,
pretending
dangerous for me
Enjoy daydreaming
Sun
Feeling of warmth
Visual
Brightness
Open space
Warmth
Breaking lifetime's
habit of feeling bad
about self
Lack of
compassionate
people around me
Hard to conjure up
image felt remote
and cold
Only occasionally
Relaxation aspect
helped calm anxiety
Aware of benefits of
being compassionate
but unable to do.
Frustrated that
unable to do it
Hard to do with no
support
Arm round my
shoulders
Visual
Sense/feeling of
warmth
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Not at all
All good destroyed
by that (second)
image
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an image of ``a person'' with compassionate qualities would work better than these non-person
images. On this more research is needed.
Some self-critical people may have few caring
and soothing memories to call on (Gillath et al.,
in press; Mikulincer et al., 2002). Thus, the selfcare and self-compassionate system may be
underelaborated (Gilbert & Irons, in press). If
people cannot utilise memories of caring others
to be self-soothing, then an important research
question is whether training people to generate
self-soothing imagery is possible, can be helpful,
and can be laid down as memories for subsequent recall. Lee (in press) has suggested that
compassionate imagery can be directed to that
of a ``perfect nurturer'' that has distinctive
features including sensory ones. These features
may aid the ease of accessibility from memory
on subsequent occasions, in the context of selfcriticism. Moreover, Lee has outlined how compassionate imagery can be helpful with people
suffering from post-traumatic stress disorder,
marked feelings of shame.
In regard to developing compassion for the self,
participants agreed with one member who said,
``this will take time as it is breaking the habits of a
life time.'' A number of participants reflected that
even as children they could not recall parents
being particularly kind or compassionate to them,
but more often cold or critical. Participants noted
that ``being kind'' to themselves was not ``something they were used to'' and ``at times it seemed
strange'' to them. However, all agreed that if they
could develop compassion for themselves this
would help them. Our research is clearly very
preliminary given the small numbers, but suggests
that some self-critical people can see the benefits
of attempting to become more self-compassionate, can generate a range of varied images with
different features, and find it a helpful process.
Questions arise about personified and non-personified images, and distinctions between feelings
of warmth, acceptance, and strength that are part
of compassion but can also vary from person to
person.
This study suffered from small numbers, and
also the fact that participants did not keep
their diaries adequately for the full 6 weeks.
Nonetheless, as a pilot study it points to the
value of diaries, especially for monitoring
forms of self-criticism and self-soothing, the
acceptability of this intervention for patients,
and the indications that, with development, it
may be a helpful intervention for some
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