2.1 HOLD CLP Expanded Outlines - Updated For HOLD Use. April
2.1 HOLD CLP Expanded Outlines - Updated For HOLD Use. April
2.1 HOLD CLP Expanded Outlines - Updated For HOLD Use. April
The Christian Life Program (CLP) is an integrated course intended to lead the program
participants into a renewed understanding of and response to God's call to them as Christian
women. The program has a total of 13 separate sessions, usually held once a week.
The CLP starts with an orientation session, then goes into 3 further modules of 4 sessions each.
The first module presents the absolute basics of Christian life. The second module presents the
kind of life that God calls us to, and helps participants to make a reorientation of their lives
around Jesus. The third module helps the participants to appropriate for their lives the power of
the Holy Spirit, and provides the basis for continuing spiritual growth.
Expanded Outline
The expanded outline we use for HOLD CLP is based on the outline of Couples for Christ's
"Christian Life Program", except for talks 4, 7, 11 and 12. Speakers (CFC wives) should be
conscious that this is a HOLD CLP, therefore, they must relate the topics to the different life
situations of the handmaids.
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ORIENTATION SESSION
GOAL : To present a relationship with Jesus as the only way out of the sorry state of the world
today and to offer the audience a concrete way of entering into that relationship
through the CLP and ultimately an ongoing involvement in CFC.
Expanded outline
A. Introduction.
1. Why should we take time and effort to participate in a program such as this? To answer
that, we have to consider first why Jesus himself came into this world.
a) The salvation promised by God was to be fulfilled in and through him. He was to
announce the good news of God's reign (Lk 4:43).
b) His mission is for all. His proclamation is timeless. The promise applies to us too.
B. Do we understand Jesus' message? If for us, how have we received his offer of salvation?
a) The poor. These are those who live lives apart from God.
b) The captives. We can be in captivity to things, desires and ideas of no real worth.
We can be slaves to money, power, work, achievements--those things the world
values.
c) The blind. We can be blinded by prejudices, pride, wrong self-image, false ideals and
ideologies. We often do not recognize the things that are of real value.
a) He brings glad tidings to the poor. What is of real value is the good news of salvation
and a real relationship with God.
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b) He proclaims liberty to captives. Jesus can free us from our captivity to worldly
things that are of no true and lasting worth.
c) He gives sight to the blind. With Jesus, we will never be in darkness, unable to see.
John 8:12.
d) He lets the oppressed go free. Only Jesus can truly set us free from our bondages.
C. But are we experiencing today the salvation that Jesus offers? Do we have spiritual
abundance, are we living in freedom, do we see with God's eyes?
1. What do we see in the world today? Moral degeneration in all levels of society.
a) Superficially, one may point to "economic hard times" as the reason. When times are
hard, people look for concrete things which can help them.
c) But these can only be partially correct. Because we see that throughout history,
especially for the early Church, Christians did not easily trade off their Christian
values, even in the face of imprisonment, pain and death.
d) Thus we can only conclude that the Christianity we know today is no longer the same
brand of Christianity as the one the early Christians knew. Our Christianity today is
lacking in power and effectiveness.
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D. Why are we lacking in spiritual power as Christians? There are a number of reasons.
2. One may be a good person, but conversion to the Lord is not full. We may be satisfied
with an emotional experience and not allow our conversion to effect concretely the way
we think, live, act and relate to others.
a) For many Christians, Jesus is out of reach. He is God who is far away in heaven.
b) But in order for us to receive power, we must have a direct link-up with the source of
power. John 15:5.
a) We are called to be part of a body, the body of Christ. We need the care and support
of others in order to become better Christians.
b) The world is a hostile environment for Christians. We can easily become assimilated
into the values and points-of-view of the world.
5. Some Christians are not living in the power of the Holy Spirit.
a) We believe in the Trinity and we know well the Father and the Son. But many
Christians do not know the Spirit nor understand his role.
* Before his ascension, Jesus told the disciples to wait for power from on high.
Luke 24:49.
* This power will be given when the Holy Spirit comes upon them. Acts 1:8.
* Christianity spread quickly. And within a couple of centuries, the whole Roman
Empire was converted.
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1. To begin with, understand that we are not meant for this world but for a higher life with
God.
a) Our stay in this world is transitory. Our true citizenship is in heaven (Phil 3:20).
b) If true, then we should not just invest ourselves in this world. We should invest for
the next.
2. Investigate for yourself what Jesus is offering. Don't just pass it up. Right now,
approach this in faith and know that your God is extending to you an invitation. Rev.
3:20.
a) Our Lord wants to offer you a personal, concrete expression of his reality in your
lives in an ongoing way.
* You do not have to commit yourself to the whole CLP, but can take each of the
sessions as they come.
c) At the end of the CLP, you will be invited to join CFC-HANDMAIDS OF THE
LORD so you can continue to receive support for your Christian life.
d) All these will bring you to the doorway to spiritual freedom, maturity and power in
Christian living.
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GOAL: To communicate the truth that God loves us and has a plan for our welfare.
Expanded Outline
b) There is poverty.
* Starvation in different parts of the world.
* Poor people even in rich countries.
c) There is murder.
* Particularly despicable is abortion, resulting in the killing of millions of unborn
children.
3. Everyone agrees that something major is needed to correct the situation in the world.
a) Man has made various efforts to improve the world, but their efforts are not
succeeding. For example:
* In the field of medicine, through the ultrasound technique, we can discover the
sex of a child before it is born. But some people decide to kill the unborn child if
found defective, or if it is not the desired sex.
- The human race has not learned to share God's provision with their less
fortunate members.
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* Some even propose solutions through man-made religions and other ideologies.
Examples: TM, Marxism, New Age.
b) Man is not succeeding because all these efforts are based on man's wisdom.
B. What is the way of God? Does God have a plan for bringing us out of our confusion and
disorder?
1. Yes! The starting point for understanding God's plan is found in the story of creation in
Genesis.
* The confusion and disorder is not in accordance with the plan of God.
* The ugliness and sin in the lives of people today are not in accordance with God's
will.
* The disruption in our relationship with God is our doing, and is not as God
intends.
2. However, things did not turn out according to God's plan. Original sin entered the
picture. And from then, man continued to turn against God and His ways.
3. But still, even if God punished man, God did not abandon him.
a) God punished Adam and Eve when they sinned, yet God extended to them a gesture
of grace: He gave them clothing (Gen 3:21) and even promised that the offspring of
the woman will crush the head of the serpent (Gen 3:15).
b) God punished Cain for murdering his brother Abel, yet He gave Cain a mark to
protect him from being killed on sight (Gen 4:15).
c) Further on in Genesis (Gen 6 ff), we read about the wickedness of man in the time of
Noah. God sent a flood to eradicate the evil on earth, yet He had compassion. He
directed Noah to build an ark that would deliver the righteous from death.
d) Still further in Genesis (Gen 11:1-9), the wickedness of man continued to provoke the
wrath of God, illustrated by the building of the tower of Babel.
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4. But this incident of the tower of Babel is immediately followed by the story of Abraham
(Gen 12), which is the beginning of the great restoration that Jesus was to bring.
5. From these accounts, we can see how God loves the human race, how God would not
leave man alone to his fate.
a) God is not indifferent nor distant. God is someone who loves us and is interested in
having a personal relationship with us. He is interested in the details of our daily
lives.
b) In fact, God wants to bring us all back to Himself, to restore our fellowship and
intimacy with him. Eph 1:9-10.
* God does not want us to live lives of pain, poverty, injustice. God wants the
world to be a place of peace, justice and happiness. A place in which He would
reign!
2. Again, we need to turn to God's wisdom. We need God's point of view. What does God
say about life's realities?
b) God also says that our human efforts apart from Him will prove useless. John 15:5.
* On our own strength, we cannot overcome the challenges in our Christian life.
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4. Thus, in Jesus we experience the love of God. And in Jesus, God's plan for restoration
can begin to happen.
a) The choice is ours: to live under the dominion of darkness, a life of slavery under
Satan, or to live in the kingdom of God, a life of freedom, dignity, peace and
happiness.
b) Let us accept Jesus and the salvation that he brings. Let us begin to truly experience
God's love.
E. A final word.
1. When Jesus spoke to his disciples, some were turned off (Jn 6:60). They could not
accept the truths Jesus revealed to them and they left (Jn 6:66). Jesus turned to the other
disciples and asked if they were going to leave too. They stayed.
2. You too will be confronted with the basic truths of the gospel of Jesus. Some of you may
find difficulty accepting them. Some people do.
a) Some say the devil is pure imagination, some silly superstition. Not so.
b) Some say sin was just a concoction of a rigid Victorian era, and that in today's liberal
views there are no more sins.
* If there are no more sins, then who needs a savior? Who needs Jesus? He came
for nothing.
c) Some even question the divinity of Jesus Christ. Is Jesus really God?
* For the answer, come back next week.
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a) Will you continue to investigate how God's plan can work in your life? Will you
continue to explore, along with us, how God's love can make a difference in your
life?
b) Or will you just walk away like the disciples who left Jesus?
c) I hope that just like Simon Peter you will say: "Lord, to whom shall we go? You
have the words of eternal life" (Jn 6:68).
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Brief Outline
Discussion starter
1. Share with one another how you came to the Christian Life Program and what you expect or
seek to experience. Start with a brief introduction about your life.
2. Share about how you have personally experienced God's love.
The challenge
God has loved you with an eternal love. The ultimate manifestation of this love was sending
God's own Son to suffer and die for you. Will you open your heart to receive the fullness of His
love? Will you open your mind to explore the richness of God's plan for you through the rest of
the Christian Life Program?
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GOAL : To attract people to Jesus and to challenge them to respond to his deity and lordship.
Expanded Outline
A. Introduction.
1. As Christians, we derive our identity from a person, one whom we can be truly proud of.
He is truly impressive.
a) Millions today claim to be his followers, almost 2,000 years after his death.
c) The book about him, the Bible, is easily the No. 1 best seller of all time.
2. It is this person who won for us our salvation, who restored us to our relationship with
God. In him we can have a full and a new life.
3. Thus, realizing the importance of this person to us, we want to know him more fully.
And so we ask: "Who is Jesus Christ?"
1. Having been born and raised as Christians, we take for granted our conviction that Jesus
is the Son of God. But this was not so for his contemporaries. They found it hard to
accept that he was not just an ordinary person (Mk 6:3).
2. What we want to know is whether there is any reason not to put Jesus on the same level
as Buddha, Confucius, Lao-Tze, Socrates or other wise men. Was Jesus more than just a
great religious man or moral teacher?
a) History is full of men who have claimed that they came from God, or that they were
gods, or that they bore messages from God. Even the person who this very day
founded a new religion.
3. Three things that make Jesus an absolutely unique figure in human history:
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a) He was preannounced and his coming was expected. Because of Old Testament
prophecies, people for a long time were waiting for the messiah, which saw its ful-
fillment in Jesus.
b) Once he appeared on the scene, he struck history with such impact that he split it in
two, dividing it into two periods: BC and AD.
c) Every other person who came into this world came into it to live. Jesus came into the
world to die. His death was the goal and fulfillment of his life.
1. Jesus was a young carpenter in Nazareth. For three years he became an itinerant
preacher. He was never more than 100 miles from his home. He had never been into
cities with a population larger than 50,000.
a) Within 3 years he was dead, killed in little Jerusalem on the fringes of the Roman
empire. He was crucified for stirring up the people.
b) By right he should simply have faded into complete oblivion. Instead, he is surely the
most famous, honored, and best-loved person who ever walked the earth.
b) Strong in mind and body. He outwitted the leaders of his day in discussion as a boy
of twelve, and later as a man who did not have their educational advantages. He was
able to fast for 40 days.
d) A magnetic leader. He summoned Simon and Andrew (Mk 1: 16-18), James and
John (Mk 1:20), and Levi (Mk 2:14), who all followed him immediately.
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* He rebuked Peter for standing in the way of his fulfilling the mission given by the
Father. Mt 16:21-23.
g) Very human.
1. Jesus is totally unique from any other personality and so is clearly worth knowing. But is
there more to him?
b) The answer is yes. There is something more to Jesus than to any other person. He is
worth paying more attention to than any other man. BECAUSE HE IS GOD.
a) By his miracles? Miracles only show that God is working through a person. A man
could work miracles and not be God. Jn 14:12.
b) So how do we know? The answer simply is that Jesus himself told us so.
3. Time and again throughout his public ministry, Jesus claimed to be God.
a) Mk 14:61-62.
b) In John, Jesus time and again speaks of his divinity. Jn 12:45, 10:30, 8:58.
4. Jesus' claim to divinity is a far different claim than Buddha or Confucius or Mohammed
ever made. None of them ever claimed to be God.
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1. Jesus' claim to be God must be either true or false. If false, then we have two and only
two alternatives. Either he knew it was false, in which case he would be a liar, or he did
not know it was false, in which case he would be a lunatic.
a) If he lied, then he would have been deliberately deceiving his followers. But not only
would he have been a liar, he would also be:
* A demon, because he told others to trust him for their eternal destiny. If he could
not back up his claims and knew it, then he was unspeakably evil.
* A fool, because it was his claim to being God that led to his crucifixion.
b) But we need only look at his person, his words and his work to conclude that he could
not have been a liar.
* Consider his character that is so original, consistent, perfect, high above human
greatness.
* The results of his life and teachings have been lives changed for the better, thieves
made honest, hateful individuals becoming channels of love, etc.
a) In Jesus we do not see any abnormalities or imbalance that usually go along with
being deranged. In fact, his poise and composure would be amazing if he was insane.
4. If not a liar or a lunatic, the only alternative left to us is that Jesus did speak the truth. He
was, and is, the Son of God as he claimed.
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1. As many as there were who accepted the divinity of Jesus, there were also others who
refused to accept him. How can we have confirmation of Jesus' divinity?
* To the Jews, God alone was the one who had the prerogative to give life or to take
away life.
b) But the most conclusive proof is Jesus' own resurrection from the dead. The tombs of
Buddha, Muhammed and the founders of all the great world religions are still with us.
Only Jesus' tomb is empty.
G. Conclusion.
1. Jesus is a man whose words and life demand a response from us. He is making claims
that affect us.
a) If he is not God, then we should have nothing to do with him, because we do not want
to be followers of a liar or a lunatic.
b) But if he is God, then we should seriously consider him. Our response will have
eternal consequences.
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"On the one side clear, definite, moral teaching. On the other, claims which, if not true, are those
of a megalomaniac, compared with whom Hitler was the most sane and humble of men. There is
no half-way house, and there is no parallel in other religions. If you had gone to Buddha and
asked him, 'Are you the son of Bramah?', he would have said, 'My son, you are still in the vale of
illusion'. If you had gone to Socrates and asked, 'Are you Zeus?', he would have laughed at you.
If you would have gone to Mohammed and asked, 'Are you Allah?', he would first have rent his
clothes then cut your head off. If you had asked Confucius, 'Are you heaven?', I think he would
have probably replied, 'Remarks which are not in accordance with nature are in bad taste'. The
idea of a great moral teacher saying what Christ said is out of the question. In my opinion, the
only person who can say that sort of thing is either God or a complete lunatic suffering from that
form of delusion which undermines the whole mind of man"
"Now unless the speaker is God, this is really so preposterous as to be comic. We can all
understand how a man forgives offenses against himself. You tread on my toe and I forgive you,
you steal my money and I forgive you. But what should we make of a man, himself unrobbed
and untrodden on, who announced that he forgave you for treading on other men's toes and
stealing other men's money? Asinine fatuity is the kindest description we should give of his
conduct. Yet this is what Jesus did. He told people that their sins were forgiven, and never
waited to consult all the other people whom their sins had undoubtedly injured. He
unhesitatingly behaved as if He was the party chiefly concerned, the person chiefly offended in
all offenses. This makes sense only if He really was the God whose laws are broken and whose
love is wounded in every sin. In the mouth of any speaker who is not God, these words would
imply what I can only regard as a silliness and conceit unrivalled by any other character in histo-
ry".
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Brief outline
Discussion starter
The challenge
Jesus is God. Are you willing to accept him as Lord of your life? As Lord, will you allow him
to rule your life totally?
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GOAL : To make clear what Christianity is and to get people to appreciate the blessings of
being a Christian.
Expanded Outline
A. Introduction.
1. Last week we asked the question "Who is Jesus Christ?" And we should have come
away with the conviction that he is God, and that he is our Lord and Savior. As such, we
are his followers.
2. In fact, as Christians, we carry his name. And so now we want to learn about what it
really means to be a Christian.
** All the above are misconceptions or incomplete notions unless what we believe in is
translated into our lives, i.e., we base our values and lives on these doctrines we believe
in. Our religious practices ought to be experiences of faith and not mere rituals we do as a
matter of habit.
a) A set of do's and don'ts; a set of rules regarding right and wrong.
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** These are incomplete notions because they make religion legalistic and sterile. There is
no life and joy. Rather, our religion is our life. We do or don't do certain things not
because the rule book says so, but as an expression of our relationship with God and with
our brethren.
b) A Christian is someone who does good and is kind. He is a nice man or woman who
always smiles, is friendly, never gets angry, and tries to please everyone.
** An incomplete notion because it leaves out the deity of Christ, and limits Christianity to
merely being a good Samaritan. In fact, a Christian can get angry, as Jesus did. In fact,
non-Christians can do good.
4. Christianity is an escape from the realities of life, an opium of the poor and the
oppressed. It is for the weak, for those who cannot cope with life.
** A wrong notion, because Christians are not taught to escape problems but to face them.
C. What is Christianity?
1. The essence of Christianity is union with God, made possible through the death and
resurrection of Jesus Christ.
a) What makes us Christians is our loving, personal relationship with God. Our whole
life becomes an expression of this relationship.
a) It is a relationship initiated by God, out of His mercy and love for us.
* Since God is the source of Christianity, its truths are enduring and unchanging.
They cannot be reduced or watered down to suit man's fancy or convenience.
* We have to take the word of God as is and base our life on it.
b) In Christianity, we become a new creation and participate in the very life of Christ.
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* We enter into the same relationship that Jesus has with the Father. Our identity
changes and we become sons and daughter of God (Gal 4:4-7).
* We share in the eternal life of Christ. Our life does not end with physical death.
* Col 3:5-10.
b) God's plan for us, whatever it is, is the best. We cannot expect anything better. Thus
we just need to seek His plan out and live our lives accordingly.
2. Our Father knows our needs and He will provide for us.
b) Who do you think is providing for you? Lk 12:22-31. There is more where it came
from. Open yourself up and receive more.
3. Since we all have the same Father, what does that make of us? Brothers and sisters!
4. As Christians, we learn that life on this earth is temporary. Therefore, do not invest
yourself here. Paul realized this (Phil 3:8).
5. If you believe all these (quickly enumerate the above 4), then what should our attitude be
as Christians? Only one attitude can be reasonable: be peaceful at all times.
a) Any other attitude is unreasonable and illogical. Because God is our Father and He
loves us and cares for us. Heb 13:5-6.
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E. Conclusion.
1. If we are Christians, we are the most fortunate and privileged of people. For God
Himself is our Father. We need never be afraid of anything, for God will care for us.
2. How do we know these things? God said so! We can count on His Word. Not to believe
this truth is to call God a liar. But God does not lie. We can count on Him completely.
3. Put your lives now completely in God's hands, and experience the tremendous peace of
Christ flowing into your lives and into your family.
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Brief Outline
2. The essence of Christianity is union with God, made possible through the death and
resurrection of Jesus Christ.
* It is a relationship initiated by God, out of His mercy and love for us.
* In Christianity, we become a new creation and participate in the very life of Christ.
* We take on the nature of God, which is holiness.
Discussion starter
The Challenge
God is a loving Father Who cares for us and has a plan for our lives. Will you continue to be
open to discover the fullness of God's plan for you? Can you do this in absolute trust in God,
ready to place yourself completely in His hands?
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GOAL: To lead people to repent of sin and turn to renewed faith in Jesus Christ.
Expanded Outline
A. Introduction.
1. So far we have heard about God's love, about what Jesus has done for us, about the
relationship initiated by God with us. God has done all these things for us. Now it is
time to respond.
a) We need to repent, i.e., to reform our lives. And we need to believe in the gospel,
i.e., have faith in Jesus and the message he brings.
* To simply believe without doing anything to reform our lives to become pleasing
to God is also inadequate.
B. Repentance.
1. The Greek word for repentance is "metanoia", which literally means a change of mind.
* It is a significant change in the way you live your life: dropping an old set of
ideals and values by which you live your life and adopting new ones.
* Repentance affects the way you think and act, your attitudes, motives, thought
and behavior.
b) More specifically, repentance means a turning away from sin, evil, wrongdoing and
running your own life. Further, it is turning to a life of obedience to God and having
Jesus on the throne of your life.
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b) It is not being sorry for sin because we are afraid of the consequences.
* We should not confuse sorrow for sin with sorrow for the consequences of sin.
We must hate sin itself.
b) Exercise humility.
* Be willing to change, and be willing to receive help from the Lord to change.
Don't expect to be able to change all by yourself.
c) Renounce sin. Actively turn away from sin and decide not to do it again.
* 1 Jn 1:9.
4. There are specific sins we need to renounce. These are serious sins that are totally
incompatible with a relationship with God. We are not referring to just so-called
"small-stuff" (e.g., character flaw like always getting irritated). These serious sins are:
* This includes witchcraft, fortune telling, seances, playing spirit of the glass, etc.
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c) Sexual wrongdoing.
e) Drunkenness (not just drinking but drunkenness) and getting stoned on drugs.
** Note carefully which of these apply to you. It would be helpful for you to talk to
your facilitator this week about how to turn away from them. Remember that the
point here is not to feel bad about yourself for past sins, but to decisively turn
away from them.
5. Repentance only becomes complete after totally turning away from evil and accepting
Jesus as Lord.
a) Our lives need to come under his management. We need to let Jesus have the run of
things.
b) Accepting Jesus and letting him be Lord of our lives require faith.
C. Faith.
1. Faith is belief in the gospel, which is the good news of salvation in Jesus Christ.
Faith is both belief in the messenger, Jesus, and in the message that he brings.
Faith means not just believing with our minds (an intellectual belief) that Jesus is the
Savior, but believing in our hearts that he came to be our personal Savior.
2. Faith is a personal act and decision. It has several aspects (Rev 3:20).
a) It is a definite act. We must open the door if Jesus is to come into our lives.
b) It is an individual act. We need to decide on our own to open the door. No one can
decide for us to do so.
c) It is a deliberate act. We do not have to wait for a supernatural light to flash upon us
from heaven (like Paul's experience) or an emotional experience to overtake us. We
already know that Jesus came into this world and died for our sins. He is now
standing outside the door of our hearts and is knocking. The next move is ours.
e) It is an indispensable act.
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* It is the step needed to receive all God has promised. Faith is relying on all God
has said. Example of Peter walking on the water (Mt 14:25-29)
b) It is not just wishful thinking. It is not based on illusions or personal desires, but on
God's word.
* Peter stepped on the water because Jesus invited him to. He relied on what Jesus
said because he trusted Jesus would not lie and because he knew Jesus had the
power to do whatever he said he would do.
4. God has promised us new life. Faith is accepting that life and letting God show us how
to live it. We must be willing to do whatever God wants of us, and actually do it.
1. Acts 16:31.
2. Luke 11:9-13.
E. Conclusion.
1. 2,000 years ago, Jesus sounded the call to repentance and faith. It is the same call to us
today. We are called to turn away from sin and all obstacles to God, and to accept Jesus
as Lord.
3. Accept the challenge to repent and believe in Jesus. Then take God up on His promises,
and expect to experience the peace and joy and power of the Lord in your lives.
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1. God loves us, God sent His own Son to die for us, God has initiated a relationship with us as
Father. Our proper response to all God has done for us is repentance and faith.
2. The greek word for repentance is "metanoia", which literally means a change of mind.
* It is a change of direction in life. It is a change in the way we live our lives, dropping an
old set of ideals and values and adopting new ones.
* Specifically, repentance means a turning away from sin, evil, wrongdoing and running
your own life.
* Further, it is turning to a life of obedience to God and having Jesus on the throne of your
life.
3. Specific serious sins we must renounce: non-Christian religions; Spiritualism and the occult;
Sexual wrongdoing; Serious crimes (murder, abortion, corruption, etc.); Drunkenness and drugs.
1. Share with one another areas where you need to turn more fully to God.
2. Share areas where you need to grow in faith.
Scripture for daily prayer
The Challenge
Jesus sounded the call to repentance and faith 2,000 years ago. This is the same call to us today.
Turn away from sin and all obstacles to God, and accept Jesus as Lord and Savior. Then take
God up on all His promises.
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GOAL : To explain the meaning of the first and greatest commandment, and to teach people
how they can start to live out this Christian ideal.
Expanded Outline
A. Introduction (may be omitted or modified if the team leader already gives this).
1. In the first module of our CLP, we talked about: God's plan for the human race, the
centrality of Jesus in salvation history, our place in it, and God's call for us to repent and
believe in the good news.
2. We are now starting the second module, and here we will focus on:
b) How we can apply God's plan in order to experience His power and His peace.
b) Our goals become our ideal of life, influencing and directing our lives.
a) We can give our lives to pursuing good goals (e.g., a better society), but if loving God
is not our ideal, then this falls short.
b) God wants us to make loving Him our highest ideal. Thus God made it into a
commandment of the highest priority. Mk 12:28-30.
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c) Acts of piety
** These are not wrong actions, but they are also not adequate expressions of loving God.
* The heart is the symbol of the core of man, who the man is. It includes intelligent
thought and will, along with feeling.
c) The Biblical understanding makes more sense, because the kind of love God requires
cannot depend on feelings, which are changeable, but rather based on a commitment,
a decision to love.
b) It is a commitment to seek the Lord first and foremost. It is a decision to put God
first, to be loyal to Him, to place His will and interest above our own.
* A personal experience arising from our relationship as His sons and daughters.
c) We need to spend regular time with Him. In prayer. In reading the Bible.
1. When God created us, He enabled us to think. He did this so we can figure out how to
love and serve Him.
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b) The question is not so much how best to develop our mind, but rather how our
mind can fulfill its main purpose--to love God.
2. To love God with all our mind means to serve Him with the use of our mind, or simply to
make available our minds for His purposes.
b) Use your mind according to God's truths and not according to the ways of the world.
* The way we think and act must reflect the fact that we are not just living for this
temporal world but for God's eternal kingdom.
* Our decisions and choices must be guided by God's word in the Bible.
* Keep our minds be free of worries, because God promises to provide and care for
us.
* How you can be holy, not just how you can be rich materially.
* How you can please God, and not how you can glory in the praises of men.
d) Protect and preserve your mind from unholy influences so that God can use you for
His purposes.
* Be very discerning in the use of T.V. and other media, which can expose our
minds to inputs not consistent with Christian living.
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* Fill your mind with thoughts of God. Read the Bible and other helpful Christian
literature which can help form your Christian mind.
* In Christian service.
1. This means giving God all our resources--time, money, energy, possessions, gifts,
abilities.
a) We are God's creation. He owns us. What we call "ours" is not really ours but His.
2. What are the concrete ways we can love God with our resources?
a) Money.
- God is interested in our money, not because He needs it, but in order to see
the condition of our heart. Mt 6:21.
- We have a responsibility to manage and use well the resources given to us.
We must act according to God's interests.
- Almsgiving.
b) Time.
- We need to be generous with our time. Use it not just for ourselves, but for
others.
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* Concrete applications:
- Examine what you do with your free time. Movie, novel, sleep? These are
not wrong, but time can be better spent (e.g., Bible, Christian books).
F. Loving God is a very high ideal. Jesus showed us the way. Jesus is our model in loving
God.
G. Conclusion.
1. Loving God is not as vague and impractical as you might think. Rather, it involves
specific, practical actions, decisions and commitments.
2. But you cannot do it merely by deciding to do it. What will make it possible is the power
of the Holy Spirit.
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Brief Outline
1. God wants us to make loving Him our highest ideal. Thus God made it into a commandment
of the highest priority.
Discussion starter
How have I loved God in a concrete way?
Suggested reading
“God First” by Ken Wilson
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GOAL : To explain the meaning of Christian love and to help people apply Christian love in
their lives.
Expanded Outline
A. Introduction.
1. Last week we looked at the first and greatest commandment. Today we look at the
second. Mk 12:28-31.
2. Loving neighbor, together with loving God, form the core of the Christian life. Jesus
summed up the whole law in these two greatest commandments.
3. The two go together. 1 Jn 4:20-21. Thus it is clear: no love for others, no Christianity.
a) Love is often equated with feelings of sexual attraction, personal affection, warmth.
b) But feelings change and thus cannot be the sole basis for love.
a) To serve others or to put them first does not mean never turning down opportunities
to serve.
* Sometimes you are unable. Sometimes you should not, even if able.
b) We have the wrong concept of a loving person as a nice guy who tries to please
everybody.
a) Love is risky business. What if one betrays you? What if your loved one dies? Love
seems to set one up to get hurt.
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* Thus guarded love tries to protect itself from injury. Avoidance of pain, difficulty
and trial then become a condition attached to love.
b) Christian love is not guaranteed to be painless. But the pain is endured through
commitment, and the injury is sustained through forgiveness, forbearance, etc.
a) The focus in loving is not ourselves but others. By its nature, Christian love is ready
for self-denial.
b) We recognize that putting others first can be bothersome or inconvenient for us.
a) You manipulate when you give love as a reward or withdraw love as a punishment.
b) Because love is so powerful, people are tempted to use it in this way. But this is a
conditional form of love.
* The world's experience shows that love apart from God has become convoluted
with sin (e.g., sex outside marriage).
b) Jesus was specific about how we are to love one another. Jn 15:12.
* It is not just giving our time, imparting our wisdom, praying for others, etc., but
dying for others.
2. But most are not called to actually die for others. How then do we translate love into
practical everyday terms?
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* What Jesus did was most unusual, because it was the task of the youngest slave.
Thus Peter objected.
b) Thus, dying on the cross was not the only example Jesus gave. He demonstrated
Christian love as service love.
* Later he commanded them to love each other according to his example. Jn 13:34.
* The Jews hated the Samaritans, who had inter-married among the gentiles. Thus
it was remarkable for this Samaritan to help the Jew who was robbed and beaten.
b) The implication for us: All men in need of your help are your neighbors.
a) Patient - slow to anger; able to give allowance for the shortcoming of others.
b) Kind - not an attitude of criticism, but posture and speech that is upbuilding and
encouraging.
c) Not jealous - not coveting what others have, or begrudging another for having
something you do not have.
d) Not pompous or inflated - humble, not thinking of your own importance; more
impressed with your own unworthiness than merit.
f) Not self-seeking - not focused on having your rights met, but more on your duties.
i) Not rejoice over wrongdoing - always seeking the good of others, even enemies.
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k) Forbears - can bear insult, injury, disappointment, without taking counter action; has
self-control.
m) Hopes - having a positive attitude towards life and problems; can remain joyful and
peaceful under any circumstances.
n) Endures - can bear things, not with passive resignation but with triumphant fortitude.
E. Conclusion.
2. If you come to the conclusion that Christian love is difficult or even impossible, you are
right.
a) Given the nature of love and also our own human limitations, mere human effort will
fail. It is impossible without God's help.
b) But He who commanded us to love also gives us the power to love. To enable us to
love, God made us temples of the Holy Spirit.
* Rom 5:5.
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Brief Outline
1. Loving neighbor, together with loving God, form the core of the Christian life.
2. Love is not only having positive feelings, not always saying "yes", not defensive, not
self-seeking, not manipulative.
Discussion starter
1. Do you understand the Biblical meaning of love as contrasted with that of the world?
2. How have you failed to love in everyday life?
The challenge
Jesus showed us the way to true Christian love by the parable of the good Samaritan, by his
washing of his disciples' feet, and most of all by his dying for us on the cross. Are you prepared
to love others in the way Jesus loved you?
Suggested reading
“Decision to Love” by Ken Wilson
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Goal : To stress the importance and give practical advice for building up a strong Christian
Family
Expanded Outline
b) God created man, male and female, with their physiology so formed as to enable man
to increase and multiply and fill the earth. God intended man and woman to be one,
not independent individuals producing babies, but husband and wife raising a family,
a unit in society.
* Single parent
* Single mature woman
* Widow
* wife of oversees worker
1. The family is a place for caring, supporting and loving one another. We need to review
our own values and see the place of Jesus in our lives, because these are the values that
affect our relationship with everyone in the family.
a) The Lord established that children should respect and honor their parents. Exodus
20:12 "Honor your father and your mother, so that you may live long in the land the
Lord your God is giving you."
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Although there has come to a point when we are no longer under obligation to obey
our parents and their authority ceased:
* when we committed ourselves to God's work (Mk 3:31-35) (e.g. nuns, priests,
etc.) and
* when we chose our vocation and have achieved independence (Luke 2:41-52) this
must not be allowed to obscure our obligation to honor them, which is a lifelong
responsibility.
* to honor: to hold in respect, to confer distinction.
* honor is something we owe to our parents regardless of their particular merits and
limitations.
b) To take care of your father in his old age and not to cause him sorrow as long as he
lives. Even if he has lost his mind, have patience; do not be disrespectful to him
while you are in full health. For a kindness done to one's father will never be
forgotten, it will serve as reparation for the sins (Sir 3:12- 14).
b) Be faithful to your brother. "Do not exchange ... a real brother for the gold of Aphir
(Sir 7:18)
d) Be a good example to them and bring them close to God by our words and deeds.
Bear witness to God's greatness.
e) Forgive and forget any hurt feeling that we have experienced. Ask also for
forgiveness for the times we have caused them pain (Mt 18:21-22).
a) God has created you to complement as head of the family and you as suitable partner
and helpmate (Gen 2:18-25).
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God has given us the task of being the heart of the home. We nurture and care for our
children.
b) Wisdom: is not a mere knowing a lot of things but is a practical way of living
according to God's ways.
Teaching is not formal (Det 6:6-7, 20:21) comes in the everyday activities at home;
presence of God should permeate the home.
Review your own values and see the place of Jesus in your lives because these are the
values our children will learn.
A man who is a proven leader in his home can be a church leader. Parents are (in the case of
HOLD, mothers assume the role of the father, or in some instances leaders even for older
members of the family as applicable to single mature women with parents and other members
of the family) to be the priest of their families.
* confusion of roles especially for wives of overseas workers, shifting of roles when
husband is at home and when husband is away.
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* husbands take the lead on temporal concerns but wives take the lead on the
spiritual development of other members of the family.
c) More and more parents look to psychology as source of wisdom for raising their
children.
a) Through the years, many of its responsibilities have been taken over by other groups
in society.
* Education in schools.
* Livelihood in factories or offices.
b) Modern recreation facilities allow very little interaction among family members (TV,
video games etc.)
c) The family has become dispensable. This is the trend abroad that is creeping into
Philippine society.
* Live-in
* Divorce or separation
3. The pace of modern life has become fast. This has made it difficult for lasting
relationships to develop.
a) People are constantly on the go and are too busy to interact or to relate.
b) Livelihood is taking a big chunk of the time of fathers, and oftentimes of the mothers.
c) Mothers assume role of father and mother and therefore spend more time outside the
home.
d) One of the sad realities of our times is more and more mothers are economically
forced to work outside of the home.
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4. As a result, there is growing differences and disparity in interests, values priorities thus
widening the gap between and among members of the family.
a) The devil wants to break up the family, which is the basic foundation for a healthy
society.
b) The devil promotes many things that work to undermine the family, such as secular
humanism and communism.
1. Make a decision that in your family, you want God's plan to happen, to become a reality.
2. Take time and give attention to the task of building a strong family life. Take the lead in
building a relationship that is built on love, trust and understanding.
a) Examine your daily life to ensure that you have time with (make it quality and not
residual time) your family.
* making the most of time together with children when spouse from abroad has
limited time to spend with family
* Others
3. Take an active role in the formation and especially for growing or older members of the
family reformation of Christian values.
a) Pray together as a family. Make prayer a daily common occurrences in your family.
This is the highest expression of love and most pleasing to our God the Father.
b) For wives whose husbands do not share their spiritual life intercede for them. Cor
1:12-14.
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4. In times of need, share your bounty with others for that will give glory to God.
5. Share your talents by helping the little ones in their schoolwork, giving advice or counsel
or putting your skills in action and be useful in practical ways (e.g. sharing in household
chores).
6. Learn more about God's vision for your family.
For you and your children/your spouse whether living with you, abroad or separated from
you/as grandmother with grown children and with grandchildren/as one with responsibili-
ties over relatives/ as one who is alone and who can help others)
7. Seek other Christian women who are your concern about family life, and be in regular
fellowship.
b) You can look forward to developing real friendships and life-giving relationships.
These are starting points. The vision and objective is a Christian lifestyle in the home
and family. You are called to work in God's vineyard. Would you accept the offer?
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Discussion starter
1. How have you experienced the negative effects of the world's ways on your family?
2. What areas in your family life need to change in order to conform to God's plan?
The challenge
God is trying to restore the Christian family back to His original plan. We are called to respond
to His divine efforts and to be a part of His work. Will you take the steps necessary to have
God's plan happen in your family?
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GOAL : To stir up expectant faith and an eager desire for a greater working of God in people's
lives through the Holy Spirit.
Expanded Outline
A. Introduction.
1. Our topic, life in the Holy Spirit, is a very important topic, because it is this kind of life
that God wants for us.
a) This life in the Spirit was normal for the early Christians. They truly experienced the
Holy Spirit at work.
* In the book of Acts, we see the Holy Spirit acting among them, guiding them,
speaking to them, giving them gifts.
b) We need to know the Holy Spirit not just as a doctrine, but as a Person Who truly
affects our lives.
* But while we know the Father and the Son, many do not know the ministry of the
Holy Spirit.
a) But Christians have not always been so lifeless. The early Christian movement was
dynamic, strong, attractive.
b) That same power is available to us today. That is the power of the Holy Spirit.
3. We need to realize that true Christian living is not just a matter of human willpower, but
a new heart, a new life from God.
a) We cannot do it on our own steam. It is the Holy Spirit Who enables us to experience
God, a living relationship with Him, and His action in our lives.
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* Union with God. Eph 2:18. A new relationship with God as Father that is deep
and personal.
* A new nature. 2 Cor 5:17. We now have spiritual power for living the Christian
life.
4. God wants all men to have this new life. This new life in the Holy Spirit is available to
all who turn away from a life of sin and receive Jesus as Lord and Savior.
b) The disciples do as they are told. They stay in Jerusalem and wait.
* V.1-4. An exciting event. Noise like a strong wind, fire, speaking in tongues.
* V.5-13. It created a big stir.
* V.14-21. Peter explained they were not drunk but that the Old
Testament prophecies (Joel) were coming true.
* V.22-36. Peter proclaims the gospel.
* V.37-39. Peter tells them the response needed.
* V.40-41. The disciples were transformed from frightened men into
bold, powerful apostles. 3,000 are converted!
* V.42-47. The Holy Spirit created bonds of love and unity among the
new Christians. The Church was born.
* Those who received the Holy Spirit knew the Lord more personally and more
experientially.
2. What does receiving the Holy Spirit (or being baptized in the Spirit) mean for us today?
a) We can experience the same power and gift of the Spirit that the early Christians did.
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* Tongues is a common experience with the baptism in the Spirit. Just like in Acts.
* Unlike the other spiritual gifts, tongues is a gift that is immediately manifest.
* Tongues can have great consequences on one's spiritual life, especially prayer and
worship.
* It is an important first step, and is often the gateway to a fuller life in the Spirit.
So we simply take God up on His promise. We ask our Father to give us the Holy Spirit.
* We can be sure we will receive the Spirit because God said so. We just need to
ask in faith.
a) For Christians, this will not be the initial reception of the Holy Spirit. We already
received the Spirit at Baptism and Confirmation.
b) Rather, what will be experienced is a fuller release of the power of the Holy Spirit in
our lives.
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b) Feeling unworthy.
d) Doubt.
1. Mainly, we will pray. We will have corporate prayer, and then the discussion group
leaders will pray with each person individually.
2. We will start the praying over with the "Commitment to Christ". Be prepared to pray this
next week. Take time to read it through and get yourself behind the words so you can
pray it sincerely.
3. Each of you should meet individually with your discussion group leader before next
week's prayer session. This will be an opportunity to clear up any questions and to
receive greater clarity on baptism in the Holy Spirit.
D. Conclusion.
1. One important warning: Since you are doing so well responding to God (you have
finished 2/3 of this CLP), you are making Satan very unhappy. He is losing his grip, but
will not give up.
b) But do not be afraid. Simply call on Jesus' name to resist Satan and his works.
2. Take time also to review your intentions and expectations in this CLP. What are you
seeking? Is God's offer clear to you? How do you intend to respond?
a) This new life in the Spirit is the normal Christian life. God desires it for all.
b) Be open to it. Better yet, desire it. And have faith that you will receive it, because
God has so promised.
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Brief Outline
1. Much of Christianity today looks weak and is lacking in power and effectiveness.
* True Christian living is not just a matter of human will-power, but a new heart, a new life
from God.
* God wants all men to have this new life.
* This new life in the Holy Spirit is available to all who receive Jesus as Lord and Savior.
3. Obstacles to receiving God's gifts: an unrepentant attitude, feeling unworthy, fear, doubt,
pride, being selective.
Discussion starter
Share about your experience of God's Spirit in your life.
The Challenge
God is calling us to live a life of holiness and spiritual power. For this, God has promised us the
Holy Spirit. Will you trust in the promise of your Father? Will you accept Jesus as your Lord
and Savior? Will you ask for the infilling of the Holy Spirit in your life?
Suggested reading
“Baptized in the Spirit” by Stephen B. Clark
“Spiritual Gifts” by Stephen B. Clark
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GOAL : To lead people to receive the baptism of the Holy Spirit and the gift of tongues.
Expanded Outline
1. Many people during the prophet Ezekiel's time were enmeshed in sin and spiritual
lifelessness, like many Christians today. This is what God said to them:
b) Ez 36:27. God's promise of help and power to do what is right. The Holy Spirit
gives us the power.
2. The Holy Spirit that God promised through Ezekiel, Jesus gave to his disciples. With the
Holy Spirit, men gain:
3. God wants all men to have this new life. God sent His Son into the world so that we
could be given the source of the new life, the Holy Spirit.
a) Commitment to Christ.
This is not a second baptism (for Catholics), but a release of the power of the Holy Spirit.
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* We will lay hands on you and pray with you. But it is basically between you and
God. We are just instruments.
* Thus you ask God to give you what He promised. And expect it to happen!
* Just turn to the Lord and receive the new life of the Holy Spirit from Him.
a) More courage to live the Christian life, strength to fight temptation, more knowledge
of God, etc.
a) Relax. The more relaxed you are, the easier it is to receive God's gifts. It is harder to
put something in a clenched fist than in a relaxed and open hand.
b) Don't be afraid. The Lord is here with us, and He loves you very much. He wants
you to experience His love in a new way.
c) Don't be concerned about how you might act as you respond to the Spirit's
promptings.
* Don't entertain thoughts that you might look or sound foolish if you begin to
praise God in a new way, by raising your hands or speaking in tongues.
* We won't laugh at you. We will rejoice and be glad with you. We love you.
a) Tongues is a gift of praise. It is one of God's gifts. That is what makes it important.
God wants you to have this gift.
* After you have asked to be baptized in the Holy Spirit (and the ones praying over
you have asked for this), ask for the gift of tongues.
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* Begin by just praising God in your own words. Then start speaking out in
tongues. If necessary, begin by uttering meaningless sounds (e.g., la-la-la). The
Holy Spirit will form these sounds into tongues. (Analogy: it is easier to
manipulate the steering wheel of a car when it is in motion rather than stationary).
* Do not be analyzing the sounds or focusing on the experience. Just focus on the
Lord and offer Him your utterance as prayers of praise.
* Resist the temptation to think that it is just you and not the Holy Spirit forming
the sounds.
c) Thus to sum up: you first of all desire the gift of tongues, because it is a gift from
God; then you ask for it in faith; and then you cooperate with God's Spirit by opening
your mouth and speaking out.
4. After you are finished being prayed with, please return to your seat. We have some
closing remarks and then we will all end together.
a) While waiting, you can continue to pray in your heart. Pray for your brothers and
sisters here as well.
5. Final words:
a) God wants you to have His gifts because He loves you and wants to live in you by
His Holy Spirit. Desire God's gifts!
b) God offers and gives His gifts. Our part is to accept. Let us all give the Holy Spirit a
welcome into our lives.
After all have been prayed with, have a short worship time (including singing in tongues).
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E. Closing exhortation.
a) Feeling is not the important thing. Rather, look for the new way that God is at work
in you and respond to it (e.g., a new desire for prayer, for Scripture, etc.).
b) If you did not speak in tongues, do not worry about it. Do not equate being baptized
in the Spirit with getting the gift of tongues.
c) In your prayer time this week, give plenty of time to praise and thanksgiving.
* Do this aloud, if you can without disturbing others. And continue to be open to
the Lord forming your praise into tongues.
a) Satan is seeking to rob everyone of God's gift. For him the next best thing to keeping
you from getting is to keep you from using it.
b) Do not let feelings of doubt bother you. Just remember the fact that God promised it
and that you asked for it.
3. Do not expect all your problems to go away all at once, though many will. The Holy
Spirit will make a big change in you, and you will see it. But not everything will change.
Some things will take a while to get worked out. But now you have a new power to use
in working them out.
4. Be faithful to a regular time of daily prayer. Spend a good portion of your prayer time in
praise and thanksgiving in your own words. Pray in tongues everyday.
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Brief Outline
1. God has promised the Holy Spirit to His people. With the Holy Spirit, we gain a new nature,
spiritual power, and the power to serve.
2. Jesus is the baptizer in the Holy Spirit. We turn to him and receive the new life in the Holy
Spirit from him.
The challenge
You have claimed Christ's promise of the Holy Spirit to anyone who asks. You have been
baptized in the Holy Spirit and have received a new life from the Lord. You are "a new creation:
the old things have passed away; behold, new things have come" (2 Corinthians 5:17). You have
begun a new life in faith. Will you commit yourself fully to Jesus Christ and grow into the life in
the Holy Spirit?
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Expanded Outline
A. Introduction.
The baptism in the Spirit is only a beginning. Now we need to grow in this new life in the
Spirit.
2. In order to grow, we need to make use of the basic means of growth which the Lord
provides us. These are: prayer, study, service and fellowship.
a) The Christian life can be pictured as a wheel of a cart. It has three components:
* The outer rim. This is the part of the wheel that meets the road. This represents
daily Christian life.
* The hub. This is the part of the wheel from which the power inmates to the rim.
It holds the wheel together. The hub is our Lord Jesus Christ, who is at the center
of our lives. The power is that of the Holy Spirit.
* The spokes. These transmit the power and direction from the hub to the rim. In
Christian experience, the spokes are the means of putting our whole life in contact
with Christ, so that our life can be transformed by his power and direction.
1. Prayer is the primary means for establishing and maintaining a deep and loving personal
relationship between ourselves and God.
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* Scheduled and structured prayer is helpful, but could make our prayer dry and
mechanical. Be open to changing your format as the Spirit leads.
* Prayer is a means to an end, not an end in itself. Our goal is not "to pray" or even
"to pray well", but to grow in our relationship with the Lord.
* People can get wrapped up in techniques. While these can help, prayer is really
very simple. It is a matter of loving God and being loved by Him.
3. In the Catholic tradition, the intercession of Mary and the saints is a powerful tool of
prayer. A devotion to Mary and the saints is part and parcel of a Catholic’s faith.
1. We need to know God and understand Him and His ways. Study is a deliberate, focused
exercise of the intellect, not referring primarily to scholarly or academic endeavor but to
the wider process of understanding more about God so we can love and better serve Him.
a) The Bible.
* This is the most important, because this is the very word of God. It teaches us
who God is, what He has done, and what He wants us to do.
b) Spiritual reading.
* After reading what God has said of Himself (Bible), we can read what men have
said about God. We can draw on spiritual insights and study throughout the life
of the Church.
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* The word of God spoken in the Sunday homily, in parish events, in conferences,
etc.
1. Jesus, through the Holy Spirit, is at work in us, not just for our personal development but
also to equip us for effective service for him and his people.
2. We need to take on a mentality of service so that we see our whole life given over to
God's work. We need to take on the heart of a servant. Mt 20:26-28.
a) As we put the Lord first in our lives, he calls us to reach out also to others.
b) Service helps us grow because it touches the most basic attitudes we have of
ourselves and our independence. To serve others is to be humble.
We also serve by performing the basic responsibilities God has given us in our daily
lives.
c) Then we serve our fellow men by recognizing the many built-in opportunities for
service in day-to-day life.
d) We give witness to our faith in Jesus by the way we live our lives. Be alert to
opportunities to share your faith verbally with family, friends, neighbors, co-workers,
and the world at large.
e) Make ourselves and our resources available for God's work. Our time, talent,
treasure.
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d) Social gatherings.
1. In the Catholic tradition, the most important tool for spiritual growth are the sacraments.
They are the main channels of God's grace for our lives.
a) Though confession is required only once a year, we should avail of this more often.
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G. Conclusion.
1. This CLP, your commitment to Christ, the baptism in the Holy Spirit--all these are just
the beginning of a new life. We are "babies in Christ" and we need to grow. Make use
of the tools provided by God.
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Brief Outline
The baptism in the Spirit is only a beginning. Now we need to grow in this new life of the Spirit.
a) Prayer. The primary means for establishing and maintaining a deep and loving personal
relationship with God.
* Must be faithful. Pray daily.
* Must be led by the Holy Spirit.
* Must be centered on a relationship with Jesus.
b) Study.
* The Bible. Read daily.
* Spiritual reading (books, magazines, articles, etc.).
* Teachings and preachings.
c) Service.
* By the way we live. Pursuit of righteousness and holiness.
* Serving our fellow men.
* Performing our basic responsibilities in life.
* Giving witness to our faith in Jesus.
* Giving of our time, talent and treasure.
d) Fellowship.
e) Sacraments (for Catholics).
Discussion starter
What tools to Christian growth have not been fully utilized in your life?
4 Hebrews 4:12-13
The Challenge
God's call for every Christian is to grow in holiness. To this end, God has provided us with the
tools for growth. Will you eagerly avail of these tools and strive to be holy as God is holy?
Suggested reading
“Growing Closer to God” by Tom Gryn
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TALK No. 11 : THE LIFE AND MISSION OF CFC HANDMAIDS OF THE LORD
GOAL: To explain the life and mission of Handmaids of the Lord and to inspire women with
the desire to be a part of this committed group of Christians.
Expanded Outline
A. Last week we talked about the basic tools for growth in our Christian life. One tool is the
need to be in regular fellowship and supportive relationships with other Christians, especially
Christian women. Today we will discuss with you in greater detail how we can learn to
appropriate God's wisdom and power in our environment as we enter into committed rela-
tionship with one another as Christian women.
1. Description.
2. Brief history.
The HOLD was officially born on June 18, 1993. It was a response to God's call to
Couples for Christ (CFC) to establish a wholistic family ministry, most especially to
women.
It is a global evangelistic community created by God for the evangelization and renewal
of families.
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a) We believe first of all, that we have a responsibility to encourage and support one
another in the Christian life. Thus, we make a commitment to grow together as
Christian women to grow to maturity as individual Christians, to serve the Lord and
to fulfill our vocations as mature Christian women in our environment.
2. Through households. All members of HOLD belong to cell groups which we call
"households". At the end of this CLP, if you make your commitment to HOLD, you will
be assigned to a household.
a) The purpose of a household group is to have a smaller and more intimate environment
for personal support in the Christian life, and to provide a means for encouraging and
hastening growth as a Christian.
* Here you can share life experiences and God's practical wisdom.
* You can be helped to overcome obstacles in the Christian life.
* You will develop real friendships and true sisterhood, without which our Christian
life would lack joyful expression.
c) The household meets once a week, on the same day of the week as mutually agreed
on by its members.
* Less than once a week would not provide enough contact to have adequate
support and encouragement in the Christian life.
* More than once a week may become a burden and may take time that is more
properly allocated to work, family, personal needs or Christian service.
d) The household meetings are held in the homes of the group members, on rotation
basis from week to week. Holding the household meetings in our homes has the
following values:
* Worshiping the Lord in our home makes the truth that the home is a domestic
church a concrete reality. And God's blessings will surely descend upon the home
where God's people can be found, worshipping Him together and growing in faith
together.
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* The people living with us--our children, brothers and sisters perhaps our parents,
household help, the people who are closest to us--will be aware of what we are
involved in and what we do every week. To them we will become people who are
living their Christian faith openly and powerfully.
* What we do in our home may be used by the Lord as an effective tool for
evangelization, especially to our relatives, neighbors and friends.
* Covenant Orientation.
* Handmaids Enrichment Retreat.
* Evangelization Training.
b) Beyond the first year, there are many other courses (name some) and various training
modules for those who will undertake services in HOLD.
c) Various teachings will also be given through our newsletter Ugnayan, in prayer
meetings, and other occasions.
c) Social activities.
D. Conclusion.
1. We are living in exciting times. As we see the deterioration of Christian values all
around us in all parts of the world, we are also seeing God's loving hand in our lives.
b) We are called to be part of God's work and we should gladly respond to this call.
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a) Look on the covenant as an ideal, not yet fully in place, but as what God calls us to.
3. If you decide that HOLD is for you, come back next week, ready to make the covenant.
Our last session next week is not the end, but just the beginning.
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COVENANT OF THE
CFC HANDMAIDS OF THE LORD
"Behold, I am the handmaid of the Lord. May it be done to me according to Your Word"
(Luke1:38).
2. I will be a committed and active member of the CFC HANDMAIDS OF THE LORD.
* Attend my small group meetings regularly and support the good order of the meeting.
* Faithfully participate in all the activities of the group.
* Relate in love, loyalty and respect to all my sisters in the body.
* Intercede daily for the group and its mission.
* Attend all courses, retreats, workshops and conferences of the CFC HANDMAIDS OF
THE LORD.
* Diligently study all materials given to me.
May the Lord Jesus Christ help me to be faithful in living out this commitment everyday for His
greater honor and glory and for the good of my sisters.
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Signature
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STATEMENT OF PHILOSOPHY
The following embodies the beliefs and ideals of the CFC Handmaids of the Lord (HOLD) as a
family ministry of Couples for Christ, from which flow its Christian attitudes, values and
behavior, as well as its programs, teachings and approaches to Christian renewal.
WE BELIEVE in the family as the basic unit of God's Kingdom where human life begins and is
nurtured. We believe in the need to protect the family in the midst of the great changes and
challenges confronting it.
"WE BELIEVE that God creates every human being in his image, thus bestowing us with
personal worth and dignity. As such, we are to reflect his divine image in all our actions and
relationships".
WE BELIEVE that as Handmaids of the Lord, God has given us a special call.
To serve him, to seek to give more of ourselves each day in humble service. We commit
ourselves to selflessly seek the good of our neighbor and to strive with all our strength to bring
the Lord's light and life to many others.
WE BELIEVE that we can fulfill our call by inviting Jesus to be the Lord of all areas of our lives
and allowing the Holy Spirit to lead us and empower us to live the life he called us into.
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Women in the Holy Spirit, joyfully proclaiming the greatness and glory of God as Mary did, by
living out her fiat: “I am the Handmaid of the Lord, may it be done to me according to your
word,” in selfless love and discipleship.
The Handmaid of the Lord is a creation of God distinctly called to the mission of personal
transformation, evangelization to bring other women to a renewed life in the Lord and
wholehearted service to bring glad tidings to the poor.
The following embodies the beliefs and ideals of the CFC Handmaids of the Lord (HOLD) as a
family ministry of Couples for Christ, from which flow its Christian attitudes, values and
behavior, as well as its programs, teachings and approaches to Christian renewal:
WE BELIEVE that God creates every human being in His image, thus we women have personal
worth and dignity. As such, we are to reflect His divine image in all our thoughts, words, actions
and relationships.
WE BELIEVE in the family as the basic unit of God’s Kingdom where human life begins and is
nurtured; hence the need to protect and prepare it to face the changes and challenges confronting
it.
WE BELIEVE that as Handmaids of the Lord, God has called us to be holy women; thus -
. We commit ourselves to be Christ-like by being prayerful, studying and living out God’s
word.
. We commit to God and neighbor our humble and selfless service, to strive with all our hearts
and strength to bring the Lord’s love and light to others.
We can fulfill this call by inviting Jesus to be the Lord of all areas of our lives and allowing the
Holy Spirit to lead and empower us to live the life He called us into.
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Handmaids of the Lord is an integral part of CFC that is called to participate in fulfilling the CFC
mission and the Church’s work of global evangelization and renewal specifically through the
personal transformation of adult women who are without spouses literally and physically or
spiritually (single/ separated/ divorced/widowed/alone in the spirit/ wives of overseas workers/
migrant workers).
As partners in mission of CFC and of the Church, HOLD members pledge to:
. live a full Christian life that reflects God’s divine image and love in all their actions and
relationships;
. actively participate in all aspects of the work of CFC and its various ministries, especially
the work with the poor;
. support God’s work with time, talent and treasure.
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GOAL: To encourage women to live out actively the new life in the power of the Holy Spirit,
and to excite them about becoming a part of the mission of Handmaids of the Lord
(HOLD).
Expanded Outline
A. Introduction.
1. We have come to the end of our CLP. But this is not the end, but just the beginning. We
have before us a whole new life with God and with one another. It is exciting!
2. The Lord has laid the foundation for this new life throughout this CLP.
d) And now the continuing support you will receive in CFC Handmaids of the Lord..
3. Now you need to allow the Lord to continue the process of your transformation in Christ.
The Holy Spirit is at work so that you can grow to know, love and serve God more.
B. God's purpose.
* Growth in holiness. 1 Pet 1:15-16. We need to grow to become more and more
like Jesus.
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* Becoming truly brothers and sisters to one another in the larger family of Couples
for Christ (CFC) and sisters in HOLD.
* The work of evangelization, the bringing of the same good news we have received
to others.
2. And as you grow and are transformed, what is God about? God wants women to enter
into a renewed life with Him.
* CFC of which HOLD is an integral part has been tasked with a global mission of
evangelization and renewal.
C. How can God's purpose be fulfilled through HOLD? How do we respond to God's call?
2. Take part in the mission of HOLD in seeking out other women and helping them into a
renewed life in the Lord and in serving God's people. Uphold the God given dignity and
true worth of women as seen in the light of the word of God.
3. Take part in the mission of Couples for Christ in building strong Christian families and
homes.
a) The family is the basic unit of society, Church and country. The condition will
determine the condition of everything else.
c) Bring your relatives to Couples for Christ, CFC Handmaids of the Lord and to other
CFC family ministries.
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b) Every HOLD member must become an evangelist. Bring others to HOLD in order to
meet Jesus Christ.
D. Conclusion.
a) Having a personal relationship with Jesus and being in a vibrant community such as
CFC Handmaids of the Lord.
b) This has happened through no worth of our own, but simply by God's mercy and
grace.
a) Look expectantly to the future. God has much more in store for us.
* Jesus is the greatest treasure you can have. It is worth all your effort and all your
strength to live your lives totally for him.
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DEDICATION CEREMONY
2. The leader invites everyone to stand. A song of offering oneself is sung (e.g., Amen Our
Hearts Cry).
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3. The leader invites everyone to read out the covenant of the Handmaids of the Lord. They all
read out loud together.
4. The leader prays over the newly committed sisters, inviting the old members to pray in their
hearts with her. During this time of prayer, it is appropriate to insert one solemn song (e.g.,
Spirit of the Living God).
5. The leader welcomes the new sisters to HOLD and invites the old members to express
acceptance by means of one big applause. This is followed by spontaneous greeting and
welcoming of the new members by the old members. The music ministry plays "Welcome to
the Family" and "Magnificat".
6. Fellowship follows.
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Note : This is only a guide. Please be open to the leading of the Holy Spirit
Almighty and eternal God, we thank You for Your Goodness in calling our sisters to the
Christian Life Program of the CFC Handmaids of the Lord. We thank You for taking good care
of them and their loved ones as well. Thank you for blessing them with good health and constant
protection. Thank You, Father for providing us with our daily needs and even more. Thank you
for your faithfulness to us, inspite of our unworthiness. Thank You, Lord for this time with You
to dedicate ourselves to You. Thank you for Your love and support to our brothers and sisters in
Couples for Christ, and our sisters in the Handmaids of the Lord. Thank you for the messages
that You sent us through our speakers and also for the inspiring songs of our music ministry.
Lord, we present to You our sisters at the end of this Christian Life Program. Bless each one of
them and embrace them in Your love. Continue to be generous with Your Holy Spirit and help
them to be faithful in their covenant with You so that they will grow more and more to know
You, to love You and to serve You.
Lord, defend them from the attacks of the evil one, accompany them in their journey through
life. Bless their homes, their families and loved ones. Give them strength and inspiration,
especially as they face trials and difficulties in life.
Father, console them in their moments of loneliness and help them cope with the challenges and
responsibilities of being single parents and being alone in their lives. Heal them of their hurts,
resentments and worries.
For the widows, open the gates of heaven for their beloved departed ones. Teach them to rely
more and more on You and seek guidance always from You as she strengthens her family and
provides for her children their material and spiritual needs.
For our sisters who are separated from their spouses, grant them forgiveness and the humility to
seek forgiveness. Lead them to reconciliation, but most of all peace and joy even as this recon-
ciliation is unattainable at this time. Continue, Lord, to lead them according to your plans for
them.
For our sisters who are blessedly single, Father, let them understand of Your specific plans for
them. Let them realize that You love them and care for them more than any person can love
them. If You will it, Lord, for our sister to have a partner in life, send her a Christian partner,
someone she can see as a gift from You.
Lord, fill our sisters with the hunger for Your Word and the desire to follow You and obey You.
Give them servant's heart so that they may serve You and others through You. Use them, Lord
as instruments to draw other women closer to You.
Let all of us share in the love of Your mother and look up to her for intercession.
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Help them father, to be truly Your handmaids as they individually proclaim, "Behold, I am
handmaids of the Lord, may it be done to me according to Your word".
All these we ask in the mighty name of our Lord who lives and reigns with You, in the unity of
the Holy Spirit, one God forever and ever, Amen.
Sisters, welcome to the CFC Handmaids of the Lord, and to the bigger family of Couples for
Christ.
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