Medieval View of Love - Courtly Love
Medieval View of Love - Courtly Love
Medieval View of Love - Courtly Love
The medieval world was therefore part of a multifaceted and hierarchical universe in
which all elements were bound together in a "great chain of being." The force which
bound all these elements together was love, also called caritas or charity, what St.
Augustine (354-430 A.D.) called the whole motion of the soul towards God for His sake
and towards one's self and one's fellow man for the sake of God. All of scripture, indeed
all of Christian doctrine, taught the essential importance of charity in this spiritualized
sense.
in the late nineteenth century to describe a loose set of literary conventions associated
almost exclusively with the aristocracy and their imitators.
Courtly Love
Courtly love as a literary phenomenon reflects one of the most far-reaching
revolutions in social sensibility in Western culture--the dramatic change in attitude
towards women that began in the late eleventh century, spread throughout western and
northern Europe during the twelfth century, and lingered through the Renaissance and
on into the modern world where traces can still be found. In its essential nature, courtly
love, or fin' amors, as the Provencal poets called it, was the expression of the knightly
worship of a refining ideal embodied in the person of the beloved. Only a truly noble
nature could generate and nurture such a love; only a woman of magnanimity of spirit
was a worthy object. The act of loving was in itself ennobling and refining, the means to
the fullest expression of what was potentially fine and elevated in human nature.
More often than not, such a love expressed itself in terms that were feudal and
religious. Thus, just as a vassal was expected to honor and serve his lord, so a lover was
expected to serve his lady, to obey her commands, and to gratify her merest whims.
Absolute obedience and unswerving loyalty were critical. To incur the displeasure of
one's lady was to be cast into the void, beyond all light, warmth, and possibility of life.
And just as the feudal lord stood above and beyond his vassal, so the lady occupied a
more celestial sphere than that of her lover. Customarily she seemed remote and
haughty, imperious and difficult to please. She expected to be served and wooed,
minutely and at great length. If gratified by the ardors of her lover-servant, she might at
length grant him her special notice; in exceptional circumstances, she might even grant
him that last, longed-for favor. Physical consummation of love, however, was not
obligatory. What was important was the prolonged and exalting experience of being in
love.
It was usually one of the assumptions of courtly love that the lady in question was
married, thus establishing the triangular pattern of lover-lady-jealous husband. This
meant that the affair was at least potentially adulterous, and had to be conducted in an
atmosphere of secrecy and danger. The absolute discretion of the lover was therefore
indispensable if the honor of the lady were to be preserved. Though the convention did
not stipulate adultery as a sine qua non, it is nevertheless true that the two great patterns
of courtly love in the Middle Ages--Tristan and Isolt and Lancelot and Guenevere--both
involved women who deceived their husbands.
Middle Ages began to act out in their own loves the pattern of courtly behavior they
read about in the fictional romances and love lyrics of the period. The social effect was
to accord women preeminence in the great, central, human activity of courtship and
marriage. Thus women became more than just beloved objects--haughty, demanding,
mysterious; they became, in a very real sense, what they have remained ever since, the
chief arbiters of the game of love and the impresarios of refined passion.
Toward the end of the Middle Ages, in the work of Dante and other poets of the
fourteenth century, the distinction between amor and caritas became blurred. Chaucer's
Prioress ironically wears a brooch on which is inscribed, "Amor Vincit Omnia" ("Love
Conquers All"). The secular imagery of courtly love was used in religious poems in
praise of the Virgin Mary. The lover with "a gentle heart," as in a poem by Guido
Guinizelli, could be led through a vision of feminine beauty to a vision of heavenly
grace. One of Dante's greatest achievements was to turn his beloved, seen primarily in
physical, worldly, courtly love terms in his early work, La Vita Nuova, into the abstract,
spiritualized, religious figure of Beatrice in The Divine Comedy.
Adapted from A Guide to the Study of Literature: A Companion Text for Core Studies 6, Landmarks of
Literature, English Department, Brooklyn College.
http://academic.brooklyn.cuny.edu/english/melani/cs6/love.html
Courtly Love
Romaunt vv. 2175-2716, pp. 710-715, in the Riverside Chaucer. Note that in the Romaunt
adultery is not in question, and the anti-social trait of Jealousy (which Andreas thought
essential to love) is barred from the Garden of Love (See Romaunt, Fragment A, in the
Riverside Chaucer). For a rather charming treatment of intended (but thwarted) adultery,
with the lover finally rewarded for his devotion (fifteen children), see the brief romance
The Earl of Toulouse . On the whole question see "Courtly Love and Chivalry in the Later
Middle Ages."
The Knight of Latour Landry describes his love for his deceased wife in the prologue to
his book of instruction for his daughters. He is something of a prude, and he is shocked
at the flirtatious talk of a young lady.
For another example of a courtly lover perhaps slightly ironic, see John Gower in love.
Gower is too old for the game of love and Venus dismisses him with his love still
unrequited.
The religion of love is apparent in the language of lovers (see Chaucer's "Complaint to
His Lady," pp. 642-43 in Riverside Chaucer) and in the lightly humorous "The Lover's
Mass."
For a set of rules of love for women (15th cent.) see: The Ten Commandments of Love.
For a defense of women and an illustration of how closely intertwined are courtly love
and anti-female satire and thought, see Christine de Pisan's Epistle of Cupid, adapted
into Middle English by Thomas Hoccleve.
For a number of examples of Middle English poems employing the conventions of courtly
love, see:
Love Visions.
The main difference between courtly love as Andreas defined it and courtly love as
Chaucer knew it was the idea that love ennobled the lover -- made him a better knight.
This is one of the topics debated by the Knight of La Tour Landry and his wife -- he
arguing that his daughters should observe some of the conventions of courtly love, she
stoutly maintaining that they should pay little attention to what clever men might say
about such matters.
Medieval ideas of secular love were greatly influenced by Ovid; see his Ars Amatoria, tr.
J. H. Mozely, Loeb, Cambridge, 1947 [Widener Lo 10.201.23] and his Remedia Amoris [P
A6522.A8 G7 1977]. These works are available on line, translated by A.S. Kline on the
Great Books and Classics site. The idea of the ennobling power of love owes something
to Cicero's De amicitia, On Friendship Or see the Loeb edition, tr. William A. Falconer,
1923 [PA 296.C2 1923x]
Love was could also be a sickness -- the "loveris maladye of Heroes" (KnT 1373-74). See:
Mary Frances Wack, The Liber de heros morbo of Johannes Afflacius and Its Implications
for Medieval Love Conventions, Speculum, Vol. 62, No. 2. (Apr., 1987), pp. 324-344
(available in Jstor).
For further reading see the brief bibliography in the Riverside Chaucer, p. 777; to this
may be added (for those interested in the early history of courtly love):