ALL RIGHTS RESERVED.

No part of this report may be modified or altered in any

form whatsoever, electronic, or mechanical, including photocopying, recording, or by
any informational storage or retrieval system without express written, dated and
signed permission from the author.

AFFILIATE DISCLAIMER. The short, direct, non-legal version is this: Some of the links
in this report may be affiliate links which means that I earn money if you choose to
buy from that vendor at some point in the near future. I do not choose which products
and services to promote based upon which pay me the most, I choose based upon my
decision of which I would recommend to a dear friend. You will never pay more for an
item by clicking through my affiliate link, and, in fact, may pay less since I negotiate
special offers for my readers that are not available elsewhere.

DISCLAIMER AND/OR LEGAL NOTICES: The information presented herein

represents the view of the author as of the date of publication. Because of the rate
with which conditions change, the author reserves the right to alter and update his
opinion based on the new conditions. The report is for informational purposes only.
While every attempt has been made to verify the information provided in this report,
neither the author nor his affiliates/partners assume any responsibility for errors,
inaccuracies or omissions. Any slights of people or organizations are unintentional. If
advice concerning legal or related matters is needed, the services of a fully qualified
professional should be sought. This report is not intended for use as a source of legal
or accounting advice. You should be aware of any laws which govern business
transactions or other business practices in your country and state. Any reference to
any person or business whether living or dead is purely coincidental.

Copyright 2016

TABLE OF
CONTENTS
Introduction ...........................................................................................5
Theories on Happiness .....................................................................7
Remove the Negative .....................................................................11
Find Your Purpose ...........................................................................15
Create Your Own Laundry List ..................................................19
Get Control of Your Thoughts ...................................................22
Additional Strategies ......................................................................26
Conclusion ...........................................................................................30

I am determined to be cheerful and happy in whatever

situation I may find myself. For I have learned that the
greater part of our misery or unhappiness is determined
not by our circumstance but by our disposition.
- Martha Washington

INTRODUCTION
It could be argued that the purpose of life is to be as
happy as possible while navigating lifes inevitable ups
and downs. Being happy not only feels good, it also
provides a better foundation for achievement and the
ability to provide care and support for others. Regardless
of your life philosophy, few would argue that spending
more time in a happy state would be a bad thing.
Happiness is elusive for many. Those of limited financial
means think money is the answer to happiness, but there
are plenty of miserable people with millions of dollars in
the bank.

Happiness is deceptively simple. Perhaps youre already

happy but there are a few things masking it. Maybe you
just need one more thing in your life to feel a great sense
of joy. It might just be some negative thinking thats
fueling your negative emotions.
Luckily, happiness is available to everyone. This guide will
show you the way to get started. The rest is up to you.

Be happy with what you have and are, be generous with both,
and you won't have to hunt for happiness.
- William E. Gladstone

THEORIES ON
HAPPINESS
There are many theories on what it takes to achieve
happiness. Doctors, psychologists, philosophers, and
clergy members all have different solutions on whats
required to acquire and maintain a state of happiness.
There are many ways to approach increasing the levels of
joy and happiness in your life. Consider them all.
Which theory resonates the most with you?
1. Happiness is a natural state. Have you ever seen a
baby in a bad mood that wasnt caused by hunger,
fatigue, or some other form of physical discomfort?

Many believe that happiness is a natural state. Its

the multitude of negative items on top of your
natural happiness that are preventing you from
feeling the happiness that already exists within
you.

According to this theory, you dont need anything

spectacular in your life to feel happy. You simply
need to remove the things in your life that are a
hindrance.

2. Living your greatest purpose. Many experts

subscribe to the premise that one can only truly be
happy when they are living at the highest emotional
level. This would entail finding your lifes purpose and
fully engaging in life from this perspective.

Your lifes purpose might be to help homeless

children or to scale the worlds most challenging
peaks.

In this case, youll want to find your purpose and

rearrange your life to accommodate it into your
lifestyle.

3. Meeting a practical laundry list of requirements.

There are those that believe happiness requires a few
simple, but meaningful, items.

Someone to love. Having someone to love that

also loves you is a welcome addition to life.

Something to look forward to. The positive

feelings of expectation are important. As children,
we looked forward to Christmas, summer
vacation, and birthday parties. There are few
things that spontaneously occur in day-to-day life
that provide that feeling of expectation. Its
necessary to create them.

A goal. Human beings are drawn to selfimprovement and achievement. Whether its a
goal to visit Rome or learning to speak Mandarin,
having a purpose seems to provide satisfaction.

Good health. Its certainly easier to be happy if

you feel good and your health is intact. Make your
health a priority.

Enough money. What constitutes enough money

varies from person to person. At the very least,
its easier to be happy if you have a sufficient
income to pay your basic bills and pursue your
goals.

Lest you believe that more money equals more

happiness, several studies have concluded that the
correlation between happiness and money ends at
roughly $70,000 per year. Making $200,000 wont
increase your happiness more than making $70,000. A
moderate income wont limit your ability to be happy.
So there are many ways to approach happiness. Rather
than subscribing to a single theory, it might be
worthwhile to incorporate the relevant aspects of each.

Happiness cannot be traveled to, owned, earned,

worn or consumed. Happiness is the spiritual experience
of living every minute with love, grace, and gratitude.
- Denis Waitley

REMOVE THE
NEGATIVE
As a first step, rather than focusing on the addition of
positive things to your life, examine the parts of your life
that you believe are making you unhappy. Getting rid of
those things that are limiting your happiness is analogous
to dropping extra pounds before climbing a mountain.
Allow the good things in your life room to breathe.
Evaluate these parts of your life:

1. Relationships and social life. Consider all your

relationships. One harmful relationship can really
damper your happiness.

Romantic: Are you happy with your spouse or

your significant other? Are you lacking a partner
and believe that loneliness is an issue?

Family and friends: Are the relationships with

your family and friends adding to your life or
detracting? How fulfilling is your social life? Do
you get along with your neighbors?

Work: Are your relationships with your boss and

coworkers a source of stress or anger? Roughly
half of your waking hours during the week are
spent at work, so its important to develop positive
work relationships.

Are you getting out of the house on a regular

basis and spending time with others in a
meaningful way?

2. Health. While some health issues cant be solved, are

you doing everything you can to optimize your
health? Is your health interfering with your ability to
enjoy life?
3. Career. Are you pleased with your job and career
path?
4. Finances. Most likely, youre not unhappy because
you cant afford a yacht. However, you could certainly
be unhappy because you cant afford to feed and
clothe your family. Financial pressure can be a
significant cause of stress and misery.
5. Adventure. Whether your idea of adventure is scuba
diving on the barrier reef or hitting the famous
hamburger stand two towns over, a little excitement
helps to keep us all on our toes. What do you have to
look forward to next week, next month, and next
year?
6. Miscellaneous. Can you count on your car to start
each morning? Is your mattress sagging and causing
your back to ache? Are you afraid your hard drive is

about to die each time you turn on your laptop?

These seemingly minor things can create a lot of
mental havoc.
If all of these areas of your life were positive, would you
be happier?
Take a few minutes to rate each of these areas of your life
on a scale of 1 to 10. The lower-rated aspects of your life
are dragging you down. Before attempting to make any
spectacular additions to your life, bring up the parts of
your life that are less than acceptable.
For fastest results and to make a positive impact on your
life, choose just one. Choose the one item that will
contribute to your happiness the most and focus there.

Achievement of your happiness is the only moral purpose

of your life, and that happiness, not pain or mindless
self-indulgence, is the proof of your moral integrity,
since it is the proof and the result of your loyalty
to the achievement of your values.
- Ayn Rand

FIND YOUR
PURPOSE
If it feels like youre just drifting through life, finding your
lifes purpose might be the solution. Imagine waking up
each day feeling excited and motivated. You might never
feel the need to hit the snooze bar again. Living your lifes
dream is an excellent way to invite happiness into your
life.
As children, we have a pretty good idea of what we want
to be when we grow up. Astronaut, professional baseball
player, doctor, princess, and fireman are all common

goals at 8-years of age. Have you ever heard a child state

they wanted to be an office worker when they grew up?
Yet somehow, most of us manage to wind up with careers
that are less than satisfying.
Try these tips for finding the purpose of your life:
1. Get a piece of paper and a pen and ask yourself.
Find a quiet place for an hour and take pen to paper.
Ask yourself, What is my purpose? and write down
whatever answer you receive.

Write down everything. If your thought is, This is

dumb. It will never work, then thats exactly what
you write.

Eventually, some meaningful things will come out.

Just keep writing!

Youll know youve found it when you cry. Before

its over, youll come up with an idea that makes
you cry. There will be no doubt when you find it. If
youre not sure, keep writing.

2. What did you like to do as a child? Kids always have

interesting things that occupy their free time. While
you might not still be interested in playing in the dirt,
you might like the idea of becoming a civil engineer.

What could you do as an adult that meshes with

your childhood interests?

3. What activities cause you to lose track of time,

skip meals, and wait until the last minute to use
the bathroom? What fascinates you? Have you ever
lost all sense of time because you were so engrossed
in something? That might be a clue.

Make a list of the subjects and activities that

captivate you.

4. What would you do if you knew you couldnt

possibly fail? Its common to underestimate your
capabilities. You might surprise yourself if youd just
give yourself a chance. The perfect choice might be
something that youve successfully talked yourself
out of. Reconsider.

5. If you had one year left to live, how would you

spend it? Impending death might be the more
effective way to focus your mind on those things that
are most important to you. If your time left on Earth
were limited, how would you spend it?
6. If you could solve one problem in the world, what
would it be? There are many challenges facing the
earth: poverty, hunger, disease, pollution, and more.
Maybe the challenge that interests you is something
you could grow into a profession or major hobby.

Contributing to the world in your own, unique way

can add to the degree of satisfaction you feel each
day.

If youre confident youre spending your life in the way

you were intended, youre well on your way to living a life
filled with joy. Avoid believing that youre stuck. Its not
too late to find your lifes purpose and begin living your
dream. Take the time to do this exercise as soon as
possible.

It is not easy to find happiness in ourselves, and it is not

possible to find it elsewhere.
- Agnes Repplier

CREATE YOUR
OWN LAUNDRY
LIST
Make a list of all the things you believe you need to be
happy. Remember that a well-balanced life is often more
enjoyable than one filled with great achievements at the
expense of other aspects of life. Being the worlds
greatest criminal lawyer is great, but it also requires 80+
hours each week. Are you willing to give up everything
else to experience that?

What is the minimum you need to feel good? Perhaps

your list would look like this:

$60,000 salary

Take one tropical vacation each year

Be married to my ideal partner

Go out with friends at least 3 times per month

Weigh less than 175 pounds

Work in the medical field with a boss that

respects me

Learn to play the piano

What are your goals in the following areas of your

life?

Money

Social Life

Happiness 101: A Modern Guide to Bringing More Joy Into Your Life

Relationships

Career

Health

Adventure

Consider long-term goals in each of these areas. Which

would have the biggest impact on your happiness?
Choose one and work back far enough in the steps to
achieve your goal until you can take one simple action
toward it today.
Making progress results in very positive feelings. If you
can learn to enjoy the process of progress, you can
achieve any goal.

Our greatest happiness does not depend on the condition

of life in which chance has placed us, but is always
the result of a good conscience, good health,
occupation, and freedom in all just pursuits.
- Thomas Jefferson

GET CONTROL
OF YOUR
THOUGHTS
Our thoughts and attitude have a marked effect on our
emotions. By directing and managing your thoughts and
attention, you can increase the likelihood of feeling joyful.
Our minds are undisciplined, and its very easy to
develop unproductive habits.

Spending time on this critical skill can pay off in all

aspects of life.
How your thoughts can enhance your mood:
1. Be grateful. The simple task of listing those things
that fill you with a sense of gratitude can redirect
your thoughts in a positive direction.

Instead of focusing on the things that are wrong in

your life, give attention to the things that are going
well.

2. Ask yourself what youre enjoying in your life right

now. Then ask yourself what else you could do that
you would enjoy doing. While fun and happiness
arent the same thing, theyre related. Enjoy yourself
each day and youre bound to feel better.
3. Practice mindfulness. The topic of mindfulness has
become very popular, but the idea has been around
for thousands of years. Life can only be experienced in
the present moment, but were masters at thinking
about the past and the future.

Focusing on the past leads to regret. Its over. Let

it go.

Focusing on the future leads to anxiety. So stop.

Strive to keep your thoughts on the present

moment. Plan for the future, but return to the
present and get busy.

If youre drinking a cup of coffee and fully engage

in that experience, how could you possibly be
stressed, sad, anxious, or otherwise upset? Focus
on the task at hand.

If youre doing something enjoyable, youre only

ruining the experience by permitting your mind to
wander.

4. Observe your self-talk. Say good things to yourself.

Life is challenging enough without making yourself
miserable and imposing limitations on yourself. Be
supportive and encouraging when youre
communicating with yourself.

Positive thoughts lead to positive actions and

positive results. Positive emotions are the
ultimate reward of positive self-talk.

5. Visualize a positive future. Before falling asleep

each night, give your brain a target for the life you
desire. Imagine where you would be and what you
would be doing. While youre sleeping, your mind will
attempt to solve that riddle and provide the path for
realizing your ideal life.
Be sure your thoughts are working for you, rather than
against you. Happiness can be achieved with a simple,
meaningful life, provided your mind is in the proper place.
Your brain is the most powerful tool you have at your
disposal. Learn to gain control over it.

I, not events, have the power to make me happy or unhappy today. I

can choose which it shall be. Yesterday is dead
and tomorrow hasn't arrived yet. I have just one day,
today, and I'm going to be happy in it.
- Groucho Marx

ADDITIONAL
STRATEGIES
It never hurts to have a few additional ideas in your quest
for joy and happiness. Some strategies are useful for
gaining perspective in all aspects of life. If you need a little
boost, put these strategies to work.
Keep these ideas in mind during your pursuit of
happiness:
1. Realize that life is short. The older we get, the faster
time seems to pass. Wasting any time on negative

emotions is foolhardy. Theres no time like the

present to get started. You dont have time to wait.
2. Most of the people in the cemetery have been
completely forgotten. Take a stroll through a
cemetery. Consider that all of those folks that passed
away 85 years or so ago have been completely
forgotten. Theres no one left on the planet that ever
knew them. Everyone that did know them has died,
too.

In the end, there will be no one that knows your

attempt at a bestseller flopped, or that you made
a fool out of yourself dancing at your cousins
wedding. It also wont matter that you were fired
from the auto dealership.

What do you really have to worry about? Its

going to end the same way. So enjoy yourself.

3. Forgive others. The ability to forgive is a valuable

skill. The person most severely punished when you
hold onto your anger is you. It has been said that

holding a grudge is like drinking poison and expecting

the other person to die.
4. Avoid comparing yourself to others. Everyone has
advantages/disadvantages and strengths/
weaknesses. Some of us are late bloomers. Some of
us have a different set of values. Comparing yourself
to anyone else proves nothing.

The only valid comparison is to compare yourself

to your past self. Steady progress is the key. If
youre making progress, you have the right to be
thrilled.

5. Be kind. When youre nice to others, youll often

receive the same in return. If nothing else, you can be
happy about being a kind person. Youll also
encourage the belief that you deserve a happy life.
6. Stay in shape. A healthy diet and simple exercise plan
will not only prolong your good health, but youll also
feel better psychologically, too. Get out for 30
minutes each day and move around. Eat healthy for 2

weeks and then eat a bacon cheeseburger and notice

how you feel afterwards.
7. Focus on your relationships. Having meaningful
relationships might be the most critical factor to
being happy.
8. Learn to deal with negative events effectively.
Sooner or later, things will go wrong. People you love
will die. Youll lose a job you love. Or a tree falls on
your house. Negative events happen. Dealing with
them in a healthy manner is excellent medicine.
Handling these types of things poorly can lead to
misery and results that take years to correct.
Utilizing these strategies has the power to enhance
every part of your life. Have a perspective on life that
helps to ensure your happiness.

The happiness of your life depends upon the quality of your

thoughts: therefore, guard accordingly, and take care
that you entertain no notions unsuitable to
virtue and reasonable nature.
- Marcus Aurelius

CONCLUSION
Happiness can be achieved by many methods, but the
basics are the same. First, eliminate the things in your life
that are making you miserable. Bring all the aspects of
your life up to an acceptable level.
After this has been achieved, find your lifes purpose and
build your life around this. Develop goals that will create
even more happiness when achieved. Its possible to
have an amazingly satisfying life thats also very simple.
An often overlooked component is managing our
thoughts. The things we focus on tend to manifest
themselves. Expect good things to happen and be grateful
for the wonderful things that youre already experiencing.

Your thoughts determine your emotions and your

results.
Find someone to love, find something meaningful to do,
forgive, and be kind to yourself and others. Create a
compelling future and enjoy your life!

What's Next?

Check out the Awakened Source and start to truly live

the life you 've always dream of

Click here to discover what's next for you

@ The Awakened Source - www.theawakenedsource.com