Saturday, February 3 - Friday, February 9
Saturday, February 3 - Friday, February 9
Saturday, February 3 - Friday, February 9
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Telephone: 617-542-6440
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February 4, 2018
Fifth Sunday in Ordinary Time
One of the most striking things of my four and a half years here in Boston is the profound negative effect
that the Church’s sexual abuse crisis has had on both the local and worldwide Church. As Church
leaders, we continue to make errors on very basic matters. It is beyond frustrating that we can’t seem to
get our act together on what should be simple: pastoral care of people.
When someone comes to one of us with an accusation, our first duty should be to listen in good faith to
the accusation. Everyone in the Church needs to understand that bringing forth an accusation against
someone in power is difficult. The accuser feels he or she will not be believed. Bringing accusations of
serious wrongdoing against esteemed institutions and their representatives comes at great personal risk
and personal cost.
It is not helpful for Church leaders, early in a fact-finding process, to be emphasizing the requirement of
proof against an accused person. All this does is discourage people with corroborating information from
coming forward. There is plenty of time to protect the rights of the accused at the end of a fact-finding
process.
It is important that we are open to listening to the experiences of other people. We need to work on
overcoming our biases, prejudices and pre-dispositions about people and situations. The Church needs to
change its approach and its attitude on these matters. We can’t continue to make awkward, unintentional
blunders. When a person or an institution makes the same mistake over and over, it eventually becomes a
practiced mistake. The reflexive reaction in a like situation is to repeat the mistake. The existing
dysfunctional cycle needs to be carefully, thoughtfully, and courageously broken. We have to re-set the
system, refraining from exercising the reflex to defend people solely on their position of power in the
Church hierarchy.
The Shrine is currently running a support group for people who are recovering from sexual abuse,
whether that abuse was by a clergy member or by someone else. Mr. David Nolan is running that
program for us and we are very happy with its success so far. David can be reached at
dnolan@stanthonyshrine.org. He is a great resource for us.
The opinions expressed here are my own. May God bless you in the coming week.
Wednesday
Remembrance Day for Deceased (3rd Wed.) All Masses
Anointing of the Sick - Mass (2nd Wed.) See web
SA Meeting (Open Meeting), Auditorium Foyer 7:00 a.m.
Seniors Program 10:30 a.m. The Emmaus Ministry
Women’s Spiritual Refl. Group (2nd & 4th Wed) 12:30 p.m.
Grupo Hispano de Oracion 4:00 p.m. Serving the Spiritual Needs of Grieving Parents Whose Children Of Any
Mass in Spanish 5:15 p.m. Age Have Died By Any Cause, No Matter How Long Ago
LGBTQ Spirituality (3rd Wed.) 5:30 p.m.
A.A. Discussion Meeting (Closed Meeting) 5:45 p.m. One-Hour Retreat
Bread on The Common (2nd & 4th Wed.) 5:45 p.m. 1st Sunday of the Month
Thursday Shrine Auditorium Classroom after the 10am Mass.
St. Augustine Group (S.L.A.A.) Meeting Noon FOR MORE INFORMATION, please visit: www.emfgp.org
Rosary Prayer Group 12:30p.m.
Men’s Cursillo Reunion Group (1st and 3rd Thursday) 1:00 p.m. Or call Diane, Paul’s Mother, at 617-542-8057.
Men’s Spirituality Group (2nd and 4th Thursday) 5:00 p.m.
Lectura y reflexión del evangelio 5:30 p.m.
A.A Big Book Meeting (Closed Meeting) 5:45 p.m.