Course 4: The 2:7 Series
Course 4: The 2:7 Series
Course 4: The 2:7 Series
COURSE 4
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Unless otherwise identified, Scripture quotations are from the Holy Bible: New International Version. Copyright © 1973,
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Publishers, London, used by permission; the Revised Standard Version of the Bible (RSV), copyrighted 1946, 1952,
© 1971, 1973; the Good News Bible New Testament (GNB), © American Bible Society, 1966, 1971, 1976; Kenneth S.
Wuest: Wuest Word Studies from the Greek New Testament (WUEST), © 1942, 1947, 1952, 1954, by Wm. B. Eerdmans
Publishing Company; and the King James Version (KJV).
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Important
PARTICIPANTS
This course is designed to be used only by those who have sucessfully completed Growing
Strong in God’s Family and Courses 1-3 of The 2:7 Series.
LEADERS
Courses in The 2:7 Series should be led only by qualified leaders who have participated in
an instructor training seminar. Seminars are available to churches and individuals desiring
access to this discipleship curriculum. Information regarding training seminars may be
obtained from Church Discipleship Ministries, The Navigators, P.O. Box 6000, Colorado
Springs, CO 80934. The telephone number is (719)598-1212.
Comprehensive leaders guides have been prepared for those leading groups in The 2:7
Series. The leaders guides are availble only to those who have attended a training seminar.
Contents
COMPLETION RECORD 5
SESSION 1 7
Review the Goals of Course 3 7
Scripture Memory Instructions—Week One 8
The Topical Memory System in This Course 8
Scripture Memory Helps 9
TMS Subtopics Quizzes in Courses 4 and 5 10
The New Bible Reading Highlights Record 14
The Hand Illustration 17
Introduction to “Search the Scriptures” Bible Study 18
How to Do a Book Survey 18
SESSION 2 22
Scripture Memory Instructions—Week Two 22
A Periodic Spiritual Inventory 23
Bible Study—Book Survey of 1 Thessalonians 24
How to Use the “Search the Scriptures” Study Blank 26
SESSION 3 31
Scripture Memory Instructions—Week Three 31
Scripture Memory Quiz 32
How to Do Theme(s) and Conclusions 35
Five-Point Application 35
STS Chapter Analysis—1 Thessalonians 1 37
SESSION 4 42
Scripture Memory Instructions—Week Four 42
The Scripture Memory Quiz 43
The Pass-It-On Concept 46
Ministering One-to-One 46
STS Chapter Analysis—1 Thessalonians 2 49
SESSION 5 54
Scripture Memory Instructions—Week Five 54
How to Do Effective Follow-Up 54
Follow-Up Plan—Assurance of Salvation 58
Follow-Up Plan—Initial Bible Study 60
Bible Study—Assurance of Salvation 61
SESSION 6 64
Scripture Memory Instructions—Week Six 64
Scripture Memory Quiz 65
STS Chapter Analysis—1 Thessalonians 3 69
SESSION 7 73
Scripture Memory Instructions—Week Seven 73
Follow-Up Plan—Quiet Time 74
Individual Discipleship Record 75
Assimilating New Believers into the Church 76
SESSION 8 77
Scripture Memory Instructions—Week Eight 77
STS Chapter Analysis—1 Thessalonians 4 79
SESSION 9 83
Scripture Memory Instructions—Week Nine 83
STS Chapter Analysis—1 Thessalonians 5 85
SESSION 10 89
Scripture Memory Quiz 90
How to Do a Book Summary 94
Bible Study—Book Summary of 1 Thessalonians 95
SESSION 11 98
A Parable: Saving Lives 98
Ministering in Small Groups and Triads 99
Lessons Learned During Course 4 101
Keep On Growing and Ministering 102
NOTES 103
Following page 103 you will find Follow-Up Plan Sheets, Future Scripture Memory sheets,
Prayer Sheets, Individual Discipleship Records, Relationship Evangelism Activities
Records, Bible Reading Highlights Records and Scripture Memory Verses. Any of these
pages may be reproduced without permission.
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Completion Record
Ask others in your study group to check you on your completion of the requirements in this
course and have them initial and date each section.
SCRIPTURE MEMORY Initial Date
Grow in Christlikeness, TMS D 1-12, memory verses:
“Love”—John 13:34-35
“Love”—1 John 3:18
“Humility”—Philippians 2:3-4
“Humility”—1 Peter 5:5-6
“Purity”—Ephesians 5:3
“Purity”—1 Peter 2:11
“Honesty”—Leviticus 19:11
“Honesty”—Acts 24:16
“Faith”—Hebrews 11:6
“Faith”—Romans 4:20-21
“Good Works”—Galatians 6:9-10
“Good Works”—Matthew 5:16
Quoted Grow in Christlikeness verses.
Reviewed all of Be Christ’s Disciple, C 1-12, for seven consecutive days.
Reviewed all of Proclaim Christ, B 1-12, for seven consecutive days.
Get 100 percent on one quiz (topics, references, and first two words
for Series A, B, C in the TMS).
Took the quiz (topics, references, and first two words for Series A through D
in the TMS).
QUIET TIME
Completed Bible Reading Highlights Record for two weeks,
meeting your own personal goal.
BIBLE STUDY
Session 2—Book survey of 1 Thessalonians (pages 24-25)
Session 3—1 Thessalonians 1:1-10 (pages 37-40)
Session 4—1 Thessalonians 2:1-20 (pages 49-52)
Session 6—1 Thessalonians 3:1-13 (pages 69-72)
Session 8—1 Thessalonians 4:1-18 (pages 79-82)
Session 9—1 Thessalonians 5:1-28 (pages 85-88)
Session 10—Book summary of 1 Thessalonians (pages 95-96)
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EVANGELISM Initial Date
Maintained Activities Record for two people.
Read “A Parable: Saving Lives.” (pages 98-99)
DISCIPLING
Studied “Ministering One-to-One.” (pages 46-48)
Studied “How to Do Effective Follow-Up.” (pages 54-60)
Completed the Bible study “Assurance of Salvation.” (pages 61-63)
Role-played the “Quiet Time” follow-up plan. (page 74)
Read Individual Discipleship Record. (page 75)
Read “Assimilating New Believers into the Church.” (page 76)
Studied “Ministering in Small Groups and Triads.” (pages 99-101)
Completed one-to-one discipling requirement
(complete in either course 4 or course 5).
OTHER
Studied The Hand Illustration. (page 17)
Completed and discussed “A Periodic Spiritual Inventory.” (pages 23)
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Session 1
OUTLINE OF THIS SESSION
1. Discuss “Review the Goals of Course 3.”
2. Preview Course 4 by looking over the Completion Record.
3. Survey the “Scripture Memory Instructions—Week One” (page 8).
4. Discuss “The Topical Memory System in This Course” (pages 8-9).
5. Discuss “Scripture Memory Helps” (pages 9-10).
6. Discuss “TMS Subtopics Quizzes in Courses 4 and 5” (page 10).
7. Discuss “The New Bible Reading Highlights Record” (pages 14-16).
8. Discuss The Hand Illustration (page 17).
9. Read and discuss the information about “Search the Scriptures Bible study”
(pages 18-21).
10. Read the “Assignment for Session 2” (page 21).
11. Pray.
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D. Grow in Christlikeness
Love John 13:34-35 1 John 3:18
Humility Philippians 2:3-4 1 Peter 5:5-6
Purity Ephesians 5:3 1 Peter 2:11
Honesty Leviticus 19:11 Acts 24:16
Faith Hebrews 11:6 Romans 4:20-21
Good Works Galatians 6:9-10 Matthew 5:16
CONFORMITY TO CHRIST
Christlikeness is God’s goal for every believer. But many of us have yielded to the pressures
to conform to this world by lowering ourselves to standards that are not scriptural. No won-
der our influence for Christ is often limited! Only as others see Jesus in us will they be
attracted to Him. Christlike character cannot, however, be tacked on the outside; it must
come from within.
As we meditate on Scripture and allow the Word to permeate our minds, it remains
there to influence our reactions and decisions, and to form Christian character. In Series D
you will learn twelve passages to help you focus attention on this process. Scripture mem-
ory can have a profound influence on one’s character.
Role-Play
Try role-playing situations. Have two group members conduct a conversation in which one
of them expresses a particular need. The other person then uses memorized verses to help
meet that need.
Some examples: a person who doubts his salvation; someone who feels he is not
important enough for God to care about him; someone who feels his problems are unique
and impossible to deal with; someone who believes his sins are so great that God cannot
possibly accept him; or someone who is facing an important decision.
Share Testimonies
Share testimonies within your group about the benefits of Scripture memory. You can also
draw from outside sources, such as articles, messages, and other testimonies.
Use Visuals
Some people memorize better using visuals—putting motions to verses, drawing pictures,
and so on. Have fun experimenting with these ideas and others. Use variety in learning.
Share with one another what you have tried that works.
Pair Up
Pair up to encourage each other outside the class. Review over the phone. Spend extra time
going over the more difficult passages. Build each other up to be finishers. Some people
really struggle with Scripture memory.
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Have Quizzes
Have quizzes together in your group. For instance, play a game of “name that verse.” After
someone quotes a few words, have another person finish the verse or give the reference.
You need to be aware of the different translations when you do this.
Tape Record
Put verses on tape for use in your car, walkman, or in your home. Take advantage of any
spare moments to review the Word.
Meditate on Verses
Share with one another how you have meditated on Scripture through paraphrasing, cross-
referencing, and applying the Word to your life.
People learn in many different ways, and various factors contribute to a person’s learn-
ing style. Some of us are primarily auditory, while others are visual learners. Concentrate
on what helps you. Be creative. Encourage one another. Enjoy learning together as you
memorize the Word.
B. PROCLAIM CHRIST
Romans 5:8
1 Peter 3:18
GOD’S REMEDY
OUR PROBLEM OUR RESPONSE
Ephesians 2:8-9
Titus 3:5
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C. BE CHRIST’S DISCIPLE
Matthew 6:33
Luke 9:23
1 John 2:15-16
Romans 12:2
BE STEADFAST
1 Corinthians 15:58
Hebrews 12:3
SERVE OTHERS
Mark 10:45
2 Corinthians 4:5
GIVE GENEROUSLY
Proverbs 3:9-10
2 Corinthians 9:6-7
Acts 1:8
Matthew 28:19-20
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“Happy are those who keep my ways. Hear instruction, be wise, and do not refuse it. Happy is the man
listening to me, watching daily at my gates, keeping watch at my doorposts.”
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The Hand Illustration shows us practically how to have a working grasp of the Scriptures. It
has been estimated that we remember
● 5 percent of what we HEAR.
● 15 percent of what we READ.
● 35 percent of what we STUDY.
So a balanced intake of the Bible comes through hearing, reading, studying, and mem-
orizing. Then, as you meditate on the Scriptures during these four activities, they become
more personal and specific in helping you grow in Christlikeness.
Let’s look in more detail at these five methods of learning from the Bible.
1. Hearing the Word of God from godly pastors and teachers provides us with insight
from Bible study done by others. It also stimulates our own appetite for the
Scriptures. (Taking notes will increase your ability to retain what you hear.)
2. Reading the Bible gives us an overall picture of the Bible, and is also the foundation
of the daily quiet time.
3. Studying the Scriptures is more in-depth than reading. Bible study deepens our con-
victions. It requires greater time and effort, and results in increased Bible knowledge.
4. Memorizing God’s Word enables us to use the Sword of the Spirit to overcome
temptations, and to have verses readily available for ministering to both Christians
and non-Christians. Scripture memory stimulates meaningful meditation.
5. Meditation is the inward process that should accompany each of the other four
methods of Scripture intake. As we meditate on God’s Word we discover its trans-
forming power at work in us.
In preparation for Session 2 you will take a spiritual inventory using The Wheel and
The Hand. It is called “A Periodic Spiritual Inventory” and is on page 23. This is an excel-
lent exercise for you to do for yourself from time to time.
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Much of the information necessary for a book survey can be found in the text of the Bible
itself. Therefore, you will want to do your own research before digging into reference mate-
rials. After completing your own research in the Bible, other background materials can be
found in the following sources:
1. Study Bibles
2. Bible dictionaries
3. Bible encyclopedias
4. Bible handbooks
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2. Historical Setting—We wish to discover what else was happening in the lives of the
principle personalities that might affect what was written. Were there other major events
taking place in this area when the book was written that would determine what was said or
how it was received?
4. Purpose—Why was the book written? What was the writer trying to accomplish? Is the
purpose stated in the book?
6. Style—Does the author use illustrations or present logical arguments? Is his style per-
sonal or instructional?
7. Key Words—Repeated words and phrases may be helpful in understanding what the
author is trying to communicate. (You will do this exercise as part of the next week’s
assignment.)
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1. How would you currently rate yourself on the following items, using a scale of one to
ten? (One is poor, ten is excellent.)
2. List the ways in which you are currently experiencing success in some of these eleven
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1 Thessalonians
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Chapter Analysis
How to Use the “Search the Scriptures” Study Blank
When preparing the “Search the Scriptures” (STS) Bible study, you will begin with a pas-
sage description, then do a verse-by-verse meditation, followed by your theme and conclu-
sion. Keep alert for possible applications from any part of your study. The study process is
illustrated below.
VERSE-BY- THEME
PASSAGE
VERSE AND
DESCRIPTION
MEDITATION CONCLUSION
APPLICATION
The “STS” Bible study incorporates the Bible study principles of observation, interpre-
tation, and application that you have used previously in this course:
● Observation—What does it say?
● Interpretation—What does it mean?
As you proceed through the study process described above, be aware of which principle
you are using. You will notice on the “STS” study blank that the first exercise in observa-
tion will be the passage description.
Summarize
One method of describing a passage is to summarize it. First, you should divide the passage
into paragraphs. The original text did not have paragraph divisions like we find in our
Bibles. Therefore, you may wish to divide the material in a different way. Chapter 1 of
1 Thessalonians could be divided in the following manner:
Paragraph 1—verses 1-5
Paragraph 2—verses 6-10
After determining the paragraph divisions, write a sentence or two summarizing the
content of each paragraph. Don’t worry if you omit significant details, you are just trying
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to ascertain the general contents of the passage. Notice the example below for 1 Thes-
salonians 1:1-10.
Verses 1-5: After a word of greeting, Paul tells how thankful he is
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Outline
A simple outline is another method of describing a passage. An outline divides a passage
into its natural paragraphs and then assigns titles to them. After you have titled the main
divisions, list as many sub-points under each of the main headings as you need to describe
its general contents. An outline for 1 Thessalonians 1:1-3 might look like this:
I. Greetings (verse 1)
II. Thanksgiving for the Thessalonians (verses 2-3)
A. Their work (verse 3)
B. Their labor (verse 3)
C. Their endurance (verse 3)
VERSE-BY-VERSE MEDITATION
Observation
Proper observation is the foundation upon which good interpretation and application are
built. As you focus on a verse, record your observations in the appropriate column. One
observation from 1 Thessalonians 1:5 is that the impact of the gospel’s coming with power,
with the Holy Spirit, and with deep conviction is related to how Paul lived his life among
the Thessalonians.
Questions
The questions section takes considerable time and effort, but it is an excellent way to medi-
tate on God’s Word. Penetrating questions will aid you in interpreting the passage and in
discovering wonderful truths you had not seen before. Look at 1 Thessalonians 1:5 again.
Here are some possible questions to record:
● How did Paul and his companions live when they were with the Thessalonians?
● What is the relationship between the way we live our lives among people and the
impact of the gospel on their lives?
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Answers
The Scriptures do not provide clear-cut answers for every issue, so be careful not to insist
on always finding one. Major on what God has plainly revealed. In many cases it is best to
write your questions without trying to answer them. And in some cases, a succeeding verse
or a cross-reference may answer your question.
In many cases, a question will stimulate further study in the Bible or in outside sources.
For example, 1 Corinthians 16:15 (KJV) speaks of men who have “addicted themselves to
the ministry of the saints.” The question, What are the characteristics of an addict? may
stimulate you to find an answer in a medical textbook. In most cases, however, you will
want to find as many answers as possible from the Bible itself.
Cross-References
The Bible is its own best commentary. The content of one passage clarifies and interprets
the content of another. Cross-references come from the book you are studying (internal
cross-references) and from elsewhere in the Scriptures (external cross-references).
Internal cross-references show the relationship of a verse to the paragraph, the chapter,
and the book in which it is found. They help preserve the context of the verse. External
cross-references show how the verse being studied relates to other verses in the Bible. It is
helpful to see how the same truth is treated in other books. Some of the most important
types of external cross-references are parallel, contrasting, and illustrative cross-references.
Parallel cross-references say virtually the same thing as the verse being studied but
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often add additional facts. For example, 1 Thessalonians 2:12, “to live lives worthy of God,
who calls you into his kingdom and glory,” is similar to Ephesians 4:1, “As a prisoner for
the Lord, then, I urge you to live a life worthy of the calling you have received.” While the
content is similar, Ephesians 4:2-3 goes on to explain more fully how to live this way.
Contrasting cross-references are verses which seem to contradict the verse being con-
sidered. For example, 1 Thessalonians 5:14 says to “warn those who are idle,” while
2 Thessalonians 3:6 says to “keep away from every brother who is idle.” What is the differ-
ence? How can you do both? The new insight gained from the resolution of this seeming
contradiction is the benefit of this type of cross-reference.
Illustrative cross-references are historical events which clearly illustrate a principle
stated in Scripture. First Thessalonians 5:16 says we are to “be joyful always.” An illustra-
tion of this principle can be found in Acts 16:25 where we find Paul and Silas in prison for
preaching the gospel, and yet they are “praying and singing hymns of praise to God.”
In the space provided for linking thoughts, try to express what the cross-reference adds
to the verse being studied. How does the cross-reference alter or enhance your understand-
ing of the verse?
Try to locate your own cross-references first. These may be from verses you have mem-
orized or from a general knowledge of the Bible. If you need help in locating good refer-
ences, a number of sources of cross-references are available. Many Bibles print references
in the margins or in a concordance in the back of the Bible.
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B. PROCLAIM CHRIST
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Five-Point Application
In The 2:7 Series you have had many opportunities to apply God’s Word to specific areas of
your life. Review the material in Course 3 (pages 55-56) on how to write a five-point appli-
cation. Using this method, record how you intend to obey God in some area of your life.
Personal application is one of the main goals of Bible study. Extended study times
give the Holy Spirit greater opportunity to speak to you about His concerns for your life.
The Scriptures were not given to increase our knowledge but to change our lives.
—D.L. Moody
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B. PROCLAIM CHRIST
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C. BE CHRIST’S DISCIPLE
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Ministering One-to-One
Good relationships between individuals are at the heart of effective ministry. Of course, the
most basic relationship is involvement with one other person. There are times when it is
impractical to organize a small group or triad—when an individual needs and wants help
immediately. The interaction can be for as little as one or two sessions, or may continue for
several months.
Waylon B. Moore, in his article “Why Make Disciples?” speaks clearly to the issue
of ministering one to one. Here are several of the reasons he lists for discipling people
individually.
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1. Anyone in the local church can do individual discipling. He simply shares with another
what the Lord is doing in his life, and leads the other person in the steps he has already
taken.
2. Few people have the time or capacity to be intimately involved in the lives of a large
number of individuals. Anyone can make time for working with one person.
3. Individual discipling has the closeness of friendship and the precision of a teacher-
apprentice relationship.
4. The method of individual discipling is flexible in schedule and intensity. Training and
Bible study assignments can be paced according to individual needs. Spiritual growth is
thus more rapid and effective.
5. Exhortation, correction, and admonition can be quickly and easily given in individual
relationships.
6. The needs of the disciple come to the surface in the privacy of individual ministry.
1. Make sure you are well prepared. Pray before spending one-to-one time with
someone, and organize yourself.
2. Remember that you can’t lead anyone further than you have gone. You cannot lay
solid foundations in someone else’s life with what are only sketchy outlines in your own.
3. You teach by the example of your life. The person who is ministering one-to-one
must be what he is trying to teach.
4. Tailor your help to meet the need of the individual. Every person is different. Don’t
try to pour them all in the same mold.
5. Repeat everything. “He tells us everything over and over again, a line at a time and
in such simple words!” (Isaiah 28:10, TLB). Make no apologies for repeating things.
6. In everything, show the person how. We are generally too long in telling people
what to do, and too short in showing them how.
7. Give achievable assignments. If you are shoveling everything you have at the per-
son you are individually following up, throw away your shovel. Get an eye-dropper or a
thimble.
8. Take nothing for granted. Check and double-check his progress on past commit-
ments. “How have you been doing in your quiet times these last two weeks, Joe?”
9. Keep emphasizing the lordship of Christ. Jesus said, “Anyone who does not carry
his cross and follow me cannot be my disciple” (Luke 14:27), and “Any of you who does
not give up everything he has cannot be my disciple” (Luke 14:33).
10. Help the person establish his goals in life—the goals of knowing Christ and mak-
ing Him known.
11. Meet a person’s needs through the Scriptures.
12. Keep sharing with him the importance of the “basics”—God’s Word, prayer,
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fellowship, witnessing, and keeping Christ at the center of everything. “For no one can lay
any foundation other than the one already laid, which is Jesus Christ” (1 Corinthians 3:11).
13. Explain the 2 Timothy 2:2 principle—concentrating on faithful men who will be
able to teach others also. Teach him to give his life to a few, who in turn will multiply into
many. Keep sharing the vision of disciplemaking (Matthew 28:19-20).
14. Thank him for the fellowship. “Thanks, Nancy (or thanks, Joe), for the time with
you tonight. It’s been a real blessing for me.” Thank God for this time as well.
15. Remember Psalm 127:1: “Unless the Lord builds the house, its builders labor in
vain.” It is God who builds disciples. He is the Master Trainer.
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Evangelism is exhilarating! Nothing in the ministry seems to equal the delight of helping a
child, a woman, a man, or a couple commit their life to Christ!
But, if the newly born-again person is to do well in the Christian life, immediate fol-
low-up is essential. In the Christian vocabulary, follow-up became a familiar word related
to the mass evangelism of Billy Graham and others. Counselors have been trained to help
inquirers commit their lives to Christ and to provide follow-up materials for the new believ-
ers. Then additional follow-up has been done by the counselors and churches.
Follow-up is biblical, though it is not a term used in the Scriptures. Paul clearly prac-
ticed the imperative of follow-up. An example is Acts 15:36, “Paul said to Barnabus, ‘Let
us go back and visit the brothers in all the towns where we preached the word of the Lord
and see how they are doing.’”
Follow-up can be defined as spiritual pediatrics—dealing with the development and
care of a spiritual child.
A LINK IN A CHAIN
When a person makes a commitment to Christ, it is often the result of many circumstances,
over a period of time, and the influence of several people. You may be the instrument the
Holy Spirit uses to lead someone to Christ, but we often reap because of the cultivation and
sowing of others. In John 4:38 we read Jesus’ words: “I sent you to reap what you have not
worked for. Others have done the hard work, and you have reaped the benefits of their labor.”
Paul stated the truth in a similar way in 1 Corinthians 3:6-7—“I planted the seed,
Apollos watered it, but God made it grow. So neither he who plants nor he who waters is
anything, but only God, who makes things grow.”
You are learning principles and guidelines for follow-up so you can be a good spiritual
parent. Spiritual parenting is an exciting adventure, and you will enjoy learning more about
how to be effective in it.
SPIRITUAL PARENTING
In the physical realm, the birth of a child is only the beginning of parenthood. The responsi-
bility of the parent is to feed, protect, provide for, guide, and train the child. The goal is to
bring up that child to be a mature, responsible adult.
The same is true in the spiritual realm. Now spiritual babies have tremendous poten-
tial for a wonderful life and usefulness for the cause of Christ. If you are faithful in fol-
lowing up a new Christian, you are doing a good job of parenting. Without help, a person
can easily fall into a nominal Christian existence and be of little help, and even be a hin-
drance to the cause of Christ. It is the responsibility of a spiritual parent to help the new
Christian get a strong start.
Effective follow-up begins with a healthy spiritual birth. Then, the new believer needs
digestible food, protection from false teaching, and loving care. Training and correction,
encouragement and challenge, instruction and example all contribute toward good follow-up.
Even though you have ten thousand guardians in Christ, you do not have many
fathers, for in Christ Jesus I became your father through the gospel. Therefore I urge
you to imitate me.
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You don’t have to be a seminary or Bible school graduate to help people significantly. Just
teach someone what you have already learned. Even a little time spent with a young
Christian can be an excellent investment. You must recognize that your adequacy comes
from Christ.
AREAS OF FOLLOW-UP
The early days of a new believer’s life are crucial ones. What do new believers need to
know and do in the early stages of their walk with God? They need to have an assurance of
their salvation. They must establish a daily relationship with God by learning to have a
quiet time. It is also helpful to begin studying the Bible with other believers and memorize
some basic passages that will set their minds on God throughout the day.
You will become familiar with all of these areas through The 2:7 Series except for the
Lessons on Assurance Bible study. You will complete part of this helpful follow-up tool on
pages 59-60.
The Goal
Write a goal for each follow-up topic. Consider what you want to observe in the person’s
life as a result of the topic covered. For example, your goal for quiet time could be “to have
the new believer grasp the importance of daily Bible reading and prayer, in order to develop
a relationship with Christ; and to become established in this discipline.”
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The Process
As you prepare your plans for follow-up, think through the following four steps:
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One of the strongest ways to reinforce someone is to introduce him to someone who is very
strong in the areas you want to focus on. If the person first failed and later succeeded, the
impact is even greater.
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the faith—To develop a deeper relationship with the Lord.
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—Briefly scan the study with him.
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—Do the first couple of questions with him.
The five passages you will study in Lessons on Assurance will equip you for your first
encounters with the Enemy. His first approach is often to cast doubt on the work God has
done in your heart. Although you won’t hear his audible voice, he will whisper this in your
mind: “You don’t think you are saved and your sins forgiven just by believing and receiving
Christ? Surely that is not enough!”
What will your answer be? Your only hope of successfully resisting such an attack is
to resort to God’s Word. What does God say about the matter? That is the important thing
for you to know.
On the basis of this “testimony”—God’s written Word—you can be convinced you
have the Lord Jesus Christ, and with Him eternal life. You can thus overcome in this first
test of your faith. The attack may recur, but now you can meet it with the Word of God in
your heart.
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OUTLINE OF THIS SESSION
1. Break into verse review groups and quote the second verse on “Good Works,” Matthew
5:16. (Work at getting anything signed that you can on your completion Record.)
2. Share from your Bible Reading Highlights Record.
3. Report on any evangelistic opportunities this past week.
4. Discuss your progress with your one-to-one discipling.
5. Discuss the Bible study for 1 Thessalonians 5:1-28.
6. Read the “Assignment for Session 10” (page 84).
7. Pray.
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The following parable, as told by Charles Swindoll in his book Growing Strong in the
Seasons of Life, has a great deal to say about a church’s evangelism efforts. You will find it
interesting and challenging.
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attractive building for public gathering. Saving to stop the club’s lifesaving activities and all
lives, feeding the hungry, strengthening the fear- involvements with shipwreck victims . . . . (“it’s
ful, and calming the disturbed rarely occurred too unpleasant, it’s a hindrance to our social life,
by now. it’s opening the door to folks who are not our
Fewer members were now interested in kind”). As you’d expect, some still insisted upon
braving the sea on lifesaving missions, so they saving lives, that this was their primary objec-
hired professional lifeboat crews to do this tive—that their only reason for existence was
work. The original goal of the station wasn’t ministering to anyone needing help regardless of
altogether forgotten, however. The lifesaving their club’s beauty or size or decorations. They
motifs still prevailed in the club’s decorations. were voted down and told if they wanted to save
In fact, there was a liturgical lifeboat preserved the lives of various kinds of people who were
in the Room of Sweet Memories with soft, indi- shipwrecked in those waters, they could begin
rect lighting, which helped hide the layer of dust their own lifesaving station down the coast!
upon the once-used vessel. They did.
About this time a large ship was wrecked off As years passed, the new station experi-
the coast and the boat crews brought in loads of enced the same old changes. It evolved into
cold, wet, half-drowned people. They were dirty, another club . . . and yet another lifesaving sta-
some terribly sick and lonely. Others were black tion was begun. History continued to repeat
and “different” from the majority of the club itself . . . and if you visit that coast today you’ll
members. The beautiful new club suddenly find a large number of exclusive, impressive
became messy and cluttered. A special commit- clubs along the shoreline owned and operated by
tee saw to it that a shower house was immedi- slick professionals who have lost all involve-
ately built outside and away from the club so ment with the saving of lives.
victims of shipwreck could be cleaned up before Shipwrecks still occur in those waters, but
coming inside. now, most of the victims are not saved. Every
At the next meeting there were strong words day they drown at sea, and so few seem to care
and angry feelings, which resulted in a division . . . so very few.
among the members. Most of the people wanted Do you?
What can keep a church from following the pattern of this parable?
Waylon B. Moore, in his article, “Why Make Disciples?” gives us practical insights
into the value of small groups. He lists twelve reasons for group discipling, some of which
are given below.
1. Group ministry is the method most often used in the local church, so people feel at
ease with it and expect its methodology.
2. The group method allows people to participate without feeling put on the spot. Some
people are not ready for one-to-one discipling.
3. A variety of teaching methods can be used in the group setting.
4. Bible study is highly stimulating as different members discuss together their research
and application.
5. Momentum can grow in groups. A spirit of adventure and unity can eventually moti-
vate those who are less eager at first.
6. Giving general correction and exhortation in a group is more subtle than directly con-
fronting individuals.
7. A group counseling effect can result from people becoming interested in and praying
for the needs of others.
8. Groups are effective channels for funneling people into a more intensive one-to-one
relationship and training time.
9. The Holy Spirit can use the background and experiences of a number of people to
teach each member of the group.
10. The spiritual gifts of all the members can collectively provide strength and ministry to
the group.
USING TRIADS
The goal of a triad is to help each participant become more Christlike through accountabil-
ity and intimacy with two other friends of the same gender. These three individuals fellow-
ship together around the Word and prayer in an atmosphere of encouragement, trust, and
stimulation. Ecclesiastes 4:12 says, “Though one may be overpowered, two can defend
themselves. A cord of three strands is not easily broken.”
A number of churches are using triads to stimulate fellowship and discipleship in their
congregation. Dr. Joe Aldrich in his book, Life-Style Evangelism, relates his experience as a
pastor.
“At Mariners Church, where I served as pastor, we had dozens of groups of men meet-
ing weekly to share their life in Christ together. Much healing took place as these men
shared (1) the Word and prayer, (2) their schedules, and (3) their relationships. Meeting in
supportive groups of three or four, they became catalysts to one another’s spiritual growth
as they held each other accountable in specific areas of their lives. Important schedule items
(critical appointments, decisions, etc.) were shared as prayer requests. Relationship con-
cerns were communicated regularly. For example, it was not unusual to set aside ten to fif-
teen minutes for personal consideration of our wives’ social, emotional, mental, physical,
and spiritual needs. Having written down needs in each area, the men would identify the
two or three most urgent needs and share their plans to meet them that week. Held account-
able to follow through, the men did so, and found growth was the happy result.
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1. Make the Word of God and prayer foundational. Insure that the Word is a major
part of your time together. Allow time for prayer in each meeting.
2. Assign one person to lead your informal meeting each week. The leadership may
be handled by one person, or you may rotate the responsibility.
3. Affirm one another and resolutely keep confidences.
4. Set two to four goals for which you will be accountable to the other two people. It
is important for each person to have a goal for evangelistic outreach. This keeps
the group vital and dynamic.
5. Evaluate after several meetings whether you want to continue. Remember that
developing relationships takes lots of time and work. Be sure to give your triad
adequate time to succeed.
6. Multiply your triad. If one in your group drops out for some reason, replace that
person. If you have to move, consider starting a triad in your new location.
A triad can help develop meaningful friendships. For some people these warm, per-
sonal relationships may not develop through any other means. This setting can provide an
atmosphere for healing and restoration or be a prelude and/or supplement to other disciple-
making activities in the church.
● Learning “Search the Scripture” Bible study techniques and completing a study of
1 Thessalonians.
● Continuing to build relationships with non-Christians and sharing the gospel with
them.
● Discipling others using tools and concepts found in The 2:7 Series.
● Studying ways to disciple others through small groups, triads, and one-to-one
ministry.
● Learning how to follow up new Christians.
● discover new insights into being a more effective discussion group leader.
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“Happy are those who keep my ways. Hear instruction, be wise, and do not refuse it. Happy is the man
listening to me, watching daily at my gates, keeping watch at my doorposts.”
—Proverbs 8:32-34, MLB
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