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Bullies
Bullies
Bullies
When I was a young boy, What bullying is What bullying
the bully called me names,
stole my bicycle, forced With all the focus that has surrounded can look like in
me off the playground.
teenage gangs and gun violence, it may
be easy to forget that the teenage years
elementary school
He made fun of me in
are not the only times that children face Being a victim is the most common
front of other children,
violent behavior. In fact, aggressive in second grade, and the likelihood of
forced me to turn over
behavior and bullying are even more being bullied decreases each year after
my lunch money each day, that (see Figure 1). Bullies in elementary
common in elementary school than in
threatened to give me junior and senior high! Some studies school are more likely to pick on children
a black eye if I told suggest that around 20 percent of all younger than themselves. Bullying is
adult authority figures. American children have been the victim often very physical in nature, with open
At different times I was of bullying at some point in elementary attacks of aggression being the most
subject to a wide range of school, and about the same number common. Boys are more likely to be
degradation and abuse – have described themselves as engaging doing the bullying, but girls and boys
de-pantsing, spit in my face, in some form of bullying behavior. are equally likely to be victims.
forced to eat the playground Bullying can range from teasing, to
dirt....To this day, their stealing lunch money, to a group of
handprints, like a slap students physically abusing a classmate. What bullying
on the face, remain stark
Even though bullying is very similar to can look like in
and defined on my soul.
other forms of aggression, there can be junior high school
Eric E. Rofes – some distinctive features:
Making our Schools Safe for Sissies Bullies in junior high school are more
• The intention of bullying behavior likely to pick on people their same age,
is purposeful, rather than accidental with boys more likely to be both bullies
• The goal is to actually gain control and victims. Girls, when they do bully,
over another child through physical are more likely to verbally harass
or verbal aggression. someone than be physical. Boys
• Usually bullies make their attack sometimes use physical attacks, but
without any real reason, other than they are also more likely to threaten and
they see their victim as an easy target. harass one of their peers in a verbal way.
• Bullies are usually more popular
with their peers than children who
North Dakota State University are simply aggressive.
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Grade 2 Grade 3 Grade 4 Grade 5 Grade 6 Grade 7 Grade 8 Grade 9
Figure 1. Percentage of student in different grades who reported being bullied (being exposed to direct bullying).
(total number of boys = 42,390; total number of girls = 40,940.)
Symptoms that a child might be a victim of bullying: Suggestions for working with bullies:
• acts moody, sullen, or withdraws from family interaction • Work in small groups. It is often helpful to place bullies
in groups with older children and have them engage in
• becomes depressed
cooperative tasks. It will be necessary to provide a great
• loses interest in school work, or grades drop deal of supervision.
• loses appetite or has difficulty getting to sleep • Reinforce children each time they engage in some
• waits to use the bathroom at home degree of caring or pro-social behavior. It will be easier
to establish more appropriate rules for interaction after
• arrives home with torn clothes, unexplained bruises
they learn that there are more positive ways to gain
• asks for extra money for school lunch or supplies, attention and affection.
extra allowance
• Often children who are having a hard time relating to
• refuses to go to school (15 percent of all school other children can learn some social skills with pets.
absenteeism is directly related to fears of being Under close supervision, bullies may learn to care for
bullied at school) and show affection to a dog or cat.
• wants to carry a protection item, such as a knife • Work with families to determine ways they can show
warmth and affection to their children, and seek to