10 - Chapter 2 PDF
10 - Chapter 2 PDF
10 - Chapter 2 PDF
LAWS ON MARRIAGE
to family life. It isa stable relationship in which a man and a woman are
the only proper way to live in society. Lowie defined marriage as a relatively
consists of the rules and regulations which define the rights, duties and
Horton and Hunt, marriage is the approved social pattern whereby two or
practised by a man together with his wife.2 The ritual of marriage enables a
man to have a son and without a son a Hindu cannot hope to get salvation or
sacrament or samskara which purifies the body. Manu declares that marriage
is a social institution for the regulation o f proper relation between the two
sexes.3 He also says that he is only a perfect man who consists of his wife,
enable an individual to perform sacrifices for gods and to have children. The f'Jh'
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Aitareya Brahmana states that the wife is called a jdya because in her the
husband is bom in the form of a son. Apastamba and Jaimini are of the same
view that performance of rituals and having sons arc the two chief aims of
marriage.5 Manu adds another aim that is the satisfaction o f the sex instinct.6
FORMS OF MARRIAGE
In ancient Hindu law, there were different kinds o f marriage. From the
times of the Gryasutras, Dharmasutras and Smrlis the forms of marriage are
said to be eight. The early Grhyasutras mention only one form o f marriage.
But they have not given any name to it. Manavagrhyasutra which is a later
work mentions two forms, namely, brahma and saulkya? The eight different
interpolation.8
prajapatya and arsa. It also places paisaca before raksasa. Visnu arranges the
that there are only six forms of marriage namely, brahma, daiva, ~arsa,
the bride’s father. The daughter decked with ornament is given as a gift to the
groom by her father.12 Vasislha and Asvalayana mention that the gift is made
The brahma form is one o f the approved forms of marriage. The bride
plays no part in choosing o f her husband which depends entirely on her father
or guardian.15
Daiva- In the daiva form of marriage the father gives away his
daughter after decking her with ornaments to a priest who duly officiates at a
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Baudhayanadharmasutra says that the recipient has to accept the gift and the
Manusmrti, 111.28.
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In the daiva form the bride has no choice o f her husband. It is made by
the father or guardian. The participation of the priest is probably not necessary
taking one pair or two pairs of cattle as a matter o f fulfilling the law.20 Manu
states that the receipt of a pair o f cattle does not constitute the sale o f the bride
bride to the bridegroom with the injunction that they should never cease to
perform dharma together.22 The aim o f this form of marriage is that they
might not separate throughout their lives and both jointly discharge their
duties as householders.23
not take another wife. This is the difference between brahma and prajapatya
forms.24
that the brahma marriage was originally identical with the prajapatya one.
This conclusion is supported by the fact that two of the early writers, Vasistha
Asura- In the Hsura form of marriage the girl is given away at the
father’s will after the bridegroom gives as much wealth as he can afford to pay
In this form the bridegroom paid some money and got the bride in
exchange for that money. It may be regarded as the sale of the girl.26
consent is known as gandharva. It springs from the passion of love and has
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intercourse as its purpose.
carried away against her will from her father’s house. The striking element of
this form is the forcible abduction.28 Vasi^tha calls raksasa form of marriage
as ksatra. It suggests that this form may be common among ksatriyas who
must have found it suitable on certain occasion.29 If the lawgivers would not
have recognised this form of marriage the children of such marriage and their
The difference between raksasa vivaha and paisaca vivaha is not very
great. In the former the girl is taken away by force while in the latter she is
taken by deception and fraud. This is always considered to be the worst type
These eight forms of marriage were classified into two groups. They
lawgivers the first four forms were the approved forms.32 The forms of
marriage in which the bride and the bridegroom married each other with the
considered good i.e.tdharmya. Those in which marriages took place for money
or by force against the wishes of the parents of the bride and the bridegroom
child. In case she was married by an adharmya form of marriage the strTdhana
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went to the family of her father.34 Manu states that the children bom of
declares that those children born of adharmya forms o f marriage are cruel, liar
giving them recognition the position of a woman and her children was to some
that those were actually not eight kinds o f vivahas but rather eight ways in
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which wives might be secured.
three were valid before 1955. These forms were brahma, gandharva and
asura. The Hindu marriage Act, 1955 does not specially provide for any form
o f marriage. The Act calls marriage solemnised under the Act as Hindu
community.
CEREMONIES
Hindu law consists of two parts- betrothal or vagdana and the nuptial rite or
promised in marriage to one man, the good men do not give her in marriage to
another man.38(l) According to Narad a man who withdraws from his contract v.
without proper cause may be compelled to marry the girl against his will.38(ll) ,
and no status of husband and wife is created. When a marriage is proved, the
marriage. There are certain rites which are preliminary, there are then a few
rites which are o f the essence of the samskara and there are certain rites which
are subsequent to the central rite. The essential rites are mentioned by all the
these are included namely- selection of the bride, selecting the auspicious day,
negotiation or sending o f the wooers to the girl’s house, sacrifice made by the
bridegroom, the ritual bath, clothing and anointing the bride, dance of girls,
38(i). Diwan Paras, Modern Hindu Law, Allahabad Law Agency, 2003, p.85
is led into the place where the sampradana is performed. Either her father or
of the later period is not mentioned by most o f the Grhyasulras. The Vedic
references, those in the Grhyasutras show that it was believed that the
bridegroom received the bride as a gift from the gods and not from the father.
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The right of sampradana evidently became an essential ceremony only in the
different forms of marriage in Hindu society and with the deterioration o f the
40.1bid., p.48
appropriate ceremonies and ajyabhaga oblations are offered to the fire. Then Vr\&i
the bridegroom leads his bride round the fire. After the circumambulation of
the fire the bride and bridegroom sit down to the West of the fire on a mat.
The bridegroom takes hold of the hands of the bride while he offers the
constituting the marriage. In this ceremony the bridegroom can take hold of
the fingers of the bride’s right hand only without the thumb, if he wishes for
sons only. If he wishes to procreate children of both sexes he should take hold
with fried grain, the acarya makes the couple take seven steps forward in a
after the panigrahana but before the sacrifices to the fire, the stepping on the
stone and the lajahoma. After the panigrahana the groom makes his bride
marriage ceremony these rites are performed - the weeping of the bride,
threshold, etc.47
Among the above ceremonies, the main marriage ceremonies are such
that they are essential to declare two persons as husband and wife. Among
these main ceremonies also that which is the most essential is the saptapadu
With the completion o f the seventh step the marriage becomes complete and
irrevocable.48
Section 7(i) of the Hindu Marriage Act, 1955 states that a Hindu marriage
either party thereto. Section 7(ii) states that where such rites and ceremonies
include the saptapadi, the marriage becomes complete and binding when the
accordance with the customary rites and ceremonies of at least one o f the two
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parties. The word ‘solemnise’ means to celebrate the marriage with proper
The Act does not prescribe the ceremonies requisite for solemnisation
party^ Where the form adopted includes the saptapadi before the sacred fire,
proceeds on the principle that marriage being one o f the samskoras for a
Hindu male and a female whether being bom in twice bom castes or a sudra,
position that the customary rites and ceremonies vary in different parts of the
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49. Desai, Sunderlal T., (ed.), M ulla’s Principles o f Hindu Law, N.M. Tripathi
ceremonial marriages are- invocation before the sacred fire and saptapadn50
solemnise a ceremonial marriage under the Act and all that is insisted upon for
with the customary rites and ceremonies of either party to the marriage.
solemnised under sastric rites and ceremonies which must include saptapadf.
the marriage a valid one, certain conditions must have to be fulfilled by both
the bride and the bridegroom. In ancient days as well as in modem times some
SO.Ibid '
51. Supra, Notel8, p.200
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conditions are laid down by the lawgivers which are to be fulfilled at the time
o f marriage.
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In the iSmrtis, there are certain conditions which are quite insignificant
for today’s circumstances. Such conditions are completely avoided by the Act
avoided for marriage. Amongst them those which neglect the sacred rites, in
which no male children are bom, in which Veda is not studied, the members
o f which have thick hair on their bodies52 are worth mentioning. Both Manu
young, intelligent, a favourite among people and apart from these his virility
must be tested.54 A girl having tawny hair, who is hairless and who is very
hairy must not be chosen as a bride. The bride should not be bodily defective
having yellowish eyes are also to be avoided. But one can marry a girl whose
growth, whose teeth are small and whose body is delicate. These are the
the virile men and enumerates 14 varieties of impotent persons.A girl devoid
also Yajnavalkya60 remark that the girl must be younger than the bridegroom,
v/^bcording to Vatsayana, the bride’s age should be three years less than that of
avyamgamgim..........hamsavaranagaminfm. ,
bridegroom.61 Katyayana is of the view that one guilty of grave sins, devoid of
Apart from these, there is another rule in the Smptis which is not
to the Smrtis the parties to the marriage should not be of the same gotra and
parampara or line of descent. The originators o f gotras are chiefly eight Rsis.
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They are Visvamitra, Jamadagni, Bharadvaja, Gautama, Atri, Vasishtha,
The pravaras are groups o f m s differentiating from the rsis who are the
64. Mayne,John.D., Hindu Law and Usage, Bharat Law house, New Delhi,
1991, p.134
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and pravara sages.65 The Pravaramanjarfquotes a verse that there are three
crores of gotras. 66(0 The innumerable gotras are placed under groups and
comprehend. The rule as to gotra and pravara does not apply to ail castes but
The ancient lawgivers laid down that the identity of gotra and pravara
maintain her like a mother.66(l,1) According to Manu, a man may marry a girl
who is not of the same gotra as her father.67 Gautama declares that marriage
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Vasistha states in this regard, that a person should marry a girl who has no
/c o m m o n rs/.69 Visnu opines that a person should obtain a wife who is not of
the same gotra as himself nor with -the same pravara rsis.10 According to
Yajnavalkya the girl who does not belong to the same gotra or the same rsi is
fit for marriage.71 The Mitaksara states that a girl who is a sapinda, sagoira
These are superfluous for the present society. Therefore, Hindu Marriage Act,
1955 has not included these as the conditions of a valid Hindu marriage and
the violation of any of these rules nowadays cannot affect the validity of
marriage.
Act, 1955 were also required in the days of Smrtis. However, to cope up the
Number of spouse
types; namely, monogamy, polygamy and polyandry. A peep into the ancient
days may give the idea whether the society maintained monogamy or
polygamy.
It is found that in regard to polygamy the Vedic age was less degraded.
In the ancient Rgvedic society monogamy was the general rule. A number of
passages found in the Rgveda which use the word jayd or wife in singular
number, indicate that monogamy was a general practice. It is clear from the
passage which stales- surely men want and gain their wish when the wife
Sun-God. The very word dampatt and jdyapatf occurring in the Vedic
passage it is stated that a double wedded man is like a car-horse between two
poles, and is pressed closely on both sides.75 Thus, a man with two wives was
In the time of the Sutras, some sages wanted to hold up a high ideal.78
endowed with dharmajmd progeny, he shall not marry another wife. But if
any one of the two i ,e.dharma and progeny is wanting in the case of the wife
he may marry another before he has consecrated the sacred srauta fires.
very firmly. The position of women had been degraded in these days. The
writers of the Smrtis did not treat the person of woman with the same sanctity
as they bestowed it on the other sex. She was not regarded as an equal partner.
many as four wives. One of them belonged to his own caste and the rest to the
remaining three castes. Likewise a ksatriya could have three wives one being
from his own caste and the rest from, two lower castes. Similarly, a vaisya
was entitled to two wives, one belonging to the vaisya caste and the other to
the sudra caste. A sudra was allowed one wife only and therefore was to lead
lays down that the first and chief wife should be of the husband’s own rank.
But also states as Manu that she may be supplemented by other wives from
the lower castes in due succession, so that the sudra can have only one
consort.81 Vasislha declares that in the order o f the castes, there are three
wives for the brahmana, two for the ksatriya, one each for the vaisya and
sudra}2 Devala, quoted in the Grhastharalnakara, says that the sudra may
have only one wife, a vaisya two, a ksatriya three and a brahmana four, but a
king may have as many as he desires.83 Thus, polygamy appears to have been
quite in vogue not only amongst the aristocratic classes but also even amid the
common people. But according to the smrtikaras a person could not have
wives as many as he wished. They laid restriction on it. The bmhmanas got
more opportunity in this regard than the other three classes. But the system of
polygamy was not allowed to follow in the case of sudras. The Adiparvan of
men.84
In ancient India the system o f polyandry was quite rare and almost
clearly refers to the practice o f polyandry. The passages cited in the Aitareya
The Smrtis do not allow a woman to have more than one husband.
According to Manu a girl could marry only for one time.87 So, it can be easily
said that a girl could have only one husband and in those days there was no
trace of polyandry.
The conditions of a valid marriage that are laid down by the modern
Hindu lawgivers are placed in Sec.5 of the Hindu Marriage Act, 1955. It has
totally abolished the system of polygamy as well as polyandry. Section 5of the
voluntary union for life of one man with one woman. Section 5(i) states that
neither party has a spouse living at the time of marriage. It means that
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polygamy and polyandry are completely prohibited under modem law on
Hindu Marriage. In the days of Smrtis it is seen that polygamy was firmly
planted though some restrictions as to the number of wives were there among
different classes of people. The Smrtiwriters did not treat the woman equally
with the male. But it can also be noticed that the mindset of the people till mid
of 20th century remained same as that of the people o f thousands o f years ago.
laid down by the modern lawgivers that a bride or a bridegroom must have
devoid o f some limbs were taken into account in the days of the Smrtis to
disqualify one from getting married. Among the ten kinds of people which
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Ijvlanu had declared to be avoided for marriage, there the mention o f those who
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were suffering from some particular diseases were also present. According to
Katyayana also mentions some defects and diseases which are to be avoided
in case o f both bridegroom and bride. According to him, one who is lunatic,
avoided.89About the bride, Manu90and Visnu91 say that one should not marry a
girl who is having an excessive limb, such as a sixth finger or a deficient limb.
One should marry a girl having limb without any defect, whose head apd body
is o f slight growth, teeth are small and the body is delicate. Narada mentions
88Manusmrli, III.7
89. '‘unmattah patitah kusthTtatha Sandhah svagotrajah
caksuhsrotraviMnasca tathdpasmdra dusitah. varadosah smrtd hyete
kanyddosdsca kTrtitah: ’ Katyayanasmrti, cited in Kane, P.V. History o f
Dharmasastra, Vol. II, part I, Bhandarkar Oriental Research Institute, Puna,
1974, p.431
90. Manusmrti, III.8-9
91.Supra, Note 56, p.166
92.Naradasmrti,
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was not performed. Because the ancient lawgivers have laid provision which
declares the sons o f disqualified persons to be entitled to share and the wives
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of such disqualified persons to be entitled to maintenance.
Section 5(ii)(a) provides that at the time of the marriage neither party should
at the time o f marriage is capable of giving consent to the marriage but has
be unfit for marriage and the procreation o f children. Section 5(ii)(c) states
that a marriage is not valid if a party at the time o f marriage has been subject
So, from the above, it is found that in the days o f Smrtis certain
and mental diseases and defects that can be easily ignored in today’s
circumstances. It is for the advancement o f the medical science and also of the
mindset of the people of the present day society .The Act of 1955 points out
only those diseases and defects for which a person is not in a position to give
consent. One who can give consent, but unfit for marriage for suffering from
So, those diseases and defects which can hamper the purpose of
marriage, and do not affect in any other way are taken into account by th e .
Age
different times regarding the minimum age for boys and girls are different
since the Vedic period. However, some early lawgivers suggest that the age o f
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the bride should be less than that of the bridegroom.
The marriage in the early Vedic India was performed when maidens
were generally in mature age. It can be observed from the fact that women had
the right of choice of their own husband.96 There is mention of such girls '
in the Rgyeda who married very late and stayed for long in their
in her father’s home before the marriage could even be thought of.98 Surya,
the daughter of Surya was given away to Soma in marriage only when she
given in marriage before she attains puberty. He goes even further and
explicitly says that a girl ought to be married before she wears clothes.100
Parasara, who is regarded as the authority of the Kali age, also supports the
marriage of girls at a very tender age. According to him a father who does not
give his daughter for marriage is reprehensible. Gautama is also of the same
view.102 Manu is again of the opinion that though a girl has not attained proper
the same class.103 In commenting upon this text Kulluka says that proper age
means the age of eight years. However, Medhatithi interprets it to mean the
age before she is bodily fit for marriage.104 Yajnavalkya also insists that girls
should be married before the age of puberty.105 Vyasa, another lawgiver, also
declares that he who does not give away a daughter in marriage before she
also proceedes in the same strain. Visnu also lays stress on the marriage of-a
Thus, the writers of Smriis advocated that the marriage of girls was to
take place before puberty. But it is also found that no blame is attached to the
girl married after puberty. Manu is of the opinion in this regard that a girl
having reached the age of puberty should wait for three years. But at the end
lower age for the marriage of girls in India. The most important factor seems
to be their desire to raise the moral standard o f the society. It was for this
age of a girl for marriage.109 The third factor which contributed to the
tendency for lowering the age of marriage of girls was the belief in the society
that a married girl had to face less risks in life than an unmarried girl.
which a man was obliged to marry. A man was to marry after he finished his
Vedic studies.110 But the period of Vedic study was fluctuating. According to
Manu a student takes thirty six years or half of that or quarter of that or only
until mastery to finish the study of the three Vedas.111 Gautama is of the
opinion that one should keep up his studentship for twelve years over one
Veda or for twelve years in each of the four Vedas or till they have been fully
continue for twelve years or five years or according to some for such time as
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may suffice for it being got up.113 Baudhayana states that the ancient
studentship over the Veda lasts for 48 years or for 24 years or for 12 years
over each Veda or for one year over each Vanda or till it has been got up.114
Thus, there is no definite duration to finish the Vedic studies. It could be 12,
portion of Veda.
twelve years was taken for study then a boy would ordinarily be twenty years
old or more at the time of marriage. It is found in the text of Manu. Manu says
that a man aged 30 years should marry a girl of 12 years of age and a man of
24 years should marry a girl of 8 years of age.116 Here, it is not extended to lay
down any hard and fast rule but merely to suggest suitable ages. In a different
place Manu stales that having dwelt with a teacher during the fourth part of
man’s life a person should live the second quarter in his house with a wedded
wife.117 The man’s age was generally supposed in the Vedic and post Vedic
literature to be 100 years and so, the one fourth of man’s age is at 25 years."8
Thus, the Smrtiwriters though preferred minor girls for marriage, the
bridegroom was a matured one. However, the Smrtiwriters have not given any
definite age o f a bridegroom. But it is stated clearly that crossing the first
stage o f life successfully one is fit to enter into second stage and becomes a
householder.
At the time when the British rule came to be established in India, the >
child marriages were very common.119 To restrain this, an attempt was made
to lay down the minimum age of marriage for both boys and girls in 1929. The
Child Marriage Restraint Act, 1929 prescribed 15 as the minimum age for
girls and 18 for the boys. But the child marriages were made neither void nor
voidable.120 It was the impact of the then prevailing social notions. But once
performed they were perfectly valid.121 This position was maintained by the
Hindu Marriage Act, 1955. After the amendment of the Child Marriage
Restraint Act in 1978, nowadays the minimum age of marriage for the girls is
The Hindu Marriage Act and the Child Marriage Restraint Act, 1929
provide punishment for such marriage. Section 18 o f the former Act provides
section 5(iii) may be punished with simple imprisonment which may extend
upto 15 days or with a fine which may extend upto Rs,.1000/- or with both.
Under the later Act, if a male above 18 years and below 21 years marries a
may extend upto 15 days or fine which may extend up to Rs.1000/- or with
both. A male above the age of 21 marrying a girl below 15 is punishable with
The Hindu Marriage Act affects a great mass in whom child marriages
the time of passing of the Act, would have been failed and 80% to 90% void
For the above reason the legislators did not make the child marriage
void at the time of making the Act. But after fifty years also the same
provision remains intact unamended. Child marriages still now are going on in
marriage.
girl if they are not related with sapinda relation. According to Manu a damsel
who is neither a sapinda from the mother’s nor belongs to a family from the
propounded - oblation theory and the particles o f the same body theory.
ancestors. One offers one full pinda each to his three immediate paternal
ancestors and one divided pinda each to his three next paternal ancestors.124
Moreover, he is the giver of the full pindas each to his two immediate
maternal ancestors and one divided pinda each to two next maternal ancestors.
and the four ancestors on the maternal side and is sapinda to them. When two
persons offer pindas to the same ancestors they are also sapindas to each
other.125
theory. He changed the meaning of pinda from ball to the particles of same
definition of sapinda is too wide as it may exist upto one hundred or more
generations so long as one can trace his descent through a male or female to a
saying that it existed upto seventh degree on the father's side, and upto fifth
degree on the mother’s side. He fixed this limit on the basis of traditional
meaning of sapinda}21
brahmana, it is found that the prohibition extended only to the third or fourth
and Vasistha132 are also of the similar view with Yajnavalkya. Manu states
that sapindaship ceases with seventh person.133 Visvarupa and Kulluka apply
confers the seven degrees limit only to sagotra sapindas.m However, the
majority of the above opinions direct to consider live degrees on the mother’s
and prohibited sex relationship with them. They considered sex relationship
with one’s mother, sister, daughter or even with one’s son’s wife as the
highest sin.135
Section 5 (iv) and 5 (v) o f the Hindu Marriage Act, 1955 deal with
two Hindus if the parties are not within the degrees of prohibited relationship.
According to Section 5 (v), the marriage may be solemnised if the parties are
not sapindas of each other. However, these two conditions are not applicable
in those places where the custom or usage governing each of them permits of
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modem law. The marriages in which these rules are not observed, considered
as illegal. These exogamic taboos are designed for the restriction of free
marital relationship. Their psychological origin lies in the horror of incest and
the consequent incest taboo which aims at preventing sex relationship between
The number of degrees found in ancient days has been reduced to two
degrees each from the father’s and mother’s side in the present time. So,
according to the modem law, number is fixed at five on the father’s side and
three on the mother’s side. Moreover, sapinda and prohibited relationship are
differently shown in the modem law and thus it becomes very much clear and
relationship modem laws are based on the laws in the Smrtis. However,
DIVORCE
unfamiliar for the ancient people. In the Vedic literature, there is no reference
to divorce. 136 In Indian marriage, the husband and wife were tied in a bond
which was unbreakable because their relations did not come to an end in this
I3 g. Sup>a,No£e g^ p.f.4-2.
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continues till death and it is considered as the highest dharma of the husband
and the wife. He is again of the opinion that neither by sale, nor1by
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abandonment by the husband, the wife’s marital tie comes to an end.
The general Hindu law set its face against the dissolution of marriage.
But it has not opposed to supersession of the wife by the husband. There were
various grounds for which a wife could be superseded. Manu has shown
wasteful^, she may be superseded at any time and the husband may
marry another wife.140 Some other kinds of wife such as a barren wife, a wife
whose all the children die, she who bears only daughters and a quarrelsome
137.1bid
138. 'anyonyasyavyabhicari bhaveddmarariantikah.
esa dharmah satnasena jneyah sirtpumsayoh parah. ’ Manusmrti, IX. 101,
‘na niskrayavisargabhyam bharturbhdrya vimucyate.
evain dharmam vijandnah prakprajapatinirmitam: ’ Manusmrti, IX.46
139. Supra, Nole56, p.709
140. ‘madyap'd ’sadhuvrttta ca pratikula ca y d bhavet.
vyadhitava’dhiveltvya himsfathaghm ca sarvatha: ’Manusmrti, IX. 80.
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wife may be superseded. But he has shown sympathy to a sick wife who
is kind and virtuous. Such a wife may be superseded only with her own
consent and must never be disgraced.141 The latter law givers too lay down the
one who drinks wine or is diseased and guileful, one who is barren,
destructive of wealth, harsh tongued, bears malice to her husband, one who
opinion that a wife who always shows malice to her husband or makes unkind
words or eats before her husband shall be expelled from his house. 144 But in
. In the modern days the circumstances are such that the dissolution of
the married life depends on the ability o f the husband and the wife to adjust
themselves. Each must respect the feelings and independence o f the other.
a decree of divorce. These are stated in section 13 of the Hindu Marriage Act,
1955. It declares that if the party other than the petitioner has voluntary sexual
intercourse with a person other than the spouse, if the petitioner is treated with
cruelly, if the other parly has deserted the petitioner for a continuous period of
two years, if the other party has ceased to be a Hindu and has been incurably
o f unsound mind then a marriage may be dissolved. Apart from these if the
party other than the petitioner has been suffering from a virulent and incurable
communicable form or has renouced the world by entering any religious order
or has not been heard of as being alive for a period of seven years or more,
In the laws of the Smrtis it is seen that in those days if a wife was
diseased and harsh tongued then she was allowed to abandon. Section
wife were alive. Hinduism held that the marriage union was indissoluble.146
Even by sell or abandon the wife’s marital tie and duty did not come to an
end.147 Even if the wife commited adultery, the husband had to accept her as
his wife when she had expiated for it.148 Thus, the abandonment was not
divorce that is dissolution of the marriage tie and it was quite unknown to the
Smrtis.
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REMARRIAGE OF WIDOWS
Almost all the legal authorities o f old are holding the view that a wife
once united with a man is united for good and there can be no separation from
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him. Bute il may be observed that the custom o f levirale or Niyoga was quite
common in ancient times. Under this system if a woman’s husband was dead
relations with her brother-in-law or some other relation till she got some
children.149
Vcdic society. Some widows in the Vedic age used to marry outside the circle
It slates that when a woman has one husband before and gets another; if they
present the panchaudana offering, they shall not be separated after the death. ^
A second husband dwells in the same world with his re-wedded wife, if he
remarriage in the same Samhita. There, it is said, ‘I have seen the young
maiden taken away from the dead and married.’151 Thus, there is no ground
for doubt that a widow after the death o f her husband was allowed to remarry.
Here, there is no suggestion to the effect that the widow is to marry only her
Vedie literature are few. It might be because Niyoga was then more popular
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than remarriage.152
In the days of Smrtis the practice of Niyoga was very common. In the
According to him a woman who desires offspring when her husband is dead
can bear a son to her brother-in-law. The lawgiver Vaisistha while approving
of the practice of Niyoga lays down certain rules for the observance of a
The rules of the institution o f Niyoga are given in various verses in the
the practice of Niyoga but at the same time in certain verses he disapproves
failure of issue by her husband a woman who has been authorised, may obtain
the desired offspring by cohabitation with a brother- in-law or with some other
sapindas of the husband.155 The appearance that these ideas are conflicting
with one another may be Tor the reason that the Manusmrti many limes
reproduces the opinions of ancient schools of thought but omits possibly for
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wife.157 Narada is of the opinion that if the husband of a childless woman dies
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she should go to her brother-in law through desire to obtain a son.
Thus, a widow was allowed after the drnth of her husband to approach
her brothcr-in law. It is only cohabitation, bci known by the technical name
on the household worship was regarded a vital necessity for a Hindu. This
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T h e S m r tis n e v e r o p in e in s u p p o r t o f w id o w re m a r r ia g e . T h e
m a y e m a c ia te h e r b o d y b y liv in g o n p u r e f lo w e r s , r o o ts a n d f r u its . B u t s h e
m u s t n e v e r m e n tio n th e n a m e o f a n o th e r m a n a fte rJ th e d e a th o f h e r h u s b a n d .
M a n u a ls o w a n ts th a t s h e m u s t r e m a in c h a s te a f te r th e d e a th o f h e r h u s b a n d . 161
T h e d ic tu m th a t a g ir l is g iv e n in m a r r ia g e o n ly o n c e 162 a l s o in d ic a te s th e firm
b e lie f o f M a n u th a t th e r e c a n b e n o re m a r r ia g e f o r w o m e n . T h e te s tim o n y to
p r o v e th e v a lid ity o f th is in f e r e n c e , a n u n m is ta k a b le p a s s a g e is f o u n d in th e
S m r ti w h ic h d e c la r e s th a t a s e c o n d h u s b a n d is n o w h e r e p r e s c r i b e d jo r v ir tu o u s
w o m e n . 163_ I t is a ls o s ta te d th a t a w id o w s h o u ld n e v e r e v e n th in k o f
r e m a r r i a g e . 164 Y a jn a v a lk y a a ls o d id n o t s u p p o r t r e m a rria g e . H e is o f th e
o p in io n th a t a m a id e n ’s m a r r ia g e c a n ta k e p la c e o n ly o n c e . 165 T h e
A p a s ta m b a d h a r m a s u tr a c o n d e m n s r e m a r r ia g e w h e n h e s a y s i f o n e h a s
in te r c o u r s e w ith a w o m a n w h o h a d a lr e a d y a n o th e r h u s b a n d o r w ith a w o m a n
o n w h o m n o m a r r ia g e s a m s k a r a h a s ta k e n p la c e o r w h o is o f a d if f e r e n t
v a r n a , th e n s in is in c u r r e d a n d th e s o n , b o r n o u t o f s u c h r e la tio n s h ip , a ls o is
1 6 1 . I b id ., p .9 6
1 6 2 . ‘ ........................s a k r t k a n y a p r a d i y a t e . ’ M a n u s m r t i , 1 X .4 7
1 6 4 . M a n u s m r ti, V . 1 5 7
1 6 5 . Y a j n a v a l k y a s m r t i , 1 .6 5 .
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distinguished from Niyoga are few. But they must not have been infrequent in
the society. The Vasislhadharmasutra allows remarriage even when the death
of the husband is only presumed and not proved. He says that even a
brahmana lady with living children should wait for 5 years if the husband
goes out and does not return.. She then may marry a near relative and person
can obtain another husband. Those are- when the husband is lost, is dead, has
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contended that widow remarriage was permissible under Hindu law. The
Adi Purdna shows that the practice must be eschewed in the Kali age.172 The
Parasara Madhavtya gives the same opinion and states that the above
principle laid down by Parasara and Narada refers to the state of society of
mentions certain views in this regard. It declares that according to some a girl
opinion is that she may be remarried if the first husband dies before
Narada shows seven sorts o f wives who have been previously married
to another man. Among them the punarbhu is of three kinds and svairinTls of
four kinds.175 Among the three punarbhus the third one is that a widow can
Thus, in the days of Smrtis the system of Niyoga was quite prevalent.
Marriage in those days was regarded to be a permanent tie which once tied
could not be untied. It was indissoluble. The Smrtikaras opine that a girl can
be given in marriage only once. They also declare how a widow should stick
The Hindu Marriage Act, 1955 is very clear in allowing a widow for
remarriage. The section 5(i) of the Act provides that the parties to the
assumed that under normal circumstances the widow remarriage was not
union. At present, this idea regarding marriage has been given up and
INTER-CASTE MARRIAGE
caste marriages. However, there were some restrictions in this matter. Since
the Vedic times several examples of the inter-caste marriages were available.
In the Rgveda there' is the reference of the Brahmana sage Syavasva marrying
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the daughter of king Rathaviti Darbhya. In. the Satapatha Brahmana the story
of the sage Cyavana is found who was a descendant o f Bhrgu, marrying the
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daughter of king Saryata. In another verse o f Satapatha Brahmana it is seen
that a king was allowed to marry a vaisya woman but her son would not be
Smrtis also, the lawgivers have approved this type of marriage with some
BaudHayana178 says that a brahmana is allowed to marry one wife from his
own caste and another three from the three lower classes. Similarly, ksatriyas
are allowed to marry three wives- form vaisyas two and sudras one. While
discussing the inter-caste marriage Manu says that a sudra woman alone can
be the wife of a iudra, she and vaisya woman can be the wives o f a vai/ya;
ksatriya can have three wives namely ksatriya, vaisya and sudra and a
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states that a sudra woman is not mentioned even in any story as the wife of a
three wives for the brahmana, two for the ksatriya and vaifya and only one
marriages of one’s own caste.182 The wives of the lower castes did not hold
the same dignified position as the wives of the same caste. In case of the
inheritance the sons of the wife o f the higher caste were entitled more shares
than the sons of the wife of the lower caste.183 Thus, the son of a brahmana
wife takes four shares, the son of a ksatriya wife takes three, the son of a
vaifya wife takes two and the son o f a siidra wife takes one share.184
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180. 'na bfdhmanaksalriyayorapdyapi hi tisthatoh.
kasmimscidapi vrttdnte sudra bHaryopadifyate: ’ Manusmrti III. 14
181. Yajnavalkyasmrti, 1.57
182. ‘savarnagre dvijatmam prasasta ddrakarmani.' Manusmrti III. 12,
‘sajatih sreyasi bharya sajatiscapatih striyah: ’Naradasmrti, 1VT2.,5
183. ‘vibhaktesu suto jatah savarndLydm vibfidgabhak: ’
Yajnavalkyasmrti, 11.125,
lcaturo 'msan haredviprastrTnamsdnksatriyasutah.
vaisyaputro hareddvyamsamamsam sudrasuto haret: ’
Manusmrti, IX. 152-153
184. Supra, Note 5, p. 449
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O f all the inter- caste marriages the marriage with a sudra wife though
allowed, was very much condemned. Even the marriage with a sudra woman
for connection with sudra woman. Visnu says that a union o f a twice bom
man with sudra wife can never produce religious merit.186 Manu is of the
opinion that ' twice, bom men who marry sudra wives are responsible for
degrading their family and children.187 Yajnavalkya says that though marriage
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the atman or soul itself is bom there in the wife as the son.
sudra woman by a dvijatl is not unanimous. Such marriages took place but
Yajnavalkyasmrli, 1.56.
Nowadays inter caste marriages are also valid as Hindu Marriage Act
has not laid any prohibition on the basis of caste. After 1955 marriages under
Hindu Marriage Act can be solemnised if both the parties are Hindus. In the
days o f the Smrtis though inter caste marriages were allowed there was
inequality among the castes. The wife belonging to a lower caste did not get
the same status as the higher one. After Independence the Democratic
Constitution of India has established equality among all its citizens. In part III
of the Constitution, it has been clearly stated that irrespective of religion, race
and caste all people are entitled to enjoy the fundamental rights.
of the many samskaras prescribed for a dvija and the only one prescribed for a
woman who can perform it with mantras. Unlike the English and the
marriage tie are apparently the result of Hindu law viewing marriage as a
between the husband and wife continues till death, and this may be considered
as the highest dharma. He further says that once a man and a woman are
united in marriage, they must see that there are no differences between them
Hindu must marry. He only is a perfect man who consists of his wife, himself
and his offspring.193 Yajnavalkya states that on the death of her husband, or
while he is alive if she never approaches another man, she attains fame in this
religious and spiritual duties. Such a marriage cannot take place without the
implies that it is a permanent union. Marriage is a tie, which once tied cannot
this life but even after death in the other world.194^ Its implication has been
that widow remarriage as a rule was not recognised in Hindu law. The rule
was ‘once a maiden is given in marriage, a true wife must preserve her
industrial revolution, of its lofty ideals of liberty and equality. The great
human and social relations must be based on the free volition o f individuals,
the highest human and social relationship that man has known, i.e., the
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contract.
The Hindu Marriage Act, 1955, has reformed the law o f marriage.
Sections 5, 11 and 12 of the Act are the pertinent provisions. The violation of
the requirements of clauses (ii) and (iii) of Section 5 do not render the
marriage void. Under Section 12, the violation of the former requirement
renders the marriage merely voidable, while the violation o f the latter
condition does not render the marriage void or voidable; the marriage if
initio.m Thus, it is clear that the Hindu marriage Act does not consider the
recurrent attacks o f insanity should not marry. It does not attach the flame
Tlius, Hindu marriage has not remained a sacramental union and has
different changes and modifications have been done. By this the Hindu
Marriage Act gives protection to a woman which she did not get in ancient
days. However, many principles o f Smrtis are kept intact in modem law.