Chapter -- II

CONCEPT OF HINDU AND MUSLIM MARRIAGE

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This chapter deals with the concept of marriage under Hindu and Muslim
law. The concept of Hindu marriage and Muslim marriage are dealt under
separate sections. The first section deals with the concept of Hindu marriage and
the second section was concept of Muslim marriage.

i) The Concept of Hindu Marriage:

Marriage is one of the necessary Samskaras (sacraments) or religious
rites for all Hindus, what ever the caste, who do not desire to adopt the life of a
perpetual Brahmachari1 or of a sanyasi.2 The word samskara is formed by
uniting the verb kr with the word Sam and signifies a set of ceremonies or
rituals enjoined by the sastras in relation to an individual. The meaning of the
word kr is imparts or effects. It effects a fitness in the person regarding
whom, the samskara is performed.
Every Hindu must marry. To be mother, were women created and to be
fathers, men; the Veda ordained that Dharma must be practiced by man together
with his wife.3 He only is a perfect man who consists of his wife, himself and
his offspring.4 Those who have wives can fulfill their due obligations in this
world; those who have wives, truly have a family life; those who have wives, can
be happy; those who have wives can lead a full life.5
Thus, Hindus conceived of marriage as a sacramental union, as a holy
union. This implies several things. First the marriage between man and woman
is of religious or holy character and not a contractual union. For a Hindu,
marriage is obligatory for begetting son, for discharge of his debt to his
ancestors, and for performing religious and spiritual duties. Wife is not merely a
Grihapatni but also Dharmapatni and Sahadharmini. According to Manu,
husband and wife are united to each other not merely in this life but even after
death, in the other world. Its implication has been that, widow remarriages as a
1

. Unmarried.
. Maynes-Hindu law & usage, 14th edn. 1998, p.125, Bharat law house, New Delhi.
3
. Manu Smriti, ix, 96; cited in Dr. Paras Diwan on Hindu Law, 2 nd edn. 2005, p.547, Orient publishing
company, Allahabad.
4
. Ibid.
5
. Mahabharat, Adi Parva, 40-41, ibid.
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rule were not recognized in Hindu law. The rule was once is a maiden given in
marriage. A true wife must preserve the chastity as much after as before her
husbands death6.
Derrett puts it succinctly thus: the intention of the sacrament is to make
the husband and wife one, physically and psychically for secular and spiritual
purposes, for this life and for after lives7.
The Smritis highly eulogized the woman who kept her husbands bed
unsullied even after his death. Though the purabhu (remarried woman) is
mentioned by sages, she is mentioned with a reproach. The ideal was that, a
widow who remains chaste reaches heaven after her death even though she has
no son8; a widow who becomes unfaithful to her deceased husband has no claim
to his property, not even for maintenance; she may even be ex-communicated9.
According to Manu, wife is a divine institution given by Gods. One should
not think that one has obtained her by choice10. Her unity (with her husband) is
established by the Vedas11. A woman is half her husband and completes him 12.
A woman must be honoured by her father, brother, husband and brother-in-law,
who desire their welfare. Where women are honoured, the gods are pleased, but
where they are not honoured, no sacred rites yield any reward13.
Manu declared that a man who has not taken a wife has not fully
perfected his personality and must be regarded as incomplete. His personality is
developed and completed only upon the union of his wife, himself and his
offspring. This is the significance of unity of personality of man and his wife
under Hindu law. Thus according to the grihyasutras, marriage is not a contract

. Manu Smriti, v. 160-161; cf: Dr. Paras Diwan on Hindu Law, 2nd edn. 2005, p.547, Orient publishing
Company, Allahabad.
7
. J.Duncan M.Derrett- A Critique of Modern Hindu Law, (1970), 287; ibid. p.531.
8
. Manu Smriti, v. 151; Yaj, 1.76; Vishnu, xxv. 13-14; cf: Dr. Paras Diwan on Hindu Law, 2nd edn. 2005,
p.547 , Orient publishing company, Allahabad.
9
. Manu Smriti, V. 169, Yaj; 1. 75; Vishnu, XXX, 17; Parasara, 1V, 26; ibid.
10
. Manu Smriti, ix. 95; ibid, p.544.
11
. Manu Smriti, ix. 96; ibid. p.545.
12
. Manu Smriti, ix.26; ibid.
13
. Manu Smriti, iii. 58; ibid.

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but a spiritual union, a holy bond of unity. The words with which, the husband
addresses his wife after saptapadi14 are:
Into my will, I take thy heart; thy mind shall follow my mind. Even in the
patriarchal society of the Rig Vedic Hindus, marriage was considered as a
sacramental union, and it continued to be so in the entire Hindu period, and even
in our contemporary world, most Hindus regard their marriage as a sacrament.
Manu laid down: I hold your hand for saubhagya (good luck) that you may grow
old with your husband, you are given to me by the just, the creator, the wise and
by the learned people15. Further, Manu said that,
Neither by sale nor by desertion, can a wife be released from her
husband; this, we understand is the law ordained by the creator in former
times16.
Let mutual fidelity continue till death; this in few words, may be
considered as the highest dharma of husband and wife17.
Let a man and woman united in marriage constantly be beware lest at
any time disunited, they violate their mutual fidelity18.
Wife is also ardhangini (half of man). According to Satpatha Brahmana,
the wife is verily the half of the husband; Man is only half, not complete until he
marries19. The Taittiriya Samhita is to the same effect: half is she of the
husband that is wife20.
In the Shastra, husband and wife are referred to by several names. The
husband is known as bhartri, because he is to protect her. On the other hand,
the wife is known as jaya, because ones own self is begotten on her. According
to the Mahabharata, by cherishing woman, one but virtually worship the goddess
of prosperity herself: by afflicting her, one but afflicts the goddess of prosperity21.
14

. Taking seven steps by the bride and the bridegroom jointly before the sacred fire.
. Manu Smriti, viii. 227; cf: Dr. Paras Diwan on Hindu Law, 2 nd edn.2005, p.545. , Orient publishing
Company, Allahabad.
16
. Manu Smriti, ix. 46; ibid.
17
. Manu Smriti ix, 101; Manu iii, 55-76; Yaj.,i. 82; ibid.
18
. Manu Smriti, ix, 102; ibid.
19
. Satpata Brahmana, v. 1,6.10; ibid. p.546.
20
. Taittiriya Samhita, iii, 1, 2, 57; ibid.
21
. Mahabharat, Anu Parva, 46. 1-13; cf: Dr. Paras Diwan on Hindu Law, 2 nd edn. 2005, p.545. , Orient
Publishing Company, Allahabad.
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A mans half is his wife: the wife is her husbands best of friends: the wife
is the source of Dharma, Artha and Kama; and she is also the source of
Moksha22. In the Ramayana, the wife is said to be the very soul of her husband23
she is grihani (the lady of the house) in her husbands house hold; Sachiva
(wise counselor), Sakhi (confidante) to her husband and dearest disciple of her
husband in the pursuit of art. She is grihalakshmi, ardhangini and samarajyi.
Side by side with this idealized picture of the wife, the Hindu sages hold in
clear terms that husband is the lord and master of his wife, he must be adored
and obeyed even if devoid of all virtues24. He must be obeyed as long as he
lives and the wife should remain faithful to his memory even after his death25.
He should be worshipped like God even though he is a man of bad character
with no qualities26.
As a rule, marriage was considered to be an indissoluble union. It was
only in some exceptional cases, that the sages allowed a woman to abandon her
husband and take another. Vasistha said: A damsel betrothed to one devoid of
character and good family or afflicted by impotency, blindness and the like or an
epileptic or an infidel or incurably diseased. Should be taken away from him
and married to another. But this text is confined to betrothal27. Narada and
Parasara mention five cases in which, a woman may abandon her husband and
take another: a) when the husband is missing, b) when he is dead, c) when he
has become an ascetic, d) when he is impotent and e) when he is an out-caste28.
Remarriage was permitted: 1) when a damsel was abducted and not
married according to sacred rites and 2) if the husband died before
consummation of marriage.
On the other hand, there was no such requirement for the husband. A
man was allowed to marry again after the death of his wife without any delay.
Kautilya also says that a woman may abandon her husband if he is of bad
22

. Dr. Paras Diwan on Hindu Law- 2nd edn.2005, p.546, Orient Publishing Company, Allahabad.
. Ramayana, 11, 37, 23-24; cited ibid.
24
. Manu Smriti, v. 147-54; cited in Dr. Paras Diwan on Hindu Law- 2nd edn.2005, p.546.
25
. Manu Smriti, v. 151; Yaj, 1, 75; Vishnu,xxv, 13-14; ibid.
26
.Manu Smriti, I. 15,4-6; Yaj, 1,77; Vishnu, xxv, 13; Katyayana , 886; ibid.
27
. Dr. Paras Diwan on Hindu Law- 2nd edn.2005, p.548, Orient Publishing Company, Allahabad.
28
. Narada, xii, 81; Parasara, x, 26-35; ibid. p.548.
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character, if he is absent for a long time, if he has become a traitor or is likely to
endanger her life, is an outcaste or has lost his virility29.
There is a difference of opinion among the sages whether a wife could
abandon her husband in the aforesaid cases in all forms of marriages or whether
she could do so only when marriage was in the unapproved form. However,
whatever be the text on abandonment of the husband by the wife, the
predominant authority is in favour of the indissolubility of marriage.
Manu enjoins on the wife that she should become a patunuvarte i.e., she
should follow the same principles as her husband30. According to Rig-Veda:
Be thou mother of heroic children, devoted to the Gods, be thou queen in
thy father-in-laws house hold. May all gods unite the hearts of us two into one31.
Marriage as a sacramental union implies that it is a sacrosanct union. Hindus
conceived of their marriage as a union primarily meant for the performance of
religious and spiritual duties. Such a marriage can not take place without the
performance of sacred rites and ceremonies. Secondly, a sacramental union
implies that it is a permanent union. Marriage is a tie which once tied cannot be
untied. This implies that marriage cannot be dissolved. Thirdly, the sacramental
union means that it is an eternal union. It is valid not merely in this life but in lives
to come.
According to Manu, The husband is declared to be one with the wife.
Neither by sale nor by repudiation is a wife released from her husband. Once
only a maiden is given in marriage32. Every Hindu is enjoined to marry, to enter
the grihasta-ashrama33.

29

. Dr. Paras Diwan on Hindu Law, 2nd edn. 2005, p.548, Orient Publishing Company, Allahabad.
. Manu Smriti, viii, 228; cited ibid p. 546.
31
.Rigveda, ix, 85; ibid.
32
. Manu smriti, ix, 102; cited in Dr. Paras Diwan on Hindu Law, 2nd edn. 2005, p.546, Orient Publishing
Company, Allahabad.
33
. Hindus have divided human life into four ashramas or stages; first is the Brahmacharya ashrama
(student ship), the second is the Grihasta ashrama (life of house holder), the third is the Vanaprastha
ashrama (life of a recluse) and the last is Sanyasa ashrama (the life of total renunciation of world).
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The Atharva Veda enjoins that the husband and wife should live in love
just as the birds chakva-chakvi live34. A passage in Yajurveda runs:
Knowledge, wealth, power, food and activity and issue, they (husband and wife)
should try; he is the samrat (endowed with virtue and power), she is swarat
(self-controlled and knowing), protecting each other. They should together make
progress35.
The wife is not just patni (wife) but Dharmapatni (partner) in the
performances of duties; religious, spiritual and other. Among the Hindus, there
are many yagnas (religious and spiritual sacrifices, rites and ceremonies) which
a man cannot perform without a wife. That is why, she is called dharmapatni.
Thus Manu declared that the due performance of the religious rites, faithful
worship, performances of yagnas, the highest conjugal happiness, and the
heavenly bliss for ancestors and oneself- all depend upon the wife36.
According to Vedas, marriage is a union of bones with bones, flesh with
flesh and skin with skin, the husband and wife become as if they were one
person37.
The aim and objectives of this institution is to achieve by cohabitation of
man and woman, the supreme values of Dharma (i.e. duty according to law and
religion), Arth (economic effort and achievement), Kam (love and procreation)
and purusharth (i.e. best and noble actions and deeds). These are the material
determinants of the concept of marriage. At any rate, the institution of marriage
enjoins and obliges both husband and wife to live together under the same roof
and by common effort to achieve the good of both.
According to the Hindu sastras, a mans life is divided into four ashramas
known as Ashrama Dharma. The Ashrama Dharma is based on the purushartha;
individuals striving to attain the ultimate. The theory of purusharthas provides

34

. Atharva veda, xvi, 2.64; (According to Hindu mythology, this species of birds is an ideal in life.
The male and female live together and if one dies, the other also dies of heart break) cf: Dr. Paras
Diwan on Hindu Law, 2
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nd

edn. 2005, p.532, Orient Publishing Company, Allahabad.

. Yajurveda, 13.55; ibid.

36
. Manu smriti, ix, 64-68; cf: Dr. Paras Diwan on Hindu Law, 2nd edn. 2005, p.532, Orient Publishing
Company, Allahabad.
37
. Shyama charam sarkar; vyavastha chandrika, vol.ii, 480; ibid.

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the key to the understanding of the individual striving to attain salvation in
relation to society38.
These purusharthas are four: Dharma, Artha, Kama and Moksha. Of
these, the dharma pervades through the four ashramas.
Dharma is created for the well-being of all creation. All that is free from
doing any harm to any created being is dharma for indeed, dharma is created to
help all creation, free from any harm39. Dharma is so called because it protects
all. Dharma preserves all that is created. Dharma then, is surely the principle
which is capable of preserving the universe.40.
Kama implies desires in man and enjoyment and satisfaction of the life of
senses, including sexual desires. Kama thus refers to the totality of the innate
desires and drives in man.
Artha implies acquisition of wealth and refers to the means necessary to
acquire worldly prosperity, such as wealth and power.
Moksha means attainment of salvation41.
Dharma controls every thing. Artha and Kama are to be acquired in
accordance with dharma. The stability of the universe depends upon dharma.
Artha and Kama too depend for their proper management upon dharma. Dharma
is the foremost of all. Artha is said to be middling, and Kama is the lowest of the
three42.
Dharma is the holder of the balance in terms of which, Artha and Kama
have to be dealt with, weighed, practiced and acquired. Therefore, one should
conduct their lives in accordance with dharma43. Manu says that good of man
consists in the harmonious coordination of the three44.

38

. Dr. Paras Diwan on Hindu Law, 2nd edn. 2005; p.47. Orient Publishing Company, Allahabad.
. Mahabharat Shanti Parva, 58; ibid.
40
. Mahabharat Shanti Parva, 59; cf: Dr. Paras Diwan on Hindu Law, 2nd edn., 2005; p.47., Orient
Publishing Company, Allahabad
41
. Ibid. p. 47.
42
. Ibid.
43
. Mahabharat , Shanti Parva, 167, 6-9; cf: Dr. Paras Diwan on Hindu Law, 2nd edn. 2005, p.47, Orient
Publishing Company, Allahabad.
44
. Manu Smriti, ii, 224; ibid.
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The purusharthas are to be practiced in the four ashramas. The
purusharthas are but stages in the journey of life on the way of final liberation.
Vyasa says the four stages of life form a ladder or flight of four steps. The ladder
or flight is attached to the Brahma. By ascending the ladder, one reaches the
Brahma. In the social sense, ashramas are stages in life; each stage is a training
ground for the individual. From one stage to another, he passes till he attains
moksha45.
The four ashramas are; Brahmacharya Ashrama, Grihasthya Ashrama,
Vanaprastha Ashrama and Sanyasa Ashrama. In ones early age, one lives in
Brahmacharya Ashrama and acquires education. In the Grihasthya Ashrama an
individual satisfies his natural desires of enjoyment and pleasure and acquires
wealth. In the old age, the individual seeks moksha46.
With the upanayana ceremony, the young boy is initiated in to the
Brahmacharya Ashrama. After completion of his education, he becomes a
snataka and enters Grihasthya Ashrama. In this stage, the individual fulfills his
obligations to his ancestors, to the members of his family and to strangers and
Gods.
The objects of a Hindu marriage have been to have offspring, to be able
to perform religious rites and sacrifices (which a man can perform only along
with his wife) and to have highest conjugal happiness and heavenly bliss for the
ancestors and oneself. The achievement of all these objectives is dependent
upon the wife47.
On the approach of old age, he enters into the Vanaprastha Ashrama. In
this ashrama, he completely becomes detached from the world and worldly life
and lives in a forest, a life of utter simplicity and austerity. But he continues to
perform the sacrifices. After the Vanaprastha Ashrama, the individual enters the
last Ashrama, the Sanyasa Ashrama. It is a life of total renunciation of world.
On marriage, the wifes introduction into the family become a limb and
could not cut herself off simply because her husband who introduced her into the
45

. Dr. Paras Diwan on Hindu Law, 2nd edn. 2005, p.47, Orient Publishing Company, Allahabad.
. Ibid.
47
. Ibid, p. 545.
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family and with whom, of course, she was more closely connected than with
anybody else, departed from this world. He might be dead but the family did not
die and she remained as much a part of it as before. Therefore, during the
solemnization of the marriage ceremony, the husband pointed out to the wife,
the pole star as a symbol of constancy and she prayed as this pole star is
constant, so may I be constant in my husbands family.
By taking the specific samskara of marriage, it achieves certain spiritual
results at the mystic plane; it creates a socially accepted status between the
parties. From that onwards, the unrelated man and woman will be designated as
husband and wife and as a result of it, arise certain mutual rights and
obligations on both parties.
With the emergence of status of husband and wife on the completion of
the samskara, many consequences, both secular and spiritual occur; some of
them perceivable and others suprasensual. At the physical level, the couple
surrender themselves to each other and they taste the supreme matrimonial
bliss.
The symbolic mergence of the personalities of the husband and wife has
obsessed the Hindu mind to such an extent that it is reflected even in other
spheres of human activities.
For instance, in the field of art, the symbol of Ardha Nareeswara
depicting half the body in the form of Lord Shiva and the other half, in the form
of his consort Parvati found every where which signifies nothing but the unity of
the spouses.
On marriage the wife acquires the gotra and pravara of the husband. A
wife has a sapinda relationship with her husband and also gets some specific
domestic, economic and sexual status.
Her status as a wife is radically different from her maiden days. As an
unmarried girl, she was only a member of her fathers house, but wifehood
confers on her, the status of manageress, either immediately or gradually. The
most significant change is that, she becomes responsible for carrying on the
generation or vamsha of her husband. i.e., she gets the status of progenetrix.

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She therefore has a right to her husbands society. It was because of this reason
that niyoga48 was an accepted social norm. This also imposed sexual fidelity on
her. Manu says that the husband and the wife should not prove false to each
other until their death with regard to Dharma, Artha and Kama49.
The desire for male offspring in particular was very natural in all early
societies. Male issue was prized both for the continuance of the family as well as
for the performance of funeral rites and offerings 50. The Veda declares: endless
are the worlds of those who have sons; there is no place for the man who is
destitute of male offspring. May our enemies be destitute of offspring. O Agni,
may I obtain immortality by offspring51.
According to the Veda, an Aryan is born burdened with three debts. He
owes the study of the Veda to the Rishis, sacrifices to the Gods, and a son to the
manes. He is free from debt who has offered sacrifices, who has begotten a
son and who has lived as a student with a teacher52.
Manu emphasized the Vedic injunction regarding the necessity for a son
thus: Through a son, he conquers the world; through a sons son, he obtains
immortality; but through his sons grand son, he gains the world of Sun. Because
a son delivers his father from hell called PUT; he was therefore called PUT-TRA
(a deliverer from PUT)53. Yajnavalkya also said: Because continuity of the
family in this world and the attainment of heaven in the next are through sons,
sons sons and sons grand sons; therefore, women should be loved and
protected54.

48

. Niyoga means the begetting of a son on hire by another on the wife of a man who was either dead or
impotent or disordered in mind or incurably diseased. The begetting must be by the brother of the dead or
impotent person. The son so begotten belonged to the husband of the woman. The custom is obsolete. (K.J.
Ayars Judicial Dictionary, 13th edn.2001, Butterworths India, New Delhi).
49
. Manu, ix, 101,102; cf: Dr.Paras Diwan on Hindu Law, 2 nd edn. 2005, p.546, Orient Publishing
Company, Allahabad
50
. Vedic index, I. 486,487; cf: Maynes Hindu Law & usage, 14th edn. 1998, p.100, Bharat law house,
New Delhi.
51
. Rig veda, I. 21,5. cited in Vas., xvii, 2-4; Vishnu, xv, 45; Manu, vi. 36, 37; ix, 45; ibid.
52
. Taittriya Samhita vi. 3,10,5. cited in Vas., xi, 48; Manu, vi, 35-37; ix. 106,107; xi, 66. ibid.
53
. Manu, ix. 137,138; Vishnu, xv. 44, 46; cf: Maynes Hindu Law & usage, 14th edn. 1998, p.101, Bharat
law house, New Delhi.
54
. Yaj.I. 78; cf: Maynes Hindu Law & usage, 14th edn. 1998, p.101, Bharat law house, New Delhi.

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While it is true that the ancient Aryans longed for offspring, they
recognized at the same time, the need for their wives remaining chaste rather
than they should have offspring anyhow. The emphasis on the need for male
offspring was more than counterbalanced by the instance on the need for
morality55.
One of the characterstic features of a Hindu marriage has been that it was
more connected with the performance of religious duties and begetting of a son,
who enables a man to get deliverance from the sufferings of hell. Marriage was
not a contract but an indissoluble tie. It is solemnized once and for all. Marriage
amongst Hindus which involves the transfer of dominion over the damsel from
the father to the husband and which has always been the foundation of peace
and order in any civilized society was, a settled institution with a religious
character attached thereto even at the Vedic period.
In Gopal kishan v. Mithilesh kumari,56 the Allahabad High court observed:
The institution of matrimony under the Hindu law is a sacrament and not a mere
betrothal. Its context is religious. It is regarded as part of the life of the soul. It is
holy spiritual union corresponding to consortium omntum vitoe of Rome, a
process by which, the husband and wife become one.
The bride on the seventh step of the saptapadi loses her original gotra
and acquires the gotra of the bridegroom, and a kinship is created what is not a
mere friendship for pleasure. A Hindu marriage thus performed through any of
the modes, namely, Brahma, Daiva, Prajapatya and Arsha57 is regarded as
55

. Many thousands of Brahmanas, who were chaste from their youth, have gone to heaven without
continuing their race. A virtuous wife who after the death of her husband constantly remains chaste,
reaches heaven, though she has no son, just like those chaste men- Manu, v. 159,160; Vishnu, xxv, 17.
ibid.
56
. AIR 1979 All 316.
57
. Brahma: It is gift of the daughter by the father to the bridegroom. According to Manu: The gift of a
daughter after decking her with costly garments and honouring her with presents of jewels, to a man
learned in the Vedas and of good conduct, whom the father himself invites is called the Brahma rite.
(Manusmriti, III, 27; cf: Dr.Paras Diwan on Hindu Law, 2nd edn. 2005, p.570, Orient Publishing Company,
Allahabad).
Daiva: According to Manu: The gift of a daughter who has been decked with ornaments, to a priest who
duly officiates at a sacrifice during the course of its performance, they call the Daiva rite. (Manusmriti,
III, 28; cf: Dr.Paras Diwan on Hindu Law, 2nd edn. 2005, p.570, Orient Publishing Company, Allahabad).
Prajapatya: According to Manu: The gift of a daughter by her father after he has addressed the couple with
the text, May both of you perform together your duties and has shown honour to the bridegroom is called

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indissoluble. It was indeed, as in ancient Rome, an association for life and
productive of full partnership, both in human and divine rights and duties58.
The wife was not merely her husbands helpmate in all worldly affairs but
she assisted him in the performance of religious duties, regular sacrifices and
helped him to get heaven. Therefore, a legitimate wife is called Dharma- patni-a
wife married for the fulfillment of the sacred law59.
The purposes of marriage were to perform religious rites and sacrifices
and to procreate children who would extend spiritual benefits to their deceased
ancestors by offering funeral oblations and by perpetuating the name and
lineage of their forefathers. By giving birth to a male child through a legally
wedded wife, every Hindu is discharged of the debt to his father which is
technically called as Pitririn60.
In Shivanandy v. Bhagawanthymma61, it was observed that, marriage is
binding for life because the marriage rite completed by saptapadi before the
consecrated fire creates a religious tie, and a religious tie once created cannot
be untied. It is not a mere contract in which, a consenting mind is indispensable.
According to Apastamba, Marriage was meant for doing good deeds and
for attainment of Moksha. Panigrahana enables the male and female to unite in
religious ceremonies and to attain the spiritual merits. Therefore, marriage is the
basis of social and religious organization and foundation of important legal rights
and obligations62.

the Prajapatya rite. (Manusmriti, III, 30; cf: Dr.Paras Diwan on Hindu Law, 2nd edn. 2005, p.570, Orient
Publishing Company, Allahabad).
Arsha: According to Manu: When the father gives away his daughter according to the rule, receiving from
the bridegroom, for fulfillment of the sacred law, a cow and a bull or two pairs, that is named to be Arsha
rite. (Manusmriti, III, 29; cf: Dr.Paras Diwan on Hindu Law, 2nd edn. 2005, p.570, Orient Publishing
Company, Allahabad).
58
. R.K.Agarvala- Hindu law, 21st edn. 2003, p.31, Central Law Agency, Allahabad.
59
. Ibid. p.32.
60
. Ibid.
61
. AIR 1962 Mad 400.
62
. R.K.Agarvala- Hindu law, 21st edn. 2003, p.32, Central Law Agency, Allahabad.

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ii) The Concept of Muslim Marriage:

The Arabic word Nikah (marriage) means the union of sexes and in
law, this means marriage63. The term Nikah has been used for marriage under
Muslim law. Nikah literally means to tie up together. It implies a particular
contract for the purpose of legalizing generation. Nikah in its primitive sense
means carnal conjugation.
In Quran, the word Nikah has been used in both senses of sexual
connection and of contract of marriage. Quran prohibits Nikah with a woman with
whom their fathers had Nikah. Quran says:
And marry not women whom your fathers married, except what is past: it was
shameful and odious, - an abominable custom indeed64. Nikah here means
marriage and the last word in the Ayat, Nikah means sexual connection. Thus
forbidden is to a son, a woman with whom his father had indulged in adulterous
intercourse.
So if a husband divorces his wife (irrevocably), he cannot, after that, re-marry
her until after she has married another husband and he has divorced her. In that
case there is no blame on either of them if they re-unite; provided they feel that
they can keep the limits ordained by Allah, which He makes plain to those who
understand65.
Nikah amongst Muslims has been considered as most pious act. In Raddul-Mukhtar it has been mentioned as there is no act of devotion that has
remained prescribed for us, since the time of Adam, upon him be peace, up to
this moment, and which is to be continued in paradise except Nikah (or
marriage) and Imaan (or faith)66.
The meaning of marriage is wedlock or the mutual relation of husband and
wife or the institution whereby a man and a woman are joined in a special kind of

63

. Dr. S.R. Myneni- Muslim Law, 1st edn. 2009, p.49, Asia Law House, Hyderabad.
. Quran, Sura IV, Ayat 22, The Holy Quran, translated by Abdullah Yusuf Ali, Edn.2004, Ayman
Publicatins, New Delhi.
65
. Quran, Sura II, Ayat 230, The Holy Quran, translated by Abdullah Yusuf Ali, Edn.2004, Ayman
Publicatins, New Delhi.
66
. Radd-ul-Mukhtar, Vol. 2, at page 280 (Hizri); cited in Dr. Mohammad Nazmi- Mohammadan Law, 2nd
edn. 2008, p.32, Central Law Publications, Allahabad.
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social and legal relationship for the purpose of making a family. In Muslim law,
Nikah is a contract for the legalization of intercourse and the procreation of
children. Hence Nikah means union of sexes. There is also some object behind
this union, which confers the status of husband and wife on a man and woman to
marriage and the status of legitimacy on the children born out of such union.67
The Quranic injunctions regarding marriage are: Marriage is recognized
as the basis of society. Marriage as an institution leads to the uplift of man and is
a means for the continuance of the human race. Spouses are strictly enjoined to
honour and love each other. The prophet was determined to raise the status of
woman. He asked people to see their brides before marrying them; and thought
that nobility of character is the best reason for marrying a woman. It is a contract
for the legalization of intercourse and procreation of children68.
The objectives of marriage are:
1. to provide legal validity to the sexual relationship of husband and wife.
2. to legalize the children. Without a valid contract of marriage, the intercourse
between a man and woman is unlawful.
Marriage legalizes also the children born out of that marriage. Children
born out of any union other than a valid marriage are illegitimate.
Legally speaking, Muslim marriage is a civil contract. Therefore, its legal
nature is contractual. Besides being a civil contract, Muslim marriage is also a
social and religious institution69.

Legal aspect:
Legally, a Muslim marriage is considered as a contract; because the
elements which constitute a marriage and the manner in which it is completed, is
almost similar to that of a civil contract. The contractual nature of a Muslim
marriage is explained on the basis of the following elements:
1) The parties to the marriage also must be competent.
67

. Dr. Nishi Purohit- The Principles of Mohammedan law, 2nd edn. 1998, p.105, Orient Publishing
Company, Allahabad.
68
. A.A.A. fyzee-Outlines of Muhammadan Law, 1999 edn. p.90, Oxford University press, New Delhi.
69
. Dr. R.K. Sinha-Muslim Law, 5th edn. 2003, p.40; Central Law Agency, Allahabad.

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2) The marriage is not complete without offer, acceptance and free consent of
the parties or guardians.
3) The terms of marriage contract within legal limits may be settled by the parties
themselves.
4) Just as there are rules for regulating the rights and duties of the parties upon
the breach of a contract, there are also provisions for respective rights and
duties of husband and wife on divorce or dissolution of marriage70.
Therefore, the nature of Muslim marriage is similar to that of a civil
contract. But only on the basis of the above mentioned contractual elements, it is
not correct to define it as purely a civil contract. In its form, a Muslim marriage
may look like a contract; but it is not so in its essence. As is evident from the
following arguments, its social aspect is also very important.

Social aspect:
The social aspect of Nikah should also be studied to understand its real
nature. Nikah is a social institution by which, a definite and dignified status has
been conferred upon the women. The Prophet brought about a reform in the
society. No social reform was possible without giving equal status to the females.
Therefore a definite institution or an established law was required to give equality
and freedom to the females. With this object in mind, the Prophet introduced
Nikah through which, the females could be placed on equal footing with males. It
is therefore submitted that Nikah is a well established social institution which
gives to the women, a separate and dignified status in the society. The

social

institution may be explained on the basis of the following arguments: 71

1)

There is limited polygamy under Muslim law and a person is not allowed

to marry more than four wives at a time.

In civil contracts, one may enter into many contracts at a time as he likes.
2)

In every Muslim marriage, dower must be given or promised to be given

by the husband to the wife as a mark of respect towards her.

70
71

. Dr. R.K. Sinha-Muslim Law, 5th edn. 2003, p.41; Central Law Agency, Allahabad.
. Ibid.

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In civil contracts, the general rule is that, there is no liability to pay
consideration if it has not been specified or referred in the contract.
But in a Muslim marriage, even if the amount of dower has not been specified,
the husband should pay proper dower to his wife as a mark of respect towards
her.
3)

There is prohibition in the marriage between certain close relatives. A

brother cannot marry his sister. But he can legally enter in to a valid contract
with his sister.
4)

There are certain circumstances in which the Muslim disapproves the

contract of marriage. For example, a Shia Muslim is not allowed to marry during
a religious journey (Haj). Similarly there are other circumstances which are
called the relative prohibitions in marriage.
There are no such prohibitions in the civil contracts. But a marriage during
Haj is void under Shia law72.
Hence it is clear that, marriage among Muslims is not an ordinary
contract. It is a powerful social institution for the uplift of women and promotes
the development of a healthy society free from evils.

Religious aspect:
Apart from the Legal and Social aspects, Quran, which is a collection of
the words of God, directs every Muslims to marry a suitable woman of his
choice. It is therefore a religious duty of every Muslim to contract a marriage
according to the rules of Islam. A person who remains bachelor without any
reasonable excuse disobeys the words of God. Moreover, marriage is also the
tradition (sunnat) of the prophet.73
In Islam, it is believed that marriage is a Sunnat Muwakkidah. This
means that, it is an act of such a nature that, if a person does it, he gets religious
benefits. If he abstains from doing it, then he commits sin.74

72

. Dr. R.K. Sinha- Muslim Law, 5th edn. 2003, p.42; Central Law Agency, Allahabad.
. Ibid.
74
. Aquil Ahmad- Mohammedan Law, 21st edn. 2004, p.108, Central Law Agency, Allahabad.
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Abdul Rahim observes: the Muhammadan jurists therefore regard the
institution of marriage as partaking both of the nature of Ibadat or devotional act
and Muammalat or dealings among men.
The sanctity attached to the institution of marriage in the Islamic system
has neither been comprehended nor sufficiently appreciated by outsiders. In
Islam, marriage is recognized as the basis of society. It is a contract but it is also
a sacred covenant. Marriage as an institution leads to the uplift of man and is a
means for the continuance of the human race. The main aim of the institution of
marriage is to protect the society from foulness and unchastity. It has also been
said that marriage is so holy a sacrament that in this world, it is an act of Ibadat
or worship, for it preserves mankind free from pollution75.
According to Tyabji: Marriage brings about a relation based on and
arising from a permanent contract for intercourse and procreation of children
between a man and a woman, who are referred to as parties to one marriage
and who after being married, become husband and wife76.
Thus according to Muslim law, marriage is a contract for the purpose of
legalizing sexual intercourse and the procreation and legitimation of children and
the regulation of social life in the interest of society by creating
i)

the rights and duties between the parties themselves, and

ii)

between each of them and the children born from the union.

Nature of Muslim marriage:

With regard to the nature of Muslim marriage, there are divergences of
opinion. Some jurists are of the opinion that Muslim marriage is purely a civil
contract while others say that, it is a religious sacrament in nature.
According to some text writers and jurists, Muslim marriage is treated as a
mere civil contract and not a sacrament. This observation seems to be based on

75
76

. Ammer Ali, students 7th edn. p.97; cf: Dr. R.K. Sinha-Muslim Law, 5th edn. 2003, p.108.
. Tyabji- Muslim Law, 4th edn. pp. 44-45; ibid, p.109.

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the fact that, marriage under Muslim law has similar characterstics as a contract.
For instance77:
1)

As marriage requires proposal (ijab) from one party and acceptance

(qubul) from the other, so is the contract. Moreover, there can be no marriage
without free consent and consent should not be obtained by means of fraud,
coercion or undue influence.
2)

Just as in case of contract entered into by a guardian, on attaining

majority be set aside by a minor, so a marriage contract in Muslim law, be set

aside by a minor on attaining the age of puberty.
3)

The parties to a Muslim marriage may enter into any ante-nuptial or post-

nuptial agreements which are enforceable by law provided it is reasonable and

not opposed to the policy of Islam. Same is the case with a contract.
4)

Like any other contract, there is also provision for the breach of marriage

contract.
Describing the nature of Muslim marriage, justice Mahmood in the leading
case78, observed: Marriage among Muhammadans is not a sacrament, but
purely a civil contract; and though it is solemnized generally with recitation of
certain verses from the Quran, yet the Muhammadan law does not possibly
prescribe any service peculiar to the occasion79.
The prophet is reported to have said, marriage is essential for every
physically fit Muslim who could afford it. The prophet says O assembly of
youths, whoever among you is able to have, he should marry, for it is a restraint
to the looks and he who is not able let him keep fast80.
The following traditions may also be considered:
He who marries completes half of his religion; it now rests with him to complete
the other half by leading a virtuous life in constant fear of god.
There is no mockery in Islam.

77

. Aquil ahmad- Mohammedan law, 21st edn. 2004, p.110, Central Law Agency, Allahabad.
. Abdul Qadir v. Salima (1886)8, All 149; cf: Aquil ahmad- Mohammedan law, 21st edn. 2004. p.110,
Central Law Agency, Allahabad.
79
. Ibid.
80
. Ibid, p.111.
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There are three persons whom the Almighty himself has undertaken to helpfirst, he who seeks buy his freedom; second, he who marries with a view to
secure his chastity; third, he who fights in the cause of god81.
There is no act of worship except marriage and faith, which has continued from
the days of Adam and which will continue in paradise as well.
Prophet said that:
I keep fast and break it. I pray and I sleep and Iam married so whoever inclines
to any other way than my Sunnah, he is not of me.
This is because marriage elevates the moral and spiritual standard of man.
Nikah is my precept. Those who are unmarried, are the unworthy of the deed82.
Nikah is considered obligatory to every Muslim, because of its being
continued to be performed by the Prophet Mohammad, and on account of his
rejecting from his followers, one who has no liking for it amongst Muslims, there
is a tradition Nikah is my Sunnat and one who dislikes my Sunnat is not mine.
According to the approved opinions, one commits sin by not marrying, and does
a meritorious act for which, he will be rewarded in after life, because by
marriage, he protects himself and the bride from committing adultery, and
procreation of children in modern condition.83
According to Hedaya: Marriage (Nikah) implies a particular contract used
for the purpose of legalizing children (generations)84.
Nikah amongst Muslims is a ceremony through which, a man is united with
a woman with the idea of enjoying life together and to produce children. Though
a Muslim marriage is performed through a ceremony in which Qazi (or some
other learned man) reads the fatiha and other Quranic verses, yet nonperformance of the ceremony is no fatal to the validity of the marriage85

81

. Aquil Ahmad- Mohammedan law, 21st edn. 2004, p.111, Central Law Agency, Allahabad.
. Ibid p.112.
83
. Dr. Mohammad Nazmi- Mohammadan Law, 2nd edn.2008, p.32, Central Law Publications, Allahabad.
84
. Dr. R.K. Sinha-Muslim Law, 5th edn. 2003, p.40; Central Law Agency, Allahabad.
85
. In Habib-ur-Rahman v. Altaf Ali, AIR 1922 PC 159; Sir Ameer Ali said Marriage may be constituted
without any ceremonial; cited in Dr. Mohammad Nazmi- Mohammadan Law, 2nd edn.2008, p.32, Central
Law Publications, Allahabad.
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Dr. Jang says: marriage though essentially a contract, is also a devotional
act; its objects are rights of enjoyment and procreation of children and regulation
of social life in the interest of society86.
There is a consensus of Muslim jurists that marriage under Muslim law is
Sunnat Muwakkida. i.e.,the person, who complies with it, is rewarded in the next
world, and he who does not, commits a sin87. Fitzgerald observes, Although a
religious duty, marriage is emphatically not a sacrament, there are no
sacraments in Islam, nor it is coverture88.
The social conditions of the ancient Arab women in Pre-Islamic Arabia
were no better than that of nimals. They had no legal rights. In youth, they were
the goods and chattels of the father. After marriage, the husband became their
lord and master. Polygamy was universal. Divorce was very easy and female
infanticide was common.
There were no restrictions as to the number of wives by polygamy.
Female slavery and concubinage were common. The prohibited degrees of
relationship were very narrow and were confined only to close degrees existing
at the time when the Islamic laws came into vogue.
Abdur Rahim citing the Kashfu-i-Ghumm, tells us of four types of
Arabian marriages89:
1) Regular form of marriage:
A form of marriage similar to that sanctioned by Islam. A man would ask
the father or guardian of the girl to give the hand of his daughter or ward and
then would marry her by giving her, dower.
2) Sexual intercourse for procuring noble child:
There was a custom that when a man was willing to have a noble child,
he would ask his wife to send for a noble and famous man and have intercourse
with him. The husband would stay away from his wife until the conception by that
86

. Dr. M.U.S. Jang- Dessertation on the Development of Muslim Law in British India, pp.1, 2; cited in
Aquil Ahmad- Mohammedan Law, 21st edn. 2004, p.108, Central Law Agency, Allahabad.
87
. Aquil Ahmad- Mohammedan Law, 23st edn. 2010, p.108, Central Law Agency, Allahabad.
88
. Aquil Ahmad- Mohammedan Law, 21st edn. 2004, p.108, Central Law Agency, Allahabad.
89
. Abdur Rahim- Muhammedan Jurisprudence, quoting Kashfu-i-Ghumm, 1911 edn. p.7; cited in Dr.
Nishi Purohit-The Principles of Mohammedan Law, 2nd edn. 1998, p.5, Orient Publishing co., Allahabad.

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noble man had been taken place. He would only return to her when the
pregnancy had been confirmed.
3) Invitation by a woman to have sexual intercourse:
Less than ten men would be called by a woman to have sexual relations
with her. If conception had taken place and a child was delivered, she had the
right to summon all the men and they were bound to come. She would then say,
O so and so this is your son. This established paternity conclusively and the
man had no right to disclaim it.
4) Prostitution:
Prostitutes were also common. They used to fix at the doors of their tents,
a flag as a sign of their calling. A huge number of men used to visit those
prostitutes. If a woman of this class conceived, those men who frequently used
to visit her would be assembled and the physiognomists would decide to whom
the child belonged. Hence promiscuity was the rule and the sexual unions were
loose which resulted into frequent divorces90.
Few of the conjugal relations described above can be called marriages in
the modern acceptation of the term. It is more appropriate today to consider
them as forms of legalized prostitution or of tribal sexual behaviour recognized
by custom. The second form of marriage mentioned by Abdul Rahim is similar to
the ancient Hindu practice of Niyoga91.
When Islam came into being, the females were given due social status
and they were regarded as dignified members of the society. The prophet was
determined to raise the status of woman. He asked people to see their brides
before marrying them, and taught that nobility of character is the best reason for
marrying a woman. Through Islam, the prophet brought about a reform in the
society.Prophet introduced Nikah through which, the females could be placed on
a footing of perfect equality with males.
90

. Dr. Nishi Purohit-The Principles of Mohammedan Law, 2nd edn. 1998, p.5, Orient Publishing co.,
Allahabad.
91
. Niyoga means the begetting of a son on hire by another on the wife of a man who was either dead or
impotent or disordered in mind or incurably diseased. The begetting must be by the brother of the dead or
impotent person. The son so begotten belonged to the husband of the woman. The custom is obsolete. (K.J.
Ayars Judicial Dictionary, 13th edn.2001, Butterworths India, New Delhi).

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The main object of a Muslim marriage is the preservation of human race.
According to Abdul Rahim: The Mohammedan law has obtained the institution
of marriage, sanctioning thereby sexual relations between two members of the
opposite sexes with a view to the preservation of the human species, the
encouragement of chastity and the promotion of love and union between the
husband and wife and of mutual help in earning livelihood92.
The objects are the promotion of a normal family life and the legalization
of children93.
From these objects, arise the importance of marriage. The prophet
himself gave much significance to this institution. He said: The man who does
not marry is not one of my followers; the married man is more pleasing in the
sight of god than the most pious bachelor.94.
Marriage was instituted for the solace of life and one of the prime or
original necessities of man. It is therefore lawful in extreme old age and after
hope of offspring has ceased and even in the last or death illness95.
Hence the following are the objects of Mohammedan marriage:
1) Legalization of sexual intercourse for the purpose of enjoyment, and
2) Procreation and legitimation of children for the purpose of
a) Preservation of human race.
b) Systematization of domestic and social life.

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92

. Abdur Rahim- Mohammedan Jurisprudence, 1911 edn. p.327; cited in DR. Nishi Purohit- The
Principles of Mohammedan Law, 2nd edn. 1998, p.105, Orient Publishing Company, Allahabad.
93
. A.A.A.Fyzee- Outlines of Muhammedan Law, 1999 edn. p.90, Oxford University Press, New Delhi.
94
. Bokhari 67, 1,3,4,8; cited in DR. Nishi Purohit- The Principles of Mohammedan Law, 2nd edn.,1998,
p.105, Orient Publishing Company, Allahabad.
95
. Fatwa Alamgiri, Baillies Digest, 1, 4; cited in DR. Nishi Purohit- The Principles of Mohammedan Law,
2nd edn. 1998, p.105, Orient Publishing Company, Allahabad.

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