The Essense of Success
The Essense of Success
The Essense of Success
Subroto Bagchi is best known for co-founding MindTree in 1999 where he started as the chief
operating officer. Bagchi, now the vice chairman and gardener of MindTree, has written
extensively in leading newspapers and magazines, and spoken at industry platforms and
educational institutions the world over.
His first book, The High Performance Entrepreneur, was released in 2006, and his second book,
Go Kiss the World, was released in 2008. Mark Tully hailed it as 'a remarkable story of courage,
integrity and enterprise'. His third book, The Professional, was released in September 2009.
Following is the speech he delivered to the Class of 2006 at the Indian Institute of Management,
Bangalore on defining success. Bagchi said it was the first time he had shared the guiding
principles of his life with young professionals. Read on . . .
I was the last child of a small-time government servant, in a family of five brothers. My earliest
memory of my father is as that of a District Employment Officer in Koraput, Orissa.
It was, and remains, as back of beyond as you can imagine. There was no electricity; no primary
school nearby and water did not flow out of a tap. As a result, I did not go to school until the
age of eight; I was home-schooled.
My father used to get transferred every year. The family belongings fit into the back of a jeep --
so the family moved from place to place without any trouble, and my mother would set up an
establishment and get us going. Raised by a widow who had come as a refugee from the then
East Bengal (now Bangladesh), she was a matriculate when she married my father.
My parents set the foundation of my life and the value system, which makes me what I am
today and largely, defines what success means to me today.
As District Employment Officer, my father was given a jeep by the government. There was no
garage in the office, so the jeep was parked in our house. My father refused to use it to
commute to the office. He told us that the jeep is an expensive resource given by the
government -- he reiterated to us that it was not 'his jeep' but the government's.
Insisting that he would use it only to tour the interiors, he would walk to his office on normal
days. He also made sure that we never sat in the government jeep -- we could sit in it only
when it was stationary.
That was our early childhood lesson in governance -- a lesson that corporate managers learn
the hard way, some never do.
The driver of the jeep was treated with respect due to any other member of my father's office.
As small children, we were taught not to call him by his name. We had to use the suffix 'dada'
whenever we were to refer to him in public or private.
When I grew up to own a car and a driver by the name of Raju was appointed -- I repeated the
lesson to my two small daughters. They have, as a result, grown up to call Raju, 'Raju Uncle' -
very different from many of their friends who refer to their family driver, as 'my driver'. When I
hear that term from a school- or college-going person, I cringe.
To me, the lesson was significant -- you treat small people with more respect than how you
treat big people. It is more important to respect your subordinates than your superiors.
Our day used to start with the family huddling around my mother's chulha -- an earthen fire
place she would build at each place of posting where she would cook for the family. There was
neither gas, nor electrical stoves.
The morning routine started with tea. As the brew was served, father would ask us to read
aloud the editorial page of The Statesman's 'muffosil' edition -- delivered one day late.
We did not understand much of what we were reading. But the ritual was meant for us to know
that the world was larger than Koraput district and the English I speak today, despite having
studied in an Oriya medium school, has to do with that routine.
After reading the newspaper aloud, we were told to fold it neatly. Father taught us a simple
lesson.
He used to say, 'You should leave your newspaper and your toilet, the way you expect to find
it.' That lesson was about showing consideration to others. Business begins and ends with that
simple precept.
Being small children, we were always enamored with advertisements in the newspaper for
transistor radios -- we did not have one.
We saw other people having radios in their homes and each time there was an advertisement
of Philips, Murphy or Bush radios, we would ask father when we could get one. Each time, my
father would reply that we did not need one because he already had five radios -- alluding to
his five sons.
We also did not have a house of our own and would occasionally ask father as to when, like
others, we would live in our own house. He would give a similar reply, 'We do not need a house
of our own. I already own five houses.' His replies did not gladden our hearts in that instant.
Nonetheless, we learnt that it is important not to measure personal success and sense of well
being through material possessions.
Government houses seldom came with fences. Mother and I collected twigs and built a small
fence. After lunch, my mother would never sleep. She would take her kitchen utensils and with
those she and I would dig the rocky, white ant infested surrounding.
We planted flowering bushes. The white ants destroyed them. My mother brought ash from
her chulha and mixed it in the earth and we planted the seedlings all over again. This time, they
bloomed.
At that time, my father's transfer order came. A few neighbours told my mother why she was
taking so much pain to beautify a government house, why she was planting seeds that would
only benefit the next occupant.
My mother replied that it did not matter to her that she would not see the flowers in full
bloom. She said, 'I have to create a bloom in a desert and whenever I am given a new place, I
must leave it more beautiful than what I had inherited.'
That was my first lesson in success. It is not about what you create for yourself, it is what you
leave behind that defines success.
My mother began developing a cataract in her eyes when I was very small. At that time, the
eldest among my brothers got a teaching job at the University in Bhubaneswar and had to
prepare for the civil services examination.
So it was decided that my mother would move to cook for him and, as her appendage, I had to
move too.
For the first time in my life I saw electricity in homes and water coming out of a tap. It was
around 1965 and the country was going to war with Pakistan. My mother was having problems
reading and in any case, being Bengali, she did not know the Oriya script.
So, in addition to my daily chores, my job was to read her the local newspaper -- end to end.
That created in me a sense of connectedness with a larger world. I began taking interest in
many different things. While reading out news about the war, I felt that I was fighting the war
myself. She and I discussed the daily news and built a bond with the larger universe.
In it, we became part of a larger reality. Till date, I measure my success in terms of that sense of
larger connectedness. Meanwhile, the war raged and India was fighting on both fronts. Lal
Bahadur Shastri, the then prime minster, coined the term 'Jai Jawan, Jai Kishan' and galvanised
the nation in to patriotic fervour.
Other than reading out the newspaper to my mother, I had no clue about how I could be part of
the action. So after reading her the newspaper, every day I would land up near the university's
water tank, which served the community.
I would spend hours under it, imagining that there could be spies who would come to poison
the water and I had to watch for them. I would daydream about catching one and how the next
day, I would be featured in the newspaper.
Unfortunately for me, the spies at war ignored the sleepy town of Bhubaneswar and I never got
a chance to catch one in action. Yet, that act unlocked my imagination.
Imagination is everything. If we can imagine a future, we can create it, if we can create that
future, others will live in it. That is the essence of success.
Over the next few years, my mother's eyesight dimmed but in me she created a larger vision, a
vision with which I continue to see the world and, I sense, through my eyes, she was seeing too.
As the next few years unfolded, her vision deteriorated and she was operated for cataract. I
remember, when she returned after her operation and she saw my face clearly for the first
time, she was astonished.
She said, 'Oh, my God! I did not know you were so fair.' I remain mighty pleased with that
adulation even till date.
Within weeks of getting her sight back, she developed a corneal ulcer and, overnight, became
blind in both eyes. That was 1969. She died in 2002. In all those 32 years of living with
blindness, she never complained about her fate even once.
Curious to know what she saw with blind eyes, I asked her once if she sees darkness. She
replied, 'No, I do not see darkness. I only see light even with my eyes closed.' Until she was
eighty years of age, she did her morning yoga everyday, swept her own room and washed her
own clothes.
To me, success is about the sense of independence; it is about not seeing the world but seeing
the light.
Over the many intervening years, I grew up, studied, joined the industry and began to carve my
life's own journey.
In 1992, while I was posted in the United States, I learnt that my father, living a retired life with
my eldest brother, had suffered a third degree burn injury and was admitted in the Safdarjung
Hospital in Delhi. I flew back to attend to him -- he remained for a few days in critical stage,
bandaged from neck to toe.
The Safdarjung Hospital is a cockroach infested, dirty, inhuman place. The overworked, under-
resourced sisters in the burn ward are both victims and perpetrators of dehumanized life at its
worst.
One morning, while attending to my father, I realised that the blood bottle was empty and
fearing that air would go into his vein, I asked the attending nurse to change it.
She bluntly told me to do it myself. In that horrible theatre of death, I was in pain and
frustration and anger. Finally when she relented and came, my Father opened his eyes and
murmured to her, 'Why have you not gone home yet?'
Here was a man on his deathbed but more concerned about the overworked nurse than his
own state. I was stunned at his stoic self.
There I learnt that there is no limit to how concerned you can be for another human being and
what the limit of inclusion is you can create.
My father died the next day. He was a man whose success was defined by his principles, his
frugality, his universalism and his sense of inclusion.
Above all, he taught me that success is your ability to rise above your discomfort, whatever may
be your current state.
You can, if you want, raise your consciousness above your immediate surroundings. Success is
not about building material comforts -- the transistor that he never could buy or the house that
he never owned.
His success was about the legacy he left, the memetic continuity of his ideals that grew beyond
the smallness of a ill-paid, unrecognised government servant's world.
My father was a fervent believer in the British Raj. He sincerely doubted the capability of the
post-Independence Indian political parties to govern the country. To him, the lowering of the
Union Jack was a sad event.
My mother was the exact opposite. When Subhash Bose quit the Indian National Congress and
came to Dacca, my mother, then a schoolgirl, garlanded him. She learnt to spin khadi and
joined an underground movement that trained her in using daggers and swords.
Consequently, our household saw diversity in the political outlook of the two. On major issues
concerning the world, the Old Man and the Old Lady had differing opinions.
In them, we learnt the power of disagreements, of dialogue and the essence of living with
diversity in thinking.
Success is not about the ability to create a definitive dogmatic end state; it is about the
unfolding of thought processes, of dialogue and continuum
Two years back, at the age of eighty-two, mother had a paralytic stroke and was lying in a
government hospital in Bhubaneswar.
I flew down from the US where I was serving my second stint, to see her. I spent two weeks
with her in the hospital as she remained in a paralytic state. She was neither getting better nor
moving on.
Eventually I had to return to work. While leaving her behind, I kissed her face. In that paralytic
state and a garbled voice, she said, 'Why are you kissing me, go kiss the world.'
Her river was nearing its journey, at the confluence of life and death, this woman who came to
India as a refugee, raised by a widowed mother, no more educated than high school, married to
an anonymous government servant whose last salary was Rs 300, robbed of her eyesight by
fate and crowned by adversity was telling me to go and kiss the world!
Success to me is about vision. It is the ability to rise above the immediacy of pain. It is about
imagination. It is about sensitivity to small people. It is about building inclusion. It is about
connectedness to a larger world existence. It is about personal tenacity. It is about giving back
more to life than you take out of it. It is about creating extraordinary success with ordinary
lives.
Thank you very much; I wish you good luck and God's speed. Go, kiss the world!