Lesson 3: Maintaining Desirable Family Values and Harmonious Relationship

The document discusses desirable Filipino family values such as honor, respect, education, strong family ties, and gratitude that should be preserved to maintain harmonious relationships. It outlines the rights, duties, and responsibilities of parents and children, including providing support, moral guidance, affection, and developing each child's potential. Strategies to strengthen family relationships include cooperation, communication, trust, responsibility, consideration, loyalty, caring, and commitment.

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Maintaining Desirable Family

LESSON 3 values and Harmonious

Relationship
Objectives: At the end of lesson, the learners should be able to:
1. enumerate desirable Filipino family values which should be preserved and observed by
family members.
2. value the importance of maintaining the harmonious relationship of the family
3. explain the rights, duties and responsibilities of responsible parents to their children,
and responsible children to their parents.

Introduction
Examine your family pictures. What do you see? Family pictures always portray family
members getting along smoothly. See the smiles on their faces. Doesn’t this ask you to smile,
too? But behind the picture are families always in smiles. However, there are moments of
sadness and laughter as in other families. These are the times when families bond. What binds
them together? Is there any particular formula? There are some beliefs, ideals or practices
considered important by an individual who guides his decisions and his every life.
Values are beliefs, ideals or practices considered important by an individual who guides
his decisions and his very life. The Filipino home is the first school of life. It provides the
environment where family members learn universal truths, cultural values and traditions
essential to the development of a responsible citizenry. Parents are the best examples of
sound values for the children to emulate such as getting along with others, respectfulness,

There are values which are distinctly Filipino

values, as follows:

1. Honor and 2. Honor and Respect for

Parents and Elders 3. The Value of Education
Respect for God

5. Debt of Gratitude 6.Word of Honor (Palabra

4. Strong Family Ties
(Utang na Loob) de Honor)

COOPERATION

GOOD
COMMUNICATION LOYALTY

TRUST
Strategies that strengthen the CARING
family relationship

RESPONSIBILITY COMMITMENT

. CONSIDERATION
AND RESPECT
1. Cooperation promotes sharing in order to get things done. It also means giving up
something you want for yourself when someone else’s need is more urgent.
Cooperation fosters family unity.

2. Communication builds understanding and the feeling of being safe. It is as simple

as talking and listening. When expressing yourself, you listen in return. Communication is not
always expressed in words; it could also be expressed through non-verbal means such as a hug or
a simple smile

3. Trust builds one’s self-confidence and sense of security. When you tell one another
about everyday things, then, more serious matters will be easier to share.

4. Responsibility makes people become more dependable and able to keep their
promises. Knowing how to make choices between what is right and what is wrong
and taking full responsibility for your choice makes you a responsible family member.

5. Consideration and respect develop feelings of self-worth and thoughtfulness.

Consideration means thinking of and considering the feelings and rights of others.
Respect is showing regard for others, whether they are elders or persons of authority.

6. Loyalty gives one a feeling of belonging and trust. As your family grows, each
member comes to trust and believe in others. You know you can depend on one
another whenever needed.

7. Caring shows people that they are loved. It is a quality that keeps family members
feeling good about them. When you feel good about yourself you have self-esteem. When you
feel sad when a person is sad or happy when a person has had good luck, you have sympathy. If
you can imagine yourself in the person’s place, you
have empathy.

8. Commitment is accepting and sharing not only the happiness but also the
difficulties of the family.

9. Companionship makes you find time to be with the family. Good family
relationships do not develop instantly. It needs much effort and time. Talking, listening,
cooperating, trusting and caring are important aspects in maintaining harmonious family
relationships.
The duties and rights of parents and children are provided in the Civil Code of the
Philippines, the Child and Youth Welfare Code (Presidential Decree 603), and the Family
Code of the Philippines. The content of these laws is the essence of responsible
parenthood

Article 46 of the Philippine Constitution gives the general duties of

parents in regard to their children:

1. To give them affection, companionship and understanding;

2. To extend to them the benefits of moral guidance, self-discipline, and religious institution;
3. To supervise their activities, including their recreation;
4. To inculcate in them the value of industry, thrift and self-reliance;
5. To stimulate their interest in civic affairs, teach them the duties of citizenship and
develop commitment to their country;
6. To advise them properly on matters affecting their development and well-being;
7. To provide them adequate support; and
8. To administer property, if any, according to their best interests, subject to the provisions of
Article 320 of the Civil Code.

The Philippine Family Code also enumerates the

responsibilities of a child as follows:

1. Strive to lead an upright and virtuous life in accordance with the trusts of his religion, the
teachings of his elders and teachers, and the building of a clean conscience.
2. Love, respect, and obey his parents and cooperate with them in the strengthening of the
family.
3. Extend to his brothers and sisters his love, thoughtfulness and helpfulness, and
endeavor with them to keep the family harmonious and united.
4. Extend his utmost to develop his potentialities for service, particularly by undergoing
education guided by his abilities, in order that he may become an asset to himself and to society.
5. Respect not only his elders but also the customs and traditions of our people, the
memory of our heroes, the duly constituted authorities, the laws of our own country
and the principles and institutions and democracy.
6. Participate actively in civic affairs and in the promotion of the general welfare.

Video Presentation: 8 Tips for Harmonious Relationships

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B3kHvXUh9kw&t=135s
On a piece of bond paper, make a collage of desirable values observed in your
family. Be as creative as possible. Write reflection about your output. Below are
suggestions of what you may include to complete the collage.
1. Quotations
2. symbolic objects
3. pictures
4. poems
5. cut-outs from magazines
6. songs