10 Signs of A Cheating Spouse
10 Signs of A Cheating Spouse
10 Signs of A Cheating Spouse
Do you suspect that your husband or wife is cheating on you? If you think that your
spouse is cheating, you may be looking for confirmation. Before you take steps to start
spying on your spouse or before you decide to hire the services of a costly private
investigator, read the signs below to see if your spouse may truly be cheating on you.
Men and women who cheat often want to impress or entice the individual they are having
inappropriate relations with. When doing so, they often change or improve their
appearance. If your spouse starts paying more attention to their weight or buys new
clothes, they may be having an affair.
Until you recently started noticing a problem, how was your communication with your
spouse? If your spouse has recently stopped talking to you or distanced themselves from
you at home, there is a good chance that they may be cheating on you. This is because
they may be afraid of making a mistake and talking about their affair or they may already
be discussing their problems with someone else.
Depending on your spouse and his or her career, they really may have to work late. With
that said, be on the lookout for changes and use your best judgment. Has your husband
or wife all of a sudden started working late? In terms of using your best judgment, know
what careers often call for late nights, such as lawyers, doctors, and so forth.
Spending time with friends does not always signal a cheater. In fact, healthy
relationships also depend on healthy outside friendships. With that said, be sure to use
your best judgment. Look for the appearance of new friends or an increased amount of
time. Has your husband or wife gone from spending one night a week with friends to
three or more?
When you are married, there is never really any reason why you shouldn’t know where
your spouse is, especially late at night or for long periods of time. If you do not know,
chances are your spouse is cheating. When they arrive home, they better have a good
reason for being late or not letting you know where they were.
7 – No Sex
Has your relationship recently become sex-free or has the sex that you do have decreased
in intensity and in frequency. If so, there is a good chance that your spouse is cheating on
you. Men and women who get sex elsewhere don’t always need to have it again when
they return home.
In today’s society, cheating is a major concern. If your spouse accuses you of cheating,
have you been displaying behavior that may lead them to that conclusion? If you
haven’t, there is a good chance that they are accusing you of cheating to make themselves
feel less guilty.
The “just friends,” phrase is a big sign of a cheater. As with all other friendships, it is
important to use your best judgment. If the friend of the opposite sex and are they are a
newly acquired friend? If so, something may be up.
10 – A Bad Feeling
Bad feelings are not something that should be easily dismissed. If you have reason to
believe that your husband or wife is cheating, they may be. If you do not want to be in a
relationship with a cheater, it is important for you to follow your heart. Take additional
steps to see if they are truly cheating. These steps may involve hiring a private
investigator or spying.
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