What Is The Me Too Movement
What Is The Me Too Movement
What Is The Me Too Movement
During the early years, Tarana Burke, an American social activist, began to use the
phrase “me too” on the social networking platform Myspace to highlight the
occurrence of sexual harassment, particularly as it targeted women of color.
Burke argues that the Me Too movement works on empowerment through
empathy by showing the world just how common sexual harassment is and by
telling survivors that they aren’t alone — and are supported.
In 2017, actress Alyssa Milano magnified Burke’s rallying cry, turning it into the
popular #MeToo, which continues to trend on social media platforms like Twitter
and Instagram.
Milano’s actions came in response to a number of women in Hollywood opening up
about their own experiences, many involving sexual harassment at the hands of
well-known film producer Harvey Weinstein.
Although Weinstein’s accusers helped to start the movement, and Milano’s use of
Burke’s phrase may have been a powerful catalyst. Today, the movement is still a
source of solidarity for victims of sexual harassment. The fact that tweets and
Instagram posts bearing the hashtag #MeToo are still posted daily serves as a
reminder of just how widespread sexual violence still is.
Violence by men against women exists in the workplace, as it does in other settings.�
Some scholars, such as Susan Faludi, the author of Backlash: The Undeclared War
Against American Women, suggest that male hostility toward women in the workplace
is closely connected to male attitudes about the �proper role of a man in society.�
Surveys on men�s perception of masculinity, carried out in the U.S., for example,
indicate that the leading definition of masculinity is being �a good provider for his
family.�� Ms. Faludi concludes that some men perceive the �feminist drive for
economic equality� as a threat to their traditional role.� Thus, sexual harassment is
a form of violence perceived as self-protection.
The problem of sexual harassment relates to the roles which are attributed to men and
women in social and economic life, which, in turn, directly or indirectly, affects
women�s positions in the labor market.
Despite impediments women face in obtaining employment, there has been a massive
influx of women into the labor force in the 1960s and 1970s, not only in the U.S., but
on a global scale.� Women's entry into the workforce has been prompted by
necessity, since many families cannot make ends meet if the wife and husband do not
both work full-time.�
The second reaction was to exploit the presence of women and make sexual favors
and submission to sexual behaviors conditions of employment, that is to keep from
being fired, demoted, or otherwise adversely affected at work.� Both are forms of
sexual harassment.
Discrimination as a Form Of Workplace Control
Catherine MacKinnon, author of Sexual Harassment of Working Women, was the first
legal scholar to draw attention to the connection between sex discrimination and
sexual harassment:
... [W]omen tend to be in low-ranking positions, dependant upon the approval
and goodwill of male [superiors] for hiring, retention and advancement. Being
at the mercy of male superiors adds direct economic clout to male secual
demands.... It also deprives women of material security and independence which
could help make resistance to unreasonable job pressures practical ...
... [S]exual harassment of women can occur largely because women occupy
inferior job positions and job roles; at the same time, sexual harassment
works to keep women in such positions.
The legislation, however, has been criticised. Activists have said the law does not go far
enough in dealing with sexual harassment, a complaint the government has been
cognisant of with plans to tighten the legislation. Monica Sakhrani, of the Tata Institute
of Social Sciences, points out the inadequacies, asserting in Economics & Political
Weekly (EPW) that the Act “restricts the rights of women, dilutes the due process rights,
and reduces the liability of employers.” Issues ranging from a needlessly restrictive
statute of limitations, necessitating that a complaint be filed three to six months after a
transgression has taken place, to “a huge gap in laying down the manner of conducting
the inquiry” are among the manifold problems Sakhrani flags.
As such, despite efforts to tackle the problem, sexual harassment persists throughout
India, a country once described as the most dangerous country in the world to be a
woman. “India has shown utter disregard and disrespect for women … rape, marital
rapes, sexual assault and harassment, female infanticide has gone
unabated,” Manjunath Gangadhara, an Karnata state government official, said at the
time. “The [world’s] fastest growing economy and leader in space and technology is
shamed for violence committed against women.”
The recent case of a newborn girl buried alive served as a reminder of the sex
discrimination plaguing the country, which is missing 63 million girls and women thanks
to endemic sex-selective abortion (even though the practice is illegal in India) and
postnatal gender discrimination which leads to the deaths of 239,000 girls under the age
of five each year.
The risk of violence and harassment in the workplace contributes to a dearth of female
participation in the labour force in India, at considerable cost to the economy and to
India’s socioeconomic development. Without addressing both sexual harassment and
violence and the issues which allow for it to proliferate throughout the country, India will
continue to see its socioeconomic development held back – and the safety and welfare
of its girls and women
compromised.
A feeling of being isolated and alone and out of touch with the rest of
the world.
A belief that no one understands what they are experiencing.
Confusion or an inability to think clearly or to concentrate.
Physical symptoms such as headaches, nausea, stomach aches,
loss of appetite, fatigue.
Changes in sleeping patterns and experiencing nightmares.
A feeling of being dirty.
A sense of grief and loss.
Emotional reactions such as shame, guilt, anger, rage, fear.
Not being able to stop thinking about the assault.
Feeling responsible for the assault.
A change in the way they feel about sex.
An unwillingness to be touched by anyone.
Difficulty in trusting others.
Feeling unsafe when alone.
Feeling nervous and anxious.
A lack of self-confidence.
believing them
listening and allowing them the opportunity to talk about the event in
their own time and in their own way
not judging them
spending time with them
allowing them some private time
reassuring them they are safe
allowing them the opportunity to express their feelings
not taking the person’s anger and feelings personally
helping with some tasks such as minding the children or cooking, if
this is what they want
not saying things such as ‘lucky it wasn’t worse’ – people who have
experienced a trauma are not consoled by these statements.
Toolkits for help
Navigating the Legal Process of Reporting Sexual
Violence
The decision to report a sexual assault can be extremely intimidating, but it is
also a critically important step to ensuring justice is served and preventing the
incident from reoccurring. However, the decision to report is a personal choice.
You should not feel pressured or coerced into filing a claim. If you decide to
report a sexual assault some steps can be taken to maximize your privacy and to
ensure that your claim is given the seriousness and professionalism it deserves.
Here is what you need to know:
https://metoomvmt.org/explore-healing/healing-toolkits/navigating-the-legal-
process-of-reporting-sexual-violence/
The purpose of this toolkit is to highlight, encourage, and guide men and
masculine people on issues of male privilege, sexual violence, and consent to
help create communities free of sexual violence and harm.
https://metoomvmt.org/explore-healing/healing-toolkits/masculinity-male-
privilege-consent-toolkit/
For individuals who have experienced or know someone who has experienced
sexual assault, this toolkit provides question prompts and tips for deciding who to
disclose to, and how.
https://metoomvmt.org/explore-healing/healing-toolkits/who-do-i-tell-how-do-i-
tell-toolkit/
https://metoomvmt.org/explore-healing/healing-toolkits/coping-with-triggers/
Sources –
1. https://metoomvmt.org/explore-healing/healing-toolkits/
2. https://www.hrw.org/report/2020/10/14/no-metoo-women-us/poor-
enforcement-indias-sexual-harassment-law
3. https://www.hrw.org/report/2020/10/14/no-metoo-women-us/poor-
enforcement-indias-sexual-harassment-law
4. https://www.localcircles.com/a/press/page/metoo-sexual-harassment-in-
india#.YJQqNLUzaUk