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(Ebook) - Sex - David Deangelo - How To Lose A Girl Fast
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I'm going to suggest that you are probably already an EXPERT in LOSING a girl.
But the PROBLEM is that most guys don't UNDERSTAND why they're so good at LOSING
women.
In other words, they walk through the world screwing up one situation after
another, and never realize JUST HOW GOOD they are at being bad with women.
And they don't realize that by just changing a few key things they could change
their level of success DRAMATICALLY.
One great way to increase your success in life is to start REALIZING what you're
doing. Once you actually understand what you're doing and the results you're
triggering, you can CHANGE.
As you've probably heard me say about a million times, MEN ARE PREDICTABLE.
We all do basically the same things when we get into common situations with
women... but we don't even realize it.
In our desire to be "original" and "unique", us guys tend to do the SAME THINGS!
Said differently, while you're doing something that seems thoughtful and original,
the attractive woman on the other end is thinking "He's just like all the other
guys".
Ouch.
Predictable = BORING.
Boring = NO EMOTIONS.
No Emotions = NO ATTRACTION.
Another huge mistake men make is GIVING AWAY OUR POWER to women.
I'm not going to go into it, but the reality is that women are NOT attracted to
WEAK men. And I'm not talking about muscles here.
If you act like a Wuss, you are shooting yourself in the foot.
Here are a few examples of how us guys act PREDICTABLE, give away our power, and
make about
147 other huge mistakes with women we've just met:
If you like someone, it's logical that you're going to want to let them know,
right?
Well, only if you like the idea of coming across like a total Jack-Wuss. I just
made that up, by the way. Combination of Jackass and Wuss. Not sure if I like it,
but I'm going to go with it.
Where was I?
Calling all the time is usually triggered by INSECURITY and NEEDINESS. It sounds
like a good idea, but it almost NEVER is.
A great way to lose a girl before you even have her. We might call this one
"Have Prevention" even.
What do most guys do when they meet a girl that they "really" like?
Well, they call her up, and they get into a boring conversation about schools
and families and jobs and 100 other painfully boring things... and when they
finally realize that they've been on the phone for an hour, they realize that
they'd better do SOMETHING soon... because she's starting to talk about having to
go wash her dog...
They think to themselves "Self, you'd better get up some nerve and ask her out.
Hey! Self! I have a GREAT idea. Ask her to go out with you to a REALLY NICE place.
She'll be far more likely to want to do that, and besides, then she'll know that
you REALLY like her...".
That you have the confidence to just ask her to spend time with you for NO
REASON other than the fact that you want to... and that you must not be WORTH
spending time with - without some kind of "meal incentive".
Well, this is one more example of something that "sounds good" in the moment,
but is BAD BAD BAD for business.
What's better than a nice, thoughtful guy showing up at the door with flowers
and candy for the first date?
Well, to quote an old Saturday Night Live episode, "Throwing an entire box of
thumb tacks on the floor, and rolling around in them naked".
Or maybe taking one of those... you know...SERRATED KNIVES... yea, that's it...
and putting it between your big toe and second toe and slicing back and forth
really fast... and then pouring... you know... HOT SAUCE... yea, that's it... on
the wound!
But we men do this kind of thing all the time... because it sure sounds good in
the moment.
By the way, don't try the thumb tack thing or the hot sauce thing UNLESS you're
considering purchasing flowers and candy to bring to a first date. In that case,
please take these measures to prevent yourself from acting on the uncontrollable
urges.
If you come on too strong, you appear just like every other predictable Wussyboy
that has ever tried to make himself look better by giving gifts and food and favors
in exchange for attention and approval.
I'm starting to think that us guys must come stock with a mechanism that
actually compels us to open our BIG FAT MOUTHS and screw things up with only the
BEST women.
I've talked to A LOT of attractive women in my life. And they all have one
similar experience to share...
For some UNKNOWN and UNGODLY reason, men just seem to LOVE telling SUPER HOT
women how they FEEL within the first couple of dates.
And I also get a lot of emails from men, as you might realize.
One of the common emails I get goes a little something like this:
"David, I met this unbelievably hot girl... she's smart, interesting, successful...
everything seemed to be going well... so I decided to tell her how I felt... and
for some reason she said that she needs some "space" and some "time to be alone"...
I don't get it..."
Again, when you do this you're making all kinds of huge mistakes... and
basically doing everything you can to LOSE her.
5) Keep Telling Her How You Feel When She Needs Space
And if the last example wasn't painful enough, most guys usually like to use
this final "nail in the coffin" technique as well...
You've met a girl you really like. Maybe you've gone out with her a few times.
Doesn't matter.
You do all the things you can think of to SCREW IT UP, and you finally succeed.
You prove to her that you just don't get it, and you don't know how to handle a
woman like her.
So she says "I need some space" or "I need some time to myself".
The thought most guys have is "If she only understood how I REALLY FEEL ABOUT
HER, then she would LOVE ME".
Part of the magic formula for losing a girl fast. Interesting, isn't it?
If you don't understand the process of how to make women feel ATTRACTION for
you, including the things to AVOID doing, then you're not going to have success.
Not knowing the rules of a game makes it very difficult (or impossible) to win.
And, unfortunately, us guys have a HUGE disadvantage when it comes to women and
dating...
We have emotional responses to situations that take over our "thinking", and
make us do all the wrong things.
If you found this particular discussion interesting, then you're probably read
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Your Friend,
David D.