Understanding The Self (Prelims Handout) : 1 Semester - ASC Academics Committee - A.Y. 2018-2019
Understanding The Self (Prelims Handout) : 1 Semester - ASC Academics Committee - A.Y. 2018-2019
Understanding The Self (Prelims Handout) : 1 Semester - ASC Academics Committee - A.Y. 2018-2019
Start of Self
The origin of one’s self start when a man and a The Ego
woman become attracted to one another and Product of your choice made possible by your
have sexual relationship and later on the ego
woman got pregnant Whatever you have done or product you
When she gives birth to a child that is the start produce it is always subject for evaluation
of the development of the self of the newly Product of your choice made possible by your
born person. ego
Social Self Carl Rogers believed that for a person to
Pride and guilt= conscience achieve self-actualization they must be in a
state of congruence.
Functionalism – William James What is commonly referred to as self is not just
Functionalism is a theory about the nature of a consequence of inherited disposition but is
mental states. substantially created and modified by our
According to functionalists, mental states are interactions with those around us.
identified by what they do rather than by what
they are made of. Self-defined by social comparison (Festinger, 1954)
Depending on the level of someone’s
Wiliam James Theory motivation, he may have the tendency to
According to James's pragmatism, the value of compare himself with others either in an
an idea is dependent upon its usefulness in the upward or downward kind of comparison.
practical world rather than its absolute truth. Festinger’s theory states that an upward
comparison happens when the person
Functionalism compares himself with others who are better
Focused on the operation of conscious activity than him while downward comparison happens
o Example: thinking and learning when he compares himself with others who are
Study of man’s adjustment to his environment worse than him.
o Materials
o Capacities Social Comparison
o Skills People make 2 types of comparison -Festinger
o Temporal Comparison
THE SELF AS A COGNITIVE CONSTRUCTION
Self - concept
Mental representation
o what we look like
o How we feel in different types of
situation
o How we behave towards others
o What do we do at work
o What are the roles we have in the family
or society o Social Comparison
Imaginary Audience
Adolescents are thought to believe that others
are always watching and evaluating them, and
that they are special and unique
“Learn how to see. Realize that everything connects to everything else.” – Leonardo da Vinci Physical Self/Body is an initial
"I am not who I think I am. I am not who you think I am. I am who I think you think I am." William James source of sensation and
necessary for the origin and
Physical Self ‐ is the concrete dimension, the tangible aspect of the person that can be directly maintenance of personality.
observed and examined.
In Psychoanalytical school,
o How they view themselves Sigmund Freud Sigmund Freud's construction
o How they view others of self and personality makes
o How they think others view them the physical body the core of
human experience.
The sociology of the body become an established discipline in the 1990’s. (Every body has something to say)
The obsession to have a beautiful face & body:
The role of bodily organs is
Eating disorder such as:
especially important in early
o Anorexia Nervosa - an eating disorder characterized by low weight, fear of gaining weight,
developmental stages of a
and a strong desire to be thin, resulting in food restriction.
person’s life.
o Bulimia - An eating disorder characterized by episodes of secretive excessive eating
Later in life, the development of
(binge-eating) followed by inappropriate methods of weight control, such as self-induced Erik Erikson physical as well as intellectual
vomiting (purging), abuse of laxatives and diuretics, or excessive exercise.
skills help determine whether the
The demand for cosmetic surgery and skin whiteners individual will achieve a sense of
competence and ability to choose
Body Dysmorphic Disorder demanding roles in a complex
a psychological disorder in which a person becomes obsessed with imaginary defects in their society. (As the body develops it
appearance. helps us accomplish certain tasks)
Body Shamming
Many people especially women spend tremendous expenditure of time, effort and money to alter Coined the term “somatic
their appearances to resemble an ideal image. Bryan Turner society” (1980s) which means
In the past, Barbie was the ideal girl of women. the new found importance of
the body in contemporary
We are NOT our bodies. We live in our bodies, but our bodies do not make up WHO we are. society.
PART 2: MY SEXUAL SELF
Sexual Diversity: Gender refers to the attitudes, feelings, and behaviors that a given culture
Heterosexuality – opposite sex associates with a person’s biological sex.
Homosexuality – same sex
Behavior that is compatible with cultural expectations is referred to as
Bisexuality – both sexes gender - normative; behaviors that are viewed as incompatible with these
Transgender expectations constitute gender non-conformity.
Cisgender Transgender
An adjective used to describe a person whose gender identity and gender An adjective that is an umbrella term used to describe the full range of people
expression align with sex assigned at birth; a person who is not TGNC. whose gender identity and/or gender role do not conform to what is
(Transgender/Gender Non-Conforming) typically associated with their sex assigned at birth. While the term
“transgender” is commonly accepted, not all TGNC people self - identify as
Cisgender replaces the terms "nontransgender" or "bio man/bio woman" to
transgender.
refer to individuals who have a match between the gender they were assigned Incorporates differences in gender identity wherein one's assigned biological
at birth, their bodies and their gender identity. sex doesn't match their felt identity.
Includes persons who do not feel they fit into a dichotomous sex structure
Sexually Transmitted Diseases: through which they are identified as male or female. Individuals in this
Most common STD in the Philippines category may feel as if they are in the wrong gender, but this perception may
Health Education on STD or may not correlate with a desire for surgical or hormonal reassignment.
PART 3: THE MATERIAL SELF
“A man’s self is the sum total of all that he can call his, not only his
Shaping the way we see ourselves: The role of consumer culture on our sense of body and his psychic powers, but his clothes and his house, his wife
self and identity and children, his ancestors and friends, his reputation and works,
William his lands and horses, and yacht and bank-account. All these things
MATERIAL SELF - refers to tangible objects, people, or places that carry
James give him the same emotions. If they wax and prosper, he feels
the designation my or mine.
o Bodily and Extended Self/Possessions triumphant; if they dwindle and die away, he feels cast down,—not
necessarily in the same degree for each thing, but in much the same
Materialism - The importance a consumer attaches to worldly possession way for all.”
For example: A teenager who has just purchased his snowboard, the youthful, extreme sports image of snowboarding may
soon fade as more people over 40 take up the sport.
- Pets have become parts of the extended self. Pets belong to the top 5 possessions.
Pets as Extensions/Symbols of the Self
- Positive relationship between self-esteem and owning pets
- The dog as “co-therapist”
Religion–an organized system of ideas about the spiritual or supernatural realm,that is accompanied by rituals. Through rituals, people attempt to influence
things that they think are beyond their control.
Spirituality–also concerns an aspect of the divine and supernatural but is often times limited to the individual, with no need for any formal organization.
This is the search for meaning and direction in life and the ways
The two are related –Although not separate from one another, spirituality is much more profound than religion.
Religion –Myths Religion ‐Rituals
2 types of ritual
These are stories that have explanations about the divine and the Religions have rituals/ritu.
o According to the Calendar (Calendric)
supernatural. What ever is done repeatedly.
o Based on crisis
Within a culturally, myths are considered real.
This is accompanied by ideology and a worldview
Types of Prayers (Dasal o Panalangin) Spanish Encounters with the Beliefs and Rituals of our Ancestors
o Fasting (Pag‐aayuno) ANITISM
o Healing (Panggagamot) - Belief that nature derives energy from spirits that are separate and distinct from human beings/bodies.
o Offering (Pag‐aalay) These spirits dwell in people, animals, stones, rivers, tree and others.
o “Panalanging walang patid” - Prevail over people who do not regard themselves as superior over nature.
o Meditation
ANIMATISM
o Attending mass (Pagmimisa)
- impersonal power on earth, which has no concerns about what happens to people
o Praying a novena (Pagnonobena)
o Praying the rosary (Pagrorosaryo) DEITISM
o Carrying the Cross (Pagpasan ng krus) - has concern and compassionate care for people
o Curifixion(Pagpapako sa krus)
3 types
Anthropomorphic (shape that appears humanlike)
Zoomorphic (shape that appears animallike)
Biomorphic (shape that is similar to plants and others)
Renewal of Faith as one Ages: Life Span (Fowler, 1981) The Importance of Transition Stage
2. Deed, Act or Work – finding fulfilment and/or being passionate about one’s work/deed
3. Suffering – through rumination/contemplation, we get to have a deeper sense of our self and experiences.
Political Self – an increasing awareness of the deeply dysfunctional and divisive nature of many of our traditional political and economic institutions
CYBERPSYCHOLOGY CYBERPSYCHOLOGY
New field within applied psychology Mainly focused in the world wide web specifically Social Media
Branch of psychology that examines: Other technologies involved:
- how we interact with others using technology - Online and offline gaming such as video games
- how our behaviour is influenced by technology - Mobile computing
- how technology can be developed to best suit our needs - Artificial intelligence
- how our psychological states can be affected by technologies - Virtual reality
- Augmented reality
Selectively ‐ self presenting or editing messages to reveal socially - Setting Boundaries to your online self: Smart Sharing
desirable attitudes and dimensions of the self
Guide Questions to consider before posting:
o Is this post/story necessary?
The role of anonymity in impression management o Is there a real benefit to this post – is it funny, warm‐hearted, teachable – or
6 different types of Privacy (Pederson, 1979): am I just making noise online without purpose?
Reserve o Have we (as a family or parent/child) resolved this issue?
Isolation o An issue still being worked out in the home, or one that is either vulnerable
Intimacy with family or highly emotional, should not be made public.
Intimacy with friends o Is it appropriate? Does it stay within the boundaries of our family values?
Solitude Will this seem as funny in 5, 10, or 15 years? Or is this post better suited for sharing
with a small group of family members? Or maybe not at all?
Anonymity
ANONYMITY Guidelines for proper sharing of information and using the internet:
Stick to safer sites
Positive effect in the role of privacy or the amount of contact that
someone has with others Guard your passwords
Limit what you share
Negative effect – increased aggression and anti‐social behaviour
Remember that anything you put online or post on a site remains forever,
Autonomy ‐ where people can try out new behaviors without fear of even if you try to delete it.
social consequences Do not mean or embarrass other people online
Be choosy about your online friends
Be patient
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