XXX, CASE No. - FOR: Declaration of Nullity of
XXX, CASE No. - FOR: Declaration of Nullity of
XXX, CASE No. - FOR: Declaration of Nullity of
xxx,
Petitioner, CASE No. _______
Family Code
xxx,
Respondent
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PETITION
3.1 That out of their marriage Petitioner and respondent bore two
children – xx, both minors whose Certificates of Live Birth are hereto
attached as ANNEX “E” and “F”, respectively.
3.2 The parties during their marriage, were able to buy a second
hand vehicle (Toyota Pick-up) with a value of ONE HUNDRED
THOUSAND PESOS (P100,000.00) and no other properties between them.
However, the parties have not incur any outstanding indebtedness. Hereto
attached is a copy of the Certificate of Registration and Official Receipt of
the said vehicle as ANNEX “G Series”and all made an integral part of this
petition.
12. However, it was not all romance and roses at that time. While the
respondent is away, Petitioner developed anxiety in 2002. He had been
having anxiety symptoms and paranoia before as a result of having sexual
intercourse with a prostitute. He always had the thought that he was inflicted
with AIDS and the paranoia got the better of him that he would often had
thoughts and dreams of dying because of AIDS;
13. Now, petitioner, in his desire to lead a normal life and thinking
that he would not find another woman who would accept his flaws like the
respondent, decided to take the impulsive relationship to the next level. He
also thought of his future – that he would find greener pastures in the United
States of America and with marrying respondent, petitioner can easily
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14. Thus, less than year after they have first laid eyes on each other,
respondent came back to the Philippines and wed herein petitioner before the
members of their congregation (Church of God). As borne by the events,
prior to and during their marriage, the parties’ decision to get married was
not a product of a long and laborious planning and consideration because
they never got to seriously know each other, as in fact, they had been in
boyfriend and girlfriend relationship for only a few months and eventually
decided to get married. Truth to tell, petitioner and respondent hardly knew
each other on a mature level. Petitioner was never prepared emotionally and
psychologically to enter into a lifetime commitment of mutual respect,
support and love for each other. He only married the respondent for
convenience and to fulfill his desire to migrate to the US;
16. But four (4) months prior to the departure, the petitioner happened
to bump into his ex-girlfriend. Petitioner suddenly forgot that he has a wife
and their first meeting were followed by more clandestine meet ups and
dates. Petitioner and his ex-girlfriend had a healthy sexual relationship
unbeknownst to his wife;
18. Three (3) years into their marriage, the couple had a baby boy.
Petitioner thought that this would fill the void and emptiness he was feeling
but he was wrong. His family was not enough and he craved for more.
Shortly, he became involved again with another woman (a friend from the
Philippines) who was already married and had also migrated to the United
States. He would court and woo the said woman through chats and as usual
he would found happiness through his computer. He was also at the same
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19. Petitioner was also involved with different woman who would
seem to temporarily fill in the void he was feeling but still he would feel
depress and anxious. Petitioner also was not able to hold on to a job and
would continuously hop from one job to another, as he could not get along
with his workmates.He also felt he had no goals to achieved for him and his
family. At that time, the respondent was the one who was primarily the one
who pay all their bills and put food on the table. In 2006, he was diagnosed
again with Depression and Anxiety and was taking anti-depressant
medications;
20. In 2008, the couple had another child, this time a baby girl.
Petitioner then promised that he would straighten his acts and cut off his
communication with other woman. For a while, everything was okay. But
when he came back for a short visit here in the Philippines in 2010,
petitioner went back to his old philandering ways;
21. He again had an illicit affair with his ex-girlfriend and other
women before returning back to the United States;
23. His only solace was his computer where he could have his illicit
affairs with women through chats and emails. His computer became his
lifeline to his imaginary world where he could become whatever he wants –
especially an unattached man;
26. His marriage to the respondent was a complete sham from the
beginning as he was rushed into a decision of marriage because of his desire
to fulfill his selfish desire for normalcy;
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Conclusion:
32. In his report, Dr. Obed, thus concluded that the grave
psychological incapacity of petitioner, xxx,to comply with the essential
marital obligation- which stem from his personality disorders and which
existed before marriage- are permanent and incurable. Petitioner’s
narcissistic personality and major depressive disorders are deeply ingrained
and are therefore, unchangeable. It is further concluded that the root causes
of his personality disorders can be traced back to his developmental years,
which have been existing before the marriage and were explicitly manifested
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during their marriage. These disorders are deeply rooted in his personality
structures, and are serious and incurable in nature.
PRAYER
Other reliefs, just and equitable under the premises are likewise
prayed for.
By:
Copy furnished:
EXPLANATION
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Petitioner