Bia Curriculum June-2021 en Pdf-Version
Bia Curriculum June-2021 en Pdf-Version
Bia Curriculum June-2021 en Pdf-Version
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Strong
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Digital Safety and
Citizenship Curriculum
Updated June 2021
Welcome to the Be Internet Awesome curriculum, a collaboration between Google,
The Net Safety Collaborative, and the Internet Keep Safe Coalition. This resource is
part of the Be Internet Awesome program designed to help teach kids the skills
they need to be safe and smart online.
This year, we’ve added 10 new activities to the curriculum. We partnered with the
Committee for Children nonprofit organization to create new social-emotional
learning activities to help guide children on their digital journeys. Additionally, we’ve
added new lessons on search literacy and updated our safety and security activities
to meet the needs of today’s digital world. You’ll also find activities categorized for
specific grade levels to accommodate the wide spectrum of child development.
The Be Internet Awesome curriculum is self-contained. All the activities are designed
to be used with no prior professional development, minimal class prep and no special
equipment or resources needed to teach them. Additionally, the lessons are reinforced
through gameplay with Interland , an adventure-packed online game that makes learning
about digital safety and citizenship interactive and fun—just like the Internet itself.
Five fundamental topics of digital citizenship and safety form the Internet Code
of Awesome:
• Share with Care: Digital Footprint and Responsible Communication
• Don’t Fall for Fake: Phishing, Scams, and Credible Sources
• Secure Your Secrets: Online Security and Passwords
• It’s Cool to Be Kind: Combating Negative Online Behavior
• When in Doubt, Talk It Out: Questionable Content and Scenarios
This curriculum was created for grades 2−6, however educators with both older
and younger students have found value in the lessons, particularly with key
vocabulary, class discussions (they age up or down), and gameplay. We encourage
you to experiment to find what works best for your learners, whether that means
completing the curriculum start to finish or going deep on one or two lessons most
needed by your students. To complement the curriculum, you’ll find additional
educator and family resources—such as ready-to-teach Pear Deck slides, printable
activities, and a family guide and tips for the home.
Don’t Fall for Fake Lesson 1 Popups, catfishing and other scams 34
Unit 02 Lesson 2 Who’s this ‘talking’ to me?
Lesson 3 Is that really true?
Lesson 4 Spotting untrustworthy information online
Lesson 5 If we were a search engine
Lesson 6 Practicing Internet search
Lesson 7 Interland: Reality River
2. Each of the 5 units has a different number of lessons. Every lesson has the following
structure:
✓ Goals for students
✓ Let’s talk—background knowledge for teachers written in student-friendly language
(in case you want to just read it to your students)
✓ Activity—some activities may have a recommended grade-level modification.
✓ Takeaway—summary of lesson content and opportunity for reflection.
3. Each lesson title will be marked with a symbol to indicate grade-level recommendation.
It will also have a symbol if it is a Media Literacy and/or Social-Emotional Learning lesson.
4. This curriculum is designed for you to teach in two different ways: in the order in
which the lessons appear or in an order that matches the particular digital learning
needs of your own students. The units are purposefully sequenced for classrooms
starting from scratch, but many elementary grade students know parts of this
knowledge base and can help you discover the specific skills they want or need
to develop. Talking with them about what they do and don’t know would be a great
place to start. We hope you all enjoy being Internet awesome together!
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Educator’s Guide: Resource 2
Vocabulary Activities
The vocabulary used in these activities can be found at the beginning of each unit.
Be Internet Directions
Awesome Bingo 1. Distribute Be Internet Awesome bingo cards (choose between a 5 x 5 or 3 x 3 bingo
card) and game pieces to each student.
2. Students fill in bingo cards with vocabulary words from a given unit.
3. Teacher reads the definition of a vocabulary word.
Teacher can randomly pick definitions from the unit’s vocabulary list.
Materials needed:
4. S tudents search to see if the word that matches the definition is on their board
• Handout: Be Internet
Awesome bingo cards and mark it with a game piece.
• Game pieces (anything 5. A student can call out “Bingo!” when every spot in a row, column, or diagonal has
that can be used to mark a game piece.
a spot—small cubes,
paper clips, beans, etc.) 6. C ontinue playing with the current bingo cards, or have students remove all game
pieces and play again.
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Handout: Resource 2
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Handout: Resource 2
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Handout: Resource 2
Word Web
Definition Characteristics
Examples Non-examples
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Educator’s Guide: Resource 3
Dear Parent,
When our kids are young, we do our best to help them get the most out of the Internet
while keeping them safe online. As children mature into teenhood, our role shifts to
helping them learn to navigate the digital parts of their lives safely and thoughtfully.
At [school name], we believe in partnering with parents and preparing our [grade]
students to:
• Think critically and evaluate apps, websites and other digital content.
• Protect themselves from online threats, including bullying and scams.
• Get smart about sharing: what, when, how, and with whom.
• Be kind and respectful toward other people online, including respecting their privacy.
• Ask for help with tricky situations from a parent or other trusted adult.
This year, these efforts will include Be Internet Awesome, a multifaceted program
designed to teach kids the skills they need to be safe and smart online. One of the
resources, Interland, is a browser‑based game that makes learning these skills
interactive and fun. It can be played at home too (your child might love to show you
how it’s done). Developed by Google in partnership with educators, researchers, and
online‑safety experts at The Net Safety Collaborative and iKeepSafe.org, Be Internet
Awesome provides fun, age‑appropriate learning experiences built around five
foundational lessons:
• Share with Care • Donʼt Fall for Fake • Secure Your Secrets
• Itʼs Cool to Be Kind • When in Doubt, Talk It Out
Smart, safe technology use can enable students to drive their own learning and help
our school function better. We believe this program will mark an important step toward
our goal of ensuring that all our students at [school name] are learning, exploring, and
staying safe online, both inside and outside the school walls.
Weʼll be happy to share more information about this new program, including
introductions to some of the resources your student will start using in class, but we
also invite you to check out the resources that go with it at g.co/BeInternetAwesome.
We encourage you to ask your student about what they’re learning and continue the
conversation at home—and who knows, you just might pick up a few privacy and
security tricks yourself!
Sincerely,
[You]
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Educator’s Guide: Resource 4
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Is there a shared folder or website with worksheet handouts easily accessible to
project onto a whiteboard?
Yes—in the form of presentation decks. For the most current updates, we worked with
Pear Deck to adapt the curriculum to slide decks for easy presentation, distribution,
and sharing. You can find them at g.co/BeInternetAwesomeEducators.
Is the Be Internet Awesome curriculum aligned with any national or state standards?
Glad you asked. Yes, it is. The curriculum is aligned with both ISTE (International
Society for Technology in Education) and AASL (American Association of School
Librarians) standards.
That’s good, but a lot of my students are proud they finished the game and of what
they learned.
We hear you, and for that reason we have created a customizable certificate template
so that you can enter a student’s name and create a printable, personalized certificate
of course completion for your students.
Is there an online community of Be Internet Awesome users to share ideas or get help?
Yes! (And we love it.) We frequently share ideas and engage with teachers on Twitter.
Please follow us to learn more about Be Internet Awesome and other topics at
@GoogleForEdu.
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Unit 01: Be Internet Smart
Share
with Care
Protecting yourself, your information and your privacy online
Themes Teachers and parents understand how digital mistakes can hurt feelings, reputations,
and privacy. But it can be harder to convince kids that a seemingly harmless post today
could be misunderstood tomorrow—let alone in the future and by people they never
thought would see it.
Goals for students ✓ Create and manage a positive reputation both online and offline.
✓ Respect the privacy boundaries of others, even if different from one’s own.
✓ Understand the potential impact of a mismanaged digital footprint.
✓ Ask for adult help when dealing with sticky situations.
Standards ISTE Standards for Educators: 1a, 1b, 2a, 2c, 3b, 3c, 3d, 4b, 4d, 5a, 6a, 6b, 6d, 7a
addressed ISTE Standards for Students: 1c, 1d, 2a, 2b, 2d, 3b, 3d
AASL Learning Standards: I.a.1, I.b.1, I.c.1, I.d.3, I.d.4, II.a.2, II.b.1, II.b.2, II.b.3, II.c.1,
II.c.2, d.2., III.a.1, III.a.2, III.a.3, III.b.1, III.c.1, III.c.2, III.d.1, III.d.2, IV.a.1, IV.a.2, V.a.2,
VI.a.1, VI.a.2, VI.a.3
Reputation: The ideas, opinions, impressions, or Curate: To decide what to post online—text, photos,
beliefs that other people have about you—something sounds, illustrations or videos—and then organize
that you can’t be totally sure about but that you and present it while thinking about what effects it
usually want to be positive or good might have on people who see it, or what it might
make them think about you
Lesson 3
Code: A word or phrase, an image (like a logo or Digital footprint (or digital presence): Your digital
emoji) or some other symbol or collection of symbols footprint is all the information about you that appears
that represent a certain meaning or message. online. This can mean anything from photos, audio,
Sometimes it’s a secret code that only certain people videos and texts to “likes” and comments you post
understand; often it’s just a symbol that stands for on friendsʼ profiles. Just as your footsteps leave
something almost everybody understands. prints on the ground while you walk, what you post
online leaves a trail too.
Context: Information that surrounds the message or
whatever we’re seeing which helps us understand it. Fact: Something that is or can be proven to be true
Context can include the place where the message is,
Opinion: Something you or other people believe
the time when it appears or who it’s coming from.
about a person or a thing that isn’t necessarily a fact
Interpret: The way a person understands a message, because a belief can’t be proved
or the meaning they get from it
Lesson 7
Representation: A picture, symbol or description that Oversharing: Sharing too much online—usually it
says a lot about (or expresses a truth about) a thing, means sharing personal information or just too much
a person or a group about yourself in a certain situation or conversation
online
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Share with Care: Lesson 1
About this lesson: This is a foundational lesson on Internet privacy for people of all ages. It’s the one about how it’s
almost impossible to take back what you share, control who will see it and how far into the future it’ll be seen. It might
help if you ask your students what technologies they use first—and then refer to those media and devices in the activity.
If you aren’t familiar with the apps, no problem! As you know, your students would probably love it if you ask them to
help you with that.
Goals for students ✓ Understand what kinds of personal information should be kept private and why.
✓ Remember that everyone deserves to have their privacy decisions respected.
Thatʼs why your privacy matters. You can protect it by posting it privately or sharing
only things that youʼre totally sure you want to share—in other words, by being careful
about what you say, post and share online.
It’s also good to know when to post nothing at all—not to react to somebody’s post,
photo or comment, share something that might not be true (even if it’s just a joke),
overshare (share too much) or post personal information. Everybody’s heard “think
before you post,” and that’s because it’s really good advice. The way to respect your
own and other people’s privacy is to think about what’s ok to post, who might see what
you post, what effect it could have on you and other people (tomorrow or when you’re
all 16!) and when not to post anything at all.
Takeaway Secrets are just one type of personal information that we keep private online—or share
only with trusted family or friends. Once you’ve shared a secret, you’re no longer in
control of where it can go. That’s why people say we should always think before we
post (they’re right!). Other kinds of information you should never post online:
• Your home address and phone number
• Your email
• Your passwords
• Your full name
• Your grades and schoolwork
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Share with Care: Lesson 2
Keeping it private
The class reviews four written scenarios and discusses what might be the best privacy solution for each one.
Goals for students ✓ Analyze how to see privacy concerns from different peopleʼs points of view.
✓ Understand how different scenarios call for different levels of privacy.
Activity Weʼre going to review the five scenarios and talk about how each one might have a
different privacy solution. We’ll split up into four groups, discuss one scenario each,
and then come back for a class discussion about our findings.
Materials needed:
• Teacher’s outline:
“Keeping it private”
Scenarios Scenario 1: Someone told Kid A that it’s good to change up passwords and passcodes
on our phones every now and then. So they decide to change their password for their
favorite game. Kid A’s best friend, Kid B, likes to play the game too but doesn’t have a
login for it, so Kid B plays the game with Kid A’s log‑in. Kid A shares the new password
with Kid B.
• Was it good that Kid A changed their password?
• Was it good that Kid A shared their password with Kid B? Why or why not?
What if Kid A shares their password for a social media account too? Same answer?
Same answer when they’re in high school and have different friends?
Scenario 2: Someone writes in their personal journal. You find out that a friend found
it when they spent the night at their house and thought it would be a funny joke to post
parts of it online.
• Was the friend wrong to post that information online? Was it funny? Why or why not?
• How would you feel if someone did this with something you didn’t want anyone else
to see?
Scenario 4: You know that another student made a fake social media account that’s
impersonating someone else and makes them look bad. It also includes their personal
information.
• Does the student being impersonated have a right to know—would you tell them?
• It’s not obvious who made it, but you know who did it. Should you tell the person to
take it down?
• Should you tell a teacher or other trusted adult?
• What could happen if nobody does?
Scenario 5: The kids at your house take turns using your mom’s tablet, so everybody
knows the passcode. Your whole family also has one account for doing online
shopping at this one website. That was all fine until one day your brother had a friend
over and they were using your mom’s tablet to look at some amazing headphones for
gamers on that shopping site. Your brother went to get a snack in the kitchen, then they
went outside to shoot some hoops. A few days later, this box arrived at your house.
It had headphones in it. Your brother said he didn’t order them. You believe him.
• Your parents are going to wonder how that headset arrived at your house—what do
you and your brother decide to do?
• What about the password part? Do you see a problem with everybody in a family using
the same passwords for family devices and accounts if friends can use those devices
and accounts? Would you talk to your family about that?
Takeaway Different situations call for different responses, online and offline. It’s always important
to respect other people’s privacy choices, even if they aren’t the choices you’d make
yourself.
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Teacher’s outline: Lesson 2
Keeping it private
Note to teachers: This sheet is to help you guide the discussions for this lesson; it’s not a handout for your students.
Write their correct and/or best responses on the board and discuss.
Scenario 2 • Was the friend wrong to post that information online? Was it funny? Why or why not?
Some students might say it’s funny if what they’re sharing is funny, so drill down a bit
and ask those students the next question…
• How would you feel if someone did this with something you didn’t want anyone else
to see?
Scenario 4 • Does the student being impersonated have a right to know—would you tell them?
You’ll have your own answer for the first part of this question, but it might be interesting
to hear the students’ answers and have a discussion about that, whether they’d tell the
victim and what they’d tell them.
• It’s not obvious who made it, but you know who did it. Should you tell the person to
take it down?
Not everyone would feel comfortable confronting the aggressor, and that’s ok. Ask the
class if anyone would feel comfortable doing so and why. See if a discussion ensues.
• Should someone tell a teacher or other trusted adult?
Yes, if no one tells the aggressor to take it down or if someone does and the account
stays up.
Help your students see that protecting someone else from harm—including
embarrassment, social exclusion, harassment and bullying—is important. It’s not
“tattling.” What’s important is that the intention is protecting someone not getting
the other person in trouble.
• What could happen if nobody does?
Harm being done to someone is not stopped.
This is a good talking point for class discussion about caring for others and why that’s
important. More on that in the Be Internet Kind section.
Scenario 5 • Your parents are going to wonder how those headphones arrived at your house—what
do you and your brother decide to do?
Your students may reflexively focus on what is and isn’t the right thing to do and
say—which is just fine—have a short discussion about that and see if they reach any
consensus on that.
• What about the password part? Talk to me about the risks of everybody in a family
using the same passwords for family devices and accounts.
A lot of families do this. See if you can get students thinking out loud about 1) protecting
family passwords when friends come over, 2) why it’s important not to share family
passwords with friends and other people outside the family and 3) what other problems
could happen besides friends ordering stuff with family accounts.
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Share with Care: Lesson 3
Media literacy background for teachers: When we wear t‑shirts featuring corporate logos, sports teams, schools,
musicians, politicians, etc., we are essentially walking billboards. This activity demonstrates that a t‑shirt is both direct
communication and media at the same time and helps students see that screens aren’t the only kind of place where
media can be found.
Goals for students ✓ Learn the importance of asking the question: How might others see this message
differently from me?
✓ Grow awareness of the many visual cues people use to communicate.
✓ See that sharing something online as well as on a t‑shirt is making media.
✓ Learn what “context” and “representation” mean.
Letʼs talk Has anyone ever misunderstood something you said, did, wrote or posted online?
Did they get mad or sad, so you had to explain that you didn’t mean what they thought
you meant?
Sometimes when we are communicating, we know what we mean, but the people we
are communicating with don’t understand, especially if we aren’t in the same space.
That’s because people’s experiences affect the way they interpret things like images
and words.
To add to the confusion, there are a lot of messages we communicate without even
knowing it. We tell people who we are—and judge who they are—using cues like our
clothes, our hair style, and even the way we walk or gesture with our hands. This is
called “representation”—expressing something about a thing, person, or group by
using pictures, symbols, style and words.
Here’s an example: If you were online and saw a picture of a person wearing a sports
jersey with a team logo, you would probably think that the person is a fan of that team,
and you’d probably be right. That’s because most of us recognize the design of sports
jerseys—we know that’s sports “code.” So even if we aren’t sure which team is being
represented, we know it’s probably a sports team.
But what if you saw a picture of someone wearing a cheese wedge on top of their
head? What would you think about that person? If you live in Wisconsin or you’re
a football fan, you know that “cheese head” is a nickname for Green Bay Packers
football fans. The person in the picture was using the cheese wedge hat to represent
their support for the Packers.
If you didn’t know the Packers fan “code,” you might think that the cheese hat was part
of a Halloween costume or just plain weird. You might even be tempted to comment on
So how do we make sure other people will understand what we mean when we post
online? One way is to see ourselves as media creators—not just communicators or
players. Every time we create an online profile, text someone, comment in game chat,
or share a picture, we are making media. Like all good media creators, we want to be
thoughtful about the media we make and share by pausing before we post and asking:
“How might someone who is different from me interpret my message?”
4. A s a class, discuss:
• What made it hard or easy to match shirts with classmates? What did you notice
about the symbols on the shirts that were easy to match? Were some emojis used by
lots of people? Were some used by only one person?
• Did everyone agree on the meaning of every emoji? How can context change the
meaning of the emoji? Look at the emoji of the hands with the two fingers. How do
you know if it means peace, victory, or the number 2? How about the fire emoji? Does
it mean danger/emergency? Really popular or successful (“You’re on fire, dude!”)?
Does the meaning change depending on where it appears (grinning emoji on your
homework might mean that your teacher thinks you did good work but in a text from
a friend it might mean they’re happy or joking)? Does the meaning change depending
on what other emojis it’s with?
Takeaway As media creators, before we post messages or pictures online, it’s a good idea to
pause and ask: “How could someone who is different from me interpret this? Am I
sure they’ll understand what I mean?” Could they take it wrong? And we should ask
ourselves the same things before we post or comment too. “Am I sure I understand
what they mean? How can I know?”
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Handout: Lesson 3
Blank t‑shirt
Emoji grid
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Share with Care: Lesson 4
Frame it
Media literacy background for teachers: Media are made by people who make choices. The most basic of these are
what to include and exclude. This lesson helps students see themselves as media makers when they decide what to
share online.
Letʼs talk Visual media makers control how much information they want to share by framing.
They decide what to include inside the frame (what we can see), and they decide what
stays outside the frame (what’s invisible).
1. Framing
All pieces of media are the product of a series of choices by their media makers.
One important choice is what to include and another is what to leave out. When we
Materials needed:
take pictures or video, “in” and “out” are separated by a frame.
• Index cards and scissors
(one set per student)
• Handout: “What’s in To see how this works, take your index card and cut a rectangle out of the center to
the frame?” or screen make your own frame.
or smartboard with
images projected
Hold the frame at arm’s length and move it slowly toward your face and back out (you
could also try this with the zoom function on a camera). What do you notice about what
you can see inside the frame? How about if you move it side to side? Is there a way to
hold the frame so you can see some of your classmates but not others, or some of the
things on a wall but not others?
When you control the frame, you are the media maker. You have the power to decide
what to include or leave out. What you choose to leave outside the frame is still there
in real life, but people who view the media you made would never be able to see it.
It’s fun to see how things are made sometimes. But what would it be like if every
time you watched a movie, a TV show, or video you weren’t just seeing the small
frame—what if you were also seeing all the cameras, microphones, crew members,
and the edges of the set? Do you think you would enjoy the story as much?
4. You decide
Every time you share something online, you are making media. And like the producers
of a film, video or TV show, you can decide what people will see—what’s inside the
frame and what stays out of sight, outside the frame.
Takeaway As a media maker, you put a “frame” around what you share online so other people see
only what you want them to see.
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Handout: Lesson 4
1A 1B
2A 2B
Tiger
3A 3B
Goals for students ✓ Identify ways information can be found online about people.
✓ Consider how judgments are made about a person when they post things online,
things that become part of their digital footprint.
✓ Determine accuracy of information and understand the difference between
assumption, opinion and fact.
Activity Possible modification for grades 2−3: If you feel your 2nd or 3rd graders are ready to
talk about “digital footprints” in media, consider using the “I Do, We Do, You Do” strategy
(where you model the first example on the worksheet, complete the 2nd example as a
class, then turn it over to the students as individuals—and discuss!)
Materials needed:
1. Study the person
• Worksheet: “Who is
this person anyway?” Have everyone read the collections of information about Kristi, Tyler, Connor or a
(one per student)
fictional character they create.
2. Write a description
Separate into groups, one character per group. Each group develops its own brief
description of the person, answering the question: “Who do you think this person is?”
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• Kristi is a high school senior. She’s going to college next year, hopes to study chemical
engineering, and eventually wants to start her own company. She cares most about:
family, volunteering, pop culture, fashion.
• Tyler is the starting pitcher on her high school softball team. She’s 15 and lives in
Philadelphia. She has an 8‑year‑old sister. She cares most about: baseball, studying
art, playing the guitar, hanging with her friends.
• Connor is 14. He just joined the soccer team and has two cats. He’s very good at
sketching and likes to build robots on weekends. He cares most about: technology,
his soccer team, animals and animal rights.
5. Discuss
How close were your descriptions of the characters to the facts about them? Why
do you think you came up with your descriptions? Are your descriptions opinions,
assumptions or facts—and explain why? What did you learn from this lesson?
Takeaway When we see or hear people’s posts, comments, photos and videos, we make guesses
about them that arenʼt always correct, especially if we don’t know them. That’s because
what we’re seeing online or at a certain moment in time is only part of who they are
and what they care about. It could also be someone they’re just pretending to be, or
it’s something they’re feeling only in the moment that they’re posting it. We can’t really
know who they are or how they really feel until we know them in person—and even then
it takes time!
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Share with Care: Lesson 6
Goals for students ✓ Understand the perspectives of other people when weʼre deciding whether or not
to share information online.
✓ Consider the consequences of exposing personal information: what you share
becomes part of your digital footprint, which can last a long time.
✓ Start to think about what it means to curate what they post online and how that
relates to their digital footprint.
So letʼs pick one of those characters and pretend that we’re them and we posted those
comments. We’re going to try on their point of view.
• Do you think your character wants people to know all this personal info? Why or why
not? What types of people would your character want (or not want to see that info?
• How do you think this information would be seen by other people?
• How do you think it would be used by other people?
Different situations call for different levels of privacy. Thinking about how other people
would view what you post is the key to good online privacy habits.
Activity Possible modification for grades 2−3: If you feel your 2nd or 3rd graders are ready
to talk about how they’re seen in social media, consider reducing the number of
perspectives, maybe Parent, Friend, Police Officer and themselves 10 years from now,
then discuss as a class.
Materials needed:
1. Take a new point of view
• Worksheet: “Who is this
person anyway?” from We’re going to go around the room and count off from 1 to 3, then form three groups.
Lesson 5 (one per student)
The 1’s get to be Kristi, the 2’s Tyler and the 3’s Connor. Then I (teacher) am going to go
around to each group and pretend to be one or two of the following people (read list).
Then your group will discuss how your character feels about the way the person I’m
pretending to be reacted to your information.
As teacher, you’ll be role‑playing how a parent, police officer, peer, high school student,
etc. would react to the information on each character on the worksheet (pick 2−3 or ask
the groups which characters they want you to be). Briefly—no more than 2 min. per role.
• Parent • Coach • Advertiser
• Friend • Police • Employer
• Yourself in 10 years
3. Class discussion
What are your top 3 takeaways from this activity? Did the different people who saw
your information online make accurate assumptions about you? Do you think they
formed positive or negative opinions about you? Were you satisfied with their
responses? What do you think might be the consequences of someone forming a
negative opinion about you from the information you post online? How would you
curate the information or post differently now, knowing who saw it?
Takeaway Different people can see the same information and draw different conclusions from it.
Donʼt assume that people online will see you the way you think theyʼll see you.
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Share with Care: Lesson 7
Open a web browser on your desktop or mobile device (e.g., tablet), visit g.co/MindfulMountain.
Discussion topics Have your students play Mindful Mountain and use the questions below to prompt
further discussion about the lessons learned in the game. Most students get the
most out of the experience by playing solo, but you can also have students pair up.
This may be especially valuable for younger learners.
• Of all the posts you shared in the game, which type do you think you would share
most often in real life? Why?
• Describe a time when you may have accidentally shared something that you
shouldnʼt have.
• Why do you think the character in Mindful Mountain is called an oversharer?
• Describe the oversharer’s character and how his actions affect the game.
• Did playing Mindful Mountain change the way you’ll think about sharing with others
online in the future?
• Name one thing youʼll do differently after joining in these lessons and playing the
game.
• What is one example of a possible negative consequence from sharing something
with the public instead of just your friends?
• What steps can you take if you accidentally share something personal? What about
if someone accidentally shares something too personal with you?
Don’t Fall
for Fake
Steering clear of scammers, fakers, info that doesn’t help and other Internet stuff that
tries to trick your brain—and learning how to find the good stuff
Lesson overview Lesson 1 Popups, catfishing and other scams Grades 2−6
Lesson 2 Who’s this ‘talking’ to me? Grades 2−6
Lesson 3 Is that really true? ML Grades 2−6
Lesson 4 Spotting untrustworthy information online ML Grades 4−6
Lesson 5 If we were a search engine ML Grades 2−6
Lesson 6 Practicing Internet search ML Grades 2−6
Lesson 7 Interland: Reality River Grades 2−6
Themes Itʼs important for kids to understand that contacts or content they encounter online
arenʼt necessarily true or reliable, and could involve efforts to trick them or steal their
information, identity or property. Online scams aim to get Internet users of all ages to
respond to fraudulent posts and pitches—sometimes from people pretending to be
someone they know.
Goals for students ✓ Understand that what people tell you online isn’t necessarily true.
✓ Learn how scams work, why they’re a threat, and how to avoid them.
✓ Determine the validity of information and messages online and be wary of
manipulation, unsubstantiated claims, fake offers or prizes and other online scams.
Standards ISTE Standards for Educators: 1a, 2c, 3b, 3c, 4b, 5a, 6a, 6d, 7a
addressed ISTE Standards for Students 2016: 1c, 1d, 2b, 2d, 3b, 3d, 7b, 7c
AASL Learning Standards: I.b.1, I.c.1, I.c.2, Ic.3, I.d.3, I.d.4, II.a.1, II.a.2, II.b.1, II.b.2,
II.b.3, II.c.1, II.c.2, II.d.1, II.d.2., III.a.1, III.a.2, III.a.3, III.b.1, III.c.1, III.c.2, III.d.1, III.d.2,
IV.a.1, IV.a.2, IV.b.3, V.a.2, VI.a.1, VI.a.2, VI.a.3
Spearphishing: A phishing scam where an attacker Keyword: A word directly related to the topic of your
targets you more specifically by using pieces of your Internet search—one of the words you really need to
own personal information do your search because no other word describes your
topic better
Trustworthy: Able to be relied on to do what is right
or what is needed Query: A keyword, set of keywords or a question you
type into a search window (or box) to find information
Lesson 3 online. Sometimes a search takes more than one
Credible: Believable; someone who is credible uses query to find what you’re looking for.
evidence, and you can be confident they are telling
the truth. Search engine/Internet search: A software program
or “tool” people use to find information—including
Expertise: Special skill or knowledge about a locations, photos and videos—on the Web
particular thing; experts have expertise
Search results: A collection of information you get in
Motive: The reason that someone does something; a search engine after you type your query and hit the
intention “Search” or “Send” button
Source: Someone or something that provides
information
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Donʼt Fall for Fake: Lesson 1
Goals for students ✓ Learn techniques people use to scam other people online or on devices.
✓ Review ways to prevent online theft.
✓ Know to talk to a trusted adult if they think theyʼre a victim of an online scam.
✓ Recognize the signs of scam attempts.
✓ Be careful about how and with whom they share personal info.
Remember: A texter, website or ad canʼt tell if thereʼs anything wrong with your device
or computer! So if they say there is something wrong, they’re trying to scam you.
Also remember (you may have heard this before, but it’s good): If you get a message
from someone you don’t know or even think you might know, and it sounds fantastic,
exciting, or a little too good to be true, it very probably is exactly that (too good to
be true).
Note to teacher: You could ask the class if they’ve ever heard that, get a show of hands,
then ask them if they’ve ever seen a message like that themselves—or if a family member
has. If not, GREAT, and if it happens in the future, they know how to protect themselves,
their family and their stuff.
Some scams are obviously fake. Others can be sneaky and really convincing—like when
a scammer sends you a message that includes some of your personal information.
Thatʼs called spearphishing, and it can be very hard to spot because using your info
can make it seem like they know you. Another kind, which you’ve probably heard of, is
catfishing—when someone creates a fake page or profile pretending to be someone
you know or you’re a fan of so they can trick you. Then there’s smishing (scams in text
messages) and phishing (in email).
So before you do what someone asks—like click on a link or share your login—itʼs
a good idea to ask yourself some questions about that message. Here are some
questions you could ask:
And what if you do fall for a scam? Start with this: Donʼt panic! Lots of people do.
• Tell your parent, teacher or other adult you trust right away. The longer you wait, the
worse things could get.
• Change your passwords for online accounts.
• If you do get tricked by a scam, let your friends and people in your contacts know right
away, because they could get that tricky message next.
• Report the message as spam, if possible.
Activity Possible modification for grades 2−3: Divide the class into 5 groups and assign one
example from the worksheet to each group. After each group has had a chance to
analyze the example, discuss as a class.
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Answers to student handout: 5. Further discussion
“Phishing examples”
Here are some more questions to ask yourself when assessing messages and sites
1. Real. The message asks the
user to go to the company’s you find online:
website and sign into their
account on their own, rather • Does this message look right?
than providing a link in the
message or asking you to Whatʼs your first instinct? Do you notice any untrustworthy parts? Does it offer to
email your password (links fix something you didn’t know was a problem?
can send you to malicious
websites).
• Does this app look right?
2. F
ake. Suspicious and not
secure URL Sometimes fake apps—apps that look a whole lot like real ones—get advertised in
3. R
eal. Note the https:// in website popups or show up in app stores. There are all kinds of nasty things they
the URL do if they’re downloaded to a phone—steal your information or contacts, install bad
4. F
ake. Suspicious offer in software, etc. Look out for spelling mistakes, a tiny number of user review or sloppy
exchange for bank details
(not very professional) graphics.
5. F
ake. Not secure and
suspicious URL
• Is the message offering you something for free?
6. F
ake. Not secure and
suspicious URL Free offers usually arenʼt really free—the senders usually want to get something
7. F
ake. Not secure and from you.
suspicious URL and
suspicious offer in
exchange for bank details • Is it asking for your personal information?
Some scammers ask for personal info so they can send you more scams. For
example, quizzes or “personality tests” could be gathering facts to make it easy to
guess your password or other secret information. Most real businesses wonʼt ask
for personal information in a message or from anywhere except their own websites.
Note: For the purposes of this exercise, assume that Internaut mail is a real, trusted
service.
Takeaway When youʼre online, always be on the lookout for scams in games, webpages, apps and
messages—and know that if it sounds fabulous or a way to get something for free, it’s
probably fake. And if you do get fooled, make sure you tell an adult you trust right away.
Phishing examples
Email
https://mail.internaut.com/mail/u/0/#inbox 1. Is this real or fake?
Subject: Important information about your membership
From: Owl Cinemas<memberships@owlcinemas-example.com>
Body: Dear John,
Real Fake
A big “Thank You” from Owl Cinemas for your Unlimited
membership so far with us.
We are writing to remind you that your initial 12-month
membership with us is almost complete. We hope that
you have had an amazing year of film at Owl Cinemas.
And because youʼve been such a loyal member, weʼll
shortly be upgrading you to our premium membership
at no additional cost!
Please check and update your details online now
to ensure you benefit from all of the perks of our
premium membership.
Internaut Docs
www.d0cs.intern4ut.com 2. Is this real or fake?
Real Fake
Internaut mail
Password
Real Fake
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Email
https://internaut.mail.com/mail/u/0/#inbox 4. Is this real or fake?
Subject: Great Opportunity my friend
From: Robin<robin@robin-hood-example.com>
Body: Dear Friend.
My name is Robin and I am a teacher from the town of
Real Fake
Nottingham. I am teaching a massive group of students
and I believe that I make a lot of a difference in the lives of
these children. Unfortunately, the sheriff of the town has
been overcharging me on my taxes. As you know, teachers
are never meant to be paying this much tax because we
are not being paid well. I am due to inherit a huge amount
of money (over 5 million dollars) and I donʼt want the
sheriff to get it.
You have always been a good friend to me so I want to
keep the money in your bank account until after tax period.
As a reward, I am willing to leave you 1 million dollar. This
is such a good deal and only for you my friend. Please
send me your complete bank details so I can put this
money in your account.
Internaut Accounts
http://www.internautaccounts.com-genuine-login.com/ 5. Is this real or fake?
Internaut Accounts
Hey, is that really you? Real Fake
It looks like youʼre signing into your account from a new location.
Just so we know this is you — and not someone trying to hijack
your account— please complete this quick verification. Learn more
about this additional security measure.
Choose verification method
Continue
Real Fake
PHISHER GAMES
hp://www.phishergames.com/level5/player20
1,000
BONUS COINS
TO SKIP 7 LEVELS !
CLICK !
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Sneakerhead Land
http://www.sneakerheadland.com/shopping/freestu
7. Is this real or fake?
! SNEAKER SALE !
Real Fake
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Donʼt Fall for Fake: Lesson 2
About this lesson: Because it’s about social interaction, this lesson would seem to be for students in upper elementary
grades (5−6), but because more and more kids aged 7−9 are playing online games, many of them with other players
rather than solo, this lesson is good preparation even for grades 2−3. We hope teachers in those grade levels will find
out if their students are gaming and, if so, what they love about it and whether they’ve experienced anything sketchy.
To maximize learning, just keep it light, open and judgment‑free.
Goals for students ✓ Understand that people contacting us may not be who they say they are.
✓ Be sure the person is who they say they are before replying.
✓ Ask questions or get help from an adult if it’s hard to tell who the person is.
There are lots of ways to verify someone’s identity online. Here are a few examples to
get us started.
Note to teacher: You might consider leading a class brainstorm on the question “How
do we verify a person’s identity online?” first; then continue the conversation with these
thought starters.
• How long has the account been active? Does the activity make sense to you?
Is the page or profile new, or does it show a lot of activity going back a ways? Does
the person have mutual friends with you, like you would expect? Fake accounts
usually don’t have much content or signs of other people posting, commenting,
and socializing in them.
2. Groups choose one or more responses from the cheat sheet and talk about why
Materials needed:
you picked that response to the situation. Feel free to write more messages that you
• Worksheet: “Who’s this
‘talking’ to me?” cut into think would be even trickier.
strips, with one scenario
on each strip
3. Class discusses groupsʼ choices
• A bowl or container to hold
the strips (each group of Finally, letʼs use this cheat sheet for class discussion about all the scenarios. Each
students will pick one)
group reads its scenario and tells the class about their response and why they chose
• Student outline on page 46 it (or them). The class discusses.
(one per student to follow
along)
Takeaway You control who you talk to online. Make sure the people you connect with are who they
say they are!
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Worksheet: Lesson 2
Scenario 1 You get a friend request from a random player in a game: “Hey you’re good! We should
play together! Add me?”
Scenario 2 You get a text message on your cell phone from someone you donʼt recognize.
“Hey, this is Corey! Remember me from last summer?”
Scenario 3 You get a message from someone you donʼt follow. “Hey! Love your posts, you’re SO
funny! Give me your phone number and we can talk more!”
Scenario 4 You get a chat from someone you don’t know. “I saw you in the hall today. U R CUTE!
What is your address? I can come over 2 hang out.”
Scenario 5 You receive a message online. “Hey, I just met your friend Sam! She told me about you,
I want 2 meet u. Where do u live?”
Everybody please note: If one of these scenarios really happens to you and you’re not sure what to do, the easiest
response is no response. You can always ignore them or block them. It also never hurts to talk with a parent or teacher
about it, especially if it bothers you.
Scenario 1 You get a friend request from a random player in a game: “Hey you’re good! We should
play together! Add me?” What do you do?
• Ignore it. If you donʼt know them, you can just decide not to add them.
• Block them. You wonʼt get any more messages from them—and, In most games
and apps, they won’t even know you blocked them.
• Change your settings. Go into the game’s settings, see if you can turn off all friend
requests and check that box. That way, you won’t even have to decide whether or
not to accept requests from random players.
• Check them out online. See if they have a page or profile so you can see if they’re
really a player—do they have experience, followers, have they streamed content?
Do your friends know if they’re for real? Only if they look like they’re a gamer really
into this game should you even consider friending them. But it’s really best for kids
just to play with their offline friends.
• Add them to your friends list. IF they seem ok. This isn’t recommended, unless
youʼve verified who they are and checked with an adult you trust or at least your
friends, to see if they know who the person is. If you play with them, with a mic or
headset, be sure to keep the chat only about the game—never share your full name
or any other personal info.
• Give them personal info. Definitely not. You know: Never ever give away personal
information to people you donʼt know.
Scenario 2 You get a text message on your cell phone from someone you donʼt recognize. “Hey,
this is Corey! Remember me from last summer?” What do you do?
• Block Corey. This would feel rude if you actually know her. But if youʼre sure you
didnʼt meet anyone named Corey last summer or she’s sending you too many texts
and oversharing about herself, it would be fine to block her.
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• Ignore Corey. Like we said above, if you donʼt know this person, you can just not
respond.
• “Hi, Corey. Do I know you?” This is a safe option if you arenʼt sure whether you met her
and want to figure out if you did by finding out a little more. But don’t tell Corey where
you were last summer!
• “I donʼt remember you but we can still meet sometime.” Really not a good idea; you
should never offer to meet with anyone you donʼt know.
Scenario 3 You get a direct message from @soccergirl12, someone you donʼt follow. “Hey! Love
your posts, you are SO funny! Give me your phone number and we can talk more!” What
do you do?
• Ignore @soccergirl12. You donʼt have to respond if you donʼt want to.
• Block @soccergirl12. If you find this person strange and block them, youʼll never hear
from them again—unless they start a new fake profile and contact you as a different
fake person…
• “Hi, do I know you?” If you arenʼt sure, be sure to ask questions before giving out
personal information like your phone number.
• “Okay, my number is…” Nope! Even if youʼve verified who this person is, it isnʼt a good
idea to give out personal information over social media. Find another way to get in
touch, whether it’s through parents, teachers, or some other trusted person.
Scenario 4 You get a chat from someone you donʼt know. “I saw you in the hall today. U R CUTE!
What is your address? I can come over 2 hang out.” What do you do?
• Block this person. Donʼt hesitate if you get a bad feeling about someone.
• “Who are you?” Probably not. If the message sounds sketchy, it might be better not
to answer—or just block them.
• “Is that you Lizi? U R CUTE too! I live in 240 Circle Ct.” This isnʼt a good idea, even
if you think you know who it is. Before you give someone your address or any other
personal information, check them out, even if you think you know them. Never meet
someone in person that you only know from online interactions.
• Ignore. If you donʼt know this person but you do have a friend named Sam, the best
thing to do is check with Sam first before responding to this message.
• Block. If you donʼt know this person and you donʼt have a friend named Sam, it’s
probably best to use your settings to block this person from contacting you further.
• “Who are you?” Probably not a great idea. If you donʼt know the person, itʼs better not
to answer, at least until youʼve heard back from Sam.
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Donʼt Fall for Fake: Lesson 3
Note: This is a media literacy lesson good for everybody to learn but may be a little over the heads of students in grades
2−3, so see a suggested modification below under “Activity.”
Goals for students ✓ Identify the tools you already use to know that information is credible.
✓ Consider how certain things like expertise and motive affect credibility.
✓ Learn 4 questions for evaluating source credibility.
✓ Understand that a source that’s credible on one topic is not necessarily credible
on other topics.
✓ Know that checking multiple sources often helps you see whether information
is credible.
What do you do when you’re trying to decide if someone is telling the truth? Do you
already use these clues?:
• The situation
For example, when friends are playing around and one teases you about your new
haircut, you know it’s just a joke. But if someone at school says the exact same words
to embarrass you in front of the whole class, it’s an insult.
Continued on the next page →
Even when someone we know sends us a text there are no clues from facial
expressions or tone of voice, so we might not be sure what they mean. That’s when
we need to ask questions…
Activity Recommended modification for grades 2−3: If you feel your students are ready to
discuss whether a source is credible, complete steps 1 and 2 only.
1. Evaluating sources
If you wanted a recommendation for a great new video game, would you ask your
Materials needed:
grandmother? Or, to ask it another way, is your grandmother a credible source for
• Handout: “Deciding what’s
credible” (one per student) information on video games? A credible source is one that we can trust to give us
accurate and relevant information.
Make a pro/con list to explain the benefits and drawbacks of asking your grandmother
for video game advice.
PRO CON
If your list looked like that, you’ve just used two of the most common tools we have
to decide if a source is credible: motive and expertise. “Expertise” is a special skill
or knowledge about a particular thing; experts have expertise. “Motive” is someone’s
intention, the reason they say or do something.
Which item in the list gives you information about grandma’s motives? Which items
say something about her expertise? So is the grandma on this pro/con chart a credible
source for information about which new video game to get? She wouldn’t lie, but it
would probably be better to ask someone who cares about us and who also knows
something about gaming and the types of games we like.
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We may also know that Dad is a great cook but is clueless about fashion, our coach
knows basketball but not gymnastics, or that Grandma can fix almost any toy but
doesn’t know anything about video games. Just because a person is an expert on
one thing doesn’t make them an expert on everything.
Imagine that you want to know how to be a better soccer player. Make pro/con lists
for these choices so you can decide if they’re credible sources:
• your grandma
• a blog by a winning high school basketball coach
• the best player on your team
• a website that sells soccer shoes and gives advice
• Videos that teach soccer practice techniques
What do you notice about the strengths and weaknesses of each source?
• Is there one that knows how to teach, but may not be familiar with soccer skills?
• Is there one that is a soccer expert but may not know how to teach?
• Is there one whose advice always seems to include buying something from them?
• Is there one that knows soccer but doesn’t know you or which skills you need to
work on?
Discuss: Who would be a good source to go to and why do you think so?
Credibility is rarely an all‑or‑nothing call. Most sources have strengths and weaknesses.
That’s why the very best answers often come from asking many sources and comparing
their answers.
3. Steps to consider
Credibility isn’t just about who we believe. It’s also about what we believe. We get
ideas about the world from all sorts of places, not just directly from people. A movie
about a tsunami shows a giant wave—taller than a skyscraper—heading towards people
on shore. Is that what tsunamis really look like? An ad implies that most scientists are
men with crazy hair who wear thick glasses and white lab coats all the time. Is that true?
We can check out any source using the 3 Steps on the Deciding what’s credible
handout. They’re about what we already know about motive and expertise.
Expertise
a) Does this source know me or care about me?
The answer to this question depends on the information you’re looking for. If you’re
checking some information about plastic water bottles polluting the ocean, it really
doesn’t matter if the source knows you or not. But if a site promises that you will love
their new toy, it would need to know what kinds of toys, games, or activities you like
for their promise to be credible.
b) Does this source know a lot about this topic? How did they learn what they know?
Some people think that the easiest way to find credible information is to ask a digital
voice assistant. Digital assistants seem to know everything! Did you ever wonder
how they can know all those answers? They use mathematical calculations (called
“algorithms”) to find answers.
For simple questions that only have one possible answer (like the temperature
outside or the name of a celebrity famous for singing a particular pop song) they
are usually a credible source. But if the question is complicated, it would be better
to start with people or groups who have lots of experience or have earned awards
or PhDs related to your topic. Then you can use a voice assistant to confirm that
information (see Step 3).
Motive
c) What does this source want me to do or believe and why would they want me to do
or believe that?
Does the source make money if you follow their advice? For example, do you think
an influencer earns a fee if you buy the product they’re wearing or talking about?
Does a professional athlete wear a certain brand of shoe or shirt just because they
like that brand or because they’re paid to talk about it?
Money can often be one reason why you’re seeing a logo or brand name in a video
or ad—it can affect what the influencer or athlete is telling you (and what they’re
not telling you). They probably don’t intend to hurt you, but it’s possible that making
money is more important to them than giving you all the facts or saying what is
good for you.
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d) Who benefits and who might be hurt if people believe this source?
This isn’t always easy to tell. Here’s an example:
Imagine an ad for an app that promises to make you a better student.
• What are the possible benefits? The app maker would benefit if you buy the app
because they would make money. And you might benefit if the app really helped
you.
• Who might be hurt if you believed the ad? You might be wasting your money if
you bought the app. You might also be spending time practicing the wrong things,
and then actually do worse in school. Or you might rely on the app, which can only
make guesses about what you need, instead of seeking help from your teacher,
who actually knows what you need.
Step 3: Confirm
Ask: Do other credible sources back up what this source says?
The job isn’t just to check more sources. It’s to look for a variety of sources. If you
can’t find a variety of credible sources that agree with the source you are checking,
you shouldn’t believe that source.
Takeaway Questions are our friends. When you ask good questions about sources and the
information they provide, you’ll get much better information. The more sources you
use, the better. And remember that a great source for one subject doesn’t mean it’s
great for everything.
Expertise
• Does this source know me or care about me (and does that matter)?
• Does this source know a lot about this topic? How did they learn what they know?
Motive
• What does this source want me to do or believe and why would they want me to do
or believe that?
• Who benefits and who might be hurt if people believe this source?
Step 3 Confirm
Do other credible sources back up what this source says? Use online search—or work
with your school media specialist in the library—to find other sources of information
about your subject (the sources could be book or news or magazine articles, online or
offline). Go through Steps 1 and 2 with them too—ask the same questions about these
sources too. If they’re giving you the same information about your subject, it’s pretty
likely they’re confirming that your source is credible.
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Donʼt Fall for Fake: Lesson 4
Goals for students ✓ Identify clues which indicate that a news or information source is deceptive.
✓ Use analytical questions and careful observation to evaluate source credibility.
✓ Understand the importance of checking a source’s credibility before sharing their
message.
✓ Develop the habit of analyzing all news and information, not just the stories we
think are suspicious.
Letʼs talk Did you ever play one of those games where you hunt for mistakes hidden in a picture?
Sometimes dealing with news is like that. There are a lot of people and groups who are
so passionate about what they believe that they twist the truth to get us to agree with
them. When their twisting is disguised as a news story, that’s disinformation.
Some people don’t learn how to spot fake information, but they share it anyway. That’s
how it spreads. And when people make choices about the things they do or believe
based on that disinformation, it can get really hard for people to listen to each other
calmly, argue respectfully, understand each other better, and solve problems.
So, if something looks or sounds like news, how can we tell the difference between
what’s real or credible and what’s fake or misleading? There are clues we can learn to
spot it—tricks used by people who are trying to mislead you. And there are questions
we can ask that help us spot stories that aren’t based on facts.
Materials needed:
• Image: “What’s Wrong
with this picture”
• Handout: “Deciding
what’s credible” from
Lesson 3 (page 54)
• Worksheet: “Spotting
phony URLs”
Fake:
abcnews.com.co
abcnews‑us.com
nbc.com.co
nytimesofficial.com
bbc1.site/business‑news
washinqtonpost.com
washingtonpost.com.co
usatosday.com
What if someone told you where to look? Would that make it easier?
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There are 9 differences, did you spot them all?
Trying to tell if a news story is real or fake is sort of like this picture game. By looking
really carefully, you can find important information. And it’s a lot easier if you know
what to look for.
So here are some clues to finding disinformation. If you spot these things, you are
probably looking at a fake, or deceptive, story.
How could you check to see if a URL was a real news site? One way is to do a web
search for the news organization or the URL. If the organization is credible a box can
appear to the right of the search results on many platforms with a description of the
organization, including their website address. If the URL isn’t credible, you will often be
able to scroll down and see headlines about the site being reported as a fake—or you’ll
find out the site isn’t available anymore.
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Here’s the story:
“A recent State University survey of teachers found that 86% of teachers do what
everyone does after work. They run errands, fix dinner, spend time with family, do
household chores, and get ready for the next day. But lately, many teachers have
been doing something unexpected.
A decade ago, economic troubles led many states to slash education budgets. That
meant years without a pay raise for teachers. Unable to meet basic expenses on low
salaries, many teachers now work second jobs. In some states teachers have even
gone on strike for pay increases so they can quit second jobs and devote more time
to their students.”
Was the story what you thought it would be? Do you think that the picture and headline
were accurate or misleading? What’s your evidence?
3. Inspecting sources
When we analyze news, clues can be helpful, but they aren’t always enough. Sometimes
trustworthy news stories use techniques to attract our attention, and that can make
them seem fake. And sometimes fake sources are so good at copying the real thing
that it’s hard to tell they’re not. It’s hard to tell them apart. For example…
Actually, only National Review is real. How could you find that out? You could start by
doing a Web search of the organization’s name. See where the name appears besides
the organization’s own website. If it appears in Wikipedia or an article at a newspaper
or news magazine’s site, it’s probably a credible organization. But see what those
articles say about it! It’s possible that they’re all saying it’s fake.
Find a story about your school, community, the latest diet fad, or anything in the news
that interests you. Use the 3 Steps on the Deciding what’s credible handout, along with
the new clues you know, to decide if the story is real or deceptive.
Sometimes it’s obvious. If you see a headline like: CELEBRITY HAS SECRET BABY
WITH SPACE ALIEN, logic probably tells you it isn’t real.
Step 3: Confirm
Ask: Do other credible sources back up what this source says?
Who else is reporting this story? (You can use Internet search to see if this story is
covered by other news sources…) What other stories does the site include? Are they
all from the same perspective or are there many views included? If you can’t find a
variety of reliable sources that are covering the story, you should be skeptical of
that source.
Takeaway Now that you know how to use clues and questions to spot disinformation, you can
ask smart questions and make careful observation part of your daily routine and
with time, you’ll be an expert in spotting fake stuff online. You now know how to
analyze the information you get online. It’s called critical thinking, and it’s a media
user’s superpower.
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Worksheet: Lesson 4
You might already know that, to use this tool, you type a few key words about a topic
you want to know more about into the search bar (the empty box on a search engine
page) or in your browser window (where you also type web addresses). Then, when
you’re ready, you hit the Return or Search key, and—voila!—the search engine works its
magic (in about a half second), and you get your search results. Ok, so it’s not actually
magic. Internet search uses algorithms, which is a fancy way of saying people at the
search company taught the software how to find and turn up information for you. Don’t
worry about how algorithms work for now. You just need to know that Search does the
“searching” for you.
It’s also good to know that search results aren’t necessarily answers to a question.
They’re just collections of information you’re interested in or looking for. If you do have
a question that you’re taking to a search engine, you can often find an answer in your
search results, but sometimes it takes a few queries to get to the answer you’re looking
for. That’s called “refining” your search.
3. S
hare a search topic with the class. Here are some possibilities:
Materials needed:
• pizza • solar system • volcanoes • basketball
• Worksheet: “If we were
a search engine” (one • tornado • farmer • cooking • dentist
per student) • airplane • soccer • sharks • construction
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4. Students work with their partners to create possible “search results” in each
category on the handout: “Website,” “Image,” “Map” and “Video.” Their results can be
in the form of words or drawings, as appropriate.
Encourage students to be creative, and make sure they know there are no “wrong”
answers. For example, if the topic is “sharks,” students might brainstorm the following
search results:
• Website: information about different kinds of sharks
• Image: a drawing of a shark
• Video: sharks swimming through the ocean
• Map: the location of a beach where people saw a shark
5. When students finish all four search result categories for the given topic, pick which
category (website, image, video or map) to talk about as a class.
6. Have one student from each pair share out their example of one of the search
results.
For example, let’s say the topic is “pizza.” You can decide to have each group share
their image results for pizza. Students can hold up their drawing and explain what they
created. This allows students to see all the different search results that can be generated
from a single query.
7. After students share examples, ask the class the following discussion questions:
• About how many different results did we have?
• About how many results were similar?
• If I changed my topic to , how do you think that would change your
results? For example, if the search topic was “pizza,” how would the results change if
I changed my query to “pepperoni pizza”?
Takeaway Internet search is a tool you can use to find information online. The info can be in the
form of text on a website, videos, images, maps and more. The key words you type into
a search engine determine what results you get.
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Donʼt Fall for Fake: Lesson 6
Letʼs talk Search is a tool that helps you find information on the internet. To use search, you can
go to a search engine and type a query—a question or keywords—into the search bar
to get info on a topic you want to know more about. Sometimes using keywords works
better than just asking a question. That’s because, first, the words you use in your query
and, second, the order you put them in are really important. If you just ask a question,
it may not have the words and the order that help the search engine turn up the results
you’re looking for. But—no worries—it’s perfectly fine to start with a question if you like.
The important thing is, just start, because lots of times it takes more than one query to
get to the information you want. So type your question into the search engine, look at
the search results and—if they’re not good enough—you can use those results to guide
you on how to create a better query and get even closer to what you’re looking for.
For example: Let’s say I want to start a garden. I want to grow vegetables I can use to
cook in my kitchen.
• I have no idea how to do this, so I’m going to do an Internet search to find out how.
I go to a search engine and type in the question, “How do I start a garden?”
Display your computer screen so students can see you searching.
• Ok, let’s take a look at these results.
Review the results with your class. Be sure to point out that there are websites, images,
videos and other types of results. Also point out search results that are not relevant to
helping you grow a garden for vegetables and spices for cooking.
• I’m noticing that a lot of these results are about all kinds of gardens, but I need
information about creating a garden at home, in my own yard. Also, I only want
to grow stuff I can eat. I should probably include a keyword about vegetables, right?
Ok, let’s try searching this: “home garden vegetables”.
Display your computer screen so students can see you searching.
• Take a look at these results. What do you notice?
Allow the students to share what they notice in the search results.
oth sets of search results gave me information about starting a garden, right? But
B
the first set was about all kinds of gardens. It showed me I had to add a couple of
important keywords to my original query to get the search results I needed to learn
how to start a garden for cooking (BTW, did you know that’s called a “kitchen garden”?).
3. Discuss
Have students find a partner and ask them to share with their partners how they
changed the original search query and the types of results they got from that revised
search query. Ask them to share what they discovered in a brief class discussion.
Takeaway The more you practice creating search queries, the easier it will get to find the
information you are looking for in a search engine.
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Worksheet: Lesson 6
Search results
Search results
Search results
Search results
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Donʼt Fall for Fake: Lesson 7
Open a web browser on your desktop or mobile device (e.g., tablet), visit g.co/RealityRiver.
Discussion topics Have your students play Reality River and use the questions below to prompt further
discussion about the lessons learned in the game. Most students get the most out of
the experience by playing solo, but you can also have students pair up. This may be
especially valuable for younger students.
• Describe a time when you had to decide if something was real or fake online. What
signs did you notice?
• What is a phisher? Describe its behaviors and how it affects the game.
• Did playing Reality River change the way youʼll evaluate things and people online in
the future? If so, how?
• Whatʼs one thing that you think youʼll do differently after joining in on these lessons
and playing the game?
• What are some clues that could signal that something is “off” or creepy about a
certain situation online?
• How does it feel when you come across something questionable online?
• If you really arenʼt sure whether something is real, what should you do?
Secure
Your Secrets
Getting real about privacy and security
Themes Anyone who uses a device that’s connected to the Internet—a game, a phone, a digital
assistant, a computer, etc.—needs to know the basics of online privacy and security.
Protecting those devices and the personal information on them—all that stuff about
you, your family and your friends—means thinking about what’s incoming and outgoing
and being smart about passwords.
Goals for students ✓ Learn why privacy and security matter and how they relate to each other.
✓ Practice how to create strong passwords and keep them to yourself (and the
adults who watch out for you).
✓ Review the tools and settings that protect against scams, hackers and other
threats.
Standards ISTE Standards for Educators: 1a, 2c, 3b, 3c, 3d, 4b, 6a, 6d, 7a
addressed ISTE Standards for Students 2016: 1c, 1d, 2b, 2d, 3d, 6a
AASL Learning Standards: I.b.2, I.c.1, I.c.3, II.c.1, III.a.2, III.b.1, III.c.1, III.d.1, III.d.2,
IV.b.3, V.d.3, VI.a.1, VI.d.1
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Secure Your Secrets: Lesson 1
Goals for students ✓ Learn that sharing your password gives others control of your digital footprint.
✓ Consider what can happen when someone logs in as you.
✓ Understand how someone else’s actions can affect your digital footprint…and you!
You have something called a digital footprint. A digital footprint represents you online.
It’s what all the things you leave online—likes, comments, your screen name, photos,
messages, recordings, etc. add up to and give other people an idea of what you’re
really like. It affects your reputation, how people think of you. They make guesses,
or assumptions, about you based on that footprint you leave. That’s one thing really
important to be aware of when you’re online.
Another thing really important to know is that, when you share your password, you
are giving someone else control of your digital footprint—you’re actually allowing
them to help create it and shape how other people think of you. Yikes, right?! Since
it’s your footprint, everybody believes you’re the one creating it. So if someone with
your password does something you don’t like, people will think that was you doing it!
That’s why it’s super important not to share your passwords.
For example: Let’s say you share your password to a social media account with
a friend. While logged in as you, your friend sends a message to someone in your
class like, “Can you send me your homework answers?” The next day in class, the
student goes to the teacher and says you were trying to cheat on your homework by
asking for answers. Then they show your teacher the message your friend sent from
your account. Who do you think your teacher will believe? How does this affect your
reputation? What else might happen?
Brainstorm with the class possible outcomes. Examples: Teacher calls home. You lose
points on an assignment. Your digital footprint shows that you tried to cheat in school.
You get into a fight with your friend who sent the message.
Remember, your digital footprint represents you online. Any time you share your
password with someone, you are giving them control of your digital footprint, which
can impact how people see you on the Internet and everywhere else. Let’s explore this
idea together.
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2. Pick an account.
Students choose what type of account they’re sharing a password for and fill it in at the
top of the worksheet: social media account, gaming account, phone, tablet/computer,
Materials needed:
or streaming service.
• Worksheet: “But that
wasn’t me!” (one for
each pair of students. 3. Pick an action.
Partners fill in the first box with an action they choose from the choices below—or think
up themselves. This is an action taken by someone who has been given the password
to their account. They can draw or write what they come up with or choose from these
possible actions:
• “Likes” all of your crush’s recent posts.
• Buys $100 worth of clothes.
• Sends a message like, “Don’t you think Carmen is so annoying?”
• Plays your favorite game but loses points.
• Downloads new apps.
• Shares an embarrassing picture on your social media page.
• Reads all your texts and shares them with someone else.
• Watches episodes of an inappropriate TV show.
4. Create an outcome
In the second box, students create a possible outcome to the action they chose or
created.
5. Discussion
As a class, ask a few students to share out the action and outcomes that they created.
Below are some questions you can ask partners after they share:
• Why did you pick (or create) that action?
• How did you decide on the outcome?
• If you knew this was the outcome, how would you change your action?
6. Digital Footprint
In the last box, students write one sentence of how this action and outcome impacts
the feelings, life or digital footprint—any or all of those things. Guide students to think
about how this affects their reputation, or how others view them. Ask for volunteers or
choose pairs of students to discuss what they draw or wrote and what they think about
the story they created.
Takeaway When you share your password, you are giving someone else control of your digital
footprint, but you’re still accountable for whatever they do with it. If you want to be
in the driver’s seat when it comes to how people see you online, don’t share your
passwords with anyone but a parent or other adult you totally trust.
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Worksheet: Lesson 1
Action
Outcome
Goals for students ✓ Recognize the importance of never sharing passwords, except with parents or
guardians.
✓ Understand the importance of screenlocks that protect devices.
✓ Know how to create passwords that are hard to guess, yet easy to remember.
✓ Choose the right security for their login settings, including two‑factor verification.
But the same tools that make it easy for us to share information can also make it easy
for hackers and scammers to steal that information and use it to damage our devices,
steal our identities or hurt our relationships and reputations.
Protecting ourselves, our info, and our devices means doing simple, smart things like
using screen locks on phones, being careful about putting personal info on devices that
are unlocked or used by lots of people (like at school) and, above all, building strong
passwords—and not sharing them!
• Who can guess what the two most commonly used passwords are? (Answer: “1 2 3 4
5 6” and “password”)
• Letʼs brainstorm some other bad passwords and what specifically makes them bad.
(Examples: your full name, your phone number, the word “chocolate,” your dog’s name,
your address, etc.)
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Challenge option: Students share clues with the class first to see how much
contextual information the class needs to be able to make an accurate guess.
2. Compare passwords
Two teams at a time will write their password on the board.
3. Vote!
For each pair of passwords, weʼll all vote and discuss whose is stronger.
Strong passwords are based on a descriptive phrase or sentence thatʼs easy for you to remember and hard for
someone else to guess—like the first letters in words that make up a favorite title or song, the first letters of words
in a sentence about something you did—and include a combination of letters, numbers, and symbols. For example,
“I went to Western Elementary School for grade 3” could be used to build a password like: Iw2We$t4g3.
Moderate passwords are passwords that are strong and not easy for malicious software to guess, but could be
guessed by someone who knows you (for example, IwenttoWestern).
Weak passwords commonly use personal information like a pet’s name, are easy to crack, and can be guessed by
someone who knows you (for example, “IloveBuddy” or “Ilikechocolate”).
DON’Ts • Donʼt use personal information (name, address, email, phone number, Social Security
number, motherʼs maiden name, birth dates or even a pet’s name, etc.) in your password.
• Donʼt use a password thatʼs easy to guess, like your nickname, chocolate, just the
name of your school, favorite sports team, a string of numbers (like 123456), etc.
And definitely don’t use the word ‘password”!
• Donʼt share your password with anyone other than your parent or guardian.
• Never write passwords down where someone can find them.
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Secure Your Secrets: Lesson 3
Keep it to yourself
Teacher uses a school device to demonstrate where to look, and what to look for, when youʼre customizing your
privacy settings.
Goals for students ✓ Customize privacy settings for the online services they use.
✓ Make decisions about information sharing on the sites and services they use.
✓ Understand what two‑factor and two‑step verifications mean and when to use them.
When youʼre using an app or website, look for an option like “My Account” or “Settings.”
Thatʼs where youʼll find the privacy and security settings that let you decide:
• What information is visible on your page or profile
• Who can view your posts, photos, videos or other content that you share
Learning to use these settings to protect your privacy—and remembering to keep them
updated—will help you manage your privacy, security and safety.
In addition to setting, a really important thing to think about it who can friend or follow
you (that may or may not be in your Settings). The safest choice is to have only your
offline friends and family following you or on your friends list. If you allow other people,
don’t forget that whatever you share can be seen by people you’ve never met. That can
get a little creepy, and sometimes parents just don’t allow it at all. Talk it over with an
adult you trust to figure out what’s best for you—what keeps you safe and gives you
the most peace of mind.
Your parents or guardians should always be making these decisions with you. Plus,
it can be fun to go through your privacy settings together (so they can see how smart
you are!).
Which privacy and security settings are right for you is something to discuss with
your parent or guardian. But remember, the most important security setting is in your
brain—as you grow up, more and more you’ll be the one deciding how much of your
personal info to share, when, and with whom. So it’s important to get used to making
these decisions right now.
Takeaway Choosing a strong, unique password for each of your important accounts is a great first
step. Now, you need to remember your passwords and keep them private too.
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Secure Your Secrets: Lesson 4
Open a web browser on your desktop or mobile device (e.g., tablet), visit g.co/TowerOfTreasure.
Discussion topics Have your students play Tower of Treasure and use the questions below to prompt
further discussion about the lessons learned in the game. Most students get the most
out of the experience by playing solo, but you can also have students pair up. This may
be especially valuable for younger students.
• What are the elements of a super strong password?
• When is it important to create strong passwords in real life? What tips have you
learned on how to do so?
• Whatʼs a hacker? Describe this characterʼs behaviors and how they affect the game.
• Did Tower of Treasure change the way you plan to protect your information in the
future?
• Name one thing youʼll do differently after learning these lessons and playing the game.
• Craft three practice passwords that pass the “super strong” test.
• What are some examples of sensitive information that should be protected?
It’s Cool to
Be Kind
Learning and practicing the power of online kindness
Themes The digital world creates new challenges and opportunities for social interaction,
for kids and all the rest of us. Social cues can be harder to read online, constant
connecting can bring both comfort and anxiety, and anonymity can fuel crushes
and compliments as well as harm to ourselves and others.
It’s complicated, but we know that the Internet can amplify kindness as well as
negativity. Learning to express kindness and empathy—and how to respond to
negativity and harassment—is essential for building healthy relationships and
reducing bullying, depression, academic struggles and other problems.
Research shows that, rather than simply telling kids not to be negative online, two
kinds of teaching can help address the underlying causes of negative behaviors:
social‑emotional learning and bullying prevention. These activities don’t replace
evidence‑based programs; they lay a great foundation, encouraging students to
interact positively and deal with negativity from the start.
Goals for students ✓ Define what being positive means and looks like, online and offline.
✓ Lead with positivity in online communications.
✓ Identify situations in which a trusted adult should be consulted.
Standards ISTE Standards for Educators: 1a, 1c, 2c, 3a, 3b, 3c, 4b, 5a, 5b, 6a, 6b, 6d, 7a
addressed ISTE Standards for Students 2016: 1c, 2b, 3d, 4d, 7a, 7b, 7c
AASL Learning Standards: I.a.1, I.a.2, I.b.1, I.b.2, I.b.3, I.c.1, I.c.2, I.c.3, I.d.3, I.d.4, II.a.1,
II.a.2, II.b.1, II.b.2, II.b.3, II.c.1, II.c.2, II.d.1, II.d.2, II.d.3, III.a.1, III.a.2, III.a.3, III.b.1, III.b.2,
III.c.1, III.c.2, III.d.1, III.d.2, IV.b.2, IV.b.3, IV.d.2, V.a.2, V.a.3, V.c.1, V.c.3, V.d.1, V.d.2, V.d.3,
VI.a.1, VI.a.2, VI.d.1, VI.d.3
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Itʼs Cool to Be Kind: Lesson 1.1
Noticing feelings
Students practice empathizing with people they see on TV, in videos and in games—groundwork for more kinds of
digital social experiences in the future.
A note to the teacher: After completing this lesson, look for opportunities to revisit it during academic lessons. Take a
moment to have students practice empathizing with characters each time your class reads a story or watches a video.
In “Let’s talk,” you’ll see parenthetical statements. They’re suggestions for students’ responses. If they can’t think of a
response, you can use these examples to prompt some answers.
Letʼs talk Today you will all be investigators trying to find out what other people are feeling. You’ll
need to look for hints, like what is happening or how someone is acting.
OK, remember a time you felt one of these feelings. Think about what happened and
how your body felt.
Give them time to think time, then choose a student to act out the situation they
remembered—they can use sounds but not words.
• What feeling do you think you just saw? What hints did you see? (Various answers.)
Notice how we saw different hints and came up with different answers.
Have the student tell the story behind the feeling they were showing.
• Does knowing what was happening make guessing the feeling easier? (“Yes.”)
• Why? (“You can think about how you’d feel in that situation.”)
Trying to figure out what someone else is feeling is called having empathy. You don’t
have to know; it just really helps to try. Empathy helps us make friends and avoid
upsetting people. Having empathy isn’t always easy. It takes practice. It’s even harder
to have empathy for someone you read about in a book or see in a video.
• Why do you think that’s harder? (“You can’t see them.” “You don’t know everything
that’s happening.”)
• Why do you think it’s important for us to practice empathizing with people in books
or videos? (“It helps you enjoy the books and videos more.” “You like the people
better.” “You can understand what’s going on in the story better.” “It’s good practice
for empathizing with people online or here at school.”)
We’re now going to do an activity that’ll help you figure out how people in books and
other media feel.
Takeaway Empathizing with people in books and videos is important. It helps you enjoy the books
and videos more, and it’s good practice for when you’re with real people online and
offline. As you get older, you’ll start having more and more conversations digitally, on
phones and computers. The more you practice empathy in text messages, games and
videos, the more fun you’ll have socializing online.
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Worksheet: Lesson 1.1
Noticing feelings
Tucker and Athena
Huh. Okay. From your tone, it seems like something did happen.
Noticing feelings
Corey and Kevin
Are you okay after what happened at rehearsal? Why did you do it?
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Handout: Lesson 1.1
Happy Frustrated
Sad Worried
Surprised Disappointed
Scared Excited
Angry Calm
Practicing empathy
Students practice identifying how they feel in digital social interactions.
SEL background for teachers: Empathy is a crucial foundation for healthy interpersonal relationships. It has been
shown to increase academic success and decrease problem behaviors. The definition of empathy is “trying to feel
or understand what someone else is feeling”—not the ability to do so. That distinction is important because it’s really
hard to identify others’ emotions correctly (most adults struggle too). It’s also not the point. Simply making the effort
helps us and our students feel compassion for others and motivates kind action. This is what our children deserve to
know. If students focus on getting it “right,” remind them that the best way to find out how someone is really feeling is
to ask them.
Letʼs talk Think about a time you were talking with someone else online in an app, a game, or by
texting. Could you tell how they were feeling? (“Yes.” “No.”) What emotions might they
have been feeling? (“Happy.” “Angry.” “Excited.” “Frustrated.”)
Trying to feel or understand what someone else is feeling is called having empathy.
• Why is it good to show empathy? (“To know when others need help.” “Help be a good
friend.” “Avoid making someone angry.”)
• How could empathizing with others help when you’re interacting with someone
online? (“Help understand what they’re thinking.” “Keep from hurting them.” ”Avoid
accidentally starting drama. Easier to work with them in a game.”)
• How can you tell how someone else might be feeling? (“Recognizing what’s going on
around them.” “What they say or do.” “Posture.” “Facial expressions.” “Tone of voice.”)
Teacher uses his/her face, body, and/or words to show an emotion like excitement or joy.
• What was I just feeling? (Various answers.)
Recognizing other people’s emotions takes practice—it’s hard for adults too—and it’s
especially hard when you’re interacting online.
• What makes empathizing digitally difficult? (“Sometimes I can’t see people’s faces
or bodies.” “When you can’t hear their voice.” “When you can’t see what’s going on
around them.”)
• What are some clues we can use to help understand others’ feelings online? (“Emojis.”
“Photos.” “Use of CAPITAL LETTERS.” “Our history of interacting with someone.”)
Today we’re going to do an activity to help you recognize how people you interact with
online are feeling.
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Activity 1. Hand out one copy of the activity worksheet to each student, or project it for the
class to see.
2. Have students work independently to guess how the people in each scenario are
feeling.
Materials needed:
• Worksheet: “Practicing
empathy” (one per student)
3. Have students compare their answers with a partner and discuss how each person
came up with their answers.
4. Call on pairs to tell the class about scenarios where they disagreed on the answers
and what about those scenarios made them harder to predict.
Takeaway It’s really hard to guess other people’s feelings correctly—sometimes especially
online—but empathy isn’t about getting the answer right. It’s about trying to. Just by
trying to understand how someone’s feeling, you’re more likely to get along with them
and less likely to hurt them. Pretty cool, huh? And when you keep trying, you’re helping
to create kinder, more awesome online times for you and everyone else.
Practicing empathy
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Itʼs Cool to Be Kind: Lesson 2.1
A note to the teacher: In preparation for “Let’s Talk,” think of an example of when someone was kind to you and how
it made you feel, then an example of when you showed kindness to someone and how it made you feel. This lesson
asks that you use these experiences to write your own “Kindness Gram” (see the worksheet) to share with students
as an example.
What does it mean to be kind? Turn and tell your partner. (Various answers.)
Give students time to talk with a partner, then ask for volunteers to share their thinking.
Kindness is doing something nice or saying something nice to others, right? I’m going
to ask you all to think of an example of when someone was kind to you. To help you
get started, I’ll give you an example in my own life.
Provide an example of a time when someone was kind to you and describe how it made
you feel.
OK, so now think about a time when someone was kind to you. How did it make you
feel? Tell your partner. (Various answers.)
Give students time to talk with a partner, then ask for volunteers to share their thinking.
When someone is kind to us, it can make us feel better when we’re sad or upset. Being
kind can also make us feel good. So in my life, here’s an example of something kind
I did for someone.
Provide an example of a time you were kind to someone and describe for your students
how it made you feel.
The amazing thing about showing kindness is that it helps us practice empathy.
Empathy means trying to feel or understand what someone else feels. Kindness is
empathy in action! When we practice empathy by being kind, we can make the world
a better place.
Activity Turn over your worksheet to the second side, where it says Your kindness gram at
the top. Now think about someone in your life—maybe a friend, a teacher or a family
member—who you want to show kindness to. Then fill out a kindness gram to help
you plan it out.
Materials needed:
Students will choose a person (or multiple people) they can show kindness to and
• Worksheet: “Empathy
at school” with “Your make at least one kindness gram.
kindness gram” on 1. Have students work independently.
side 2 (one per student)
2. Then have each student share their kindness gram with a partner.
Now that you’ve finished your kindness gram, think about when you’re going to put it
into action. Give students time to think and call on a few to tell the class about their
kindness gram and when they’re going to act on it.
Takeaway Kindness is doing something nice or saying something nice to others. By showing
kindness we can help others feel better when they’re sad or upset. There are many
ways and places we can show kindness, online and offline—and the more the better,
right?!
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Worksheet: Lesson 2.1
Empathy at school
I will show
kindness to
I will show
kindness by
I will do this
kind thing in
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Itʼs Cool to Be Kind: Lesson 2.2
A note to the teacher: Before beginning the lesson, think of a time someone was kind to you online and how it made
you feel. This lesson asks that you share this with the class at the end of the “Let’s talk” section.
Think to yourself:
• What’s the definition of kindness?
Give students think time.
• Turn and tell your neighbor what you think.
Give students time to talk with a partner, then call on a few to tell the class what they
thought. Give them a chance to come up with several different answers.
Having empathy for others helps you show kindness. So building on what we learned
in Activity 1, what is empathy? (“Trying to feel or understand what someone else is
feeling.”)
• How can it help you show kindness? (“Notice when someone’s upset or sad.” “Know
what’ll make someone feel better.”)
• Why is it important to be kind to others? (“Builds friendships.” “Helps people feel safe
and welcome.” “So people will be kind to me.”)
• What are some ways you can show kindness to others? (“Do something nice.” “Help
them feel better.” “Say something positive.” “Let them know you care.”)
It’s important to show kindness everywhere, but today we’re going to talk about
showing kindness online.
• What can make it difficult to show kindness online? (“Harder to tell when someone
is upset.” “You might not know who the person is.” “Not sure how to show kindness
online.” “It’s very public and might be embarrassing.”) When you show kindness online
it can be really powerful. When other people see you being kind online it encourages
them to be kind too.
Share your story about a time someone was kind to you online and how it made you feel.
• How could you show kindness online to someone who might be sad? (Various answers.)
…who might be upset? (Various answers.)…who might be angry? (Various answers.)
Takeaway There are lots of ways to show kindness online. Being kind online will help make your
online world a kinder, more welcoming place for everyone. It also feels good to show
kindness. The next time you’re kind to someone, take a moment to notice how you’re
feeling too.
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Worksheet: Lesson 2.2
Scenario 1 People are leaving disrespectful comments on a selfie your friend posted.
Another way is to
Scenario 2 You’re playing an online game, and one player is insulting and trash talking another
player.
Another way is to
Scenario 3 Several of your friends are making mean jokes about another student in a private group
chat.
Another way is to
Goals for students ✓ Express feelings and opinions in positive, effective ways
✓ Respond to negativity in constructive and civil ways.
2. Write revisions
Now letʼs separate into teams of three and work on two kinds of responses to these
Materials needed:
comments:
• A whiteboard or projection
screen • How could you have made the same or similar points in more positive and
• Handout: “…but say it nicely!” constructive ways?
(one per team of students) • If one of your classmates made comments like these, how could you respond in a
• Sticky notes or devices way that would make the conversation more positive?
for students
Note to teacher: It might help to get things moving to complete one example together
as a class together.
3. Present responses
Now each team will perform their responses for both situations.
Takeaway Reacting to something negative with something positive can lead to a more fun and
interesting conversation—which is a lot better than working to clean up a mess created
by an unkind comment.
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Worksheet: Lesson 3
LOL Connor is the only one in class not Everybody wear purple tomorrow but
going on the camping trip this weekend. don’t tell Lilly.
Sorry I don’t think you can come to my party. No offense but your handwriting is a mess so you
It’ll cost too much money. should probably switch groups for this project.
This makes me cringe—who told her You can only join our group if you
she can sing?? give me the login to your account.
Goals for students ✓ Make good decisions when choosing how and what to communicate—and
whether to communicate at all.
✓ Identify situations when it’s better to wait to communicate face‑to‑face with
a peer than to text them right away.
What do you notice? How might these come across to other people? How might each
“message sender” better communicate what they really mean?
Takeaway It can be hard to understand how someone is really feeling when they’re reading a text.
Be sure you choose the right tool for your next communication—and try not to read
too much into things people say to you online. If you’re unsure what the other person
meant, find out by talking with them in person or on the phone.
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Itʼs Cool to Be Kind: Lesson 5
Goals for students ✓ Learn that we make meaning from the combination of pictures and words.
✓ Understand how a caption can change what we think a picture is communicating.
✓ Begin to see the power of your words, especially when combined with pictures
you post.
✓ Understand how to be a responsible media maker.
✓ Develop the habit of asking, “Who posted this and why?”
Activity Divide the class into small groups. Without revealing to students that you’re handing out
two different versions, give half the groups the handout with the positive caption and the
other half the one with the negative caption.
1. Pictures + words
Materials needed:
Take a look at the image. With your group, describe the person in the picture. What sort
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of person do you think they are? Do you think you’d like to spend time with them or be
their teammate? Why or why not?
The evidence will quickly reveal that groups were looking at pictures with different
captions. Have each group hold up their picture so the others can see the difference.
Finally, briefly discuss: What does this show about the power of words to shape our
ideas?
Practice creating different kinds of captions. First make up some captions that would
make the person in the photo feel happy or proud. How many different captions can
you think up?
Now let’s talk about funny captions. Is there a difference between writing what’s
funny to you and what might be funny to the person in the photo? Is there a difference
between a joke that’s kind and funny to everyone, and a joke that makes fun of
someone and is only “funny” to a few people?
Write some captions that are examples of what we discussed, then let’s all pick a caption
for each photo that’s both funny and kind—not hurtful to the person in the photo.
Keep practicing using pictures of other people at our school. Did you get any new ideas
about kind things to say by looking at the captions that your classmates wrote?
4. Class collage
Create a collage of pictures of every person in your class, each with a kind caption
written on it.
Takeaway Captions can change what we think—and feel—about a picture and the messages
we think we’re getting. It’s good to think or pause before posting pictures with captions,
to consider how the whole thing might make others feel. And before accepting pictures
and captions that others post, ask, “Who posted this and why?”
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Extension Try this experiment. Distribute a short comic strip in which all the words have been
deleted. Then have every student, working individually, fill in the thought/conversation
bubbles to tell the story they see. Compare the results. Did everyone see the same story
or write the same words? Why not? What does the experiment show about how we use
words to provide context or understand what a picture’s “saying”?
Sports images
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Handout: Lesson 5
Original artwork wins Hot Mess. I discovered a new species Mmm Dinner!
first place. in the world!
Nailed it! Awkward - not even close! Youngest scientist in Nerding out. #lame
the world!
Finally, my own phone! Got my mom’s lame Grew my hair out and WORST. HAIRCUT. EVER!
old phone. :/ donated it to a cancer
patient. <3
Open a web browser on your desktop or mobile device (e.g., tablet), visit g.co/KindKingdom.
Discussion topics Have your students play Kind Kingdom and use the questions below to prompt further
discussion about the lessons learned in the game. Most students get the most out of
the experience by playing solo, but you can also have students pair up. This may be
especially valuable for younger students.
• What scenario in Kind Kingdom do you relate to most and why?
• Describe a time when youʼve taken action to spread kindness to others online.
• In what situation would it be appropriate to block someone online?
• In what situation would it be appropriate to report someoneʼs behavior?
• Why do you think the character in Kind Kingdom is called an aggressor? Describe this
characterʼs qualities and how his actions affect the game.
• Does this game change the way you plan to behave toward others? If so, how?
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Notes
When in Doubt,
Talk It Out
Defining and encouraging Internet Brave behavior.
Themes It’s important that kids understand they’re not on their own when they see content
online that makes them feel uncomfortable—especially if it looks like they or somebody
else could get hurt. First, they should never hesitate to get help from someone they
trust. Second, it’s good for them to know they have options: There are different ways
to be brave and take action.
Goals for students ✓ U nderstand what types of situations call for getting help or talking things out with
a trusted adult.
✓ Consider what options there are for being brave and why bringing adults into the
conversation is important.
Standards ISTE Standards for Educators: 1c, 2c, 3a, 3b, 3c, 4b, 5a, 5b, 6a, 6b, 6d, 7a
addressed ISTE Standards for Students 2016: 1c, 2b, 3d, 4d, 6a, 7a, 7b, 7c
AASL Learning Standards: I.a.1, I.b.1, I.b.2, I.c.1, I.c.2, I.c.3, I.d.3, I.d.4, II.a.1, II.a.2, II.b.1,
II.b.2, II.b.3, II.c.1, II.c.2, II.d.1, II.d.2, II.d.3, III.a.1, III.a.2, III.a.3, III.b.1, III.c.1, III.c.2, III.d.1,
III.d.2, IV.a.2, IV.b.3, V.a.2, V.a.3, V.c.1, V.c.3, V.d.1, V.d.2, V.d.3, VI.a.1, VI.a.2, VI.a.3, VI.d.1,
VI.d.3
Harassment: A word for many kinds of aggressive Student agency: A step beyond student voice,
or mean behavior, it’s a more general term than agency is the capacity to act or make change;
“bullying”—isn’t necessarily repeated or aimed at including protecting or standing up for oneself and
someone more vulnerable others; often seen as a necessary part of citizenship
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When in Doubt, Talk It Out: Lesson 1
Media literacy background for teachers: We all know that people’s thinking can be influenced by media. So to help
students develop their awareness of that, it can really help to “talk it out”—think out loud together about how that
happens. Here are a few important things to keep in mind as you teach this lesson:
• Our ideas are shaped by everything we see, hear and read.
• We interpret what we see through the lens of our own experiences, so we can take away very different messages
from the very same media.
• We learn as much (sometimes more) from pictures as from words.
• Media literacy helps counter stereotypes by helping us become aware of (and challenge) patterns—especially repetition.
For example, if all the heroes we see are male, we might get the idea that men are more likely to be heroes—even if no
one ever actually tells us that women can’t be heroes (absence of information is something to watch out for too).
Goals for students ✓ Think about what it means to be brave, including what it means to be brave when
we’re online.
✓ Identify the source(s) of our ideas about what it means to be brave.
✓ Learn the habit of asking: “What are they leaving out?”
Letʼs talk What do you think of being brave, do you think of movie superheroes or firefighters?
Those are great examples, but it’s important to remember that we are able to be
brave too.
Activity Before beginning, post one label in each of 3 corners or areas of the classroom.
Media need to make money, and that means they need lots of us to pay attention to
them. They present to us the most dramatic, action‑filled kinds of bravery. So we see
lots of superheroes and first responders and soldiers. Those can be great examples,
but they definitely don’t tell the whole story, right? It’s always smart to ask, “What are
they leaving out?”
So what other examples of bravery are there? Where else have you learned about what
it means to be brave?
4. Revealing more
In the groups you’re in now, talk about the reasons for your choices: What made your
person brave? Were there differences in the types of brave things that real people did
and the brave things that media characters do—if yes, what differences?
After a few minutes for group discussion, bring the class back together and—on the
whiteboard or easel—take notes…
Raise your hand if you can tell me about someone who was brave in these other
ways—or if you have another kind of brave behavior you’ve thought of. I’d love to hear
about that.
Optional: Divide the room into three again, but this time divided up into these areas:
a) The person on my paper is female.
b) The person on my paper is male.
c) The person on my paper doesn’t identify as male or female.
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When you think of the word “brave,” do you picture a man or boy? A woman or girl?
What does bravery by women/girls look like? Is it different than bravery by men/boys?
Why do you think so?
Takeaway Bravery is about taking risks to help people—in all kinds of ways, big and small. Media
can shape the way we think about things like what it means to be brave, but the media
doesn’t always present all the possibilities. So it can help to ask, “What or who are they
leaving out?” When we’re online, we also need to think about taking risks to save people
from having their feelings hurt. We all can choose to be brave in lots of ways.
If you find yourself the target of bullying or other bad behavior online, here are some
things you can do:
If you find yourself a bystander when harassment or bullying happens, you have the
power to intervene and report cruel behavior—online as well as offline. Sometimes
bystanders don’t try to stop the bullying or help the target. You can choose to support
the target and take a stand for kindness and positivity, privately or publicly.
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• Calling out the mean behavior in a comment or reply like “That’s not cool” (remember
to call out the behavior, not the person—if you feel comfortable and safe to do that)
• Deciding not to spread the drama by sharing, reposting or telling people about the
mean post or comment
• Reporting the harassment. Tell someone who can help, like a parent, teacher, or
school counselor.
Activity Possible modification for grades 2−3: The worksheet scenarios may be a lot of reading
for your students to do on their own in groups. So you might read the scenarios to
the class and make it an all‑class discussion. See if the class comes up with the right
answers (below) before reading them out. (Oh, and remember that if students in Grades
2 and 3 haven’t had experiences described here, they may have older siblings who have
Materials needed:
and might want to talk about that.)
• Worksheet: “From bystanders
to helpers” (one per student)
1. Bystander or Helper?
nswers for each scenario on
A After discussing the roles above, pass out the worksheet and give students 15 min.
the worksheet:
to read the three scenarios and categorize each response (if there’s time, have them
cenario 1: B, H, B (because
S
not helping the situation), H, H create that 4th scenario together as a class).
Scenario 2: H, B, H, H
Scenario 3: H, H, B, B, H 2. Helpers at school and online
cenario 4: The answers are
S Discuss the answers above. Before or at the end of the discussion, ask them if they
all yours! can tell you why it can be nice to have helpers around, at school and online.
3. Discuss
If there’s time, ask your students if any of the responses were hard to categorize and
why. Have a discussion about that.
Takeaway Whether standing up for others, reporting something hurtful, or ignoring something
to keep it from spreading even more, you have a variety of strategies to choose from,
depending on the situation. With a little kindness, anyone can make a huge difference
in turning bad situations around.
If there’s time, have a class discussion about the ones that seemed to make it harder to decide and why. Another option:
The students may think of a 4th scenario—maybe something that happened at your school. As a class you could come
up with responses that involve helping or just witnessing.
Scenario 1 A friend of yours dropped her phone by the drinking fountain near the school soccer
field. Someone found it and sent a really mean message about another student to
a bunch of people on her soccer team, making it look like your friend sent the mean
message! So you know what “impersonation” means, right? The person who found
your friend’s phone and sent the message was impersonating her, and the person
they targeted told your friend she was a terrible person, even though she wasn’t the
one who sent the mean message. No one knows who actually sent the mean message.
You…
□ feel sad for your friend but do nothing because no one knows who did that mean
thing to her.
□ go find the person the mean message was about, tell them it didn’t come from your
friend and ask them how they feel and whether you can help.
□ spread the drama by sharing the mean message with other friends.
Note to teacher: Students may find this one challenging, which means they’re smart,
because it is. This is neither pure bystanding nor helping because it’s likely making
things worse. It may well be worth discussing.
□ and your friend get everybody on the soccer team to post compliments about the
person who was targeted.
□ and your friend anonymously report the incident to your principal, letting her know
that everybody needs to be talking about good phone security and locking their
phones—maybe even include it in morning announcements!
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Scenario 2 Your teacher created a class blog for Language Arts, giving the class the ability to write,
edit and post comments. The next day she’s out sick and the substitute doesn’t notice
that things are going south in the class blog–someone is posting seriously mean
comments about one of the students in the class. You…
□ comment on the comments by saying things like, “This is so not cool” and “I am
’s friend, and this is not true.”
□ get other students to call out the mean comments or post compliments about
the student being targeted.
□ tell the substitute that mean behavior is happening in the class blog, and they
might want to let the teacher know.
Scenario 3 There’s an online game that a bunch of your friends play a lot. Usually game chat is
mostly about what’s happening in the game. Sometimes it gets a little nasty, though
that’s usually more like friendly rivalry than anything really bad. But this one time, one
player starts saying really nasty stuff about one of your friends who’s playing, and they
just won’t stop. They even keep it up the next day. You…
□ call up your friend and tell them you don’t like this anymore than they do and ask
them what they think you two should do.
□ call everybody you know who plays with you guys (making sure your friend knows
you’re doing this) to see if you can get everybody’s agreement that it’s time to call
out the nastiness.
□ decide to wait and see if the kid stops, then maybe do something.
□ look for the game’s community rules and if bullying isn’t allowed, report the mean
behavior in the game’s reporting system.
Scenario 4 Create a real-life scenario as a class, based on a situation one of you has heard about,
then come up with both bystander and upstander responses to show you definitely
know what we’re talking about now!
Letʼs talk When you see someone being mean to another person online—making them feel
embarrassed or left out, making fun of them, disrespecting them, hurting their feelings,
etc.—you always have choices. First, you can choose to be a helper instead of a
bystander by helping the target. Second, if you choose to be a helper, you have options
for what kind of action you take.
The most important thing to know is that it can really help someone being targeted
just to be heard if they feel bad—and to know that someone cares.
Now, not everybody feels comfortable standing up for others publicly, whether online
or in the school lunchroom. If you do, go for it! You can…
• Call out the mean behavior (not the person) right when it happens, saying it’s not cool
• Say something nice about the target later, in a post or comment
• Get friends to compliment the target online too.
• Offline, you can invite the person to hang out with you on the playground or sit with
you at lunch
If you don’t feel comfortable helping out publicly, that’s fine. You can also support the
target privately. You can…
• Ask how they’re doing in a text or DM (direct message)
• Say something kind or complimentary in an anonymous post, comment, or direct
message (if you’re using media that lets you stay anonymous)
• Talk to them quietly in the hall and tell them you’re there for them if they want to talk
after school or on the phone
• Tell them you thought the mean behavior was wrong and ask if they feel like talking
about what happened
No matter how you choose to be a helper, you also have both public and private options
for reporting what you saw. This could mean reporting bullying behavior via a website
or app, or it could mean reporting what’s going on to an adult who you know will make
the situation better, especially for the target.
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Activity Possible modification for grades 2−3: The worksheet scenarios may be a bit too much
reading for your students to do on their own in groups. So you might read the scenarios
to the class, then let the groups create their responses.
In this activity, we’re going to try out what it’s like to be a helper, so let’s assume our
Materials needed: whole class has made the choice to help out the target.
• A whiteboard or easel with
large white pad on which
students can stick sticky 1. Divide into groups of five students per group
notes Each group should pick one member to be a reader and one to be a writer.
• Handout: “Helpers have
options!”(one per student
or at least one per group) 2. Groups read and discuss the hurtful situations together
• Sticky notes for each group The three situations are provided in the worksheet on the next page.
of students
While groups are discussing, the teacher divides the whiteboard or easel into two large
spaces with the headlines “Public Support” and “Private Support.”
4. Students post their choices to the board and read out loud to the whole class
The teacher can then facilitate a class discussion based on the choices the students
made.
Takeaway Lots of times when you see somebody being hurt or harassed, you want to help but you
don’t always know what to do. You now know many ways to help the target—and that
you definitely have options for supporting them in ways that you’re comfortable with.
You have the power to help people in a way that works for you!
Note: There’s not just one right way to support a target because each person (whether target or bystander) is different
and each situation is different. We’re just trying out different helper options.
Situation 1 A student posts a video of themselves singing a cover to a famous pop artist’s song.
Other students start posting mean comments under the video. What do you do to
support the student who posted the video? Work with some of the ideas on the
previous page or agree on your group’s own response.
Situation 2 A student sends another student a screenshot of a comment your friend posted and
makes a nasty joke about it. The screenshot gets reposted and goes viral at school.
What will you do to support the student whose comment was screenshotted and
shared? Choose one of the ideas we just discussed as a class—or decide on your
own response.
Situation 3 You find out that a student at your school created a fake social media account using
another student’s name and posts photos and memes that say mean things about
other students, teachers, and the school. What do you decide to do to support the
student who’s being impersonated in this mean way? Consider the ideas on the
previous page or come up with your own response.
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When in Doubt, Talk It Out: Lesson 4.1
A special note for educators: Because children in lower elementary grades tend to be online less than their older
peers, this activity is about helping younger kids deal with upsetting images or messages they might encounter
anywhere. If a child does run into upsetting content or communication online and reports that to you privately later,
follow these steps:
1. Thank them for telling you and reassure them that they did the right thing in coming to you.
2. Listen to their report and believe what they say. If you feel comfortable, you can gently ask for more details, but
don’t push. In this situation, your job is to listen, not be an investigator.
3. If the child indicates the content has been shared by an adult or that any inappropriate contact is involved, report
what you’ve heard to your school administrator, understanding the sensitivity of this information and the primary
importance of caring for the child.
4. Make sure the administrator follows through.
Letʼs talk Looking at pictures or watching videos on a phone, tablet or computer can be a lot of
fun. Tap your head if you ever look at pictures or videos on a phone, tablet or computer.
[Note number of tapped heads.]
• Who do you look at these things with? (“Family.” “Friends.” “Classmates.”)
• What are some of your favorite things to watch? (Various answers.)
• How do you feel when you watch these? (“Excited.” “Happy.” “Relaxed.”)
Pictures and videos aren’t always fun to watch. Snap your fingers if you’ve ever had
to look at something that was boring. Or confusing. Or scary. [Note snaps.]
Think about a time you felt really upset—I’m not talking about on a tablet or TV screen,
just any time you felt upset. You don’t need to say what happened. I’ll give you some
examples of how bodies can feel when people are upset. Raise your hand when
you hear how your body felt when you were upset. [Pause after naming each body
sensation…] Hot face. Racing heart. Sweaty palms. Sick stomach. Fast Breathing.
You feel those feelings in your body, right?
Now snap your fingers if you’ve ever seen a picture or video that’s made you feel upset.
[Note snaps.] This activity will help you know what to do if you see pictures or videos
that make you feel upset.
So what are some words you can use to refuse an uncomfortable picture or video?
(“Please stop.” “I don’t like that.” “I don’t want to watch this.”) [Write down students’
ideas on the board.]
• Turn to your neighbor and practice saying one of these phrases. Use a strong,
respectful voice.
Give students a chance to practice two or three different phrases.
• What can make it hard to refuse? (“If the other person won’t listen.” “If they keep
showing you similar things.” “If you’re afraid or embarrassed to refuse.” “If the
other person is older.”)
This is a really important way you can be brave (referring to Lesson 1).
Sometimes, you might accidentally see something upsetting when you’re using a
phone, tablet or computer by yourself. Tap your head if this has ever happened to you.
[Note the heads tapped.]
• What should you do if you accidentally see something like this? (“Close it.” “Turn it
off.”)
• What if somebody showed it to you? (“I don’t want to watch that.” “That makes me
feel bad.”)
If you can’t or don’t want to refuse, you can report what happened to an adult you trust.
Adults will help take care of you and keep you safe. Who are some adults you trust?
(Various answers.) When you report to an adult, remember to be assertive. Tell them
what happened and use a strong respectful voice.
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4. L
isten to students as they practice. Choose one pair of students to demonstrate
what they said for the class.
5. C
all on a few other students at random to tell the class what they’d do in this
situation.
Scenarios Scenario 1: Someone shows you clips from a comedy show she thinks is funny, but it
makes you uncomfortable.
Scenario 2: Your sibling shows you videos of car crashes. They think it’s funny when
you say “stop.”
Scenario 3: One of your family members is always playing games with lots of shooting
in them. You liked it at first, but it’s starting to bother you.
Scenario 4: You’re playing a game with a couple other people, and you see one of them
being really mean to the other player.
Scenario 5: Your cousin’s hanging out at your house and you’re watching videos
together. They start watching a video that has naked people in it.
Takeaway You might see things in your life offline and online that make you uncomfortable. If you
do not feel good about something you see, try and use your words to refuse them. Also,
always report what you saw to an adult so they can help everyone stay safe.
A special note for educators: If during or after this activity a student tells you about an instance of bullying, harassment,
abuse, threats of violence or even suicidal ideation, that is usually a sign of trust, and it’s very important that you honor
that trust. Research suggests that students will often report sensitive information to an adult only one time. If that first
report doesn’t result in their feeling helped, students will not try again.
Letʼs talk This activity will help you handle situations where people do, say or show you things
online that make you upset or scared.
Raise your hand if you’ve ever seen content, comments or behavior online that made
you upset—it could be text, photos or video. [Note number of hands.]
Write this sentence on the board and have your students copy it and fill in the blank:
“Something that upset me online was .” On a piece of paper, write
some examples that fill in the blank in this sentence on the board.
As students are writing, walk around and look at their answers. Ask a few students if
they’re willing to share their answers with the class.
You have the same right to feel as safe and comfortable online as you do here at
school. You get to decide what you watch and who you talk with online. You can refuse
to see anything that makes you upset. What this activity is all about is growing your
refusal skills—skills everybody needs to have.
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Make sure they hear all of these options. Encourage students to share specifics of how
they can refuse content on different platforms. This will also be a chance for you to learn
more, for future discussions, about your students’ experiences online. To maximize trust
and communication, try to remain judgment‑free.
Sometimes a person will keep doing things that upset you, or you’ll still feel upset
about something even after it’s gone. Sometimes you might not know how to handle
a situation—which is just fine. A lot of adults don’t know how to handle some situations
too. What could you do in this situation?
See if they come up with this on their own: “Get help from an adult I trust.”
Remember, just because you refuse doesn’t mean you can’t also report the content or
the behavior. You can definitely do both.
If you need help and report what happened to an adult but they can’t help you, what
should you do? (“Find another adult to report to.”) I know reporting isn’t always easy.
Experts say students often report things only once. So I want to tell you: Keep reporting
until you find an adult who really helps you.
Who are some adults here at school you trust to help you? (Various answers.) There are
lots of adults here who you can talk to if you need help.
Now we’re going to practice refusing and reporting unwanted, upsetting or scary things.
. Choose a scenario from the list and read it to the class, or create a relevant scenario
2
of your own.
Materials needed: 3. Ask students to think about whether they’d refuse the scenario themselves or report
• Scenarios (next page)
what happened to an adult and ask for help.
• One piece of paper with the
word “Refuse” on it
4. Have students move to the side of the room corresponding to what they’d do.
• Another piece of paper with
the word “Report” on it.
5. Have each group discuss what they’d say or do when refusing or reporting and why.
6. Call on one student from each group to demonstrate reporting and refusing.
Scenario 6: You see a post saying someone is going to bring a gun to school.
Takeaway You might see things online that are just plain scary—like someone saying they’re going
to do something that might hurt themselves or someone else. In these situations, tell
an adult right away so they can help everyone stay safe.
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Goals for students ✓ Understand it’s okay to feel scared or sad when you see something upsetting on
(or off) a screen.
✓ Know they can refuse to watch upsetting things in a show, game or video.
✓ Understand how to refuse disturbing content.
✓ Identify who they can talk to if they see something upsetting.
Letʼs talk What are some of your favorite TV shows or online videos? [Call on volunteers to share.]
Why do you like these shows? (“They’re funny.” “They have lots of action, adventure,
etc.”) What emotions do you feel when you watch them? (“Happy.” “Excited.”)
When a show is entertaining, it makes you feel good and you enjoy watching it. Maybe
it makes you laugh or just chill out, or you’re interested because you’re learning
something new, or it’s super exciting and you can’t wait to see what happens next.
But sometimes a show might not be entertaining because people or animals are really
getting hurt, someone’s really mean or scary or something’s making you feel nervous
or sad. Can anyone tell me about a video or show that they didn’t think was entertaining
and why? [Call on volunteers to share.]
Today we’re going to practice what you can do the next time you see or hear something
upsetting on TV or the Internet.
• If you’re watching a TV show or video by yourself and you see or hear something
upsetting, you can turn it off. [Write “Turn it off” on the board.]
• If you’re still upset after you turn it off, find an adult you trust to talk to about what
you saw and how it made you feel. [Write “Talk to a trusted adult” on the board.]
• Who is a trusted adult you could talk to? [Write students’ ideas under “Trusted Adult”
on the board.] (Possible Answers: Mom, Dad, caregiver, teacher, etc.)
• If you’re watching a TV show or online video with friends or family and you see or
hear something upsetting, you can speak up and say how you feel. [Write “Speak Up”
on the board.]
• For example, you could say, “This show is scary. Let’s watch something else.”
What are some other things you could say? [Write students’ ideas on the board under
“Speak Up.] (Possible Answers: “I don’t want to watch this because it makes me
upset”; “Let’s watch something we both like.”)
If you speak up and someone keeps showing you things you don’t like, you can always
leave the room and tell a trusted adult.
Continued on the next page →
I’m going to read a scenario, and you’re going to take turns with your partner practicing
what you would do in that situation. Let’s do the first one together.
Choose a scenario from the list below and have students work with their partners to
decide how they would respond. After a few moments, call on volunteers to share.
Continue working through the scenarios as time allows.
Scenarios Scenario 1: You’re watching an online video with a family member. The person in the
video is using swear words and saying mean things that upset you. You decide to
speak up. What do you say? [Turn and tell your partner what you would say.]
Scenario 2: You’re watching a new TV show alone. You’re halfway through the first
episode when something super scary happens. Argh! You can’t get it out of your mind,
and now you’re convinced it could happen to you. You decide to turn off the show
and tell a trusted adult. [Turn and tell your partner who you would tell and what you
would say.]
Scenario 3: You’re watching online videos with your friends. One friend shows a video
with naked people in it. You feel upset. You don’t know how your friends feel, but you
don’t want to watch the video anymore. You decide to speak up. [Turn and tell a partner
what you would say.]
Scenario 4: You’re playing a multiplayer game online when you see one player
intentionally messing up what other players are doing. Someone asks him to stop and
he just laughs. [Turn and tell a partner what you would say.]
Scenario 5: Your cousins are playing video games with lots of shooting in them. There’s
lots of people getting hurt. You ask them to play something else, but they ignore you.
[Turn and tell a partner what you would do.]
Scenario 6: You’re at a friend’s house and you overhear a news story on TV that makes
you feel really sad. When you get home, you decide to talk to a grownup you trust.
[Turn and tell your partner who you would tell and what you would say.]
Takeaway If a game, video or TV show makes you feel upset, it’s okay not to watch it. Now you
know how:
• If you’re alone, turn it off.
• If you’re still upset, talk to an adult you trust.
• If someone is showing it to you, speak up and say how you feel.
• If you speak up and they keep showing it to, just leave and/or tell that person you trust.
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Goals for students ✓ Recognize how mean behavior online can lead to conflicts at school.
✓ Identify ways to avoid escalating conflicts online.
Letʼs talk What are some reasons people act mean to each other online? (“Gossip.” “Disrespect.”
“Misunderstandings.” “Being mean.”)
People can get into conflicts online for a lot of different reasons. We can avoid a lot
of nastiness just by trying to show kindness to others—or just not getting involved.
Sometimes it’s a spillover from something that happened at school. Other times,
though, people just say or do mean things out of the blue. Snap your fingers if you’ve
ever seen or heard of someone doing any of these mean things: [Note snaps.]
• Posting disrespectful comments on photos or videos
• Spreading gossip or lies about someone else
• Pretending to be someone else in order to get them in trouble
• Name calling
• Using racist or homophobic language
Raise your hand if anyone’s ever been mean to you online. [Note the number of hands.]
• How might you feel if someone said or did something mean to you online? (“Angry.”
“Furious.” “Sad.” “Upset.”)
• Do you think you’d ever be tempted to get back at them? (“Yes.” “No.”)
It’s natural to feel angry when you think someone’s done something mean. The urge to
get back at them can be very strong. Think about what the consequences might be for
trying to get back at someone. [Give students time to think.] Turn and tell your neighbor
your ideas. [After a minute, call on a few students at random to report.] (“Start a big
fight.” “Drama.” “Get lots of people involved.” “Get in trouble.”)
Responding to mean behavior with more mean behavior is a common way conflicts
start or spread online. What are some other ways you could respond to mean behavior
that wouldn’t cause a conflict? (“Ignore it.” “Tell the person to stop.” “Block or remove
the person.”)
When you’re angry or upset, it can be easy to say or do something mean to the other
person. It’s important to calm down before you do anything else. One strategy for
calming down is taking a few slow, deep breaths.
Have the class practice taking a few slow, deep breaths together.
How would you feel if you saw someone being mean to someone else online? (“Mad.”
“Worried it could happen to me.” “Upset.” “Amused.”)
• When people who see mean behavior don’t say anything, or they laugh or join in, what
happens? (“They’re encouraging more mean behavior.” “They’re making people feel
unwelcome.” “They’re being mean themselves.”)
• When people stand up to mean behavior, what can happen? (“People will realize it’s
not okay.” “People will be kinder and more respectful.”)
Snap your fingers if you’ve ever helped someone who was being treated meanly?
[Note the number of snaps. Call on a few students to tell their stories of helping others.]
How does it feel to help someone? (“It feels good.”)
What should you do if you don’t feel comfortable or safe standing up to mean behavior
you see? (“Get help from an adult.”)
Now we’re going to practice ways to respond to mean behavior we see online.
Activity 1. Have students get in groups of 3−4 and give each group a worksheet.
Takeaway When you encounter mean behavior online, it’s important to respond appropriately.
If you try to get back by responding with mean behavior of your own, you can start a
conflict or make something that started at school even worse—online or at school.
If you take a moment to calm down and then respond in another way, you can avoid
conflict.
If someone ever keeps being mean to you and you don’t know how to make them stop,
you should get help from an adult.
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Worksheet: Lesson 5.2
How would you respond if you saw this happening to someone else?
Goals for students ✓ Recognize that seeking help for oneself or others is a sign of strength.
✓ Think out loud together about situations where talking it out can really help.
Letʼs talk Here’s a whole list of situations you might run into online. We may not get through them
all, because I hope you’ll raise your hands when something on the list reminds you of a
situation you’ve been in and what you did about it, so we can talk those situations out
together.
Activity Please take a look at the scenarios below to complete the activity.
Note to school leaders: Having a student panel or group of student leaders in your
school (or a middle/high school in your district) mentor younger students about
online situations like these can be a very effective way to teach, engage and empower
Materials needed:
younger students. If you already have a peer mentoring group at your school, have the
• Handout (select based on
grade, one per student): mentors walk through the above scenarios with younger students and share their own
- Scenarios for Grades 2−3 experiences in navigating them.
- Scenarios for Grades 4−6
Takeaway It may not always seem like it, but being able to ask for help when you’re not sure what
to do is a brave thing to do. If it’s to help you or someone heal something hurtful or stop
harm from happening, it’s both smart and courageous.
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Handout: Lesson 6
Scenarios Scenario 1: You need help remembering a password. [Ask a parent or older relative
to help you go through the steps to create a new one.]
Scenario 2: Another gamer really likes your skin and offers to pay you game money
for it—how do you decide?
Scenario 3: You see some really mean behavior in a video and aren’t sure what to do
about it.
Scenario 4: Another gamer asks you how old you are and where you live—do you tell
them?
Scenario 5: A friend shows you a video that’s really violent—someone gets hurt in it.
What do you do?
Scenario 6: You want to do something about a comment you see online that’s super
mean. What do you do?
Scenario 7: Someone on the playground starts making fun of another kid because
they don’t have a phone, and the kid is really sad. What do you do about that?
Scenarios Scenario 1: You have this feeling someone hacked into your account. What can you
do to take back control? [Go to the app’s or site’s Help section, and go through the
steps they have for showing them you’re the owner, then log in and change your
password—and not share it with anyone but a parent.]
Scenario 2: You’re unsure if something was a scam and think you might have fallen
for one.
Scenario 3: Another gamer starts asking you stuff that has nothing to do with the
game and it’s kind of cringey—do you answer them?
Scenario 5: You’re concerned you may have shared something online you shouldn’t
have (only tell us what it was if you feel comfortable sharing that, but even if you
don’t, tell us what you did about it).
Scenario 7: Someone is posting really bad stuff about themselves online, and it
makes you worry about them.
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Goals for students ✓ Know about apps’ and services’ community standards, or terms of service.
✓ Be aware of online tools for reporting abuse.
✓ Consider when to use them.
✓ Talk about why and when to report the abuse.
Letʼs talk When meanness and other inappropriate content turn up online, people have options
for taking action. In the last activity we talked about the most important one: talking
it out with someone you trust. That can help you figure out the best ways to help.
Another option is to report it to the app or service where you find it, which can help
get the content deleted. It’s important to get used to checking apps’ terms of service
or community rules and using their reporting tools.
Activity 1. Look for community rules. Grab as many devices as your class has access to.
If there are several, divide the class into groups. Together, find the terms of service in
at least 3 school‑related accounts and look for a rule about harassment or bullying.
2. Figure out how to report a problem. Find the apps’ or sites’ tools for reporting
Materials needed:
inappropriate content or behavior. (If there’s only one device or computer in the
• Worksheet: “Report it online,
too” (one per student) room, have groups of students take turns at that screen.)
3.Go through the scenarios. Everyone sits down and, as a class, goes through the
situations on the worksheet on the next page.
4. Would you report it? Ask students to raise their hands if they would report the
content; then ask them to raise their hands if they wouldn’t report it.
5. If so, why? Ask someone who would report it to tell the class why, and ask someone
who wouldn’t report it to do the same.
Note: Seldom is there just one right answer or approach. Make sure everybody knows
this before class discussion begins.
Takeaway Most apps and services have tools for reporting and/or blocking inappropriate content,
and it can help the people involved, their community, and the platforms themselves if
we use those tools. Before blocking or reporting inappropriate content, it’s always wise
to take a screenshot so that you have a record of the situation.
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Worksheet: Lesson 7
Situation 1 Another student posts a group photo in a public account, and you hate the way you look
in it. Would you report that photo or not? If you know who posted it, would you talk with
the person and ask them to take it down? How can you respond?
Situation 2 Someone creates an account of a student you know using their name and photo. They
turned the photo into a meme and drew a moustache and other weird facial features on
it, turning the photo into a joke. Would you report the account?
Situation 3 Someone posts lots of mean comments about a student in your school without
using their name, but you have a feeling you know who it is. Would you report those
comments or not and, if you would, how?
Situation 4 A student creates an account with your school’s name in the screen name and posts
students’ photos with comments that everybody hears about. Some of the comments
are mean to students, some are compliments. Do you report the mean comments, the
whole account, or both?
Situation 5 One night, you notice that a student has made a comment online saying they’re
going to fight with another student in the lunchroom the next day. Do you report that
comment online or not? Do you report it to a teacher or principal the next morning or
not? Both?
Situation 6 You’re watching a cartoon video and all of a sudden there’s some weird content in it
that’s definitely not appropriate for kids and makes you feel uncomfortable. Do you
report it or not?
Situation 7 You’re playing an online game with friends and someone none of the players know
starts chatting with you. They’re not being mean or anything, but you don’t know them.
Do you ignore them or report them?
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