Sample: Submissive Contract
Sample: Submissive Contract
Sample: Submissive Contract
1. state the full mutual consent of the undersigned in regards to this relationship.
2. to clearly define the responsibilities and duties of both Dom and sub.
3. to clearly establish a safeword, and limits.
4. explain the use of punishment and clearly define what punishment is, the implements to
be used and to make clear the other non physical punishments and what they entail.
5. foster a greater sense of communication between Dom and sub.
This contract is in no way legally binding, and is meant only to better understand the needs,
duties and responsibilities of Dom and sub.
This agreement may be terminated at any time before the above named date by either party
only in the event of breach of contract. On the above named date this agreement will be
reviewed, negotiated and rewritten or terminated.
Details of Contract
1. sub agrees to obey to the best of her/his ability, and to devote herself/himself entirely to
the pleasure and desires of their Dom. The sub also renounces all rights to her own
pleasure, comfort, or gratification except insofar as permitted by their Dom.
The Dominant agrees to learn what excites the submissive through exploration and
communication and try to incorporate this into the relationship.
2. The Dominant accepts full responsibility of submissive. This includes but is not limited to:
the sub's survival, health, physical well being, and mental well being. The sub accepts
full responsibility for informing the Dom of any real or perceived dangers or safety
concerns, but also states that the Dom's decision will be final regarding these issues.
The Dom agrees that sub will not be punished for respectfully stating these concerns.
The Dom further agrees to listen to the sub's concerns with a clear and open mind. The
Dom shall endeavor not to inflict physical harm upon the sub which might require the
attention of someone outside relationship.
3. The sub agrees at all times to make their body readily available to the Dom for his use.
The sub will have hair washed and brushed in the style the Dom prefers at all times. The
sub agrees to wear any and all clothing Master picks.
4. The sub agrees to accept the responsibility of using a safeword when necessary. The
sub acknowledges that safeword is "________" and safe signal is "________". The Dom
accepts the responsibility of assessing situations where the sub calls safeword and will,
to the best of his ability, make judgement on whether to modify the activity or stop
activity entirely. The sub agrees to hold no ill will due to the Dom's decison. The Dom
agrees not to punish sub for the use of a safeword.
5. The sub agrees to answer any and all questions asked by the Dom freely, promptly, and
to the best of their knowledge. The sub further agrees to volunteer any information that
the Dom should know regarding the sub's physical or emotional state. The Dom agrees
to never use this information to harm the sub in any way.
6. The Dom agrees to furnish all toys such as vibrators, etc. and punishment implements
such as crops and whips. The sub agrees to clean and maintain all toys, have them
available for the Dom's use at all times, and inform the Dom of any needed repairs or
replacements.
7. The subs states that her limits are, but are not limited
to:______________________________________. The Dom agrees to never violate
these limits without prior negotiation of, and consent by, the sub.
8. The sub agrees to address the Dom as ‘Daddy’ or ‘Sir" unless otherwise directed. The
sub agrees to speak respectfully to the Dom at all times, including times not spent in a
scene. The Dom may address slave in any way he so chooses.
9. The Dom agrees to furnish slave with a symbolic token of ownership. The sub agrees to
wear this symbol at all times, except when The Dom states to do so would be
inappropriate or would non-consensually involve others.
10. The sub agrees and understands that any infractions of this agreement, or any act the
sub commits which displeases the Dom, will result in punishment. The sub will gracefully
accept punishment and try to learn from it. The sub agrees to assemble the punishment
materials as ordered by the Dom and assume any position needed to accept the
punishment. The sub understands that failure to comply with the Dom's orders will result
in a more severe punishment. The Dom will inform the sub that they are being punished
when punishment occurs. The Dom will explain the reason for punishment either before,
during, or following punishment. The Dom agrees to discipline only out of a desire to
better the sub, and further agrees to never punish out of, or during, feelings of anger.
________________________________________
Daddy