Extensive Reading YANTI ASMARAA
Extensive Reading YANTI ASMARAA
Extensive Reading YANTI ASMARAA
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Preview :
From the title, we can see that this book tells/learns about Emotional Intelligence.
Predicting :
Judging from the background of the popularity of this book, of course we have no doubts about the
storyline, and the lessons we can take from this book.Yes, that's right, this book is very rich in lessons
about Emotional Intelligence.
Reading Purpose :
Travis Bradberry and Jean Greaves' emotional intelligence book discusses self-control strategies, in
thought and attitude, which are described as the use of an individual in the world of professional work,
and social / community relations. Which aims to help prospective workers and also workers who do not
understand self-control, both emotionally or EQ. because almost all the strategies described in this book
are very well visualized and easy to understand in terms of description and use of language.
• Fact
"Out of all the people we studied in the workplace, we found that 90 isolated people also had a high EQ.
On the other hand, only 20 percent of low achievers had a high EQ. You can be a high champion without
an EQ, but the odds are slim People who develop an EQ tend to succeed at work because the two go
hand in hand. Typically, people with a high EQ make more money—an average of $29,000 more per year
than people with a low EQ. Between EQ and earnings is so direct that each point increase in EQ adds
$1,300 to annual salary. These findings apply to everyone in all industries, at all levels, in every region of
the world. We haven't been able to find a job where performance and salary are not closely related to
EQ."
The quotation above shows the facts that occur in the field about the lack of EQ in individuals in the
world of work.
• Opinion
In my opinion, this emotional intelligence book is very helpful for prospective workers, and especially
individuals who have already entered the world of work, because with an explanation of effective
emotional control and increasing EQ, it really helps to improve individual quality in the world of work.
Paraphrase :
Social awareness is your ability to accurately pick up on the emotions of other people and understand
what is really happening to them. He means "the ability to recognize emotions in other people and
understand what is really going on in a situation."
Summary :
1. The Journey
This chapter opens with a riveting story of a surfer who is attacked by a great white shark in California
that is a great illustration of the power of emotion and how important it is to understand and manage
our emotions. This chapter also illustrates how our brains are wired to react to events emotionally
before our reason kicks in, and it lays the groundwork for the process by which the rest of the book will
teach you to increase your EQ.
This chapter teaches what EQ is and what it isn't. For example, a lot of people mistakenly think that EQ is
a part of your personality. To the contrary EQ is separate from your personality, just as it is separate
from your intellect, or IQ. It begins to build your understanding of emotions by showing what the five
core emotions look like in varying degrees of intensity. Next the Bradberry and Greaves explain research
studies that illustrate how important EQ is in daily living. They show how your EQ impacts things like
your tolerance for change, how you manage stress, and even how much money you make.
This chapter ntroduces and explains Goleman's four EQ skills: self-awareness, self-management, social
awareness, and relationship management. Beyond a conceptual description of the skills, detailed
vignettes show examples of real people who are high or low in each of the skills
5. Self-Awareness Strategies
This chapter introduces you to fifteen original strategies, which were designed to help you maximize
your self-awareness to create positive changes in your life. The strategies are straightforward and
packed full of insights and examples that will help grow readers self-awareness.
6. Self-Management Strategies
This chapter presents seventeen specific strategies, things that you can start doing today, that will help
you manage your emotions to your benefit. Each simple strategy is targeted to an important element of
the self-management skill. This carefully crafted set has been honed through many years of testing and
are proven methods for increasing self-management skills.
7. Social-Awareness Strategies
This chapter presents seventeen strategies that will help you notice and interpret cues other people
send you. These cues will give you some help in putting yourself in the other person's shoes. It is critical
to pick up on the right signals others are sending you, and these proven strategies will help you do just
that.
This chapter provides seventeen strategies to help you work on that's critical to making relationships
work. Relationship management skills tap into the three other EQ skills. You use your self-awareness
skills to notice your feelings and judge if your needs are satisfied. You use your self-management skills to
express your feelings and act accordingly to benefit the connection. Finally, you use your social
awareness skills to better understand the other person's needs and feelings.
Conclution :
Emotional intelligence 2.0 book explains what is emotional intelligence and how you can use it to build
fantastic relationships in your personal life and career by utilizing the powers of self awareness, and
relationship management.
Questioning :