genderuli gansxvaveba dawyvilebis prioritetebSi

nino javaxiSvili1

Tbilisis saxelmwifo universiteti

sakvanZo sityvebi: genderuli gansxvaveba, dawyvilebis prioritetebi, sociokulturuli perspeqtiva,

evoluciuri fsiqologiis perspeqtiva, saqorwino gancxadebebi.

Summary

Gender Differences in Mating Staretgies

Content analysis of dating ads revealed gender differences in preferences for choosing a partner.
Georgian women and men provided similar resutls to those encountered in numerous studies
worldwide: men prefer younger and good looking women, while women prefer older and well-
off men. Employing additional data obtained from focus group discussions, the article brings
evidence to show that Georgian sample of partner seekers reflect gender stereotypes typical to
Georgian population.

socialur fsiqologiaSi da sxva momijnave disciplinebSi (biologia, sociologia) Catarebulma

kvlevebma mniSvnelovani wvlili Seitana dawyvilebis strategiebis kvlevis sferoSi. dawyvilebis
strategiis arCeva mkvlevarTaTvis sainteresoa rogorc wmindad mecnieruli, aseve, gamoyenebiTi
TvalsazrisiT. socialur fsiqologiaSi dawyvilebis strategiis arCeva erTerTi wamyvani sakiTxia. am
sakiTxze mignebebi, aRmoCenebi da maTi axsnis mcdelobebi imdenad mniSvnelovani,
saintereso da Rirebulia, rom socialuri fsiqologiis saxelmZRvaneloebis umravlesoba Seicavs
Tavs, romelic dawyvilebis strategiebis arCevas eZRvneba [27: 213-217; 9: 176-182; 20: 211-
217]. es sakiTxi ganixileba interpersonaluri urTierTobebis, an genderis qveTavebSi.

dawyvilebis strategiebis zogierTi tendenciis aRmoCenis Semdeg daisva sakiTxi: rogor irCeven
adamianebi partniorebs, ra roli aqvs genderul sxvaobas partnioris arCevisas, ra gavlena aqvs
asaks, fizikur mimzidvelobas, ganaTlebas, Semosavlis odenobas da sxva faqtorebs am procesze
[26:463-481; 10: 805-819; 31:331-335; 19: 327-335].

warmodgenili sakiTxis kvlevis Sedegebi mniSvnelovan informacias Seicavs gacnobis centrebis

biznesisaTvis, saxelmwifo da kerZo institutebisaTvis (ojaxis konsultireba; ojaxis Terapia),
imdenad, ramdenadac partnioris arCevis strategiebis codna ojaxuri problemebis gadaWras da
axali ojaxebis Seqmnas uwyobs xels.

warmodgenili sfero gasuli saukunis 70-iani wlebidan intensiuri kvlevis sagani gaxda. TiTqmis
yvela amgvar kvlevaSi monacemebi erTmaneTs emTxveva: mamakaci upiratesobas aniWebs
axalgazrda da kargi garegnobis qals, xolo qali amjobinebs asakiT ufros da finansurad
uzrunvelyofil mamakacs. magram ar emTxveva monacemebis interpretacia. am TvalsazrisiT,
gamoiyofa ori ZiriTadi mimarTuleba: evoluciuri da sociokulturuli.

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am kvlevisaTvis monacemebi Seagroves da nawilobriv daamuSaves Tsu genderis specialobis magitsraturis
studentebma: d. gabuniam, l. obolaZem, g. urCuxiSvilma, s. bujiaSvilma, s. kvernaZem, n. xarCilavam, e. gigaurma,
a. kalandiam, T. TaTaraSvilma, n. kobalaZem, n. xaratiSvilma da l. ZamukaSvilma.

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evoluciuri fsiqologiis mTavari debuleba isaa, rom adamianis fsiqika evoluciis procesis Sedegia
[1: 31-41]. evoluciuri mimdinareobis Tanaxmad, raki, pirvelyofil sazogadoebSi cxovrebis
pirobebi ukiduresad mZime, konkurencia Zalian maRali iyo, gadarCenisaTvis brZola adamianTa
sazogadoebaSi iseve dramatulad mimdinareobda, rogorc cxovelebTan. STamomavlobis
gadarCena gansakuTrebiT rTuli iyo, mravali gaCenili Svilidan mxolod erTi-ori Tu aRwevda
zrdasrul asaks, amitom bevri Svilis gaCena iyo saWiro. am Teoriis warmomadgenlebi amboben,
rom mamakaci da qali gansxvavdeba dawyvilebis optimaluri qcevis mixedviT [11: 204-232; 28:
136-174]. qals biologiurad SezRuduli raodenobiT Svilebis gaCena da aRzrda SeuZlia.
Sesabamisad, man unda eZebos mewyvile, romelic ekonomiurad uzrunvelyofs mis
STamomavlobas. kacs ki SeuZlia Svilebis SeuzRudavi raodenoba hyavdes da am gziT miaRwios
warmatebul reproduqcias. am mizniT igi eZebs axalgazrda da mimzidvel qals, rogorc
nayofierebis da janmrTelobis nimuSs [13: 559-570; 12:1-49; 1996; 25: 1074-1080; 29: 755-779;
23: 367-402; 15: 675-685].

meores mxriv, sociokulturuli mimarTulebis warmomadgenlebi Tvlian, rom igive Sedegebi

SesaZloa interpretirebuli iqnes imgvari terminebiT, romlebic ufro metad fsiqologiuri iqneba da
ara evoluciuri. qalebi iyeneben axalgazrdobas da mimzidvelobas finansuri resursebis
mosapoveblad, radgan maT akliaT xelmisawvdomoba ekonomikur ZalauflebasTan, xolo
kacebisaTvis mniSvnelovania ara mamobis ”biologiuri” sakiTxebi, aramed is emociuri
urTierToba, romelsac is ojaxis wevrebTan amyarebs [14:205-235; 24: 591-607] .

mkvlevrebi araerTxel ecadnen epasuxaT kiTxvaze, ra aris partinoris arCevanis safuZveli -

biologia Tu kultura? magram umetes ,,aRzrda Tu buneba’’ tipis kvlevevebSi orive mosazrebis
mxardamWeri argumentebi SeiZleba vipovoT da arcerTi maTgania imdenad damajerebeli da
gadamWreli, rom erTma romelime midgomam sabolood “gaimarjvos” [30: 115-124; 24: 591-
607; 16: 509-520].

winamdebare kvleva warmoadgens saqarTveloSi dawyvilebis strategiebis Seswavlis pirveli

mcdelobis Sedegebs2. naSromSi dawyvilebis strategiebi warmoadgens qcevis sxvadasxva
formas, romelic mimarTulia wyvilis Camoyalibebaze (xangrZlivi an xanmokle
urTierTobebisaTvis).

sakvlevi kiTxvebi Semdegia:

1. arsebobs Tu ara saqarTveloSi heteroseqsual wyvilebs Soris partnioris arCevis igive

tendencia, rac msoflios sxvadasxva qveynebSi Catarebuli kvlevebiTaa aRiarebuli?.
partnioris/mewyviles arCeva - ra tipis partniors eZebs qali da mamakaci3?
2. rogor warudgenen sakuTar Tavs ganmcxadebeli qarTveli qalebi da kacebi momaval
partniors? - rogor axdenen qalebi da mamakacebi sakuTari Tavis pozicirebas
“paemnebis/dawyvilebis bazarze”? rogor aRweren qalebi/kacebi sakuTar Tavs SesaZlo
mewyvilesTan?
3. SesaZleblobis da moTxovnilebis kombinacia, anu, aris Tu ara balansi mowodebasa da
moTxovnas Soris? - axasiaTeben Tu ara ganmcxadebeli qarTveli mamakacebi da qalebi
sakuTar Tavs im niSnebiT, romlebsac maTgan moelian? akmayofileben Tu ara qarTveli
qalebi da kacebi dRevandeli “paemnebis/dawyvilebis bazris” moTxovnas?
4. da bolos, asaxavs Tu ara genderuli gansxvaveba saqarTveloSi gabatonebul genderul
stereotipebs?

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imave monacemebze daydnobiT daiwera da gamoqveynda statia saerTaSoriso JurnalSi 2008 wlis bolos.
inglisurenovani winamorbedisagan gansxvavebiT, aq oTxi sakvelvi kiTxvaa dasmuli da Sesabamisad, ganxiluli.
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igulisxmeba is kontingenti, romelic saWirod da misaRebad miiCenevs gancxadebebis ganTavsebas presaSi

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meTodi:

kvlevaSi gamoyenebulia ori meTodi: sagazeTo/saqorwino gancxadebebis kontent-analizi da

fokus jgufi.

Cveulebriv, im kiTxvebze pasuxis gasacemad, romlebic am naSromSi davsvi, swored

“saqrowino/sapaemno” gancxadebebs Seiswavlian, zogierT kvlevaSi aseve gamoyenebulia
eqsperimenti, an gamokiTxva. tipuri sagazeTo gancxadeba Sedgeba sakuTari Tavis aRwerisa da
im Tvisebebis CamonaTvalisagan, romlebsac aplikanti momavali partniorisagan iTxovs [21: 27-
43]. sagazeTo gancxadebebi dawyvilebis strategiebis uefeqto4 sazomia da ganmcxadebelebi
mxolod yvelaze mniSvnelovan Tvisebebs asaxeleben adgilis simciris gamo [18:75-133; 31:331-
335]

es monacemebi Segrovda 2006 wels, rodesac amgvari gancxadebebi mxolod erT gazeTSi -
“sityva da saqme” qveyndeboda. SevarCieT am gazeTis 12 nomeri. sul 471 gancxadeba
gavaanalizeT, maTgan, 226 qalis ganTavsebulia, xolo da 244 – mamakacis.
asaki: 15-dan 70 wlamde, yvelaze yvelaze xSiri asakobrivi kategoria iyo 37-47 weli.
homoseqsualuri gancxadebebi ar yofila.

gancxadebebSi miRebuli informaciis interpretaciisaTvis saWiro gaxada fokusjgufebis Catareba,

raTa agvexsna zogierTi terminisa da saxelwodebis mniSvneloba.

Catarda 4 fokusjgufi.
………
fokusjgufi monawileebi saqmianoba asaki
pirveli 5 mamakaci studentebi, abiturientebi, arqiteqtori, 17-47 weli
umcrosi leitenanti
meore 5 mamakaci studentebi 21-23 wli
mesame 5 gogona studentebi 18-23 weli
meoTxe 7 gogona studentebi, mosamsaxureebi 17-32 weli

cxrili #1 – fokusjgufebis monawileTa monacemebi

Sedegebi

partnioris arCeva. aRmoCnda, rom aplikantebi potenciuri mewyvilis Semdeg maxasiaTeblebs

eZeben:

 asaki – 82%
 garegnoba – 41.2%
 ekonomikuri statusi – 33.5%
 ganaTleba – 10%

aplikantebi sakuTar Tavs iseTi TvisebebiT axasiaTeben, rogorebicaa asaki, garegnoba (simaRle,
Tvalis feri, Tmis feri); pirovnuli TvisebebiT, rogorebicaa keTili, mosiyvarule da sxv. garegnobis
mxriv, qali da mamakaci aplikantebis daxasiaTebebi gansxvavebulia: qalebis 83% sakuTar Tavs
axasiaTebs sakmaod detalurad: simaRle, Tvalis da Tmis feri, aseve, xmaroben zedsarTav
saxelebs, rogorebicaa: lamazi, momxiblavi, koxta, tanwerweta da sxv. mamakacebis mxolod

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termini “unobtrusive”-is qarTuli Targmania. samwuxarod, literaturaSi es termini qarTulad ar Semxvedria. is
niSnavs, rom raime movlenis gazomvis meTodi obieqtze zemoqmedebas ar axdens da Sedegad ar viRebT e. w.
“hotornis efeqts”

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16% axasiaTebs sakuTar garegnobas, Tanac, zedsarTavebs ufro zomierad xmarobs: simpaTiuri,
sasiamovno. garegnobaSi ki ZiriTadad aRniSnaven simaRles.

Tvisebebi moTxovna mowodeba

sul kaci qali χ2 sul kaci qali χ2
asaki 82% 41.3% - -
umcrosi 97% 0% 97.147, - - -
df=70,
p<0.05
ufrosi 3% 100% 87.231, - - -
df=62,
p<0.05
garegnoba 41.2% 64% 36% 19.731, 64.1% 16% 84% 47.657,
df=4, df=4,
p<0.001 p<0.001
socioekonomikuri 33.5% 23% 77% 79.837, 45.6% 70% 30% 55.897,
statusi df= 4, df=4,
p<0.000 p<0.000
ganaTleba 13.8% 23% 77% 49.035, 33.6% mniSvnelovani genderuli
df=4, sxvaoba ar aRmoCnda
p<0.000 13.681, df=8, p<0.070

cxrili #2 – kontent analizis monacemebi

maTgan, vinc maTze umcrosi asakis partniori moiTxova 100% iyo mamakaci, da saerTod ar iyo
qali, xolo maTgan, vinc maTze ufrosi asaki partniori moiTxova, 97% iyo qali da 3% mamakaci.
aqve unda aRiniSnos, rom am 3% mamakacis asaki aris 17-19 weli, rac mniSvnelovania da am
sakiTxis ufro detalur ganxilvas fokusjgufebis monacemebSi SemogTavazebT.

maTgan, vinc momavali partniorisagan ekonomikuri statusi moiTxova, qalebi 77%, xolo
mamakacebi 23%-s Seadgenen. maTgan, vinc potenciuri partniorisagan garegnoba moiTxova,
mamakacebi 64%, xolo qalebi 36%-s Seadgenen. ganaTlebas ki qalebi ufro iTxoven potenciuri
partniorisagan, vidre mamakacebi.

pirovnuli Tvisebebi e. w. “imijebad” gavaerTianeT, sul 15 kategoriis imiji gamoiyo.

 qali – uiRblo, patiosani, erTguli, keTili, ojaxis qali

 mamakaci – “ek/uzri”, kargi seqsualuri partniori, janmrTeli cxovrebis wesi, marCenali

aplikantebi agreTve irqmevdnen gamogonil saxelebs, e. w. “nikebs”:

 zogi maTgani sakuTari saxelia, zodiaqos niSani, ricxvi, an eleqtronuli fostis

misamarTi.
 sxvebi (sul – 135), davajgufeT rogorc genderulad neitraluri – 73.2% da genderulad
markirebuli – 26.8%

mamakacebis da qalebis saxelebi erTmaneTisagan mkveTrad gansxvavdeba, maT CamonaTvals

SemogTavazebT qvemoT, im komentarebTan erTad, romlebic fokusjgufis wevrebma gaakeTes.

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fokusjgufebis Sedegebi:

monawileebma ganmartes metsaxelebi da gamonaTqvamebi – patiosani, janmrTeli cxovrebis

wesi. agreTve, jgufis wevrebma komentarebi gaukeTes kontent-analizis monacemebs da axsnes
zogierTi maTgani.

monawileebi daeTanxmnen imas, rom mamakacs masze umcrosi qali unda colad:
“me da Cems garSemo yvelas, Cvenze umcrosi qali gvinda, ufrosi ar dagijerebs, umcross ki ise
gazrdi, rogorc ginda”

axsnes, Tu ratom aris, rom iSviaTad, magram zogjer mainc surT mamakacebs maTze ufrosi
asakis qalze daqorwineba.

“es xdeba sakmaod iSviaTad, magram roca xdeba, mTavari mizezi aris materialuri – axalgazrda
mamakaci zrdasruli, ukve “Semdgari” qalis xarjze cxovrobs”.

patiosani - am sityvis mniSvneloba gansxvavebulia mamakacisa da qalisaTvis: qalebTan is

asaxavs maT seqsualur urTierTobebs, xolo mamakacebTan – saqmian urTierTobebs. qalebTan
es niSnavs, rom is an qaliSvilia, an, qmari hyavda, xolo mamakacTan - rom is bizness wesierad
awarmoebs da ar atyuebs kolegebs.

janmrTeli cxovrebis wesi - iTvleba, rom mamakacebi ufro midrekilni arian iseTi
deviaciebisaken, rogorebicaa narkotikebi, alkoholi, moweva, TamaSi fulze. amitom aRniSnaven
ganmcxadebeli mamakacebi specialurad, rom aseTebi ar arian. qalebs amgvari gancxadebis
gakeTeba ar sWirdebaT, radgan iTvleba, rom isini isedac jansaRad cxovroben.

mamakacebis mier moyvanil metsaxelebs fokusjgufis wevrebma Semdegi interpretacia misces:

1. monte kristo - mdidari, seqsualuri
2. cxelsisxliani verZi – seqsualuri potenciis mqone
3. kavkasioni – Zlieri, Zalauflebis mqone
4. asteroidi – Zlieri, Zalauflebis mqone
5. natvrisTvali – Zalian Zvirfasi ram, rac unda daimsaxuro
6. WaRara – ase mxolod mamakaci Tu daaxasiaTebs sakuTar garegnobas, iTvleba, rom
qalma Tma unda SeiRebos, radgan WaRara qali “paemnebis/dawyvilebis” bazarze
praqtikulad yvela Sanss moklebulia.
7. biznesmeni – saqmianobas asaxavs da prestiJulia, aseve, ekonomikur Zlierebas
miuTiTebs
8. arwivi - esec tipuri mamakacuri saxelia, Zlierebas, Zalauflebas, potencias asaxavs,
frinvelTa mefea.
9. me mende – lideri, winamZRoli
10. stabiluri – tipuri mamakacuri epiTetia, miuTiTebs ekonomikur stabilobas, erTguleba aq
ar igulisxmeba
11. realisti – saqmiani, araemociuri, esec Zalian mamakacuri Tvisebaa
12. ocnebis Rame – seqsualur potencias miuTiTebs
13. fordi-45 – tipuri mamakacuri saxelia, mamakaci da manqana ganuyofelia, qals ase aravin
daaxasiaTebs

calke msjelobis sagani gaxda sami saxeli: qarTveli kaci, tradiciuli kaci, namdvili mamakaci.
jgufis wevrebma aRniSnes, rom es sami Tviseba praqtikulad erTsa da imaves niSnavs, anu imas,
rom:

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“namdvili qarTveli mamakaci aris gamocdili seqsualuri partniori, hyavs bevri megobari, uyvars
qeifi da drostareba, pativs scems qals, rogorc dedas, pativs scems cols, rogorc Tavisi Svilebis
dedas. ojaxis ufrosi da marCenali Tavadaa, gadawyvetilebebsac Tavad iRebs”.

qalebis mier moyvanil metsaxelebs fokusjgufis wevrebma Semdegi interpretacia misces:

1. WriWina - mxiaruli, arc Tu ise seriozuli

2. mowyvetili foToli - morCili, sevdiani
3. bedis saCuqari – sanatreli, Zalian kargi
4. mgrZnobiare – gulთan axlos miaqvs bevri ram, emociuria
5. qali ojaxis5 – qali ZiriTadad saxlSi fusfusebs, uvlis Svilebs da ojaxs, mowesrigebuli da
sufTaa
6. afrodite – lamazi, seqsualuri
7. yvavili – lamazia, SegiZlia mowyvito
8. Ciora - patara, sayvareli
9. magnolia – lamazia, SegiZlia mowyvito
10. baRi - lamazi
11. superqera – es saintereso saxelia im TvalsazrisiT, rom qeraTmianebi umciresobas
warmoadgenen saqarTveloSi, amdenad SedarebiT ucxo da ufro prestiJulebi arian. amas
adasturebs isic, rom bevri qali qerad iRebavs muq Tmas. aseve, qera qali asocirdeba rus,
dasavleTevropel qalTan, rogorc silamazis da seqsualobis simbolosTan. bunebrivia, rom
superqera yvela am Tvisebis matarebelia aRmatebuli xarisxiT.
12. Seni ocneba – sanatreli, Zalian kargi

calke unda gamovyo terminebi sevdiani, gulCaTxrobili, gulgatexili, daCagruli. es niSnavs, rom
qalis brali ar aris, rom is aqamde ver gaTxovda, an martoa. is yvela dadebiTi TvisebiTaa
Semkuli, magram bedma ar gauRima, ar gaumarTla da ver ipova sabedo. amitomaa igi sevdiani.
amave jgufSi SeiZleba SeviyvanoT termini “mowyvetili foToli”.

Sedegebis warmodgenas vasruleb kidev erTi monacemiT imis Sesaxeb, Tu ra mizniT aTavseben
gancxadebebs aplikantebi:

 qorwineba – 51%
 megobroba – 24.6%
 anonimuri megobroba – 7%

maTgan, mamakaci ganmcxadeblebis 43.75%-is da qali ganmcxadeblebis – 56.25%-is mizania

ojaxis Seqmna. megobroba surs mamakacTa 62.39% da qalTa 37.61%-s; xolo anonimuri
megobroba - mamakacTa 67 da qalTa 33 procents, χ2=18.129, p<0.001. unda aRiniSnos, rom
miznad ojaxis Seqmnis miTiTebiT ganmcxadeblebi swored sakiTxisadmi seriozul
damokidebulebas aRniSnavdnen da arc Tu iSviaTad sakuTar pozicias amyarebdnen frazebiT:
“araseriozulebi nu gamomexmaurebian”, “garTobisaTvis ar mcalia” da a. S.

fokusjgufis monawileebma axsnes sityvebi “megobroba” da “anonimuri megobroba”. orive

seqsualur urTierTobas niSnavs qorwinebis gareSe, oRond, anonimuri megobrobis SemTxvevaSi
ganmcxadebels ar surs, rom amgvari urTierToba cnobili gaxdes saerTod, da miTumetes, misi
ojaxis wevrebisaTvis.

Sedegebis ganxilva:

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es termini saqorwino gancxadebebSi sakuTari Tavis daxasiaTebisasac Segvxvda, ara mxolod darqmeul saxelebSi.

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miRebuli Sedegebi TiTqmis srulad emTxveva sxva qveynebis kvlevebis monacemebs da
miuTiTebs, rom arsebobs genderuli gansxvaveba dawyvilebis prioritetebSi [12: 1-49; 13: 559-
570; 23:367-402; 25:1074-1080; 29:755-779; 15: 675-685; 14:205-235; 26: 463-481].

 qalebi ufro metad eZeben ufros, ganaTlebul da ekonomikurad uzrunvelyofil

mamakacebs,
 mamakacebi ufro metad eZeben umcros da sasiamovno garegnobis qalebs

Smitis da misi kolegebis, agreTve vidremanis [22: 307-331; 31:331-335] mixedviT,Ppozicireba

gamowveulia surviliT, kargad “gayido” sakuTari Tavi, anu, sakuTari is Tvisebebi warmoaCino,
romlebic, Seni azriT, moeTxoveba qals, an mamakacs.

rogorc kontent-analizis, aseve fokusjgufebis monacemebi aCvenebs, rom genderulad markirebuli

saxelebi emTxveva imijebs da orive erTad axdens individis pozicirebas “saojaxo bazarze”.
“paemnebis/dawyvilebis bazarze” pozicirebis kuTxiT qalebi aRweren sakuTar Tavs, rogorc
kargi garegnobis, keTils, erTguls da patiosans, xolo mamakacebi aRweren Tavs, rogorc
ekonomikurad uzrunvelyofils, Zliers, karg seqsualur partniors, janmrTeli cxovrebis wesis
mimdevars. amave dros, qali axasiaTebs Tavs, rogorc ojaxis qals, xolo mamakaci, rogorc ojaxis
marCenals. anu, qalma icis, rom mas moeTxoveba kargi garegnoba da erTguleba. Tanac, am
sityvis pirdapiri mniSvnelobiT, mas mxolod erTi mamakaci unda hyavdes partniorad. xolo
mamakacma icis, rom mas moeTxoveba jansaRi cxovreba da ojaxis rCena. es monacemebi
pirdapir miuTiTebs genderul stereotipebze da emTxveva saqarTveloSi am sakiTxze miRebul
monacemebs [3: 23-32; 7: 23-42; 8: 1-46; 6: 17-25; 4: 2-28; 2: 12-17; 17: 13-19].

saintereso monacemia da calke ganxilvis sagani unda gaxdes is faqti, rom aplikantebi sakuTari
Tavis daxasiaTebisas TiTqmis ar iyeneben seqsualur informacias, xolo Tu iyeneben, mxolod
mamakacebi. gancxadebaSi sakuTari Tavis daxasiaTebisas mamakacebis 21%-ma aRniSna
mxolod, rom kargi seqsualuri partnioria. seqsualuri potenciis datvirTvis mqone darqmeuli
saxelebi kidev ufro mcire raodenobiT aplikantma warmoadgina, aseTia Svidi saxeli. samagierod,
eqvsi aseTi saxeli gamoCnda qalebis gancxadebebSi, rac, imaze miuTiTebs, rom qalebs Riad
seqsualobaze aqcentis gakeTeba uWirT da mxolod SeniRbulad gascmen am informacias. am
sakiTxze qarTuli kvlevebi ver movipoveT, rogorc rusudan fxakaZe aRniSnavs, “Cvens
qveyanaSi seqsologiis Semadgenel arsebiT elementebze gamokvlevebi praqtikulad ar arsebobs”
[5: 33-39].

monacemebi aCvenebs, rom mowodebasa da moTxovnas Soris balansia, qalebic da

mamakacebic sakuTar Tavs iseTi TvisebebiT axasiaTeben, romlebzec moTxovnaa potenciuri
partniorebis mxridan.

genderuli stereotipebis kidev erTi maCvenebelia is faqti, rom anonimur megobrobas mxolod
mamakacebi asaxeleben, rogorc gancxadebis ganTavsebis mizans, xolo megobrobas asaxelebs
qalTa 37 da mamakacTa 63 procenti. rogorc Cans, qalebi bedaven megobrobaze saubars, radgan
es termini pirdapir ar miuTiTebs imas, rom aplikants mxolod “garToba” surs.

genderuli gansxvaveba aSkaraa da, nawilobriv, aplikantebis genderul stereotipebs asaxavs. es

stereotipebi farTodaa gavrcelebuli Cvens sazogadoebaSi. Potenciuri wyvilis Sercevisas
mamakacisaTvis esaa ekonomikuri siZliere, Zalaufleba, lideroba, naklebi emociuroba, xolo
qalisaTvis esaa kargi garegnoba, emociuroba da morCileba.

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