S.Y.B.A. Semester Iii (CBCS) Psychology Paper - Ii Social Psychology Subject Code: Uapsy301
S.Y.B.A. Semester Iii (CBCS) Psychology Paper - Ii Social Psychology Subject Code: Uapsy301
S.Y.B.A. Semester Iii (CBCS) Psychology Paper - Ii Social Psychology Subject Code: Uapsy301
S.Y.B.A.
SEMESTER III (CBCS)
PSYCHOLOGY PAPER - II
SOCIAL PSYCHOLOGY
Module - I
1. Social Psychology : The Science of Social Side of Life - I 01
2. Social Psychology : The Science of Social Side of Life - II 16
Module - II
3. Social Perception: Seeking to Understand Others-I 30
4. Social Perception: Seeking to Understand Others-II 44
Module - III
5. Attitude: Evaluating and Responding to The Social World-I 57
6. Attitude: Evaluating and Responding to The Social World-II 72
Module - IV
7. Liking, Love and Other Close Relationships-I 90
8. Liking, Love and Other Close Relationships-II 109
S.Y.B.A. Social Psychology
Semester - III (CBCS)
Syllabus to be implemented from 2021-2022
Social Psychology - Paper-II Part-I
Objectives: -
1. To help students in building knowledge of the basic concepts and
modern trends in Social Psychology.
2. To foster interest in Social Psychology as a field of study and research
among students.
3. To make the students aware of the applications of the various concepts
in Social Psychology in the Indian context.
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Module 4:Liking, Love and Other close relationships.
a) Internal sources of liking others: The role of needs and emotions
b) External sources of attraction: The effects of proximity, familiarity and
physical beauty
c) Sources of liking based on social interaction
d) Close relationships: Foundations of social life
e) What research tells us about dramatic differences in appearance
between partners: Is love really blind?
f) What research tells us about two factors that may destroy love—
jealousy and infidelity
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SOCIAL PSYCHOLOGY: THE SCIENCE
OF SOCIAL SIDE OF LI FE – I
Unit Structure
1.0 Objectives
1.1 Introduction
1.2 Social Psychology: What it is and is not
1.2.1 Social Psychology is scientific in nature
1.2.2 Social Psychology focuses on the behavior of individuals
1.2.3 Social Psychology seeks to understand the causes of social
behavior and thought
1.2.4 The search for basic principles in a changing social world
1.3 Social Psychology: Advances at the boundaries
1.3.1 Cognition and behavior: Two sides of the same social coin
1.3.2 The role of emotion in the social side of life
1.3.3 Social relationships: How important they are for well-being
1.3.4 Social Neuroscience: The intersection of Social Psychology and
brain research
1.3.5 The role of implicit (Neuroscience) processes
1.3.6 Taking full account of social diversity
1.4 Let’s sum up
1.5 Questions
1.6 References
1.0 OBJECTIVES
1.1 INTRODUCTION
Skepticism refers to accepting the results of the study only when they
are verified again and again. The researcher should not accept any
findings on face value. He must ask himself, does the results of his
study indicate the real difference or real relationship between two
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things or is it just a chance occurrence. The replication of study is
another important way of verifying the results obtained in a study.
Replication of the research is done when different researchers
reproduce the same procedure used by others and arrive at the same
conceptual conclusions.
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Along with inconsistent and confusing common sense, people are
also susceptible to several cognitive errors. For example, remember last
time you were involved in some major project and try to remember how
much time you thought you will require to complete the task and how
much time you actually required. There might be a gap between the two.
This is so because we fall victim to this error known as planning fallacy- it
is the strong tendency to believe that any given task will be accomplished
in less time than they actually do or we can accomplish more in a
particular period of time than reality. Research tries to explain this error.
Planning fallacy may occur due to our tendency to think about the future
when we are estimating the time required to complete a task. This prevents
us from actually thinking about past experiences and this in turn leads us
to underestimate the time required at present to accomplish test. This is
one of the many ways in which we do errors while thinking about social
world.
Cognitive Process:
Biological Factors:
Along with mate selection, other topics have been covered from
the evolutionary perspective like aggression and helping others. However,
it is important to clear some facts of evolutionary perspective. This
perspective does not indicate that we inherit specific patterns of social
behavior; rather, it holds that we inherit tendencies or predispositions that
may be apparent in our overt actions.
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1.3.1 Cognition and Behavior: Two Sides of the Same Social Coin:
Social psychology seeks to explain why and how people think and
behave in different social situations. Thoughts imply how people make
sense of the social world and how they understand themselves and others.
Behavior refers to the way people act in social situations. Behavior is not
independent of thoughts.
Suppose you are meeting someone for the first time, do you think
your current mood will influence your behavior towards that person? If
you answered ‘yes’ then you agree to the systematic research conducted
which suggests that our impressions and thoughts about others are
influenced by our current moods. Thus, recently social psychologists are
investigating the impact of specific emotions on wide range of social
behaviors.
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Another example of the role of non-conscious processes is on first
impressions. Research indicates that we form first impressions incredibly
quickly often within mere seconds of meeting other people. Sometimes
these first impressions are accurate but sometimes we make errors.
Evidence reported by researchers indicated that we cannot intuit when
these impressions are likely to accurate and when they are not. So, non
conscious processes do influence our judgments and actions, but this
happens in ways that we often are unable to control, and they can lead us
astray.
1. Write in brief the role of emotion in social life. Write your answer with
suitable examples.
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1.5 QUESTIONS
1.6 REFERENCES
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SOCIAL PSYCHOLOGY: THE SCIENCE
OF SOCIAL SIDE OF LIFE – II
Unit Structure
2.0 Objectives
2.1 Introduction
2.2 How Social Psychologists Answer the Questions They Ask:
Research as the Route to Increased Knowledge
2.2.1 Systematic Observation: Describing the World around Us
2.2.2 Correlation: The Search for Relationships
2.2.3 The Experimental Method: Knowledge through Systematic
Intervention
2.2.4 Further Thoughts on Causality: The Role of Mediating
Variables
2.2.5 Meta-Analysis: Assessing a Body of Knowledge
Check your progress
2.3 The Role of Theory in Social Psychology
2.4 The Quest for Knowledge and the Rights of Individuals: In Search of
an Appropriate Balance
Check your progress
2.5 Let’s sum up
2.6 Questions
2.7 Suggested reading
2.0 OBJECTIVES
2.1 INTRODUCTION
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relationships among certain conditions or events that can change. The
essence of experimental method is that -
1) the experimenter varies or changes something.
2) s/he keeps the other factor constant and
3) s/he observes the effect of this change on behavior
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or from the impact of the independent variable, or both. The second
condition which is necessary for successful experimentation is all factors
other than the independent variable that might also affect participants’
behavior must be held constant. For example, in the given experiment, the
participants’ age, socio-economic status, nationality, and culture should be
constant otherwise they may interfere in the results of the experiment. In
such case, the independent variable is said to be confounded with another
variable-one that is not under systematic investigation in the study. When
such confounding occurs, the findings of an experiment may be
inaccurate. Hence, besides independent and dependent variable, in any
experiment there is an important variable known as controlled variable. It
means that there are certain factors that the experimenter should hold
constant or uniform across all the different conditions. If these factors are
not held constant then, along with the independent variable they also
influence dependent variable. It is called confounding variable. If such
confounding variables interfere then, experimenter cannot confidently
establish the cause and effect relationship between the independent and
dependent variable. This also lowers the validity of the experiment.
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Theories are the frameworks to explain various events and processes. The
following procedure is followed to construct a theory:
1. A theory is proposed based on existing evidence. It includes two main
parts: basic concepts and statements concerning relationship between
them.
2. This proposed theory helps in predicting observable behavior. These
predictions are known as hypotheses.
3. Hypotheses are then tested by conducting actual research.
4. If obtained results of the research are consistent with the theory,
confidence in its accuracy is increased. If not, the theory is modified
and further research is done.
5. The theory is either accepted as accurate or rejected as inaccurate.
Even if a theory is accepted as accurate, it remains open for further
refinements with the development of improved methods of research. It
also remains open for additional evidence relevant to the predictions of
the theory.
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3) Finally, virtually all researchers in social psychology are fully aware
of the potential impact of the confirmation bias and take steps to guard
against it. Thus, they often ask people who are not committed to a
given theory (or perhaps don’t even know that it exists) to collect
crucial data. Similarly, they take plans to consider alternative
hypotheses and explanations when planning their research. Recent
findings suggest that such steps can go a long way toward countering
the impact of tendencies toward theory confirmation.
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Second issue is , participants may get the feeling of being ‘fooled’
during a study. Recent studies have reported that deception, to some
degree, can raise the feelings of suspiciousness in participants. This
eventually leads to a negative attitude towards the scientific research of
social psychology and psychology in general.
2.6 QUESTIONS
2.7 REFERENCES
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SOCIAL PERCEPTION: SEEKING TO
UNDERSTAND OTHERS - I
Unit Structure
3.0 Objectives
3.1 Introduction
3.2 Defining Social Perception
3.3 Non-Verbal Communication: An unspoken Language
3.3.1 Basic Channels of Non-Verbal Communication
3.3.2 Non-Verbal Cues in Social Life
3.3.3 Recognizing Deception
3.4 What research tells us about the role of non verbal cues in job
interviews?
3.5 Let us sum up
3.7 Questions
3.6 Reference
3.0 OBJECTIVES
3.1 INTRODUCTION
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about others’ present feelings and reactions gained through their eye
contact, body movements, postures and facial expressions.
People are usually curious to know about other people apart from
themselves. Social cognition is the phenomenon of how people think
about other people. It is a broad concept which involves the perceiver
encoding, processing and remembering and making use of information
into social contexts to make sense of others' behavior. Hence, it becomes
an essential element in one’s understanding of groups and interpersonal
aspects of people's lives.
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3.3 NON-VERBAL COMMUNICATION: AN
UNSPOKEN LANGUAGE
One of the most common phrases used while talking about non
verbal communication is ‘body language’. The term body language is
broad, it includes aspects like movements, gestures and postures that are
used to send messages about what one means as we will be seeing in this
unit. Sometimes body language may not fall in sync with what is being
said, so having an understanding of how to read the body language can be
very helpful in determining what the other person needs or wants.
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1) Facial Expression:
Eye Gaze Looking, Staring, and Blinking are All Considered Types of
Eye Gaze
We can often learn a great deal about others internal states through
their eye-contact. Looking at another person can indicate a range of
emotions including hostility, interest, or attraction.
We often get to learn a lot from the eyes of others. There are two
types of eye contacts, namely,
A. Gaze: It is considered as a high level of eye contact, and is generally
viewed positively by others. It involves establishing eye-contact but is
not continuous. We usually gaze at the ones whom we like or are
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friendly with. One can identify gazing to be a sign of friendliness or
liking while in contrast those who avoid eye-contact can be viewed to
be unfriendly.
Body language and Postures also reveal one’s emotional states, for
example, large number of movements suggest emotional arousal
(scratching, rubbing, touching). Higher the frequency of such movements,
higher is the intensity of arousal or nervousness. Information about one's
traits and emotions can be drawn from the number of body movements or
postures that a person makes. They also provide us specific information
about what others are feelings through gestures. For example, in many
countries holding one hand with thumb pointing up may indicate a sign of
‘Okay’. Lastly they also reveal a lot about other’s physical states for
example, their gait, vigor, age etc. It is the extent to which they possess
several different traits.
3) Touching:
Touching conveys various kinds of intentions behind one’s
behavior. It depends on numerous factors depending on who is touching
(stranger, friend or member of the other gender). Not only that but also the
nature of contact (gentle, rough, brief, prolonged), the part of the body
touched and the context where touching takes place (social, business
setting or doctors office) convey different information. Touching (Haptics)
is especially important in infancy and early childhood. It is an important
aspect of interpersonal communication and perception. Touch or Physical
contact can be influenced by many factor like one’s age, culture,
relationship between them etc. Handshakes are the most acceptable way of
touching, even strangers. Other five major aspects of touching are:
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affectionate touch, care giving touch, power and control touch, aggressive
touch, ritualistic touch. One of the most acceptable ways in which many
people touch strangers in various cultures is through handshaking.
Findings suggest that handshakes are a form of non-verbal communication
where firm and longer handshakes are viewed to be more favorable. Hence
touching is used as the basis to form one's social perception.
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By observing and keeping a track of someone’s nonverbal
communication cues can help us find out what is truly being said beyond
the words spoken verbally. There are times where a person may be
agreeing with us verbally while other cues like avoiding eye-contact or
fidgeting indicate them not being completely honest with their words. This
means that only when we notice the match between people's non verbal
and verbal communication we can determine and be sure of their response
over our idea or thoughts
Paralanguage:
Paralanguage is a vocal means to communicate, which does not
include words but is still considered as a part of nonverbal
communication. Paralanguage includes gasps, sighs murmurs and even
voice quality, intonation and pitch. Findings indicate that we often tend to
learn more from non-verbal cues which take place when people speak as
compared to their words alone. Paralanguage, a type of non-verbal
communication involves vocal effects apart from speech like tone and
pitch, we often convey our emotions through the specific sound or the
quality of one's voice, independent of the words used by them. for
example, being able to sense someone’s anger not by their words but by
the way they sound.
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gap of 14 to 24 days after the administration of drugs, both the groups
were again shown the video clips and asked to rate their feels. It was
found that those who received Botox reported weaker emotional reactions
to both types of clips. This clearly indicated that facial muscles influence
our emotional experiences. So what we express influences what we feel
inside too.
This gets support from traditional wisdom too. Very often you
must have seen that when a small child is sobbing, others try to make him
laugh by deliberately instructing him to smile and laugh. The child may do
it without feeling happiness to begin with but as he starts smiling, he starts
feeling better and gets over his gloomy mood.
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1. Micro expressions:
These are fleeting expressions which usually last only for a one
tenths of a second. Such reactions are difficult to control or suppress and
appear quickly on face after an emotion provoking event. Consequently,
revealing true feelings/emotions of another person. For example, you
might ask someone about something that you have purchased, to find out
how the person really felt, pay close attention to their facial expressions. If
you happen to see them frowning immediately followed by smiling, it may
be a sign of lying by stating a different reaction or opinion than otherwise
felt.
3. Eye-contact:
One’s efforts to deceive can be revealed through eye contact too. It
is found that people who lie blink their eyes more often and have dilated
pupils as compared to those who do not lie. They may also display low or
surprisingly high level of eye-contact, making an attempt to be honest by
making a direct eye-contact.
Along with these non-verbal cues people may also display other
signs of deception through what they actually say or the choice of words
they make. People often speak in high pitch when they attempt to lie. They
often seek a longer time to respond to a question or to start participation in
an event. While speaking, they may also display a greater tendency to start
sentences, stop suddenly and then begin again or they may often repair
their sentences. So, people's linguistic styles can reveal their deception.
We can often identify through people's way of speaking whether they are
lying or attempting to hide their feelings from others. However, the
successfulness of being able to identify those who deceive us is uncertain,
as some people may simply be skilled at lying.
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Effects of Deception on social relations:
As we have seen till now, deception seems to be a very common
aspect of social life, having large impact, as we may rightly guess, they are
highly negative. Recent findings indicate that when people who are lied to
display mistrust and dislikes towards the liar. In fact, more the lies that a
stranger is found to be saying, more s/he is disliked. Perhaps it is also
witnessed that after one gets exposed someone who has lied, may engage
in similar kinds of behavior themselves.
Research suggests that it can. One can display the feelings of being
powerful non-verbally; by occupying more space with a strong, tall
posture. On the other hand, low-power posture is indicated by a hunched
over body which minimizes space occupied space. Such postures not only
influence others as one being powerful or non-powerful but also
influences the person himself to feel more powerful physiologically and
behaviorally.
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2. What is non-verbal communication?
3.6 QUESTION
3.7 REFERENCE
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SOCIAL PERCEPTION: SEEKING TO
UNDERSTAND OTHERS - II
Unit Structure
4.0 Objectives
4.1 Introduction
4.2 Attribution: Understanding the causes of behavior
4.2.1 Theories of Attribution: Attempting to make sense of the
Social World
4.2.2 Basic Sources of Error in Attribution
4.2.3 Applications of Attribution Theory: Insights and Interventions
4.3 Impression Formation and Management: Combining information
about information
4.3.1 Impression Formation
4.3.2 Impression Management
4.4 What research tells us about why some people conclude they are
superior to others?
4.5 Let us sum up
4.6 Question
4.7 References
4.0 OBJECTIVES
Defining Attribution
Identify the causes of human behavior
Analyzing errors, we commit while we attribute
Understanding theories of Attribution
Understanding how impression formation takes place
Learning to manage impression
4.1 INTRODUCTION
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Finally, theorists suggest that actions of others which are low
in social desirability are paid more attention to than the actions that are
high on this dimension. In other words, we learn more about others when
their actions are not very ordinary than from those which are ordinary just
like all other people.
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Other Dimensions of Causal attribution:
There are times when we try to understand the reason why some
people act in some particular way and what they want to accomplish, there
are a wide range of interpretations that we have with us. For instance:
seeing that someone is putting loose change into his piggy bank we may
assume that the person is saving money to address his future needs. Here,
the first is a low level of interpretation focusing on the action while
attributing very little to the way of planning of the person involved.
Second, the action (putting into the piggy bank) attributes to the person’s
plans or intentions and goals. Here, the action is same but its interpretation
is different and the reason of why it occurs is different. This level of
interpretation is called as action identification. There are a wide range of
possibilities or interpretations when we seek to understand why others do
what they do, which also include what goals they want to accomplish.
Action identification can be defined as the interpretation that we place on
an act in terms of its varying degrees of abstractions.
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4.2.2 Basic Sources of Error in Attribution:
People feel that they have been generally doing a good job of
evaluating and making sense of the social world accurately. However this
is not the case, our efforts to understand ourselves and other people
involve several types of misconceptions. These errors of attribution can
lead us to conclusions which are false regarding why others acted as they
did and also influence one's predictions about their actions in the future.
Let us see some of these errors that can take place.
Correspondence Bias:
Self-Serving Bias:
When the word terrorism is heard, many people are likely to recall
events that have occurred closest to their homes like the 26/11 attacks
taking place in Mumbai being the most threatening and memorable
memory of people living in Mumbai, Maharashtra. Terrorism can be in
many forms such as kidnapping, torture, harm doings and executions.
Coming to the question, how the terrorists who commit such crimes
explain what they do? Insights gained from the attribution theory helps us
to find out how these terrorists justify their actions.
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4.3 IMPRESSION FORMATION AND MANAGEMENT:
COMBINING INFORMATION ABOUT OTHERS.
When we initially meet someone for the first time there is a large
amount of information which reaches us, however we somehow manage to
combine all into that person's first impression or a mental representation as
a basis for our reaction to them. We will now be looking at how these
impressions develop and what should be done to manage these
impressions.
Have you ever observed that when you meet someone for the first
time, you are probably flooded with lots of information? At a first glance,
we are able to gauge about how they look and dress, how they behave and
the way they speak. Although the information reaching us is huge, we try
to somehow manage to combine it into the first impression of this person -
mental representation of that person and our reactions towards him or her.
This indicates that impression formation is clearly a part of social
perception. Impression formation being an important aspect of social
perception is the way in which we develop our view about others and can
be deeply understood by some famous and classic findings in this field.
In one of his studies participants were given the following two lists:
Intelligent - Skillful - Industrious - Warm - Determined - Cautious -
Practical
Intelligent - Skillful - Industrious - Cold - Determined - Cautious –
Practical
The lists differed only with respect to two words: warm and cold.
Thus, the impression formed by persons exposed to these lists should not
differ a lot in forming impressions merely by adding together individual
traits. The results of this study revealed that those who read the list
containing “warm” were likely to view the stranger as good natured,
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sociable, generous, happy, popular, and altruistic than those who read the
list containing “cold.”
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4.3.2 Impression Management:
Most of the tactics for boosting our images fall into two major categories:
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4.4 WHAT RESEARCH TELLS US ABOUT WHY SOME
PEOPLE CONCLUDE THEY ARE SUPERIOR TO
OTHERS?
4.7 REFERENCE
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ATTITUDE: EVALUATING AND
RESPONDING TO THE SOCIAL WORLD - I
Unit Structure
5.0 Objectives
5.1 Introduction
5.2 Attitude Formation: How Attitudes Develop
5.2.1 Classical Conditioning: Learning Based on Association
5.2.2 Instrumental Conditioning: Rewards for the “Right” Views
5.2.3 Observational Learning: Learning by Exposure to Others
5.3 When and Why Do Attitudes Influence Behavior?
5.3.1 Role of the Social Context in the Link Between Attitudes and
Behavior
5.3.2 Strength of Attitudes
5.3.3 Attitude Extremity: Role of Vested Interests
5.3.4 Attitude Certainty: Importance of Clarity and Correctness
5.3.5 Role of Personal Experience
5.4 How Do Attitudes Guide Behavior?
5.4.1 Attitudes Arrived at Through Reasoned Thought
5.4.2 Attitudes and Spontaneous Behavioral Reactions
5.5 Summary
5.6 Questions
5.7 Reference
5.0 OBJECTIVES
5.1 INTRODUCTION
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role in helping us effectively interact with our environment. Our attitudes
allow us to make judgments about events (e.g., “I don’t mind waiting in a
queue for these concert tickets”), individuals (e.g., “I really admire the
Dalai Lama”), social groups (e.g., “I love my university”), and many other
things.
Let us begin the topic on attitude with one example which is very
easy to understand. If I ask you what are your beliefs about climate change
and how those beliefs were formed? Are you going to be influenced more
by the source’s expertise than others? Because of human activity there is
increased carbon emissions in the planet’s atmosphere. As a result, global
warming is on the rise and increased extreme weather events (e.g.,
droughts, rising sea levels, wildfires, and heat waves) can be expected. 98
percent climate scientists agree that human-caused climate change is
actually happening but general public is not so sure about the reasons
behind the climate change. Why is there this “belief gap” among the
scientists and general public? Is this because public is not properly
informed or are there psychological factors that predict how people
perceive this complex environmental issue?
`In this chapter we will explore the factors that shape the attitudes
we hold, and address the key question of whether our attitudes are simply
a product of rational thought. We will study various learning theories such
as classical conditioning, instrumental conditioning and observational
learning and their role in attitude formation. We will also see why
attitudes influence our behaviour and role of our own personal experiences
in forming attitudes.
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5.2 ATTITUDE FORMATION: HOW ATTITUDES
DEVELOP (VARIOUS LEARNING PROCESSES)
What is Attitude?:
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were exposed for very brief periods of time—so brief that participants
were not aware of their presence. Participants who were nonconsciously
exposed to photos that induced positive feelings(e.g., baby animals) were
later more likely to select fruit as a snack than participants who had been
exposed to photos that no consciously induce negative feelings (e.g.,junk
cars) or those who had been exposed to neutral images (e.g., baskets). The
repeated pairing of fruits with positive images created affective
associations that affected subsequent behavioural choices. These findings
suggest that attitudes can be influenced by subliminal conditioning—
classical conditioning that occurs in the absence of conscious awarenessof
the stimuli involved.
The question here arises is why we often adopt the attitudes and
behaviours of others? According to Festinger (1954) there is a mechanism
of social comparison—our tendency to compare ourselves with others in
order to determine whether our view of social reality is correct or not. If
we find that our views are similar with those of others, we tend to believe
that our ideas and attitudes are accurate. On the other hand, if we find that
our views and attitudes are not in line with majority, we tend to discard
them.
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Check your progress
Short Notes
Attitude
Classical Conditioning
Instrumental Conditioning
Observational Learning
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When Lapiere completed the travels, he wrote to all the businesses
where he and the Chinese couple had stayed or dined. He asked the
businesses whether they would or would not offer service to Chinese
visitors. He was stunned by the results. 92 percent of the restaurants and
91 percent of the hotels that responded said “No to Chinese customers!”
5.3.1 Role of the Social Context in the Link Between Attitudes and
Behaviour:
Let’s consider now how the social context can affect the link
between attitudes and behaviour. Context of the situation: There is role of
situational pressure which makes people do otherwise, that is, behave in
contradiction in relation with their attitude. Have you ever noticed a gap
between your attitude and behaviour? Your answer would be probably
yes. This is because the social context can directly affect the attitude–
behaviour connection. For example, if one of your friends shows you a
new tattoo and asks for your opinion? Suppose you are against tattoo,
would you say that you do not like it? The chances are quite good that you
would try to avoid hurting your friend’s feelings so you might even say
you like it even though your attitude is negative. As this example
illustrates, depending on the degree to which the action has social
consequences or not, attitudes may be differentially related to behaviour.
In contrast to your attitude–behaviour inconsistency in responding to your
friend’s tattoo, your attitude might be a very good predictor of whether
you would get a tattoo or not.
Research has found that attitudes that are held with greater
certainty are more strongly linked to the behaviour (Tormala & Petty,
2004) compared to attitudes that are held with some uncertainty. Research
shows that older people are often more certain of their attitudes than are
young people. They usually place greater value on “standing firm” in the
attitude positions they adopt, and for this reason they tend to show greater
attitude (Eaton, Visser, Krosnick, &Anand, 2009).
Many studies have shown that more the vested interest, stronger
the impact is of the attitude on behaviour (Crano, 1995; Visser, Krosnick,
& Simmons, 2003). In one study, on increasing the legal age of alcohol
drinking, with university students, Sivacek & Crano (1982) found that
who had vested interest, that is, who would be affected by the new law
were more likely to take part in the campaign than those who had low
vested interest. Sivacek & Crano, 1982 conducted a research on university
students in which students from a large university were asked if they
would participate in a campaign against increasing the legal age for
drinking alcohol from 18 to 21, their responses depended on whether they
would be affected by the policy change or not. Students who would be
affected by this new law—those younger than 21 — have a stronger stake
in this issue than those who would not be affected by the law because they
were already 21.Thus, it was predicted that those in the first group—
whose interests were at stake— would be much more likely to join a rally
against the proposed policy change than those in the second group. This is
exactly what happened: While more than 47 percent of those with high
vested interest agreed to take part in the campaign, only 12 percent of
those in the low vested interest group did so.
Attitude extremity
Attitude certainty
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Attitude clarity
Attitude correctness
Attitude accessibility
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Research has proved that the intention– behaviour relationship is
even stronger when people have formed a plan for how and when they will
translate their intentions into behaviour (Barz et al., 2014; Frye & Lord,
2009). Suppose that you form the intention to go to the gym to work out.
If you develop a plan for how you will translate your intention into actual
behaviour—beginning with setting your alarm, preparing your exercise
clothes, and so forth—you will be more likely to succeed at doing so
.Gollwitzer (1999) noted that a plan to implement our intentions is very
effective because it involves delegating control of one’s behaviour to the
situation.
But, how can one form an intention to change some aspect of your
behaviour ? According to the theory, intentions are determined by two
factors: Attitudes toward the behaviour— people’s positive or negative
evaluations of performing the behaviour (whether they think it will yield
positive or negative consequences), and subjective norms—people’s
perceptions of whether others will approve or disapprove of this
behaviour. A third factor, perceived behavioural control —people’s
appraisals of their ability to perform the behaviour—was subsequently
added to the theory (Ajzen, 1991).
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Check your progress
Short Notes
Behavioural intentions
Subjective norms
5.5 SUMMARY
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There are many factors that can affect the strength of the
relationship between attitudes and behavior. Situational constraints may
prevent us from expressing our attitudes overtly—including concerns
about what others may think of us. People often show pluralistic ignorance
which means wrongly believing that others have different attitudes than
we do, which can limit our willingness to express our attitudes in public.
Several aspects of attitudes themselves also moderate the attitude–
behaviour link. These include factors related to attitude strength: including
the extremity of our attitude position, the certainty with which our
attitudes are held, and whether we have personal experience with the
attitude object. All of these factors can make our attitudes more accessible,
and therefore likely to guide our behavior.
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11. How does the strength of attitudes influence attitude behaviour
consistency?
12. What is a vested interest? Discuss some relevant research.
13. Give two important components of attitude certainty and discuss their
role in attitude change and resistance to change.
14. How do direct and indirect experiences with an object affect our
attitude toward it and guide behaviour?
15. What are the factors that affect the strength of the relationship between
attitudes and behaviour?
16. According to the theory of planned behaviour, what are the factors that
determine our intention to change some aspects of our behaviour?
17. According to the attitude-to-behaviour process model by Fazio, why
do attitudes sometimes influence behaviour in a direct and automatic
manner?
18. Explain why people always engage in careful and reasoned thought
when there is ample time to make decisions but make hasty decisions
under hectic conditions.
5.7 REFERENCES
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ATTITUDE: EVALUATING AND
RESPONDING TO THE SOCIAL WORLD - II
Unit Structure
6.0 Objectives
6.1 Introduction
6.2 The Science of Persuasion: How Attitudes Are Changed
6.2.1 Persuasion: Communicators, Messages, and Audiences
6.2.2The Cognitive Processes Underlying Persuasion
6.3 Resisting Persuasion Attempts
6.3.1 Reactance: Protecting Our Personal Freedom
6.3.2 Forewarning: Prior Knowledge of Persuasive Intent
6.3.3 Selective Avoidance of Persuasion Attempts
6.3.4 Actively Defending Our Attitudes: Counter arguing Against
the Competition
6.3.5 Individual Differences in Resistance to Persuasion
6.3.6 Ego-Depletion Can Undermine Resistance
6.4 Cognitive Dissonance: What Is It and How Do We Manage It?
6.4.1 Dissonance and Attitude Change: The Effects of Induced
Compliance
6.4.2 Alternative Strategies for Resolving Dissonance
6.4.3 When Dissonance Is a Tool for Beneficial Changes in
Behaviour
6.5 What research tells us….
6.6 Summary
6.7 Questions
6.8 References
6.0 OBJECTIVES
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6.1 INTRODUCTION
The study of attitudes is central to the field of social psychology
because attitudes are capable of influencing almost every aspect of our
experience. Even when we do not have strong attitudes toward a specific
issue, related values can influence what attitudes we form.
We’ll also examine some reasons why attitudes are often resistant
to change. Finally, we’ll consider the important topic of cognitive
dissonance which is an internal form of attitude change. It is the tension
we experience when our thoughts, feelings, and behaviors are in conflict.
In order to reduce dissonance, individuals can change their behavior,
attitudes, or cognitions, or add a new cognition. Cognitive dissonance has
fascinating implications not just for attitude change, but for many aspects
of social behavior as well.
In this section we will deal with the factors that determine whether
persuasion attempts to alter our attitudes will be effective. If I ask you to
close your eyes and think whether in the last few days did someone try to
change your attitudes about something? If you think about it for a
moment, you may be surprised to realize that it happened almost every
day. You were bombarded with such attempts by billboards, television
commercials, magazine ads, telemarketers, pop-up ads on your computer,
and even friends. To what extent are such attempts at persuasion— efforts
to change our attitudes through the use of various kinds of messages —
successful? And what factors determine if they succeed or fail ? Social
psychologists have studied these issues for decades, and as we’ll soon see,
their efforts have yielded important insights into the cognitive processes
that play a role in persuasion (e.g., Petty, Wheeler, &Tormala, 2003;
Wegener & Carlston, 2005).
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6.2.1 Persuasion: Communicators, Messages, and Audiences:
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The discovery of two contrasting modes of processing—systematic
versus heuristic — has provided an important key to understanding when
and how persuasion occurs. For instance, when persuasive messages are
not interesting or relevant to individuals ,the degree of persuasion they
produce is not strongly influenced by the strength of the arguments these
messages contain. When such messages are highly relevant to individuals,
however, they are much more successful in inducing persuasion when the
arguments they contain are strong and convincing.
Credible communicators
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Systematic processing (central route to persuasion)
Many times you must have felt that you could not express your
attitude freely on some issue. You also might have felt pressure to change
your attitude. Some of us might be alright to be told what to do but most
of us would not like a situation where we do not have freedom to express
our attitude. Sometimes there is an individual, on other occasion there are
advertisers, politicians who pressure others to change their attitude on
some issue. Whether “public” persuaders or private ones, you are on the
receiving end of threats to your freedom to decide for yourself. As a
result, you may experience annoyance and resentment. So, what do you
do? You may try to resist the persuasion attempts. Sometimes you may
adopt views opposite to those the would-be persuader wants you to adopt.
Such behaviour is an example of what social psychologists call
reactance—a negative reaction to efforts by others to reduce our freedom
by getting us to believe or do what they want (Brehm, 1966).
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Research indicates that in such situations, we do often change our
attitudes and behaviour in the opposite direction from what we are being
urged to believe or to do. Indeed, when we are feeling reactance, strong
arguments in favour of attitude change can increase opposition compared
to moderate or weak arguments (Fuegen & Brehm, 2004).This is the
reason why hard-sell attempts at persuasion often fail. When individuals
perceive such appeals as direct threats to their personal freedom they are
strongly motivated to resist.
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6.3.4 Actively Defending Our Attitudes: Counter arguing Against the
Competition:
Selective avoidance
Counter-attitudinal message
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Ego depletion
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Strong reasons
Dissonance is Attitude
for engaging in
weak change is small
attitude
discrepant
behaviour
Research by Steele and his colleagues (e.g., Steele & Lui, 1983;
Steele, 1988) suggested that dissonance can be reduced by indirect means
as well. That is, although the basic discrepancy between the attitude and
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behavior is left intact, the unpleasant or negative feelings generated by
dissonance can be still reduced by, for example, consuming alcohol.
Under certain conditions, individuals experiencing dissonance may not
focus so much on reducing the gap between their attitudes and behavior,
but instead on other methods that will allow them to feel good about
themselves despite the gap (Steele, Spencer, & Lynch, 1993).
• People who don’t wear seat belts are much more likely to die in
accidents than those who do.
• People who smoke are much more likely to suffer from lung cancer
and heart disease than those who don’t . . .
• People who engage in unprotected sex are much more likely than those
who engage in safe sex to contract dangerous diseases, as well as have
unplanned pregnancies . . .
Most of us know these statements are true, and our attitudes are
generally favorable toward using seat belts, quitting smoking, and
engaging in safe sex (Carey, Morrison- Beedy, & Johnson, 1997). Despite
having positive attitudes, they are often not translated into overt actions.
Research suggests that dissonance can be used to promote beneficial
behaviour change.
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Less-leads-to-more
Trivialization
Self-affirmation
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beliefs about personal attitudes and behavior should be consistent or not,
and whether attitudes and behaviour should differ across time. Following
points were studied by Riemer and his colleagues:
• The extent to which cognitive dissonance is experienced when
attitudes and behavior are inconsistent.
• Having strong and clear attitudes is less important for effective
functioning in non-Western context than in Western contexts.
• Being influenced by what others expect when making choices “feels”
right in non-Western contexts, but is seen as a struggle for personal
control in Western contexts.
• Successful persuasive advertisements in Western contexts often
emphasize personal uniqueness, whereas they are likely to emphasize
being appropriate for one’s social position in non-Western contexts.
• Whether people who “do it their way” are considered good and
normal, or immature and unwise for not considering the consequences
of their actions for others.
6.6 SUMMARY
6.7 QUESTIONS
1. When was the last time you were successfully persuaded by others.
What persuasion technique did they use?
2. What are the elements of persuasion? Explain with an example which
is not given in the text.
3. Credible communicators are more persuasive than the ones who are
not. Discuss.
4. Are you more likely to be persuaded by someone who is physically
attractive or someone who is from your social network?
5. Do you agree that messages that are designed to change our attitudes
are likely to be less persuasive?
6. How effective is the role of fear in persuading someone?
7. Define reactance. Why do hard-sell attempts at persuasion fail in the
presence of reactance?
8. Explain selective avoidance as a strategy to resist persuasion. Give
examples when you tried selective avoidance.
9. How does exposure to arguments that are opposed to our attitudes
strengthen the views we already hold and make us resistant to efforts
to change them?
10. Discuss strategies that you would employ to resist persuasive
messages?
11. Why do people suffering from ego-depletion fail to differentiate
between strong and weak arguments and are likely to be persuaded by
both?
12. Define the term cognitive dissonance? Cite an instance from your own
experience when you felt like this.
13. When is change in attitude likely to occur, when there are enough
reasons to engage in attitude-discrepant behaviour or when one lacks
the justification to do so?
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14. Discuss two direct methods aimed at reducing dissonance ? When is
one likely to engage in indirect methods of dissonance reduction?
15. If you are experiencing dissonance, what strategies would you use to
reduce it?
16. How can dissonance be used to bring about beneficial behavioral
changes? Give some real life examples.
17. Explain the concept of cultural tightness versus cultural looseness. Is
your culture relatively tight or loose?
6.8 REFERENCES
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7
LIKING, LOVE AND OTHER CLOSE
RELATIONSHIPS - I
Unit Structure
7.0 Objectives
7.1 Introduction
7.2 Internal Sources of Liking Others: The Role of Needs and Emotions
7.2.1 Importance of Affiliation Need
7.2.2 Role of Affect
7.3 External Sources of Attraction: The Effects of Proximity, Familiarity
and Physical Beauty
7.3.1 Power of Proximity
7.3.2 Physical Beauty
7.4 Sources of Liking based on Social Interaction
7.4.1 Similarity
7.4.2 Reciprocal liking or disliking
7.4.3 Social skills
7.4.4 Personality and Liking
7.4.5 Characteristics desired in others? Gender differences and
Changes over Stages of relationships
7.5 Summery
7.6 Questions
7.7 References
7.0 OBJECTIVES
After reading the chapter, you should be able to understand the following
Affiliation and Affect as the internal factors that influences our liking
for others.
Understand the influence of External factors like Proximity and
Physical Beauty on Interpersonal Attractions
Understand the influence of factors related to Social Interaction (
Similarities, Reciprocal liking or disliking, Social skills, Personality,
Gender differences and stages of development) on interpersonal
attractions.
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7.1 INTRODUCTION
This chapter will discuss the internal factors in the section 7.2,
followed by External factors in section 7.3 and the Factors based on Social
Interaction in section 7.4
All individuals differ in the level to which they desire the company of
other people. According to O’Connor & Rosenblood (1996) human
beings seek the amount of social contact that is optimal for them. The
optimal level that produces satisfaction varies from one individual to
another.
All this suggests that social contacts are important for the
development of human beings.
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This suggests that human beings prefer company of people with
similar problems. Company of such kind is sought for the following
reasons-
(a) Social Comparison: Company of others provides an individual with
the opportunity for social comparison - to communicate about what is
going on, compare their perceptions and make decisions about what to
do.
(b) Cognitive Clarity: When exposed to a distressing situation, human
beings make an attempt to understand the situation. Talking to others
enables them to develop a better understanding of the situation
(Cognitive Clarity)
(c) Emotional Clarity: Under a distressing situation human beings also
have a need to understand their own emotional reactions that results
from the negative situation (Emotional Clarity). The desire for
cognitive and emotional clarity determines the individual's need for
affiliation (Gump & Kulik, 1997)
Thus human beings seek company of others and this seeking out
company is beneficial. Study by Kulik, Mahler & Moore (1996) with
individuals hospitalized for no emergency cardiac surgery showed that
they spent more time with their roommate (who had or was expecting
cardiac surgery) talking and seeking cognitive clarity and emotional
clarity. This cognitive and emotional clarity was associated with ability to
leave hospital more quickly after the surgery. This indicates the rewarding
effects of the affiliation motive.
All of the above indicates that although people differ in the level of
need for affiliation, it is present in every individual and this motive is one
of the factors that underlie our interpersonal attraction.
7.2.2 The role of affect: do our moods play a role in liking others?:
Another internal factor that influences our liking for another
individual is our mood. Our emotional state affects several cognitive
processes like perception, motivation, decision making and interpersonal
attraction. Moods have a strong influence on the way in which we evaluate
others. A positive affect often leads to positive evaluations of other
people and a negative affect often leads to dislike or negative evaluations
of others. Thus moods have an impact on our likes and dislikes for another
individual.
Moods and emotions influence our likes and dislikes in two ways-
directly and indirectly.
(1) Direct effects: We like someone who makes us feel good and dislike
someone who makes us feel bad (Ben-Porath, 2000). This is the direct
effect. Thus direct effect takes place when another person says or does
something that makes us feel good or bad.
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(2) Indirect effects: Sometimes like or dislike for an individual occurs
only because the person is present at the time when we experience the
emotional state. For example, if we meet a stranger immediately after
being scolded by the teacher, we are less likely to like him or her.
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7.3: EXTERNAL SOURCES OF ATTRACTION: THE
EFFECTS OF PROXIMITY, FAMILIARITY AND
PHYSICAL BEAUTY
(2) Social support: With the emotional disclosure there is greater social
support received by the individual.
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However technology also produces negative effects. Some of the
negative effects are:
(1) Depression: Frequent use of Facebook is associated with depression
and lowered subjective feelings of well-being (Kross et. al.,2013)
(2) Comparison: Studies have shown that greater the number of friends
with whom an individual can compare and especially when they
present themselves favorably, it makes one feel sad.
Physical Beauty:
(2) Lemay et. al. (2010) proposed a 3-step theory to explain why attractive
people are viewed as possessing desirable characteristics. According to
them, when people find someone attractive they have a desire to form
relationship with that individual. Thus it begins with our desire to
form relationship with attractive people. This desire leads us to
perceive them as interpersonally positive even on dimensions which
may not even be directly connected to physical beauty.
However sometimes attractive people may use their looks for their
own benefit- like persuading or influencing others. Their desirable
behaviour could be their attempt at manipulating others to get whatever
they desire. However it is not necessarily only beautiful people are
manipulative. But it is important to understand that associating beauty
with desirable characteristics may not always be realistic and accurate.
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In many cultures overweight is viewed negatively in terms of
attractiveness. However in many other cultures overweight is considered
as attractive. In countries like Mauritania young women are encouraged to
eat and gain weight. Yet in most societies being overweight reduces
attractiveness.
Apart from the internal and external factors attraction and liking for an
individual also depends upon factors that are related to social interactions.
Our liking for an individual depends upon our experiences on interacting
with them. Some of the factors related to this are –
- Similarities that we share with the person
- The extent to which the other person like us
- Social skills
- Aspects of Personality
- Stage of relationships and Gender
Van Straaten et. al. (2010) had male and female strangers interact
briefly with each other. During this videotaped interaction, the
attractiveness of the participant and the extent to which they engaged in
efforts to make favorable impressions on each other was rated by the
observers. Each participant also rated his or her interest in dating the
stranger. Results showed that men invested more efforts in building
relations with strangers when they were more similar in attractiveness.
However this pattern was not found with women. Since women are less
willing to express overt interest in opposite sex, they do not put in efforts
to press the partners.
Why do we like others who are similar to ourselves but dislike those
who are different?:
Researchers have made an attempt to put forth theories to explain
why similarities elicit positive feelings and dissimilarity elicits negative
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feelings. Two theories put forth to explain this are –The Balance theory
and Social Comparison theory.
(1) The Balance Theory by Newcomb (1961) & Heider (1958) suggests
that people naturally organize their likes and dislikes in a symmetrical
way. Similarity with others produces a state of balance, which is
emotionally pleasant while dissimilarity produces imbalance, which is
emotionally unpleasant. When in state of imbalance, individuals strive to
restore balance by making either of the two changes—Underestimating or
Ignoring the dissimilarity or deciding to dislike one another. Disliking
involves non-balance, which is neither pleasant nor unpleasant.\
Almost everyone desires to be liked and we like those who like us.
Even in case of false flattery, people perceive it as accurate (Gordon,
1996), unless and until it is totally obvious. Research also suggests that we
have tendency of reciprocal liking, means we have a tendency to like those
who express liking towards us and disliking those who express dislike for
us (Condon &Crano, 1988).
2) Narcissism:
Another personality characteristics associated with interpersonal
attractiveness is narcissism. (Morf & Rhodewalt, 2011) which is
characterized by inflated view of themselves, who focus mostly on
themselves and ignore the needs and feelings of others. Such individuals
seem likable in the beginning. However with repeated interactions their
belief that they are superior and others should admire them, makes them
unlikable.
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7.4.5: What do we desire in others? gender differences and changes
over stages of a relationship:
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7.5 SUMMARY
Another set of factor that determines our liking for others is those
based on social interactions. This includes our similarity with the
individual, social skills and personality traits of the individual. We like
those who are similar to us in terms of attitude, beliefs, values and
sometimes even if there are similarities on trivial matters. Possession of
social skills increases an individual’s likelihood of being liked. Similarly
personality factors like Big 5 factors and narcissism also determine our
liking for an individual.
7.6 QUESTIONS
7.7 REFERENCE
(1) Aronson, E., Wilson, T.D., & Akert, R.M. (2007). Social Psychology.
(6th edit.), New Jersey: Pearson Education, Prentice Hall.
(2) Baumeister, R.F., &Bushman , B.J. (2008). Social Psychology and
Human Nature. International student edition, Thomson Wadsworth,
USA
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LIKING, LOVE AND OTHER CLOSE
RELATIONSHIPS - II
Unit Structure
8.0 Objectives
8.1 Close relationships: Foundations of Social life (Introduction)
8.1.1 Romantic relationships and the (Partially solved) Mystery of
Love
8.1.2 What do we seek in Romantic Partners?
8.1.3 Relationships with Family Members: Our First and Most
Lasting – Close Relationships
8.1.4Friendships: Relationships Beyond the Family
8.2 What research tells us about dramatic differences in appearance
between partners: Is love really blind?
8.3 What research tells us about two factors that may destroy love-
Jealousy and Infidelity
8.4 Summery
8.5 Questions
8.6 References
8.0 OBJECTIVES
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different aspects of these relationships like- its formation and
development, significance and functions, factors affecting its survival. In
this unit we will understand the nature of three important social
relationships- Romantic relationship, relationships with family members
and relationships with friends.
Components of love:
Sternberg conceptualized various components of love and
explained them in the form of a model called as Sternberg’s Model of
Love. This model suggests that each love relationship is made up of 3
components- Intimacy, Passion and Commitment.
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(1) Intimacy: It is the closeness that two people feel and the strength of
the bond that holds them together. Partners high on this are concerned
with each other's welfare and happiness. They value, trust, understand
and like each other.
Companionate love: Love based on care for each other, mutual liking and
respect is known as Companionate love (Caspi&Herbener,1990).
According to Sternberg, it involves the combination of intimacy and
commitment. Although this form of love is not as exciting as passionate
love, it is very important for lasting and committed relations.
Hatfield(1988) described this type of love as “the affection we feel for
those with whom our lives are deeply entwined.” This type of love is the
foundation for long lasting committed relationships, such as marital
relationships.
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more acceptable because they are in love. In such cases sexual activity
gets romanticized (Baumister, 2005).
Very often when love at first sight happens and a person falls in
love with a stranger, it happens only to one person and is not mutual. Such
a love, where a person’s feelings are not returned by the other person is
known as unrequited love. It is a one way love and is most common
among people who have conflicts about attachments. They want them, but
are afraid of them too(Aron et. al., 1998).
The social roles that people expect to play in life also determine
what they look for in future mate. Eagly et.al. believed that social roles are
more important than gender in determining the choice of future partner.
They conducted a study in which they asked male and female participants
to imagine themselves to be married with children and also as either
provider for the family or a homemaker. They were then asked to indicate
the extent to which different mate characteristics would be important for
them. The findings of their study were as follows-
It was found that for both men and women, roles influenced the
importance of characteristics in the mate. When participants were
expected to be provider, they rated homemaker skills as more
important in potential mate. They sought someone with whom they
could readily divide key home tasks or responsibilities.
Regardless of the role, women valued good provider skills.
Also women expressed a preference for older men while men
expressed preference for younger ones.
This study suggests that social role and gender influences the
preference of a mate.
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Check Your Progress:
1. What are the different types of Love?
8.1.3: Relations with family members: Our first and the most lasting
close relationships:
2) Fearful-attachment style:
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Thus this first formed relationship by the child has a lasting impact
not only on the development of the child but also on the other
relationships that the child forms throughout his or her life.
1) Nullifying effects:
2) Formation of attitudes:
3) Other interactions:
Interactions with adults teaches children not only about the game
but also about how to interact in a social situation, follow a set of rules and
how to deal with disagreements. Talking and negotiating with
grandparents may help the child to know how nature of interaction with
friends and parents is different than interacting with grandparents. This in
turn helps the child in dealing with elders outside the family. Thus it
determines how an individual interacts with others.
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The effect of sibling relationships is generally studied by
comparing children who are the only child and those having siblings.
Conclusions of such studies have shown that the relationship that one has
with the sibling influences their interpersonal behaviour in the following
ways
1. Learning experience:
Events like fights, sharing, negotiations between siblings helps the
children by providing interpersonal learning experiences. It equips them
with skills that help them to deal with other relationships outside the
home.
2. Social Interactions:
Children with no sibling are less likely to be liked by their
classmates and are likely to be either victimized by others or they
themselves are likely to be aggressive towards others. Having siblings
helps the child to develop interpersonal skills which enhances their ability
to deal with negative social behaviour like bullying in a constructive way.
3. Unique experience:
The relationship that one has with their siblings is very different
and provides a unique experience to the child. Sibling relationship is
different than parent-child relationship since it has a combination of
affection, hostility and rivalry (Boer et. a., 1997). All this makes it a very
different relationship which has a strong impact on the development of the
child.
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8.1.4: Friendships: relationships beyond the family:
The relationship that one has with friends is another very important
influencing factor on our development.
1. Childhood:
Early childhood stage is referred to as the ‘pre- gang’ age while
late childhood stage is called as ‘gang age'. The early interactions with
friends generally begin during the childhood stage. At this stage it is based
on proximity. Children generally make friends with those living close to
their family or those sitting close to them.
Close friendships:
An individual may have many friends but fewer close friends. The
nature of interaction that takes place between friends who are only friends
is different than those between close friends. Some of the important
characteristics of interactions in close friendship are:
(1) Modesty - Tice et.al. (1995) suggested that a person may engage in
bragging with others but with close friends they are more modest in
their behaviour.
(2) Less likely to lie – A person is less likely to lie to close friends
(DePaulo & Kashy, 1998.) and if they lie, it would be with the
intention of making the friend feel better.
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In general people admire characteristics of generosity, sensitive
nature and honesty in friends. They value friends with whom they are
able to be themselves and are able to relax (Urbanski, 1992)
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8.2 WHAT RESEARCH TELLS US ABOUT DRAMATIC
DIFFERENCES IN APPEARANCE BETWEEN
PARTNERS: IS LOVE REALLY BLIND?
Although people may have their own individual ways of thinking and
perceiving their partners, there are two types of partner knowledge that
they have-
Insight in to how their partners see them ( Identity Accuracy)
Insight into how others see their partners (Reputation Accuracy)
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In their study participants were asked to answer a questionnaire
regarding their perception of their own physical attractiveness. The
questionnaires were sent to the participant's friends and romantic partners
regarding their perception of the participant's physical attractiveness and
their perception of participant's self- evaluation. For the romantic partners,
an additional questionnaire was given regarding their perception of the
participant's friends’ evaluations. Correlations were found between the
participant's self, partner's and friend’s perception.
(2) Such couples are aware at least to some degree of their tendency to
perceive their partners as more attractive than other people. Thus
although they may find their partner attractive, they are also aware of
the fact that they view the partner more positively in comparison
to how others view them.
Thus such partners perceive each other more attractive than other
observers. This suggests that perhaps love makes people blind –each
partner may be partially blind towards the discrepancy between them,
which is considered by others as very important. These individuals are
also aware how other people view their partner and know that they
consider their partners more attractive in comparison to others. Although
they recognize the differences with each other, it is perceived by them as
insignificant. Although others may perceive the contrast, they themselves
may find the difference unimportant.
Solomon & Vazire argue that people are able to maintain an overly
positive and realistic view of partners in three major ways-
(1) Everyone will rate their significant others as more attractive than
average rating from other friends.
(2) People make overly positive global evaluations of their partners, but
more realistic evaluations of specific traits and abilities ( My spouse is
great but is not very patient)
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(3) People have a more biased judgment for relationship- relevant
dimensions and more realistic judgment for dimensions related only to
their partners ( My spouse is really attractive but is not good at soccer)
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2. Threat to self-esteem:
1. Stress:
2. Affects evaluations:
3. Homicide:
4. Declined love:
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Thus jealousy is an important source of destroyed relationship.
Another factor that threatens relationships is- infidelity. It refers
to a partner's betrayal through intimate relationships with others.
Infidelity occurs across different cultures, socio-economic status and
gender. However, powerful people engage in such behavior more
frequently than less powerful individuals (Lammers et. al., (2011).
Research by Lammers et. al., (2011) suggested that this was primarily due
to their confidence about their ability to engage in infidelity.
1. Divorce:
Infidelity by a partner destroys the bonding and emotional
attachment for the person engaging in such relationship. In fact infidelity
is the most frequent reason for divorce (Previti & Amato, 2003)
3. Media attention:
When infidelity occurs among powerful individuals, it receives
widespread public attention. This may result to tarnishing the image of
people involved.
4. Stress:
Infidelity involves secret romantic relationship. Individuals
engaging in secret relationship undergo stress (Lehmiller, 2009). They
may be stressed about the consequences when people come to know of it.
Sometimes they may even be stressed thinking about the future of such
relationship.
8.4 SUMMARY
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Relationship with family members (parents, children and siblings)
is another close relationships formed by human beings. Relationship with
parents is governed by attachment style and interpersonal trust. These
family relationships have àn impact on our attitude towards oneself.
Jealousy and Infidelity are two important factors that destroy love
amongst people. Both these factors may produce stress in the relationships
and reduce the love between partners.
8.5 QUESTIONS
(1) Discuss the nature of love and the characteristics sought in Romantic
relationship.
(2) Evaluate the nature of different family relationships.
(3) Discuss the basis for close friendship.
(1) Aronson, E., Wilson, T.D., &Akert, R.M. (2007). Social Psychology.
(6th edit.), New Jersey: Pearson Education, Prentice Hall.
(2) Baumeister, R.F., & Bushman , B.J. (2008). Social Psychology and
Human Nature. International student edition, Thomson Wadsworth,
USA.
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