GED 101 - Understanding The Self PART I
GED 101 - Understanding The Self PART I
GED 101 - Understanding The Self PART I
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This module will introduce you to the basic concepts of self and
personality, and how they are related with each other. Self and personality characterized
the way we define our existence, also these refers on how we organized
our experiences that are reflected to our behavior. On the other hand, people have different ideas about
themselves. These ideas represent the self of the person. Moreover, we behave in different ways in a given
situation, but people also behave fairly stable in different circumstances. The relatively permanent pattern
of behavior represents personality of the person. In details,
Personality
• The etymological derivative of personality comes from the word “persona”, the theatrical masks
worn by Romans in Greek and Latin drama. Personality also comes from the two Latin words “per”
and “sonare”, which literally means “to sound through”.
• Personality have no single definition since different personality theories have different views on
how to define it. However, the commonly accepted definition of personality is that it is a relatively
permanent traits and unique characteristics that give both consistency and individuality to a person’s
behavior (Roberts & Mroczek, 2008).
• Personality plays a key role in affecting how people shape their lives. It involves the complex
relationship of people with their environment, how they cope and adjust through life, and how they
respond to demands of physical and social challenges.
• Personality is the overall pattern or integration of a person’s structure, modes of behavior, attitudes,
aptitudes, interests, intellectual abilities, and many other distinguishable personality traits.
Personality is the conglomeration of the following components: physical self, intelligence, character
traits, attitudes, habits, interest, personal discipline, moral values, principles and philosophies of life.
Determinants of Personality
Personality refers to the total person in his/her overt and covert behavior. The determinants of factors
of personality are as follows:
• Situational Factors of Personality. Although these factors do not literally create and shape up an
individual’s personality, situational factors do alter a person’s behavior and response from time to
time. The situational factors can be commonly observed when a person behaves contrastingly and
exhibits different traits and characteristics.
Personality Traits
Personality traits reflect people’s characteristic patterns of thoughts, feelings, and behaviors.
Personality traits imply consistency and stability—someone who scores high on a specific trait like
Extraversion is expected to be sociable in different situations and over time. Thus, trait psychology rests on
the idea that people differ from one another in terms of where they stand on a set of basic trait dimensions
that persist over time and across situations.
The most widely used system of traits is called the Five-Factor Model. This system includes five
broad traits that can be remembered with the acronym OCEAN: Openness, Conscientiousness, Extraversion,
Agreeableness, and Neuroticism. Each of the major traits from the Big Five can be divided into facets to
give a more fine-grained analysis of someone's personality. In addition, some trait theorists argue that there
are other traits that cannot be completely captured by the Five-Factor Model. Critics of the trait concept
argue that people do not act consistently from one situation to the next and that people are very influenced
by situational forces. Thus, one major debate in the field concerns the relative power of people’s traits versus
the situations in which they find themselves as predictors of their behavior.
Research that used the lexical approach showed that many of the personality descriptors found in
the dictionary do indeed overlap. In other words, many of the words that we use to describe people are
synonyms. Thus, if we want to know what a person is like, we do not necessarily need to ask how sociable
they are, how friendly they are, and how gregarious they are. Instead, because sociable people tend to be
friendly and gregarious, we can summarize this personality dimension with a single term. Someone who is
The most widely accepted system to emerge from this approach was “The Big Five” or “FiveFactor
Model” (Goldberg, 1990; McCrae & John, 1992; McCrae & Costa, 1987). The Big Five comprises five
major traits shown in the Figure 2 below. A way to remember these five is with the acronym OCEAN (O is
for Openness; C is for Conscientiousness; E is for Extraversion; A is for Agreeableness; N is for
Neuroticism). The table below provides descriptions of people who would score high and low on each of
these traits.
Traits are important and interesting because they describe stable patterns of behavior that persist for
long periods of time (Caspi, Roberts, & Shiner, 2005). Importantly, these stable patterns can have
broadranging consequences for many areas of our life (Roberts, Kuncel, Shiner, Caspi, & Goldberg, 2007).
For instance, think about the factors that determine success in college. If you were asked to guess what
factors predict good grades in college, you might guess something like intelligence. This guess would be
correct, but we know much more about who is likely to do well. Specifically, personality researchers have
also found the personality traits like Conscientiousness play an important role in college and beyond,
probably because highly conscientious individuals study hard, get their work done on time, and are less
distracted by nonessential activities that take time away from school work. In addition, highly conscientious
people are often healthier than people low in conscientiousness because they are more likely to maintain
healthy diets, to exercise, and to follow basic safety procedures like wearing seat belts or bicycle helmets.
Over the long term, this consistent pattern of behaviors can add up to meaningful differences in health and
longevity. Thus, personality traits are not just a useful way to describe people you know; they actually help
psychologists predict how good a worker someone will be, how long he or she will live, and the types of
jobs and activities the person will enjoy.
Who Am I?
Have you ever ask yourself the question, “Who am I?”? Answering the question 'Who am I?' can
lead to a solid self-concept and self-understanding. For many people, answering this question isn't very easy.
For others, a solid understanding of who they are is a big part of their lives. Understanding of who you are
as a person is called self-concept and understanding what your motives are when you act is called self-
understanding.
Self-concept tends to be more malleable when people are younger and still going through the process
of self-discovery and identity formation. As people age, self-perceptions become much more detailed and
organized as people form a better idea of who they are and what is important to them.
According to the book Essential Social Psychology by Richard Crisp and Rhiannon Turner:
• The individual self consists of attributes and personality traits that differentiate us from other
individuals. Examples include introversion or extroversion.
• The relational self is defined by our relationships with significant others. Examples include siblings,
friends, and spouses.
• The collective self reflects our membership in social groups. Examples include British, Republican,
African-American, or gay.
Philosophy
Philosophy is defined as the study of knowledge or wisdom from its Latin roots,
philo (love) and sophia (wisdom). This field is also considered as “The Queen
of All Sciences” because every scientific discipline has philosophical
foundations.
Various thinkers for centuries tried to explain the natural causes of everything
that exist specifically the inquiry on the self preoccupied these philosophers in the
history. The Greek philosophers were the ones who seriously questioned myths
and moved away from them in attempting to understand reality by exercising the art of questioning that
satisfies their curiosity, including the questions about self. The following lecture will present the different
philosophical perspectives and views about self.
Socrates
• A philosopher from Athens, Greece and said to have the greatest influence on European thought.
• According to the history he was not able to write any of his teachings and life’s account instead, he
is known from the writings of his student Plato who became one of the greatest philosophers of his
time. Socrates had a unique style of asking questions called Socratic Method.
• Socratic Method or dialectic method involves the search for the correct/proper definition of a thing.
In this method, Socrates did not lecture, he instead would ask questions and engage the person in a
discussion. He would begin by acting as if he did not know anything and would get the other person
to clarify their ideas and resolve logical inconsistencies (Price, 2000).
• The foundation of Socrates philosophy was the Delphic Oracle’s that command to “Know Thyself”.
Here, Socrates would like to emphasize that knowing or understanding oneself should be more than
the physical self, or the body.
• According to Socrates, self is dichotomous which means composed of two things: The physical
realm or the one that is changeable, temporal, and imperfect. The best example of the physical realm
is the physical world. The physical world is consisting of anything we sense – see, smell, feel, hear,
and taste. It is always changing and deteriorating. The ideal realm is the one that is imperfect and
unchanging, eternal, and immortal. This includes the intellectual essences of the universe like the
concept of beauty, truth, and goodness. Moreover, the ideal realm is also present in the physical
world. One may define someone as beautiful or truthful, but their definition is limited and imperfect
for it is always relative and subjective. It is only the ideal forms themselves that are perfect,
unchanging, and eternal.
• For Socrates, a human is composed of body and soul, the first belongs to the physical realm because
it changed, it is imperfect, and it dies, and the latter belongs to ideal realm for it survives the death.
Socrates also used the term soul to identify self.
Plato
• A student of Socrates, who introduced the idea of a threepart soul/self that is composed of reason,
physical appetite and spirit or passion.
• The Reason enables human to think deeply, make wise choices and achieve a true understanding of
eternal truths. Plato also called this as divine essence.
• The physical Appetite is the basic biological needs of human being such as hunger, thirst, and sexual
desire. o And the spirit or passion is the basic emotions of human being such as love, anger,
ambition, aggressiveness and empathy.
• These three elements of the self works in every individual inconsistently. According to Plato, it is
always the responsibility of the reason to organize, control, and reestablish harmonious
relationship between these three elements.
• Plato also illustrated his view of the soul/self in “Phaedrus” in his metaphor: the soul is like a winged
chariot drawn by two powerful horses: a white horse, representing Spirit, and a black horse,
embodying appetite. The charioteer is reason, whose task is to guide the chariot to the eternal realm
by controlling the two independent-minded horses. Those charioteers who are successful in setting
a true course and ensuring that the two steeds work together in harmonious unity achieve true
wisdom and banquet with the gods. However, those charioteers who are unable to control their
horses and keep their chariot on track are destined to experience personal, intellectual, and spiritual
failure.
St. Augustine
• He is considered as the last of the great ancient philosophers whose ideas were greatly Platonic. In
melding philosophy and religious beliefs together, Augustine has been characterized as
Christianity’s first theologian.
• Like Plato, Augustine believed that the physical body is different from the immortal soul. Early in
his philosophical development he described body as “snare” or “cage” of the soul and said that the
body is a “slave” of the soul he even characterized that “the soul makes war with the body”. Later
on he came to view the body as “spouse” of the soul, with both attached to one another by a “natural
appetite.” He concluded, “That the body is united with the soul, so that man may be entire and
complete, is a fact we recognize on the evidence of our own nature.”
According to St. Augustine, the human nature is composed of two realms:
1. God as the source of all reality and truth. Through mystical experience, man is capable of
knowing eternal truths. This is made possible through the existence of the one eternal truth
which is God. He further added that without God as the source of all truth, man could
never understand eternal truth. This relationship with God means that those who know
most about God will come closest to understanding the true nature of the world.
Rene Descartes
• A French philosopher, mathematician, and considered the founder of modern philosophy.
• Descartes, famous principle the “cogito, ergo sum—“I think, therefore I exist” established his
philosophical views on “true knowledge” and concept of self.
• He explained that in order to gain true knowledge, one must doubt everything even own
existence. Doubting makes someone aware that they are thinking being thus, they exist. The
essence of existing as a human identity is the possibility of being aware of our selves: being
self-conscious in this way is integral to having a personal identity. Conversely, it would be
impossible to be self-conscious if we did not have a personal identity of which to be conscious.
In other words, the essence of self is being a thinking thing.
• The self is a dynamic entity that engages in metal operations – thinking, reasoning, and
perceiving processes. In addition to this, self-identity is dependent on the awareness in
engaging with those mental operations.
• He declared that the essential self or the self as the thinking entity is radically different from
the physical body. The thinking self or soul is a non-material, immortal, conscious being,
independent of the physical laws of the universe while the physical body is a material, mortal,
non-thinking entity, fully governed by the physical laws of nature.
• He also maintained that the soul and the body are independent of one another and each can
exist and function without the other. In cases in which people are sleeping or comatose, their
bodies continue to function even though their minds are not thinking, much like the
mechanisms of a clock. He identified the physical self as part of nature, governed by the
physical laws of the universe, and available to scientific analysis and experimentation, and the
conscious self (mind, soul) is a part of the spiritual realm, independent of the physical laws of
the universe, governed only by the laws of reason and God’s will. And because it exists outside
of the natural world of cause-and-effect, the conscious self is able to exercise free will in the
choices it makes.
John Locke
• An English philosopher and physician and famous in his concept of “Tabula Rasa” or Blank Slate
that assumes the nurture side of human development.
• The self, according to Locke is consciousness. In his essay entitled On Personal Identity (from his
most famous work, Essay Concerning Human Understanding) he discussed the reflective analysis
of how an individual may experience the self in everyday living. He provided the following key
points:
1. To discover the nature of personal identity, it is important to find out what it means to be a person.
2. A person is a thinking, intelligent being who has the abilities to reason and to reflect.
David Hume
• He was a Scottish philosopher and also an empiricist.
• His claim about self is quite controversial because he assumed that there is no self! In his essay
entitled, “On Personal Identity” (1739) he said that, if we carefully examine the contents of
[our] experience, we find that there are only two distinct entities, "impressions" and "ideas".
• Impressions are the basic sensations of our experience, the elemental data of our minds: pain,
pleasure, heat, cold, happiness, grief, fear, exhilaration, and so on.
• On the other hand, ideas are copies of impressions that include thoughts and images that are
built up from our primary impressions through a variety of relationships, but because they are
derivative copies of impressions, they are once removed from reality.
• Hume considered that the self does not exist because all of the experiences that a person may
have are just perceptions and this includes the perception of self. None of these perceptions
resemble a unified and permanent self-identity that exists over time.
• He further added that there are instances that an individual is limited in experiencing their
perception like in sleeping. Similarly, when someone died all empirical senses end and
according to him, it makes no sense to believe that self exists in other forms. As an empiricist,
Hume provide an honest description and analysis of his own experience, within which there is
no self to be found.
• Hume explained that the self that is being experienced by an individual is nothing but a kind
of fictional self. Human created an imaginary creature which is not real. “Fictional self” is
created to unify the mental events and introduce order into an individual lives, but this “self”
has no real existence.
Sigmund Freud
• A well-known Australian psychologist and considered as the Father and Founder of Psychoanalysis.
His influence in Psychology and therapy is dominant and popular in the 20th to 21st century.
• The dualistic view of self by Freud involves the conscious self and unconscious self.
• The conscious self is governed by reality principle. Here, the self is rational, practical, and
appropriate to the social environment. The conscious self has the task of controlling the constant
pressures of the unconscious self, as its primitive impulses continually seek for immediate discharge.
• The unconscious self is governed by pleasure principle. It is the self that is aggressive, destructive,
unrealistic and instinctual. Both of Freud’s self needs immediate gratification and reduction of
tensions to optimal levels and the goal of every individual is to make unconscious conscious.
Gilbert Ryle
• A British analytical philosopher. He was an important figure in the field of Linguistic Analysis
which focused on the solving of philosophical puzzles through an analysis of language.
• According to Ryle, the self is best understood as a pattern of behavior, the tendency or disposition
for a person to behave in a certain way in certain circumstances.
• He opposed the notable ideas of the previous philosophers and even claimed that those were results
of confused conceptual thinking he termed, category mistake. The category mistake happens when
we speak about the self as something independent of the physical body: a purely mental entity
existing in time but not space
Immanuel Kant
• A German Philosopher who made great contribution to the fields of metaphysics, epistemology, and
ethics. Kant is widely regarded as the greatest philosopher of the modern period.
• Kant maintained that an individual self makes the experience of the world comprehensible because
it is responsible for synthesizing the discreet data of sense experience into a meaningful whole.
• It is the self that makes consciousness for the person to make sense of everything. It is the one that
help every individual gain insight and knowledge. If the self failed to do this synthesizing function,
there would be a chaotic and insignificant collection of sensations.
Maurice Merleau-Ponty
• A French philosopher and phenomenologist. He took a very different approach to the self and the
mind/body “problem.” According to him, the division between the “mind” and the “body” is a
product of confused thinking. The self is experienced as a unity in which the mental and physical
are seamlessly woven together. This unity is the primary experience of selves and begin to doubt it
when an individual use their minds to concoct abstract notions of a separate mind and body.
Developed the concept of self-subject and contended that perceptions occur existentially. Thus, the
consciousness, the world, and the human body are all interconnected as they mutually perceive the
world. According to him, the world and the sense of self are emergent phenomena in the ongoing
References/Sources:
Arcega, A M., Cullar, D. S., Evangelista, L. D. & Falculan, L. M. (2018). Understanding the Self. Malabon
City: Mutya Publishing House Inc.
Gazzingan, L. B. et al. (2019). Understanding the Self. Muntinlupa City: Panday-Lahi Publishing House,
Inc.
Alata, E.J.P., Caslib, B.N., Serafica, J.P.J., Pawilen, R.A. (2018). Unsertanding the Self. Rex Book Store
Inc., Sta Mesa Heights, Quezon City, Philippines
• Sociology and Anthropology are two interrelated disciplines that contributes to the understanding
of self. Sociology presents the self as a product of modern society. It is the science that studies the
development, structure, interaction, and collective behavior of human being. On the other hand,
Anthropology is the study of humanity. This broad field takes an interdisciplinary approach to
looking at human culture, both past and present. The following set of sociologists and anthropologist
offered their views about self.
• Simmel was a German sociologist, philosopher, and critic. He was intensely interested in the ways
in which modern, objective culture impacts the individual’s subjective experiences.
• In contrast to Mead, Simmel proposed that there is something called human nature that is innate to
the individual. This human nature is intrinsic to the individual like the natural inclination to religious
impulse or the gender differences. He also added that most of our social interactions are individual
motivations.
• Simmel as a social thinker made a distinction between subjective and objective culture. The
individual or subjective culture refers to the ability to embrace, use, and feel culture.
• Objective culture is made up of elements that become separated from the individual or group’s
control and identified as separate objects.
References/Sources:
Arcega, A M., Cullar, D. S., Evangelista, L. D. & Falculan, L. M. (2018). Understanding the Self. Malabon
City: Mutya Publishing House Inc.
Gazzingan, L. B. et al. (2019). Understanding the Self. Muntinlupa City: Panday-Lahi Publishing House,
Inc.
Alata, E.J.P., Caslib, B.N., Serafica, J.P.J., Pawilen, R.A. (2018). Unsertanding the Self. Rex Book Store
Inc., Sta Mesa Heights, Quezon City, Philippines.
Psychology
• The cognitive aspect of the self is known as self-concept. Self-concept is defined as self-
knowledge, a cognitive structure that includes beliefs about personality traits, physical
characteristics, abilities, values, goals, and roles, as well as the knowledge that an individual exist
as individuals. As humans grow and develop, self-concept becomes abstract and more complex.
• According to the psychologist Dr. Bruce A. Bracken in 1992, there are six specific domains that
are related to self-concept these are:
1) the social domain or the ability of the person to interact with others;
2) the competence domain or the ability to meet the basic needs;
3) the affect domain or the awareness of the emotional states;
4) the physical domain or the feelings about looks, health, physical condition, and overall
appearance;
5) academic domain or the success or failure in the school; and 6) family domain or how well
one function within the family unit.
• According to Multiple Selves Theory, there are different aspects of the self exist in an individual.
From here, we can say that self is a whole consist of parts, and these parts manifest themselves when
need arise.
• Gregg Henriques proposed the Tripartite Model of Human Consciousness, wherein he described that
self is consist of three related, but also separable domains these are the experimental self, private
self, and public self.
o The experiential self or the theater of consciousness is a domain of self that defined as felt
experience of being. This includes the felt consistency of being across periods of time. It is tightly
associated with the memory. This is a part of self that disappears the moment that an individual
enter deep sleep and comes back when they wake up.
o The private self consciousness system or the narrator/interpreter is a portion of self that verbally
narrates what is happening and tries to make sense of what is going on. The moment that you read
References:
Arcega, A M., Cullar, D. S., Evangelista, L. D. & Falculan, L. M. (2018). Understanding the Self. Malabon
City: Mutya Publishing House Inc.
Gazzingan, L. B. et al. (2019). Understanding the Self. Muntinlupa City: Panday-Lahi Publishing House,
Inc.
Alata, E.J.P., Caslib, B.N., Serafica, J.P.J., Pawilen, R.A. (2018). Unsertanding the Self. Rex Book Store
Inc., Sta Mesa Heights, Quezon City, Philippines
Understanding individualism and collectivism could help in the understanding of the cross-cultural
values of a person. Not every culture is at one end or the other of the spectrum, but the majority tend to
favor one over the other in everyday life.
Individualistic Self
• Individualism is not the idea that individuals should live like isolated entity, nor the idea that they
should never get or give help from others, nor the idea that an individual never owes anything to other
people.
• Individualism is the idea that the fundamental unit of the human species that thinks, lives, and acts
toward goals is the individual. This means that we can form our own independent judgments, act on
our own thoughts, and disagree with others.
Collective Self
• Collectivism is the idea that the fundamental unit of the human species that thinks, lives, and acts
toward goals is not the individual, but some group. In different variants, this group may be the family,
the city, the economic class, the society, the nation, the race, or the whole human species. The group
exists as a super-organism separate from individuals: A group may make its own decisions, acts apart
from the actions of individuals, and has its own interests apart from those of the individuals that
compose it.
• Under collectivism, individuals are analogous to ants in the protection of their queen ant. The
individual ant doesn’t have minds of their own, and generally cannot disagree with the hive. Any ant
that acts in a way contrary to the interests of the group is a malfunctioning ant. If an ant does not follow
the certain pattern of how they protect their queen, it will be entirely unable to support itself, find other
ants that support other queen ant and will surely die in short order. If the malfunctioning ant stays
within the group, it will be a threat to the line appropriate to protecting the queen ant.
• Examples of the collectivist thinking is when our identity is in large part, a function of our membership
and role in a group, e.g., the family or work team. The survival and success of the group ensures the
well-being of the individual, so that by considering the needs and feelings of others, one protects
oneself. Harmony and the interdependence of group members are stressed and valued. Group members
are relatively close psychologically and emotionally, but distant toward non-group members.
Collectivist characteristics are often associated with women and people in rural settings.
• Asian countries are known to be collective in nature.
• Self has been an area of interest by French and English philosophers, and evident in the ideas of
Greek philosophers like Socrates and Plato.
• Descartes in 17th century emphasized the self in his dictum “I think therefore I am” which claims
that cognitive basis of the person’s thoughts is proof for the existence of the self.
• Kant believed that the self is capable of actions that entitles it to have rights as an autonomous
agent.
The Self as Embedded in Relationships and through Spiritual Development in Confucian Thought
• Confucius was born in the period of the Zhou Dynasty in 551 BCE in the state of Lu. He grew up
poor although he was descended from scholarly family.
• Confucius philosophy is known as humanistic social philosophy which focusses on human beings
and the society in general.
• Confucianism is centered on ren which can be manifested through the li (propriety), xiao (filiality),
and yi (rightness). For Confucius, ren reflects the person’s own understanding of humanity. It is
found within each person and can be realized in one’s personal life and relationship. Ren guides
human actions that makes life worth living which can be realized through li, xiao, and yi:
o Li the propriety. Rules of propriety should be followed to guide human actions. These
rules are the customs, ceremonies, and traditions that forms the basis of li. According
to Confucius, “to master oneself and return to propriety is humanity” (Koller, 2007).
Self mastery involves self development. Self mastery is characterized by self-control
and the will to redirect impulses to change these to socially accepted expression of
human nature. Li conforms to the norms of humanity, thus one must fulfill their duties
and responsibilities in this five (5) relationships: father and son, ruler and subject, older
and younger brothers, husband and wife, friend and friend.
o Xiao the filiality. This is the virtue of reverence and respect for the family. Parents
should be revered for the life they and given. Children show respect to their parents
by exerting efforts to take care of themselves. Reverence for parents and family is
further demonstrated by bringing honor to the family, making something of himself
and to earn respect of other. If, however, the person is having difficulty giving his
family the honor that they deserved, he should just do this best to not disgrace the
family. Relationship that exist in the family reflect hoe the person relates to others in
the community. The family is the reflection of the person. How the person interacts
socially and the values they emulate can all be traced back to their family environment.
This forms the bases of the person’s moral and social virtues (Koller, 2007).
● The understanding of the Physical self is shaped by biological and environmental factors.
● The Biological blueprint involves Heredity and its important factors. Heredity is defined as the
transmission of traits from parents to offspring. The traits are made up of specific information embedded
within one’s gene. Genotype refers to the specific information embedded within one’s genes; not all
genotypes translate to an observed physical characteristic. Phenotype is the physical expression of a
particular trait. Each individual carries 23 pairs of chromosomes, which are threadlike bodies in the
nucleus of the cell and the storage unit of genes. The 23rd pair, also known as sex chromosomes,
determines the sex of an individual. Within each chromosome is the deoxyribonucleic acid (DNA),
which is a nucleic acid that contains the genetic instructions specifying the biological development of
every individual.
● Maturation is known as the completion of growth of a genetic character within an organism or the
unfolding of an individual’s inherent traits or potential.
● As you grow up, you are exposed to environmental influences that shape your physical self, including
those from your social networks, societal expectations, and cultural practices that will lead a person to
understand themselves.
● As children advance in age, their interests change and with these come changes in their bodies. The
changes are rapid and before parents notice it, they are no longer babies but teenagers. An obvious
change in teenagers are the changes in Physical Self. The Physical Self refers to the concrete dimensions
of the body, it is the tangible aspect of the person which can be directly observed and examined.
● Physical Characteristics are the defining traits or features of a person’s body. This is also the first thing
people see when they look at another person that could include facial features, hairstyle, clothes, or
● Erik Erikson believed in the importance of the body from early development because the physical as
well as intellectual skills will somehow serve as a basis to whether a person has achieved a sense of
competence and be able to manage and face the demands of life complexities. William James, on the
other hand, considered the body as the initial source of sensation and necessary for origin and
maintenance of personality.
● A period of rapid physical changes is in Puberty. According to Santrock (2016), puberty is not the same
as adolescence because puberty ends prior to the end of the adolescent period. But the recognized
puberty as the most essential marker of the beginning of adolescence. The changes experienced during
puberty are different from girls and boys. Girls reach puberty earlier than boys and experience
menarche which is her first menstrual flow. Boys, two or three years later, experience spermarche or
semenarche which is his first ejaculation or nocturnal emission (wet dreams).
● Puberty is a brain neuroendocrine process occurring primarily in early adolescence that triggers the rapid
physical changes. The Pituitary gland is the master endocrine gland that controls growth and regulates
functions of all the other endocrine glands including gonads. The chemical substances secreted by the
gonads promotes physical changes such as height, widening of the hips and increase in fatty tissues in
the breast of girls and responsible for boy’s growth of facial and body hair, muscles, and changes in
voice.
● Different levels of connectedness characterize the relationship between self and body. These
connectedness may be in a positive or negative ways, or in helpful or destructive ways.
Nevertheless, it is between individuals as well as across situations. The potential of the physical
body to be regarded as an object introduces the possibility of trait and state body as well as the
state of the self.
Theory suggests that Physical body both has objective and subjective components.
Individual’s conception and acknowledgment of their physical bodies substantiate their
assessment of the sense of totality which is an integral to his/her experience of the physical
world. Moreover, one’s experience of one’s physical body may be a key predictor of a variety
of behaviors.
3. Feminist Perspective
Relies on the social construction in which there is a possibility of individuals to
experience their bodies in distorted ways (especially, women). women’s dissatisfaction with
their bodies as a systematic social phenomenon rather than a result of individual pathology
(McKinley, 2002).
Specifically, the duality established between the mind and body in Western societies
and the pairing of men with the “mind” and women with the “body” contribute to women
experiencing their bodies differently than men.
1. Personal Factors
a. Introspection and Self-reflection. Looking inward is one of the simplest
ways to achieve self-knowledge. According to Hewstone, et al., (2015)
Introspection is the process is the process by which one observes and
examines one’s internal state (mental and emotional) after behaving in a
certain way.
d. Personal Identity. This is the concept a person has about himself that
develops over the years. This includes aspects of his life that he was born
into like family, nationality, gender, physical traits as well as the choices
2. Social Factors
a. Attachment Process and Social Appraisal. According to Bowlby (1969),
people learn about their value and lovability when they experience how
their mothers or caregivers care for them and respond to their needs.
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International Edition
WEEK 7: PHYSICAL SELF: The Physical Self: Body Image and Self Esteem
Understanding the self includes understanding the surroundings and what influences
our outlook in our beauty. Culture may seem to have an effect also on how people view
themselves and how they construct their images and boost their self-esteem. Physical
aspect of the self may also provide understanding and the importance of beauty.
The Impact of Culture on Body Image and Self-Esteem: The Importance of Beauty
● After going through all the concepts and theories that may affect the person’s view of his physical
self, there’s another factor that strongly impacts this perception, his cultural milieu. Culture is
defined as a social system that is characterized by the shared meanings that are attributed to people
and events by its members.
● There are a lot of movies in the past that are about the body. One of the most successful horror
movies of the 1950s entitled Invasion of the Body Snatcher, wherein human beings were replaced
with new bodies and devoid human emotions. Another is the The Stepford Wives that took the idea
of body replacement. In this movie husbands were killing their wives and replacing them with
robots who look exactly like them, but perfectly submissive. Some other movies about the body
include Shallow Hal (2001), Huge (2010), 200 pound Beauty (2010) and Imperfect (2019).
● The makeup of a body is a collection of cells, combined into organs, which themselves operate in
systems. In humans, that body typically takes on a form with two arms, two legs, a torso, and a
head. But the question is, is there such a thing as a universal decontextualized body? The answer
is no. bodies are shaped in countless ways by culture, by society, and by the experiences that are
● A significant aspect of culture that strongly influences adolescents who are in a face-to-face
encounter with their physical selves is how their culture conceptualizes beauty. Young adolescents
are forced to adhere to society’s definition of beauty lest they be labelled ugly or “pangit” in local
dialect.
● This is what is called the social constructionist approach to understanding the physical self. This
suggests that beauty, weight, sexuality, or race do not simply result from the collection of genes
one inherited from one’s parents. Instead, these bodily features only take on the meaning that they
have. A person may have a certain set of facial features, or weigh a certain number of pounds and
attractiveness will come from the time and place in which they live.
● These meanings occur within a set of culturally constructed power relations which suggest that,
for example, women must be attractive in order to be valuable. But this process does not just
happen after we enter culture. How those features will be interpreted will then be shaped by culture,
but the features themselves will already be present. Meaning what occurs is that once something
comes to take on cultural meaning, it becomes naturalized: people think that things are the way
that they are because they have always been that way. These meanings have been created, and that
they can change, and that there’s nothing natural at all. Even something that seems to be rooted in
the body as disability is partially socially constructed.
● This differs from what might be called an essentialist view of the body. Essentialism means that
bodies are defined entirely by their biological make-up – bones, muscles, hormones, and the like.
Much of human behavior can also be reduced to many of those biological functions, it is referred
to by social scientists call a reductionist idea that complex human behaviors can be reduced to
something as simple as, for example, hormones. This simply means that we cannot understand the
biological organism without first understanding social, cultural, and historical context in which it
exists.
● Another example of how norms of masculinity and femininity shape not just behavior, but public
perceptions are those people who did activities of the other gender. They were praised at the same
time and criticized just by doing what is not expected to their gender. With this, the idea that the
body is marked with culture and society is the term social skin to refer to the ways in which social
categories become inscribed onto physical body. Through the social skin, the body becomes the
symbolic stage on which dramas of society are enacted. This idea is from the anthropologist
Terence Turner (1980).
● Another anthropologist, Mary Douglas (1973) said that the body is the most natural symbol for
and medium of classification, and thus rules associated with controlling the body and its processes
emerge as a powerful means of social control. She is the one who centralized the analysis of the
body focused on traditional societies. Therefore, the physical body is a threat to the social body.
Further, she finds that societies with strict social limits would regard boundaries with caution
including bodily boundaries.
● A woman is what she wears – this statement is from the work of Janes Gaines on fashion (1990)
which implies that women are often defined completely by their clothing –. In this study, it suggests
that people have body images. Body image can be described as a representation of how individuals
think and feel about their own physical attributes. Body image is both internal (personal) and
external (society).
● This includes (1) how a person perceives his body, (2) how a person feels about their physical
appearance, (3) how a person thinks and talks to themselves about their bodies, and (4) a sense of
how other people view their bodies. Though sometimes how a person looks has possibly never
held as much as societal importance or reflected so significantly on our perceived self-worth.
● Body image is the mental representation one creates, but it may or may not bear close relation to
how others actually see you. Body image is subject to all kinds of distortion from internal elements
like our emotions, moods, early experiences, attitudes of our parents, and much more. The mass
media has increasingly become a platform that reinforce cultural beliefs and projects strong views
on how we should look, that we as individuals often unknowingly validate. With such strong
societal scrutiny, it is easy to see how the focus is on negative body image. Nevertheless, it strongly
influences behavior. Preoccupation with and distortions of body image are widespread among
American women (and to a lesser extent, among males), but they are driving forces in eating
disorders, feeding severe anxiety than can be assuaged only by dieting.
● Having a sense of understanding that healthy attractive bodies come in many shapes and sizes, and
that physical appearance says very little about the character or value of a person, a person can have
a positive body image. How to get to this point depends on the acceptance and esteem that a person
has for himself. This can be related to the meaning of self-esteem. In which, it is related to how
much a person likes himself, how they recognize or appreciate their individual character, qualities,
skills, and accomplishments. Like body image, self-esteem can also be based on how a person
thinks other people look at them as a person.
● Self-esteem is the overall evaluation that a person has of himself which can be positive or negative,
high or low. Self esteem is a measure of the person’s self-worth based on some personal or social
standard. It is a global evaluative dimension of the self.
● Self-esteem is how valuable to himself and others he person perceives himself to be. Needless to
say, people with positive or high self-esteem are happier, have a sense of accomplishment and
purpose and relate well with others.
● The impact of culture on body image and self-esteem has been very crucial for sometimes people
depend on this as when they define beautiful. It has been assumed that preferences for beauty are
gradually learned through cultural transmission and exposure to contemporary media.
● Young people put so much pressure on themselves to attain unrealistic ideals to the point of risking
mental and physical health is unacceptable. The following are some aspects in culture that may
have led to some misconceptions:
1. Society’s ideal for the perfect physical form for men and women.
2. Images of perfection brought by all types of media i.e print, television, film, and
internet.
3. Since a standard has been set by society and reinforced by the media, any
characteristic that does not conform to the standard is labelled as ugly. Body
diversity in size and structure due to genetic heritability is not tolerated.
● These misconceptions strongly affect how the young form their body image and its influence on
their self-esteem. Knowing that adolescence is the period where self-identity is formed, it is
important for adults in the environment to listen to these young people and provide proper guidance
and support.
● Yes, beauty is important. But being beautiful still depends how a person defines beauty and the
standards he sets to meet this definition. It is a big mistake to base beauty on some else’s standard.
People are different and each one is uniquely beautiful.
References:
Arcega, A M., Cullar, D. S., Evangelista, L. D. & Falculan, L. M. (2018). Understanding the Self. Malabon
City: Mutya Publishing House Inc.
Gazzingan, L. B. et al. (2019). Understanding the Self. Muntinlupa City: Panday-Lahi Publishing House,
Inc.
This section tackles one of the most crucial aspects of human development, the sexual self. It
highlights biological and environmental factors that shape sexual
development. Being a complex and amazing structure, the human body is a
source of strength, beauty, and wonder. Like a well-designed machine, a
healthy body has parts whose parts function smoothly together. Like a
harmonious orchestra that musicians play together, they produce beautiful
music, a healthy body that has parts whose operations are in harmony with
others.
Introduction
● Sexual selfhood is defined as how one thinks about himself or herself as a sexual individual. Human
sexuality is a topic that just like beauty is culturally diverse. This should be understood in varied
ways.
1. Historical.
● In the Middle Ages (476-1450), bore witness to the strong influence of church particularly in
matters of sexuality. The church decreed that all sexual acts that do not lead to procreation were
considered evil. Women were labelled as either temptress (like Eve) or a woman of virtue (like
Virgin Mary).
● In the protestant reformation of the 16th century (1483-1546) Martin Luther, John Calvin and other
Protestant leaders initiated a movement against the Roman Catholic Church. Protestantism
● By the 17th and 18th century, the Puritans, a group of people who were discontented with the Church
of England rallied for religious, moral and societal reformation. They had positive view on marital
sex and did not tolerate sex outside marriage. Premarital sex, therefore, was considered immoral.
● In the Victorian Era (1837-1901), homosexuality and prostitution were rampant and considered to
be threats to social order. People in this era were not comfortable in discussing breast or buttocks,
they used other terms instead.
● Through the years and in the 20th century, interest in sexuality became more evident and accepted
in society. The separation of church and state reduced the influence the church had over sexual
mores. Also, the rise of feminism allowed for changes in employment, home life, and sexual
standards for women. Over time, cultural diversity and social norms offered varied views on what
today may be considered as sexually normal.
2. Biological.
● Knowing the structures and functions of the reproductive system is essential to the understanding
of sexuality. In the nervous system, it is the brain that initiates and organizes sexual behavior.
Through the process of sexual reproduction, the next generation of human beings are created by
the fusion of the egg cell and sperm cell. This will be discussed further in the next pages.
3. Sociobiological/Evolutionary.
● Although survival is the goal of the evolutionary perspective, physical attraction which ends in sex
does not mean that the attraction will be lasting. For what is really important in human sexual
relationships is the love, care, and responsibility each gender has for the other.
4. Psychological
● Sigmund Freud was one of the most prominent people to explain sexuality, through his theories.
According to him, human beings are faces with two forces – sex instinct and libido (pleasure) and
death or aggressive instinct (harm toward oneself or towards others).
● Sex instinct does not only pertain to the sexual act rather it could also mean anything that could
give pleasure to the person. Thus, human behavior is geared towards satisfying the sex instinct
and/or death instinct. A person’s libido or sexual energy is located in an area of the body at different
psychosexual stages. These areas of pleasure are called erogenous zones. These will be discussed
further in the following pages.
● Freud also regarded personality as composed of three structures: the id, the Ego and the Superego.
The id is the part which always seeks for pleasure and aggression. It follows the pleasure principle
because it wants the person to attain gratification immediately. It is unconsciously saying “I want
it now!”. The Superego is the person’s sense of morality; it follows the moral principle whose role
is to restrict demands of the id. It is developed when children are taught the difference between
right and wrong. The ego follows the analytical principle. It analyses the need of the id and its
consequences as dictated by the superego and thinks of ways to satisfy the need in an acceptable
manner.
5. Religious
● Judaism holds a positive and natural outlook toward marital sex which they consider as blessed by
God and pleasurable for both men and women. Sexual connection provides an opportunity for
spirituality and transcendence.
● In Islam, family is considered of utmost importance, and celibacy within marriage is prohibited.
Muslim men are allowed to have up to four wives but Muslim women can only have one husband.
Sex is permitted only within marriage and extramarital sex is penalized.
● According to Taoism, which originated in China, sex is not only natural and healthy, but a sacred
union necessary to people’s physical, mental, and spiritual being. The sexual union is a way to
balance male and female energy.
● In Hinduism, sexuality is seen as spiritual force, and the act of ritual lovemaking is a means of
both celebrating and transcending the physical
● For the Roman Catholic Church, marriage is purely for intercourse and procreation. Pope John
Paul II confirmed the idea that married couples should engage in intercourse only for the purpose
of procreation. They further believed that homosexual orientation, in itself is not sinful, but
homosexual acts are immoral and sinful. The use of birth control is strongly opposed but they agree
to natural family planning and prohibit abortion.
● From a purely physical standpoint, our bodies are made mainly of water. We are also made of
many minerals, including calcium, phosphorous, potassium, sulfur, sodium, chlorine,
magnesium, and iron. In order of size, the elements of the body are organized into cells, tissues,
and organs. Related organs are combined into systems, including the musculoskeletal,
cardiovascular, nervous, respiratory, gastrointestinal, endocrine, and reproductive systems
● There are two kinds of reproduction: asexual and sexual. Many biochemical events must occur
before an organism can reproduce either way.
1. Asexual reproduction
The simplest form of reproduction that literally means without sex. A single celled animal
grows to a certain stage or size and divides into two identical organisms. Multi-celled asexual
organisms have developed several unique reproductive strategies. For example, the jellyfish
reproduces by budding, a process where a new individual begins to grow (bud) from the
original organism and is eventually released as a small, free swimming organism.
2. Sexual reproduction
In organisms that reproduce sexually, there are males and females and reproduction occurs
when partners come together. This also involves reproductive cells, including a female ovum
(egg) and a male’s sperm.
● Network of organs and signaling molecules happened in the process of the human reproductive
system. In which, interaction and communication make it possible to the human ability to
produce and bear live offspring. It is distinguished from all other organ systems of the human
body by the fact that it is composed of two anatomically different organ plans, one for the
female and one for the male. It is also a slow-developing system, with the reproductive organs
obtaining full maturity at some point during adolescence, the transitional phase of growth and
development between childhood and adulthood.
● In both male and female embryos, the tissues that will form the structures of the internal
genitalia that are destined to develop in only one way, either as structures in the female
reproductive system or structures in the male reproductive system, but not both.
● Provided all organs are present, normally constructed, and functioning properly, the seven
essential features of human reproduction are:
o (1) liberation of an ovum, or egg, at a specific time in the reproductive cycle; o (2)
internal fertilization of the ovum by spermatozoa, or sperm cells; o (3) transport of
the fertilized ovum to the uterus, or womb;
o (4) implantation of the blastocyst, the early embryo developed from the fertilized
ovum, in the wall of the uterus;
o (5) formation of a placenta and maintenance of the unborn child during the entire
period of gestation;
o (6) birth of the child and expulsion of the placenta; and
o (7) suckling and care of the child, with an eventual return of the maternal organs to
virtually their original state.
1. Penis – a male sexual organ consisting of the internal root and external shaft and glans.
2. Root – the portion of the penis that extends internally into the pelvic cavity.
3. Shaft – the length of the penis between the glans and the body.
4. Glans – the head of the penis; richly endowed with nerve endings.
5. Cavernous bodies – the structures in the shaft of the penis that engorge with blood during sexual
arousal.
6. Foreskin – a covering of skin over the penile glans.
7. Corona – the rim of the penile glans.
8. Frenulum – a highly sensitive, thin strip of skin that connects the glans to the shaft on the
underside of the penis.
1. Vulva – encompasses all female external genital structures – the hairs, fold of skin, and the urinary
and vaginal openings.
a. Mons Veneris – a triangular mound over the pubic bone above the vulva.
b. Labia majora – the outer lips of the vulva.
c. Labia minora – the inner lips of the vulva, one on each side of the vaginal opening.
d. Prepuce – the foreskin or fold of skin over the clitoris.
e. Clitoris – a highly sensitive structure of the female external genitals, the only function of
which is sexual pleasure.
f. Shaft – the length of the clitoris between the glans and the body.
g. Glans – the head of the clitoris; richly endowed with nerve endings.
h. Cruca – the innermost tips of the cavernous bodies that connect to the pubic bones.
i. Vestibule – the area of the vulva inside the labia minora.
j. Urethra – the tube through which urine passes from the bladder to outside the body.
2. Internal Structure
a. Vagina – a stretchable canal in the female that opens at the vulva and extends about four inches
into the pelvis.
b. Rugae – the folds of tissue in the vagina.
c. Cervix – the small end of the uterus, located at the back of the vagina.
d. Uterus – a pear shaped organ inside the female pelvis, within which the fetus develops.
e. Fallopian tubes – two tubes in which the egg and sperm travel, extending from the sides of
the uterus.
f. Ovaries – female gonads that produce ova and sex hormones.
● These are the parts of the reproductive organs that are considered to be important. The primary
and secondary characteristics refer to specific physical differentiate males and females in
sexually dimorphic species – species having two forms that are determined by their sex; that
is, species in which males and females look different from each other. Primary characteristics
● These secondary sexual characteristics are not used in reproduction, but are apparent in most
dimorphic species. Hormones secreted through the hypothalamus initiate the development of
classically male or female secondary sexual traits.
● With girls, the menstrual cycle begins, it may be irregular, with some monthly cycles occurring
without ovulation. Since 1840, menstruation has been beginning a few months earlier every
decade, possibly due to better nutrition or to the consumption of meat that contains hormones.
In general, girls gain less height and weight than boys do during their teenage years.
● The list below shows some of these characteristic differences between human males and
females.
● Higher voice
● The rising levels of plasma gonadotropins stimulate the ovary to produce increasing amounts of
estradiol. Estradiol is responsible for the development of secondary sexual characteristics, that is,
growth and development of the breasts and reproductive organs, fat redistribution (hips, breasts),
and bone maturation. The maturation of the ovary at adolescence correlates well with estradiol
secretion and the stages of puberty.
● During puberty, plasma estradiol levels fluctuate widely, probably reflecting successive waves of
follicular development that fail to reach the ovulatory stage. The uterine endometrium is affected
by these changes and undergoes cycles of proliferation and regression, until a point is reached
when substantial growth occurs so that withdrawal of estrogen results in the first menstruation
(menarche). Female secondary sexual characteristics include breast development, pubic and/or
axillary hair, and menses occur earlier than normal variations from the mean, the terms premature.
P1 Prepubertal
Testicular length less than 2.5 cm
● Secondary sexual development in boys includes growth kinetics are enhanced from early puberty
on, this is on maximal velocity of attaining it only around 14 to 15 years of age. Testis increases in
size, mainly at the expense of the seminiferous tubules. Also the interstitial (leydig) cells develop
and ensure synthesis and secretion of testosterone. A testicular volume of 4ml or a longitudinal
diameter greater than or equal to 2.5 cm and a slight progressive increase in scrotal folds and
pigmentation constitute the first signs of puberty. The increase in testicular size observed during
pre puberty and puberty results essentially from the development of the seminiferous tubules.
● The testicular volume increases throughout puberty up to Tanner stage P4 when a longitudinal
diameter of 5.0 + 0.5 cm or a volume of 17.6 + 4.0 ml is reached. A significant increase of plasma
testosterone is found only between Tanner pubertal stages P3 and P4. Dihydrotestosterone shows
a pattern similar to that of testosterone, and the proportion of dihydrotestosterone to testosterone
● Remember, that at the start of puberty, changes that happen in the bodies of young males and
females are both secondary and primary sexual changes. Whereas, secondary sexual changes are
physical changes that distinguish males from females.
● Erogenous zones can be understood in a certain way we understand our body. These are areas of
the human body that have heightened sensitivity. The stimulation of these areas may result in the
foundation and production of sexual fantasies, sexual arousal, and orgasm. These are areas that are
more sensitive than others all over the body.
● Varieties of sexual excitement may be provoked that will classify the erogenous zones. Erogenous
zones vary from culture to culture and over time. Essentially, these parts have high concentration
of nerve endings, that the result is they are particularly sensitive to touch, pressure, or vibration.
1. Oral stage, the child erogenous zone is the mouth which receives gratification through
eating and sucking.
2. Anal stage, the erogenous zone is the anus in which sexual gratification is derived from
defecation
3. Phallic stage, erogenous zone is the genitals. Here the child experiences sexual attraction
towards the opposite sex parent. Oedipus complex (sexual attraction of the body child
toward the mother) and Electra complex (sexual attraction of the girl child towards the
father)
4. Latency stage, sexual impulses lie dormant as the child is occupied by social activities
such as going to school and playing.
5. Genital stage, where the erogenous zone is again the genitals. At this time, the sexual
attraction is directed towards others, usually one of opposite sex.
● Erogenous zones is
different from
sexual fetishes.
According to
Freud, a fetish is an
inappropriate object (a
shoe for example) that is
substituted for a woman
and used for
sexual gratification.
An erogenous zone
is a body part (a foot, for
instance) that arouses
sexual curiosity and
draws a man's attention to
the whole female body.
Fetishism is an individual
personality disorder, while
erogenous zones are
sexual preferences
shared by most men at a
given time or place.
Fetishes belong to
the science of psychopathology while erogenous zones belong to the social world of costume and
fashion.
● The phrase erogenous zones was coined near the end of the nineteenth century and used in the
early twentieth century by some psychologists to describe how simple pressure to these parts of
the body could arouse complete orgasm in what were defined as hysterical persons (generally
understood to be women).
● The second general meaning of the phrase, to be dealt with at some length here, refers to a visual
phenomenon associated with clothing and body adornment. For cultural anthropologists,
erogenous zones are those areas of the female body which men find sexually arousing and which
women alter or adorn to attract the male eye.
● One of the great qualities of a human being is its ability to be modified by experiences. This process
is known as learning and conditioning, which most of the aspects of human behavior, even sexual
behavior appear to be a product of it. Like the preferences people have of type of individual as
partners – tall, short, younger, or varieties of partners like heterosexual/homosexual. The
classification of behavior as normal or away from normal represents culture based rather than
scientifically explained.
● As part of the transition from childhood to adulthood, all adolescents experience sexual feelings.
Some act upon these feelings by having sexual intercourse; others don’t have intercourse but
engage in behaviors stopping short of penile/vaginal intercourse; some engage in anal intercourse
or oral sex (Remez, 2000); and others deny their sexual feelings by focusing intensely on nonsexual
pursuits.
● Other adolescents are able to have socially acceptable intercourse through early, sometimes
prearranged, marriages. Sexual behavior among adolescents is not new – what is new is the delay
in marriage that attends increasing educational attainment, and non-agricultural and increasingly
technological free market societies.
● Individuals become erotically aroused when they observe other individuals engaging in sexual
activity. The human sexual response can be understood through a cycle. This is also called the
sexual response cycle. It refers to the sequence of physical and emotional changes that occur as a
person becomes sexually aroused and participates in sexually stimulating activities.
● Advantages can be known if a person would know how their bodies respond during each cycle.
Men and women experience sexual arousal very differently, not only physiologically but
psychologically. For many women, the excitement phase has much more of an emotional
component. Women are motivated to have sexual responses by a need for emotional intimacy. It is
this motivation that causes them to react to sexual stimuli and thus enter the excitement phase.
● Master and Johnson categorized the human sexual response into four stages which they called the
Human Sexual Response Cycle (HSRC);
● Sexual response varies from person to person and sexual fulfillment can occur without the
completion of all phases described by Master and Johnson. Rosenthal (2013) has included the stage
of desire prior to excitement which is a drive or motivation to seek out sexual objects or to engage
in sexual activities.
References:
Arcega, A M., Cullar, D. S., Evangelista, L. D. & Falculan, L. M. (2018). Understanding the Self. Malabon
City: Mutya Publishing House Inc.
Gazzingan, L. B. et al. (2019). Understanding the Self. Muntinlupa City: Panday-Lahi Publishing House,
Inc.
Master, A. and Johnson, T. Human Sexual Response. Accessed July 28, 2020.
https://canvas.du.edu/courses/24161/files/1152570
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congress (First Regular session). Accessed July 20, 2020.
http://www.congress.gov.ph/legisdocs/first_17/CR00101.pdf
This section will provide understanding on the developing a sexual self-concept that
is an important developmental task of adolescence; however, little empirical evidence
describes this development, nor how these changes are related to development in
sexual behavior. Highlight of this part is the understanding of the chemistry of love,
lust and attachment; The Psychological aspect; the sexually diverse behavior;
Sexually Transmitted Disease (STIs) and Contraception.
● According to anthropologist Helen Fisher (2016) there are three stages of falling in love. In
each stage, a different set of brain chemicals run the show. These stages are lust, attraction,
and love.
1. Lust
● Through reproduction,
organisms pass on their
genes, and contribute to
the perpetuation of
their species. The
hypothalamus of the brain plays a big role in this, stimulating the production of the sex
hormones testosterone and estrogen from the testes and ovaries.
● While these chemicals are often stereotyped as being male and female, respectively, both
play a role in men and women. As it turns out, testosterone increases libido in just about
everyone. The effects are less pronounced with estrogen, but some women report being more
sexually motivated around the time they ovulate, when estrogen levels are highest.
● In this stage, a person may begin to be obsessed about their object of affection and crave for
his presence. A person may don’t feel like sleeping or eating. People can certainly lust for
someone they are attracted to, and vice versa, one can happen without the other.
● .Attraction has brain pathways that controls “reward” behavior, which explains the first few
months of a relationship. Dopamine is the main player in the brain’s reward pathway. When it
is released, people feel good. In this case, these things spending time with loved ones with high
levels of dopamine and related hormones (norepinephrine) are released.
● Brain scans of people in love have actually shown that the primary “reward” centers of the
brain. Finally, attraction seems to lead to a reduction in serotonin, a hormone that is involved
in appetite and mood. In the end, everyone is capable of defining love for themselves. And, for
better or for worse, if it’s all hormones, maybe each of us can have “chemistry” with just about
anyone.
3. Attachment
● This stage involves wanting to make a more lasting commitment to your loved one. All the goals are
dedicated to the object of affection being a part of a person’s life. dopamine decreases and attraction
goes down.
● If things are going well, it gets replaced by the hormones oxytocin and vasopressin, which create the
desire to bond, affiliate with, and nurture your partner. You want to cuddle and be close and share your
deepest secrets with her. You plan and dream together.
● Understanding the science of lust, attraction, and attachment can help a person develop more realistic
expectations of their relationships.
● Thus, early passionate love is not an emotion in and if itself. Rather, it is best characterized as a
“motivation or goal oriented state that leads to various specific emotions, such as euphoria aor anxiety”.
Unlike many emotions, love is not associated with any specific facial expression, and I am focused on
a single reward. The emotions associated with love – elation, anxiety, joy, fear – may come and go. But
motivation to be with the beloved – remains.
● Love can be characterized by concern for other’s well-being, a desire for physical presence and
emotional support. In a study of Tennov in 1979, though sex is an important component of romantic
love, 95% of women and 91% of male respondents did not agree with the statement that “the best thing
about love is sex”.
1. Eros (EH-ros). Love is based on a strong sexual and emotional component. This type of love
creates initial excitement of a new relationship. A romantic and passionate love which
emphasizes physical attraction and sexual desire. The Eros lover dreams of the ideal
characteristics of a partner and usually experiences love at first sight. The relationship, however,
3. Ludus. For ludic lovers, love is just a game, something for fun or
entertainment. They do not experience jealousy. They do not value commitment or intimacy. They
manipulate their partners by lying, cheating and deceiving.
4. Mania. This is characterized by an intense feeling which may lead to obsessive and possessive
love towards the loved one. Manic lovers always check the partner’s whereabouts. They easily get
jealous and their experience of love is out of control. They are easily taken advantage of by ludic
lovers.
5. Pragma. This is a practical and business-like love. Pragmatic lovers may plan the best time to get
married, have children, and other future plans. Love is based on what is appropriate. It is not intense
nor out of control.
● The Triangular Theory of Love by Robert Sternberg, According to him, love is made up of three
components:
1. Intimacy. This includes the desire to give and receive emotional closeness, support, caring and
sharing.
2. Passion. This is the hot component of love which can be described as intensely romantic or sexual
desire for another person usually accompanied by physical attraction and physiological arousal.
3. Commitment. This is the cold component of love. It is the decision to maintain the relationship
through good times and bad times.
● Sternberg also described several types of love based on the above components.
● The psychology of love shows that there are psychological theories that would explain why people
fall in love.
2. Physiological Arousal Theory. This explains the most acceptable theories about emotions: the
bodies experience a physiological change first, then people assign an emotion to that physical
sensation. It is based on the interpretation of the brain. For instance, when a big spider falls in front
of an individual, the stress reaction would be: the person might gasp, the heart would pound faster,
and breathing would quicken. The brain would interpret an emotion associated with this experience
as the feeling of FEAR. In another situation, a girl who happens to see her crush walking by will
have the same experience as the person who encounters the spider (a person might gasp, the heart
and respiratory rate would elevate): the brain would have different interpretation in the second
case, a feeling of LOVE.
3. Evolutionary Theories. This explains that love arose due to some sociobiological need. Males
tend to look for young, healthy females mates to carry their offspring. Females prefer males who
have the resources to support them and their offspring.
● Based on social psychological data from Rosenthal (2013), the factors that would determine with
whom people fall in love are:
o Physical attractiveness (though beauty is in the eye of the beholder) o
Reciprocity (people tend to like an individual who also like them) o
Proximity (being around anytime physically or virtually)
o Similarities (same age, religion, education, race, physical attractiveness,
intelligence, and socio-economic class)
● Solitary behavior – A behavior with the intention of stimulating self that caused arousal usually
done in private. This behavior is more common to males. There is great individual variation in
frequency. Solitary behavior provides pleasure for self with emotional content with sole control to
the degree of pleasure.
● One of the necessary tasks of growing up is learning to cope with one’s sexual arousal and to
achieve some balance between suppression, which can be injurious, and free expression, which
can lead to social difficulties. There is great variation among individuals in the strength of sex
drive and responsiveness, so this necessary exercise of restraint is correspondingly difficult or easy.
● On the other hand, Rosenthal (2013) defined sexual orientation as a person’s predisposition or
inclination regarding sexual behavior, emotional attachment or physical attraction to one or both
sexes.
● The phrase “sexual orientation” is preferred over “sexual preference” which implies a conscious
or deliberate choice of a sexual partner. The following are types of sexual orientations:
2. Homosexuality – refers to a person whose sexual orientation is toward another of the same
sex. It is the attraction to members of the same sex.
a. Lesbian – is the term used to describe a woman whose sexual and romantic attraction
toward women.
b. Gay - is a man whose sexual and romantic attraction is towards other men.
3. Bisexual – is a person who may be sexually oriented to both men and women
4. Transsexual – these are people experience a gender identity that is inconsistent with, or
not culturally associated with, their assigned sex, and desire to permanently transition to
the gender with which they identify, usually seeking medical assistance.
5. Pansexual – is a new sexual orientation of persons who are sexually attracted to people
regardless of their sex or gender identity. The word “pan” is a Greek word for “all r every”.
Thus, they may also be called “gender blind” for they believe that gender and sex are not
determining factors for getting sexually attracted to both males and females whereas
pansexual is more fluid. Aside from men and women they may also be attracted to
transgender, transsexual, androgynous and other gender categories.
● Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STD) are also known as Sexually Transmitted Infections (STI),
together with venereal disease, these are infections that are commonly spread by sexual
intercourse. These are infections that are passed from one person to another through sexual contact,
blood transfusion, breastfeeding, and a certain amount of saliva.
1. HIV/AIDS. HIV stands for Human Immunodeficiency Virus with AIDS stands for
Acquired Immunodeficiency Syndrome. Thus, HIV is a virus while AIDS is a condition
or syndrome. HIV can lead to infections that attack and destroy the CD4 (Tcells) of the
immune system which is the body’s natural defense against such illness as tuberculosis,
pneumonia, and cancer.
o In the statistics of Philippine Department of Health (DOH), in 2008), there is one (1)
newly diagnosed HIV case per day. In 2010, it increased to four (4) cases per day. In
2012, it became nine (9) per day. In 2014, it has blown to seventeen (17) cases per day
and in 2016, there are twenty-sex (26) reported daily cases of newly diagnosed HIV.
2. Genital Herpes. This is a sexually transmitted infection caused by a large family of viruses
of different strains. These strains produce other non-sexually transmitted diseases such as
chicken pox and mononucleosis.
o Most individuals have no or only minimal signs or symptoms. When signs do occur,
they typically appear as one or more blisters on or around the genitals or rectum. The
blisters break, leaving tender sores that may take two to four weeks to heal the first
time they occur. Typically, another outbreak can appear weeks or months after the first,
but it almost always is less severe and shorter.
o The virus remains in the body for life and the lesions may recur from time to time.
Severe or frequently recurrent genital herpes is treated with one of several antiviral
drugs that are available by prescription. These drugs help control the symptoms, but
do not eliminate the herpes virus from the body.
3. Genital Warts. Genital warts (also called venereal warts or Condylomata Acuminata) are
caused by the human papillomavirus, a virus related to the one that causes common skin
warts. Certain high-risk types of HPV can cause cervical cancer and other genital cancers,
but these are different from the types that cause genital warts.
o Genital warts usually first appear as small, hard painless bumps in the vaginal area or
around the anus. If untreated, they may grow and develop a fleshy, cauliflower-like
appearance.
o Most women who are infected have no symptoms. Even when a woman has symptoms,
they can be so non-specific as to be mistaken for a bladder or vaginal infection. The
most common symptoms of gonorrhea are a vaginal discharge or vaginal bleeding
between periods. Untreated cases can lead to serious complications, including PID,
ectopic pregnancy and infertility.
o Symptoms for males are discharge from the penis and burning sensations during
urination.
6. Chlamydia. This is one of the most common sexually transmitted infections, named for
Chlamydia trachomatis, an organism that spreads through sexual contact and infects the
genital organs of both sexes.
● There are a lot of reasons why people use contraceptives. Some purposes of birth control are
to prevent pregnancy, many women choose to use contraception because of certain health
advantages. For example, some hormonal birth control methods may help regulate your
period, reduce acne, and/or lower endometriosis-related pain.
● Once a decision is made for protection, sexually active individual should be presented with
options that, if used consistently and correctly, will prevent pregnancy and, depending upon
an individual’s circumstances, prevent sexually transmissible diseases. When selecting a
method, a person should consider the nature of their sexual relationship, sexual behaviors
engaged in, frequency of intercourse, risk of Sexually Transmitted Infection (STI) or even HIV,
ability to comply with the use, ability to tolerate side effects, cost, convenience, religious
beliefs and other personal factors that may affect their decisions.
a. Oral Contraceptives (Pills) – These are daily oral contraceptives. Some contain estrogen and
progesterone; others are progestin only and are over 99% effective if used according to
instruction. Often reduces bleeding and period pain, and may help with premenstrual
symptoms. Missing pills, vomiting or severe diarrhea can make it less effective.
c. Implants - A small, flexible rod put under the skin of the upper arm releases progestogen.
Works for 3 years but can be taken out sooner. It requires a small procedure to fit and remove
it.
d. Injectable - An injection of progestogen. Works for 8 or 13 weeks – you don’t have to think
about contraception during this time. Can’t be removed from the body so side effects may
continue while it works and for some time afterwards.
2. Barrier methods (methods that physically or chemically block the sperm from reaching an egg
and provide a barrier between direct skin to skin contacts)
a. Diaphragm - A flexible latex (rubber) or silicone device, used with spermicide, is put into the
vagina to cover the cervix. Can be put in any time before sex.
b. Cervical Caps – These are similar to the diaphragm, though they are generally always made of
silicone. They are put into the vagina to cover the cervix and are 92 to 96 percent effective
when used correctly.
c. Male and Female Condoms or spermicides - For Males: A very thin latex (rubber) polyurethane
(plastic) or synthetic sheath, put over the erect penis. For Females: Soft, thin polyurethane
sheath that loosely lines the vagina and covers the area just outside. Condoms are the best way
to help protect yourself from sexually transmitted infections
a. Rhythm or Calendar Method – It is a way to determine a woman’s most fertile and interfile
times by charting the menstrual cycle. It is also known as natural family planning or fertility
awareness.
c. Outercourse – It is a sexual activity that does not include the insertion of the penis into the
vagina.
d. Withdrawal – it happens when a man removes his penis from vagina and ejaculate outside of
the woman’s body.
6. Emergency Contraception - It is a measure that protects against pregnancy after unprotected sex
has already occurred. It could be through IUD or higher dosage of pills.
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