My Work Format
My Work Format
My Work Format
How are you doing? Thank you so much for getting back in touch with me, it has
actually made my day go well, if you do not mind I would love to know more about
you?
What is your name? Have you ever been married with kids before?
I'm a widow, I lost my late wife 3 years ago and since then I have been single we
were both married for 21 years, I have son he name is James
So tell me how long have you been into online dating? How has your search been so
far?
I'm to online dating; I really do not have so many clues about dating online.
What are the experiences you have encountered since joining this site,And how long
have you been using the online dating sites?
With the Experience you have had so far do you really believe that you can find
your soul mate through online dating?
As for me I believe and also have the courage that I will find the woman whom I
which to spend the rest of my life with. I do believe in soul mates. I have
friends that have found theirs and live very happily with them, and I have decided
a while ago that I would never "settle" for anyone less than my soul mate.
You see my dear, I am a God fearing nice, caring, honest, sincere, and
Understanding man with good sense of humor. Because I feel understanding and
communication is the most important thing in a relationship to make it strong and
last forever. When two couples understand themselves I don't see anything that will
happen to that relationship. It will be a happy one.
I am looking for someone who is nice, caring, loving, honest and understanding.
someone who I can have trust on and also who have inner beauty because inner
beauty tells the true and real character of a lady because is from the inner side
of her you can tell if she is good or bad....it is not all about the physical
appearance but the inner feelings which is the true feelings.
So tell me how big is your family? I mean how many brothers and sisters you have?
What about your parents?
Unfortunately my both parents are dead andi am the only child of my late parents.
So my dear tell me about the current house that you are living in, do you live
alone?
I live with my lovely Son before in my house but now is gone to school and i'm all
alone in my house anytime i'm off its a 3 bedroom bungalow there In Bronx,and I
also have another bungalow with 4 bedrooms in a confined space of 4 plots of land
including a swimming pool in it, and that�s located at Washington DC.
2) How do you feel when someone upset you? And what will you do to calm yourself
down?
I do feel unhappy for that moment; go to quite place and listening to a cool music
that will calm me down.
Hi , can we talk I would love to know more about you :)
Yes I do believe in distance relationship, because I do have the faith I will meet
the woman whom will love and cherish me as I do.
So tell me in whom did you find your first love and where, and what happened to
that relationship?
I founded my first love while I was still a teenager with a girl named Amber, we
were both attending the same school she was from Chicago united states, then we
used to see each other everyday helping each other with our assignment,
unfortunately our final exam at high school, she told me that her parents will be
living the country for Canada and she was going with them also, I felt like
wooh!!!, that means that you are going to live me, she said she does not know what
to do, so they left I was really unhappy during that period, years past on when I
have already married I and my late wife was on a summer trip to the Canada, so we
went on shopping at Shoprite we saw a kid who was just wondering around inside the
supermarket I walked unto the kid and ask him where are your parents as I was
talking to the kid immediately a lady walked unto looking at the face of the female
was my first love Amber I was very happy to see her and she also, I introduced my
late wife to her, she also introduced her husband and her children to me, she is
now happily married with 2 kids a boy and a girl, so we all went out for a nice
dinner, I got to know were they were living.
What would be the perfect setting for a first meeting with a new date?
As for me I will take her first to a nice fast food, share some ice cream
together, then drive around the town together, while in the evening, we both go
out to the best restaurant to have dinner, candle lights on the table, a nice
loving blues music will be playing, pop some champagne together, look into her eyes
and tell her how much you love her and tell her she means the whole world, and that
she is the air that you breathing, and that you will love and cherish her till you
die, tell her how lovely are lips her, then give her a lovely kiss, after that we
both go out counting stars together, that I think will make my first date very
lovely and romantic.
2) If you are found guilty of a crime, would you admit yourself and accept your
mistakes?
I will admit my self, accept my mistakes, and face the consequences, because I am a
God fearing man, and I do abide to the truth.
If you see somebody you don't know who needs help, would you be of any support?
Yes I would help in anyway, because God in heaven says it is good to help those
that are in need, and he loves a cheerful giver.
In a relationship how do you see a situation whereby the woman earns more money
than the man?
A good relationship where two lovers understand each other, they're concerned for
each other and they respect one another, I don�t think that there will be problem
about that, to me is no problem as far as they both love their selves.
From your own point of view how do you feel someone can be romantic?
I feel the best way for a person to be romantic is by being your own self; don�t
let others tell you what to do. Pay carefully attention to what your mate tells
you. It's a very easy thing to do, but it is often overshadowed by personal
thoughts or wants Tell them that they are the best, Kiss often and comfort each
other by holding each other, you can come up with something no one would expect.
Like ask your spouse to make love under the kitchen table. Do something creative.
Show who you are, Tell your spouse how you really feel about him/her, that you love
them from the inside not just the outside. Say sweet and loving things like: 'Your
eyes can make the sun rise, or words like 'You�re the reason my heart beats,' or
'You look so good, I wish I could grow a whole field of you, Often the greatest way
to show your love is by giving someone your trust. Open up and tell your mate
something about you that no one else knows.
What positive lessons have you learned from your past relationships that will help
you succeed in future relationships?
Love, Trust, Understanding.
5)Marriage they say "Is For Better, For Worse" do you believe in this principle?
Yes I do believe in that, because that is where you have to show that you love your
partner very much.
On a serious note; have you ever thought of leaving your country,State,or city in
search of the man you want to be with in the future?
Yes that is why I am here on online dating so that I can find a woman from another
country I learn from her culture and also she learns from my culture.
Do you like holding hands and exchanging casual kisses with your partner?
Yes I do I will hold her very close to my body; make her feel the warmth of my
body.
Hi
I sincerely appreciate what you wrote about yourself and your family,that shows
that you are really a nice person to be with "in person".It's not easy going
through those worst phrase of life. Mine was alittle bit different from what your
experience in life, I am so sorry for your lost of your husband it is really sad
when we lost someone dear to us
Thanks for taking the time to respond to my Email, although the little we wrote
about myself doesn't encompass our whole being but at least it gives us a glimpse
of who we are.Thanks for giving a try!! I do welcome your response and hope that we
will get to know each other deeply. Is just a matter of time and understanding, we
can make a difference in our relationship if we keep steady communication with
each other.
You really sound interesting to me after reading your email, I think we have
alot in common but I believe a meaningful relationship has to begin with meaningful
steps like been just friends, in other for us to share deep truth about ourselves
and to see if it will work out between us, despite the distance.. what do you
think?You wrote alot about yourself but I still want to ask you some few questions
before I write more about my job and so on. how has life been treating you since
you have been alone? Have you tried any relationship since what is your plan for a
new relationship? How many dating site did you registered with? tell me about your
ideal man? what are the qualities you are looking for in man before you called him
a friend ? This are short phrase question from my heart, I dont think i know the
right questions to ask you about your life that will make me trust you within a
second but I want us to be honest with each other because to make the best out of
any form of relationship sincere
communication is the key.
I feel so controlling asking you all this question's but is not my nature, I
really want to get to know you because I see a lot of
possibilities with
I guess am writing too much today, my intention is for you to be able to get to
know me better, I want you to know that! since we are far from each other right
now. I hope all is well with you? as for me am just doing fine and getting busy
with my time all day at work. i know probably, you would be reading my email before
my second mail would come in. it was really lengthy but i want you to enjoy reading
something new from me. i just wish you are having a nice time over there . I�m sure
you would find a better place in my heart with your mail before we met..
My Job experience started when i was in Italy, i always sail with my friends
father to different countries during my holidays back to Italy. i develop interest
in my friend's father job type, so i decided to study Physical
Oceanography/Chemical engineering,I graduated 1985 with an BSc in Chemical
Engineering from Imperial College,Rome and then went on to complete an Msc in
Marine Geology and Geophysics at the University of Rome Oceanography Center.I now
works as a chemical engineer for Shell and a sole contractor in the drilling sector
and also in the course of this contract I do purchase and supply crude oil to
prospective buyers especially from China.
The Escravos offshore oil and gas industry only began in the 1960s and so is
still a relatively new area of employment. All the largest and most easily
developed oil fields have now been discovered and are now past their production
peak. In Escravos, activity is currently located mainly off the South coast of
Nigeria, but exploration is also being carried out in the western approaches, the
Meddetarian Sea and west of the Shetlands. Oil production generally has peaked and
is now declining gradually, although gas production is still rising and both will
last well into the current century according to the Oil and Gas UK
I guess with this information, you would know the kind of human i belong to and
why am always busy with my job sometimes.I decided to let you know more about my
job because of the mails you sent me It�s human nature to keep on wanting and
consequently needing. Looking forward to hear from you