5 The Last Lecture
5 The Last Lecture
10 March 2024
Randy Pausch is a perfect example of someone who believes it is possible to live life to
the absolute fullest in a short amount of time and to always chase your dreams – but keep them
specific dreams. In the introduction of his lecture, he said “we cannot change the cards we are
dealt, just how we play the hand” and that stuck with me because it’s important to know that
there will always be things that we have no control over, but in order to live life to the fullest and
in the best way, we need to approach it with a positive, strong attitude. In my life, there are
certain circumstances that I can’t control – for example, paying my own rent, instead of
complaining that it’s unfair or comparing that to other people’s situation, I need to remain
positive to focus on better things coming ahead to be able to continue to follow my dreams.
This leads me to my next big takeaway; he stressed the importance of having specific
dreams and how brick walls are always there for a reason. In life, tenacity and perseverance is
crucial to continue to move on past the setbacks (brick walls) and to continue to grow. These
“brick walls” are always there for a reason to prove to ourselves just how badly we want to
succeed and are there to stop the other people who don’t want it badly enough. I can apply this to
my own life from when I was looking for internships. If I gave up every time, I didn’t get an
graduation with a full-time job waiting for me afterwards with an amazing company. With this, I
learned that treating everything in your life as an opportunity to learn in turn becomes an
experience from not getting what you wanted when it doesn’t work out. For example, when I
didn’t get into my dream college, I knew there was a hidden meaning and that it would teach me
something. I chose to come to my second choice, Auburn, and it has been the greatest blessing in
my life, and I can confidently say I would be a completely different person if I didn’t get the
My third key takeaway is the importance of knowledge. Pausch said “give the gift of
knowledge, not stuff.” And he mentioned the example of his parents gifting him with different
world books instead of buying luxury materialistic items. As I have gotten older, I have truly
realized how important it is to expand your knowledge and always be learning. I wouldn’t value
education like I do today, if it wasn’t for my grandma always making us journal our days/what
we learned, read various books, count money/coins, etc. Pausch also mentioned the importance
behind getting the fundamentals down, otherwise the fancy stuff isn’t going to work. “When
you’re screwing up and nobody is saying anything to you anymore, that means they gave up.
Your critics are the ones that love you and care.” Personally, I love feedback – your critiques are
always your biggest supporters. In my life, this looks like taking the time to learn each step
before trying to complete the whole project at once. I am a very detail-oriented person, so I value
the fundamentals and the basics. When I started doing reformer Pilates, if I tried to start in the
most advance classes, I wouldn’t have learned that technique and form is so important. Now that
I stuck in the lower-level classes and totally learned the fundamentals, I can safely excel in the
My last takeaway also goes hand in hand with my third one, “most of what we learn, we
learn indirectly. Or head fake” His example was how parents put their kids in sports—it is not to
learn how to play the sport, but more importantly to learn the important things such as teamwork,
sportsmanship, perseverance. This type of learning is found everywhere. For myself, this is
my own rent, tuition, expenses, working 30+ hour work weeks while balancing 15+ credit hours
of school, making time for friends and much more. While doing all of this it has taught me the
importance of hard work, how to have a work-life balance, grit, and so much more.